Trine_tg22 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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27	"FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy! They're only whining about this because they know they're inadequate on every level. Ultimately, the man we choose determine a ton from our child's look, health, predisposition or not to illnesses etc etc etc. Wtf is wrong with these men (other than everything) that they think these things shouldn't matter? For example one of the reason for avoiding 35/40+ men is that such older men have an increased risk for various health condition in the child. Let's not even talk about how having a dead-beat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 09:16 PM
43	Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child? Men are entirely narcissistic. They talk about "their" offspring, as if it wasn't in fact the woman's child. They go on about wanting to pass on "their" DNA or "legacy" -which I always thought was weird af. I mean who gives a fuck about the child's DNA or your "legacy"? It's such a weirdly sociopathic thing to be concerned about, too. I mean, I have never, ever heard a woman have this weird obsession with those things. Women who want children, they just want children, none of that male "muh gene…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 07:12 PM
14	Man: “I am (age) and I act how a normal human should act.” Gets a bunch of awards and upvotes (the fact that males get praised for doing the bare minimum smh) The bar is so low, this is literally the standard we have for men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 06:49 PM
94	What talking about preferences on the internet as a woman is like Yep. The sad part is we're actually conditioned to say that we don't value physical attraction. It becomes taboo to say that you prefer good looking men or tall men etc because we get so much flack for saying we want to be attracted to our partner ("the nerve women have! They want to have a healthy fulfilling sex and romantic life! Those superficial bitches!" says the man) that a lot of women either began to self censor or they actually start to believe the ugly men's gas-lighting. It becomes a …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 06:03 PM
1	Do you think your sexual performance varies depending on how attractive your sexual partner is? Absolutely. Being with an attractive partner makes you more into it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 10:15 PM
45	Don't date guys who refuse to wear a mask in public. Don't even talk to them. Treat them like the walking biohazard that they are. I noticed it's almost always men. Imagine not having any empathy, imagine being so sociopathic that they can't even follow the most basic of social rules that the rest of people don't have trouble with, especially during a fucking pandemic ffs...If you can, find a women-only gym; the experience there is generally much better and you won't have to deal with these creeps as much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 09:52 PM
3	Gross old guy feels entitled to using a variety of young women’s bodies for sex and reacts violently when ask why any woman would ever enjoy this. It's amazing the amount of denial old men suffers from when it comes to accepting they're sexually repulsive, especially to young women (hell, just had some old incel randos responding to a months old post explaining why in fact, old gross men aren't gross). Why would younger women subject ourselves to these gross disgusting 35/40+ creeps when we could be with guys that are both young/the same age as us and are also physically attractive? Men: BuT WhAt aBoUt (name of 40+ years old actor)??? Us: …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 07:34 PM
3	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? Lol! Love this. Never miss an occasion to put a LVM in his place!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 01:21 PM
4	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? lol pretty typical male lack of self awareness honestly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 01:19 PM
12	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? It's because this is a lie for men to do what they love best: put in the least effort for the most reward. By lying and perpetuating the myth that men are "visual," they put the burden on women to bend over backwards to live up to their ridiculous standards, even though the logic is completely inconsistent. It's such a stupid myth anyway. In pretty much all mammal species (heck, not just mammals but vertebrates) females bear the reproductive costs. It would make zero sense if females were not th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 01:13 PM
3	If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve? Narcissist losers tend to suffer from delusions of massively overestimating themselves, they tend to project and have little or no self awareness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 12:47 PM
10	When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime. Incel, most likely. After their subs got the axe, they pretty much started infesting other subs that didn't use to have them, unfortunately. What's funny is that every time they downvote it's pretty much an admittance that you've hit a nerve and that what you said was true (but they're too cowardly to say it or do it). Funny thing is they lie about their age too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 03:40 PM
1	Favorite ways to shut down unwanted male attention? I straight up avoid responding to any interaction or question (usually it's just a bs way to act like sexual pests once you've given him the time or whatever they ask). I usually place my hand to the side of my head in a way he can't see me directly (just naturally like you would do if there's an annoying glare somewhere). Saying "no" before they even have a chance to open their mouth. Sometimes I'll just pick up the pace a bit (sort of like a semi-run) like you need to catch a bus for example. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 02:23 PM
5	When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime. Truth. There is not a single girl or woman who has a healthy self esteem who would willingly subject herself to this. This is the result of having serious trauma (most likely at the hands of men) and these disgusting fuckers and predators are taking advantage of it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 02:01 PM
6	When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime. Gross isn't it? The sad part is that's actually pretty close to how old men that age look in reality.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 01:54 PM
8	When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime. Sad, but true, unfortunately. Any guys who actively prefer younger than he is, whether at 25 or 45, is a huge red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 01:52 PM
1	When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime. Ugh...Disgusting old gross looking putrid fuck. Poor girl, she looks absolutely miserable too...(who wouldn't be in this situation if you had to go to bed with that?) Pigs like this are disgusting creatures. They're not even considering how violated and disgusted it must for those girls or young women to be with old men...how gross it makes them feel. How they are robbing them of their youth and energy...Pure male degeneracy. Just a complete lack of empathy and humanity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 01:38 PM
0	The reason you weren't/aren't a player is because you're a low SOI, neurotic nebbish dweeb. Not feminism, society or your mother. Mommy didn't teach Chad to chase girls and hookup. There are feminist men in the casual sex scene even though you claim feminism is the reason you're afraid to approach girls. Naturals never had to ask if being nice made panties drop because they weren't social inept. It's probably just easier for them rationalizing/thinking that the reason they do poorly is because they're afraid of women instead of admitting that girls/women never wanted them approaching in the first place, something that most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 03:40 AM
14	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE Don't feel bad for not being attracted to these guys. Males have a reproductive expiration date of 35-40 years, max (and even that might be pushing it a bit). We have evolved to be attracted to healthy male partners, that means - among other things; young and good looking because those things signals good reproductive qualities (that also means a lot more fun in bed ;) ). Make sense since we're the one with the reproductive costs associated with pregnancy, not men. Truth be told men in their mid…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 01:39 PM
