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You could also interpret Homer bringing home the dog as a moral lesson that all of his previous attempts to provide his family the perfect Christmas were sought in the superficial. Christmas lights and expensive presents are all materialistic thin veneers that are meant to be dwarfed by the feeling of togetherness and warmth during the coldest nights of the year. Bringing home the dog is essentially tasking his family with the collective responsibility of caring for a pet. How odd that accepting…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 01:30 PM
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The worst part about TRP is realizing that women love you for what you have to offer, then subsequently realizing that what you have to offer is very little. Even if you're tall, handsome and can make quick gains with lifting which I'm all very blessed with luckily, you can still be a boring turd overall. Realizing you have to be interesting takes a long time, getting to terms with that takes longer, then you actually need to go out and become interesting. Luckily theres light at the end of that…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 01:38 PM
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When I first stumbled upon TRP, I definitely made a large swing to the right politically and ethically, whatever that means. My anger phase was largely a counter-reaction that manifested in unbearable 'chad' behaviour accompanied by an incongruent political view that, frankly, alienated many people from me for a while. I'm still repairing the damage I did during that time years later. I was radically conservative simply to stir the pot among my more liberal friends because after my redpilling du…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 04:12 PM
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Yeah this is spot on. The orbiter of a plate I had at the beginning of this year ran into one of those daddy issues women. The guy was being abused by everyone in his circles, my plate included, for his access to cocaine (mid-grade dealer) which he dispensed liberally to buy their affection. Then an heiress to an extremely wealthy family from my country latched herself onto him. Boy, was she a piece of work. Basically, she led the kind of life where if she didnt respond to her moms text within 1…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 04:34 PM
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I see what you mean. The less you say, the more she guesses and wonders. I fancy myself a writer, though, so its hard to trim the hedges to the bare bones and simply be as effective, yet mysterious, in your communication as possible. I usually get remarks that I'm being very curt and uninterested during the times I've attemped this.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 09:58 PM
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Its been two years since I broke contact with my BPD by blocking her in every way possible. She got engaged 4 months later to an American and just recently moved there from what I hear. I still suffer from the memory, but it has gotten better. It will for you too, my man. Embrace the suffering and use it to fuel your efforts into becoming a man that will never be infected by their disease again.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 09:29 PM
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Does this mean we should avoid emojis like the plague when it comes to text game, or use it to our advantage? I always feel like I betray my intellect when I use emoji's, but chicks just can't seem to grasp nuance or sarcasm without them. Not like my guys seem to be able to, at the very least.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 03:57 PM
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Good on you for having the wherewithal to acknowledge your condition and tackle it head-on, OP. I think many in your position would either seek shelter behind the diagnosis or keep on denying. I don't know much about BPD, admittedly, yet I know enough these days to have had pieces click into place when remembering those people that eventually drove me to TRP. To anyone reading, this is something that this community often hammers into its readers but I think it can't be repeated enough: If you ca…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 09:10 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with being introverted, as long as its because being so is congruent with who you are. I feel many introverts use it as an excuse to justify their feeling helpless when it comes to social interaction and a deeply rooted feeling of worthlessness that makes them afraid of showing themselves to the world. Put bluntly, it is my belief that many introverts are simply extraverts who let life beat them into submission and cowardice. This is not intended as an accusa…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:05 AM
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I'm very enamoured by the idea of going out alone, because it seems like something I should be comfortable doing, congruent with my personality. Matter of fact, I am actually quite comfortable in going out to dinner alone or going to a bar during the day and just hang out with myself for a bit. But clubs? I have no idea how to have fun there, because my idea of fun was long defined by drugs and alcohol. I'm currently on a 6 months cleanse for the first time in my life, and its really hard for me…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 08:16 PM
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Goddamn you GLO, goddamn you. This post, as well as your gargantuan titanium quads, effectively got me reminiscing about the days when I was just swallowing the pill. Only now do I truly acknowledge that I was exactly that which I was so actively and overtly despising in daily life. The latent truth of my wretched sheepdom hiding behind talk of manifesting wolfness. I'm going to rub one out tonight to some nasty-ass porn in honour to you, sir. I mean, I do that pretty often while crying in the s…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 08:21 PM
