Tristan103076 Archive

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7	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Sure why not. I can copy and paste as well. What advantage does 'virgin shaming' confer? Or 'height shaming' Being unacceptable to "slut shame" women, while acceptable to "virgin shame" men is a double standard and gives women a way to dodge accountability for poor social choices... advantage. Being acceptable to disqualify men for height, or lack there of, a factor they can't control while being unacceptable for men to disqualify women for their weight, a factor they can control, dodging accoun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:00 PM
3	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Since you can't seem to comprehend... There is no comparison for disabled people needing accommodations to function in society, ie access ramps to buildings. Versus, take for example OP's stance on equality in the work place. OP's stance is that equality is sought after for the safe, climate controlled, high powered occupations, while the more dangerous and dirty jobs are often over discarded as options. Equal representation should be for all work fronts, not just some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:54 PM
5	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Oh... yeah right. Double standards do not allow for any kind of advantage. Just like having rules for thee but not for me doesn't offer societal advantages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:48 PM
4	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Basic accommodations to assist disabled people is not the same ballpark let alone league as the argument here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:46 PM
0	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality And why on earth would that get anyone upset? Unless you are making an equivalence here some how?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:25 PM
4	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality What advantage does 'virgin shaming' confer? Or 'height shaming' Being unacceptable to "slut shame" women, while acceptable to "virgin shame" men is a double standard and give an out to women for poor social choices... advantage. Being acceptable to disqualify men for height, or lack there of, a factor they can't control while being unacceptable for men to disqualify women for their weight, a factor they can control... advantage. Don't get me started on the pay gap. That is a long and tedious to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:22 PM
–	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality But that is your typical style of debate... denial with zero substance. You and I have done this dance many times here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:14 PM
8	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Pure cope and gaslighting. All advantages with no disadvantages is supremacy	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:13 PM
3	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Yes it does	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:12 PM
9	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Yes it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:11 PM
–	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality Yes it does	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 05:11 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Because most parents, I say most because there are shitty people out there with shitty ideas raising there kids with those shitty ideas making more shitty adults who might have shitty kids... it's an endless shitty cycle, raised their children teaching them that its what's on the inside that matters. To be a good, respectful, moral person. To not judge a person by their outward appearance, to do so would make they shallow and superficial, and society. In fact calling someone shallow and superfic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 01:20 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? This must be your first day on reddit. Welcome to the party. However, you can pull up any discourse here on the PPD where men ask women what they want or what can make men more successful in dating and generally there are a few standard answers. Be polite Be respectful Be socially adjusted Be presentable... I guess this one could mean be attractive, but typically that is taken to mean don't be a slob. Now don't get me wrong, any man who reads these responses and doesn't automatically fill in beh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 11:34 AM
2	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. Damn... you must be dealing with some 3rd or 4th world safety standards where you are at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:26 PM
6	Women’s Attraction is Complicated, Which is a Good Thing. Where the hell do you live... blue collar workers don't die on the job by 40. In the US the median age of construction workers is 42. But 83.74% of all statistics are fabricated 95% of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:18 PM
1	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? It never hurts to ask... this is fucking Reddit after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:32 AM
1	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? Did you forget the /s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:42 PM
3	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? I will make this simple... The only way I could see a man, who wants kids and would be willing to date a single mom is because... They already have kids of their own and it isn't really a worry. If the woman is still wanting to have more children with that man. As I said before, he is unable to have children of his own. There really are too many horror stories out there where men have taken on the responsibility of stepping into a family only to have no athourity nor respect as the father figure…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:29 PM
12	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? And there you go, you answered your own question. If a man wants his own children why would he settle for raising children that were not his biologically. Unless he was shooting blanks and couldn't have kids to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:18 PM
3	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? I mean... factually and biologically that is a true statement. There aren't too many babies being wedged out of a penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:15 PM
9	Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"? It depends on who you ask or how you think. But it does seem to be spot on for societal views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:13 PM
5	Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire? You my friend are vastly delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:22 PM
5	Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire? And not many women are flicking the bean to Warren Buffett, so I guess that means women aren't attracted to billionaires. Yeah you're right. However, you know full well if he wanted a train of women he could very well get them if he wanted them simply for being wealthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:09 PM
0	Women are the choosers, Men are the committer I never said it wasn't fun. You seem to not understand the concept of consent and the power it has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 04:09 AM
-1	Women are the choosers, Men are the committer The dude's problem is he has no understanding of power dynamics. The dude's problem is he has no basic comprehension skills. The dude's problem is he uses the phase "the dudes" without proper grammar too much.The dude's problem is unfixable. The dude can have a good night. ✌️	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 04:05 AM
-3	Women are the choosers, Men are the committer I’m sorry are the dudes not the ones approaching? Yes, and the woman has the power to say yes or no to his advances. Are the dudes the ones not deciding and asking a woman if they will marry them? Yes they are. And she can say yes or no. Hence having the power. right you get that a man can decide that this isn’t“the one “and break up with the girl, This is correct, he has the power to decide to say yes or no to commitment. So what real “power “is there it’s a 2 Way St. both sides trying to figur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 03:51 AM
-1	Women are the choosers, Men are the committer Now your just being obtuse... or your reading comprehension is subpar. Of course either party can walk away. However, I said power shifts. Women have it in the opening and ending stages. Choosing to date and marry a man. The man has the power in the middle, choosing to commit and ask the woman to marry them. It isn't a difficult concept to grasp. Perhaps you are having difficulty due to not having all the power continuously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 03:22 AM
2	Women are the choosers, Men are the committer Yes, men make the choice to approach and pursue they woman they desire. The OP's argument is correct, however he used the wrong words. What he should have said is that in the opening stages of the "relationship" women hold all the power, she decides if the man will have any chance at dating her. The woman determines if there is even a remote chance that there will be a relationship. Once she has made her decision, power transfers to the man. He holds the power to continue the relationship and of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 03:04 AM
8	Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want them Well i am glad one of you finally admitted that all you bring to the table is mediocre sex. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 01:34 AM
7	Women give men their Audacity It's actually easy for the average male to get into a relationship with a woman... There are multiple subs on reddit that would disagree with this statement. At least as far as I have seen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:53 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man It isn't gender specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 07:25 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man From my perspective.... there is a lack of accountability and responsibility rampant. Since the advent of the "YOLO" battle cry any sense of personal responsibility has been void from people's lives. The you only live once justification to do whatever you please and damn the consequences has destroyed whatever was left of societies moral compass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 07:24 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Honestly it really depends on which lens you view it from. If viewed from a egalitarian lens you would not wrong, like should mirror like. If viewed from a dating standards lens, we are told a person's past matters. However, when it comes to the person's number of previous sexual partners then it becomes. "The past is in the past." What matters is cherry picked. So going with the mirrored lens, no it isn't wrong for a woman or man who have single digit past partners to want and expect the same i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 06:57 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man And what would those be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 06:00 PM
