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Waite, this is strictly alimony and not including child support? Are there kids involved? Looks like you’re getting royally screwed, my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 10:51 PM
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I didn’t have ED after my divorce, But I have a impossible time cumming from PIV. There’s other reasons for this, but it’s all mental. I’ve had five partners since my wife and haven’t been able to orgasm during intercourse with any of them.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:56 AM
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You’re in the right place at the right time. You are exactly where you’re supposed to be. The good news about not knowing is that you have the adventure ahead of you of figuring it out. Sometimes, you may want to jump out of your skin because you want to go out but you also want to stay in. Freedom is making that decision for yourself. Find support groups for divorced men on meetup.com or Facebook. Go to the gym. Start meeting people and just be completely honest with where you’re at. You’ve got…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 06:03 PM
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47, married 16 years, together 22, divorce process officially started last November, However, I hadn’t been happy in my relationship for over 20 years. The last three years of the relationship were the getting pretty bad, but the very last year was the worst year of my life. I felt like it was just me trying to save the marriage for a long time, and I always wondered if she ever really wanted me, or just the life I provided her. Right now we are $8000 deep into mediation but I’m not sure if we’r…
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 04:39 PM
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I’m in Washington state and my corporate office is in California. I called my company’s HR specialist regarding this subject late last week. From what I understood, after you inform your HR that you have gone through the divorce proceedings, your wife will be given a period of time to get her own insurance. It’s basically Cobra. In my case, I figured that my soon to be ex wife Doesn’t make enough money to pay for her insurance, unless she gets Obamacare. I don’t want to see her get poor treatmen…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 03:54 PM
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This is so sad, and I am in the midst of a similar argument even though I have been involved with my two boys’ day to day life since they were born. The system is messed up. There’s no two ways about it. All of these assets that we worked our asses off to earn to make our families comfortable And happy get split 50/50. Why should it be any different with time with the children? I just don’t get it. I understand that they say it’s what is in the best interest for children to keep things as close …
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 05:28 PM
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I wear wearing boxing gloves, but it’s my lower back, specifically sciatica, that can get flared up if I go too hard and don’t warm up enough
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/22 10:40 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/22 02:27 AM
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I studied JKD for several years, and I love working on a heavy bag…I’m just so sore afterwards and it triggers a bunch of bodyaches that take forever to subside.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 10:38 PM
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I have stopped
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 08:27 PM
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To be clear, we’ve been intimate over the last 20 years, but most activities came off the table leaving just a couple positions, and it was scheduled and treated like a chore but the least of her priorities. The beginning of this year I told her that I have felt her lack of desire and passion and so I wrote her a letter saying no more scheduled sex. I wanted her to find her own desire, again sacrificing my needs for her feelings. From there, it went down from possibly once a week to once every m…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 08:25 PM
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Zippy, a 100% agree except she’s (my wife) can be very warm to me and others. In social situations or family gatherings she will always put on a big enthusiastic show. Same as her sister, but as soon as they leave the trash talking begins. But to me, you nailed all three of them. I feel bad for my wife and her sister and that they had a terrible upbringing and were exposed to awful abuse, and mental health issues with both parents. they went from home to home, and everybody was miserable. I am a…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 06:25 PM
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Wow, thank you so much for sharing and for acknowledging that the struggle is real, Your situation sounds like it’s improved and worth the pain, and I absolutely can see how that will be the case for me in the future if we go down this road. At this point I don’t know if there’s any choice. But the reality is, there are choices, and one of them is that I can continue to sacrifice my needs for being in a relationship with somebody who is physically and emotionally available. This word Coercion ke…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 05:45 PM
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And I’m truly happy for you. I really hope for that feeling again, that feeling of being wanted and appreciated. I’m very happy for you that you found it and I hope that stays for you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 05:40 PM
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Thank you so much for saying this Marty McFly. This is exactly what’s been happening to me and since we haven’t signed any papers yet I am still trying to put it out there that I’m open to continue working on us, but only if she wants me. I told her if she doesn’t want me then just to be honest about it but we cannot manufacture desire. Either it’s there or it’s not. I’ve tried in vain to get her to want to be with me over so many years, so I highly doubt that it’s going to change. But right now…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 05:39 PM
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I love the idea of a fighting club
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 03:32 PM
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Wow, thank you so much for both of these links and everything you said. Very helpful
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 03:28 PM
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I insisted upon couples therapy about three years ago because I was feeling hopeless, and as I have been trying to do the work in therapy, she has not. The irony is that she is actually a therapist but can’t seem to apply the conversational approach that we have been practicing or attempting to practice in every session. Last week she said she wanted to quit therapy following an hour long session which was 45 minutes her talking relatively uninterrupted and then 10 minutes of me being argued wit…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 09:13 AM
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