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There's some redpill deprogramming playlists on YouTube. Therapy and making friends with women can help. Learning about patriarchy and intersectional feminism may be useful. You can DM if you want to talk and I'm happy to answer questions in thread. bell hooks the will to change is a good jumping off point for men looking to deprogram from this kind of stuff. Be careful of "stealth" manosphere/redpill CCs like healthygamer and diary of a ceo that peddle "sanitized" redpill ideology
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 10:15 PM
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Yes. Most openly left wing men find the manosphere stupid and repulsive. Such men can still be misogynistic or abusive so you still gotta do your due diligence. The trick is finding men who genuinely like women as people not just sex objects. Lots of straight men hate women and that's why the redpill appeals to men because it offers community with other men and an easy "enemy" for men who already don't see women as true equals or sometimes even as fully human
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 08:49 PM
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It's not that gross in the context of sharing a bathroom. There's levels to relationships and once you're at the level OPs in with his GF it's really weird to be like "you can only see my dick when it's hard" because they use the bathroom together. They are at the casual nudity stage of the relationship and OP needs to learn to let go of his sexual insecurities. It's a process. It is good she apologized, like I don't think her peeking was a red flag but if she'd played his feelings about it off …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 02:00 PM
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You didn't suggest telling her "hey, that hurt" you suggested something manipulative and then tried to spin it when you got called out. If you don't understand maybe reread what you actually wrote and ask why several people found it manipulative
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 01:51 PM
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People get bored during sex. It's not a problem unless you/they make it a problem. In a long term relationship there won't always be fiery passionate sex and that's fine. You seem a bit overinvested in sex and your dick. Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship and you might want to invest more TLC into connecting mentally and emotionally with your gf. I say this cause you seem to be using sex as a relationship quality measurement and it's not a good metric. I'm no saying you shouldn'…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 01:45 PM
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Abusers often apologize for their misdeeds it's part of the cycle
/r/ExRedPill31/07/25 08:52 PM
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Hasn't he had credible rape allegations made against him? If that's being "soft" I don't want to know how they think women should be treated
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 01:58 AM
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RBF isn't uncommon. Like it's just not uncommon period. Your face just does a kind of angry look when you leave it unattended. It can have unfortunate side effects when first getting to know people though, it can also keep people from approaching you initially. Unfortunately your hobbies and interests don't super jive with meeting women and you need good social skills to do FWB, same as with any relationship or friendship. FWB isn't relationship on easy mode, it's friendship on hard mode. You sh…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 04:48 AM
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It's actually a rick and morty quote. My point being that you care more about your dick than most anyone else does. Real talk, your dick has nothing to do with how good you are at sex. Most women don't orgasm from PiV or PiV alone and most women aren't size queens. The shit you see in porn isn't real life. In the US 5.35in is the average penis size. Researchers found vaginal depth ranged from approximately 2–5 inches (in), or 5–13 centimeters (cm). The average vaginal depth was around 3.6 inches…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 02:43 PM
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I cant try. This won't be a complete list as I'm pretty burnt out right now but one big one is an aversion to the word woman. If it's always "females" or "girls" or whatever that's a big sign that bro doesn't like women. Expression of gender essentialist beliefs like women being naturally XYZ is a big fucking sign. Homophobia, and transphobia are reliable indicators. Like for real, even TERFS and gender criticals manage to as women say wild anti women shit because they for real don't like women.…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:46 AM
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What this guy said. All very spot on.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:45 AM
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You guys don't have any argument. It's literally "what some man told me about women" like that's your whole argument and ideology right there, fucking source: "trust me bro" you cite your dad, your traditional dad with some clearly whack takes about women, sorry but no he's not a fucking expert on human sexual behavior. Redpill is all jock bro bullshit, lockeroom talk as you put it and blackpill is fucking incels larping as scientists while misreading and misrepresenting data. Fuck sometimes the…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:44 AM
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Or maybe we all live in a patriarchy and we're all groomed to think a certain type of man is attractive, men and women are both groomed to think strong macho dominant men are attractive but whereas women are supposed to date them men are supposed to be them. Well women date them and then find out that said men suck and stop dating them, that's a point AGAINST the redpill not for.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:38 AM
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That bit of statistics doesn't prove what you think it proves. Can you just take your MRA bs elsewhere? Like you have subs where they will cosign and circlejerk your BS go there and be happy and let us be free of you. I'm not going to explain how statistical analysis works or data collection or how those things can be skewed or biased. I will urge you to read "Factfulness" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Factfulness You can find an overview here and you can find a copy of the book at your local li…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:31 AM
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Redpill is categorically incompatible with feminism. The whole manosphere is deeply conservative and antifeminist at it's core redpill is no exception. Shit it's basic premises hinge on women not being capable of individual choice preference or thought and it's content is pretty uniformly misogynistic, tons of "woman hits wall" "woman gets owned by facts and logic" "delusional woman realizes truth; cries" and etc. It's misogynistic rage bait for people who hate women.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:14 AM
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And elsewhere you're a divorced mom of two kids. Pick a fucking story bro.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:10 AM
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The 85% number u/fireretardont references is for the aged 20-24 cohort not the under 20 cohorts. He's just plain out lying about what his own data says because he figures people won't read the whole study. I'm familiar with how incels misrepresent data and get a kick out of debunking their bullshit so it sucks for him I found this.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:09 AM
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This is a lie. 66% of men ages 18-19 have had vaginal intercourse and for women in that cohort the number is 62%. You can't even cite your own sources accurately, please stop lying and please stop spamming, it's weird. Touching grass is the healthiest thing you could do for yourself and your romantic prospects.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 10:09 AM
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Being the best version of yourself is generally a winning move in life. Do it for yourself not to make people attracted to you though because you can't make people attracted to you. However being your best self is generally an attractive thing in and of itself especially for those who are most likely to vibe with you
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:55 AM
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Elsewhere you said you're in an arranged marriage, or waiting for one which implies you aren't american so why are you bringing the numbers from a USA study into this shit? You've also repeatedly stated that you don't want to have sex with a woman who has sex with anyone else, period. So again what does it matter when by your own cultural norms and professed ideals you yourself want to find one person and pair up?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:47 AM
