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I'm sorry but I don't see the difference between that and what men do to women online all the time. I'm not saying it's right, but it happens all the time. That's why women support each other so much is because we get so much crap from men. And most the time when these men make these posts about how they're unhappy they're usually talking about sex not relationships. And a lot of women aren't interested in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:26 AM
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It's not up to us to care about your problems. It's up to you to care about your problems it's up to you to do something about them it's up to you to find the solution. It's not up to us leave women out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:34 PM
30

I'll put it this way, most women I personally know won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:38 PM
29

A lot of women don't have sex on the first date, there is nothing unusual about that. Try not to read anything into it. Give her time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:35 PM
1

My old man is not the 10 or Chad he's just a normal guy that I absolutely love you guys see women in a totally wrong light
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:48 PM
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I was very clear that that is exactly what I wanted in my first partner. It was to be a first for us both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:17 PM
3

You seem to think that women are trying to humiliate you even when they say they have a boyfriend or husband so I don't really think you're the golden standard on what rejection is supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:51 PM
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We really don't. We just want to get out of the situation safely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:40 PM
5

The next morning? Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:54 AM
13

You can revoke consent at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:00 AM
1

Men should get on that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:40 PM
1

I completely understand my best friend absolutely loves her husband she thinks he is the sexiest man alive I think he's ugly. But she doesn't think that my husband is all that gorgeous so we just have different tastes. But I think women don't that's not what we focus on we focus on the other stuff but that just happens to be the first thing we see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:15 PM
2

You don't get to do that, no one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:40 PM
1

What's it to you? It's literally none of your business
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:08 PM
1

This isn't a line at a cafeteria you aren't owed anyone, just because they're dating someone, doesn't mean that you would have gotten the chance anyway. It's not about what she would do if she wasn't seeing this guy, that's none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:07 PM
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More than you seem to think. I'm seeing it more and more and I've always paid my own on the first date. I started doing that because they got to the point where it was assumed that they were going to get sex out of it and that's not why I was there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:45 AM
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I'm assuming that you go out with your friends sometimes and I would imagine sometimes you pay what do you expect out of that? I would imagine genuine conversation, polite interaction, and finding out more about the other person. That's what you should expect out of a date. Sex is not something you get to expect on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:43 AM
11

Pair bonding is for BIRDS, not humans. Why in 2025 we still have to explain this, is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:40 PM
2

You are completely detached from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:48 PM
1

You need to touch grass. There are plenty of people in the real world that are matched they have no business being matched but they totally are so maybe look outside and see actual people go to Walmart or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:40 PM
1

I have plenty of men friends, some in relationships, some not. Doesn't bother me either way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:32 PM
1

I don't do sex on the first date thankfully I'm married and don't have to worry about it but I didn't do it before and I'll never do it ever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:38 PM
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They don't do it for men, not sure why that is hard for you to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:54 PM
1

We can't drag them to therapy but I'm not going to hand hold someone who can do the same thing I do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:55 PM
4

Not to be a complete dick but you're talking to the people who have been left over and over for the younger woman after years and years of marriage and you just want to say that you guys are replaceable really? You don't think we feel replaceable? You don't think we feel like we have nothing to contribute because you're just going to walk away anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:23 PM
2

You have no idea what goes on in a woman's head. Of COURSE we remember the good times with fondness. But that's doesn't change being done
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:04 AM
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No, it tells you men don't LISTEN. There are other women on here saying exactly the same thing and all you men can do is deflect. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:21 AM
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What you aren't seeing is how she told him what was wrong for a long time and was ignored. It doesn't come out of no where. You just didn't listen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:15 AM
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Because she told you for YEARS something was wrong. You didn't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:14 AM
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This exactly. Most of the women I know tried hard to make relationships work, years of trying usually, and they got fed up and finally left and the guy was like "this came out of no where!" No buddy, it didn't, she TOLD you for YEARS what was wrong, you didn't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:13 AM
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No they're worth from other MEN is seen by a how successful he is with women, not with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:34 PM
1

A dollar bill is 6 in long so if you can know how long a dollar bill is by memory then you can guesstimate inches it's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:05 AM
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Police officers statistically are one of the worst abusers for women so no I wouldn't date a cop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:05 PM
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I don't know what you expect us to do if a date goes bad it could kill us. For a guy what you don't get laid and that's the big thing? For us it's DEATH. So yes we're going to vet men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:49 PM
2

I have tattoos, but I'm not open to being approached in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:43 PM
0

No you think she's into it that doesn't mean she is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:24 AM
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Not even close to true. Have you never spoken to an actual woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:22 AM
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No it sounds like that red pill bs that tells men to do exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:38 PM
5

I can only tell you what i, as a woman, myself, see you in this situation. And that is that it is not a male loneliness epidemic it's a loneliness epidemic. But when it comes to men, they seem to expect women to deal with it for them and I'm not doing that, and neither are a bunch of other women, like most women. You can say all you want that society treats the loneliness of men and women differently but the fact of the matter is, how they're treated differently is the women are blamed for being…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:28 AM
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I think a lot of women are annoyed with it. Because you have a bunch of men going oh we have a male loneliness epidemic, no we have a loneliness epidemic not just men. But men don't want to help with it either, they're not going out and trying to find more men to hang out with to make it to where they're socially involved, a lot just expect women to deal with it. And we aren't doing it for them. We have enough on our plates trying to make sure that our own loneliness is taken care of it's up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:14 AM
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It means the free market's working. Women have that choice the same as men do if they don't want to sleep with somebody they don't have to and you don't get to be annoyed by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:09 AM
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A lot of women know exactly what they want the problem is has been don't believe it that's not on us that's on them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:18 PM
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I don't despise them I just think that they're horrible people but it's not because of what they are it's because of how they act. It's because they hate women so much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:11 PM
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Thousands if not millions of women have been through exactly what you're saying doesn't happen you're full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:35 PM
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Best way I've heard it explained is the free market has spoken when these men aren't chosen for a sexual rendezvous. And that's exactly what it is the free market spoke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:32 PM
2

It's all crap it really is, my husband was poor as can possibly be when we got together but I've known him for 20 something years and I love him today he's still poor to this day I make more than he does and that's okay we love each other and that's what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:53 PM
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Decentering each other is really the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:52 PM
1

You're wrong. I don't give a fuck what he looks like, leave young women and girls alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:26 PM
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Grow up and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:36 PM
1

I have a grown son now he's 26. And I taught him quite a bit about how to deal with people and how to interact with people to get off the phone to spend time with actual people. He knows that he has to treat people the way he wants to be treated, he knows that he can't just let his anger control him or his life. And he was shown socialization throughout his life. Both male and female. He was taught to take care of himself and not rely on a woman in his life to do anything for him it's his job to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:21 PM
1

The same way a man can say it. There are some things that seem general but each man is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:49 AM
0

Men know very little about what women actually want so asking a man is just flat out stupidity. There will be more than one answer because women are not a hive mind and like different things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:07 AM
2

Why would you tell anyone else what is working for you? It's none of their business and if it's helping who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:21 PM
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I took an active role, by finding a new partner. My last one simply didn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:24 PM
4

You have no idea what you're talking about. Like, at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:57 PM
3

I'm literally happily married and don't date and even I'VE been told my standards are too high. It's said to ALL women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:49 PM
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Personally I got sick of the guys who sent d*ck pics and were only trying to hook up. I stated VERY clearly I was NOT looking for a hookup. Now I'm married but we met in school and found each other again, so not an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:47 PM
1

While dating split bills evenly, LTR split but share, once married everything was shared however we both have emergency accounts. I stayed home for almost a year after child then went back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:08 PM
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Why would I want a traditional man? I'm not a traditional woman. My husband is my equal, we do life together, not one over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:23 PM
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The thing is, is that it's a lie either way. They want a traditional woman EXCEPT they want her to work full time as well. So what they really want is a woman who will pick up after their nasty selves, give them sex on demand, and totally do all of the child care. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:11 PM
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That's the only reason he would have to care. It doesn't affect him so it's not really his business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:14 AM
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Why does it matter to you? They aren't dating you, their standards are on THEM, not you. Just mind your business. If they end up alone they know that is a possibility and are ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:14 AM
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You aren't going to get what you want, women just don't need you anymore. Find one that WANTS you, that's the whole point anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:09 AM
7

Some states you can't get an abortion at all. My state says six weeks but most women don't even know they are pregnant yet at that time. We need a birth control for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:10 AM
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It's not and don't let anyone tell you it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:00 AM
5

It's fine to want that, it's not fine to try and force anyone into a relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:08 PM
6

Which is why they expect women to fix it for them. They can build good relationships like women do and get themselves out of their loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:26 AM
2

Best advice I can give is don't rush into marriage. Personally I think a couple should live together for a full year first. You see what kind of person they really are when you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:35 AM
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I've literally sat in the room with them. No they aren't. They are just talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:23 AM
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You are wrong. I know plenty of men that hang out with other men just to hang out. I live with two of them. They hang out with their guy friends more often than I hang out with my girl friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:13 AM
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His thoughts on unrealistic standards are that women want to cum. That's not even close to unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:52 PM
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I'm married now, but most men got upset when I paid my own way. It seemed to me that if you take out them paying they can't go for well I paid now you have to give me sex. The fuck I do, I pay for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:49 PM
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Women's standards are just that, up to the woman. Same as men's standards are up to the man. You don't get to change those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:11 PM
2

I definitely agree that young people need more places to meet other people being on the internet all the time doesn't give you a place to meet anyone not really
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:15 PM
3

Yep. They have options, not anyone else's problem that they don't like those options
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:35 AM
-1

EXACTLY! Men can get the exact same thing with unattractive women but SAY they can't. It goes both ways and yet men expect US to lower our standards. Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:33 AM
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She isn't getting anything different from what guys can get. They seem to think if the woman isn't hot she isn't sex or a relationship, but the EXACT same rules apply, he CAN get sex or relationships as well, just not with the type of woman he wants. Goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:31 AM
2

I'm not going to spend years unhappy and teach my children that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:08 PM
6

Staying together only show kids that it's ok to stay in a bag marriage, that's not something I'm willing to let my son learn from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:19 AM
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It's one of those things you can't seem to win. Women go through it all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:11 PM
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No they aren't, half the time they are selfish as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:19 PM
3

Here's an idea, don't assume anything about women. We are not all the same, we don't think the same, we don't want the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:07 AM
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No, under NO circumstances, EVER will a man have a say over MY body. You have your own body, go make decisions for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:41 AM
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You have a choice to wear a condom or get snipped. That is your choice, what happens in my body is not your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:07 AM
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Sounds like my marriage. I'm my opinion that is healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:57 AM
1

My husband is pretty tight with my best friend, who is a guy. I've known him since grade school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:54 AM
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Yea I'm not changing games just because some guy doesn't like it. No cares given
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:44 AM
4

