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ADVICETrinityNeo333/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 06:48 PM
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You could do the kinks quiz to see if you're into anything bdsm related. Google bdsm test. Then fill it out, honestly. It will tell you which categories you might want to explore more.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/25 08:45 PM
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It's not a great sign. He's probably not that into you. When a man really likes you, he makes you a priority and thinks about you a lot. He would call you and want to see you ASAP. The only other explanation is that he needs time to decompress after getting home before having the energy to talk to/hang out with anyone. But if he's talking to and hanging out with other people on those days, he's just not that into you. I'd give him space.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/24 04:59 PM
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The way we did it was this- He eats the same food for breakfast and lunch each day (I pack the night before). Then each evening is a different dinner, one for each night of the week. For example Monday Mahi-mahi with quinoa, Tuesday healthy Mexican, Weds Beef Veg etc. The calories and macros are all tracked ahead of time & I keep the meals & measurements in my phone. It would just take about one hour of time together on his time off to sit and plan together. You would still be measuring, prepari…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 10:26 AM
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Have him plan his exact diet, on a food tracker. Then you just make him what he asked for. Then he won't ask you what he's going to eat & then complain it's not McDonald's, because it was his exact plan. That way you can still help and serve him, without the responsibility of coming up with meal ideas or feeling like his mom.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/24 01:45 PM
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He's a piece of trash and he wants to see if he can keep you around on the side. Block him!! You hold the power and you should have all the confidence and boot his ass permanently ✨️
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/24 10:11 PM
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Exactly. I'd say most men love it, honestly. Maybe not all. My husband sure does. All the outfits she described sound perfect for what my hubby likes 👍
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/24 06:35 PM
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He needs to tell you EXACTLY what he wants you to do. You could read 1,000 books and watch tons of videos and at the end of it, come away with so many different techniques because different guys like different things. So you need to know what HE likes. And he needs to tell you! Your mouth is "too cold"? Wtf. Once it all starts moving, creating friction, everything warms up, but that's such a weird, picky thing to say.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 05:23 PM
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Yes mine likes it when I point out other women checking him out & act jealous in a very silly, playful way. But the key is that I had to build incredible self-confidence and extreme trust in my relationship first before I was able to pull this off without it being a negative thing. The "fun jealous" interactions need to be 95% playful/actually truly lighthearted for real, with 5% desire for reassurance. If these percentages get skewed in the opposite direction, they devolve quickly into a pity p…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 01:07 AM
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Might be the type of guy you're dating? My blue collar man tells me constantly how beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, pretty, cute, etc he finds me. I also get compliments from strangers a lot, so yes, I'm physically attractive, but it is nice to hear from the man you love.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 01:03 AM
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Haha so you're telling me if we tried it, there wouldn't be an entire Hooters waitstaff volleyball team lined up to steal my husband, like in my worried mind? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 12:37 PM
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My husband is in his 40s and still would love to have sex with other women 😅🤣. He is faithful to me but he's definitely expressed that he'd love "swinging" etc
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 06:37 PM
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Huh. Well not sure if any of this will help, in your case but- You mentioned your bloodwork was great, did you do a hormone panel? I'm older than you but I dealt with lower libido than my very high libido husband for years. I've tried everything. Reading multiple books on sex drive, lots of erotica, lowering stress, working out more, all the supplements, wearing sexy clothes, lots of self-care time, etc etc. And what ended up helping the most was testosterone therapy. It's not for everyone. Just…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 02:20 AM
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Do you enjoy the sex once it starts? Or do you hate it the entire time? If you do enjoy it once things get going, you have transitioned into "reactive desire", which is common for women in long-term relationships, after the "chase" and the "honeymoon period" are over. (Read the book "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagowski for more information regarding that. If you enjoy things once they get going, you can remind yourself of this, daily, and giving your husband sex shouldn't be an issue at all. If h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 01:57 AM
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💓💓💓 Love this! I was a naturally "red pill" woman before that term was even adopted by the movement. I'm not comfortable in most spaces on reddit because, like a lot of the world today, they seem like clown world, upside-down world. I just recently found this sub, and its amazing!! I can actually converse and ask questions without getting bombarded by feminist hive-mind rhetoric. It's amazing 👏
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 09:15 PM
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I wish!!!!!! That's EXACTLY how I feel!!!! Sex is so amazing after a build up of not getting it for a few days!!!!! I've tried reasoning with him, saying exactly what you've said here, but he claims this is not the case for him. It's weird lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 08:35 PM
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I hear you. And appreciate the insight! 💓💓💓 No mental disorders but his Myers Briggs personality type is ESTJ which is known for having some selfish, borderline narcissistic traits. He's 100% trying to use manipulation tactics to try and satisfy his sexual fantasies. He doesn't deny it, haha. Luckily this behavior doesn't spill over into other aspects of our life, he is a great support, great listener, has proven to me that he's a good person and great partner. But this sex stuff...lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 08:32 PM
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Hi! He's always had this high of a sex drive. I'm not offended at all, it's a completely valid question! But no. I'm actually on low dose hormones myself, but hes not on any. He's just always had a crazy high sex drive. 😅
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 08:18 PM
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Lol that cracked me up. "Anything that is not cheating left and right is considered vanilla now" is a perfect way to put it. Sad but true. Society is fucked, literally.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:40 PM
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I do agree with you here. There are many good reasons to be anti-porn. Wherever someone falls on the spirituality spectrum, we can (should) all agree that porn is negatively affecting society.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:24 PM
