TreyDoesGains Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection… You can definitely develop attraction. I have had many people that I have been repulsed by, but later found them to be attractive and vice versa. Immediate attraction is very important, but not required. If you do make a shit first impression, it will likely take a long time to get out of the box they put you in. What you're saying is similar to "Dying comes down to not breathing" it's part of the system, but it is not the system itself.	/r/seduction	15/03/26 06:40 PM
4	Great second date, lots of chemistry - then ghosted when I asked for another date. How common is this? Pro tip: Always ignore them for the first few days after a date. (Changes the dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you) Once you've gone on a date don't ask them out on another date, instead suggest or assume you're going out. For instance: "I'm going to XYZ later if you wanna join lmk." or and this requires being context aware, but "I'm gonna swing by your work at X to pick you up do you want Chinese or Mexican?"	/r/seduction	09/03/26 06:29 AM
1	How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (My Full Framework) I hit them up, be real as fuck, and tell them what I want. This shit is actually super easy just everyone overcomplicates it.	/r/seduction	16/02/26 05:13 PM
1	Using money to upgrade my dating life Without any context on your situation I would recommend this as a general priority list for the biggest improvement: A) Communications B) Fitness Program C) Quality Wardrobe Basics It's not a one size fits all type of question. Self-improvement is about looking inward and saying what am I lacking the most and what can I do to fix it then slowly making gradual improvements. Target one focal point and try to perfect it. Trying to improve everything at once or focusing on things that might not even…	/r/seduction	16/02/26 02:42 PM
1	Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned I've never tracked or had goals, but you just need to know how to read and empathize. It's a game of escalation you don't go straight into "wanna fuck?" you start with a normal talking point like "hey that's a sick hoodie is that xyz" then continue talking working your way into deeper emotional topics, which usually requires you open up about something emotionally heavy first. Then you show them that you understand them and are listening. Then once that trust and connection is built you finish o…	/r/seduction	08/02/26 04:44 AM
5	What are interesting questions to ask a partner about their sex life? How many bodies you got? You a hoe or you a bro? Rate your top 5 fucks and why? You ever kiss a girl and like it? Imagine we’re having a breath holding contest, but instead of holding your breath it’s how long you can suck a dick. What would your best time be?	/r/seduction	15/11/25 02:44 AM
33	How can you get really hot girls? Talk to them… people have different preferences they could potentially be attracted to you. You miss all the shots you never take.	/r/seduction	12/11/25 04:44 AM
2	Trying to recognize "hints" from women is always a nightmare It’s pretty easy… The key thing you’re looking for is shifts in behavior. When she’s ready for you to make a move you’ll know.	/r/seduction	02/10/25 04:49 AM
7	How to kiss properly Be confident and don’t rush it. If you have facial hair, either take care of it so it isn’t prickly or just shave it off.	/r/seduction	01/09/25 04:45 AM
1	I wanna be a gym rat and date gym women You should focus on building the relationship ASAP. If they see that you are driven to get in shape, they might look past you not being in shape now. Ask if you can hop in on whatever machine they’re using. Introduce yourself and start a little conversation. After that, keep up familiarity by consistently having mini-conversations when you see them.	/r/seduction	29/08/25 01:53 PM
1	I wanna get a girl obsessed with me in a good way. Cuz I love her. No, bad!	/r/seduction	28/08/25 03:25 AM
7	Can a Fat guy seduce girls or get girls? Can you seduce girls when you are ugly, fat, lazy, and have a repulsive personality? Why would a woman want to get with someone who has all of those negative traits? Would you get with a female who is fat, ugly, lazy, and has a repulsive personality? You need to go through a phase of self-improvement. Invest in yourself and pay people who know how to fix your problems to help guide you to achieve your goals.	/r/seduction	27/03/25 12:03 AM
2	Snapchat… at age 25. This app feels incredibly uncomfortable and “off” Are you sure the conversation wasn’t already going south prior to her asking to add you on Snap? Typically asking for a communication method is an exiting question…	/r/seduction	23/03/25 09:14 PM
1	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? Right, I implied that in my comment.	/r/seduction	14/03/25 10:22 PM
15	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? It’s about context. The quality of the relationship, past experiences or trauma, beliefs, openness, etc., all play a role. If you have someone who is very religious, closed off to new relationships (especially with men), has past trauma that has caused them to strongly desire stability in their life, and is in their first relationship that’s both good and stable, the likelihood of cheating is dramatically lower.	/r/seduction	14/03/25 04:14 PM