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| 5 | How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset.This is music to my ears. Thank you for posting this. As women we have to worry about time running out. I’m so happy to hear this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset.Both my sister and mom had kids in their 30s. It’s not late, don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. Nothing worse than having children and getting stuck with a man that will drain your soul. You still have plenty of time to find the right man and create a beautiful family for yourself and your children. Keep working on being the best version of you, date as much as your heart desires, great men are rare but they do exist, don’t lose hope, never settle. You still have plenty of years before you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 3 | How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset.The worst most painful times in my life were cause by a man. The worst times I ever had were in a relationship. Friendships, great job, financial freedom are so much more important than finding a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 53 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoMy sister got pregnant three months into a relationship. He immediately asked for her hand in marriage and they got married when she was pregnant. They’ve been married 22 years. They have a beautiful family. Their daughter just got accepted to med school. If a man wants you, you’ll know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:12 AM |
| 35 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoSo true. If a man doesn’t marry you after giving birth to his child, he doesn’t want to marry you. He’s just tagging along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 18 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoPains me to read this. She’s a single mother with three kids, and she’s not even 30. Of course he’s going to cheat. A man who leaves a woman pregnant three times without being married doesn’t respect women. He’s probably holding out for something better. It would be laughable if it wasn’t so sad. The cheater probably won’t even be able to provide adequate child support. FDS works. It prevents women from falling into traps set by substandard men. Who a woman chooses to have children with is one o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:49 AM |
| 22 | CUT them at the first red flag , "if it wasn't illegal I'll hit you in the face" he saidWhen I think back to my past failed relationships, they’ve always been red flags in the very beginning I choose to ignore. I especially look out for covert misogynists, the one who call their exes crazy, the ones who make bad jokes about women, the ones with “vices” they can’t give up. They will never get better, don’t be fooled, they only get worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:18 AM |
| 39 | Compared to what women bring to the table, sadly money is really one of the very few things men have to offer 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️Yes, the richest, most successful men in the US are married. Most of these men made the majority of their wealth while married. They are happier, more attractive, live longer, and are wealthier than unmarried men. There’s something to be said about the fact that most successful men significantly increase their wealth after getting married. It seems like the stability, love and emotional support they receive from their wives propels them to greatest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 266 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.I learned my lesson never to sleep with a man until I’ve gone out 8-10 times with him, with solid effort on his part. The last time a man tried to convince me to sleep with him on the third date, his attitude completely changed when I told him I don’t sleep with men I’m not in a relationship with. Until that point he was head over heels with me (supposedly), coming on strong. Refuse a man sex and his real colors come out. Never, ever will I sleep with a man on the third date. That’s too early. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 6 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteThank you for posting this. Good men do exist. I love your dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:07 PM |
| 33 | It amazes me how many men don’t take responsibility for their sperm.Abortions happen because men are reckless with their sperm. They can very easily get a vasectomy/wear a condom/not orgasm inside a vagina/not have sex. Plenty of choices, yet they choose to be reckless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with rejection?100% true. I find that men love me when I’m a damsel in distress. Once they realize I have a great career, a good education and healthy boundaries they go silent on me. I’m very humble so it takes them a while to figure it out, but once they realize I’m not weak/strung out/won’t accept their bullshit they start looking for a new victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:55 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with rejection?I find men who don’t like me unattractive. Even if they are good looking. I’m attracted to masculine men, so if a guy doesn’t express proper interest by initiating contact and setting up dates, I immediately start to lose interest. The energy is off. So them finding me attractive is a prerequisite to me finding them attractive. If a guy hesitates or isn’t into me, that’s a turn off for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesDon’t let any man use you as a therapist. Low value men will do this. Drain the energy out of you by constantly complaining and berating other women and their exes to get validation and transfer their bitterness to you, basically use you so they can offload and make you feel