Tricky_Somewhere7901 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Ex has moved again and I can't contact my child, no address to serve, attorney can't do shit. Anyone dealt with this? Bro I have no advice to give. This is above my pay grade. Just sympathy and encouragement to keep your chin up.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/23 02:25 AM
3	Just sitting here thinking. Please elaborate. Would love to hear your thoughts.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 08:00 PM
3	How do i go about dealing with probable adultery between U.S embassy coworker and my wife? If you guys married in the US there might be a sliver of a chance to get the Diplomat's feet on the fire. Given that you married outside of the US, nothing can be done. What happened is a reflection of her and not you. If you can swing it, take an extended leave of absence from work and take time to heal, rejuvenate and piece yourself back together. A trip to a tropical paradise with lots of sun, beach and sea food. Perhaps bring a friend for the first week or two to help you stay balanced.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 07:49 PM
6	Just sitting here thinking. Poor choice on their part. Love and forgive them. Let them know that right now is not the time to judge and criticize but to embrace, love and support you during this life shattering event. Sure they may have warned you about "Sally" being trouble from the day they first saw her but... really? Pushing your snout on the proverbial pile of poo right now is not where they should be at. Kindly and lovingly let them know.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 07:09 PM
13	Just sitting here thinking. All the time. Personally speaking, my big take away is that more of us men need to be taught at a younger age that relationships are like gardens. They must be sowed, cultivated, fertilized, tilled, harvested and generally just maintained so as to keep on producing fruits. Sometimes, outside of your own control a pest comes or an early frost and wrecks havoc on your garden. Careful and regular inspection of the garden and it's environment is necessary in order for it to be around for the long ha…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 06:50 PM
11	Wife wants me to move out for the month of January, anything I should be concerned about from a legal perspective? Do not leave your child alone with that woman. Get her the help she needs but you need to lean on your fam/network to help with the kids while she sorts her shit out. EDIT: And as others have said. Do not leave your home!!	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 02:52 AM
1	Christmas Eve I hear you Brother. I would categorize myself just as you did. My wife is currently on the same trajectory not being grounded. I felt myself being pulled in that direction but made a conscious decision that I would not be dragged down with her. She has left me and took the boys. Divorce is likely in my near future if she doesn't snap out of it. It has been 8 weeks since I have seen my boys. If you are a man of faith, ask God to allow you to carry this burden without loosing yourself as our wives…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 09:05 PM
2	Christmas Eve Grab on to your sanity and realize that your wife is ungrounded. Something in her is not clicking for her to act and behave like this. You are asking to get the same dose of what she is on if you keep chasing. Edit: Grammar	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 06:55 PM