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| 1 | Should I send a casual message?As a PT myself. Don’t let the first reach out be asking for advice. | /r/seduction | 17/08/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Are we cooked. Or is age truly a number..It’s a problem for some, not a provlem for some. I definitely don’t think it’s morally wrong like some online people will try make you believe but i understand why someone would want to date someone closer to their age, whether it’s the older or younger counterpart. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid a lot, how physically attractive are you?Depends who you ask. Black, latina, and certain Asian girls love me. But I’d still say moderately attractive to most, but not everyone’s type. Have to work for it still. | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Girls on OLD are messed upNah. I hate texting. I’d prefer to just meet them. I’ve also met some pretty blunt texters who happen to be much more fun in real life. Plus this method is mostly for getting laid. Not finding the women to settle down with. | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 03:37 AM |
| 4 | hooking up with no money ?Yea, you can. I do it all the time. Funnily enough. There is this hot girl who I match repeatedly on tinder. We talk a bit but never meet. I asked her to come to my place, and she asks why can’t we meet outside. I tell her we can, but the fact you don’t want to come over means we are probably looking for different things so I ended it there. This was maybe 1-2 months ago and we stopped talking. Last night she messaged me out of the blue and said she wants to come over. She just left this morning… | /r/seduction | 06/08/26 04:03 AM |
| 4 | So you Forget her name?.Get her to write her number and name in the phone | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 07:22 AM |
| 12 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Just confidence to be honest. When I was in school and college I was popular with the girls because I had social status, a bit of a bad boy and funny. Now I’m in my 30s I don’t exactly have social status, but the confidence my early years gave me, meant my results have remained the same. Confidence is key. After that, there are many ways to work it. I’m very cheeky and make jokes a lot. That’s what I lean to because that’s just naturally how I am. It’s unimportant for you to be like me. Just get… | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 01:48 AM |
| 4 | have youwtf | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 12:30 AM |
| 13 | Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold ApproachesI do pretty fine with ladies but I’ve never picked up a girl off the street/gym/mall and insta-banged her. Many bangs in the first meet up after the approach, but na not on an insta date. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Well done | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Yea. First few sentences interesting. Saw the lack of formatting. Not reading that. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 03:41 PM |
| 2 | The girl has changed totally after an amazing time together. How to get things back?I wouldn’t even say it’s sneaky. He’s been to Thailand four times and is frequenting “girly bars”. He should know this. It’s not a hidden concept. It’s an entertainment bar. A bar with a bunch of young and attractive (sometimes not so young and attractive) women who will come and keep you company whilst you drink. In return, you buy them a “lady drink”. You then have the option to pay the “bar fine” (pay the bar 20 dollars) then and take them home with you. It’s basically a brothel, in the shape… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The girl has changed totally after an amazing time together. How to get things back?She’s a bar girl. He’s talking about lady drinks. She gets commission on them. That’s how they get paid (plus the money for going home with customers if she chooses to do that.) | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 06:13 PM |
| 19 | The girl has changed totally after an amazing time together. How to get things back?Bruh. I live in Thailand. Don’t be falling for the trap of bar girls! You’re just another customer. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 06:11 PM |
| 7 | 18M How do I avoid becoming an incel?We all wonder this from time to time. Even those of us who are successful with women. Even “normal”, level headed women confuse me with their rationale sometimes. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 02:42 PM |
| 5 | [Advice] Set a firm boundary with a flirty coworker who snapped at me under stress. Did I kill the attraction, or increased it?It’s usually good advice but I’ve never took it. I’ve banged coworkers at different jobs and it’s always gone smoothly for me. In fact one of them is one of my favourite girls I’ve been with. But yea, it can go wrong. My advice is don’t shag your roommates. Now that went terribly for me. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 03:57 PM |
| 8 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?I’m 33. The vast majority of my hook ups and FWB are in their 20s, normally not older than 26. However my last serious relationship was with someone who’s just turned 30. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 06:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you think Harvey specter would cold approach women?If he didn’t have wealth and status he wouldn’t be Harvey Spector. He is the way he is and it works because he has the status to back it up. He exudes confidence because he IS that man. Not just because he’s putting on a persona and trying to run game. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you think Harvey specter would cold approach women?I think he would be direct, or make a flippant comment about the environment, moment. But someone like Harvey Spector isn’t going to be walking around the streets cold approaching. He will be in venues around high value women and women open to being approached by high value men. He’s good looking, tall, incredibly wealthy and high standing in society. He’s also intelligent, very well spoken and quick witted. He’ll be gaming on easy mode. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Need advice after sex on a first dateThis has never happened to me | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Insane sexual tension during a cold approach, but now I’m being left on requested on IG. What happened?You’re probably right but remembering your IG handle that you chose is way easier than a number. | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 09:37 AM |