6	Society doesn't really hate older women I think OP was conflating pretty privilege with social niceties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 10:07 PM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women So what you're saying is you would be a loving and caring partner to a man who has ED and can't have sex with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 08:29 PM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women While sex is important in a relationship, that isn't what makes a loving and caring partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 06:26 PM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women And what does sex have to do with being a good and loving partner. Do you think that all you have to do is throw a man some sex and that is the pinnacle of your responsibilities in the relationship emotionally?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 11:34 AM
1	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. 🤷🏼‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 03:27 PM
1	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. It might not be well received due to the age of your account... Just saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 03:25 PM
2	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. Yep easy peesy lemon squeeze. We accept what we get in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 02:47 PM
1	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. Not in reverse, but in a more logical way. But we are saying the same thing... sort of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:40 PM
6	There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid. Divorce rates are down is an interesting argument, perhaps that is because marriage rates are declining as well. So it would make sense that if the key component needed for divorce is declining, divorce would be declining as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:39 PM
1	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. No i agree 100%. Paying at first and then going 50/50 is an impossible sell. But going 50/50 and then transitioning to 100/0 is fine, if that is what you want. I see it like this. Men must qualify to women before they are granted a relationship and any perks that might apply. It's only fair that women qualify to men in the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:24 PM
2	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. Fair enough, I guess that is what surprise inspections are for. Lol But in all honesty these are traits that can not be easily tested for early in the relationship... sometimes not even late into the relationship. But I will say that typically for me, if a woman keeps an untidy home when living alone, barring extreme circumstances, it is usually a no for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:20 PM
4	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. It's this mindset that is troubling. Why is it when a guy doesn't want to pay for the first few dates the automatic go to is, "he can't afford it" or "it's giving broke energy" Perhaps he doesn't want to lead with his money so that he can see if the woman values the man and not the resources. Aren't men told, quite frequently, that they should not expect sex, and is then shamed when he says not to expect the date to be covered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:16 PM
1	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. But I think this is a tactic all men should utilize. 50/50 to start and then a transition into paying for dates and activities if that is the role the man wants. Stay 50/50 if he doesn't. But I agree that a man paying from the start and then transitioning to 50/50 is an impossible sell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:10 PM
1	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. So you are getting traditional on the very first date? I doubt it. I understand traditional roles in an established relationship, but not in the first month of dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:06 PM
4	Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality. Honestly, you can tell by the way a man keeps his home. If he lives like a slob when he is single, guess what, he will live like a slob when he is In a relationship. Any person will do this really. The kid thing is much harder to verify, but perhaps if they are a dog owner. Dogs are a lot of responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 01:01 PM
6	There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid. 1/1,000,000... 1/1,000,000,000... That is why the thought that there is an absolute 100% perfect person for you is a fallacy. The odds of finding that person, and that you are that persons 100% are through the roof. And that is the problem with people today. They don't or won't understand that perfection is unobtainable. Relationships are work, relationships require compromise, relationships are not cruise control easy. We, we being society in general, have this idea that our one perfect person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 12:31 PM
8	There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid. Sure but the chances of you being Everything a person want while they are Everything you want are fairly slim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 11:32 AM
3	Men's love is highly conditional You forgot dogs as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 02:59 AM
3	Men's love is highly conditional Pretty much what OOP was alluding to... If the men don't leave first. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 02:56 AM
3	Men's love is highly conditional An extra paycheck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 02:45 AM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Yes I am. The lady I am dating now seems to appreciate my standards and boundaries. She likes that I don't expect her to jump through a bunch of emotional hoops for me to treat her as a partner because I don't expect her to do the same. Does that mean we don't have standards and boundaries we expect each other to meet and respect, not at all. In fact we have done so happily, but that's because our standards and boundaries are reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 03:47 PM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women It depends on what you mean by "many" but yes I have been in a few.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 03:34 PM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Perhaps you are the insecure one here. By saying that you see zero issues with this or would have no concerns tells me that you would much rather put up with arbitrary test after arbitrary test to receive genuine affection than to be alone, or at the very least be with the wrong person. A person saying that they would not stand for having to prove qualifiers like the ones I mentioned before, especially ones that are arbitrary, in order to gain a loving partner, and would instead prefer to not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 02:04 PM
2	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Possibly. 🤷🏼‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 01:00 AM
2	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women No, but wise men do. It has nothing to do with strength, unless you are talking about strength of character. I'm sorry, but even a man who has strength of character would have a difficult time accepting having to check off requirements that have an unspecified time frame before gaining "the loving partner you deserve" That is a ludicrous proposition. I can agree it is more than acceptable that the standard, are they respectful, emotionally intellegent, able to effectively communicate, etc should…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 10:33 PM
2	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women I agree, no one is entitled to anything. But the original comment didn't mention anything about sex. It mentioned being the loving partner he deserved. Loving is an all encompassing term. It can cover caring, compassion, dedication, fedility, devotion, and many other things. As I asked previously, how long does it take to prove that a partner isn't wasting the others youth, not hold sex over one's head, and not opt out of fatherly duties. Do they get a mildly interested partner until all of thos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 09:35 PM
4	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women I'm interested in what made her confident in who he was. Espically about the fatherhood aspect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 09:29 PM
5	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women I agree with this, however the comment above had some rather peculiar qualifiers, per the poster's own words that would be difficult to accomplish in a reasonable amount of time. For example how long does it take to prove they will not "squander the youth" of their partner? 6 months? A year? 10 years? Or better yet, noping out of their duties as a father. How does one prove that... without a child in place. Does he have to wake up every night at 2 in the morning to change and feed a test baby? T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 06:46 PM
1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women I have no issue with this. Both men and women should qualify themselves and have their partners qualify themselves before committing. But don't call the man out for thinking sex might be transactional and then say he has to prove a whole laundry list of things before being a loving partner, and not call that transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 05:16 PM
2	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Yes it did... Once he proved to me that he wasn't interested in "taking my youth", holding sex over my head, or noping out of his responsibilities as a father, I was happy to be the loving partner that he deserves. He did X... she did Y. He proved he qualified. She gave him the partner he deserved. Had he not done X, she wouldn't have been Y. That is the pure definition of transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 05:10 PM
-1	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Right... it seemed completely transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 05:02 PM
8	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Once he proved to me that he wasn't interested in "taking my youth", holding sex over my head, or noping out of his responsibilities as a father, I was happy to be the loving partner that he deserves. The problem here is how many years of marriage, or of the relationship did he have to do all this to get the "loving" partner he "deserved"? You talk about him not holding sex over your head, meaning not transactional, yet you were not a true and loving partner, your own words, until he qualified h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 03:35 PM
5	“Who are you to tell others how they feel” because people with victim complexes lie. There should be gatekeeping. Exactly, so there’s times that its fine to invalidate them. Should we apply this to any feeling that we don't like. "I'm feeling hurt"... "No you're not, your just overly sensitive and have no reason to feel hurt." "I'm sad"... "You you're not, you just a whiny asshole looking for attention." I thought feelings matter and it was paramount for people to show vulnerability and express their feelings. Particularly men. I guess when it comes to men voicing their feelings, what people really meant wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 05:35 PM
–	“Who are you to tell others how they feel” because people with victim complexes lie. There should be gatekeeping. Yeah... she is a shitposter	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 05:29 PM
–	Women should accept the fact that they're all dating the same terrible men. Nope, that is incorrect. If you are going to use stats, use the correct ones. Men (18 - 29): 63% are single Women (18 - 29): 34% are single Overall, across all age ranges and sexes, 31% of people are single. source	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 09:42 PM
