Trinidadthai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? Just confidence to be honest. When I was in school and college I was popular with the girls because I had social status, a bit of a bad boy and funny. Now I’m in my 30s I don’t exactly have social status, but the confidence my early years gave me, meant my results have remained the same. Confidence is key. After that, there are many ways to work it. I’m very cheeky and make jokes a lot. That’s what I lean to because that’s just naturally how I am. It’s unimportant for you to be like me. Just get…	/r/seduction	26/07/26 01:48 AM
4	have you wtf	/r/seduction	23/07/26 12:30 AM
13	Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold Approaches I do pretty fine with ladies but I’ve never picked up a girl off the street/gym/mall and insta-banged her. Many bangs in the first meet up after the approach, but na not on an insta date.	/r/seduction	20/07/26 03:25 PM
4	Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it? Well done	/r/seduction	19/07/26 07:15 PM
2	Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it? Yea. First few sentences interesting. Saw the lack of formatting. Not reading that.	/r/seduction	19/07/26 03:41 PM
2	The girl has changed totally after an amazing time together. How to get things back? I wouldn’t even say it’s sneaky. He’s been to Thailand four times and is frequenting “girly bars”. He should know this. It’s not a hidden concept. It’s an entertainment bar. A bar with a bunch of young and attractive (sometimes not so young and attractive) women who will come and keep you company whilst you drink. In return, you buy them a “lady drink”. You then have the option to pay the “bar fine” (pay the bar 20 dollars) then and take them home with you. It’s basically a brothel, in the shape…	/r/seduction	16/07/26 07:00 PM
1	The girl has changed totally after an amazing time together. How to get things back? She’s a bar girl. He’s talking about lady drinks. She gets commission on them. That’s how they get paid (plus the money for going home with customers if she chooses to do that.)	/r/seduction	16/07/26 06:13 PM
19	The girl has changed totally after an amazing time together. How to get things back? Bruh. I live in Thailand. Don’t be falling for the trap of bar girls! You’re just another customer.	/r/seduction	16/07/26 06:11 PM
7	18M How do I avoid becoming an incel? We all wonder this from time to time. Even those of us who are successful with women. Even “normal”, level headed women confuse me with their rationale sometimes.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 02:42 PM
5	[Advice] Set a firm boundary with a flirty coworker who snapped at me under stress. Did I kill the attraction, or increased it? It’s usually good advice but I’ve never took it. I’ve banged coworkers at different jobs and it’s always gone smoothly for me. In fact one of them is one of my favourite girls I’ve been with. But yea, it can go wrong. My advice is don’t shag your roommates. Now that went terribly for me.	/r/seduction	11/07/26 03:57 PM
8	Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically? I’m 33. The vast majority of my hook ups and FWB are in their 20s, normally not older than 26. However my last serious relationship was with someone who’s just turned 30.	/r/seduction	11/07/26 06:13 AM
2	Need advice after sex on a first date This has never happened to me	/r/seduction	28/06/26 07:15 PM
37	Why would a girl agree to a threesome? Some girls are just freaks. Some girls are into you so much, they’ll go above and beyond. Some girls are curious. Some girls are bi.	/r/seduction	13/06/26 08:24 AM
4	I blew it today (cold approach story) Dude why tf would you say that 🤣	/r/seduction	07/06/26 12:49 PM
2	Trying to find the easiest way to get a threesome Most times I have had a 3some it’s been with a fwb who invited a friend along. First time it was her idea.	/r/seduction	05/06/26 06:25 PM
3	Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest? I care about my own behaviour, because I was raised right. My ego isn’t fragile enough to be rude to someone because they aren’t interested in my advances. There is absolutely no reason not to be polite.	/r/seduction	04/06/26 01:07 AM
2	Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest? The question wasn’t about rudeness. It was about being disinterested.	/r/seduction	04/06/26 12:33 AM
2	Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest? A woman also doesn’t owe you anything just because you approached her. It’s you who wanted their time. Unless, like you said, she’s being rude, walking away mid sentence because she is not interested is just fragile, weak and rude behaviour.	/r/seduction	04/06/26 12:31 AM
2	Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest? Why would you? That’s fragile. Unless they’re being rude to you, just be a polite human. L	/r/seduction	04/06/26 12:30 AM
2	Good pick up lines/Openers Unless there is a situational opener, for example your both looking at the same thing, something happened in your environment or whatever - direct is best for me. Just tell them I think they’re cute, beautiful, I like something about them or whatever.	/r/seduction	29/05/26 02:36 PM
1	does head make penetration shorter for men? Not for me.	/r/seduction	27/05/26 12:33 PM
11	How the fuck do I fuck My friend can’t get hard on hook ups. He needs “emotional connection” or some kind of connection. Is there alcohol involved in these hook ups? I had a problem once. I couldn’t get hard one time. Can’t remember why. But the next couple hook ups, it was always in the back of my mind. “I hope I can get hard” “omg what if” …. And yup. I didn’t get hard.	/r/seduction	27/05/26 03:58 AM
1	Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main course Looks get your foot in the door. If you don’t have them, you have to kick in the door.	/r/seduction	20/05/26 04:48 AM