17	This is proof that when a guy "cannot control his anger" or "got too upset" that he is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it. ...Why is it always men who get testrionic when told to wear a mask? Do men have a genetic condition that they are simply incapable of following the rules the rest of non-testrionic society have no problem following? I've seen 4 year old girls who have better self control than that tiny, prepubescent-sounding, scrawny little coward shit in the video. Stfu and wear the mask.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 05:16 AM
5	An article normalizing the rape culture idea that men can’t control their impulses and simply need sex. Um, no. These NBA athletes are adults and should be able to contain themselves for a few months while quarantining in Florida. Wtf with that article, men aren't owed sex. It's sad to think that even a simple thing like not raping women is seen as too much to expect from men. Well, it's sad that the bar for men's behavior is set so low (like, don't rape; be a human being. That's it. Unrealistic expectations apparently.) and that even with that bar set that low, men are still incapable of reaching it. You'd think not raping wouldn't be that difficult.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 05:00 AM
3	"Wholesome" boomer meme. Hope she gets picked! Same. My guess is either delusion; they think young women are attracted to these gross putrid old fucks, or they're degenerates. Or both.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 02:25 AM
7	"Wholesome" boomer meme. Hope she gets picked! Urg...Old repulsive men publicly checking/perving out on women like that should be considered a type of misdemeanor. Disgusting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 02:19 AM
39	And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women. Urg, wtf is that thing. He seriously looks like he's in 50s. Ugly troglodyte-looking loser dweeb. Poor woman, she should dump his ass. It's amazing how much poorly men age and how unfuckable most of them become, if they were fuckable in the first place that is (definitely not the case with this ugly guy) and how much better women age.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 10:24 PM
1	30 year age difference. Remember to take NO shit from these men. That's true. Frankly, those apps should disable the ability to contact or try to match with someone considerably younger (10+ years) by default as a defense against old creepers like this and it's kind of messed up that tinder don't do that afaik. If a young woman do want to be able to contact or get contacted by old creeps 10+ years older, then all she'd have to do is enable the functionality. Of course, you'd still have the creeps who could lie about their age but it would be a good initial fi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 09:16 PM
47	30 year age difference. Remember to take NO shit from these men. Omg, this is amazing so gonna keep that study just in case. Not that this is surprising in any way of course; we (and other primates it would seem) have always been able to recognize traits that shows reproductive health and the traits that show bad or deleterious reproductive health, and react accordingly in each cases. Old, limp and gross dicks pretty much tick every mental disgust checkbox of every girl I've ever known tbh. It's not something that had to be taught; every girl and young women …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 08:07 PM
31	This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”? Plus they hate women for needing not only some deeper emotional connection but also physical attraction to their partner in order to orgasm. They literally hate women for wanting an attractive/non ugly partner in order to be able to achieve orgasm. They do so because they don't see women as human beings; just things that they want to fuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 03:07 AM
9	The trash always takes itself out eventually. Yep. Same thing with Weinstein. I've always suspected the patriarchal system is a way for ugly men to gain access to sex. In this system women's normal desires for attractive and desirable partner (because um we're PEOPLE ffs) is restricted by repulsive sexual selection losers because these rejects are too undesirable and repulsive-looking to attract through organic means.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 11:27 PM
17	“Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn. So sorry you had to deal with crap like that. Honestly men like that who can't even do basic protection should probably be the first to get the vasectomy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 11:14 PM
6	30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄 Men are so fucking deluded in general and particularly about their looks. Happens when they're young but their delusion is especially pronounced when they're old. I had the old disgusting fucks approaching...35, 40 or even older I'm thinking wtf is wrong with this gross fuck, and I just move away. These guys thinks young females are attracted to saggy and wrinkled skin, grey balding hair and all that ill and diseased looking old men stuff? I don't think in fact I have ever known any girl that ag…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 05:46 PM
1	Do you have a romantic preference towards certain height ranges? 175cm (~5'9") female. 180-190cm is around my ideal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 10:46 PM
3	Question for Women: How does your ability to have casual sex with really attractive men affect your perception of your attractiveness and expectations for the men you can marry? I don't go around rating guys like this guy is a '6' this guy's a '3', he's a solid '8' etc. I never knew any girl who does that tbh, it seem to be a guy thing. But yeah, we do have eyes and we can see that Chris Hemsworth is better looking than Harvey Weinstein. People generally tend to be more attracted to well, attractive people. Might come as a surprise to angry incels but women are people too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 10:29 PM
1	Question for Women: How does your ability to have casual sex with really attractive men affect your perception of your attractiveness and expectations for the men you can marry? I get compliments on some occasions from men and women. Honestly, I don't really see it myself. My looks can attract the kind of I'm attracted to (tall-ish with rugged masculine features, deep set blue eyes and dark hair is pretty much my ideal) so shrug good enough is how I would describe it. I don't really think of looks as something you rate tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 10:10 PM
3	Question for Women: How does your ability to have casual sex with really attractive men affect your perception of your attractiveness and expectations for the men you can marry? I don't really think in terms of "leagues", I don't know any other woman who think in such terms either, it seems to be a man's way of thinking tbh. The more attractive the man I am with is, the more attractive I feel and likewise the more undesirable he is, the more undesirable I feel. A really attractive man can make me feel like no other man can. edit: incel got triggered, imagine responding to a 2 month old post, must have hit a nerve I guess. Grow up, it's natural to want to be with a desir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 09:34 PM
2	Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise. Seriously, pretty much this. It's just not that complicated or that big of a deal. It seems a lot of men here projects and assume other men have similar issues. Something as banal as talking to or interacting with a woman shouldn't provoke a fight or flight, severe disgust etc response in those women. If a guy get these kind or similar reactions from girls, then the problem is with him. Seems it comes from their extreme inability to "read the room" and read the disinterest of the girl. I'm guess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/20 05:22 PM
2	If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic. Honestly, if you're that uncomfortable with doing something as basic as talking to girls/someone of the opposite sex, then honestly there's likely something wrong with you (girls are usually better at detecting this hence why they get the creepy vibes from some guys) and it'd probably be a better idea to just not do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/20 04:54 PM
9	older man LVM story. warning about age gap creeps. Glad you were able to dodge that bullet. The fact these guys are gross old 35-40+ dudes who have no issues dating young women like that is creepy af and should raise a bunch of red flags. Reason he was pressuring you to get married is because men have a biological expiration date when it comes to being able to have children. Old 35-40+ swimmers are old and riddled with defects, young women knows this and we instinctively run the other way. Take solace in the fact these loser guys will have waste…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 04:15 PM