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IPV is very high amongst autistic people and getting scammed or attracting scammers in general. The issue isn't women it's that we make good victims until we get our street smarts levelled up enough to not be easy marks.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:44 AM
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Why do you want a FWB? Not judging just need to understand what your aims are before I can even try to give worthwhile advice. Also how are your social skills, how good are you at "masking" etc? How do you feel about neurodivergent women? And finally, what are your hobbies and interests what are your special interests?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:42 AM
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Lifetime average. Lifetime average. You really think less than ten people on average over a whole lifetime is a lot, that that's hoe numbers? For real? Also if chad is fucking so hard why did a national study show 82% of women aged 25-44 having one partner in the last year? Where's chad putting up these numbers? How's chad putting up these numbers? Most women aren't trying to fuck chad or ride the cock carousel my guy and instead of acknowledging this you're going "no, blackpill right everyone e…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:27 AM
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Some sociopaths and dark triad people have what's known as superficial charm, an ability to be charming and affable based on their willingness to lie and their total lack of morals or feelings of guilt. Now here's the thing bucko, most of the incels and blackpilled folk don't have this superficial charm and so they are just obviously dark triad without the charm to lure people in. I've done so much one on one work with incels and it's fucking wild how selfish you guys are, how self centered, you…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:13 AM
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fireretardont was lying. His data doesn't support his statement.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:05 AM
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That 85% is for correspondents 20-24 years old. Stop lying and misrepresenting data. It's 66% for men and 62% for women 18-19 regarding if they've had vaginal intercourse. And 33%/32% at 15-17 years old. So no, only 66% of men have experienced vaginal intercourse before 20 and 62% of women in that survey. You lied.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 09:04 AM
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You guys always say "easily" and "without effort" but you don't know that, you can't know that. Like fuck, I'm autistic but seeing me now in a social setting with my charm full on, most people would think I'm an extrovert and that being social and charming and affable comes easily but it fucking didn't. I worked at it. I can make it look effortless now, I can turn on charming social me and look at ease but that's not my actual reality. You guys look at people and assume that because they have th…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 08:56 AM
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Nobody cares about your weird little dick Jerry. Sorry I've been sitting on that for a week but seriously, most likely no one cares about your dick the way you think, most dicks are around the same size, outliers are rare and the average vagina isn't as deep as the average dick so it's not a big fucking deal. Seriously, do yourself a favor and read up on average genital size in men and women. Please do this before responding to me.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 08:39 AM
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This reasoning doesn't really hold up. Do you also not want a woman who has seen a sunset, would you not see a sunset with her? What about icecream? Everyone has experiences, no one was made for you and your arguments make me feel like you want someone who was made for you someone who you can take out of the box and believe it or not those beliefs are kind of messed up, kind of rooted in messed up stuff. She isn't living her life waiting for you, she's living her life. Period and you should be l…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 08:02 AM
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Your analogy doesn't hold up. Sex isn't a competitive game it's a cooperative game, the choice is playing with your high level friend who can show you the ropes and teach you things you might never discover otherwise or playing with your newb friends and you both bumble and makes all kinds of really obvious and goofy mistakes. I want to be clear that neither option is wrong, sometimes it's fun to play games blind and learn things, the problem with sex though is that it's a "game" we all think we…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 07:50 AM
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He is awaiting trial on the charges. He is not convicted, the word you are thinking of is most likely convicted, he can't be convicted and awaiting trial but he could be convicted and awaiting sentencing. So, before last June or so he was in pretrial, he was detained on house arrest but he had not been charged with anything he was detained pending charges right? And people would make a big deal that he hadn't been charged like it was some kind of own against his haters. Now he has been charged w…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 10:27 AM
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Both tates are still awaiting trial for sex trafficking charges, they have been charged. Any reel by those guys no matter what the reel says it's a pretty bad look. This isn't like sharing some old cosby show clip. It's one thing to separate the art from the artist, but sometimes the problems with the artist are the problems with the art. Everything tate said was anti-women except the braindead shit like "get your shit together" and you can get that advice from guys who aren't awaiting trial for…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 05:49 AM
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I'll call guys "king" sometimes but never the "prize" and I know a lot of not redpill people who will call people king and queen or "monarch" if nonbinary. I feel like Prize however is very redpill, like the post you mentioned "remember we are the prize" that's redpill, it's giving "why women deserve less" and FFS the fresh n fit guys are certified clowns. If anyone only calls guys Kings and never calls women queens or only does so mockingly, then yeah that's a clear sign that he doesn't like or…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 05:22 AM
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Here's the thing, I have lost weight, like I have went from being 200 two 150 and my fat friends did not abandon me or give me a ton of shit or try to sabotage me or shame me. Are there weird people online with a severe crabs in a bucket mentality? Hell yes. Do they throw loud screaming fits anytime they see shit stuff they don't like? Yes. Are they representative of any group other than the screaming pissbaby group? No. My point isn't "fat people don't do this" it's "people doing this isn't abo…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 10:53 AM
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Terminally online weirdos are not representative of fat people as a whole. I discount twitter weirdos of most groups. I don't discount incel weirdness because that's just how they role for real like that shit is the group but for most other groups the twitter discourse isn't representative of the consensus. Like, if I were applying that logic I'd believe that most gamers are pissbabies who throw screaming shitfits anytime a woman that they don't want to fuck appears in a video game.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 10:50 AM
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Incels don't want to not be incels. It's a cult, and leaving is a betrayal of that cult. It's why they have terms like fakecel, trucel, volcel and etc.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/24 03:14 PM
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I've never known any fat person to get mad at others for losing weight. Your comment doesn't track. And don't link back to terminally online people on tiktok or twitter, that isn't a thing. Fat people are still normal ass people, incels are not normal ass people don't compare the two
/r/ExRedPill17/02/24 03:13 PM
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Grooming is a series of tactics aimed at acclimating someone to abuse. All victims of relationship abuse go through a process of grooming, gender and age aren't inherent to this process. To be clear I'm thinking in terms of elder abuse, same age abuse, and etc. Though an older person grooming a younger person is a very common dynamic we see with this.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 03:46 PM
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I'm not even sure. It's such a paradox because a lot of redpill influencers talk about marriage and fatherhood but none of these guys are actually married fathers. There's a lot of blind leading the blind. I like to think that most men will unredpill themselves before settling down. Otherwise, I don't know how they choose their wife but I know that they will behave exactly like stephen crowder did in his marriage. Because the redpill doctrine is one of abuse of women. Abuse of anyone you can abu…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 12:32 AM