I don't care if my husband plays video games, I care if he stops picking up after himself and becomes a slob. I'm not picking up after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:38 AM
4

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:00 AM
14

Exactly, he's upset he's not getting laid and lashing out is what it sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:58 PM
4

My husband either shaved or trims pretty much everything and I love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:56 PM
3

There is something about the men that they are attracted to though or they wouldn't have been with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:51 PM
3

That's not going to happen, you know it as well as I do. My husband may not be a 10 to others, but he's to me, and that's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:49 PM
5

Exactly, so what makes them think we will?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:30 PM
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Women aren't going to suddenly start dating men they aren't attracted to, no matter what men say about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:05 PM
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Not true. I take male mental health very seriously. I take loneliness seriously. And again, I work on those issues with the men IN my life. The most I can do for people like you, those online, is to give advice, that's all any of us can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:23 AM
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I have a 25 year old son that has friends, I am personally there for them whenever they need me. I'm not your mom, it isn't up to a stranger to coddle you. I'm doing my part by being there for the men in my life. That's all anyone does really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:17 AM
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We aren't refusing to care, we are refusing to do the work for you. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:11 AM
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That was my thought as well. Not all men will become a stalker, but since I don't know which ones will and which ones won't, I'm not doing it. I hug most of my friends, and I have a mix of men and women friends. I'm not hugging strangers. Women are lonely as well, but I see women taking steps to have good social connections, are women now supposed to maintain friendships for men too? They can't do anything for themselves? That seems like treating them like children. The best thing we can do is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:26 AM
2

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:26 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:15 PM
1

Are men exactly the same? Of course not. So of course women will have all sorts of opinions. People are not a hive mind, any of them. What I want is very different from what my best friend wants for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:35 PM
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I was sexually assaulted at 3 years old, men don't seem to have any empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:47 PM
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Show statistics for this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:32 PM
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Women are NOT the same. Maybe if you guys would finally figure that out you would be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:15 PM
9

If he's polite about it and leaves it at that, even after I thank him and tell him I'm married. The problem is too many men go ballistic when you politely reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:19 AM
0

I don't wear anything for anyone but me. Full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:50 PM
2

I prefer shaved and my husband agrees, so that is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:09 PM
0

Height won't ever come into play for me. Why should it? I'm only 5'3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:39 AM
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You are so out of touch that it's honestly sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:16 PM
9

That isn't what makes someone more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:06 PM
24

Just because someone is taller doesn't mean they are better, that's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:16 PM
1

It did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:19 AM
2

My reason for paying my own half is that I'm not a vending machine. I've had guys get really shitty when they realize I'm going to pay my own way because they thought they would get laid for getting me a burger. Not going to happen, I'm not a vending machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:18 PM
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Or have the chance of dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:07 PM
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Men need to learn that this is bs and needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:18 AM
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He doesn't want to debate, he wants everyone to agree with absurdity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:27 PM
7

That's something you should know about your partner. I can go to a club and never even consider cheating, so can my women friends. But I do know people that can't be anywhere without their partner without cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:37 PM
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It's about who your partner is. If they are going to cheat they are going to do that either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:21 PM
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Going to a club doesn't mean you are going to cheat. It isn't like that. Plenty of people go to have fun and stay faithful easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:10 PM
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They seem to think that if we lower our standards they will get picked. But usually these guys are sexist, horrid people that can't stand women, and THAT is why they aren't getting chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:35 PM
2

This is exactly what my husband and I do as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:35 PM
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Mainly because TRP is so horribly wrong when it comes to what women want, do, or think. I don't get any about it, but it is highly annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:18 PM
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It isn't up to women to fix men. They are grown ass adults who can go to therapy just like women. Don't put any stock into that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 PM
3

As a woman, I don't see him as husband material if he's been like that. (If body count matters to him)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:33 PM
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Rarely have I met women who even talk about a man's size, it is usually a make thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:00 AM
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Both bc and condoms can and do fail
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:55 PM
9

I miss awards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:02 PM
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My standard is simple, I'm not bringing any man into my life unless he can somehow make my life better. Whether that be laughter, kindness, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:57 PM
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I've got to be honest, I think men would just start telling women that they were too easy and have no self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:27 AM
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The same men who magically done know any other men that are sexual abusers? Those men? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:08 PM
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They do. Sometimes for YEARS before finally being done enough to leave. They give countless chances for the man to even acknowledge their is an issue, get ignored, finally leave. I gave it 2 years, gave him every chance under the sun. He still did shocked Pikachu face when I finally left. You hear about it all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:43 AM
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That goes both ways. There are thousands of women who have stories about telling their so they were raped or assaulted and the so doing the EXACT SAME THING to her afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:41 AM
5

Exactly. She's been telling him for months she was not happy and was ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:37 AM
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Usually a woman has been done for some time before she finally leaves. So though it may seem like she just left for no reason, it was just the last straw in a bale of straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:35 AM
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That's your opinion, it doesn't make it fact. For all you know she was in her own personal hell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:38 PM
25

No, it just was not talked about as much. You don't really think grandma was happy having 6 kids with a man who wouldn't let her work do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:21 PM
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Men after their 30s start contributing to children having birth defects and issues. That sperm is not high quality forever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:10 AM
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In my experience men don't care about body count, boys do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:47 PM
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Charles Manson dying in prison kind of shows that is bullshit. People can go to jail for influencing others, so yea, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:06 AM
3

I always split the bill when I dated. Men don't seem to like that either cause then they can't use that to try and get laid. So whatever buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:53 PM
0

Because by the time we end a relationship we are done and have been for a while. We did our grieving, we did our pint of ice cream, we did the crying. You just didn't pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:37 AM
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Nope, cause I have no issues with women. I don't know any women who have issues with other women. That's I hate other women thing gets grown out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:50 PM
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I'm not single, but if anything happens to my husband I'm either done dating or I will expect at least to be treated as well as I am now. I'm not going to settle for being treated like shit just because I'm lonely. I have friends, I can deal with being alone, I actually enjoyed it when I was alone. Women aren't going to accept being treated like shit if that is their standard, full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:11 PM
6

3/4 of violent criminals grew up in homes where the father ignored his responsibility. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:23 AM
4

You really need help
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:21 AM
0

I don't see it as being rude when in reality it is usually just women with boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:32 AM
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I taught my son to be like my dad. No way was I going to have a kid that couldn't take care of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:12 PM
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I'm Gen X and even my parents split the household chores. My mom loads the dishwasher, dad empties it. Mom cleans the bathroom, dad cleans the living room/ dining room. Mom does laundry, dad folds it. Ect. They have a great marriage and rarely argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:28 PM
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How is no humiliation or shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:01 PM
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I don't want a leader or a sub, I want, and have, a PARTNER. We equally decide on things, we equally make choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:32 AM
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I don't know about that. I think if you are anonymous you are more likely to tell the truth about how you view things. Frankly how many men view women is terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:11 AM
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We aren't under obligation to baby men. They are adults, just like women, they can figure things out the way many women had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:45 PM
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I had an aunt who never married, happiest woman I've ever met in my life. She went on cruises, driving, flew, held the same job for 45 years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:00 PM
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EXACTLY! I have 2 daughters, both get creeped on by men older than their father, it's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:31 PM
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That is much much better sex Ed than I got in school. That seems reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:56 PM
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I'm 44 and have never, in my entire life, heard another woman say that it's a red flag. Never
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:02 AM
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I chose a partner, that, to me, was the point. I don't need another parent, or another child
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:33 PM
9

So just pulling random numbers out of the air now, alrighty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:06 AM
3

I don't think anyone is lying here. People are willing to listen, obviously, they read your posts, they have commented. You seem to want someone to fix things for you, that isn't going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:00 PM
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We aren't going to fix anyone's issues for them man. We can listen, we can give advice, but that's it. Like anyone else, women are not going to bend over backwards for the problems of someone on the internet. You help those you know first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:43 PM
4

For the guys saying women are too selective, what is you want? What would be something women can do to help remedy this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:23 AM
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So are you, and your opinion just shows why a lot of you are being left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:21 PM
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Most women can't stand pearl. We see her as a traitor. So you can like her all you want, but most women aren't going that route. We earned where we are, and that's where we are going to keep going, up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:49 PM
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Then those men will be left in the dust, it is a simple as that. Women are not going to go backwards, so y'all need to start moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:48 PM
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I've been mowing the lawn since I was 12, or as dad put it old enough to reach the petals on the tractor. We had 35 acres to mow. Now I live in town so I mow 2 lots, with weed eating and trimming it still takes some time. Been fixing cars with dad since I was 4, help my husband with our cars now. There is nothing my husband does that I don't help with EXCEPT tree trimming because I'm not good with heights. Most of the women I know are the same, we were raised country. And most women from the cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:53 AM
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All you have to do is ask "so what would help these issues?" They either tell me some government program where they get gfs handed to them or crickets. This is not a society issue, it never will be because no one is going to hand them a gf. They have to work on themselves, fill stop. If they can't do that, it is fully on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:52 AM
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Oh Shar, another delusional man thinking he's hotter the older he gets, no buddy, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:24 AM
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I can understand if there is some thought of cheating, otherwise it is just a slap in the face to a woman that just went through hell to give you a child. I've never cheated, never, not one time, so if my husband did this, yes I would leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:09 PM
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We went to high school together, lost touch for 22 years, and then found each other on fb again. We started back our friendship like it never ended and started dating several months later. Been together for 9 years now. I joke that I made him wait 22 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:01 PM
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You are really jaded person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:53 PM
8

My husband disagrees, he just read it over my shoulder. I guess I'm lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:51 PM
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Most of my women friends married their friends, including myself, so I'm going to have to disagree. I don't want a partner who is not my best friend as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:46 PM
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Y'all have homes, right? Look women have done this, created spaces on the internet, in our homes, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:59 AM
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I pay taxes as well. So if that is your bar I'm already there. What else do you propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:58 PM
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People in general care about people close to them and their issues. Do you think women are not lonely? Hint, they are. But you don't see men trying to help with that issue. Same with human trafficking, sa, domestic abuse, ect. Everyone has problems, for the most part we have to deal with them on our own. Hence the question I gave. It was not an attack, it was too give you a reality check
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:57 PM
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When was the last time you personally helped anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:10 PM
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Men are just as capable of creating communities, groups, ect, in order to help themselves in the same way that women do and have done. As women we should be concerned about this epidemic, but it is not our problem to solve, that is for men to do. No one is entitled to the use of another person, so they need to find deep and meaningful friendships to fill those voids. Same as women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:45 PM
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Exactly, incel has less to do about virginity and more to do with how they act
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:38 PM
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Men literally generalize women all of the time, it is common sense, grow some.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:32 PM
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It is common fucking sense when a woman is talking about HER experience that it would mean men like the one who she dealt with. Not on us that you men can't grasp common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:12 PM
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That's not even close. Men have NEVER taken an intrest in their children like women have. Fathers of the 50s barely looked at their children. It was not until the 70s/80s that more fathers became more involved in their kids lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:34 AM
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Men and women have EQUALLY high standards, they are just DIFFERENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:57 AM
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Not to be an AH, and I don't want the answer, I want you to think, but did you immediately call her names when you got rejected? Funny enough when you start getting rude, some women get rude back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:56 AM
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Sure, NOW we are seem as more than a hive mind. rolls eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:06 PM
9