2	It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled. Preach. The same incel who was unattractive and whining on old incel forums even back then is still complaining about women's selectivity, only now he's an old balding 40+ 5'8" etc loser-incel. I guess tinder was to blame for why lil' Billy or little Bobby was incel back in the 2000s? Oh wait, tinder wasn't around back then. Women in the past had to settle for men they didn't desire and now that this is changing it scares the hell out of them. No wonder we have loser-guys being preoccupied with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 01:07 PM
1	Women that complain about men that they're disinterested in approaching them, should APPROACH MEN. I have always approached men in my life I've been interested in just fine. I'm not sure where people get this idea that women never approach men they're interested in. Same here. If I'm available and I see a cute guy I usually approach. I think this idea that women never approach probably comes from men who never get approached themselves because they are unattractive/incel/repulsives or something like that and then they assume women never approach men. The funny thing is the guys complaining ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/20 09:28 AM
1	Men generally prefer younger women (in their early-mid 20's). But what age of men do women prefer? Am 22. I prefer men around 23-24. That's around where men are at their most physically attractive for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 07:56 AM
2	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? Not disgust, but slight confusion I won't lie. It usually comes on much later though when I'm remembering the interaction. Like "did I say or do something to make that guy think he had a chance with me?". Same. It's just weird when you have given literally no signs of interest but the dude still saw some for some reason. Maybe he thought it was the "Thank you, have a nice day"? It's like some of these guys have no socials skills and are unable to determine interest/non interest or their sexual/R…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 11:45 PM
2	Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze? Yeah, probably just a nice incel guy like the nice incels around here. Just a poor, nice, misunderstood non misogynistic guy existing minding his own business, not bothering anyone and got attacked just for existing. And they say women are the irrational sex. Exceptionally delusional. Not being able to gauge either because of stupidity -or worse like I said: not just caring, if someone's uncomfortable brings a lot of red flags. Your flawed internal male solipsism and perceptions is not reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 10:04 PM
9	Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze? The male gaze is not just checking someone out. Checking out a hot person is natural. It's men who know they are making you uncomfortable and enjoy it. Yep. It's unwanted attention from a guy we don't desire and he knows full well it's unwanted and does it anyway because he's either deliberately trying to make you uncomfortable or simply does not care if it makes you uncomfortable (which brings plenty of red flags). And holy crap, just look what happen when women dare mention wanting to be desir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 11:58 AM
4	Random dude tells me I fit the style he is into as if I asked to partake in some sort of test to meet his criteria. Lucky me!!!!!! eyeroll Urg. I hate this crap. Like a guy telling you -uninvited mind you, that he likes you is supposed to be flattering. Because a creep you're grossed out by is supposed to feel validating. And hey, let's just ignore what SHE wants what SHE desire because it's so validating to be desired by someone you have no desire who disgusts you because women aren't even seen as humans. Urg...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 09:12 AM
5	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? If it's a non creepy guy my own age, more often than not; no, not at all. If it's some gross old (35-40+) creep, then yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 08:12 AM
1	Discuss: when do men hit The Wall? Men physically are at their most attractive peak around 25 (which usually also correspond to their peak in terms of athletic ability so it make sense I guess) Honestly, even 35/40+ old men that were formerly hot young men are kinda gross looking (apparently this cuts deep into old men egos when they respond to 3mo post), especially to young women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 05:51 PM
1	Men don't approach anymore ... Haha, same. 99% of men are either so completely unappealing (or downright repulsive) tbh. I'm not interested in having any kind of interaction with these random guys tbh, verbal or non verbal or whatever. If that wasn't so and most were actually desirable, maybe this would be different but this is just an hypothetical and this is not the world we live in. So it's better if men don't randomly approach because the likelihood of him being a cute, young interesting guy is so low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 02:49 PM
1	How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and women I get the middle age 30-40yo guy hitting on you a few times unfortunately (I'm 22) and find it gross tbh. Regarding men and lack of self awareness it seems as far as men are concerned it's most often the least attractive/most repulsive ones that lacks it. And that includes their inability to gauge how they actually appear as they age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 02:00 PM
2	How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and women A lot of men (often incels) are delusional when it comes to aging and they think they're going to get with a 20-30 years younger when pretty much any young 20s women find those old men gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 01:49 PM
9	Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard? I'm 22 and I've seen this shaming of women's preference first hand. When we express being grossed out or disgusted or not attracted by older men we're always shamed for being so. When we express certain preferences, we're shamed for doing so. And the ironic thing is they'll say women are the ones doing the shaming lol Men always try control, shame or police women's preferences. Those men cannot physically attract so they use shaming as a desperate attempt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 10:53 AM
12	Typical male feminist I noticed that as well. There seems to be a lot of these short, low masculinity "woke" males trying to pretend they're feminists. Seems they're always trying to creep their way into women's pants and their feminism and "nice guy" persona is basically just an act because they know they can't attract otherwise. LVM Manlets gonna manlet I guess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 05:48 AM
3	Why do older guys think younger girls are attracted to them? I'm 22 and I think the biggest gap in our group is something like is 23f-26m. Tbh men 30/40+ are just physically repulsive to us and it's kinda gross when old 30/40+ men tries to hit on girls that age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 10:59 PM
3	Why do older guys think younger girls are attracted to them? I'm in my mid 20s and I have literally never encountered a girl dating someone over 30. Same. Am 22 and never ever seen that. Where do you find these people? Possibly in fantasy reddit land.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 10:39 PM
2	What are your physical deal breakers? Yeah, normally low value males are selected out of the pool. Patriarchy has always been about genetically deleterious/repulsive/low quality males gaining access to reproduction (when they wouldn't have otherwise) by various means of coercion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 03:30 AM
1	What are your physical deal breakers? I've noticed that as well. It make sense as sexual selection pressure are applied to males in pretty much any animal species (at least within the realm of vertebrates) as a way to remove low quality/reproductive value males from the pool in a way that ultimately benefits the group as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 03:48 AM
1	Ladies: how would you describe a sexy man? Tall with broad shoulders. Chiseled jawline. Sexy deep set blue eyes with dark hair. Though I'm not a huge fan of beards, a nice rugged full 5'o clock shadow is pretty hot. Good build and muscle tones (no body builder look though) is what's sexy to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 01:14 AM
43	women aren’t attracted to money Just something physically unattractive men tell themselves. I noticed men tend to believe whatever they lack is not important in order to sexually attract and anything they have is (even when it's not). It's kind of narcissistic tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/20 11:12 PM
1	What are your physical deal breakers? Bad teeth Small frame Feminine features (weak chin/jawline) Looks old (over 30+) is a hard no; grey hair, balding etc Below 5'11"/6'0"	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 05:21 PM
