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| 28 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed? | Discussion | Tripp_583 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:23 PM |
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| 4 | How does one become an Incel?I am a former incel, happy to answer any questions you might have | /r/MensRights | 21/02/26 01:50 AM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseThis is probably the most obvious egregious example of fds Rage bait that I've ever seen in my entire life. Guaranteed that this person is an fds cultist, you would never see this type of language coming from any other type of person, I also guarantee you that this person is a terf. Your comments about Tick Tock and Taylor Swift kind of seal the nail in the coffin that you aren't actually approaching this with any sort of logic, it's just based off of your perceptions of the world, probably perc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 07:13 PM |
| – | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?As I mentioned already, marriage is one of the major ways many people build wealth together and create a stronger investment in their children than either parent could alone. So for the vast majority of people, it's going to make a major impact on how they raise their children in terms of economic advantage and the social and psychological impacts of that disadvantage. Until we rework our economic structure, not being married is just objectively a bad decision for building intergenerational weal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:06 AM |
| – | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?But marriage doesn't do anything to facilitate those outcomes, all it is is a contract that determines how you can enter and leave it, that's it. Now if we were talking before the mistake that was no fault divorce, I probably would have conceded the point to you, it would have probably kept a lot of unions more intact, because till death do us part would have actually been enforceable which I think is a good thing, but that's gone we don't have those levels of protection and security these days,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?I think, and I think this is a very uncomfortable subject, but I think it's less to do with the marriage itself and more about the demographic of people who are willing to get married. It's not the marriage that produces good outcomes, it's just the type of people who think that marriages worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?I don't think that's because of marriage, I just think that's a general cultural shift I don't think that there's a relation there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Again, I believe that the mistake that was no fault divorce eliminates your argument here. Again, pre no fault divorce I would have conceded this point to you, but today I just can't agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?What is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Which one do you think is more likely to stay together? Where to the mistake that was no fault divorce, I would have conceded that the married couple probably would have been more likely to stay together than the unmarried couple, but if we're talking about present day, I will not concede that there would be a difference, if they want to leave they will and marriage is not going to stop that. I think that you would have been correct in the past that marriage did create a barrier to leaving a uni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?If you take the people that are willing to go through marriage, and they just didn't get married, the result would be exactly the same for the kids. Because it's not the marriage, it's the environment that those people are able to create, they don't need marriage to create that environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?I think everything that you're describing comes down to the people rather than the marriage. I don't think that marriage has anything to do with it, I just think that it's the people who would be willing to go through it that are the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Have you ever stopped to consider why that is? Have you ever considered that it's not marriage as an institution that's beneficial to children, but it's the demographics of people who are more likely to get married? Sit with that for a second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Oh God not this collectivist garbage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Yeah, that's stupid. Tradition for the sake of tradition makes no sense at least if you're looking at it rationally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?And I suppose we should all be more in favor of collectivization and enslaving ourselves to the state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?So marriage isn't rational? Okay I'll accept that, I understand, people do things that aren't motivated out of logical reason, sometimes they make emotional decisions that are not rational. I personally can't relate to that, but that's just what some people do. Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?I know, but America's the one country where we should be kind of rejecting statism, so seeing people embrace it is just really disheartening, with other countries stateism is more of a default | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Why is it riskier more difficult? Be specific, answer the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?They shouldn't have allowed no fault divorce in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?If you know that your relationship is strong, and you trust that strong, and you're not insecure about it, why does the title matter to you? It's just a word. Why does girlfriend make you wince every time you say it if you know that your relationship is stronger than that? What makes that word inferior? Also what changed to make your relationship stronger after marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?That I want the government out of my life? I guess so yeah. The rise of statism in America is very depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Yeah, so with no fault divorce how it works is if I wake up in the morning and I don't like the color of your shirt, I can go down to the courthouse and dump you just like that at the drop of a hat. I don't actually need a justification for it. Now, theoretically that wouldn't be so bad if that voided all marital property and asset rights, however the scam is that no fault divorce actually maintains marital property rights. If it were up to me, the only way that you would preserve those rights w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?So marriage should exist because you are insecure about your relationship? That's not tangible, that's nothing. I love this, you just kind of help me prove my point, the only thing that