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Dudes for real be out here having seen one snobby immature person with a tiktok talk about getting "the ick" and think it's like an actual thing and not just a fucking trend on social media. Bruh, newsflash anyone so fucking small and petty as to be stressed about how you eat an orange, is probably not someone who's actually doing well in life. They aren't happy, most people don't want to date or spend a lot of time with vapid, internet brained, chronically online and super judgmental people. re…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:41 PM
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No. Traditional gender norms are absolutely ass. For both genders. Can a man aspire to the aspects of "traditional masculinity" that he aligns with? Sure, if that's his bag, but I don't think any guy should be held to those standards. I lift weights, I work out and I am strong, I have wide shoulders, well developed muscles and can do several calisthenic exercises that most guys can't. Like handstand pushups and one arm pushups, one legged squats, that kind of thing. I also like women, I am a goo…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:42 AM
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F.D Signifier is good. I don't fuck with Aba & Preach though, not at all. Let's see. F.D Signifier. Noah Samsen. Munecat. Kuncan Dustner. Chriswaves. Foreigner in a foreign land. https://youtu.be/aHD8Jun3eUc fifteen minute video about how the manosphere/redpill actually hates me. How it's anti man and misandrist (this is a point that doesn't often get discussed, because it's so obviously anti woman that the parts of it that just hurt men slide under the radar of the blantant in your face misogyn…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 02:47 AM
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Short answer is, they don't. They don't want or like women at all. There is no kind of woman that's really desirable, not for her own sake only for what status and clout she supplies. Their ideal woman is instagram beautiful and could make a billion bucks if she opened up an onlyfans but so pure and chaste that she's never spoke or looked at another man other than him. It's pure fantasy. Redpill men want the women that will make other redpill men jealous of them, shit, keep the women and just gi…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 02:04 AM
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When I talk about control I'm not saying "you're controlling" I'm acknowledging that a lot of the redpill/manosphere discourse around men, masculinity, alpha status and all that centers on your ability to impose your will on others, to control and dominate them. As I know that you engage with this content and are trying to to find other ways of existing as a human I'm trying to break down the concept of control. Because redpill presents it as "alpha dominance" or "beta cuck submission" like it's…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 08:18 PM
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So, "I was worried about being bad at sex so I joined the guys who are proudly bad at sex" is that what I'm reading? Because redpill guys literally brag about how shit they are at sex. Fresh n fit, Tate. Both have caught in 4k moments of them literally saying that they are bad at sex and don't even enjoy it. That's weird. Sex should be fun, especially if you're making your whole personality about how much sex and money you have. How miserable an existence if you don't enjoy one of the two things…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 09:38 PM
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Or having a conversation about your relationship and how you'd like things to progress. Real talk, most people don't have the balls to be vulnerable. Like, if you really want to pursue a relationship then tell her. If you want to move on, then move on. I'm ENM, so my whole take on this is way different. My dating culture and style is very upfront about jealousy and boundaries and agreements are discussed not assumed. ENM stands for Ethical Non-Monogamy. What I can tell you is that basing your ow…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 06:27 PM
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I see a lot of value judgements in your statements and posts. So, a few things. Your masculinity or lack there of aren't her problem. Neither are your feelings really. Like, you guys were not in a relationship and her flirting with you, sleeping with you, making out, dating you or etc don't mean you own her or have any say in her actions, period. Even if she dates you she's not your's, you know? That's not to say that if she dated you and cheated on you that it'd be cool, you'd have the right to…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 05:08 PM
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Try "don't recommend this channel" it works better than "this doesn't interest me" in my experience. As usually the channels that give you redpill content are very much about redpill content, it's not an odd video or two that's a problem, it's the whole shebang.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 03:08 PM
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I want to recommend this playlist. It'll also help explain some of why there is such a monopoly. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAlewEkt7cFGvDfu_3SidUMf3T9E9kbj Also, clear your history. Clear your watch history, remove your likes. Delete comments. Or start a new account. But yeah you have to establish a sort of pattern against that content for the algorithm to stop pushing it, and it'll still sometimes try. Watching the creators and videos in that playlist will help train your algorith…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 11:49 PM
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Every. Fucking. Time tho. Like, wtf. I'll give them one thing, I'll give them credit for the sheer fucking audacity to be so confidently wrong, just out there with their whole chest posting data that does not support and possibly actually contradicts the point they are trying to make.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 06:56 PM
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I've never understood this narrative that women online or in society are this mythical protected class. Like they really aren't and there are so many obvious and extreme examples of this. Fuck, gamer gate wasn't that long ago y'all. Sorry but this notion is pure bs. It's confirmation bias at best. If you don't believe me, go and talk to your female friends who game, ask them about their online experiences in male dominated spaces, ask them how protected and privileged they feel.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 05:56 PM
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Bro. If we take a fox news fan who has a bunch of negative views toward black people. mexican immigrants and trans people we don't usually mince around and say this person is "sketical" of black people and mexicans, we call the bigotry what it is. A constant firehose of negative information about a group will bias you toward disliking them as well as distrusting them. It is really hard to have these things be separate, it's not how we're wired. As a whole people don't dislike people that they tr…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 05:49 PM
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Because it's not about discipline, it's about sexism. What I mean is, they are "disciplined" in the gym because that's "manly" they are also horrible cheating scumbags because they also believe this to be "manly" it's all about signaling that they are "high-value alpha males" Nevermind that it's sexist bullshit. Nevermind that it limits what men can be to a fucking cardboard cutout. Nevermind that it requires treating women as lesser. Nevermind that the fucking concept of "alpha male" has been d…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 05:31 PM
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Glad you got out. Glad you opened your eyes to some obvious truths and kept them open long enough to engage with said truths.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 02:20 AM
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Some subreddits that may be useful to you. r/bropill (Male mental health sub that is anti redpill and anti MRA MGTOW and etc. It's a healthy place I swear) r/GuyCry r/malementalhealth I'm not suggesting that this doesn't belong here, just that these are also some good subs to go to for support and community. Healthy community.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 10:17 PM
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36 year old with Autism/ADHD here. Recommend the following youtube channels. Noah Samsen has an exredpill/manosphere playlist. Noncompete has a great video about the issue with MRA arguments/talking points and a video about how he learned to be a healthy and happy man. F.D. Signifier has several great video essays about the manosphere/redpill and the grift that it is. Munecat has a debunking the manosphere video. Chriswaves has a video about the misandry of the manosphere, the way it hates men a…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 05:17 PM
