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/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:19 AM
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Agreed. I think young guys that are considered hot by the girls in their school subconsciously learn to get their source of confidence from the validation they begin receiving at a young age vs. a less attractive young guy who learns how to find his confidence from within because the validation from girls isn’t their for him. Sure, a less attractive guy would like to receive some attention/validation but he grows to learn he doesn’t need it to be happy/self-confident and therefore will never bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:19 AM
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I could be wrong, but from my experience it seems that a lot of times, their is always a love triangle involving single moms. The guy dating one will most likely never understand the whole story. She is never going to tell him the true nature of why she split w the dad or what their current relationship is like. With that being said she could be dating you, talking shit about the dad, you thinking “this guys a pos so I got nothin to worry about.”Then, bam - you get close enough to her to see tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:55 PM
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Lol no offense taken. I agree 1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:07 PM
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Mmm not quite.. she’s a beautiful woman with a great personality and large social circle so I know she has no shortage of suitors. I’m asking for exactly the reasons I’ve stated in the post. One because even as a parent, I wouldn’t, so wanted to see how many others felt the same as me. And second, which is why I brought up my situation w her, because weve been split for a year, both have seen other people yet still attached and doing family+relationship type things off and on. I know this is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:42 AM
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I agree. I see the problems my ex and I face w/ our relationship and our kids and can’t even imagine stepping into another broken families shit for any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:35 AM
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I agree with you. I have a great step dad, hated him my whole childhood tho and didn’t learn to love and respect him until I was in my 20s. I never wanted kids, but I knew one thing forsure. That if I had kids I never wanted another man to come in and play step dad in my kids lives. I told my kids mom this when she got pregnant the first time and she understood and agreed. I now know I was naive af to think I had any control over this. I fought way too hard to save the relationship. When we firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:27 AM
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Stopped dating about 6 months ago, when I realized it didn’t feel right.. I was just going through the motions, and had 0 feelings, other than physical attraction. Would be with them, or texting them and just wishing it was my bm instead. After a couple I knew it was wrong, and that I was only hurting them and myself by leading them on. So I stopped and just focused on bettering my mindset or healing.. I (stupidly) started trying to see other people a few months after my ex and I split because a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:50 AM
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Very well put. I often think this is kind of what’s going on with my bm.. I think she loves our family time, still has love for me, is still physically attracted and emotionally connected to me. However, a commitment to me comes with the commitment of being a family full time again. Rn, she has me being dad/co-parent/friend(wb). Then when something comes up and she feels like having fun, she can with no strings attached, and we’re not together so I can’t pry or give her shit about it. Hence, why…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:22 AM
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I agree with both of your points. I know it’s not normal by anymeans. It’s not like we randomly meet up for casual sex or something tho. We live two hours away now and still spend a lot of time as a family. We were together for ten years and her family considers me family and visa versa. It usually starts with us attending an event or doing something as a family then out of convenience staying at the other ones house, which means staying in each others beds, which leads to sex. We’re both still …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:07 AM
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This the truth. The answer is always the same. Just focus on yourself.. When you authentically make yourself the priority.. Care about your life, plans, goals, friends and family more then women you will attract. And when you attract, they want you, and they make it very obvious. Women have so many options, so many dudes asking to hang out, take them on dates ect. That when you’re the attractive guy in her life that doesn’t have time to be playing Romeo, she will actively try to insert herself i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:40 PM
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I agree, I don’t think it’s ALWAYS like the way I said. From my experience working bar life it’s just something I’ve noticed but I definitely don’t notice every little thing. I’ve also, on a number of occasions, have met women in a bar that wanted to go home/hook up w me but was stopped by their friends. Which I always considered a good act on behalf of the friends, even tho deep down I obviously wanted to hook up too lol. I actually think most woman, especially after getting out of a long relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:40 AM
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Dude it’s honestly pretty rare. I have worked bar security for a long time, when I see it happen it is always the same(regulars) women that go home with random dudes, regardless of attractiveness. You also have to consider the fact that even if you meet a woman at a bar and hit it off she’s not going to want to hook up that night for her own security reasons, and if she does, her friends that are with her are most likely going to try to stop her and talk some sense into her. Even if you’re extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:36 AM
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How did you change your way of thinking? I’ve recently noticed my mindset has been this way and it needs to change
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:15 AM
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I appreciate that. Gonna check them out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:03 AM
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I’m not blaming RP for anything.. I said in the post I learned a lot from it. I do/always will agree with everything it has taught me, and am very appreciative of it. I am taking accountability because in the post I say that I have over consumed it. Not that RP content itself ruined me. And I’m not talking specifically about the general RP information about female nature. But more or less the types of RP content about how to act around females. I.e. more alpha, don’t be a simp, don’t be too avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:58 AM
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I definitely did. I never cheated or anything like that. Long story short I got burnt out with work and life, stopped giving her affection/attention. There was never any warning or conversation. Just one day the disrespect flew up to level 10. Red flags started flying everywhere. I tried everything I could to make her happy but it was like everything I did annoyed her and she always wanted to fight so I just gave her space. Got to the point where shit she started to say made absolutely no sense.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:55 AM
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Not exactly.. I was complete blue pill/ignorance is bliss prior to that experience. Like I said, I appreciate and agree with the knowledge TRP has given me. It actually helped me get my head out of my ass. Because for a while, I actually believed that my ex cheating on me was my fault because I wasn’t my best self for her and wasn’t giving her enough attention ect. All the shit women say when they get caught cheating .. TRP helped me realize she was gonna do wtf she did regardless and helped me …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:49 AM
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Maybe not rage.. I don’t hate women, and I understand/ empathize with them in todays current dating world. If I had the amount of options as they do, I would probably do the same things and act the same way.. To use your chess analogy, I guess it’s more like.. instead of committing to a strategy or just enjoying the game I just stare at the board? In fear of losing or doing something stupid.. Which is obviously stupid in and of itself and gets me nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:34 AM
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