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No, definitely don't adress this ever again. If she brings it up, steer the conversation elsewhere. I have the same fucked up humour as you do, so take it from me when I say that a big mouth can get you in a whooole lot of trouble when you decide to be outrageous with politics and ideology or, God forbid, take a stance opposing anyone. Its a massive anti-poon move by the way, talking about vag-drying subjects like feminism or politics, so save that part of you for when you're mainlining cocaine …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:06 PM
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Gaming is merely one of the nasty manifestations of my dopamine-seeking, self-medicating behaviour. Gaming is just one of the many methods I use to avoid responsibility and is surprisingly hard to quit for a lot of people. The effects of two hours of gaming are comparable to a hit of cocaine. As a matter of fact, gaming addiction has only very recently been recognized by the WHO as a disorder and there's a lot of research being done in its pernicious effect on the brain and spirit. I suppose tha…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 01:25 PM
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No man, actual rehab. Ambulatory care though, so no overnight stays. But I go to meetings, see a therapist etc. I gotta rewire my brain after years of habitual abuse of basically the full range of cheap thrills.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 12:18 PM
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Women aren't pissed because they haven't gotten equal representation in comics, because there are in truth plenty of female superheroes with their own comic books and rich backstory. They just want to insert themselves into the stories of the male superheroes because they won't be happy until the male icons become the Beta orbiters of the female ones. In their mind, men have to be just as idolate of characters like Wonderwoman or Ms. Marvel as they are of Superman and Batman, because it allows t…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 12:15 PM
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I'm currently in rehab for video games. Drugs as well, but mainly video games. These things that provide instant gratification can suck you in with such force that its very hard to balance it out unless you replace them with other 'passions'. I think OP is on the right track, he filled up his time with new and interesting hobbies that allow him to expand his network and stimulate growth rather than let him stagnate.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 01:23 PM
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Hey man, I know how you feel. I've been there. I started losing my hair at 21, it hit me like a sledgehammer. I started shaving it off about 6 months later, thats the best decision you could make if you are noticeably thinning out. Now, 6 years later, I don't even remember what its like to have hair and I assure you that there are plenty of ladies that love it. Shave it off. Or at least trim it down to a stubble. DO NOT get a hair transplant. They will usually not perform it on you until you're …
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:29 AM
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Man I would give my left nut to be a persian pussy licker instead of being stuck with the spiritually damaged Dutch broads I meet.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 12:54 PM
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Just be careful that you don't catch feelings for her again, or become jealous when she fucks other dudes (which she will, eventually) and I don't see the problem in keeping her as a plate. However, a lot of guys here, myself included, will tell you from experience that plating your ex is generally a bad idea if there remain any shred of lingering feelings for her. Ask yourself honestly if that is the case. If yes, hard next immediately. Don't torture yourself. If no, keep smashing champ.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 10:45 AM
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In my experience, the Indian girls can get clingy really quick. To the point of annoyance, actually. If you can avoid her in your daily life I would smash it through the mattress, but if not tread with caution. Why? A lot of them are very inexperienced when it comes to Western sexual politics and dynamics. It tends to make them dramatise their love affairs like a teenager would. The potential blowback from pumping and dumping can be significant, but by all means don't let that stop you if you ca…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 10:40 AM
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You're overthinking it. You'll end up dissapointed if you don't bite soon. She is practically begging you to fuck her, so she's gonna think you're playing a cruel game or a pussy. Just dont get lost in Disney fantasies once you do seal the deal.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 07:39 PM
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I'm bored by her, though it should be noted that it isn't personal. I'm bored with everything at the moment aside from finishing up my Bachelor's degree, lifting and finding a new job. Though I normally like to have sex a bunch, and have no problem getting it, right now I'm just not feeling it at all, which is very new for me and most likely due to my rehab program. My problem is that I care so little about her that it annoys me when she shows me even the slightest act of kindness by asking how …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 11:59 AM
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You don't have to game every chick you meet, OP. If you get friend-zoned, you get friend-zoned. As long as you don't allow it to happen with chicks you actually do want, then you're golden. It's a steep learning curve, but just keep recognizing your Beta behaviour and correct yourself on it in the moment.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 11:07 AM
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Wow, this was extremely well written and motivational. Thanks a bunch, OP, actually needed this!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 11:01 AM