You should probably try and figure out why it is such a big thing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:44 PM
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Thank you, it seems guys are who are thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:42 PM
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What is good for me is not what is going to be good for others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:42 PM
9

It is literally none of your business, but I have no reason to be resentful, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:39 PM
11

There is no shame in that comment at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:31 PM
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The only one being presented to me is the one I've been dealing with for the last 9 years. It doesn't matter what size it is. The point remains, we aren't thinking about it much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:31 PM
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Women are not sitting around thinking about dick sizes. Literally the only time I'm thinking about that is when one is presented to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:26 PM
1

It is a myth, humans are not birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:02 PM
1

It is also possible that the woman you stop for that isn't interested no matter what the reason you stopped her and that isn't going to change because of your intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:53 AM
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Yea came here to say the same, it should be her choice. My old man said he would save me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:13 AM
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No, no I'm not meaning that. I mean exactly what I say. I love guys with long hair, NOT beards. I don't date men with beards, that is MY preference. Really annoying when people decide what you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:27 PM
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I don't think their standards are higher, but different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:08 AM
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From what I can tell they do have those standards. Different standards, but a fair amount of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:06 AM
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From my own circle, it seems to be equal between the sexes on marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:02 PM
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Most of my friends are guys. Many I met online on the game I've been playing since 2012, some I went to school with, some I worked with. My son, same way but opposite, most of his friends are girls. Again, from school, work, or games.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:47 PM
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Or it has been seen first hand by thousands of women....oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:31 PM
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For a lot of couples it is medication. As you age you end up with high blood pressure pretty often and the medication for that can cause issues in the bedroom. This is not the only medication that can cause issues, but it is the one that caused ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:33 PM
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Those same women are also not having sex, not sure why that is hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:29 PM
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Cheating is cheating. If you are unhappy leave, but it is not a get out of jail free card
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:06 PM
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No, they don't. No woman alive is sitting somewhere thinking, gosh I want someone who will abuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:25 PM
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It isn't that women are lying it is that there are billions of women and all of them want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:14 PM
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It isn't just a handful of men though, it flat out isn't possible. Too many women go through the same shit for it to be a small percent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:08 PM
1

He started hitting me that day as well, I was terrified
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:49 PM
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It was a fast marriage, knew him like 5 months, dating for 3. I was 18 and running from other shit. But no matter how old I was how long we were together he was GOOD at hiding who he was. My step dad and him were growls for YEARS before that, my step dad had no clue he was even racist let alone the rest. He was good at hiding who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:31 AM
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While I was dating my first husband, he was sweet, funny, fun to be around, was totally cool with my friends, my family, hell was good friends with my step dad. Always told me he loved my style. Seemed like he was friends with everyone at work, where we met. Day after we got married, he burnt my "revealing clothes", melted down my make up, and informed me I was quitting my job, that no wife of his was anything but a stay at home wife. I wasn't allowed to call my dad out of state anymore, I had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:10 AM
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Women are not cookie cut. Why is this so hard for guys to understand? Men have countless different ideas, morals, thought processes, ect. Why is it so hard for you guys to get that women are like that as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:58 AM
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So it's fine for HER to go through invasive pregnancy but God forbid YOU do a damn thing, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:29 PM
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You mean like she changed her body in order to have the children to begin with? If she had already popped kids out for you, she fulfilled her side of the bargain, you don't really get to ask for more. She's asking you to take YOUR TURN, of what needs to be done. That's not asking much really
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:28 PM
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I always pay for myself, I just refuse to deal with the vending machine aspect that too many men have, however if you asked someone to join you, you are the one who asked for the situation. Why would you invite someone somewhere and then expect them to cover where YOU wanted to go? If I ask my parents to dinner I don't then ask for them to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:11 PM
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Not a term we use
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:55 AM
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Not in real life no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:30 PM
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You don't get to "allow" anything. You can decide not to date a woman, but you don't get to decide for her. Let's make that clear here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:14 AM
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I don't believe much in astrology, but I'm a witch. I wouldn't want to be with a guy if he was not a witch. Most people prefer to share their religious beliefs with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:08 AM
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I've dated men I met at coffee shops and funny enough, my son had dated someone he met at a coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:27 PM
3

Christians love to pretend that marriage was not a thing before Christianity, it absolutely was. Pagans, first religion, had marriage ceremonies as well. Marriage is not just for the Abrahamic religions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:16 PM
2

Omg thank you! did this work?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:25 AM
2

Very well said. Also I'm dying to know how to do the bullet points!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:58 AM
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I leave a note or send a text, that should be enough. He's not my parent he's my partner. Now, if I was looking at dating sites or something like that and got caught, I could see why he would want location, but as I've been faithful, he can deal with a text.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:32 PM
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Accountability. Full stop. Just because you are horny doesn't change that you are fully capable of making your own decisions, and I personally refuse to entertain any man who blames HIS actions on a woman. You're a big boy, own up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:22 PM
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From what I read about it he dated someone that he knew full well was a certain way and then got upset because she wouldn't change for him. You don't get to do that and men make that very clear to women all of the time. Well he was like that when she got with him, he doesn't have to change for her. Well, same thing. She doesn't have to change for him. Now, sure messed up too, there was no reason to post that shit to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:49 AM
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I dated more in my 30s, easier, than I did in my 20s. Plus it was a lot less games. I'm happily worth someone I went to HS with, but if anything breaks is up or he passes away, I'm done. I was happy being single as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:44 AM
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I don't see anything as a zone. I have friends, and I have an old man. The guy friends I have, have been my friends for years. Most are in relationships. I've haven't felt that I needed to worry about a friend trying to get in my pants in 15 years. I got rid of any guy friends that thought I was an object for them. That isn't a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:02 PM
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Guys need to own up to their own decisions. Don't blame women for your own failures. Women have enough of their OWN failures to own up to, we don't need guy's as well. Thanks any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:44 PM
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It is a lot better for men than it is for women. A guy doesn't change much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:37 PM
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Yet that is the way of it, and expecting people to care isn't going to happen, that is very clear. As people we give out care to those we know, that isn't going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:36 PM
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If I was not disabled and could afford it, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:05 AM
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No one is going to sit around and think about the struggles of people that they don't know. Full stop. Men keep expecting women to care, we don't know you, why would we? That's human nature, we care about people that we KNOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:03 AM
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Women are not dismissing men any more than men are dismissing women. They are just more vocal about not liking it. Women understand that no means no. Even if that no means I'm not interested in your love life or lack of one. Why men can't figure out that unless a woman is thinking of getting with you she has no reason to care about someone else's struggles. That isn't mean, that is flat out all humans. We don't care much about people that we don't know. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:00 AM
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I'm in my 40s and every guy I know who wants to be in a relationship is in one. Maybe it is age but every guy I know is good too. I do understand that I'm in a small town though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:08 AM
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There are worse things than being safe for another person. I'm currently safe, but I will never date again after my husband dies, I've had completely safe, it is amazing, I don't trust that it could happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:55 AM
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For those of us who have been abused, we LIKE lame, as you put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:46 AM
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I think men don't understand why we want safety so badly because they have never had to deal with being unsafe as often as women do. Why would you understand? Guys don't often go through people going from loving to violent near as often as women do. Over half of my own relationships have been abusive in one way or another. I've had my throat slit, been stalked, been given broken ribs, hands, pelvic bone, I've been hit so hard I've passed out, I've been sexually assaulted, my money stolen or cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:44 AM
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And yet.... check other comments and you see it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:25 PM
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No, it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:23 PM
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And yet it is missed constantly, as this post shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:46 PM
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Sex is not a need, it is a want. Full stop. No one owes you sex. No one owes you the opportunity for sex. No one owes you a gf. Either make yourself better mate material or die lonely, none of it is up to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:56 PM
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The only women that I know that do any of that are under 25 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:37 PM
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It isn't his fault his meds make things .... not hard. I love him, drives me mad, but I love him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:59 PM
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I've been accepting it for about 6 years now. He has a medical issue. It stopped mattering a long time ago. We make time for a cuddle before sleep every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:51 PM
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Coming, presumably, from the gender that thinks SA is ok, if she's an underage virgin. JS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:42 PM
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My old man had nothing, literally noting when we got together. There was noting else but him to love. I don't really think that very many women are like this, no more than I believe that men are like this. Most couples that I know have had nothing at some point in their lives, maybe some people need that to know who really loves them, but I think most of us know if we are truly loved or not by our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:04 PM
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Here's an idea, stop shaming anyone else. No one has the right to decide the life choices for another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:21 PM
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My son has never listened or followed Andrew tate, yet he works out, works on cars, can do shit around the house, ect. Men don't have to follow tate to do "guy things. " except for the working out he learned most of the stuff from me and my dad. We both work on cars, do electrical repairs, plumbing, construction, ect. Tate doesn't have a monopoly on guy stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:22 PM
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Me either, and I'm 43 years old. I've literally never seen it IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:34 AM
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Me too, with literally every man but TWO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:30 AM
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Your PERSONAL opinion of women gets crap because it is not a FEMALE issue, it is a YOU issue. The issues women have with men are things that ONLY men can put a stop to. And what crazy planet are you from where a woman brings up an ACTUAL issue and there aren't men yelling "not all men," or "you're making it up." ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:20 PM
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Everyone has their own preferences and there is nothing wrong with that. Where it gets icky is guys that are 30+ wanting teenage girls. Idc who you are, that's gross. But it is gross because almost every time it happens it is because he wants someone he can control, not because he is looking for just a low body count. He can SAY it is for whatever, but usually it is flat out he wants someone inexperienced. Woman arent usually looking for control when they go younger, they are just having fun. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:48 AM
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My son is 5'5 and has no issues dating at all. This whole over 6ft thing is a myth. Most of his friends are shorter as well, none of them have issues dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:39 AM
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That often goes both ways, and there is nothing wrong with that. It isn't up to another person to constantly entertain you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:31 AM
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My old man has little to no creative thinking skills. We play DnD, I'm the DM for our group. I spend hours every week getting the game ready for my 5 players, my old man barely is able to actually play his character. It had almost always been like this. I'm the one who is in charge of entertainment, though my ex was amazing at DMing, but mostly it is on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:30 AM
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Yes, they can. Women do it all of the time. Not sure where your jealously is coming in at, but let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:17 PM
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Studies are showing that fewer and fewer women are choosing to have children at all. So this is all kind of, not something many are worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:28 AM
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More than I can count. Even saying "I'm seeing someone. " or "I'm married" gets you called names. Dealt with a stalker for 2 years. Have had my throat cut on each side by someone I said no to. So, yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:35 PM
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A woman is still treated like trash for saying "no thank you. " You are missing the point, not only are we not allowed to just say no thank you, an explanation is DEMANDED. And even if an explanation is GIVEN, she is very often called a whore, bitch, cunt, ect. Women are NEVER allowed to just say that, so yea, many of us are at past the point of being polite about it. We are going to get treated like shite either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:50 AM
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Coming from a gender who feels the need to say "not all men" no matter what a woman is saying. So.....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:38 PM
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You are actually pretty off the mark. Men who actually show up to court end up getting what they want quite often. The issue is men don't show up to court. You don't get to blame women for not doing the bare minimum in order to see your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:30 PM
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I think it depends on what kind of game it is. If I'm playing a FPS mpg, I want to just sit back and shoot shit. If I'm playing a rpg then maybe. I've been in character relationships that add to the story line, the online partner became a rl partner. Most of the time though, I'm gaming to just let off steam, so no, I'm not looking for a pick up line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:35 AM
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Just because YOU think a certain way does not mean ALL men do. Same with women. We are not one hive mind, neither are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:19 AM
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Um, no. You realize pretty quick they are still basically children and have child interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:29 AM
1