14	I don't want you Having to reject a guy is never pleasant because we don't know how the guy might react (delusional guys actually believe women enjoy rejecting which speaks volumes of their mentality and projection; women don't have the luxury that men have to safely reject someone). What I notice works best as far as rejecting undesirable advances/guys is to not even reply or respond anything; not even a 'no' just physically move away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 07:29 PM
10	I don’t care if you think it’s normal or what shade of pedophile you identify as. You’re still a creep you pedo Not just in their teens (though that's especially creepy) but honestly? Any mid 30s or 40+ year old guy who still look for 20-something is a creepy predatory gross fuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 04:01 AM
2	Why do men seem to get upset when they see an overweight woman having confidence? It's pretty much always losers who hate themselves who externalize their own hatred and lash out when a woman dares to be confident and not attracted to some unattractive incel guy. Basically a sad defense mechanism of rejecting her preemptively before she can because he knows deep down he's too inadequate for her as she would never be interested.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/20 03:08 AM
15	Scrotes gonna Scrote : "Sister[19f] in law hitting on me[30m]." Turns out the OP is enjoying the attention and fantasizes about having sex with her. Then claims "to want to understand her psychology" #scrotelogic Even if fake and none of it actually happened (as someone who was 19 just 3 years ago I can confirm no girl that age and I mean no one has the hots for old disgusting 30/40+ middle age men) the fact these scrotes think girls that age would be interested (worse, their sister in law ffs) and the fact they entertain these sick fantasies is beyond pathetic and gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/20 09:42 PM
3	If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive? No. That's just something ugly/loser guys tell themselves. There would simply just be more attractive guys. Good looking guys are attractive because they're good looking, not because they're the minority (even if they are a minority currently). Likewise, the ugly loser guy doesn't automatically become attractive just because he's around more undesirable, uglier guys. Short, micro-jaw, tube-arms, fat and/or old w/ grey hair or too old (35/40+) and/or ugly etc; certainly not something you'd want f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/20 02:26 PM
11	Looking for advice on dating younger Exactly this. It's just another way for old, aging men to shame women who want to have a satisfying sexual life. Women age better and are better looking than males the majority of the time so an older woman younger man end up actually be a more equal relationship unlike the traditional older man-younger woman one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/20 04:03 PM
14	For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not! Old 35+ gross creeps are still under the delusions that they can get 20-something girls lol when girls that age just want to throw up at the idea of being with a dude that age. The reality is we find these guys repulsive and these men are seriously deluded if they think being an old creep suddenly makes them attractive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/20 03:46 PM
2	This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP. Urg...what a disgusting, old, ugly male specimen. What women would want to carry this loser's DNA? And he actually thinks he's in the top 20%? A lot of ugly men's biggest problem is that they often seem to be delusional tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 04:39 PM
14	This guys response to men being 65% more likely to get the coronavirus. At least he knows he's good for nothing Yep. They're also more prone to genetic diseases. So much for women being supposedly the weaker sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/20 09:39 PM
1	Q4W: Have you ever been (successfully) “cold approached” in public? Depends. I've been cold approached a few times, usually by gross old men but on few occasions by a young cute guy in my age range.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 09:53 AM
3	Do you feel sorry or sympathetic for the average male in any way? Because he can't get laid? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 09:27 AM
31	Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl. Imagine a male being such a selfish prick he'd rather give a child the worse possible start in life; a poorer health, a lower intelligence and the kid ending up ugly just out of some selfish desire to have his "own" children (as if the world actually needs his crap reproductive material) when his partner could have gone the sperm donor route and putting all the odds in their favor by getting the genetic material from a healthier, younger donor...All because of some misplaced male ego of wanting …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 04:46 AM
2	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated It's mostly B; social conditioning. As the poster above you noted, even other women (males reaction can be even worse) sometimes are conditioned to react negatively when we admit that we primarily want someone who's sexually desirable and good looking (that's pretty much true for the entire fauna on earth) and the other things come second. So it's often easier to just go with social acceptability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 04:24 AM
46	Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl. I know. Poor kid. Men's age is the greatest threat to the well being of a child by far. edit Yeah it was geneticist James F. Crow who said the "greatest mutational health hazard to the human genome is fertile older males". Which shows how females are better made even on a fundamental reproductive level because normally an individual that's aging and has an increased risk of health problems for the child simply become not fertile anymore; that's what happens with menopause after all but men, they…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 03:49 AM
113	Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl. As if the creepy nature of the age gap wasn't gross enough, guy is not only ugly af, he's 56 ffs. Why would you even think of having a kid at that age? Are guys like this stopping to think even for one second what the risks involved are and how the kid will turn out with a father with a face like that who is -again, fifty six year old? Wtf is wrong with these men??? Not just women but kids end up paying the price of male degeneracy. Ugh...Just awful situation all around.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 03:18 AM
24	A reminder it’s okay to have standards when women have always been expected to look good all the time and guys expecting to have a 10/10 girl when they’re ugly goblins. Preach. Never settle for some inadequate ugly hobgoblin. He's just as likely (if not more) to treat you like crap and it's perfectly normal to have standards if you want a sex life that's actually satisfying with an attractive man. We've been conditioned to undervalue ourselves and put males' interest above our own. Never sell yourself short.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 02:47 AM
4	When men date younger women Women's preferences usually age as they do, unlike the 40year old creep's. At 22 I can't even imagine being attracted to an 18 year old, that's creepy af tbh and I think it's part of the reason why women are so grossed out by old creepers because normally we're just attracted to men around our age so first thing we're thinking is wtf is wrong with him? So we honestly don't really care if, for example: a 19yo isn't attracted to us at 27 because we're not attracted to that age bracket anyway. So t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/20 10:40 AM
2	When men date younger women I'm a younger woman and tbh I'm kind of grossed out by 30-40+ dudes. It's really just a naturally evolved reaction when seeing these guys make sexual advances or act sexually because we have evolved aversion to sexual things that are detrimental (old and/or sickly/unattractive partners for example) So it's just an empathic reaction we have when we see it happen to other young women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/20 06:52 AM
4	When men date younger women i'm 28, so i don't really consider myself old, but seeing a young attractive women with an older man is kinda gross to me. I just can't imagine how you could be sexually attracted to some old geezer. I think to myself i feel bad for her I'm 22 and I feel the same about any dude over 30-35 and especially if he's with a young girl. It just feel gross. It seems these guys confuse basic empathy we have for women the same age/our peers for some kind of jealousy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/20 06:32 AM
