| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | It’s heartbreaking how common this is, a nurse in the comments shares how often she see’s this happening. | MALE DEPRAVITY | TriggeredQuilt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:54 AM |
| 6 | Rules to live by | QUEEN SH*T | TriggeredQuilt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 56 | STD testing before intimacyAs soon as things naturally become sexual. I bring it up as a requirement if things are to go further because it’s a win/win. They agree? Great some sexy time. They don’t or refuse with things like “so you don’t think I’m clean?” “I haven’t slept with that many people” “Why do I have to? Don’t you trust me?” Red flags. And sex is completely off the table. This is 100% a deal breaker for me. They need to be prepared to get tested and prove they are clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 09:06 AM |
| 22 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".Not which men, MOST men don’t call out misogyny or their predatory friends so it might as well be all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 12 | “Girls have it easy” since fucking when??? • @cayleecresta on TikTok roasting a musty loser for minimizing the female struggle & also devaluing women for simply not cooking for his entitled ass. Although that app is full of groomers and weird men, I’m thankful there are HVW on that platform as well.This is also the guy who say we don’t have to deal with gravity when working out like guys do. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:18 PM |
| 157 | Fucking idiot 🤡Terrible creative writing. Not that I’m surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 70 | Safe spaces for women CANNOT have men! If men are included it ceases to be a safe space for women.It’s so weird and I see it on a lot on Women of xyz groups on Facebook that have an abnormal amount of men and even part of the rules seem to welcome men. Why bother calling it women of xyz just call it xyz. This is the only sub where I can feel grateful knowing it’s just women. Why do all these men want to join these women safe spaces. Just feels weird and creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 11:02 AM |
| 9 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡Just showing their lack of education. Good grief how can you live a life being that stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:43 PM |
| 12 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.This was beautiful. Being firm in my relationship I’ve made it clear what my expectations are and he knows if he isn’t able to then it won’t work. I’ve been there carrying burden being the only one making effort. I go for exactly what I want no because I know I deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 05:07 AM |
| 50 | This. Is. Horrifying. Husband thinks it’s okay her sister was physically abused and went to the hospital by her boyfriend. Wife hasn’t mentioned leaving him in either post (that I’ve seen)I read a few of her previous posts after seeing that and her husband has been LVM from the get go. Hope she wises up and leaves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 13 | Imagine being so mentally weak that your entire mood depends on over-identifying with men who throw a ball around.And women are the emotional ones 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:55 AM |
| 11 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Proud of you 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 07:43 PM |
| 68 | Her cancer diagnosis causes HIM anxiety so he leaves - now she’s considering stopping life-saving treatment to coax him back home.I just posted this (deleted now) when I read through the comments there are too many nurses who have seen this happen where the husband leaves after a diagnosis like this. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 4 | It’s heartbreaking how common this is, a nurse in the comments shares how often she see’s this happening.I hope the OP has a support system in this tough time. They will find the strength to beat cancer and here’s hoping they can heal from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:59 AM |
| 21 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”How on earth did he become a husband if they have been having this argument “time and time again” and now a baby on the way so she’s tied to him for ever. Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:02 AM |
| 11 | another one from the online dating worldBeautiful dragging. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 36 | another one from the online dating worldWhere is this from? Like seeing an op getting dragged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockIt’s the opposite for me, I block when I no longer care to continue the interaction. You bring no value or your opinion is not something I’m going to convince you to change. I don’t need to convince, educate or endure you. Goodbye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:16 AM |
| 18 | Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating”100000% I legit have everything I had, paid for everything planed our dates, his phone broke got him a new one all for im needy for wanting to talk more than twice a week. I was a real 🤡 I set my expectations with my current partner and he continues to exceed them 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!Compared kissing animals to cheating…did I get that right? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 86 | A "compliment" that men need to stop usingAny back handed compliment the most common from black men being “I’m pretty for a black girl” take that self hate colourism somewhere else mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 04:36 AM |
| 9 | Freeloading scrotes 😐I hope she ran for the hills. Anyone who agrees to this is a 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:34 AM |
| 181 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?They love male validation over their own spouse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:44 AM |
| 24 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?I think one is the main ones is that they are not allowed in this space. They are very entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]These look amazing 🤎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 05:13 AM |
| 9 | Roe will likely be overturned.I’m just stunned by all this but grateful I don’t live anywhere near the us. Please ladies protect yourself and don’t become trapped with an oops baby. It is not worth it! Put yourself first always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 07:11 AM |
| 16 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Thinking I was not like the other girls and always wanting to be the only girl in any group setting. Embarrassing! 🤦🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:00 AM |
| 24 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.They make it sound so hyperbolic and wild. Avoid bad relationships and protecting yourself from abuse and being taken advantage of. So evil 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 7 | I have no wordsWell isn’t this the consequence of his own actions who would have thought. What a 🤡 this is hilarious hopefully she ensures not to return to this fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:55 AM |
| 8 | Never beg a man to marry youWhy did it take him not wanting pics on social media for her to not feel comfortable about their relationship! What about begging him for marriage? Having the wedding you didn’t dream of? Socials is the last straw? It sounds like she wanted an Instagram marriage and was too blind to notice her man doesn’t give a shit about her. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:45 AM |
