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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 1 Year Since FilingWhat has it cost you in attorney fees so far? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/24 01:53 PM |
| 4 | My wife was served the papers today.I think she will drag it out, ultimately costing the both of us more money. We have one kid, 22 yo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | My wife was served the papers today.Yes, I think the server said she has 30 days to respond. I guess this can go in my favor? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | My wife was served the papers today.She also accused the process server of smelling like alcohol and being drunk 🥴 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 07:55 PM |
| 7 | My brother in laws divorce settlement75%of his pension is crazy, how far away from retirement is he? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Lawyers FeesLawyers like this back and forth. As soon as the retainer is signed, they charge for every communication with them, emails, texts, and phone calls all get charged back against the retainer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/24 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Wife filed for divorce and now wants me to consider a legal separation instead after 4 months of back and forth between lawyersLegal separation is a good path to save money on lawyers. I offered my wife a legal separation, She declined, so I filed for divorce. Now it's going to cost both of us a small fortune. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | So much of it is just time, that's the hard partSpot on, everyone here needs to know this | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Need some helpAlmost the same, I don't travel. I'm happy when she's not home and stay in the bedroom alone when she's home. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/24 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Wife filed and hasn’t told me…Divorce filing is public information, Google both your names and you will get at least the filing date and location. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/24 11:35 AM |
| 9 | Struggling with Mixed Signals and Toxic Patterns During DivorceI think they're all crazy, my wife brings up stuff from 20 years ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take for your wife to get served papers from the day of paying for the attorney retainer?I forgot to send photos and a description of her to my attorneys office, that's the holdup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/24 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How long did it take for your wife to get served papers from the day of paying for the attorney retainer?Sounds like I should expect it to take maybe 2 weeks or so? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/24 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Day 2, my lawyer emailed me a bunch of forms to fill out, financials and all of that stuff. My wife is hiding our marriage certificate and tax returns. Anyone else have this happen?I got the transcripts and emailed them to my attorneys office, they are telling me that they need the actual returns. Now I have to call my tax guy and try to get copies, this is way more bs than I anticipated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here negotiated a legal separation during a divorce? Just trying to figure out my options.Yes, being that my wife is making an issue about keeping our health insurance, it could be a good bargaining chip. The only way she can stay on my insurance is with a legal separation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How Much To Pay ?I think where you live plays a part in it, I live in New York City, and I just paid almost 9k for a retainer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Placed a retainer on an attorney today, doesn't feel great to be honest about it.Almost 9k | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/24 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Day 2, my lawyer emailed me a bunch of forms to fill out, financials and all of that stuff. My wife is hiding our marriage certificate and tax returns. Anyone else have this happen?Thanks, will take a look tomorrow 👍 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Day 2, my lawyer emailed me a bunch of forms to fill out, financials and all of that stuff. My wife is hiding our marriage certificate and tax returns. Anyone else have this happen?Do you know if the tax transcripts are online? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 11:48 PM |
| 2 | There one day and gone the nextMy wife pretends everything is ok, her motivation is money, she has convinced herself that she will out live me and will just stick around until it happens. (Yes we are an are couple). | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Placed a retainer on an attorney today, doesn't feel great to be honest about it.Thanks, appreciate the kind words. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Placed a retainer on an attorney today, doesn't feel great to be honest about it.Definitely | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Do you guys ever financially recover?I'm 65 and retired, there is no recovering for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/24 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Who has to pay their spouses health insurance? This is the real dealbreaker for me.Yes, I have New York State insurance as part of my retirement benefits, and she would be dropped automatically with a divorce. But she's arguing that I should have to provide her with a new plan. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Who has to pay their spouses health insurance? This is the real dealbreaker for me.I hope you're right | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Who has to pay their spouses health insurance? This is the real dealbreaker for me.I'm retired from the State of New York. She will be automatically removed from my plan upon a divorce. She could stay on the plan if we were to get a legal separation, which i offered to her, but she's saying no. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Who has to pay their spouses health insurance? This is the real dealbreaker for me.She doesn't work, I'm retired with a pension and social security. We live in New York. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Who has to pay their spouses health insurance? This is the real dealbreaker for me.I'm in New York | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 06:04 PM |
| 11 | Who has to pay their spouses health insurance? This is the real dealbreaker for me.She's been on my heath insurance since we married, 22 years now. So she's insisting that she will fight me for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 03:26 PM |
| 15 | Encouragement neededWomen know that they have the financial advantage in a divorce, and it's easier for women to move onto a new relationship.I mean, let's be honest in that no matter how ugly, old, or evil they are, men will line up to sniff their butt... | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you marry again wo a prenup?Please, I'm trying to figure out the financial damage of a divorce this year...so no, never again under any circumstance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | DeSantis ends permanent alimony in FloridaWould it apply to someone who moves to Florida from another state? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 06:13 PM |
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