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Trying to show off how smart I am because I thought it would get me laid. Still have a hard time not sounding like a sperg at parties by running my mouth about depressing, complicated stuff.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 07:52 PM
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If you reduce it to two Jungian archetypes, the Trickster and the King, that is definitely the case. The Kings greatest strength but also his weakness is his immovable principles. They are necessary to provide the direction he sets his followers on, but become a burden once they cease to be useful. The Trickster is essentially an archetype whose role is to upset the status quo in such a manner that an opportunity arises for change. In court symbolism, the King always had a Fool. The Fool was all…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 10:31 PM
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I see what you did. Imagine the two personalities and play out the scenario in your head where each one will lead. I understand your reasoning for choosing the virtuous archetype, but I would argue that the 'cocky machavellian' gets too much of a bad rap in the eyes of many, including the previous commenter. Being cocky and machavellian in nature (by which I assume you imply manipulative intent) does not mean, in my opinion, that the archetype in itself is malicious. Flexibility, guile and socia…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 06:56 PM
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A lot of people here swear by BJJ (Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) because it apparently requires immense discipline and practice, while teaching you to pacify basically anyone foolish enough to get grappled by you. I've personally only done boxing or kickboxing. I think your choice depends on what you want out of it. Try them all, pick one that suits your body type. I'm Dutch, so I'm basically genetically built for kickboxing or any martial art where reach is an advantage.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 06:23 PM
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Honestly, when I read it my first instinct was: "where the hell is OP hanging out?" Does this kind of interaction actually happen? I thought this kind of female cruelty was reserved only for those unfortunate enough to have tangled with a BPD.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 06:12 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with your point, OP. Sounds like you learned to detach yourself from pussy, showed by the fact that you didn't drop everything you were doing to go secure that lay when it presented itself to you on a silver platter. You didn't seem all that interested in the first place, so not pursuing also shows that your standards have shifted for the better! Sometimes I think it's better to have no poon at all, rather than poon you settled for.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 09:16 PM
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I think its because womens hypergamous nature is amplified tenfold through dating apps. If you don't belong to the top 20%, its easy to struggle getting matches for a lot of guys.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 07:32 PM
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You forget, however, that in the Disney movies there is often a form of heroism present where the prince 'wins' the princess by performing some grand feat, like slaying a dragon or whatever. A lot of these stories involve the metaphor of the 'prince' getting the 'princess' once he stops being a weak pushover and faces his personal challenge head-on. When you say the old you is the one that should have been valued because you would have supported and loved a woman unconditionally, can't you see t…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:50 PM
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I would recommend looking into dating apps, they are a godsend for the man that has little time to go out. Get them all, learn how to create a good profile and then just set up dates according to your own schedule.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 04:26 PM
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I guess I'll ask this. Can you have true intimacy with a prostitute or escort when you know she's only there because of superficial reasons? I think you answered the question yourself. If you know she's there for superficial reasons, then it should be obvious that true intimacy cannot be achieved. ​ I want to, I want to feel intimacy far more than I want casual, meaningly sex. How can I do that when I know that I'll only have her affection as long as I "hold frame?" How is that not glorified pro…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:21 PM
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Definitely agree with the other commenters, you come across as a larping sperg. 'Men respect you and seek your advice', but at the same time your friends and the women seem hostile towards you? Sounds like you've been improving, but were a major dick about it. A lot of us have been there, though, so no shame in that. Keep improving, don't become complacent, you're only 22 so you have a long way to go. And stop writing like one of the lake poets, it does more harm than good. Trust me, been there.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 06:43 AM
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I've definitely done this. I work in a bar, sometimes you just need to be subtle because she's with her friends. Little piece of paper with your number and name on it will suffice. Doesn't always lead to something, but I've always gotten a text out of it. Got slipped a number myself a couple of times, actually.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:53 PM
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Oh man, Jordan Peterson has been like my spiritual father for the past two years. I owe that man a great deal. His message greatly resonated with me and sparked much of what I do today. I'll definitely check out your sub though!