1	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated I never said it wasn't...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:39 AM
1	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated My purpose gives me contentment. But there have been many occasions where, in the course of performing my purpose, i haven't been the happiest. But that is to be expected. It can't be all sunshine and lollipops. But honestly, we dont want to talk about the daily struggles a man faces when fulfilling his purpose. It is popular to shit on men and say how "privileged" they are. I'm sorry, but the weight many men carry on their shoulders without complaint is a "privilege" I wouldn't wish on anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:22 AM
-1	If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculated Has that ever been a concern at any point in history? Men's happiness has never really been a factor. Men have responsibilities. What would people think of a man who cast aside those responsibilities in pursuit of happiness. Happiness is something reserved for women and children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 11:19 AM
3	If men are the historical oppressors of women, like feminists say, then why do feminists still date men? Aren’t they the oppressors? Soooo... Men are forcing women to date them? I dont think your math is mathing correctly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 06:30 PM
1	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. You keep saying they... what they are you referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 02:06 PM
1	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Isn't it commonly said no one is owed anything? We are not owed what we think we deserve. We get what our skills, abilities, and appearance open doors for. If what we perceive the best we can get as settling, then yes, I guess in their mind they have to settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 01:26 PM
1	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Sorry... I forgot to add the /s or 🤣 at the end of my post. But thanks for the verified stats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 08:50 PM
1	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. What i am saying is that most men and women want an attractive partner. So, with that being said, both genders are hypergamous in this regard. However, as my grandmother always told me, "Want in one hand and shit in the other. See which fills first." Men and women get what they can get or the dont get anything at all and then bitch about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 08:49 PM
2	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. I am sure the same can be said for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 07:18 PM
24	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Highly doubtful.... it's a proven statistic that 82% of the time, 95% of stats are made up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 07:17 PM
–	Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactional Just like many women want a Daddy. Just as sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 10:22 AM
–	Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us. I don't know about you, but if i don't give a fuck about something, i don't give a fuck about it and i couldn't possibly care less whether it left the country or not. I dont know... if I truly didn't GAF, I wouldn't post a rant on reddit about it and then try and argue my point either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 10:49 PM
5	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? You can also build an acquaintanceship with multiple women at the same time. I hate to break it to you, but even when trying to make friends, a person must use the cold approach. You do realize that the definition of "cold approach" is that you dont know the person you are approaching and have no one to make a social introduction to them. What you are suggesting is men use duplicity... more so than what some already use to meet women. How many times have women posted on the PPD, "Stop pretending…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:03 PM
1	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too Real question, do you consider yourself a catch? I've generally found most men who are catches to not have a problem with paying for dates. You're trying to remake a social norm to suit yourself and your hangups. I do. I am blessed with a successful career that lets me live a very comfortable life. I stay in shape, have good health. I consider myself fericely loyal. I have been told that I am handsome, yet i feel i am a 6 on a really good day. But today's society has changed. Women say that they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 08:30 PM
1	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too Real question, do you consider yourself a catch? I've generally found most men who are catches to not have a problem with paying for dates. You're trying to remake a social norm to suit yourself and your hangups. I do. I am blessed with a successful career that lets me live a very comfortable life. I stay in shape, have good health. I consider myself fericely loyal. I have been told that I am handsome, yet i feel i am a 6 on a really good day. But today's society has changed. Women say that they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 08:30 PM
2	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too I dont think men have a ‘duty’ to be generous or provide or whatever during dating. No, they don't, and I never said they did. I said they choose to make it their duty, should the woman show that they are worthy of that duty. I think men who don’t want to pay for dates etc early are terrible people but if it’s an important quality to a woman its a reasonable thing to screen for Well, I think men who pay for everything from the start without making sure the woman is deserving of that sort of trea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 07:57 PM
4	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too I dont think men have a ‘duty’ to be generous or provide or whatever during dating. No, they don't, and I never said they did. I said they choose to make it their duty, should the woman show that they are worthy of that duty. I think men who don’t want to pay for dates etc early are terrible people but if it’s an important quality to a woman its a reasonable thing to screen for Well, I think men who pay for everything from the start without making sure the woman is deserving of that sort of trea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 07:57 PM
7	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too LOL Men who are generous and want to provide for their families showcase this during dating. This is why women screen for it No, ma'am. Generosity is the wrong word. You are generous with strangers and charities. Even then, not all strangers and charities are worthy of generosity. What you are talking about is duty and obligation. A man has the duty to provide and protect his spouse/partner and children. He takes that duty on when he commits himself to his partner/spouse. I keep using the term p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 06:06 PM
7	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too In my opinion, any man who sees his spouse/partner who bears and nurtures his child as a gold digger and denies his responsibilities to provide for his family isn't a man. Provision and protection is the agreement. Yes, childbirth is rough on a woman. Any man who has been in the delivery room when his child is being born can attest to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 04:21 PM
1	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too A girl isn't relegated to being her partner's maid and servant just by being born female. No, she isn't. Just like a man isn't his partner's mechanic, carpenter, landscaper, or plumber. We choose to perform those tasks for our partners. Why... because it makes their lives easier and it is a way to show appreciation for them. However, when the conscious choice is made to have a child, yes, you are relegated to those duties. Then, it becomes an obligation to the child. If fatherhood and motherhood…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 03:55 PM
7	Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones too This entire sub is centered around the misconception that men are doing all of the heavy lifting in relationships, that men plan everything and that women are gold diggers when they expect and want men to pay for things. The only time I have seen these complaints was in regard to the initial stages of dating. I haven't seen any complaints about heavy lifting or spouses/partners being gold diggers. At least not from men in relationships. If women are the ones birthing and breastfeeding children a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 03:39 PM
1	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. Are we supposed to take men swiping as sign of their attraction? They don't even look when swipe, and tru match happens after he sees his matches and decides who to talk to. A lot of women get ghosted at this stage. You said this. Going off of what we discussed previously, men mass swipe in the hopes of getting any sort of response. Now, is it right for ghosting to occur? No, but it happens. Both genders are equally bad in regards to doing this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:19 PM
1	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. Then why make your post specifically towards men. Why not simply say people have unrealistic expectations and self evaluations when it comes to dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:13 PM
7	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. You asked how women posing as men on dating apps applied to what you said about mass swiping. The simple fact is that the women who did that discovered just how rough men do have it when it comes to using OLD, how the standards are astronomical, and how much of a toll it takes on men's emotional stability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:12 PM
3	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. So what is your suggestion, men should date women they aren't attracted to? Would you give the same advice to women who complain that they can't find a suitable partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:08 PM
6	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. It is an explanation as to why a majority, not all mind you, of men do mass swipe. If a person is lonely enough, any option is better than no option at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 10:00 PM
6	Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average men Stop expecting human beings to be computer programs who will spit out x when you give them y. At most you can say girls shouldn’t waste the time of men they aren’t really interested in. Same for men. It isn't expecting x from y. It is the simple fact that there are different standards. Sure, less effort is expected from men who are viewed as hookups versus men who are viewed as "relationship" material. While men have noticed this and made comment about it. Most, not all, women fail to acknowledg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 02:34 AM