I was seeing a couple of early 20s guys, but the difference in interests was just too much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:24 AM
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I dated a hell of a lot more and more easily in my 30s than I did in my 20s. With a lot less of the bullshit. Just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:24 PM
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There is not a woman alive that is going to do that. These guys need to wake up, someone out there finds them hot, they need to realize that is probably where they are in the scale. I don't bat above my swing range, these guys need to figure what range they are in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:20 AM
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I have male friends, I listen to them, I watch how they actually act, and I've learned from them. The same as they have from me. We are all better people because of being friends, and those friendships have played, so far, from 10 years to 24. And still going.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:01 PM
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I (a woman btw), use to play at least 16 hours a day. I felt like since I was talking to people online (RPGs) I was socializing. However, when I stopped playing so much and finally went out into the real world, I found true friends and a relationship. We make ourselves believe that we are actually being social, we are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:37 PM
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I don't get why anyone sticks with a grown ass adult playing games?? Like get the fuck out, don't play stupid games, you only end up with stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:02 PM
1

Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:17 PM
3

I'm wondering if somehow you are scaring them? I don't think intentionally, but maybe you are giving off vibes or saying something that makes them think you will be ..... sketchy? (Not sure what word to use.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:49 PM
2

Oh gosh no, I'll never be in the dating scene again. If anything happens to my SO I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:31 PM
2

I think both genders are spending all of their time playing games and that gets no one anywhere. Just my honest outside, looking in, opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:18 PM
1

Child, has to be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:44 PM
2

Most domestic abuse is not reported. It is dangerous for a victim to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:44 AM
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Unless a guy just doesn't show up to court, this is rare. Even proven abusers get visitation with their children and the woman gets slammed with trying to come between a father and his children if she tries to fight it. There are literally thousands of cases of abusers getting custody of the children because of this. Parental alienation they call it. I've seen cases where the woman ONLY told the children of the abuse to herself and the judge ruled that she was trying to alienate the children fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:25 AM
2

That is ridiculous to me. I've got to be honest, in the 20+ years I've been an adult, the first whiff of a man playing games got him dumped immediately. If I want games, I'll go play DND.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:43 AM
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Straight, in my 40s, and this is actually something friends and I have discussed. (Simular anyway, of sordid sexual past.) We all, 6 of us at the time, said the same thing, as long as he is clean, who cares. Past is past. I'm not an expert, you asked for opinions, not statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:41 AM
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As long as he is clean of sexually transmitted disease then I don't see the issue. Everyone has a past, provided that past is not going to harm me, to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:27 AM
5

Why in the hell are so many people playing games instead of actually dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:41 AM
1

I'm betting my ex is very happy for no fault divorce. I had plenty of evidence to show he not only cheated but was abusive. I would have stayed with him forever, as promised, had he not cheated and try to literally kill me. A lot of women PLAN to stay forever, they aren't going to fulfill that when there is cheating and abuse. Pierod.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:14 AM
1

Or the wife got sick and like 60% of men, the husband left her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:05 AM
1

Sure it does. Life is not pretty woman. There are not tons of billionaires out there in long term relationships with women that are poor. They are going to marry one of there own. And that is my point, humans tend to date who they perceive as one of their own. No matter what gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:52 PM
1

From the studies I've read, women look for an equal. So if they are in a high paying job they will look for a man in a high paying job. If she can fix her own car, she will expect him to be able to do the same, ect. I do most of the work on my vehicle, I don't want to have to work on his too. JS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:44 PM
1

Time to grow up there kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:08 PM
2

Thank you, I'll check it out. I never decide anything until I research it fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:07 PM
1

1st of all, I'm not any pill. I'm too old for that shit. I can only go by what I see. I have no proof either way. If you do, great. I would love to see the medical or scientific journal research on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:34 PM
3

Again, read the rest. I have actual examples of art least 20 young men, none taller than 5'9. All in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:17 PM
1

That place is whatever the woman wants it to be. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:13 PM
-1

This post just makes me very happy I have no affiliation with the God you speak of. Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:12 PM
9

You must be very young, this is not accurate in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:09 PM
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I pay my own way I carry mace and a firearm, I don't need someone else to protect me, thanks. I've rarely met men who plan anything tbh. Isn't everyone social? Love but not needy? That is something we hear about women. If you see sex as the minimum, you need to stay the heck away from women. Sex is a HUGE deal. It is someone else literally inside your body. That is a lot more than "minimum. "
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:07 PM
4

Great, now I've got to go read the wheel of time series again. Had to bring up books!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:02 PM
0

I don't get this whole story guy thing. At 5'3 I've never cared about height, myself. But taking myself out of it, my son is 5'5 and has never had an issue getting a date. Ever. Maybe he's just good looking, no idea, he's my kid I don't see him like that, but either way, a lot of his friends are just a couple inches taller and they all seem to have dates all the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:57 PM
1

I ALWAYS pay for myself, so that NO ONE can attempt the I owe them sex for food bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:07 AM
25

Absolutely nothing. This guy is nuts. Women are already paying taxes when not married because they are WORKING. He just wants to CONTROL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:37 AM
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Because OP has no understanding of basic economics. Women not getting married are WORKING and already paying tax, therefore, they are already paying their share. This is just another way to attempt to control women. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:34 AM
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The hell you can't die from bad sex. You can also end up; Getting stalked Getting harrassed Getting abused Ect. Plenty of women die from choosing to fuck the wrong man, don't tell us it won't kill us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:13 AM
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Have you seriously not read some of the posts on this or other subs? Cause I have, and WAY too many of them are all about men talking about how women should be in sex camps, property, ect. So, yea, I see why it was asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:03 AM
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You really think there are not studies being done about these issues??? Really??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:01 AM
3

THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:03 PM
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Can get sex, doesn't mean that they WANT sex. A lot of women can get themselves off first time every time and don't need a man's bullshit added to that. No reason to make more work for yourself by having a man around that won't bother to clean up after himself. If something happens to my old man, I'm done. Men can't bother to grow up, and I've already raised a child, not interested in sharing my life with one that won't bother to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:37 AM
1

Pig/sausage story comes to mind. But good points. Personally, if a guy in dating isn't cool with sex when I'M ready, he can go ahead and go anyway. But I'm happy when I'm single, many people are not. I, personally, think it helps to not NEED a relationship, you don't feel like you have to stay with any AH that takes interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:19 AM
2

I don't either. I don't care where someone find love. I think there should be mail order husband's too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:02 PM
1

That OP just upset me. He seems the kind of guy that won't lift a finger to help out but wants a 17 year old Virgin as a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:38 PM
2

Women heard it for centuries. We were not needed, wanted, ect. I love men, I love my own man. But if anything happened to him I won't days ever again. I'm happy alone as well. People say a lot of things, they usually end up married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:37 PM
2

Oh damn. My ex was like that. My old man now we skate chores. Even the ones I don't like lol. To me, that is how it is supposed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:35 PM
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Never said it was. I'm all for people doing whatever makes them happy inside the law. Just too many guys get upset that women see what they have done and move on. Same for women, they have sketchy pasts and guys move on. Is what it is. I'm just sick of people complaining about it, that was my entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:27 PM
1

When my ex left, it was so much easier to get things done that I swore never to deal with a guy like him again. Kind of happened to a lot of peeps from the sound of it. Good on you that you can do your own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:24 PM
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Point. For both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:23 PM
1

I'm lazy, I know this, I don't expect others to clean up after me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:22 PM
1

Depends on how they treat the women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:21 PM
1

I'm 43, there is nothing teenager like for wanting a PARTNER. Which is what I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:19 PM
1

It's a waiting game. I've seen those men who when young not being able to get a date. They end up happy and married. I'm in my 40s, out reality is different than it is for 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:18 PM
1

Dude, I like men, that comment was for THIS assholes post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:17 PM
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SAHP is a full time job, still should, at very least be picking up after yourself. And NEVER bitch about being a parent. I hate when a guy says he had to "watch his kids", no buddy, it is called being a PARENT. Edit to add: SAHP is the ONLY job where people expect you to NEVER get a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:40 AM
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Yea, it's so horrible that we just want you to wash your own dishes, do your OWN laundry, remember your own doctor appointments. Gosh, women are evil. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:23 AM
2

I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:20 AM
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It partly was, yes. But let's be honest, these are people that HATE women having choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:19 AM
1

I can grow pot too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:11 AM
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I think you misunderstood. What I mean is that women are done being a mom and maid. Women are looking for guys that can clean up after themselves, equal house work. Equal mental load. We can't do everything, we are learning that. If we are going to be with someone, he has to be doing housework as well. Not sitting in his ass. Otherwise, we may as well do it alone. Less work. That kind of traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:11 AM
2

I can't grow anything except tomatoes. Lol I have been a witch since I was born (16th gen), but yea, we aren't going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:02 AM
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Like I said, he's free to do that, women are free to stay tf away from him. Action=reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:58 PM
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We are already seeing that, our did you think that abortion was a religion issue? Joke is on them, now women are getting tubual ligation so that they don't have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:56 PM
1

I don't have any guilt, thanks. I also don't look JUST for looks. I want an honest man with a sense of humor. If a guy can make me laugh I'll over look that he isn't hot hot hot. I still need some attraction to him, but sometimes looks are not the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:29 PM
2