1	Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way? For me, I was just naturally outgoing and charismatic as a child and teen, both with guys and girls. I feel I was the right level of confident and cheeky. In my college year I had no fear and the lifestyle I lived I was always exposed to girls. As I got older, I didn’t lose the ability to talk to girls, but I went through a period of getting high in my room playing video games for years, so I lost that exposure. From this I got approach anxiety, but whenever I did actually speak to a girl, I was…	/r/seduction	10/05/26 06:42 AM
3	How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently? I think it depends on the man. For some, it just comes naturally. They don’t need to learn any game, they’re just charismatic enough.	/r/seduction	09/05/26 03:59 PM
1	If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate? So what you want to do? Talk about the weather and say “excuse me would you like to have sex?”	/r/seduction	04/05/26 07:33 AM
47	Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up. Tbh I just sit down, chat for a bit. Suggest putting a movie on and then start having sex when the movie intro is still playing.	/r/seduction	03/05/26 06:07 AM
2	The Magic Pill I mean, that’s pretty crazy. I guess people have different starting points.	/r/seduction	26/04/26 11:50 AM
1	Does a man prefer thongs, boy shorts, bikinis or no bottoms on his gf/wife, or can she choose whatever she wants & you're fine with that? I’m don’t know what they’re called but the Calvin klein style panties.	/r/seduction	26/04/26 07:06 AM
1	i just can't man i just can't Generally speaking, yes there is.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 08:09 PM
5	I want to stop seeing this girl but I don't want to hurt her More often than not, this is actually cowardice on your part for having hard conversations. You’re doing her a favour by doing it sooner rather than later.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 11:08 AM
-1	i just can't man i just can't Dude, give it a rest. Unless you’re trying to find non-binary partners, you better get used to women acting like women. Play your part.	/r/seduction	19/04/26 02:23 PM
0	i just can't man i just can't Date men.	/r/seduction	18/04/26 07:57 PM
-3	i just can't man i just can't wtf why you expecting women to be men?	/r/seduction	18/04/26 07:57 PM
1	I Slept With 88 Women in a Year… Here’s Why Good Sex Doesn’t Keep Them Around Then for sure, I rarely take them out in the first date. Straight to the house. And if I can’t then it’s just something casual.	/r/seduction	18/04/26 07:40 PM
2	I Slept With 88 Women in a Year… Here’s Why Good Sex Doesn’t Keep Them Around I haven’t found the same things you’ve found. I don’t take my fuck buddies out, not as a rule, if I’m hungry and she’s with me, sure we can go grab some food. But mostly, it’s just us in theirs or my place. Taking them out too much causes complications. Most of my girls do stick around until they get a long term bf, or I cut them off because they are starting to get in their feelings. The last time a girl stopped seeing me, which is actually quite recently, but not for a while before then, was b…	/r/seduction	18/04/26 05:21 PM
2	Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night Club I agree with you on what he needs to drop but you also need to drop the limiting belief. You’re saying comparison is the thief of joy but your first two sentences, you are comparing your height to his. I’m 5’7 and it’s only ever been a hindrance on dating apps if I put it on there. Out in the real world, it hasn’t been a problem for me. I don’t even notice I’m short until my friends take the piss out of me.	/r/seduction	05/04/26 03:20 PM
3	Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night Club Hunting women isn’t really a part of my vocabulary but you can dress it up to sound nicer, but essentially, yes, they are the prey.	/r/seduction	05/04/26 03:17 PM
24	I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6s Level up your life.	/r/seduction	31/03/26 04:59 AM
4	My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left. lol yes mate course I am	/r/seduction	29/03/26 08:12 AM
1	If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean? I do agree one must know his worth and not beg and chase a lost cause, but I would have lost out on so many hot women I’ve banged if I was looking at for a resounding hell yes from the beginning.	/r/seduction	29/03/26 07:27 AM
0	My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left. I’m ok with dinner dates tbh.	/r/seduction	29/03/26 04:24 AM
3	How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful women How do I become autistic?	/r/seduction	20/03/26 08:34 AM
1	Is the obsession with texting what's actually making dating toxic? I think it’s the cheap attention and dopamine spikes from online dating more than anything.	/r/seduction	20/03/26 04:04 AM
1	First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice. Girls often delete tinder matches after getting the number. Doesn’t mean they aren’t interested. Not sure why they do it but I’ve continued relationships with girls who’ve done it to me. Edit: I reread and noticed you didn’t continue talking on number. So maybe she’s just not interested then. When it happens to me it’s usually after we’ve moved to WhatsApp or messages, but maybe she’ll text you. If not - onto the next !	/r/seduction	16/03/26 01:09 PM
2	How did you go from zero to hero on seduction? Just get the reps in with the ones aren’t your ideal match.	/r/seduction	09/03/26 05:44 PM
3	Uninterested or playing hard to get? Why would they say that? But I’ve been with countless women who initially turned down my advances. In fact, the mother of my child initially said no to me. Now we have a 4 year old daughter.	/r/seduction	01/03/26 04:33 PM
3	Uninterested or playing hard to get? I don’t need studies, I have lived experience.	/r/seduction	01/03/26 04:17 PM
4	Uninterested or playing hard to get? Laughable and tbh actually offensive to grape victims.	/r/seduction	01/03/26 04:11 PM
5	Uninterested or playing hard to get? Relax. If you only pick up girls who fall in your lap, that isn’t game. Sometimes girls say no, and need to be wooed. Sometimes girls say no and they wot. Change Seems like this girl is the latter. He hasn’t done anything wrong by respectfully asking again.	/r/seduction	01/03/26 06:46 AM