1	Is sex a need for women? When you're in your early 20s and if the guy is good looking and young too, it can be for some. Not in the same way it is for males most likely though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 01:33 AM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? As was said they lie to maintain their safety. I think the guys who are most likely to react in anger or negatively are the ones who are delusional regarding themselves (they think they are attractive when they're not for example) , so when they are rejected or when that delusion is shattered, that's when their mental dissonance kicks in and when the anger comes out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 08:00 PM
5	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? Exactly this. When we're in the presence of guys it just avoids a lot of drama and women are usually less confrontational also. We just don't want to deal with the potential angry incel type and some loser guys can potentially get aggressive when confronted with reality. It's mostly to protect ourselves and we wouldn't have to do this if these guys didn't react this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 04:52 PM
11	Do you believe in the Male Wall? Seriously. Pretty much no young/fertile woman wants some old 50+ geezer's kid anyway so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/20 01:39 AM
7	Do you believe in the Male Wall? By his late 30s, early 40s men start to go grey, old skin, old person smell -nonenal production starts around 40 (smell tell us a lot about the suitability of a potential partner and it's often downplayed how big a role it plays for us women -pleasant smell could be a potential match, repulsive smell mean something's wrong with him. It's nature's way to advertise a guy's fitness). Those things are definitely not attractive to young women I can't say I know of any girls in my age group that would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 07:14 PM
1	(For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection? Anyone under the age of 18 or over the age of 40 doesn't even register. Well yeah, I wasn't including under 18 and old 40+ men in that obviously. I meant in my age bracket (early 20s) of potentially dateable guys that aren't on my radar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 01:49 PM
5	(For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection? I think the difference is most women start attractive to most men whereas for me like 98% of men are sexual non entities based on look alone but look won't be an instant turn on like it is for men and I'm not automatically thinking of fucking even if the guy is tall and handsome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 07:06 AM
24	Again, what wall? 41 y.o. Woman with 6 kids still beating 20 and 30 y.o. men off with a stick. I see tons of attractive women in their 30s, 40s and even 50s. Old 35-40+ guys otoh are almost always gross as crap. Honestly I don't know any young women in her early 20s in my age group that wouldn't be completely grossed out by some old guy. Plus, men starts to lose their swimmers in their 30s with the added risk of congenital defect for the child. Don't go for old guys, young guys are more fun and are just better!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/20 07:41 AM
1	Off of my chest: THE AUDACITY. THE DEPRAVITY Gross. And his reproductive material is gross. Wtf is wrong with these males. It seems they have no self awareness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/20 11:07 AM
12	Beware of bearded men: exhibit 268 Never trust a receded micro-chin guy with a beard	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/20 12:23 PM
4	MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women. Which is why naturally good looking guys are better. Honestly I'm not really looking for a guy who has to "work" to be hot. Give me a tall guy with rugged good looks and good bone structure over some weak chin dude who think pumping iron will make him less ugly somehow any day of the week lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/20 10:57 AM
26	Why is a 25 year old man going out with my 19 year old sister? Why would a grown ass 25 years old dude even want to date a 19 teen girl anyway? I'm 22 and a 19yo guy wouldn't interest me even if he was tall and good looking because he's basically still a kid at this point. The guy sounds like a major creep honestly and the fact he's an ex-cop is also a major red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/20 03:36 AM
7	Sometimes I wonder how the hell some men are so confident hitting on HVW while being low value af. I tried to contain my look of shock and horror but I’m sure it still came through a little bit. It’s not like I have zero guard up so I kinda feel like I should’ve “learned” by now... but, the audacity. Idk if the shock value will ever go away. Same here. It's not even something super unusual for me but I'm just mildly shocked almost every time. Like I'm just O_O and I can't even find something to say to the effect that I'm obviously not interested. The situation is just weird af and it always t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/20 04:11 PM
2	Q4W: What’s your age range? 22 21-25 Yes Same as mine 2 Years older. He was very good looking	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 04:07 AM
2	Do you find the rugby player physique sexually attractive? Honestly as long a the guy has a good jawline and decent height and not overly overweight or skinny, I'm attracted to wide range of physiques. Googled "rugby player physique" and the examples I saw were not especially attractive to me but that could have been just bad examples. It does look better than the American football look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/19 12:38 PM
1	Men should be bodyshamed more Oh no, those poor male fee fees...If your ego is that fragile that you're bothered by what a couple of ditsy teenage girls' gossiping then you honestly have bigger problems than just being an ugly guy tbh. Telling guys they're too ugly or have a small dick sounds like "being mean" too but whatev. Obviously women have every reason to fear male violence but women shouldn't have to live in a world with systemic male violence against women is what I'm saying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 06:31 AM
1	Men should be bodyshamed more Ok..? Weird take and normally I would think this came from some guy cosplaying as a woman since I got this kind of response from angry male incels with too much pent up anger before but whatever. edit to your edit: this goes back to my original point kind of. Imagine being so fragile that someone would react this much to some comment...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 11:35 PM
4	How to respond when males share their opinion on women's looks lol! Perfect response. Weak-jawed males don't actually look like males I feel, but like some type of living parody of.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 09:40 PM
-5	Men should be bodyshamed more For real. For all their unearned (fake) confidence it's insane how fragile some of these losers are. Deep down they know they're ugly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 09:09 PM
10	Has anyone else noticed that in more politically conservative areas... I noticed the same thing. In more patriarchal societies women don't have as much freedom to choose their mate, consequently they end up mating with ugly losers and the men end up unattractive over generations...Just one of the unfortunate consequence of patriarchy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/19 03:29 AM
16	There's no such thing as a "looksmatch". Don't let ugly men make you feel bad about your high standards or shame you into dating them! Nothing but truth bombs. The vast majority of males are nothing but genetic garbage. The amount of actually hot guys I see is maybe one or twice a day, if I'm lucky (and I live a 3M+ city), usually not even that. I don't think there's even 1% of males that are actually attractive let alone 20% like Twerpers claim. The idea that most men should be considered attractive and the idea that most women are not attractive are modern patriarchal inversions. Females have always had a reproductive investm…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 01:07 AM
1	Do you like dad bods? Ew, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 02:24 AM
5	To what extent is sexual attraction determined by biology and society? Women beauty standards has changed quite a bit throughout history (just look at painting of women in the past) so it has a large cultural component (though not entirely so). The standards of what's considered a physically attractive male are mainly biological and stable throughout time (because females have a much greater reproductive investment, knowing which male were sexually desirable for reproduction was crucial in our past). Men beauty criteria are more linked to how desirable his genes ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 01:56 AM