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What's interesting is that yeah you got downvoted (but we don't know by who) and yet OP seems to be ignoring the fact that you called Redpill wholly toxic. Like you said nothing good about the redpill. I'm not sure if the downvotes was redpillers with critical reading skills or anti pillers without reading comprehension skills. Reddit.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 01:30 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab Here. Science. Self improvement. Hormone optimization. Fitness. Motivation. All without the crazy bullshit that will destroy your relationships and mental health. Huberman actually has some good content about attachment styles and relationships and how people bond.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 01:24 AM
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Want to point out that the redpill fucking destroyed Sneako. Seriously. He went from doing a channel that many people respected for his insightful interviews to these crazy rants that eventually got him deplatformed. Redpill absolutely destroyed this poor kid. What kind of self improvement ideology has the potential to ruin you if applied correctly? Like, wtf. Redpill is the self improvement version of tobacco. When you use it correctly it hurts you. It hurts you when used properly. There's no s…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 01:21 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HEFhmOLnlk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjQ2B5cQ_gs&t=137s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHD8Jun3eUc&t=55s I link you these as a guy who is incredibly strong. Dating just fine, etc etc. There's nothing in the manosphere/redpill you can't get elsewhere and better and without the bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 01:16 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLwpTeBFcvk Enjoy.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 12:28 AM
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In your defense, you're 16. If you base your views on what your peers say on social media then yeah it's a bunch of absolute idiocy. Most of the feminists I know like guys just fine. Even the ones I only know online like men just fine, are married to men, date men, etc. They dislike patriarchy and they dislike the guys who are fucking menaces, they dislike the trolls and the MRA types and all of the manosphere, but shit you dislike those guys as well. But the common trait in those guys? It's not…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:54 PM
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Interesting. I'm in these communities, maybe they don't like me enough to invite me to to the misandrist's monday brunch.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:40 PM
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Most feminists don't hate men. Seriously, hating men isn't what feminism is about, it's not part of the movement. Someone gave you bad info there.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:15 PM
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I love everything about this post. Seriously.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 04:23 PM
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I really love a lot of things about this post. What you say about the context you generate personally and in this space is pretty spot on I feel. And your ending sentence is an absolute banger. "soft touch" indeed. Well played.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 04:09 PM
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Especially since humans are naturally shit at statistics. Like, we are laughably bad at at without training. (For those that doubt this, read "Thinking Fast and Slow" it will open up a very interesting window into how your brain works and how much your brain doesn't work the way you think it does)
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 04:07 PM
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You're going to have to expound a bit my guy. Define "work on yourself" "extensively" and "excluded" I will tell you that part of the solution to your problem is going to be "expectation management/goal disengagement" and "solve for X" where X is whatever is the limiting factor here.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 03:28 PM
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So don't solely join male dominated activities and hobbies. This isn't even difficult.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 08:18 PM
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So maybe young men should work on their fucking social circles yeah? Incidentally this is the advice that is often given out here and on r/incelexit the advice which some men insist on calling "cope" and arguing with from a place of astounding ignorance.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 07:00 PM
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Tinder has 75 million users, of which 78,1% are men, and 21,9% are women. 30% of its users are married. My understanding is that it's not broken up by orientation, merely gender and relationship status. (Single, married, in a relationship, other)
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 06:59 PM
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Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in both. United States Tinder: 78% male, 22% female. Source - https://datingzest.com/tinder-statistics/ Bumble: 68% male, 32% female. Source - https://www.statista.com/statistics/975984/us-bumble-user-ratio-gender/ OKCupid: 74% male, 26% female. Source - https://en.lab.appa.pe/2020-02/which-dating-apps-are-reigning-in-the-usa.html Hinge: 65% male, 35% female. Source - https://en.lab.appa.p…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 11:03 PM
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You asking me out bruh? I'm flattered. A video will suffice. It's not hard to take a video where you just say "Hey trepptopus this is me doing pushups I hate your guts" I can do something similar. Also, I'm having fun. This is fun.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 09:38 PM
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https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/do-women-date-short-men-fancy-match-study-dating-height-dad-bod-brunette-blonde-a7935766.html Article based on Match.com data (Match group owns ALL of the dating apps btw) on women's actual behavior on site and the men they matched with and ended up in relationships with. Your height isn't the issue you want it to be my guy. Read the article.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 09:22 PM
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Nah. Money where mouth is. You want to tell me to do pushups. Ok bet. Prove you can even do pushups and then I will happily embarrass you. Or admit that you are not a tough guy. Put up or shut up. You're the one who pulled the "I'm manly and I'm going to tell you to man up" ok. So man up. Lead by example. Show us all how tough and manly and strong you are. Show us how many pushups a real man can do. Like you just called me a cuck and told me to do pushups. I said "bet, pushup contest" and it loo…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 08:44 PM
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I'm not dogging people on mental health subs seeking help. Fuck yes come seek help. My point is that they tend to be underrepresented in these spaces because they don't need the resources that mental health subs offer you know? Like, if you go to certain subs they are really depressing spaces because the people who could help are in many ways filtered out of ever seeing the sub and then often pushed out actively if they try to go into said sub and help people. Those places are pits of wallowing …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 06:48 PM
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The problem is that the RP preaches the abuse of women. The misogny in the RP is a feature not a bug. It's endemic to the content. The self help stuff is a veil, the self help advice can be gotten from other places in better more useful forms without the misogyny. The self help resources I mention to men aren't political and aren't gendered. they don't talk about how "men this" and "women that" they talk about "this is why you are sad and anxious and how to feel better" and they go into the scie…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 06:35 PM
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You aren't self made though. You had help, you had opportunities. You didn't have a bunch of shit dropped into your lap, you did work for a lot of it. You had to make the best of your opportunities, but you had those opportunities. You had to make the best of the help, but you had that help. I'm not knocking what you've accomplished btw. Being a small business owner is hard, being a successful small business owner is even harder. Luck is a factor, but so is experience, grit, and so on. I think t…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 06:26 PM
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You aren't smart. You literally said "save height" I pushed back on "save height" with "short guy here, heightism is bunk stop the Bullshit" and you pivot to "I mentioned charm" At least have the integrity and balls to own what you yourself said. At least be that much of a man.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 06:03 PM
