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| 1 | Do girls like "nice guys" or "bad boys"?They like the nice guy if he's genuine. They hate both if they're just a bunch of tryhards acting disingenuous, hoping to end up in their pants. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How do bad boys/jerks approach?I hope so, good luck! | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | How do bad boys/jerks approach?Mostly experience. I've been through the journey I've described myself and now I'm trying to help people bypass and mental blockage they may have. If you wanna read stuff, I recommend you read girlschase. If you go there, stick to Chase Amante's articles. The others are kinda tryhards, but he gives good advice about pretty much anything. He also has a book which you can find for free in a PDF format. Forgot what it's called, though. Oddly enough, he's very focused on game though, but in his case… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 01:26 PM |
| 3 | How do bad boys/jerks approach?Well, you don't need to become the genuine guy. That's who you are. That's why it's called 'genuine'. Most guys don't realize it, but they keep trying to seem what they are not, by either being overly nice or by trying to act like jerks. And believe it or not, both acts are a turn off because women can sense a tryhard. Game is good for beginners who suffer from the nice guy syndrome. Once you learn what to do in order to not be a nice guy, you no longer need game. Guys who keep gaming after they… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | disbelief someone is interested in meYour mentality is gonna make you fail and you're gonna turn her off. Be confident, make her laugh, take her number and go on a date. Don't do any tryhard shit. You already know that she likes you. Just be yourself. If you encounter any resistance, laugh it off and don't think about it. Girls will do that even if they like you. Act like you're the guy who's in the top league, not her. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'm sorry but it's your fault. He's obviously fine with making you his girlfriend. You're just manipulative right now and sending him the wrong signals. And I know that you are afraid that he might only want you for sex, but I'm pretty sure it's not the case. Him talking with you all the time and drunk texting you makes it pretty clear that he actually digs you and sees you more than a ONS. The problem is that from what you shared with us, I can tell that he might genuinely think that you're the… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 01:10 AM |
| -4 | How do bad boys/jerks approach?Dude. First of all - r/niceguys Second of all, I don't think we have any self-proclaimed jerks here. We're all decent people who for some reason have / have had issues with approaching women and we are trying to fix those issues by helping each other. I first joined this community as well as many others a few years ago, from another account which I deleted because I needed a break from reddit. I've gradually managed to learn to pull chicks in a couple of minutes. Currently in a 13 month relation… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 6 | I(22F) can banter and chat with guys I don’t like but not with a crushYou don't have to worry about it. Guys approach girls because they like how they look. In that sense, your behavior comes second. Keep this in mind and act normal. If a guy you like approaches you, assume that he likes you. There's a huge chance you might be right. Simply make sure you're having fun. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | If a girl loses interest in you, is it a wrap? Or is there still a chance to get her interested again?Dude talking to a girl isn't a bad thing. Especially if you were in quarantine and had no way of seeing her. Taking to a girl endlessly without asking her out, when you can and should be asking, is a bad thing. Stop worrying about bullshit like mystery and stuff. If you're still talking, tell her that you wanna see her when the quarantine is over. It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | If a girl loses interest in you, is it a wrap? Or is there still a chance to get her interested again?Give us some context, OP. The short answer: they do come back, especially if they've been interested before, but with a few conditions. What absolutely needs to happen is you come back to normal yourself. Acting needy and catching feelings for a girl who is not your gf is not normal. If she was interested in the past is because she saw something that you were doing right and that you stopped doing when you became needy. Figure it out, stop what you're doing right now, get your mind off of her (w… | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Should I keep wingman-finder.com up?The idea sounds good but why make it worldwide from the very beginning when you had no users? Every big site/app started on a local level and formed their base from there. Give it another shot from a local level, especially if you live in a big city. Imagine having a wingman option on tinder, that idea really sounds cool, but you need to build a base somewhere. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | No contact rule and reattractionGive it time and see if you still want her after a while. If the answer is yes, you can totally hit her up and talk casually and see where it goes. This no contact bullshit is often misinterpreted and also quite manipulative. On top of that it will lead you into bullshitting yourself. The purpose of this said no contact rule is to get your mind off of her, not to wait for a period, then once that period is over you will magically reset her feelings. So going into no contact to get her back is th… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Any seduction advice tips for women who like women?I'm guessing that you should simply try whatever works on you | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:16 PM |
| 5 | A Story of RejectionShe invited you over so she liked you. You seem quite inexperienced, since you keep repeating to yourself what to do then you're trying to rationalize with her. You basically told her 'I thought you were dtf' which is creepy and one of the biggest turnoffs out there. If you run into her just say hi and smile and only talk to her if she stops you. Other than that, just leave it. All you had to do that night was not think about sex. All you had to do was was to flirt, joke around and have a fun ti… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | My dates are so draining and boring and I dislike wahmenWhy does it feel so draining to do everything for girls in order to get sex/relationship ? After reading this line I don't need to read further, because the problem is right there. You are going out just to getsex or a relationship and you don't seek to form a connection, you are not trying to get to know those girls. You're too focused on an outcome - sex / relationship. This is why nice guys fail. They're too focused on their desired outcome and this is when they come off as desperate. I'm not… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:05 PM |
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