you really have to say about marriage is that it made you feel less insecure about the legitimacy of your relationship. Why are you worried about what other people think of your relationship? Why is it the next level of commitment? Do you feel that you and your partner are closer after marriage? Do you feel like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?You're missing my point, the government shouldn't even have the option of having that level of control over people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Everything that you just listed is kind of just an advertisement for why we need to vote to take power away from the government, thanks for helping reinforce that idea for me and other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?So if you're worried about him leaving after 12 years, why are you with him? It seems like marriage is just a safety net for stupid people who rush into relationships they shouldn't be in based on your post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?I think that data pertains less to marriage itself, and more around the demographics of people who actually get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Getting rid of no fault divorce was a huge mistake. It actually put some weight behind marriage, yet another reason why it's all but pointless today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?It's amazing that you Proclaim your leftist yet this whole post screams of something that I would hear directly from Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro. Like the delivery, the language, the intent behind it is exactly the same from what I'd hear from them. Kind of interesting to see how leftists and all Riders can Converge on particular topics, and color me very much surprised that marriage is one of them. I have a Masters in engineering and I certainly will not be partaking in marriage, I think it's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Many people want to sign an agreement to split all assets and income in half so one can take off work for some years when they have young kids and still be able to legally have half the household money. If two people love each other, and they actually have to put this in legal writing, do you think maybe they shouldn't be together in the first place? If I love someone, I would help I wouldn't need to draft up a contract for us to split assets, I would hope that we could kind of just agree to tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatI think it should be solved, I think it would benefit Society. Now how to solve it, that's where it gets a little bit more messy. You're definitely not going to be able to please everybody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Again though, these seem so circumstantial that it's really hard for me and good faith to argue that these are legitimate Pros. And I would argue that there is no potential benefit of marriage that could possibly outweigh the risk of divorce, which in America is about 50% currently actually I think it's a little bit more than 50% as of 2023 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?To your whole argument, I would say that one there shouldn't be no legal benefits to marriage at all because it shouldn't be illegal institution, and I would say what exists today is so circumstantial that it may as well not exist. I feel like people who defend marriage die on a pretty weird Hill when they defend these so-called benefits that materialize for maybe 1% of couples, because let's not forget about the divorce rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?There is still a social meaning of marriage, but that social meaning is changing. You're just not seen as "together" with your partner in the same sense if you're not married. Friends, employers and even civic institutions will treat you differently if you're married versus not, even if they claim otherwise the difference is noticeable. This sounds like it comes more from emotion rather than fact, this makes absolutely no sense. Who's getting treated differently based on whether they're married … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Because my claim is that these circumstances are rare than getting struck by lightning and winning the lottery at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?Marriage still has tangible benefits Give me one benefit that would apply to every single married couple no matter what that they will 100% are guaranteed to realize within their marriage. If it outweighs the negatives that I'm going to give you afterward, I'll concede the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:20 PM |
| -4 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?The "benefits" you outline I'd argue are obsolete given that women can work and generate their own wealth and property | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?These "benefits" seem largely tenuous and circumstantial. Don't think they really count for anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:13 PM |
| 7 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatThe idea of women choosing is like a very modern thing, within the last 100 years. Prior to that women were just property that were bought and sold, they didn't consent to shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatI'm just repeating what the op said, I disagree with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:26 PM |
| 9 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatIt's literally the same argument as saying it's okay to be a racist as long as you're not lynching anybody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Has intelligence become less valuable in todays dating society?Have you seen Tik tok? Of course it has! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:14 PM |
| 15 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatYou heard it here first folks, it's okay to think like Hitler as long as you don't do the things that Hitler did. This is beyond pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatBut if women's genes are shit, their value as incubators as you so eloquently put it doesn't really matter does it? Like you're kind of contradicting your own point, women have genes too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:12 PM |
| 16 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatOh god, not another fds cultist. Didn't normal mentally healthy people already chase you off of reddit? I don't know what it is about you people in fds, but you seem to just boil down human interaction to the animal kingdom, you seem to conflate what humans do with what animals do. Back in the day, cavemen would hit women over the head and drag them back to their cave, so men were the choosers because they were strong. You're welcome for laws and government and police by the way. Human interacti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 08:11 PM |
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