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It's dishonest to ask "can a sub5 get a 10?" that is a dishonest question.Anyone that is rating people on a 1-10 scale believes that said scale has merit, framing the issue around looks is only there to set up a "gotcha" so they can confirm their initial biases. It's like if you go to watch the content of "it's complicated" you'll see him interview women who are having a night out and he'll ask "which are better at self improvement, women or men?""on a scale of 1-10 where do you rate yourselves?…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 05:49 PM
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My experience is that the more genuine women have been chased off of the apps because it's such a fucking shitshow. I'm not even saying that in a "men suck amirite" way but I mean, the smart women with shit to offer have looked at the app, looked at what it can provide them, looked at their lives and their priorities and gone "yeah, no" Instead they've chosen to live their lives and figure that in time they will meet a guy that they like, who likes them back and they will explore that connection…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 05:41 PM
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I will bet you literal money that I can do more pushups than you can. I will bet you money that I can do pushup variations that you are wholly incapable of even attempting. I would love to see you fall on your face trying to keep up with my fat ass.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 05:31 PM
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Stoic composure is not a fucking male trait. It's not a masculine trait or feature. I say this as someone who finds great value in stoicism, the stoic ideals and the philosophy stoicism has towards grace, resilience, and living in a world that we have very limited control over. As someone deeply steeped in the science of mental well being I have seen the many ways in which the science reflects the value of stoic ideas. It also shows the value of meditation. Of exercise. But it shows that this va…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 05:29 PM
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I'm short and broke. I know many short guys with practical harems. I am short and I am poor and I am not struggling in my romantic life, in the fucking least. Redpill is made up bullshit. It's pretty simple. This isn't hard you guys are just hardheaded.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 01:00 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/v62bf7/an_intro_to_patriarchy_what_it_is_how_it_works/
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 12:36 AM
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I don't like the concept of settling. I mean, we all have to make choices. Sometimes these choices are hard. Sometimes they cut us to the bone. It's definitely important for them to work things out on their own. Sometimes we meet a person and we make a choice. "I'd rather be this person with you than this other hypothetical person without you" sometimes this is a good choice. Other times it's a bad choice. It depends on the both parties, on what's being gained and what's being given up. Relation…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:32 PM
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I never shamed them. I said I give zero fucks. I'm not here for them. Like all power to them, there are women who are also out there looking for casual sex. My advice isn't aimed at these people. Tinder is fairly hookup directed to begin with. If I were to recommend OLD to someone looking for a relationship it wouldn't be tinder. No offense to tinder personally.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:21 PM
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So. You say that you are not allowed to be emotional. I tell you that the issue with this isn't so much womens preferences as it is the discourse around masculinity. Which loops back into patriarchy. I say this as a man who uses my emotional intelligence and openness is a main part of my dating strategy. It is literally part of what has made me attractive to women. Does this mean that some women haven't bought into shitty stereotypes about men and masculinity? No. But that's a social issue. Femi…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:09 PM
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I didn't confirm the black pill. You are centering looks in your outlook and in everything you ask. You are literally saying "but looks" my response is "you are black pilled and I'm done talking" you didn't win and the black pill isn't confirmed. You have chosen to take the black pill and align with it. I have enough experience with people who are black pilled to know that you aren't currently looking for an alternative. Nothing I say will matter. Your whole post is arbitrary. There are men who …
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:50 PM
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Changing the goal post. First "but looks are the most important thing" Now "How can a 2 get a 10" This isn't you trying to improve your dating life. It's you trying to find reasons to confirm your belief in wheat waffles. Enjoy the black pill. I hope it and your body pillow give you all you need in life.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:31 PM
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I want to point out. My post isn't "why tinder won't get you laid" it's "why tinder won't get you a girlfriend" I give zero fucks about helping guys who are out to "get laid" I will continue to try to help guys find their way into healthy relationships. I say this because it's important to be clear about why I post what I post and where I'm coming from. Context and all.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:16 PM
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Because it's not about looks. That's what you're not getting. If it was about looks then the gem would be "men become attractive by being hot"" You, a man are attracted to women for how they look. Women are attracted to men often for who they are. They want men to be attracted to them for who they are in turn but most men want to continue to be solely attracted to women for how they look. And to insist that women must feel the same. Because fuck empathy.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:10 PM
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Women also give up a lot for love. It goes both ways. I don't think that men necessarily want relationships more than women. I think there is a gap in that patriarchy tells men that they need to have sex with women to validate their masculinity but feminism tells women that they don't need men to validate their humanity. This isn't a problem with feminism, it's a problem with patriarchy and current masculine beliefs. Ultimately the issue isn't that women don't want relationships it's that they h…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 05:51 PM
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Using tinder takes time and effort. It may not be a bunch of time and effort in any one sitting but it does take time and effort. It uses up mental space and processing. It also can contribute to an illusion of progress. What I mean is, there are people in the world who's brains aren't great at distinguishing between thinking about a thing and making meaningful progress on the thing. This isn't a personal failing and it's actually the way most brains work unless you actively work against this ki…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 05:39 PM
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I fucking love that. "Men become attractive to women through context" I don't know if some of the guys who are terminally online are able to really understand and appreciate that. To grok it. But I'm going to tuck this gem in my pocket and see if I can't ram it through some skulls.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 05:33 PM
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I have had women absolutely enthusiastically encourage my interests in them. I have had them respond to my talking to them and asking about them with warmth and enthusiasm. Don't walk up to strangers and foist yourself upon them. Do put yourself in contexts in which you can interact with people and get to know them and let them get to know you a bit and from there, the people that seem particularly interesting? Talk to them more. Both men and women. Deepen the relationship. As u/TheDrWinston say…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 05:31 PM
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My guy. You aren't thinking from first principles. You haven't actually studied wolves. You're conflating what you think you know about lions with what you just heard was debunked about wolves and you're imagining fierce competition. You're thinking that multiple wolves fight to mate with a female. You're not realizing that both male and female wolves leave their packs and then form new packs with a breeding mate. This isn't like lions, it isn't one male ruling a female pride. It isn't one big b…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 05:27 PM