8	Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships. Maybe I haven't met any attractive 35 year olds lol lol Same. I'm 22 and I never even seen a girl around that age not being completely grossed out by a guy who's 35-40+. I guess at that age our idea of hot is not graying hair, loose or wrinkly skin, lose of testosterone/muscles and old man smell (Nonenal production begins around age 40) lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 11:02 PM
39	Come watch r/Tinder collectively roast a 42 Year Old Man who “wants kids some day” but wants to break up with his girlfriend because he “doesn’t want to date a single mom”. Jesus, wtf am I even reading. The 42 yo guy wrote: What's wrong with wanting kids of my own? You're 42 for fuck sake! Why would you want kid at that age??? Wtf is wrong with these sub human shits that they think their sub garbage lineage is important. Nobody cares about your shit genes ffs. Men aren't owed kids either. Literal male narcissism.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 10:43 AM
18	Why I'm not even considering short dudes anymore Sounds like you finally realized your real worth. I don't think you should compromise on attraction. Angry little losers like that who try to shame you for being fucking human and desiring an attractive partner you actually desire can go screw themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 09:02 AM
6	men age like wine is a fantasy online Omg, old men muscles is one of the grossest sight ever. And the worse part of it is that they think that makes them attractive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 04:08 AM
6	men age like wine is a fantasy online The most pathetic aspect of that are old crummy 40+ shits who brag online how they've never been so approached by 20yo girls and of course how their gf are young etc. It's like bitch, please. Aside from other delusional males, no one is buying that. Decrepit old farts like that are beyond delusional.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 04:03 AM
11	HOW MGTOW ALWAYS ENDS: 93 yr old man goes to tech store and cries because he can’t access his porn and it’s the only thing he has left to live for. Yes, exactly what I was thinking reading this..."And then everyone stood up and started clapping." Still, even so, it's pathetic that men think sex or porn is a right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 03:54 AM
2	Barely turning 18 in a few days and some 30 year old was trying to get at me, a rant. Ugh I'm 22 and I've also had these gross ugly creeps approach me. Why do these turds think someone this young would waste her time on them? It's like these unattractive guys don't even see women as humans and don't give a shit if they have unfulfilling sex, emotional and physical intimacy with them (because hello? we have to be attracted to the person in order to do that) as long as they get to have sex. Gross creepy old shits.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/19 09:19 AM
10	Addressing the Myth: Unattractive men make better partners than attractive guys Thank you for writing this. I've noticed ugly men are usually not only ugly on the outside but on the inside as well. They're shit humans basically. They tend to be bitter AF because they've been rejected by women and treated like shit all their lives and instead of having a good hard long look at themselves and realizing that maybe they're the problem, maybe they're the constant in this whole equation, they blame others and women especially. They're resentful, misanthropic piles of angry reprod…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/19 07:19 AM
91	Why Doesn’t FDS Focus on Improving Physical Appearance? Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man? This. Males are the ones who compete, not females. Women having to "beautify" themselves is a patriarchal inversion; it goes against the reality of literally every single species that reproduces sexually. Males should be the ones that are made to feel insecure, ugly and sexually worthless. Make men except the most desirable ones feel completely inadequate (which they are). Make the insecurity change sides.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/19 06:44 AM
11	Ladies, if ugly, balding men old enough to be your dad hit on you, do us all a favour and call them out. This is a great piece of advice. As much as I think the fundamental issue is these gross, ugly creeps, the problem when someone is agreeable when rebutting these creepy sexual pests is that you're indirectly encouraging the behavior, or at least, not discouraging it enough. I'm 22 and I've been approached by these creepers before and the idea of going out with some balding 35+ year old disgusting shit just makes my skin crawl. Dude, back the fuck down. Like, right now. They need to be told that …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/19 03:08 AM
1	How do you behave when in the presence of a very sexually attractive man? Well for one I'll be receptive to him approaching me (still has to be respectful of course) whereas it's a big no-no for me otherwise. I probably make a lot more visual contact too, because I'm actually interested in him as an individual, what he's like, I want to find out more about him etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 02:31 AM
1	Q4W: What percentage of men do you actually find attractive? Don't know, I'm mostly attracted to tallish guys with rugged, masculine facial look, deep set blue eyes and dark hair in their mid 20s. Dunno what % is it. Honestly thinking in terms of % of people that do not attract you is such a weird thing. Most men just don't even register on my radar tbh they are completely non physically attractive to me. I live a big city and maybe I see a good looking guys once a day if I'm lucky, sometimes less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/19 02:33 PM
1	It hurts to be fetished or stereotyped as an older guy. Modern 40 year old men aren't supposed to act like mature Boomers! When young women compliment us that way it doesn't feel good This. I mean, you're not even fully mature mentally before 25 ffs. Fortunately, I don't think it's going to happen even if a lot of 40+ guys would like to as young 20 something women aren't exactly running after them. Women have strong built-in mechanisms to avoid poor (including old) mating partners when we're young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/19 02:19 AM
2	It hurts to be fetished or stereotyped as an older guy. Modern 40 year old men aren't supposed to act like mature Boomers! When young women compliment us that way it doesn't feel good Well, finding someone sexually unappealing tend to not exactly foster close social relationships between men and women and I never seen a girl in her early twenties being interested in anyone over 30 much less some 40 middle age dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/19 10:35 PM
1	Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are That's extremely interesting OP and definitely consistent with what I observed. For all the talk about how men are supposedly more rational, objective etc they consistently overrate their look, intelligence, desirability, worth etc and they act based on irrationality and are ruled by their ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/19 10:15 PM
5	Male aging -a red pill that's hard to accept I think it's earlier than 33. 33 years old guys honestly look perceptibly aged already (and yes, including the guys who thinks/convinced themselves they can pass for younger; they can't). They don't look nearly as old as, say, a 45yo of course but it's still noticeable even for the guys who look relatively good for their age. I'd say it's more around 24-25 in terms of raw good looks; they've reach their peak in term of physical masculinity by then without showing signs of getting old but I'm 22 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 02:03 PM
9	Men in their 40s, Women in their 20s (cmv) I think it's their biological clock. We always say men don't have biological clocks like women but that's bs. For one thing, the extreme majority of couples have only 1-2 years of age difference so even if men can have kids much later than women (again, in theory) this has little value if young women are grossed out at the thought of being with you anyway (and they are) and much more at the idea of mating with you and of course the chance of them having kids with an older, same age woman are pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 12:00 PM
2	Male aging -a red pill that's hard to accept It's not the age difference that generates disgust, it's the fact that these girls don't find the guy attractive But a big part of the reason we don't find these old guys attractive in the first place is because older men obviously have older looks (everyone ages) and that's sexually gross to young women. Would we be repulsed the way we are if (somehow) a 40 year old man could look exactly the same as a 20 year old? Maybe not, but with our current technology that's simply not possible right now.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 11:47 AM