8	Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average men There is a big difference... Change her mind horrible, doesn't the saying go, "If it isn't a yes, then it's a no." Why would anyone, man or woman, see the point in having to convince a person to have any form of a relationship, be it sexual, romantic, or platonic. To me, it gives off, "you must impress me," energy. Win her trust is actually worse. There is a metric ton of hypocrisy with that statement. I doubt there was a whole lot of trust established for the random hookup or ONS. While the del…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 12:52 AM
1	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game While I agree with you that thirsty men are the problem, I only partially agree with your premise that the chooser, totally in women's hands, has all the power. Men make the conscious decision to pursue women, they choose. No one is holding a gun to their head. And while yes, women have all the power in this step because they are the gatekeepers of sex/relationships, men hold the power later in the relationship because they are the gatekeepers of commitment/marriage. So power shifts depending on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 06:05 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. So if l desire a relationship with a certain man (Mr gatekeeper) Yes, so long as he has made the conscious decision to chase/pursue you. and he allows it, it's still on me to evaluate if I'm a good match for him and vice versa. You were so close to getting it. The man makes the choice to pursue you. You (Ms. Gatekeeper) determine, or select, barring any red flags, if he is worthy of a relationship/sex. It isn't until later on when the man (Mr. Gatekeeper) determines if you are worthy of him aski…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 05:52 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. How did i paint men as having no self agency. Like the previous poster, you are most definitely arguing in bad faith. If you can't see how women are the gatekeepers to sex and relationships while men are the gatekeepers of commitment and marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 05:10 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. You are arguing in bad faith. You know full well that i wasn't eluding to the fact that women can walk up to a man, point her finger, and say "you" without him having a say in the matter. The same way a man couldn't do that to a woman. We both know full well the process of dating. The man chooses to pursue a woman. The woman determines whether or not the man is worthy of sex and a relationship. After a period of time, the man determines if the woman I'd worthy of commitment and marriage. But you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 05:08 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. Ok, so how are women not selectors? Both men and women are selectors, we are just selectors for different aspects of the relationship process. Women are the selectors when it comes to granting access to a relationship and sex. Men are generally the selectors for commitment and marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 04:34 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. Wellll... Men aren't trying to date deadbeat dads. Why should we complain about them. Women rarely complain about single moms with multiple fathers. How are they being blamed other than the typical argument, "you knew he was doing shady shit before you started dating him." I mean if a woman can decide she doesn't want the responsibility of having a child and get an abortion, all while the man has zero say in the matter, the logical equivalence would be that the man can opt out of any responsibil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:25 PM
4	Most stuff women put up with in relationships is only worth it if the guys rich Imagine that... a prostitute saying that men are only worth dealing with if they have money. That is totally mind-blowing. In a million years, I never would have thought they would have an opinion like that. But let's be honest here. The men you typically deal with you, i.e., your clients, most likely don't see you as a lady, and let's not misinterpret a lady for a woman. A lady is a woman who is treated with respect and kindness. She is deserving of protection and provision. You, on the other h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 01:30 PM
1	CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they were True, but as I said, for most men, they would like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:55 PM
1	Men only want power and sex, something most men should never have nor deserve. I agree that there is no shame in a healthy sexual appetite. However, where the shame comes in is the lack of discernment that most seem to have today. Sex is seen as a fun sport or hobby instead of the physical expression of love and feelings for a long term partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 06:37 PM
2	Men only want power and sex, something most men should never have nor deserve. Yeah, but women expect men to be successful and make six figures or more... see what I did there. Generalizations suck don't they. Most men don't have the expectation that a woman is a virgin. Women are sexually free. Women have always been the gatekeepers for consensual sex. What it sounds like you want is sexual freedom without the pesky addition of shame and judgment that comes with it. That's harder to accomplish. Sexual freedom has always been a thing... in modern times. The only differenti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 05:39 PM
40	CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they were So are we talking men as they are today, or are we talking about some version of an "enlightened man"? I hate to say this, but if we are talking about men today, they rarely, if ever, get attention, validation, or compliments in regards to their looks or sexual appeal... well, most men don't. So, no, I think it would definitely hit different with most men today. Men would lap that shit up like gravy and ask for more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:38 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? It really depends on what you envision a dominant man to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 11:16 PM
3	Most women are not that smart and men are not intimidated by them I agree with ambituon, but a degree... why? Does a degree make you a better person or better suited to be a partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 09:31 PM
9	Stating that things are "the bare minimum" is just a way to get out of being grateful. Yes, a one-sided relationship is being taken advantage of, and that is exactly what all give and no reciprocation is. Why are people are blind to the fact that all relationships are, for the most part, transactional? Yes, we should want yo do things for those in our lives that we care about without worrying if they will reciprocate, because it should be automatic for both sides to want to do things for each other. But how long should one give to those who do not reciprocate? Honestly, it should …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 12:04 AM
0	Until men are allowed male-specific and non-feminist spaces the sex war will not end. Yes, and despite that, the same boy scouts that was sued repeatedly for not allowing girls to join. While the courts sided with the Boy Scouts in these cases, the organization eventually changed its policy. Perhaps they felt it was better to bend to societal pressure and make the organization coed than to continue to fight more law suits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:28 AM
4	Until men are allowed male-specific and non-feminist spaces the sex war will not end. Actually, you are partially correct, but The Boy Scouts faced several lawsuits regarding its previous policy of excluding girls from its Cub Scouting and Boy Scouting programs. It was what you mentioned along with the lawsuits citing exclusionary policies that spared the change. While the courts sided with the Boy Scouts in these cases, the organization eventually changed its policy due to seeing the "writting on the wall" and deciding that it was better to change their policies than fight reocc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 07:58 PM
7	Until men are allowed male-specific and non-feminist spaces the sex war will not end. But would it have been better to apply that social pressure to have the Girl Scouts change what they teach while allowing young boys and young men to have their shared space to be boys and men? Could it be that men only spaces are seen as a physical embodiment of the patriarchy? And hasn't there been a loud and somewhat militant cry to end the patriarchy for a while?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 07:51 PM
5	Until men are allowed male-specific and non-feminist spaces the sex war will not end. Actually, one of the most famous male only organizations, The Boy Scouts, folded to societal pressure and a growing demand for inclusive programs that allow both boys and girls to participate in the same scouting activities. While The Girl Scouts maintains that its all-girl environment is crucial for girls' leadership development and fosters a unique space where girls can support and trust each other. They believe this single-gender environment is beneficial for girls' development and provides a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 07:26 PM
0	Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids) Yeah... I think my girlfriend would disagree. But women are vastly different. Just like men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 04:52 PM
-6	Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids) You say being dolled up means nothing to you, but if a woman actually showed up on a date with zero effort on her appearance you would mind that. HOLY SHITBALLS BATMAN!!! Yes, he used the generalized "men" when he said being dolled up means nothing, but then you focused it down to him and told him it would matter. Why is it women have such a hard time understanding that when a man says something... that's what he means. Most men don't say they want one thing, but in their heads they are thinking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 03:55 PM
1	Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite way And how should they be compensated?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 02:41 PM
1	Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite way This is the problem. The woman’s basic safety and survival is dependent on a man continuing to treat her with good will. It creates a dynamic where women are more strongly bound to their marriage contracts/families than their husbands have to be. Because the woman has less autonomy. There is no good will involved. A man provides for his family because he loves them and sees it as his duty. The idea he does it simply to "bind a woman" is toxic as hell. This imbalance of autonomy is the main reaso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 01:37 PM
2	Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite way A lot of women’s contributions in a marriage in general are in the form of unpaid domestic work. This is a fallacy. Yes, you are correct that when a woman decides to be a stay at home wife/mom, she does not get a paycheck for the labor she performs. Yet... somehow, the mortgage/rent is paid every month. The home can be stocked with groceries. The utilities are covered. Car notes, if there are any, and insurance is paid. She can even splurge on items that do not pertain to the upkeep of the home …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 11:40 AM
-1	Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite way Nice retort	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 11:20 AM