| 37 | Why would a girl agree to a threesome?Some girls are just freaks. Some girls are into you so much, they’ll go above and beyond. Some girls are curious. Some girls are bi. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 08:24 AM |
| 4 | I blew it today (cold approach story)Dude why tf would you say that 🤣 | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Trying to find the easiest way to get a threesomeMost times I have had a 3some it’s been with a fwb who invited a friend along. First time it was her idea. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?I care about my own behaviour, because I was raised right. My ego isn’t fragile enough to be rude to someone because they aren’t interested in my advances. There is absolutely no reason not to be polite. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?The question wasn’t about rudeness. It was about being disinterested. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?A woman also doesn’t owe you anything just because you approached her. It’s you who wanted their time. Unless, like you said, she’s being rude, walking away mid sentence because she is not interested is just fragile, weak and rude behaviour. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Is It Ever Ok To Walk Away Mid Sentence If A Woman Is Showing Disinterest?Why would you? That’s fragile. Unless they’re being rude to you, just be a polite human. L | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Good pick up lines/OpenersUnless there is a situational opener, for example your both looking at the same thing, something happened in your environment or whatever - direct is best for me. Just tell them I think they’re cute, beautiful, I like something about them or whatever. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | does head make penetration shorter for men?Not for me. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:33 PM |
| 11 | How the fuck do I fuckMy friend can’t get hard on hook ups. He needs “emotional connection” or some kind of connection. Is there alcohol involved in these hook ups? I had a problem once. I couldn’t get hard one time. Can’t remember why. But the next couple hook ups, it was always in the back of my mind. “I hope I can get hard” “omg what if” …. And yup. I didn’t get hard. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main courseLooks get your foot in the door. If you don’t have them, you have to kick in the door. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?For me, I was just naturally outgoing and charismatic as a child and teen, both with guys and girls. I feel I was the right level of confident and cheeky. In my college year I had no fear and the lifestyle I lived I was always exposed to girls. As I got older, I didn’t lose the ability to talk to girls, but I went through a period of getting high in my room playing video games for years, so I lost that exposure. From this I got approach anxiety, but whenever I did actually speak to a girl, I was… | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How hard is it to actually seduce women consistently?I think it depends on the man. For some, it just comes naturally. They don’t need to learn any game, they’re just charismatic enough. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?So what you want to do? Talk about the weather and say “excuse me would you like to have sex?” | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 07:33 AM |
| 47 | Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up.Tbh I just sit down, chat for a bit. Suggest putting a movie on and then start having sex when the movie intro is still playing. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 06:07 AM |
| 2 | The Magic PillI mean, that’s pretty crazy. I guess people have different starting points. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Does a man prefer thongs, boy shorts, bikinis or no bottoms on his gf/wife, or can she choose whatever she wants & you're fine with that?I’m don’t know what they’re called but the Calvin klein style panties. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 07:06 AM |
| 1 | i just can't man i just can'tGenerally speaking, yes there is. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 08:09 PM |
| 5 | I want to stop seeing this girl but I don't want to hurt herMore often than not, this is actually cowardice on your part for having hard conversations. You’re doing her a favour by doing it sooner rather than later. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 11:08 AM |
| -1 | i just can't man i just can'tDude, give it a rest. Unless you’re trying to find non-binary partners, you better get used to women acting like women. Play your part. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 02:23 PM |
| 0 | i just can't man i just can'tDate men. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 07:57 PM |