10	Male aging -a red pill that's hard to accept I think you nailed it. These guys are essentially sexual pests for us and unfortunately it's just a part of being a young woman for most. Personally, the very thought of being sexual with an old 40+ man like that is just sexually repulsive...And while normally this is a non issue because there's plenty of people that doesn't attract us sexually and that's usually not a problem because you're not going to be attracted to everyone and that's ok, but the difference is the nice old lady (who I don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 10:17 AM
4	Men in their 40s, Women in their 20s (cmv) I would say it’s super rare. College girls fucking dudes over the age of 25-27 is not in vogue. Yeah, I'm 22 and I've honestly never met another college-age girl that was even remotely interested in anyone over 30. And if we're talking over 40 you might as well ask if college-age girls are interested in meeting a guy who's 65; it just feels completely creepy and gross to us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 09:07 AM
11	Men in their 40s, Women in their 20s (cmv) The sad part is most of these older men wouldn't mind if the main reason they could score a young woman (of course they actually can't but hypothetically) was because she had a crap self esteem and hated herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 08:57 AM
5	Men in their 40s, Women in their 20s (cmv) I agree. Also, weren't those studies showing that old 40-something men were having the easiest time at their age in comparison to women in the same age bracket? In other words they are still considerably less desirable than they were at 25 but the gap is the greatest at that age, again, only when compared to women of the same age group, not compared to young men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 08:49 AM
6	Men in their 40s, Women in their 20s (cmv) I've noticed this too. There seems to be a deadness in their eyes/being that you don't really see with younger men. Children, marriage and careers are the reason for this facial expression imo... as a 40-year-old man, you have the pressure to show something when you're 40 That makes sense. Combined with the fact that men overestimate themselves a lot more than women and I guess when you're (still) a loser at 40+ I guess the fact that you're a failure stings a lot more. It probably clashes with y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/19 08:39 AM
5	Do women have completely different standards of what's appropriate and what's not depending on how attractive a man is? Right? It's almost like women have different boundaries depending on a multitude of factors like familiarity or if she finds the guy attractive or not. That still doesn't give the physically repulsive guy the right to ignore those boundaries just because they would probably be very different for the cute guy. "Gasp! Women will have more open boundaries for their bf or a guy she finds hot than if it's a pure stranger or a guy she find physically repulsive?!?" I guess to a non mentally disabled pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 07:33 PM
4	Women who are 18-24 arent going for guys who are 35-40s Yeah, it's mostly guys pretending anyway. It's kind of funny to see them larping as attractive guys on those subs though. Like some dude will ask: "Hey fellow older RPers/mgtow, have you noticed young women are more interested in you when you hit 40?" And then it's all guys responding "Yeah bro, I'm 42 and I'm drowning in young women's attention. I often catch them looking my way or flirting with me. The other day, I got this cute Russian chick to ask me for my number out of nowhere. Must have b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 04:15 PM
1	“Man who does not understand consent has right to pursue sex, court rules” in the U.K. "BuT mEn's pEe peEs! DiScRimiNashon! HuMen RIght!!!" /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/19 08:23 AM
1	Ladies, why don’t you ask men out as much as men ask women out? Because I have no trouble attracting desirable men so I don't have to honestly. And the type of men who won't ever approach any women because they realize they're undesirable wouldn't interest me anyway (note this not mean all men who approach are desirable of course, plenty of undesirable men do approach too).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 11:39 AM
1	What short guys have to do to make it: compensate; empirical proof that getting buff and lean is the way Don't forget: loser-ist (prejudice against losers). Also incel-ist. Also ism-ist (prejudice against guys who hate themselves with inferiority complex who make up all sorts of ism). With all seriousness, you're misusing the term prejudice. Guys doing this do so because it's easier to blame other than admit being a loser. Repeat after me: Sexual preferences are not prejudices. Prejudice doesn't mean having your sexual preferences, dum-dum. Unless you're including every single person on earth as a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 03:11 PM
0	What short guys have to do to make it: compensate; empirical proof that getting buff and lean is the way lol "Heightist" Might as well add: "ageist" (not interested in much older men), lookist (not interested in unattractive guys), bad BO-ist etc like most people are but sure, I'm sure you yourself are interested in 100% of women out there... Though you seem bigoted against women having agency and being free to have their preferences and free choice...You should work on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 02:10 PM
-2	What short guys have to do to make it: compensate; empirical proof that getting buff and lean is the way I'm 5'9"-something and anything below 5'10" is short to me and not at all attractive. My BFs have been 6'0-6'1" on average. A guy compensating with muscles or whatever else just lessen my already absence of attraction so whatev but if these guys somehow manage to find someone by overcompensating good for them I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 09:31 AM
6	Q4all: What role does seduction/"game" play in attracting women? All the "game" in the world won't do anything if you're an unattractive loser. "Just be yourself" IS actually sound advice, but obviously, it IS dependent on the fact that your 'self' is adequately fit, tall, athletic, good looking, has his shit together etc. No one said that you can be a 35yo+, short, or pudgy, balding or ugly, etc loser and girls will just find you attractive because you're you and you're that unique snowflake and if you actually believed that, well that's on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 09:03 AM
1	The amount of guys complaining about not getting laid, without doing anything to better themselves, is too high. Alternatively, there's a serious male surplus problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 07:31 AM
1	Based on these studies, the orgasm gap is resolvable by women picking symmetrical, masculine, attractive partners. Yeah, our brain respond to attractive phenotypes because they signal good genes, this is especially true for us women (men obviously don't have to deal with pregnancy and have very low biological investment). I mean... No kidding. Jesus...this is news to anyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 12:10 PM
1	Is attractiveness based solely on physical looks? By far for me a guy's look is the primary initial draw,definitely a must (I tend to go for tall guys with rugged features, dark hair combined with blue eyes is the hottest combination for me) So physical attraction is probably 90-95% good looks I'd say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 11:48 AM
6	What percentage of cold approaches actually lead to a dating/LTR? Or, get this, women actually have different boundaries for good looking guys than they do for ugly guys! So these good looking guys are not violating any boundaries so they're not getting away with anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 04:07 AM
1	Things I've learned as a college male TIL people prefer hot mates and that pickup lines won't work if you're an ugly guy trying to pick up hot girls! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 03:58 AM
1	Any explanation regarding the “PIV is rape” idea? No but we can reasonably guess there wasn't anything sexual there. There's not a whole lot of radical lesbian feminist women that are willingly having sex with overtly, exclusively gay men, you know? one of the reason she married him, in part to subvert the traditional view of heteronormative marriage. It was part of her provocative and unconventional character and why she still is one of influential feminist to this day. And given her view on marriage https://www.nytimes.com/1989/10/29/books/st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 02:35 AM