2	Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite way Men who say that they don't care what a woman does for a living either are scamming them, or they don't understand the difference between sexual attraction and relationship attraction. I very much care what a woman's career is. While I would happily date a teacher, nurse, or cashier if they were a good person and had values that aligned with my own. Where I draw the line is when it comes to SW. It's the amount of money that she makes that I don't care about, or should I say how she handles the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 11:18 AM
2	Men not going to college Why is it so hard to believe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 09:07 AM
0	Men not going to college But you said that without an education most men would be incompatable with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:58 PM
2	Men not going to college That fine and dandy, your personal preferences and all. All I am saying is that a woman's values, morals, emotional intelligence, and intelligence is not solely predicated on a diploma from a university. I think we can agree that not all degrees are equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:05 PM
3	Men not going to college Being able to self regulate emotions is fine. But, you can't regulate what others bring into your life. And drama... unnecessary drama can most definitely disrupt your peace. i don't take the bait. and i don't date them. That is you selecting people based on how they affect your peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:01 PM
1	Men not going to college So... education generally makes a person an all-around better person? Where is the stats to support that fact?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:58 PM
4	Men not going to college Did women ask men? Nope. Women didn’t ask men. You know that might be the problem. Men tend to ask women all the time what they want. Why is it that some women tend to really not care... And your hubris is just as astounding to make that assumption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:57 PM
2	Men not going to college I'm sorry, but if a person is terrible, they will be terrible with or without an education. Being educated does not suddenly make a person any less of an asshole. And just so we are clear, having a degree does not make a person intelligent... it simply means you test well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:48 PM
2	Men not going to college The only thing I disagreed with you was that men have different standards when it comes to education and income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:44 PM
1	Men not going to college You claim most men would be happy with most women. I said "Yes, she should be a source of peace for me as I would be for her." But no most women would not be a source of peace for most men... conflicting personalities and all that. That’s why vetting is important and it’s more than just “are they putting on the performance of being nice right now”. Compatibility is what drives peace. I agree, vetting is important. My point was in that vetting process, a woman's education and income rarely play a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:43 PM
0	Men not going to college A good man shouldn't depend on his partner at those times. He should be able to carry the load. Because he understands that his wife or partner will have to make those physical sacrifices for their family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:05 PM
5	Men not going to college Women seem to put a higher value on education in the dating market. Men simple say that does not play a role in selecting a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 07:54 PM
0	Men not going to college Yes, she should be a figure of peace to me, as i should be a figure of peace to her. Why would anyone, man or woman, let someone into their lives who does not bring peace. How insufferable would it be to always be at odds with your partner? You mentioned "compliant" i never said that nor insinuated that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 07:52 PM
-2	Men not going to college Men have said it multiple times. Our standards are different from women's. But our standards are judged based on women's and deemed low. So allow me to say it once again. Education for most men doesn’t matter. And no, it isn't because we are threatened by intelligent women. It's because a woman's degree has zero impact on how good of a partner she will be. Income, or the overall amount of income, does not matter to men. It isn't because men want women to be financially dependent on us. How much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 07:01 PM
4	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table But we see men saying all the time they dont want to be settled for so dont worry women will choose the good ones... But what is the definition of a "Good Man"? An even better question is. If men have nothing to bring to the table, if you discount income and traditional gender roles... what is it that women bring to the table?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:07 PM
1	Men should stop lying about having low standards This is also why women gas each other up. It’s to feel good in a world that has always been inescapably hyper critical of women’s appearances. Building up self-esteem and helping one with self perception is one thing... gassing up someone to think they are a 10 is something when clearly they are not is entirely different. I am all for building self-esteem, but it also has to be done with a bit of realistic expectations as well. Now I never mentioned "hoeflation," but let's talk about that for a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 10:48 PM
3	Men should stop lying about having low standards The number of dates doesn’t equate to attractiveness or desireability when it comes to women. I am going to say the quiet part out loud that many don't want to hear. A woman who is a "3" can still get "dates" because the men who offer them dates see them as an easy mark to get sex from. They think that "This woman is so unattractive that any attention I give her will be appreciated and reciprocated with sex." However, the guy doesn't realize that 52 other guys thought the exact same thing. This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 04:26 PM
9	Men should stop lying about having low standards Men use 1-10 scale. Women generally use a tape measure. Both genders have scales the judge the other by. But getting 53 dates doesn't dictate a person's value. Actually, getting in a relationship does. That is the end goal of going on dates, isn't it? But going on 53 different dates but not finding a person for you... there is one common factor through all 53 dates. Perhaps she really is a 3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 01:46 PM
5	Men should stop lying about having low standards They said she went on 53 dates, not that she was in a relationship. There is a difference between a man taking a woman on a date to break a dry spell and taking a woman on a date to actually see if she is relationship material. Sadly, the 1 - 10 scale usually doesn't apply for an ONS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 01:41 PM
2	There's a narrative out there that someone who has never been in a relationship is undateable because they "don't know how to be in a relationship". What are some examples of this? The reason why it is sometimes seen as a red flag... I will put it in terms that anyone can understand. It is like applying for a job, and during the interview, you are asked about your previous work history and then having the interviewer telling you that they appreciate your interest, but you lack the work experience for the position offered. Many believe that you develop the skills needed for a long-term relationship through trial and error with previous relationships. While ignoring the fact…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 08:00 PM
7	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. The best relationships are founded in friendship, not transactional tit for tat. Ponder this... If you had a friend who you were always doing "favors" for, yet when you needed help and they were always too busy to help you, how long would that friendship last? At some point, you would feel that the friendship was one-sided and end that friendship. I hate to break it to you, but all relationships, outside of families, are somewhat transactional. The worst relationships are the ones where one pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 02:14 PM
2	Why do you shame men for approaching women? So, how was it considered a perfect fine way to meet a partner then, yet men who have only that option looked down upon now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 10:44 PM
6	Why do you shame men for approaching women? Men who have no other options except to approach strangers aren't appealing anyway, so what if self-described "nice guys" stop approaching women? You do realize that cold approaching was how getting dates was mostly done before the advent of OLD... correct? Sure, you could have a friend or family member set you up on a date, but let's be honest, those usually didn't work out too well. But it is very telling that you have this mindset in regards to what men who cold approach now appear as to you.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 07:35 PM
5	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? No, I was saying that men have standards and requirements for dating just as women do. Each gender has mile stones in the development of a relationship that certain privileges are offered to a partner. Also... this might explain why men want to go 50/50 on dates starting out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 07:06 PM
3	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? No, what i am saying is that I pay for dates for women I am in a committed relationship with. Until we are committed and exclusive with each other, she is not deserving of my resources. It is no different how some women feel about sexual intimacy. In my opinion there isn't a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 06:51 PM
5	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Soooo... when a man doesn't want to pay for your part of the date, they think you are a prostitute and you avoid them. If they do pay, they don't think you are a prostitute and you continue to date them? I think you might have a flawed lodgic here. But it is your dating strategy, more power to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 06:47 PM
5	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Wouldn't you only date men who wanted to go 50/50 so that they wouldn't think that you are a prostituting yourself. Perhaps to demonstrate that you value who they are and not what resources they have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:49 PM
7	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? So what you are saying is that women deserve to be treated like a committed partner or spouse on the first date? By that lodgic, shouldn't a woman treat a man the same? I am not advocating for being disrespectful. What i was attempting to say was that if a woman wants a gentelman, then she should act like a lady. Reciprocate the respect that is expected. Maybe act in a traditional manner if traditional treatment is expected. When I say behave traditionally, date with intention and stop playing g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:44 PM
4	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Nice assumption you made. Who said i wasn't having sex? I never said I wasn't in a committed relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:20 PM