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 12:09 PM
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You're welcome. I've long been considering taking the allegories from Greek mythology, most notably Heracles, and translating them into TRP lessons :) I need more post karma first though. Once that happens, you think people will be interested?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 11:06 AM
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Sooner or later, every boy gets the call. The call to arms, the call to prove his manhood in the face of adversity. Even within the most mundane areas of life, I believe there are opportunities for the masculine energy to flourish and be strengthened. The call is that which leads you to the endgame. OP's excellent post reminds me of one of the stories of Heracles, the prelude to his 12 labours, The Choice of Heracles. In this tale, or at least the version of it I'm familiar with, Heracles is chi…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 10:45 AM
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Yeah man. I know they organize it often at the edges of my city, not sure about the US. Its weird, crazy and combines two things attractive women love: yoga and small critters. You could also look for events where you can play with a ton of puppies at once. It even melts my black, redpilled heart, so imagine what that does to her?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:32 AM
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A little bit of living on the edge never hurts a date, in my opinion. The way I see it, if she can't handle a bit of shit then she's probably too squeamish for me anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:29 AM
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I very much enjoy dating, for the reasons you outlined above. Its supposed to be fun, and having fun with someone else that is fun who you later can possibly have horizontal fun with? Even better. I tend to use dates as opportunities for trying out new shit every once in a while. Depends on the girl, 8/10 times casual drinks is the best scenario. But if she's particularly adventurous you can take her bouldering or something else active, that really gets the happy juices flowing. Best discovery I…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:34 PM
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But you can just hand over the 15$ in this case and still remain secure in your own masculinity, right? I am on the side of the 'wouldn't pay' in this scenario, don't get me wrong, but don't you feel OP has a point in the sense that over-analyzing such a trivial thing really just displays you care too much about the damage this particular broad can do? That seems to me like a weak state of mind.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 12:53 PM
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I think a lot of guys conflate sexual strategy and politics in several ways. For one, they assume that they need to 'win her over'. Though this is true to some degree, it mistakingly often becomes a bland rattling off of qualifications that in his mind make him an ideal sexual partner. In truth, much like with politicians, credentials are only a small part of what I think boils down to 'seeing' the other person or audience for what they are. Individuals and audiences want to be heard, understood…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 12:35 PM
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Save for a few exceptions, I don't know any of these women. Trying to avoid applying my bubble to the rest of the world, but I know very few raging 'feminazis' even though I know they're out there. Usually, they are fat or undesireable in other ways, so I understand why they do what they do. I do, however, know a shitton of plugged in Beta males who keep running into the same problems with women. You are 100% correct in that these men try to rationalise themselves into a girls pants, I see it as…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 12:10 PM
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Don't get sucked into the drama, it will make you end up with neither of them. Rise above their petty turf war, since you have dick enough for the both of them.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:40 PM
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Man, just do what you want. You don't owe this girl shit so don't be afraid to ditch her just because you can't get laid otherwise. No sex is better than sex but being controlled by a hypocritical fattie.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 08:35 AM
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You probably are breaking her heart, as well as your own. It's a part of life, I'm afraid. I don't mean to sound overly insensitive to your situation, I know how it feels. You will, however, get over it and learn from this experience, able to approach your future relationships with a more critical eye. Hopefully so will she, though this should not be your concern. One last thing, take it from someone who did not have the stones to end things completely after he broke up with his BPD-chick: Make …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 12:28 AM
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Listen to the advice these people are giving you, OP. The signs are there, you just don't want to see them for what they are. You're invested, and you don't want to cut your losses. A lot of dudes in the manosphere have been where you are and failed to walk away because BPD pussy is addicting af. They are now here with us, pill fully swallowed, but not before their particular she-devil (which is what BPD's are, basically) has left them destroyed and permanently scarred. Its a lesson that every b…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 11:43 PM
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Got a date with my 'spiritual' therapist next week who is 7 years older than me. As a 26 year old guy, I can't deny I'm proud she's attracted to me since she's smoking hot. The women in my family know this date is happening and my sister said I could score points if I didn't sleep with her on the first date. Just to be clear, this is bullshit advice right? I generally don't take advice from women concerning women since taking the pill, just wondering what you guys think about delaying sex for bi…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:15 PM