| -3 | i just can't man i just can'twtf why you expecting women to be men? | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I Slept With 88 Women in a Year… Here’s Why Good Sex Doesn’t Keep Them AroundThen for sure, I rarely take them out in the first date. Straight to the house. And if I can’t then it’s just something casual. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | I Slept With 88 Women in a Year… Here’s Why Good Sex Doesn’t Keep Them AroundI haven’t found the same things you’ve found. I don’t take my fuck buddies out, not as a rule, if I’m hungry and she’s with me, sure we can go grab some food. But mostly, it’s just us in theirs or my place. Taking them out too much causes complications. Most of my girls do stick around until they get a long term bf, or I cut them off because they are starting to get in their feelings. The last time a girl stopped seeing me, which is actually quite recently, but not for a while before then, was b… | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night ClubI agree with you on what he needs to drop but you also need to drop the limiting belief. You’re saying comparison is the thief of joy but your first two sentences, you are comparing your height to his. I’m 5’7 and it’s only ever been a hindrance on dating apps if I put it on there. Out in the real world, it hasn’t been a problem for me. I don’t even notice I’m short until my friends take the piss out of me. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Unsuccessful Attempt at Attracting Women at Night ClubHunting women isn’t really a part of my vocabulary but you can dress it up to sound nicer, but essentially, yes, they are the prey. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 03:17 PM |
| 24 | I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6sLevel up your life. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 04:59 AM |
| 4 | My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left.lol yes mate course I am | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 08:12 AM |
| 1 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?I do agree one must know his worth and not beg and chase a lost cause, but I would have lost out on so many hot women I’ve banged if I was looking at for a resounding hell yes from the beginning. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 07:27 AM |
| 0 | My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left.I’m ok with dinner dates tbh. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:24 AM |
| 3 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenHow do I become autistic? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Is the obsession with texting what's actually making dating toxic?I think it’s the cheap attention and dopamine spikes from online dating more than anything. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 04:04 AM |
| 1 | First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice.Girls often delete tinder matches after getting the number. Doesn’t mean they aren’t interested. Not sure why they do it but I’ve continued relationships with girls who’ve done it to me. Edit: I reread and noticed you didn’t continue talking on number. So maybe she’s just not interested then. When it happens to me it’s usually after we’ve moved to WhatsApp or messages, but maybe she’ll text you. If not - onto the next ! | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 01:09 PM |
| 2 | How did you go from zero to hero on seduction?Just get the reps in with the ones aren’t your ideal match. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?Seems clear they feel what about me? You’re just making up stories about me in your own head. At your big age, that’s pathetic. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?That’s what you live for. Getting upvotes from women by trying to say the right shit. Whatever suits you old man. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?Wasn’t a failed relationship. Was just a young man and silly and didn’t wear a condom. Yet you’re over 50, posting weird shit and asking for people to add you on Reddit, and still don’t have a clue about women. You have no leg to stand on, offering help to young men. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?We don’t live together dude. She’s my baby mother, not my wife. But I don’t need to, I KNOW she liked me. Others, maybe a different case. But it’s harmless. You live in too much black and white. That’s why you get your information on women from peer reviews and psychology pages, and I get my information from dating real life women. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?You’re doing the exact same thing. You have the belief on what you think is “morally right”. Doesn’t make it correct. And I don’t ask her because she is not in the next room and I’m not calling her up over some Reddit debate. I’ve known her for over a decade, you don’t know her at all. I think I could gauge what how she felt and feels more than you. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?Where did I say it was a game for them doing it? With her specifically, I knew she always liked me. She just objected about my age. I just fully disagree with you that it is some big and bad thing to RESPECTFULLY try again when the time is right. Not harass and continuously beg, but there’s nothing wrong with working GAME. Can you give me the full definition of what seduction is? I think you’re full of bs tbh. Saying people have grape tendencies because he wants to try to win her round. Terrible… | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?Why would they say that? But I’ve been with countless women who initially turned down my advances. In fact, the mother of my child initially said no to me. Now we have a 4 year old daughter. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?I don’t need studies, I have lived experience. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?Laughable and tbh actually offensive to grape victims. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Uninterested or playing hard to get?Relax. If you only pick up girls who fall in your lap, that isn’t game. Sometimes girls say no, and need to be wooed. Sometimes girls say no and they wot. Change Seems like this girl is the latter. He hasn’t done anything wrong by respectfully asking again. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 06:46 AM |
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