1	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Let's dig into what a gentelman is and, by extension, what a lady is as well. A gentelman is a chivalrous, courteous, and/or honorable man. Chivalrous is defined as courteous and gallant, especially toward women. Courteous is defined as polite, respectful, or considerate in manner. Honorable is defined as bringing or worthy of honor. Whereas a lady is defined as a courteous, decorous, or genteel woman. Decorous is in keeping with good taste and propriety; polite and restrained. Genteel is polite…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:18 PM
10	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Perhaps it has nothing to do with misogyny and more to do with men having trouble finding ladies to be gentlemen for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 11:52 AM
2	I was proven wrong yesterday regarding women and biphobia. But I don't understand the reasoning. The word you are searching for would be... Misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 02:22 PM
3	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable Ok, and there are women who want a traditional relationship. There isn't anything wrong with that. But when it comes to hypergamy, men typically don't focus on money as a deciding factor when selecting a partner. At least it was never a concer for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 01:06 AM
3	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable There are more ways to provide other than through monetary means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 12:51 AM
2	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable Hey now... understanding personal space is very hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 11:41 PM
6	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable So, what you are saying is that they ignored the manufacturer's warning labels. That's how people lose an arm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 11:10 PM
-1	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable Well, hypergamy does cut both ways. People don't always understand wanting better, and getting better isn't always everything it is cracked up to be. An ego is a terrible thing... especially when it comes to romance. Sometimes, even though it chokes us, it is better to swallow one's pride.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 10:50 PM
3	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable That is the general consensus	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 10:44 PM
9	Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonable Or... or, now, hear me out. Some men don't really care if their partner makes as much as they do, but only really care if they are a contributing partner to a happy life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 10:40 PM
–	Men do not like natural women My point is don't generalize people. More often than not, a person will tell or show you what they want. We all don't want the same things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 12:37 PM
–	Men do not like natural women I will agree with you on this point for the initial attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 11:41 AM
–	Men do not like natural women Ma'am I am a stranger on the internet, you have zero idea of what I like... other than what I tell you. I dislike Megan Fox because she does look too plastic and I am more attracted to women who have had little to no augmentation. I dislike Amy Schumer, not because of her body or appearance, personally I like a woman with curves. She does seem to be an insufferable person who i wouldn't want to be in the room with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 11:27 AM
–	Men do not like natural women Yes beauty is subjective. Your likes and desires will vary from mine. What you might think is a 10, I might only see a 7.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 11:20 AM
–	Men do not like natural women I gave you my opinion, which is based on my personal preferences, yet I am the one who is delusional? So if a man said he wanted a hamburger for dinner but you gave him a plate of spaghetti and he said this isn't what I wanted, would you call him delusional? And have you polled every man to what their preferences are? I doubt it. Personally, I find neither one of your examples attractive. One is way too plastic, and the other just seems like she would be insufferable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 11:18 AM
–	Men do not like natural women Beauty is subjective. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know this may be a hard pill to swallow, but just how men are told women are not a hive mind, men aren't either. Yes, there are men who like saggy boobs and large labias. There are men who don't care about grey hair, wrinkles, stretch marks, blemishes, or body hair. Are there men that are superficial, of course there are. Just like there are women who are superficial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 11:02 AM
4	What do women here think of the female dating strategy advice ? How is misandry a myth? Isn't the definition of misandry, the dislike of, comtempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men. I have only lightly screened the FDS pages, but there is a prevalent hatred and contempt towards men. Better yet, and I hate to bring up the man bear argument, but if you can argue that you are inherently safer with a bear over any man, isn't that prejudice against all men based on the actions of few. Hate is not gender specific, everyone hates. But for you to say that wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 03:26 PM
7	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? I was only asking because success at dating generally means marriage or a proposal of marriage. 7 years dating without one doesn't seem like a success. But, it sounds like it is a success for you. Congrats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 06:02 PM
2	Do the Women on the Female Dating Strategy to 4B Movement Pipeline Never Question Why the "Handbook" by Definition Didn't Work for Them? So you are married?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 05:15 PM
5	You cant expect women to help with your loneliness or give you validation when you don’t show appreciation. All men are expected to lower their standards. Select women might have to lower their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 04:24 PM
5	You cant expect women to help with your loneliness or give you validation when you don’t show appreciation. I truly love the hypocrisy. You are a damaged and toxic person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 04:22 PM
5	You cant expect women to help with your loneliness or give you validation when you don’t show appreciation. Desires and expectations are just different words used to say "standards" You tell men who are "lonely" to revise their expectations and desires, or in other words, revise their standards if they are so lonely. Is the same advice offered to women who often complain about men who fail to meet their expectations or desires? No, typically, they are told that they are entitled to their expectations and desires. If a man can meet those desires and expectations, those men are "low value." Shouldn't we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 03:05 PM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Both place holding and monkey branching involve looking for a partner while in a relationship with someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 12:03 AM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Monkey branching and place holding is vastly different from playing the field before entering a committed relationship. Monkey branching and place holding is worse because the person doing the Monkey branching or place holding deludes the other that everything is OK, right up to the moment their bags are packed and are walking out the door. They use their partner as a crutch to deal with the various stages of a break up while actively looking for that partners replacement. Playing the field befo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 12:00 AM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? I’ve only seen women do that when their boyfriends or husbands are actively disappointing. Typically they mask during the courting stage to ensnare women and drop it once they feel secure enough she won’t just up and leave at the drop of a hat. This sounds a lot like it's men's fault when women monkey branch...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 11:51 PM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? So, should all men come to you when they want to ask a particular woman out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:42 PM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Actually... Please, women monkey branch just as much as men do... perhaps more. I did say "perhaps" since there really isn't a study for men, though it is theorized that the number could 30% - 50%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:41 PM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? So you speak for all women...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:30 PM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? No, I don't agree men do worse. I agree that men and women do worse by wasting people's time. Because men and women are guilty of the same thing. Call it what you want, placeholding, monkey branching, or time wasting. Both sexes are guilty of stringing along partners until the "BBD" comes along.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:17 PM
1	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Ahhh, but isn't it nice to be wanted? They don't have to respond or even look at the messages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:12 PM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? The male thing is typically to bag someone for a “serious” relationship who is good enough, wait until the perfect one comes along, then dump the placeholder. Women will not do that as often—typically, they will reject you outright and let you on your merry way. The promise of sex and food is not enough to entice a woman’s devotion. This is what my post was in response to. I was trying to point out that placeholding or monkey branching is not a gender specific act. Both genders are equally guilt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:10 PM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Most definitely, both sexes are guilty of this. This is making a counterargument to the previous post showing that women can and do use men as placeholders as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 09:12 PM
4	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Once again... accountability. How hard is it for you to admit that women are at fault for holding men as place holders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 09:07 PM
3	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Well, you did seem to make the argument that no matter who uses who as a placeholder, it is a man's fault. How is that fair?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 08:42 PM
8	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? So, when men do this, it is men's fault. When women do it... it is men's fault. You really have to be trolling now. Please tell me you are trolling. Once again, we slam into women's kyptonite... accountability. Why can't it be that there are shitty men and women out there in the world?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 08:27 PM
3	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? When you say "we" do you mean people in general, or are you referring to acting specific gender? Because if you mean people in general, I can wholeheartedly agree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 08:01 PM