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Breaks my heart that you feel so alone, my man. If I may paraphrase Jordan Peterson a bit (whose Youtube videos I highly recommend, they helped spark me to get my act together), see this period of your life as a narrative of you facing darkness head on so that you may emerge victorious back into the light. Its not easy. However, noone who knows anything about life will ever tell you it is. Life can beat you pretty far down, which is where you feel you're at right now. Luckily, you have control o…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:00 PM
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I don't get men that do this. The first few lays of my life were often with unattractive women (gotta start somewhere) but honestly my standards have gone exponentially up over the years, not down. You are the prize.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:25 AM
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Wow, when you started talking about the 'brash asshole' I realized that thats me to the letter. I've always known that I can be too much of a clown sometimes, but I never considered the reason might be subconscious people-pleasing; which I've so desperately been trying to avoid since swallowing the pill. Thanks, this got me thinking.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:22 PM
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Thanks for the bolstering words, my dude. I appreciate it. Yeah I consider myself extremely lucky compared to some of the men I see as a bartender. Seeing how lonely some guys sitting alone at my bar are who just had a bad luck of the draw in genetics and upbringing breaks my heart, it makes me feel like I need to bring out my maximum potential as far as game and life success goes. I know the potential is there, yet my main problem lies in escalation due to fear of rejection. New women paralyze …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:34 PM
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Thanks for the support! Its cool, past few weeks a couple of things have started to click into place. When I just keep doing the whole flirt thing, from a more authentic mindset, the women actually start to crave it every time I see them and remain more aloof than usual. I guess this is what they mean with outcome independence? I ended up with this girl last night, HB6 but cute, funny and smart, who always says I'm a complete asshole but 'secretly' a sweetie. I was drunk and horny, so I finally …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 12:01 PM
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Right, thanks a lot. Its funny, often they'll ask me: "Haha does that actually ever work?", "I bet you do that with everybody." Sometimes I use that as an opportunity to tell them I can only really do it with women I find attractive, which is a slightly underhand way of communicating attraction I suppose. I'll try to take your advise to heart and focus on one per night for a while, to see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:52 AM
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Wow, just wow. If you truely are legit, I have the utmost respect for you and your transformation. Two years? Thats the power of potential for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 04:39 PM
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Last Easter I was helping my mother move with the rest of the family all weekend. At some point, my sisters best friend and roommate showed up because she broke up with her LTR the night before (10 years older, complete BP but only met the guy once). My family is one that subsists on talking and near constant emotional analysis, mom is a psychologist and pop is a politician, so we often provide safe havens for cases like my sisters BFF, lets call her Mary. I enjoy audacious flirting, complete ov…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:58 PM
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Loyalty isn't bought, it's either earned or given freely. If it can be bought, it implies that the highest bidder has a right to it which makes it lose its intrinsic value. A few sweet words mean nothing if there is no action behind them. This relatively obvious realization made me break the conditioning you mentioned. Ultimately, your loyalty is a resource that you should feel in control of at all times. Like with all resources, its value comes from scarcity and from clever distribution. A good…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 01:56 PM
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Though I'm not a TRP guru, since I swallowed the pill at the start of 2017, I feel I can help with this because I can certainly empathize with your unwillingness to ditch them. It shows loyalty which, in my estimation at least, is a virtuous trait. There will never be a shortage of people who disagree with you and who will try to micromanage the things you say to make you fit more into their reality. Likewise, from your end, you can lead the horse to the waterhole but you cannot force it to drin…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 09:43 AM
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I swallowed the pill half a year ago or so, and it has completely changed my outlook on life itself. Aside from internalizing AF/BB, AWALT and general TRP tenets, my political views have shifted dramatically. I'm the only Dutch Trump supporter in Amsterdam, as far as I know, at least among my 25+ peer group. I would describe myself as a social man, who has little difficulty navigating himself through my established social circles. One issue I've always had, however, something I realized recently…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 07:03 PM
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I've received comments over the years, from women especially, that for a good while (say, the first five encounters) they find it hard to establish a connection with me. That I'm too 'difficult'. Since stumbling upon TRP five months ago I've started lifting, eating and slowly but surely trying to cut out my most toxic habits like smoking cigarettes, drugs (bi-monthly cocaine, usually..) and video game binges. Though I have relapses, there are incremental increases to my progress and for the firs…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 04:21 PM
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Thanks OP, This inspired me to get an appointment to get my blood checked as soon as I finished reading. Low energy is a consistent problem for me, one I often attribute to my nasty pack a day smoking habit (working on kicking that as we speak), but it can't hurt to know if other factors contribute to it. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 01:54 PM
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