Women do care I think, we are just sick of hearing how some man made shitty choices and can't handle that no wish wants him. If a guy can live with being alone because of his own choices, he should absolutely do whatever makes him happy inside the law. Just don't bitch when those choices have been made and women won't give you the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:27 PM
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Good points! I would add that few people give a damn what other people are doing, but those same people are going to see the shitty things the person does and refuse to be in a relationship with them. Provided men are content with the consequences of their own actions, no one gaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:23 PM
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That question goes right back. Why should women EVER listen to men? Sure men have some good qualities, same as women do, but when it comes down to it, neither sex should be looking for validation from the opposite sex. What men seem to not understand, is that women no longer NEED men. Women can and do protect, provide and care for themselves. The traditional bs of women needing men for any of those things is long over. Yet, men want relationships, and they want TRADITIONAL relationships. Then wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:21 PM
2

I've got to be honest, after my horrible first marriage, being alone was wonderful. Probably the best time of my life. After 22 years I found the guy I'm with again, we went to high school together. But I would still be just as happy by myself. I had never been alone. I didn't know I was good at it. I live my old man, but if anything happens to him I'll never be with anyone else again. It isn't worth it. I was not looking for anyone, and that is how it happens for me, when I'm not looking is whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:57 PM
0

You gosh you're so right! We should only fear the men we KNOW, right? I mean those are the ones that attack us. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:42 PM
1

If they have to RAISE their voice to match yours, you are already yelling. They are making a point. They are more polite than I would be about it. Yelling at me will get you the look of shame and walked away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:38 PM
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Jfc don't let these ahs trigger you. I got married young, finally tasted freedom in my 30s. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I chose partners on my terms, I made very clear that they were friends with benefits situation and the MOMENT they started acting attached I got rid of them. Until I was ready for a relationship again. Best decision I ever made. I now know I'm fine on my own, though happy with who I'm with. I know what pisses me off and to stay away from. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:29 PM
1

Religion. I won't date anyone who is one of the Abrahamic religions. The only way I'll go strong that is they only cask themselves that religion because they were raised in it, but they do not practice. And caught lying. I will not tolerate lying in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:52 AM
1

Why in tf height would be important is beyond me. I don't give a shit how tall a guy is. I'm 5'3 pretty much everyone is take than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:48 AM
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"Go ahead, but stay wherever you go, cause you aren't coming back to my home. " I think that covers it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:02 PM
2

Honestly, it is. There are things that smell amazing. But if the texture is wrong I'll get sick pretty much immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:02 PM
2

No, I can't. That's the thing with autism. Textures are a huge thing, and you will literally get sick if you force yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:00 PM
1

Found out they were super religious (Abrahamic religion), noped out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:33 AM
1

I can't eat most cooked vegetables. I've got autism (high functioning,) and the texture kills them for me. I'll mow over a salad though, yummy!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:32 AM
3

Funny enough though, I know a LOT of women who will nope on out of he makes a big thing out of being with a lot of women. It is one thing to do it, we don't want to hear about it. And we definitely want them to get checked for STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:29 AM
1

I need to do the obligatory, any pimps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:29 AM
3

I'm not going to argue with someone who just proved that they have no idea what they are taking about. Goodbye now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:18 PM
8

All women are not monolith, however, if any of what you said was true, then WOMEN would be the ones selling themselves. Which is not how it works in the vast majority of the sex work trade. Men pimping and trafficking women and girls are be far the larger gender in control, not women themselves. And I'll reiterate, any man found to be trafficking or pimping women and girls should NEVER again see the light of day. The woman is doing 100% of the work, and the men are doing jack all in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:09 PM
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From the documentaries and other media outlets I've seen, it is absolutely true. From what I've been able to find, research wise (not much) it is overwhelming men who control and traffic women and girls in the sex work industry. Which is a HUGE issue for me. If it women that are selling their bodies, there is not a man alive that deserves a DIME for her work. I'm a HUGE believer that pimps should never see the light of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:03 PM
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For me it is not so much about not allowing another person to do sex work, it is more about it being overall degrading to women and dangerous. It continues men treating women like objects and like vending machines. However, IF it was strictly regulated perhaps that would change? I honestly don't know. I can't picture where it would ever empower a woman, I can see where it puts women in horribly dangerous situations with controlling and often violent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:57 PM
8

Sorry, but that is a load of bs. I'm not a model, but I've never had any issues on the dating scene either. I've never cheated, most of my friends are guys, and my old man is also not a model. There are tons of women who are good looking, have guy friends, don't sleep around. It not fitting your narrative is irrelevant. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:28 AM
1

I'm not sure how to answer that. I don't particularly agree with today's feminism. So, maybe more of a 1st wave feminist? I believe in equality for both sexes. I believe that both have of the sexes have their own issues, and both need support from the other. (Men should be helping in the fight against sexual harassment, women should be helping men against against the unequality of child custody, for instance. ) Laws need to be updated on both sides when it comes to things like sexual assault. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:51 AM
1

I have worked with DV survivors ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:12 AM
1

I'm very familiar with the DSM5, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:59 AM
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I personally have a thing for gingers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:41 AM
1

I got my old man a cargo kilt for his birthday last year. Had a lot of pockets like cargo pants and made of the same material. He loves that things, wears it a lot. Try cargokilts.com Eyeliner is my big thing, I'm guessing because I really dig Egyptian mythology. I can rock some kohl lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:10 AM
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Personally I like wearing makeup. I do not do it for anyone but myself, however. I also do not wear very much. Eyeliner, blush, and lip color is all I want usually. Edit to add, I LOVE a man in a kilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:34 AM
0

Honestly? Get off the electronics and go into public. Staying isolated from the real world isn't helping anyone. From the statistics it has made social ability fall like nothing the world has ever seen. Even if you are, at this moment, horrible at speaking to people in public, actually being IN public is the only thing that is going to teach those social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:26 PM
1

Look, I gave what I've seen. There is no way in hell I'm going to attempt to answer for anyone else. Not permissible in a court of law, I'm not going to do it here. Ask someone who has revenge cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:57 PM
4

I've literally never seen a woman do this. I, myself, have never done this. My old man survived horrible abuse and rape. He wakes up screaming and crying, I hold onto him right, I listen, not speak. My son is autistic, he has broken down many times, every single time he knows where he can lay his head. A lot of my friends have PTSD, they have broken down in front of quite a few of us women. We have taken turns being a shoulder for them. Maybe it is because we are in our 40s and 50s. I don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:06 PM
0

Uh, nope. 1 of them went to a bar and asked the guy she thought liked hot. 1 of them made an online dating profile long enough to cheat, then deleted it. 1 of them told friends what happened and got set up with a guy the friends thought she would like. Not sure on the others, but only 1 of them told me it was an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:46 AM
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Of the women I know who have cheated, (8 women total) 7 of them did so to get back at the husband for cheating. Not saying any reason is good enough, just saying what I've personally seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:01 AM
5

We complement each other. He can barely turn on a computer, my degree is in software. He's wonderful with his hands, I don't have the ability to grip much. We are both tattoo artists, I design digitally, he can hand-draw damn near anything. He has dyslexia, I read constantly. We both love to camp, though he can't stay still and I am happy to be a zombie. He has a degree for auto mechanics, I have sold cars, transported cars, built cars, and towed cars. (Let's just say we both love car shows, lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:19 AM
1

Gotcha. Men are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:23 AM
2

It is really sad that you don't feel that you can trust a partner. Maybe work on that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:22 AM
3

We are in our 40s, he's happily married, in in a long term. You have no idea about actual relationships, I honestly feel very sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:22 AM
1

I've worked with domestic abuse survivors, the numbers are staggering. Not saying that there are not women with no trauma, but if you look at numbers, well, they speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:56 PM
1

No, the word used when a man is so unsure of himself he thinks he had the right to control or decide for another human. Bye now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:12 PM
1

I've got news millions of women have trauma in the United States. 3 million people are stalked every year in the US, 80% of those are women. That's just stalking. Numbers for sexual assault, child molestation, child abuse, those numbers are through the roof. So yea, a hell of a lot more that "most women don't".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:11 PM
1

Got to be honest, you would be a red flag to me. I don't deal with insecure or overly controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:08 PM
3

I feel the exact same way about anyone who follows any Abrahamic religions. It is a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:06 PM
1

No understanding that shit may not be your business at all I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:05 PM
2

JFC and people wonder why I don't drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:04 PM
2

You and me both. Wtf is a cheetos girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:02 PM
2

Um no. Any woman with trauma in her past is going to have issues talking about it. And trust me, if you want to push, she's happy to let you walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:01 PM
1

From experience, I will happy happily tell a guy to go ahead and screw off if he can't stop asking questions when I've said that I'm not going to talk about it. I've had a VERY violent past, full of trauma. The only answer a guy will get until I feel safe or until I choose (Meaning it may be never) is "I have severe PTSD for a reason, I'm not going to talk about it, that is final. "
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:00 PM
-1

My best friend is someone I attempted to date. We were friends before that, stayed friends after. I'll happy lose an insecure guy who thinks they can choose my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:56 PM
4

My best friend is someone that I attempted to date, for a very short time frame, realized that we should have stayed friends, went back to being friends. He has saved my life, literally. I make very clear if a guy tried to give an ultimatum, I'll choose the friend. I'm not choosing new dick over best friend of 30 years who saved my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:54 PM
5

But, mustard is delicious! Ketchup on the other hand....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:50 PM
6

Pretty much this. And yet, usually they can't even reach these common sense requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:35 PM
3

Trust me, I won't. I have no issues anymore telling a man if he's being a POS, I have no issue anymore saying your attitude won't work for me, bye. I am too old old to put up with boys. The first hint a man is a boy, I walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:33 AM
1

I think any one who can't think for themselves is a sad sad person. No matter what ideology it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:34 PM
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Nope, I would rather pay for myself either way. Too many men seem to think that if they pay for something they DESERVE my time or body. I pay for myself, says right up front that I don't owe them shite and it is going to stay that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:26 PM
3

Yup. Which is why I have security cameras, no trespassing signs, and big signs that say trespassers will be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Open my gate, I call the cops, come onto my property, I can the cops. Come into my house, call the morgue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:56 PM
9

I feel you. 3 MILLION people get stalked every year in the United States. 80% of the victims are women. Sad that the laws are crap on this. If they get 4 years it is a miracle. My stalker stalked me for 2 years. He didn't stop because of a restraining order. He stopped because he had a knife on him when he broke the order. I had no idea he was on parole for stabbing his ex wife's new husband. We need a way to be able to see new partners past history. England has, Claire's law, I think it is call…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:07 PM
11

More women get stalked after rejection more than men. Women tend to be very careful about rejection because we know there is a possibility of being harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:20 PM
3