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Redpill doesn't teach being assertive though. it teaches being aggressive. It teaches controlling and dominating others through abusive and manipulative tactics. It's not about being assertive in a healthy way but about dominating and being an "alpha" There isn't a safe amount of redpill. It's misogynistic bullshit. Every good thing can be found elsewhere in a better form that is much more helpful. The misogyny isn't a bug it's a feature. There are no self-made men. Everyone got where they are w…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 09:03 AM
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I hate everything about the whole idea of being "healthily masculine" I also feel the same if you say "healthily feminine" How about. Healthy people. Men need to be healthy people. Women need to be healthy people. Genitalia aren't personality traits. Women and men are not fundamentally psychologically different. I fucking hate that line of thinking because it cause a lot of trouble without providing a lot of value. It is literally more harm than value but people fucking love this "masculine idea…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:56 AM
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Men are more desperate for women because every woman since hitting fucking puberty and often times from before puberty has had a literal stream of men offering her dick. This isn't a privilege. It's just gross. Like Redpill tries to make it out to be some kind of privilege that while still a literal child the majority of women have grown ass men trying to fuck them is some kind of privilege and is evidence of women living life on "rookie difficulty" Men are desperate for women because having sex…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:49 AM
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Seriously. I get so much credit from so many of the women in my life for doing the bare minimum of not being rapey. Just the bare fucking minimum of respecting "no" and being "ok cool, let's watch a movie" Literally. I am a good person because instead of trying to gaslight and badger and cold shoulder when a woman doesn't want to have sex with me I affirm her right to choose who she wants to fuck and I reassure her that yes I still want to be in her life. This should not be an exception. I shoul…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:39 AM
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But you're also presenting an extreme. Either full manosphere BS or delusion. Like, the "issue" young men face in dating is one I really wonder about how much of an issue it really is. I've looked at the reports about "x% of adult men are virgins" and they are based on really small polls. Like they polled 700 people, 700 PEOPLE not even 700 men and concluded that of the portion of those 700 people who were men 30% reported not having sex in the past year. Then a newspaper picks that up and it be…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:33 AM
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Twitter isn't a real place. My advice is to avoid the redpill stuff entirely. Save yourself. The thing is even if you are healthy the redpill is toxic. Like I absolutely do not believe any of the redpill stuff and even less so the blackpill stuff, but I watched some blackpill content to get a sense of what it was and I left in a much worse mood than I'd been in when I started. That's with having a dating life I'm very happy with and proud of. That's with knowing that this shit clearly doesn't ap…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:18 AM
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I've done both this past year. I've had success with both. I've had infinitely more fun dating via hobbies/social circle than I had doing the apps. That's the other thing if you can get the apps to work then you don't need them and you'd have a better time without them. And if you can't get the apps to work then you absolutely need to walk away and focus your efforts elsewhere because the apps can fucking destroy you.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:12 AM
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Except it isn't. This is just people not knowing what the words and concepts they are talking about mean and instead of admitting their ignorance they obfuscate and move the goal post. This is bill clinton "that depends on what the definition of the word "is" is" like, no the fuck it doesn't. Redpill isn't science, redpill is just men grifting and shilling to insecure men. It's MLM for men, it's a fucking grift. There's no secret truths, just bullshit misogyny and misandry. No mysticism, no veil…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:52 AM
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https://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/self-aggrandizement Not going to argue with you. Going to tell you that what you are doing isn't the good look you think it is. You're not as smart as you think you are, you're just using emotional thinking in the guise of logic to make yourself think you know more than you do. This is actually a known logical fallacy and cognitive bias and it's been studied. You aren't even unique in the way in which you're choosing to be stupid. It's not…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:45 AM
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40% isn't a majority though is it? And that statistic is way down. This past year I was on apps and going out and being social. I met more women being social than being on apps. That's with me being very proactive about messaging women on my app of choice. Having done both, I can say that the math checks. Prospects are better IRL than OLD. OLD sucks, small pool, lots of the women there are jaded/traumatized because so many dudes suck. I've literally had women say "please don't send me a dick pic…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 04:17 AM
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How do you believe that most of Gen Z is on fucking apps when tinder is 80 percent dudes and even bumble is 60 percent dudes? How are most women on apps if most apps are overwhelmingly male? I know so many women who have deleted their profiles or deactivated their accounts or just stopped using the app. It's really common. So, most women aren't on apps and the ones who are on apps don't stay on the app forever. They dip in and out, mostly out.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 02:47 AM
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You know the most common form of misandry I see in the world? Manosphere and redpill and blackpill bullshit. That's the most common misandry I see. A woman, a woman saying something about men isn't harming men. It's like when a black person says "man fuck white people" it's not harming white people, but white people will be all "reverse racism waaah" but there is no reverse racism. Like I get it, like a lot of guys you're butt hurt when women tell men to check their privilege, I also kind of don…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 02:10 AM
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Well first let's talk about where you go regularly. And yes, it does have everything with your post. Your point was essentially "can't meet women because no women want to deal with PUA bs" and that's a false dichotomy. You didn't say "the women in my bubble are asocial or antisocial and don't want to talk to people/me" you said "they don't want to be approached by pickup artists" simple solution is to not approach as a pickup artist. And don't force conversations.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KJX-8C7OHmw Here. Here's your antidote. Also, how the fuck do you believe that most women are on apps? Just go do your basic research for fucks sake. Like guys are literally stuck on stupid and then wonder why they are fucking alone and lonely.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:36 PM
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So don't be a pickup artist and don't force a conversation. For fucks sake.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:33 PM
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In the context of feminism and feminist spaces and allyship. Basic reading comprehension would save us both a lot of time here. Seriously, it's like you came here looking to be triggered. What for? Or do you believe in the woman hating feminazi? I don't. Not as anything more than a caricature. I know no women that hate men or want to disenfranchise them. I know no feminists who hate men. But I know way too many men who have deeply misogynistic takes and do need to be checked. As they won't liste…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 10:46 PM
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That's a projection. In fact you are the one that brought up the worth and value of "maleness" not I. Last I checked "people" is a gender neutral term. It applies equally to men and women. Interesting.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 10:33 PM
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The existence of men isn't inherently worth shit. The existence of people? Sure. But you having a penis doesn't mean dick to men. I have every right to my own moral sovereignty but when I'm operating in a feminist space as an ally? My morals tell me to shut up and listen for a second and let people with more lived experience talk. Checked your post history. Just another internet contrarian.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 10:25 PM