2	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? "Monkey branching" refers to a dating behavior where someone actively seeks out a new potential partner while still in a current relationship, essentially "swinging" from one relationship to another without fully letting go of the first one, similar to how a monkey moves from one tree branch to another; it implies a lack of commitment and often happens without the knowledge or consent of their current partner. And it isn't a redpillerism. It is quickly becoming a dating norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:59 PM
11	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? The male thing is typically to bag someone for a “serious” relationship who is good enough, wait until the perfect one comes along, then dump the placeholder. Please, women monkey branch just as much as men do... perhaps more. Women typically hold higher power in the dating market, look at the disproportionate amount of likes each gender gets. With that thought in mind, it is more likely that a woman in a "relationship" will have several men in her DMs trying to charm her. OnePoll even did a stu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:51 PM
6	Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Because if it’s the former, why would a woman have on online dating profile if it’s not for hooking up or finding a LTR? Validation and attention... that spike of dopamine when she gets a new like or another message from some random guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 07:43 PM
2	Provide and protect How exactly have women been barred from blue-collar jobs? As someone who works in a blue-collar industry, I have worked with women. If they were barred, then how would it be possible for me to have worked with them. The truth of the matter is, let's ignore the fact that it is illegal to bar a person from a job based on sex. Women don't want those jobs. If i see 100 applications for a position, maybe 2 - 5 of them will be from a woman. Women typically do not want to work the jobs that are dangero…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 01:17 PM
1	Society can actually fix dating. And this can happen voluntarily and does not require violence You conveniently keep ignoring the fact that I also referred to emotional and physical intimacy, which is unrelated to sex. I think he was making reference to the fact you are telling men to be intimate with other men, even when they are not attracted to them. And do you think that any emotional or, especially, physical intimacy is even possible without even a hint of physical attraction. What do you think the quality or satisfaction of the intimacy would be for a heterosexual man to be physical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:26 PM
–	The truth is that we simply do not know if every men could really have a chance. It’s 0.3%!! That’s not always! We were right!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 02:42 PM
–	The truth is that we simply do not know if every men could really have a chance. The truth is, dating isn’t fair, but it’s not hopeless. Women are not a monolith, and they aren’t only attracted to “the top 1%.” Confidence, kindness, and effort go a long way, and I think you’d be surprised how much more you can gain by focusing on personal growth rather than lamenting the struggle. You don’t need to “outcompete” anyone to build connections. You just need to be someone who is willing to show up authentically, do the work, and find the people who value what you bring. I agree t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 02:38 PM
5	Q4W has Trump winning again made you think worse of men at large? A high IQ does not have a corelation to good judgment. I have come across plenty of people who were intelligent yet were naive. Not to mention that an IQ test is the same as a poll tax that was popular during Jim Crow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:58 PM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? This is a bullshit question. Both genders, other than an enlightened subset for each sex, will claim that dating is monumentally harder for their own sex. Men say it's harder for them because of the unrealistic standards women have in choosing a partner. The expectations that women have when going on dates. The ever-present concerns of being used by the woman for entertainment and food, with no chance of a relationship. Women will say it's harder for them because of the overwhelming amount of me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 01:07 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". It is. That's why I made that final statement to show how frustrating it feels to be judged on what a small subset of a group does or benefits from. I guess that's why I judge people on who they are and not what group they come from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 06:45 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I didn't reply because I didn't feel the need to. Do I agree with the sentiments behind #killallmen? No, I do not. But here is my take on it. #killallmen is no different than the SCUM Manefesto. Do women mean that they want all men dead? No, it is satire, parody, a way for someone to deal with trauma... all be it in a less than healthy way. But even though it is parody or trauma coping, it doesn't make it right. The fact that women feel it is ok to jokingly say that all men should be killed says…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 03:32 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Sportsmen are treated like gods. Male entrepreneurs are close behind them. Ah... the wonderful notion that since the hyper-successful 1% of men are treated in such a way, it is a reflection on how all men are treated. I hate to say this, but you are mistaken. The foundational tenets of feminism are that women are human beings, and deserve the same rights and responsibilities as men. It would be wonderful if this was true. But there have been some rather radical/militant feminists who have called…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 12:18 PM
1	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. How is it that. Both sexes are responsible for this. Bad women make bad men and bad men make bad women. Both sexes need to accept and acknowledge the fact that poor actors on both sides create the problems we are plagued by.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 11:00 PM
0	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. Oh, I was meaning both men and women. Men drove the need and creation of the feminist movement. For the most part, women have driven the driven the incle movement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:25 PM
0	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. But don't we inevitably create the very monsters that plauge us? At some point, we need to stop the cycle of making our own worst enemies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:18 PM
2	Do you think men are less attentive? Do you think this woman was wrong to decline her engagement due to her bf’s plan? Why would a mab deviate from what a woman wanted for a proposal? Well proposals are meant to be a surprise given by the man, not an expected, planned out event by the woman. Maybe a man felt that since he bought the ring and was the one proposing, he would choose the place. Perhaps he had an ideal proposal in his mind. There are two people involved, after all. Maybe a man wanted to see how his future wife dealt with a situation that wasn't what was expected. Life is full of curve balls, and how …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 08:51 PM
–	There is a Socially and Economically Oppressive Zeitgeist Against Young Gen Z Men. Is that all you took from what OP wrote? You did a pretty good job at proving their point. 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 01:35 PM
-2	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men I mean how many posts have you seen where men are frustrated with the dating environment, complaining about being on some dating app for months without a like, or where women have ran their male friends dating account and were completely shocked at the stark differences in the experiences. Men hop from one foot to the other from hearing "Men stop approaching women" and "Why don't men approach any more?" And op was correct, approaching women is at best a crap shoot with horrendous odds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 05:07 PM
-3	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men But is it EVERY guy? Honestly, men get lumped together into some pretty bad shit. The ones who don't give a damn keep doing what they have been doing, not caring about the consequinces of their actions. The ones who do care have bowed out and decided that the juice might just not be worth the squeeze. How about we recognize that both sexes have some morally reprehensible people, loudly representing them that are only the small minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 04:56 PM
5	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men I might need to get new glasses, because that is some serious reading between the lines to jump from dating to fucking. I guess you could make that jump since dating can lead to fucking, but to say that is all men want is ridiculous. Would you happen to lump yourself into that group of "All men just want to fuck?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 04:47 PM
6	What do you understand certain male experiences to be like? As the downvotes clearly indicate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 10:07 PM
14	What do you understand certain male experiences to be like? That's right, how silly of me to forget.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 10:05 PM
10	What do you understand certain male experiences to be like? Funny... I don't feel like my life is on easy mode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 09:14 PM
2	What do you understand certain male experiences to be like? Funny... I don't feel like my life is on easy mode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 09:14 PM
4	Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant? But you don't seem satisfied with the answers you are getting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 03:27 PM
5	Why is it when right leaning men talk about personal responsibility they throw that thinking away when a woman is pregnant? So far, people in the comments have been refuting your claim. And you have been arguing with them. So what are you looking for, an answer to your question or an answer that you want to hear. It seems you want people to support your statement, not give a genuine answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 02:58 PM
3	900↑ for "Most men will never understand what it's like to be denied personhood." Feminists, let's discuss "When he is best he is a little worst than a man, and when he is worst he is a little better than a beast." You reminded me of this quote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:38 PM
–	Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over women But, how is it evil. He has a grievance for how women behave, which, by my experience, is about 80% accurate. This is reddit... reddit is the place to go when people want to anonymously shit on people. Unless this is your first day here, you would have surely seen this by now. If you're planning on calling out hatred here I hope you have carved out 26 hours a day to do so. I wish you luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 12:59 PM
