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| – | I've invited a girl over for a 3rd date, we had sex last time. I think she knows I see other people too but I want to make sure she knows it's casual so I don't lead her on. How do I break this to her?Thanks for the elaborate reply. Going off of this I think we'll just watch a show for a bit and I'll mention: "hey so just to know where we stand, I assume you also see other people right? because that's fine, I'm not ready for something serious right now" I feel like the phrasing / wording is really important, you think this would do? | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 12:06 PM |
| – | I've invited a girl over for a 3rd date, we had sex last time. I think she knows I see other people too but I want to make sure she knows it's casual so I don't lead her on. How do I break this to her?I don't think she thinks that. She asked me last time to "go do something sometime" like an actual date instead of a hookup. That caused me to think she might want more. But tonight I invited her over "to chill". In any case, should I be straight right now or mention it somehow tonight? Ideally I want us to be fwbs, don't want to ruin that possibility either. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 11:36 AM |
| – | People watching: a fun and useful activity for dates.I imagine you only do this with girls you've met in person? I imagine it might not be ideal for a first tinder date | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 12:53 PM |
| – | You can’t have my Number but you can have a Selfie - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 6Going strong, keep it up! | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First one night stand with a woman I met in a clubI know right. Definitely a good practice though, as I did have to do and say stuff that used to be way out of my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 06:06 AM |
| 2 | If you feel like you can sleep with a prudish girl if you play the patient game, is there a way to do so without hurting her feelings when you end things?Just to follow up, I just told her I'm not really looking for a long term relationship but that I'd love to hang out with her if she's fine with that. She friendly declined because she's looking for the opposite and she appreciated the honesty, we just wishes each other good luck. I'm actually relieved, I feel like I've just prevented her from getting hurt in the long term, even though I'd have loved to spend more time with her. Thanks a lot again, it feels like the right thing. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | If you feel like you can sleep with a prudish girl if you play the patient game, is there a way to do so without hurting her feelings when you end things?That's what I'd have thought if she simply didn't mention it, but she said what she said so matter of factly that it appeared she's serious about it | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 12:50 AM |
| – | If you feel like you can sleep with a prudish girl if you play the patient game, is there a way to do so without hurting her feelings when you end things?Thanks for the honesty. I regret what happened and I'm going to be honest with this girl, I think just by telling her that I'm not really looking for anything serious whenever she gets back to me again. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 04:33 PM |
| – | If you feel like you can sleep with a prudish girl if you play the patient game, is there a way to do so without hurting her feelings when you end things?I mean I can tell her that I'm not looking for something serious, it will definitely prevent her from getting hurt but my chances with her will probably disappear. Would there be a more subtle approach? | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 12:24 AM |
| – | STOTD - You are not even cute...Bonus points if you blatantly look at her boobs while saying 'personality' | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Help, I can only run game when I'm around friends.That's funny, I have the opposite. My friends are not at all into pickup so I feel weird doing it when I'm with them. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 09:32 AM |
| 1 | How to be vulnerable but not needyWe've been dating for almost two months, but only once every two weeks or so. Last two times she stayed the night and those were a few of the best nights I've ever had. Not just sex but I really feel a connection as well. Now every time I go to sleep, I remember us snuggling and I fall asleep smiling. So on the other hand, it's things like her not really a lot of eye contact and her not really accepting/giving compliments that Im not 100% sure if she sees it as something real or something casual… | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 11:22 AM |
| – | How to be vulnerable but not needyGreat video, thanks for sharing. I actually made a post about this two days ago. I'm dating this girl and I think I'm starting to love her, but I don't want to ruin it by being needy when I tell her; I have no clue if she feels the same way about me. You have any more tips on how to apply your reasoning to my situation? | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 08:07 AM |
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