From a woman's point of view, just don't come off creepy. Women tend to be pretty friendly, but if you're asking where we live, immediately asking if we are with someone, makes it sound like you are about to start stalking. Other than that, just try to be natural. We may have the same things in common. I know plenty of other women like myself, who love dnd, online gaming, riding motorbikes, festivals, car shows, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:19 PM
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Um, both of the people closest to me are guys. My best friend has been my best friend since high school, we are both now 43 years old. The other and I have been extremely close friends for 17 years. I can't imagine my life without either of them. They have been with me through boyfriends and husbands. (Been married twice. )
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:12 AM
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I'm not sure I agree with this. I know quite a few young couples where the woman works and the man stays home with the kids. I know couples where both work and both care for the kids and home. I don't think there is a traditional relationship tbh. All couples should be sitting their happy butts down and deciding what is best for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:02 AM
1

I never honestly understood a bunch of makeup. I'll wear lip gloss and eye liner on most days, but on occasion I'll add mascara and eye shadow. Rarely do I wear foundation. I am not one of those women who keep up with what is "in" for make up. If I wear eyeshadow it reflects what color I'm wearing, or something with a hint of green to being out my green eyes. Don't get me wrong, if I knew how to make my nose look different I might try it, I ended up with my mother's hawk nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:42 AM
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I love how excited men get when they learn something new that interests them. Watching my old man's eyes light up when he finds out how to do something new is amazing. I love how he reaches for my hand when we are in public and that he just knows when I'm uncomfortable. I have severe PTSD, so around 4th of July he takes me camping to get me away from the loud noise. I love how even though my dad has issues saying I love you, the first thing he asks me every time he sees me is "is there anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:05 AM
3

I don't give a damn if someone is hot as hell, if I'm out walking my dog or just out walking I want to be left alone. It is my time to unwind, be out in nature, whatever. I spend a lot of time on the trails by the river, in our area it is about 30 miles of walkway that stretches between 4 towns. It is peaceful, but it is also remote. People will be on guard. We live in a low crime area, doesn't change most people going out there are doing so to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:41 AM
3

Don't get me wrong, I feel for men. For centuries things have been a certain way, now everything they expect is in its head, however, things change, that is the way of the world. I don't think women are asking for the moon, we just want to be treated as the equals that we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:01 AM
4

That is his choice, but it means the rest of the world shouldn't have to deal with his why me attitude when he ends up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:38 AM
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Obviously someone that has no idea what women want, which seems to be the issue all around. I'm not going to say that NO woman wants a subservient man, I'm going to say MOST women do not. We don't want to be a parent for our partner. We want a partner, pierod. Women would rather stay single then have to pick up after a man, deal with the entirety of housework, hold a job, be a parent (if they choose) and carry the entire mental load. We aren't interested. If I have to wash up after a man, do a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:44 AM
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I'm no longer single, but after my marriage I was extremely happy being single. My husband was controlling, it was WONDERFUL to buy the square plates I had always wanted (silly I know, but he hated them, it was amazing to own what I wanted for a change. ) Not having to ask permission to go anywhere, not being coerced into things I didn't want to do. Now I don't ask, I make sure we don't have plans already and let him know where I'm going. I enjoy just riding on my moped, long walks in the woods.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:06 PM
5

You see proof where there is none. Women are choosing men who don't treat them like objects, not on us that way too many men see us like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:32 AM
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Promise? Also, how soon can we expect that to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:45 AM
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They prefer virgins because they are seen as easier to control. You can try and wrap in whatever bow you want, but when it comes down to it, men who are looking for virgins are only looking for women who will worship them. All the evidence you need is right here in this sub, incels say it loud and clear CONSTANTLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:35 AM
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Lol, you seem to think they care. Not a one of them is looking for fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:23 AM
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Oh, hmmm. He's never dated anyone like that. One of the things he looks for in a girl is one who can listen to Fleetwood Mac, Queen, ect. With him. Music is a big passion for him. I do understand, I think everyone is looking for someone that they can count on, trust, and be vulnerable with. I'll tell you what I always told him. Don't look for a partner, look for your best friend. That way, even if you don't end up together, you still have your best friend to help you through life. My son and I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:22 PM
2

I don't know what an alt girl is, lol. Maybe just hang in there? For me, I'm happier to have a friend than a maybe relationship, but maybe that is my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:01 PM
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Oh thank Shar! Sorry, I'm old I guess, I don't know all of the lingo anymore. No, he doesn't work out, he's naturally scrawny. He does have waist length dark curls, and huge hazel eyes, but I think that is just me being mom. His ex told me that the way he treated her was why she started "Being into him." She said he just treated her like an actual friend, not a guy that pretends to be a friend in order to get laid. He never made a move on her, he just chilled with her. She said most guys you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:14 PM
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My son? Is 5'6. One of his friends is 6 foot, the other 5'9. If you mean jacked the way I think you do, I would have no idea, I'm his MOM. We are very open with each other, but not, eh, that open.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:51 PM
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I personally don't believe in "weight class". His ex was a gorgeous, 5'2 blue eyed ginger. Glad you guys can't tell him, but I kind of miss her. She was a great girl. One of his autistic friends just told me that he plans on proposing to his girl. She is absolutely beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:45 PM
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I'm going to go with, yes. His first gf was at 15, he got out of a 3 year relationship last year. Thought he was ready to start dating again, he was not. The autistic friends (2) he has have both been in long term relationships (longer than 6 months), one just told me he is thinking of proposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:42 PM
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He got out of a 3 year relationship last year. They lived together for 2 years. His first gf was when he was 15, that one lasted about 6 months. He thought he was ready to date, but it turned out he was not quite yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:40 PM
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He's never dated someone else that was autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:18 AM
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Would never be so coarse, but I know my son dated a girl not long ago. He just got out of a long term relationship, so in his words "I thought I was ready, I wasn't. "
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:00 AM
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People who have no idea what TF they are talking about probably shouldn't bother speaking. I have 2 sisters that were on the front lines in Iraq. Guess what? There is no way in hell they would beg to be a wife, they shot the fuckers. Your low opinion of women, shows why you are what you are. My mom is a semi driver, 2 sisters in the military, I drove semi and tow truck. My best friend works with the highway dept driving a dump truck. I've got another sister who works construction. Another friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:38 AM
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So let me get this straight, you OP, can comment back over and over about how YOU like this or that or wouldn't do this or that, even if that is what other guys do. The entire time you are doing that, you are putting ALL young when in a box saying; well, I don't do this or that like everyone else, but ALL young girls do this or that out whatever. I hope you can see the hypocrisy of this. As you don't like it dislike everything that other guys do or don't, the same with women. Funny enough, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:27 AM
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You're very welcome. It is crazy how these guys act, and sad that people who literally can't pick up on social cues are better with the opposite sex than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:18 AM
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My 24 year old son has autism, as well as several of his friends. They actually do believe in love, treat women with respect, and will absolutely go off on other friends that talk shit about women. As far as I can tell, autistic men treat women better than these AHs do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:11 AM
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I have never cheated. Ever. I also couldn't care less about dick size or tons of muscles. IMHO, there is definitely too big when it comes to dick. I don't feel the need to get hurt, thanks. Your own insecurities and attitude is what is going to keep you from a relationship, exactly like men, women are not the same. Each and every woman has her own attractions/ wants in looks, relationships, ect. What I look for in a man is not going to be what my sisters want in men. Example; I like gingers, my …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:29 AM
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Honestly, as far as I can tell anyone over 30 thinks it is a joke, even in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:51 AM
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You are completely wrong, just so you know. My father raised both my brother and I. My brother is an engineer that spends his free time working on cars. I'm a graphic designer that spends my free time writing on cars. Both of us act more like guys than a hell of a lot of guys that I know who were raised by there SAHM with dad in the picture. Our dad worked, but he is the one that raised us. Mom wasn't in the picture much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:09 AM
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As long as you also think it is just fine for a man to be a trophy husband, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:53 PM
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It isn't on the mother that the "dad" can't or won't hack it. You want to shame a parent, great, shame the one you should shame though. Don't shame the one that stuck around and was actually there for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:20 PM
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I don't think that I can call myself anything. And I think that most people are like me, they aren't just one thing they don't believe in just one ideal. Someone can be completely conservative in some areas, and completely liberal in others. And I think that politicians have lost that idea. And I think that a lot of people even here on Reddit, have to see themselves as one thing or another. But honestly most people are not like that, they go back and forth in what they think, and what they belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:31 PM
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Confidence is a wonderful thing. I respect that. That's not what I'm talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:17 AM
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Oh I'm sure some do. To me it is a different kind of ego. It's the "I'm a God" type of ego. I find it the worst with surgeons. Don't get me wrong, what they do is incredibly honorable. But the God complex just makes it hard to deal with them. There is a huge difference between, I help people get better to without me these people would never have a life. As if there are not other surgeons just as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:48 AM
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Um, I made very clear that it was not ALL doctors. And yes, I have. Ego issues. Probably why I decided never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:42 AM
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I've got to be honest, no part of me had ever wanted to date a doctor. It isn't really the hours, I've dated truck drivers and military. It's the ego. Doctors tend to be way too full of themselves, not all of them, I'm sure, but most that I have met. You are right that a woman had to respect who she is with, but women can respect anyone in any job, provided that he earns that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:31 AM
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No, they read it perfectly well, and answered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:15 AM
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Omg this is all hilarious. Marriage numbers aren't going down because MEN have suddenly decided it hurts their 'power', the numbers are going down because women no longer HAVE to get married. And in record numbers, they are deciding not to. As well as deciding not to have children. As well as deciding they prefer to focus on careers. Numbers and studies are all over the internet you can look them up yourselves. Are there men who have decided not to get married as well? Sure are. But not near in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:08 PM
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He's went through that actually. So yes, we did. He was passed out when it happened, we had discussed it prior. Was a difficult time for him. I got him directly into therapy afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:01 PM
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I have raised a son. I taught him about consent, bringing it up by using himself as an example. would YOU want someone to have sex with you that you were not interested in? Would YOU want to wake up being violated? Would YOU want...ect. Same way with respect. would YOU want financial decisions made about your money done without you? Would YOU want to not have access to your money? Ect. Then on down the list. Physical abuse, mental abuse, verbal abuse. I found that if I taught this way it woke hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:25 PM
3

This. And it was the first thing I thought of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:09 PM
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I have worked with a lot of domestic violence victims, I don't think guys realize how often abusers hide birth control, throw it out all together, or simply deny it. We've had cases of rape for the sole purpose of keeping control of the victim, by forcing children on the victim. It is the same thing over and over. Think thousands of cases, just in Indiana, not even major metropolitan areas. I'm not saying women never do things like you are saying, I am saying forced pregnancy is not a either or …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:29 AM
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This is absolutely untrue. I've started over several times, now in my 40s and funny enough, still fine. You absolutely can move on just fine after a bad relationship no matter how old you are. Widows do it literally all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:27 PM
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Silence is fine provided you are ending the relationship. It is usually favored. Don't expect to pull the silence thing and stay in a relationship. That is flat out childish. I've never cheated, ever, but I wish to God a couple of them would have just shut the hell up and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:43 PM
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Do you keep up with the news? I'm seeing more women killed by their SOs, not less. Covid had made domestic abuse numbers skyrocket, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:08 PM
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Nope, not a bit. I'm 42 and honestly I feel an incredible amount of pity for the younger generation of women. They have so much to deal with, and sexual harassment seems to have gotten worse, not better. They do have more options, but even with that all I hear is how their family tries to make them feel horrible for making their own choices. I'm honestly happy to be in a good place in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:51 PM
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Honestly, I don't see where any of the pills fit into real life. They are what they are typed, and on social media, but in the real world? That seems to be the issue at hand in general. Too many people need to get the heck off social media and go out and actually live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:02 PM
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Of course not, that's the fucking point. No one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:49 PM
5