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Yes he very well might be watching porn a lot. But here's the thing: I've told him I don't want him watching it. Because we already have sex all the time and I'd prefer he doesn't get more worked up by seeing all these wild sex acts online, creating an even higher libido in him. I've discussed human trafficking and he knows I'm passionately against forced sex work, and that we can't vet these people in porn actually want to be there or if it's a trafficked situation. He knows all of this. If he …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:15 PM
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Yes it's kind of a cuckold fetish, although he has clarified he would always want to be a part of the action (not just watch) and he wouldn't get off by being insulted in any way, he would want to "be in charge". I'm definitely trying to find a balance between the extremes of completely turning him off vs completely feeding into corrupt fantasies that go against my morals. It was suggested to try and find a replacement fantasy that turns him on, which I'm going to try my best to do!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:01 PM
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This is excellent advice. I'm not sure the "glory hole game" would be the exact thing we need, as my husband would 100% take it in the direction of it being "different guys who want to F me" on the other side of the hole, (same fantasy I'm trying to get away from lol), but overall your post definitely inspires me to dig deep, research, and find something that is exciting that can potentially be a replacement. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 06:57 PM
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I posted a quick reddit question. It did not encompasses all that I've thought about the matter, or all of the conversations I've had with my husband. Obviously I've asked him why he has these desires. We've had years of conversations about these matters. -He finds it sexy to think about me as a total slut. -He is turned on by anything that may turn me on sexually. -He has a history of relationships with women who brought others into the bedroom & he misses it (I didn't know this info until we'd…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 06:43 PM
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I appreciate the insight, I actually had screenshot that portion of your comment, about the true nature and purpose of sex, because I can bring up that point sometime during future conversations with my husband. I think because we never had children, he may have a limited view on sex. I do think, in my husband's case, he'd still be extremely sexual even after kids because his drive is so, so high. But it could have changed him. Bummer, another reason I wish children would've worked out.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 01:04 PM
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I was saved recently. After a life of agnosticism/atheism. I'm not opening up the marriage. No one is going to have sex with anyone else. I'm asking and struggling with my husband's fantasy talk. He knows it's not real and not going to happen in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 12:52 PM
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And yes, good point about the potential change of mind that could occur in a man when he has children or tries for children. We don't have kids, it's complicated, but I see your point. I do think men can still have various sex addictions or warped views on sex, even after kids, but I'm sure it does change in the minds of many men.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 12:43 PM
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I'm so happy you were saved by Christ!! Very happy for you 😊 Yes, I've told my husband we will never have sex with other people, and that if he wants to do that, he is free to leave. That I don't want to hold him back, truly. Life is short and if that's what he really wants, for his happiness, he needs to go do that. I told him this a few years ago. Thats when he said he chooses to stay with me, but the "fantasy" talk is what he wants to continue and what I'm having an issue with. I don't mind t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 12:36 PM
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We have a great sex life. 5-7× a week. He loves having sex, he literally runs up the stairs super excited whenever I say let's go up. He's constantly complimenting me, touching me, asking for pictures, smacking my butt. We have sex in different rooms, I wear all kinds of outfits, all positions, love giving oral. Everything is great except I can't be more than one person.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 02:53 AM
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Yes I'm well aware of the issues with porn. I have told my husband I don't like it and I'd prefer he doesn't watch it. Beyond that, it's on him. I'm not his mom. He has a history of being in relationships with women who brought in regular thressome sex. I did not know this information prior to getting married. He was used to wild sex. Monogamy was good for him, for over 10 years with me, and then he started missing the extra spice of additional partners like he had previously done.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 02:46 AM
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Thank u me too!!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 12:53 AM
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The reason he got into this was (and he didn't tell me this until we'd been married for 10+ years)- in his prior relationships, the women were bisexual and brought in 3-somes for him semi regularly. I believe it, he's a good looking, very charismatic, confident tall guy who doesn't lie. He told me that it was great, but he didn't exclusively date those types of women, so when he met me, and I was the super monogamous type, he went with it. And he was totally fine for years, then he started missi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 12:31 AM
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He claims he doesn't watch porn and I'm with him most of the time, but I'm also aware he probably watches it sometimes, like 99.9% of guys. It's definitely not a huge addiction for him, since he gets so much sex. He probably watches it sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 10:46 PM
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Thank you I will check out that book 💓
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 08:39 PM
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Yes, I've definitely spoken to him about if I'm just not enough to satisfy him, if there are external reasons he may just not be that into me, and I'm truly open to hear. He swears up and down that I'm his dream woman in every way (except this specific situation where he wishes I was more open to these types of sexual experiences.) He claims that sex, for him, is just a fun activity and not a deep meaningful thing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 07:13 PM
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I do not know. He says he doesn't, but I'd assume he may be periodically. Last night I suggested that if he is watching porn, maybe he can take a break from that and we can try to just focus on having sex without the dirty talk (I likened it to a "diet", to get him refocused on the basics). He did not like what I said, claims he just loves that kind of sex, and has been distant today.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 07:08 PM
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I mean, do you like him? Do you see a future with him? Does he have a decent job/career? If he does, he could buy a more expensive car in the future, unless he is opposed to that for some reason. His apartment interior can definitely change once you help decorate and renovate.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 11:50 AM
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I'm in my 40s and I get hit on quite a bit. My husband is hot and obsessed with me. I always hear online that no man is interested in anyone over 20, 25, 30 but that is not my experience. Keep in shape and keep a good attitude and men are always interested LOL
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 08:06 PM
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