| 64 | [deleted by user]This 1000 I literally could stare at my man all day he’s so damn hot. He’s really tall as well and has a amazing body. Has tattoo’s, beautiful eyes with long eyelashes, extremely generous lover always putting my needs first 😍 The people who continually preach that looks do not matter at all are happy to settle. That doesn’t mean I am. Looks will always matter stop spreading that nonsense!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 199 | “Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”One of the comments in the tik tok is a woman who nursed her husband back to health after an accident, he learned to walk again made a full recovery. She later developed cancer and he left because it was “too much for him” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 12:01 AM |
| 37 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupHow can he have the mind set of not owing her anything after how much she has done for him? Shouldn’t he want to find the biggest and best way to show her how much he appreciates her for what she did??? These men legit act like they do not even like the women they are dating. If you do not think your woman deserves the world and strive to get that then you don’t want her. These are the same dudes who will complain about getting flowers for their wife because it’s not a special occasion. Hope she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:08 AM |
| 10 | Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.Lmao this isn’t even an exaggeration. My current partner is exceeding all expectations. So glad I don’t have to deal with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:59 PM |
| 33 | Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.The bar is so low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 33 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Any guy that asks me if I like white men. Any BM that compliments me by putting down other black women example: you’re not as loud or some black women. Or any back handed compliments that have anything to do with race or other woman just a hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 6 | I'm done with men shorter than meNo more charity work! Unless you are genuinely interested in someone can we put the “I’ll give him a chance” to rest. Short dudes always have the biggest chip on their shoulder and need constant reassurance. Next please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:01 AM |
| 29 | Racist scrote had it comingSo much doubt here I happily challenge ANY WOC to want to be called racial or derogatory terms in the bedroom. His racism was showing and he was caught. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:01 PM |
| 16 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysMy partner is 3 years younger than me, more mature, attentive, caring and takes genuine interest in my interests. What’s important to me is also important to him. So many green flags! Hand down the best person I have ever been with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 29 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.As soon as he text was having drinks with a colleague I would have said no thank you there. Not even bother leaving the house and enjoy my free day. If he can’t even prioritise you for a date you will never be a priority. Girl miss me with all that mess :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:24 PM |
| 21 | SOS girl wherever you are please come find us 😔✊Plz I’m dieing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:35 AM |
| 18 | “My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh”My partners view of physical touch is holding hands. Any time a dude tried to make things sexual Easley on that was a nope from me. ✌🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:44 AM |
| 18 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.I’m not bothered I like this account and FDS scotes can stay mad if they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 06:36 AM |
| 53 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.As a dark skinned women I had to deal with a lot of BM who had some form of self hatred routed in colourism and would openly express how much they preferred lighter skinned women, my brother included. A lot of BM always want to talk about “what do you bring yo the table” when they don’t offer much of anything and as a sense of obligation I’m supposed to settle for that? Nope. Especially when they do not treat or care for BW the same way. So I started dated outside my race and things I used to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:32 AM |
| 63 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.I stopped dating black men exclusively many years ago and have never been happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:37 AM |
| 8 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Yikes man, broke with a baby she can’t care for and useless man who can’t even buy pads? Just awful all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I've found an easy way to suss out men on OLD almost immediately.Some Radom a rite just Dmd me complaining about it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:52 AM |
| 8 | I…am speechlessMen like this who still think a NORMAL BODILY FUNCTION is gross are truly the weakest link. Jesus Christ. Good luck girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:45 AM |
| 55 | I've found an easy way to suss out men on OLD almost immediately.A good truth to use, tell me about the last time you cried. Any good man will comfortably share and this will weed out the manly men who claim only pussies cry etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:02 AM |
| 8 | Imagine your boyfriend telling you he won’t hesitate to hit you because he’s afraid you’re a psycho...Is this supposed to be a flex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:02 AM |
| 11 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Having that steep of a wage gap and still trying to split 50/50 that’s a no from me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 09:49 AM |
| 11 | This reminds me of the slug storyHere bf is attempting to poison her on many occasions. Why would op stay in a relationship like that. Jesus Christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 15 | Imagine if all the women collectively rejected such NVM/LVM. What's gonna happen to the patriarchal society? 💀It’s true but the sad reality is the pick me’s will be lapping up the nvm and some even have children and continue the cycle of nvm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhI don’t get periods atm but still carry them just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder to all the women who are told by LVM yOuRe bEiNg dRaMaTicOr to calm down, chill any of them just makes me not want to bother with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 5 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.Ikr lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 11 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.I would love to see a hvm collage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 23 | I love that I see more and more people finally exposing LVM’s. AND I LOVE IT when it’s other men. Yes tell THEMWhat’s worse is some people think this is going the extra mile when it’s just basic human hygiene big yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 39 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Had me in the first half 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:48 AM |
| 12 | Don't worry, he's very attentive, buys her gifts and is not all abusive. The woman is risking her health, going through all the pain, but "oh no, what about my dick? :(("Who makes their dick bleed from masturbating, so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:12 PM |
| 9 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.This is spot on. I’ve had similar answers to the ones like you mentioned and when I tried to ask what about me specifically he couldn’t think of anything. Waste of my time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Why are they so desperate to comment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Something I madeI hate how it’s always used at a retort when discussing women’s struggles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:42 AM |
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