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I'm going to link you some none redpill self improvement stuff. Both therapy stuff and physical stuff. https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab neuroscientist. Very smart guy. Very good advice. None of the redpill or manosphere BS. None of the weird hatred and controversy for the sake of controversy you get from peterson. https://www.youtube.com/@TheBioneer fitness inspiration. Nice healthy guy. Lot's of different protocals, lots of fun content. Lots of bodyweight stuff. Very into pushing the limits…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 05:20 PM
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If you live 22k from the nearest gym. No offense but why not get more into body weight training? Like seriously, I promise you that at your age you don't need the gym to get a good physique. Shit, no one ever needs the gym or to lift weights to get a good physique. You only need weights if you are going to be a weightlifter (olympic or power) a body builder, a crossfitter or a strong man. If you are not competing in those specific sports then you do not need to touch a weight for the purposes of…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 04:17 PM
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Your understanding of biology is faulty. Yes men have more testosterone, but T works the same in both men and women, in both cases it makes effort feel good. In both sexes it can be increased naturally. In both sexes it occurs naturally. Your understanding of masculinity is faulty. Based on what you're saying every woman soldier, every woman athlete is actually super masculine and full of testosterone. The strive for excellence isn't a gendered phenomena. Please stop randomly ascribing gender to…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 08:06 PM
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Tell me about how you got out of the blackpill. I'm talking to an 18 year old who paid wheat waffles for a face rating. He's a nice kid. I want to help him. We've been talking for about a month now. How can I reach him? How did you get out? What got you out?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 03:01 AM
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The black pill is the fucking worst. I know some guys who are black pilled and they are all in so much goddamn pain and so broken and close to self harm. Shit, the black pill is self harm. Convince me otherwise, seriously.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 02:49 AM
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I talk to more incels than I currently enjoy. At this point I'm just happy when people aren't hardcore black pilled. I'd rather they be red pill than black pill. But I'd rather they be neither and happy and healthy and sane. I know you didn't say you agreed with tate. I'm saying that particular quote makes me want to punch him in the dick and shit in his mouth. Yeah, I feel some kind of way about dude bro "top g" Anyway. I don't think the narrative that "the left isn't doing enough to reach out …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 02:17 AM
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Fucking THANK YOU for this. 1000% this.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 01:38 AM
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I'm not sure I believe this. Also, as someone who is on antidepressants I am really not feeling his "depression isn't real" take. He can suck my asshole. F.D signifier does a lot of engagement with the manosphere and the issue of redpill content and how the algorithm pushes it to young men. It's worthwhile watching his stuff. https://www.youtube.com/@FDSignifire/videos here's his main channel to complement the shorter content on his B sides channel. https://www.youtube.com/@signifiedbsides1129/v…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 01:36 AM
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One thing you need to understand is that the misogyny the patriarchy is part of the fucking point and the appeal. These guys don't blow up just form providing basic advice, the algorithm loves the misogyny though. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmZ-aPJB3Po Here's a good video about some of this kind of stuff. Titled "youtubers won't save your friends from the manosphere"
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 01:12 AM
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Are you fucking serious? You can't just cherry pick Tate's words. It doesn't work that way. I will agree that challenges are gift and that the pursuit of comfort above all is absolutely a route to misery. But I don't think all comfort is awful, if you think that then you would actually need to abandon much of the modern world which exists only to make our lives more comfortable. It's not comfort that destroys, it is the avoidance of challenge, the refusal to push oneself and this isn't a gendere…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 12:57 AM
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It wasn't meant to be time stamped actually. In the second video F.D talks about how pimps and sex traffickers pick and groom their video and the coercive bullshit that is involved. As someone who worked in anti sex trafficking he has a lot of knowledge and expertise. What F.D is talking about doesn't hinge on Tate having been arrested, it hinges only on what Tate himself has said about his operation and how it was run. I find it interesting that you have this deeply ingrained views about mascul…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 12:12 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHD8Jun3eUc&t=4s This is one of many. many reasons. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/w1y55s/what_does_dread_game_mean_and_what_does_it_do_to/ Something else to consider. Does this sound healthy? https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/10dizxq/comment/j4lwo0p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 I feel like this post really cuts right down to the fucking quick of what is wrong with redpill and manosphere content.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 10:24 PM
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OP please watch these two videos. Please please PLEASE. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHD8Jun3eUc&t=4s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IkxNjTMskKI&t=472s I know I'm asking for 30 minutes of your time, you've given more than that to the redpill and to tate and his opinions. Give 30 minutes to the other side, the counter view. Please. It's only fair.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 10:01 PM
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My life is great. Sorry that you're not getting the success you want. I do find it interesting that you want so badly for looks to be the determining factor in everything in your life. Like, why? How does this belief serve you? How does it help you predict what will happen? Does it improve your life in some way that I am not seeing? I don't get the obsession with biological essentialism, but hey whatever floats your boat my guy. You enjoy being "right" I'm going to enjoy being happy. Edit: Linki…
/r/BlackPillScience14/01/23 09:41 PM
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I'm sorry but I have a life outside of reddit. I do encourage you to do more digging into the "science" of lookism and the issues with those studies and the issues about how accurate such studies can be. As well as how limited they are. Some of this goes well beyond lookism to deeper structural problems with the incentives for positive results. Null results often don't get published and that leads to some undesirable skewing, as null results are important. Ultimately, yes there is a halo effect.…
/r/BlackPillScience14/01/23 07:37 PM
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I actually did attempt to address his points, and then had came with an ad hominem of his own and sidestepped my points to score a "dunk" and talk about what a rake he was. Here's the thing. You presume that I have a hate on for incels when I spend a good amount of my free time trying to get people out of those echo chambers and into the real world where they can have happy and productive lives. I don't hate incels, I do hate the grifters that benefit off of peddling their BS. I do hate wheat wa…
/r/BlackPillScience13/01/23 05:59 PM
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Blackpill beliefs are distortions. Sorry. Like, looks do matter, and height is helpful but they aren't deterministic. And they don't take precedence over other factors, not even online. Looks and height matter most online. Looks and height matter moderately in hookup scenarios. Looks and height lose a lot of their salience when you get past first impressions. In dating and romance at least. The biggest problem with blackpill is that it makes some false assumptions about human nature. The refutat…
/r/BlackPillScience13/01/23 05:32 PM
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Not trying to be a dick. Is english your native language? You're misunderstanding my usage of the word "you" as a collective. The collective "you" of incels is where my comment was aimed. Your "gotcha, I'm not an incel" just means you weren't part of my comment to begin with.