No, I didn't settle. I've known him 28 years now. But I was not stupid enough to think his looks were the only thing to him. I do happen to think he's good looking, but it doesn't matter a bit. In 28 years he's not physically the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:21 PM
4

Any one can fuck each other senseless. The shot that actually lasts? Not about looks. He's going to get old. She's going to get old. That is just natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:19 PM
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Normal people are not, in actuality super attracted to their partners. That fantasy is for young people. Very young people. It is other things besides looks that win someone over. If all it is, is looks, most people know exactly how badly that is going to end. Looks fade, that funny personality? That sticks around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:08 PM
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My dad does his own damn dishes. I can't even imagine him attempting to tell anyone in his life to do something for him. He's a strong believer in you clean up after your damn self and I'm thankful for that lesson. Guess that is the difference between a real man and child.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/22 08:36 AM
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No, no they don't. JFC grow up. If someone completely believes in defending their home they will continue to feel that way no matter what is going on.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/22 08:33 AM
1

Stable population, not over population. And yes, I would fully gave the music if that was needed. There are already states that allow suicide help. But that is not what I'm meaning. Obviously. JFC The current population is what 7.6 billion? What was it 100 years ago? I'm not saying we need to kill off people, I'm saying let's be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:14 AM
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I mean honestly the best thing that could happen is a huge decline in population. Earth doesn't have the resources to keep this up forever. But most people are living their life as they always have. It isn't like any of this is new. The internet just makes it more in your face. There will always be people that stay single by choice. There will always be people who do not need to be committed to another person. Again, this is not new. The difference now is those women can afford to be on their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:29 PM
8

Yes, they absolutely know. It is why women have hysterectomies and never look back. Motherhood is not something that you "grow into" wanting. You know. You are still doing it, women are not children who might change their mind. We don't suddenly wake up and go OMG I totally want kids. No. Nope. Never. If we know, we know. We spend a lot of time figuring that out about ourselves before we make that choice. Stop treating us like infants . You know what having children does to women who don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:08 AM
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No dude, we know. I knew for a fact I didn't want kids because I knew I had mental illnesses that could pass to them as they did to me. I was on the pill when I got pregnant with my son. He has our family illnesses. You seem to think that women don't know exactly what they want or why, we don't need a man or children to know what we want or don't want. Our WHY we do our don't want those things. Best thing you can do is stop assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:35 AM
3

Screw that shit, I don't much like the thought of being some helpless bitch. Gun in hand defending the home thanks
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 05:04 PM
5

Thank you. I'm not trying to be a dick. I'm giving MY experience. That's it.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 08:50 PM
3

I'm calm. But what I have was what I have experienced, not a statistic. You don't get to change what I and others have been through. Not once did I say this happens to this many women... ect. I made very clear what happened to ME and people I know.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 08:49 PM
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He wanted opinions and I gave him exactly what I've dealt with along with several of my friends. You don't have to like it, as I made very clear, if his partner is WILLING to stay home, it is a non issue. You just don't get to force them to.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 08:36 PM
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I'm going to try and answer the best I can here. If that is something she also wants, then there is no issue, however, if she wants to be in the workplace then it does become an issue. I'm not a feminist as many of you seem to see it, I have my own battles, as does everyone. From my own experience, and those of whom I am close to, working as a woman means she gets say in finances, and though I would love to say it is an age thing, some men, prefer a woman to stay home not just because they want …
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 08:01 PM
1

No, as in literally I for one will die single of shit doesn't worth out. I'm not going back to that scene. And yea, no shit, but as the op had about 20 different comments on what casual sex was...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:33 PM
3

Honestly this whole thing makes me kind of laugh. I'm a whole 5'2 and actually prefer a guy not much taller then myself, but .... my old man is 6 foot. I've never really seen the point of height requirements, but I fully accept that everyone is attracted to what ever the heck they are attracted to. I like mine pale and scrawny, preferably ginger. But again... black hair on the old man. When you meet one that just clicks, looks don't matter as much. IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:25 AM
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I mean honestly my friends and I feel too dang old for casual sex. I guess casual sex to me though is a one night stand, and rarely was that something most of us did even when young. Now, friends with benefits, that we've done. Meaning we were friends with that person for a long time, we trusted them, but knew a relationship was not in the cards for that person or that time. We were also honest about that. I, for one, made very clear during that part of my life (after my divorce) that anything c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:01 AM
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The problem with that is proving abuse. Many times it does not leave marks. You can look at court cases to see how difficult this is. Verbal, emotional, financial, sexual abuse is all even harder to prove than physical, and yet we know it happens. Often. Part of the reason that abusers get away with it for so long is manipulating the abused to believe it is their fault. No fault divorce gets those out who can't prove it. Who the hell wants to be in a marriage they aren't happy in? Control tends …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:26 AM
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Honestly the issue with making both people agree to divorce is abuse. One partner is not going to simply let the other go. It becomes another control situation where the abused becomes stuck because they have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:11 PM
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I will point out where you wrong, though you are right on quite a bit of it, there is something that is not in your statistics. Before I do, I'll point out that I deal with those that have been sexually assaulted pretty often. The actual reason a lot of rapes are not reported is because of victim shaming. Pierod. 9 out of 10 women that I have dealt with did not go to law enforcement about the assault because they knew if it went to court, they would be the ones on trial. What were wearing. Were …
/r/MensRights16/02/22 03:14 AM
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I don't think it really matters tbh. The only time I had to stop and go, hmm maybe not, was when I realized the guy I was dating was only 4 years older than my son and they had more in common. It was time to move on. But honestly, guys that are much younger have the sex drive that older women do. 20 something year old women don't tend to have that yet. And 40 something year old men are past it. So it was a good fit at that time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:03 AM
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Nothing, nothing makes me ignore it. No means fucking no. It does not mean keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:11 AM
-4

They are not going to stop. I've read the same articles, you are 100% right. The issue is a lot of the men on this sub think a woman's body is their property, not her own. So why should there be laws. He can't give you links because he's full of it. Do yourself a favor and go to a sub where there are actual human beings, not trash that think it is ok to rape women and children.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 07:35 PM
6

Um neither. Courts deal with this constantly. An at home paternity test is simple to do. You seem to think women should be faithful because they can get pregnant, that isn't the way life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:22 PM
5

Pregnancy affects both parents unless he is fully a piece of shit who walks away from the kid, so again. Not a bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:03 PM
9

"The fact that women can now cheat on you without legal repercussions " Excuse me, what now?? There have never been legal repercussions for men who cheat, why in the fuck should there be for women. And oh no, you might be in a no fault divorce. Yea, that's cause no one should be stuck with someone who they aren't happy with. Look, you are free to screw around all you want, just don't get pissed off when the women you are with do the same. If you can do it, so can she.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:43 PM
1

Hahaha Omg you honestly think that don't you. That is so cute! Funny, I know plenty of women who do every one of those jobs. But again, you aren't needed. If you don't act like the jerk you are acting like now, someone may WANT you at some point. But no one needs you.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 05:29 AM
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It's cute that you think that. But even if true, did not mean they are NEEDED. Which was the question. His financial situation did not make him NEEDED. His "brains" do not make him NEEDED. Funny enough thousands upon thousands of women do just fine without men. Just as the same amount of men do just fine without women. But more to the point what does "intellectual achievement " have anything to do with a relationship? Here, let me answer that, absolutely nothing.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 05:12 AM
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There is no need for the other. Plenty of people live single and very happy never needing a member of the opposite sex. When I lived alone (best years of my life) If I didn't know how to do something I either paid someone to do it or used YouTube in order to learn. There is absolutely nothing men can do that women can not and vice versa. Except maybe lift something, I've had to call my brother for heavy lifting, that's it.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 03:04 AM
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I highly doubt it. I would like to think that something could change my mind, but I refuse to be talked down to, treated like an idiot, degraded, ect. For simply being female.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:41 PM
1

I'm wondering if perhaps this is an age gap. Maybe I am behind. I'm 42, so it isn't like I'm running around on the dating scene anymore. I just can't imagine that it has changed that much since I was dating. My step daughters are in their late teens early 20s, they have told me that their girl friends are hos if they jump into bed first date. My son is 22 he won't sleep with a girl first date, but I'll be the first to admit he is more sensitive than his sisters are, he's also autistic, but I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:53 AM
2

Women are not one size fit all. Neither are guys. I honestly do not know any women that jump right into bed with a guy. Not unless a crap ton of alcohol was involved. That didn't mean it is something she does on a usual basis. It means she drank too much and did something stupid, and feels like shite about it. The woman making you wait 4,5,6 dates, may have just come out of a sexually abusive relationship. There are a ton of reasons for what women do, the EXACT same as there being a ton of reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:21 PM
2

I think I'm confused. You are quite happy to gaslight someone for simply wanting to see if you are a good match. But you don't think that makes you a bad person? Just because she is not comfortable enough with you to sleep with you on the first date is not a lie. Especially if she is willing to feel you out on a second. A lot of women still go by the 3rd date rule. By then we have gotten a good idea of what a guy is like, we feel. That is not a lie. Sleeping with someone for most people, is a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:03 PM
2

No that you assume you are entitled to their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:47 PM
2