2	Any explanation regarding the “PIV is rape” idea? Dworkin was definitely a provocateur and a brilliant one. (she herself was actually married to a man who I'm gonna guess she had sex with at least a few times). well maybe not: In 1974, she met feminist writer and activist John Stoltenberg when they both walked out on a poetry reading in Greenwich Village over misogynist material. They became close friends and eventually came to live together. Stoltenberg wrote a series of radical feminist books and articles on masculinity. Although Dworkin publ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 12:32 AM
1	No, polygyny is not driven by female choice and no, male and female sexuality were never restricted equally From a socio-evolutive pov patriarchal male sexuality is fundamentally about restricting female choice by removing it entirely so that undesirable males who wouldn't otherwise be selected have a shot at mating. That's what it's about then and that's what it's all about now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 12:21 AM
2	Why do women have an aversion towards men in STEM fields? Doesn't have anything to do with STEM itself. It's just that fields like those tend to attract mostly spectrum-ey, ugly losers so naturally women don't tend to be attracted to those type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/19 08:13 PM
3	Don't women 35+ have a vested interest in turning younger women against men? Women tend to be more empathetic to one another. Simple as that. Older women have been young at one point and remember what it was to be bothered by creepy older sexual pests and not liking it. The thing is, younger women don't have to be turned off from old men from some older women coven; they don't need convincing, they're already grossed out by the old men. I'm 22 and pretty much every girl I know would be completely not interested at the thought of being in a RL with a 30,40+ yo guy. So the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 10:13 PM
1	What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates? Guy with weak and/or receded chins, big noses, guys with patchy, deficient facial hair (bonus gross point it's the kind of hair that sometimes look like it's pubic hair) guys who are less than 6'0",obese guys -especially moobs (moobs are one of the grossest things that exists in the human species, like an H.R Giger nightmarish version of boobs which I usually find attractive on a woman even if they are not traditionally attractive boobs), guys who are taller than ~6'7"-6'8", underweight and/or s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 01:51 AM
3	Should you avoid women all together if I don't have my ***t together? Most young women in their early twenties I know, they're really doing their own thing and honestly don't really think of what some random guy do or whether he has his shit together, one way or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 12:57 AM
2	Study finds facially unattractive adolescents lose social popularity when they act aggressively, but facially attractive ones do not lose popularity when they do it I know right? Slow incel week, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 12:48 AM
1	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? High-ish smv? He was Kiiiind of popular I guess? No car. I was 17 (same for him) I guess he was sortof jock-ey but kind of nerdy too. He was kind of known as that hot, quiet guy in school (athlete and skater). Definitely not rich or upper class. His place (parents weren't home of course)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 03:29 PM
1	CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous. Speaking pragmatically, as a woman I'd be more wary of the undesirable man snapping as he realize his made-up views he has about women are completely wrong than if he didn't had those screwy conceptions from the get go. So a certain bottom percentage of men won't be desired and there's not necessarily anything they can do about it. So what? Let's start by deconstructing this notion that men HAVE to be desirable or be a success with women and go from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 03:07 PM
1	CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous. Height is one indicator of being a more desirable mate and short and undesirable men aren't nicer, less asshole-ish in any way (often quite the opposite in fact, I imagine due to developing a bitter outlook cause by being undesirable) so we might as well go for the guys we actually desire. It's an hypocritical tactic done by undesired men designed to shame women's preferences. They'd go for the attractive girl if they could (which of course, they can't) so whatev. Why go for the inferior male? F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 02:32 PM
1	Q4W: Can there be "classes" of masculinity? As in, Upper Class vs Lower Class Masculinity. I think there's "high masculinity" like high level athletes, guys in music bands etc And then there's "low masculinity" which would include stuff that are almost exclusively male dominated for ex: programming and well, anything autism spectrum-ey (also heavily male dominated) related. This kind of masculinity is usually not attractive to us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 09:02 PM
1	CMV: Men are divided between people who need good looking lovers and people who can allow other factors to compensate for imperfections You can't really dissociate enthusiasm in bed and attractiveness of the partner. If a girl has starfish sex with a guy it likely means she's not attracted physically a whole lot. If her partner was suddenly a lot more attractive I guarantee you her attitude would change a lot too. Aside from that, duh. It's a lot more fun to be with someone you're attracted to hence why everyone -men and women, are looking for good looking partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 08:49 PM
1	Does the "Only horny with you" fantasy work for women? But what about women? Do any fantasize about a man who doesn't find any other woman except her attractive? No, honestly sounds like some creepy incel type guy, ew. And I wouldn't want a guy who is so unattractive he can only entertain the idea of finding one woman attractive because no other women would want him anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 06:31 PM
2	On the topic of younger women, older men, and revenge fantasies Thank you! As a younger woman, you're exactly right. There's no jealousy or whatever weird male projection, male solipsism or manstering is going on there. They've been there when they were young and remember how grossed out they felt when some gross 30+ guy was hitting on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 05:25 PM
1	What is more attractive on a guy, being short and wiry or being chubby and tall? Chubby and tall if he can get in shape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 05:17 PM
1	Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society? More RP posts	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 05:16 PM
2	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic I agree. For example if you're rather unattractive or an older man go be a chad to look and age compatible women. Be realistic most of all. Go get em champ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 05:09 PM
1	Ideal Age: Mental & Physical Physically: early 20s -same age range. Older than 30s you start to get in the gross category and gradually getting closer and closer to the downright 'ewww' category. Men above 40 are sexual non entities to young women and getting flirted/creep on by some gross old dude is just, well, gross. Mentally mid late twenties a bit older maybe	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 05:01 PM
1	How would you rate these two guys 1-10 First guy 5 on a 1-10 scale and 0 on a 0-1(attracted-not attracted) scale since I don't find him attractive in any way, shape or form but is not super gross or ugly. So...average? Second one He's got a weird looking face like his face is not big enough for his head you know like those small face photoshops? Plus he has a rather small feminine jaw which I find gross on a man. obv. 0 on a 0-1 scale. So... 3.5/below average maybe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 04:13 PM
1	You Cold Approach a Woman What do you think she's thinking? Depends on the location and various factors. If I'm not working (barista) and he's cute and not a creep it can be flattering or I could be thinking "Please don't talk to me. Please don't talk to me. Please don't talk to me". Depends on the guy, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 04:02 PM
2	What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men? I find it to be an interesting phenomenon because you’ll see women who are very pro-equality project positive traits onto attractive men, while remaining distrustful towards unattractive men. At a certain point, equality is meaningless and never followed. So? To echo what OP said, what's it to men if women are more trusting or more comfortable with attractive men than some ugly one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 03:42 PM