/r/BlackPillScience12/01/23 05:07 PM
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My point stands. For all your alleged intellectual rigor you failed to actually debunk anything I was asserting. You also failed to understand what I was saying. Bravo. Let me be clear. Claiming that you aren't black pilled and acting like it was a dunk in response to my words about my personal experience with incels isn't a dunk. It just implies bad reading comprehension on your part. If you want to engage without ad hominem attacks, do so. If you want to argue in bad faith on the internet, do …
/r/BlackPillScience12/01/23 08:00 AM
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I can see this being valid. Vocal minorities are a big problem in online spaces and in life in general (I'm thinking the entirety of twitter and most of american politics) In my personal dealings with incels, while there is misogyny it's not rampant hatred and I don't think it comes from a place of wanting to harm women, just misunderstanding the forces at play and thinking women have a better deal than they actually do. I see on the side panel a lot of stuff about online dating. But nothing abo…
/r/BlackPillScience12/01/23 12:19 AM
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If this is just an echo chamber just say it's an echo chamber.
/r/BlackPillScience12/01/23 12:13 AM
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So, you accuse me of making inferences and then you tell me what I think about incels and what I would think about an aggressive dog. Here's the thing. I've heard your rhetoric. It's incorrect. We can talk about the ways in which you are incorrect and I will happily talk about ways in which the blackpill, redpill, and manosphere are filled with grifters and misandry (not just misogyny, the misogyny is loud and obvious so it gets attention but the misandry is more harmful to those who make up tho…
/r/BlackPillScience11/01/23 07:08 PM
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The misogyny of incels and incel spaces isn't really a hot take. It's pretty obvious. I mean when the language used to describe women is completely dehumanized it isn't a big leap to conclude that incels hate women. In short, what you're alleging doesn't make much sense. This isn't some academic stretching to make a political point. It's a pretty obvious fact to anyone that isn't deep in the blackpill and subsequently deluded about how life, sex, women, and social dynamics work in the real world…
/r/BlackPillScience11/01/23 01:56 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PqUIgdq_kWY I want to give you this video to engage with. I also wholeheartedly recommend the rest of her channel, she talks about narcissists, narcissism and how they behave and why and how to heal from the harm they've done you.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 05:36 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBMUflowFh0&t=6s "Observe how people treat you and then decide if you want to keep them in your life or not." Note: I haven't super engaged with this guys content. Doing a quick look he just seems to be a therapist focusing on abuse and abuse survivors and recovery. Doesn't seem to be pill adjacent or anything. Just a therapist talking about narcissism (this makes sense of why my youtube algorithm showed him to me)
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 06:58 AM
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Fuck I wish I had an award to give you. Thank you stranger for making me laugh.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 06:28 AM
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Wow. So. Interestingly enough, the only time I claim to be a feminist is when dealing with men who are MRA or antifeminist or have some weird misogynistic BS or pro patriarchy ideology. Like, in feminist spaces I operate as an ally and mostly only speak up when some guy is refusing to listen to people because they don't have a penis. Otherwise I'm mostly looking to listen and learn. But in my personal efforts to help battle misogyny in men? Yeah I will absolutely identify as a feminist if it com…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 06:15 AM
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Where's the fucking study? It's just the abstract, they make a claim and fail to show their fucking work. There's no proof, no substance just the allegation without anything backing it up. Where's the science?
/r/BlackPillScience06/01/23 02:13 AM
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https://www.checkmarket.com/sample-size-calculator/ According to this calculator to have a 95% confidence level with a 2% margin of error the sample size would need to be 2400 adults for any particular year. Even the best year in the ten year survey doesn't approach that, and the most recent year is under 700 adults asked. Or let's simplify. The survey would need to have asked 2400 adults a year for 10 years to adequately establish that the trend holds. This would be a total of 24,000 adults sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:57 PM
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OP, I'm sorry to say that you have discovered that motherfuckers don't know how to science. Not referencing the studies you cited or your conclusions, I'm talking about the people who can't read data even when it's explained and then go "40% is a majority durr, I don't know how numbers work" As for changing your viewpoint? I don't want to, I think you're entirely correct. I'm a short dude and I do pretty much fine in person. I have had some success online but it feels really frustrating and I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:47 PM
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I just did the research on that study. It's based on a survey in which they asked maybe a bit under 1,000 people a year on average. I don't trust either the sample size or the demographics. Also I want to second what u/Dafiro93 said below. I too have talked to a lot "incels" via private chat and certain cognitive distortions and flawed beliefs keep coming up. Lots of playing the victim, lots of saying why XYZ can't work, or they tried it once for three hours one time and it didn't work immediate…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:36 PM
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Nice Guys are guided by the following three “covert contracts: If I am a good guy, then everyone will love me and like me (and people I desire will desire me). If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask. If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life. I disagree with the other stuff you said in your definition about Nice Guys but I think that this part is actually pretty accurate. However it is also, pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:21 PM
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Do you have any good and healthy connections with women? Maybe, start looking at more pro women content, find women creators you like and enjoy and engage with their stuff? The reason I ask about female content creators is because if you don't have any positive relationships with women then you can in the meantime forge some positive parasocial relationships and work on branching out into having positive reciprocal relationships with women. Right now, you need women friends, women rolemodels, do…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 07:10 PM
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