So you really do not get that your behavior and attitude towards women would make women assume that? Think about it, if a women went in lying to you, and had the attitude that you were less than. You would pick that up. You would assume that she is going to abuse you in some way. Either by degrading you or actual abuse. Dating is not lying. It is, let's see IF this might work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:46 PM
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I have mental health issues as well. It wasn't until I started dealing with them in a healthier way that I was able to take care of myself again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:06 PM
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I am a survivor of child sexual abuse. As an adult I've been raped, violently on 3 occasions. I had a stalker for 3 years, my first husband was abusive and sexually assaulted me. I am an advocate for women now. But no, how would I know what kind of men are abusive? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:04 PM
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If they did the guys like you would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:01 PM
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That is so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:00 PM
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That is really sad and I hope you get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:36 AM
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Self respect does not come off as creepy asf. This comes off as creepy asf. But yes, listen to men about what WOMEN think. That's going to get you somewhere. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:41 AM
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Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:30 AM
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A date does not mean they find you sexually attractive. It means they like SOMETHING about you and want to see if that will grow. I've dated plenty of men that I wasn't positive if I was super attracted to them but I really liked other things about them. As I got to know them I liked those things more and more and it made them more attractive to me. You implying that everyone that dates find each other sexually attractive is just...naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:29 AM
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Oh he's definitely single for a reason, and from reading this it is definitely because he is a sexual abuser of women, or wants to be. Either way women can smell that crap, and stay far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:22 AM
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Let me get this straight. A woman should screw every one on a first date, AND they should be a virgin or have a low body count? I mean honestly, guys can't seem to figure what the hell they want, but they all expect women to just be... all of it. There are reasons women don't go for it the first date, and that is mainly because we've been told for CENTURIES that we are to not give it up easily. It is also to see if he will get violent or aggressive when told no. Both pretty good damn reasons. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:19 AM
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It really depends on the why. And that includes adding yourself, is this because of our relationship? Let me explain. When someone goes into severe depression they literally can not get up the energy to do anything. Shower, exercise, work.... So if your partner starts not doing anything, trying to figure out why would be a good start. Women especially go into depression when being abused. How are you taking to the partner? By no means am I saying you are an abuser, but, many people do not realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:11 AM
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I have more issues with the 16 year old who is being groomed by a 25 year old. Being told you're mature for your age, no, pedophile. Even though I don't think a big age difference is a great idea, as an adult, to me, that is your decision. When you are a minor, it is just.... not ok. Full stop. But honestly if you are not at a different area in life at 25 than an 18 year old, you may have your own issues. And with 35 and 21. After about 25 it pretty much evens out on age mattering, you are worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:58 AM
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I honestly don't care if they make sex work legal. It would make being a sex worker much freaking safer. But I doubt prices would be like that. If they can skip the pimp they can charge what THEY want to. I think a lot of people forget that. Plus, let's be honest, you would need a really good relationship with your doctor if you are going to see one, cause you are going to start needing to see one a lot. They can say say all they want they don't have stds but what do you really know? But in all …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:36 AM
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You are probably right, but for myself, it changed how I dealt with people. I wish I could still be that person, but I don't feel safe that way anymore. I think that it changes a lot of people who either are sexually assaulted, harrassed, stalked. My old man was also a victim of sexual assault, it changed the way he deals with people as well. I'm also a type of advocate, not since covid, and I see the same in others who have dealt with it. It makes me think that the person who wrote this was als…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:38 PM
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I mean, it has nothing to do with privilege, however, that is a big reason women do not randomly compliment men. There has definitely been times I have thought a guy had amazing eyes, great hair, whatever. But that thought was there. What if this becomes a stalker situation? You may laugh, but I've had a stalker. 3 years of hell. It changes how you think.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 10:46 PM
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And so many of you wonder why you can't get women to like you. A) come off desperate B) come off angry and abusive. Yea, gosh, I wonder what the issue is.... Then you listen to ONLY other men in the same situation instead of the women that you actually want relationships with. No one is going to wait for you buddy. Not in this day and age. Not when too many women have realized that if we marry the first asshole that asks he tends to be an abusive prick. Instead we go into relationships to see wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:48 PM
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I'm not sure this 100% true. For both my previous marriage and in my current relationship, it has been them that wanted marriage. I was not/am not interested. I went ahead and married my now ex husband. I refuse to marry my bf. It is important to him, and I do understand that, and I am willing to do a ceremony with him but nothing involving the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:18 AM
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The biggest issue, from what I see, is that men have a tendency to simply do absolutely nothing in the home. I don't think either should be expected to do everything, no matter the working hours. As an adult, if you dirty a dish, clean the dish. If you cook, the other cleans up, whatever. But a partner is not a nanny, don't expect us to be. We are not here to pick up your dirty socks and make you lunch. The next is to just be a parent when you become one. You never offer to babysit your own kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:25 AM
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Am I misreading this? It sounds like "as a tax payer in entitled to sex". Lose the entitlement and you may find yourself with someone. More and more I'm seeing guys that think they are owed sex, not the way it works. And women can smell entitlement a mile off. Treat women as the humans they actually are and they gravitate towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:05 PM
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It isn't important to women. It is important to guys. Guys are literally the only ones who ever bring it up. Usually they are the same guys who send dick picks (never asked for and brain bleach is needed.) Women may chat with other women about her man's size, but it is not requested information. I do realize that I'm a bit older in this crowd (or seem to be) but women do not change that drastically in such a short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:29 AM
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That is not right, and it by definition makes them NOT feminist. That is horrible, and should absolutely be fought for, not against. Shameful.
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 02:17 AM
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So, the only true women to you are women who aren't victims? I'm not going to apologize for being a sexual assault victim. I'm not going to apologize for being a CHILD sexual assault victim. I'm not going to apologize for being a domestic violence victim. There are many of us, and none of us should have to feel as if we are not to be heard. I'm Also a survivor. But that does not make me less of a victim.
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 02:16 AM
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So do you just not understand the definition of feminism? By definition it is "the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes." Not more, not less. Equal. It is looking a lot like some of you have been dealing with women who are not, by definition, actually feminist. Feminist bring up abuses by men not to say all men are bad, but to say, this has gone on long enough unchecked. For those of us who actually believe in equality, we are just as outraged with false rape clai…
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 02:07 AM
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It's adorable how any of you think women care about your opinion on her clothes. We have dealt with victim shaming forever, your issues, are just that, YOUR issues. Would I wear a dress like that? Nope, but it is MY body to make that choice. And you're right, YOU get to choose to leave..... over a dress. She's the one that dodged that bullet.
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 01:29 AM
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I have a line I draw I guess. It is one thing if it is a common scam say a credit card company scam. It is a whole different thing to me if said man just wanted naked videos and stupid enough to send account info or buys some sort of pay card. That is his own damn lust and he deserves whatever he gets. Especially since most of those "hot chicks" are dudes with internet access.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:00 AM
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I'm looking at this from a quite different point of view I think. My son is 22, I've met probably all of his friends. The way one or two of them talk to women, if I was that age, I would not touch them either. You can't expect a relationship, or even a hook up if you are calling your date bitch, literally every other time you are addressing her. Not pointing fingers at anyone, maybe no one here does this. But WOMEN do not put up with it, girls do, and that just lands one in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:06 PM
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Funny how they never bring females into this study, when females are just as important in a wolf pack as males. Anyone who has studied wolf packs would know that wolves not only mate for life, they tend to rule a pack together. There have even been studies done that show when the alpha died his mate takes over the pack. Often they start as family packs anyway and other wolves are slowly allowed to join if they prove loyal. Doesn't fit their narrative I guess. (Played a lycan in a fantasy based g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:15 AM
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You seem to believe I've had some fairy tale life. My life has been full of abuse. I've been one of those innocents that were tortured. I've lived in a cage. By no means do I live in some fantasy world. But if you come across to others as hateful, and I'm being compassionate here, as you have been. It is going to end a relationship before it starts. Life is, let's be honest, fucking horrible. But everyone one of us have others who feel as we do. Friends, coworkers we vibe with, ect. We have to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:39 PM
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You are obviously looking for something you are not going to find. You have to much hate in you right now. You aren't seeing what is actually happening around you. No, a woman may not come straight out and say she's looking for casual sex. What she will say is not looking for long term or looking to date. Or "looking for a friend" Are you that out of it that you can't see what is front of you? My best friend married a guy she met in a dating site. But I also have friends that meet their spouses …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:38 PM
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That goes both ways. I am now married, however, 6 years ago when I was in the dating scene men were just as bad about not being upfront about what they wanted. If you just want casual sex, be upfront about that, there are plenty of women who only want that as well. If you want long term, be upfront about that as well. But I, for one, did not appreciate being called a slut or bitch because I was not also looking for casual sex. I did not appreciate being called names because I am not personally a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:34 AM
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You know what, I was initially going to ignore this, but. My husband was raped at the age of 14 and was dealing with child support, she only did that to force him to sign off his rights to her husband. She only raped him because her husband could not have children. You don't know me. You don't know what I stand for. You don't get to judge based on what you think I stand for. Whether you believe it or not, I don't give a damn. I absolutely want equal rights. You on the other hand, have proved tha…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 01:20 AM
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I'm not a feminist, and in no way do I support the movement, it has turned into a full hilt shit show. I fully support women's rights, I also fully support human rights, including the right to be hired/promoted based on qualifications and absolutely nothing else. I don't believe that anyone deserves MORE, only equal.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:18 PM
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Where in the world did I ever say it is good to kill children? Never not once. When it comes down to it this thread looks to be more about abortion, and that is not child killing. There is no child involved. Now, If I have misunderstood and it is not about abortion I am fully happy to admit a mistake and move into a different course of discussion.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:12 PM
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Wrong thread, sorry not that
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:06 PM
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Grow up
/r/MensRights06/01/22 11:39 AM
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There is still too many complications for teenagers up until about 17. A females hips are not fully developed, her breasts have not fully filled out. Though males stop growth at around 21, females stop growth at about 17, which is why most countries have upped the age of consent over the last century from 13/14 to 16/17. On top of that emotionally and mentally neither mature until early 20s. There are reasons that the age of consent had went up.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:46 AM
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If that is what you need to believe go for it. We literally are struggling with resources, more people is not really the answer. If we can not do at the very least a 1-1 ratio of adult to child to simply keep the population as it is, there will be little left for any up coming generations. Do not presume that you understand the kind of person I am. And I've already lost people in wars.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:19 AM
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No, that is flat out pedophile behavior. A 14 year old is a CHILD.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 09:16 AM
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EDIT: I HAVE MADE A TERRIBLE MISTAKE. I am not above confessing to a mistake or apologizing for it. I was under the impression that this thread was about ABORTION, not actual child murder. I apologize profusely, I do NOT condone murder of children. I am very, very sorry for my misunderstanding of the thread.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:34 AM
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Sorry, I'm not an arsehole. That isn't right. No matter who does not consent, lack of consent is rape. Maybe spend more of you energy on promoting rights, less on being angry with others.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:22 AM
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Ok I'm going to bring up a huge one on here, but it needs to be said. We, as a society blame a 14 year old girl for getting knocked up and being a single mother when the father (80% of the time according to the last statistics I read) was 22 or over. First of all, this should be pedophile behavior. Second, age of consent means 2 16 years old have the legal ability to consent. Not for a 25 year old to be a pedophile. Stop blaming the parent that actually stayed, at least one of them did. I have d…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 06:46 AM
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Today's feminism is a slap in the face to any and every woman IMO. Women's rights absolutely needs to be a top issue. And we need to stop dealing with any and all countries that step on those rights the exact same way we are now banning slave labor. Feminism, on the other hand, has become some sort of monster of poor me, kill men. That was never the intention of those that originally called themselves feminist, or even those of the 60s, 70s and 80s. These new feminist find human rights violation…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 06:29 AM
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Ok, I have to ask. What countries? I have never in my life heard of this.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 06:07 AM
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