bad. They don’t care that you end up feeling bad. I immediately stop a man who starts talking badly about women or their exes. I straight up tell them I don’t want to hear any misogynistic comments about women. Look how quic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 16 | How men act when they find out I'm on FDSExactly! A woman’s daddy issues is an indication of a mans failure to be a good father. This reflects badly on men, not on the daughter who is victim of his neglect/abuse. A woman having daddy issues is 100% a man’s fault. He has failed to be a good father. Scrotes who call out women on “daddy issues” are usually terribly neglectful abusive fathers. They dismiss their own failures as men/fathers/husbands. They blame their children instead of taking responsibility for their failures as men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 15 | Yes! Finally my taste for FDS content got picked up by Instagram algorithm 😂Sexy as hell. So gorgeous. Nothing sexier than a woman who knows her worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 01:21 AM |
| 55 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.This is great advise. There simply is no benefit in dating a man who’s broke. Dating a broke man actually hurts him in the long run. It teaches him to be lazy. If a broke/lazy/sorry excuse for a man can get a woman, why would he try to improve? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:53 AM |
| 15 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.Pedoscrote, that word describes these creeps 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 28 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.I’m 100% for publicly shaming adult men who stalk or hit on underage girls in public. When I was 15 a man in his 30s-40s was hitting on me in public, telling me how sexy I was. I started shouting “You should be ashamed of yourself hitting on an underage girl. I’ll only 15. What’s wrong with you, are you a pedophile?” He looked so embarrassed. Good. Mission accomplished. Hope he learned his lesson. If you are underage or an adult woman and some creep is filming you/taking pictures without your co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 18 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadAbsolutely. Six months is what I give too. No one has years to waste on a loser who is confused or isn’t ready. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:28 AM |
| 66 | Instead of going on walk dates, buy yourself a trash grabber so that you can pick up trash in a way that at least benefits your local communityThat’s why I love you ladies. I just declined a walk date and feel so good. My only regret is talking to the loser on the phone more time than I wanted to. He suggested we have a walk and I get a smoothie as a first date. I told him I don’t do coffee/smoothie dates and wished him well. Then he said, oh wait, let’s talk, maybe I can cook for you. How lazy and broke are they? Glad they show their lazinesss, low effort, useless bs early so we don’t waste our time. When they suggest coffee/smoothies… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:19 AM |
| 93 | Ain't it StrangeGood for you. A woman who’s financially independent doesn’t need to succumb to men’s depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:55 PM |
| 44 | Ain't it StrangeApparently if you don’t support women prostituting and humiliating themselves you aren’t empowering them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIt goes hand in hand. You often can’t achieve a career without a degree. I care about degrees. It tells me a person is intellectually curious and values learning. I know people making 6 figures without a college degree but the amount of people with degrees vastly exceeds those without. There’s no need to be jealous or not of people with multiple degrees. PhDs are almost never needed unless you want to be a college professor. But many people love learning in a structure environment. Nothing wrong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 01:33 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNot a waste if you are a doctor/lawyer/ or executive making 6 figures because their degree paid off. Every woman I know who has an advance degree makes more money than those who don’t. And lives a better life overall. Also education and learning are signs of intellectually curious people. But you can have a very successful business without a degree. You just have to play your cards right. The problem isn’t education or degrees. The problem is that colleges are insanely expensive. That’s the real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 01:19 AM |
| 17 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.They are plenty of women who don’t have casual sex. This post reeks of “I just got dumped because I pressured my girl to have sex,” or “I got rejected and acted like a butthurt beta by sending her a ‘rejection text’ to save face.” Sorry she doesn’t like you buddy. But sour grapes don’t make you look more like a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 92 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Almost every woman I know who got rid of her Low Value Husband is glowing, doing better than before, both financially and peace of mind. I recently saw an acquaintance who got divorce. I almost didn’t recognize her. She always used to look so tired and haggard. Her ex-husband used to suck all the joy out of her. Now she was glowing, a big smile on her face. She looked so youthful, rested, happy and full of life. Getting rid of her LVM ex-husband was the best gift she gave herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 17 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenYou are right. A husband is very different from a man you are dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:38 AM |
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