4	Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over women And yet here you are debating on the status of the sub... mission accomplished.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 12:50 PM
0	Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs? So you are saying it is immoral to become pregnant or to get a woman pregnant?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 06:55 PM
0	Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs? I agree that consent is important. But when we have sex we do a quick risk assessment and deem that the small chance that a woman can get pregnant who is on birth control is acceptable. I would agree with the whole parasite, tumor, clump of cells argument if it weren't for two things. I do think that a child in the womb is a human. The child isn't an invader for the simple fact that is the whole point of a woman's reproductive organs. To gestate a small human inside of them. Your thoughts and op…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 06:29 PM
-1	Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs? Because it isn't the same. An intruder who breaks into your home is doing so of their own accord without your permission to be there in hopes of committing a crime. They are pretty much where they don't belong. A woman and her partner willingly had sex, knowing that there would be a chance, all be it a small chance, if birth control was used, that a pregnancy might happen. The baby isn't there for any malicious or nefarious motives. A baby did not break into a woman's womb. It was created there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 04:40 PM
–	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves You are deluding yourself. I am all for people having casual sex, but let's not bullshit each other. Typically, when a guy says he is all for abortion, he is really saying he likes the idea of being able to have all the benefits and none of the risk of casual sex. He doesn't care one bit about a woman's bodily autonomy and more about protecting his wallet and bank account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 12:51 PM
–	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves 🤷🏼‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 12:45 PM
–	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves So the other guy saying he supports abortion for safe/easier casual sex really shouts supporting a woman's bodily autonomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 12:45 PM
–	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves As a man I support abortion rights for many reasons, but one perk is easier/safer casual sex. No, you support abortion because you think that it makes you appear more desirable. More than likely, you could care less about the abortion issue. Also, you are for abortion because you are a man who doesn't take responsibility for his actions, which really isn't a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 09:30 AM
–	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves Yeah, you aren't helping things here. You are spewing delusional thoughts at people who have been spoon-fed fear for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 09:25 AM
–	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves You keep saying that men's chances to date are even lower now. Let's take a moment to evaluate how men's chances were before the election. On Line Dating: Women find 80% of men unattractive and not viable for dating. If you scroll through any of the sub reddit forums that have to do with OLD, you will see countless posts of men asking for help because they have zero likes or matches. Dating IRL: Women have repeatedly told men to stop approaching them and to leave them alone. Women have been prou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 09:22 AM
2	CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feminist I agree we are not the same with how we deal with feelings and emotions... like frustration. Some people deal with it better than others. Some people really need some help. It doesn't change the fact that everyone wants to feel needed. Yes, there are healthier ways to say that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 11:51 PM
1	CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feminist No, I agree it is rather dark. Not that I condone it, but I think it is systematic of the growing frustration that men feel with how relationships are currently handled. I think it is similar to the frustrations women feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 10:56 PM
-2	CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feminist Isn't that human nature, which both men and women experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 10:02 PM
1	Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society Maybe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 08:25 PM
1	Politics and dating is so annoying No. I am in America. And I get what you are saying at. Yet I still hold to my ideas of judging a person on who they are and not who they vote for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 05:34 PM
1	Politics and dating is so annoying If somebody was racist I don’t think there’s anything wrong if I a black person didn’t want them in my life… Even though they just have different ideas from me but it’s not that simple. But now you are bringing an example of something that is deemed morally wrong by society as a whole. So no, any belief that is deemed morally wrong by society is something that should exclude a person. Also romantic relationships are so much more than just something silly. We’re talking about someone you kiss, ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 05:18 PM
1	Politics and dating is so annoying That’s why most opposed couples or friendships say something along the lines of “we just don’t talk about it” which is something im not going to settle for personally. I am a Christian who has lifelong friends who are Pagan and Wiccan. We have vastly differing beliefs, both in religion and somewhat differing views on politics. But we make it work. While we still discuss beliefs, we respect each other's differing views and have learned from each other as well. It's sad that we cut people out of o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 04:43 PM
4	Politics and dating is so annoying Me personally I care about politics in dating just because if I discuss current situations I’d like to have someone who agrees and not someone I’m constantly arguing with on the topic. There is a difference between arguing and discussing a topic. In the same way, there is a difference between listening to understand and listening to respond. A partner is meant to be a person who not only supports and uplifts us, but they are also supposed to be the ones to challenge us. To make us strive to be b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 04:18 PM
3	Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society This is also true. There is a plethora of reasons why a person would be a single parent, and it wouldn't be a possibility to be in a relationship with the child's other parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 02:21 PM
7	Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society Actually, the most cited reason for women divorcing or leaving is lack of happiness. But i am sure that completely falls on men as well. https://divorce.com/blog/who-initiates-divorce-more/#:~:text=Around%2069%25%20of%20divorces%20in%20heterosexual%20marriages%20are%20initiated%20by%20women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 02:09 PM
2	Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society It does take two to make a child. How about we hold women just as accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 01:15 PM
5	Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society You do know that most divorces are invited by women. Men rarely leave a serious relationship unless there is a serious reason. Now, if you are talking about men who are single fathers due to ONS or they were never married, but in serious relationships, that is a different story. In regards to the serious relationship, what if asked her to marry him, and she said no. Where does the relationship go after she rejects a marriage proposal, usually it ends. Honestly, you will really know a person's si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 01:14 PM
16	Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society I also see single dads as less appealing partners because they shouldn't even be out there dating—they should be putting effort into reuniting with their baby mama. You do realize that there are two people in a relationship. Just because a man is a single father doesn't mean he left the mother. Did it even cross your mind that she didn't want a relationship with him. Also, using your same lodgic.. I also see single moms as less appealing partners because they shouldn't even be out there dating—t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 01:06 PM
-1	Mormon wives vs redpillers Remind me how men are voting against reproductive rights? If you mean abortion, it is still legal here in the state I live in, and I haven't seen a bill come up to make it illegal. But let's be honest, women have used sex as a cludgel against men for a very long time. In fact, there was a very humorous play written about the very same thing in 411 BC.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:46 AM
1	The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behavior Ummm... sure that's what we want and that is the exact what goes through our mind when the word modest is used to describe a woman we prefer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 08:04 PM
4	Do the majority of (straight) men observe and assess women solely as a potential partner? If a man is actively seeking a romantic relationship, he might find it difficult to have a purely platonic relationship with a woman. It would be like he was in a desert dying of thirst and spotting a shaded oasis that turns out to be a mirage. I am not saying that men and women can't be friends or that men only see things from a transactional point of view. But men can be very driven, even more so when we decide we actually want a meaningful relationship. Diverting our attention to new relation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 08:35 AM
–	Submission is earned. But can't the same be said about a man who will provide. Shouldn't provision be earned just as much as submission?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 01:12 PM
7	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? You make it seem like there is a concerted effort by men to prevent you from having abortions. I mean, it was discussed at the last Secret Council of Men meeting in August, but it was voted down by an overwhelming majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:48 AM
4	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? It's just one of those things no one thinks about until it actually happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:46 AM
3	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? Not at all. But if we are talking about equality, this is an area that is lacking equality. But you don't see many feminist fighting to be signed up for selective service.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:39 AM
9	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? How many times in the past have Democrats controlled both the house and senate? They could have secured abortion as an actual law, but they didn't. If they had abortion couldn't be used as a carrot for their base to vote. The same can be said about Republicans. Both sides use abortion to whip up their base. But... Since the US Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade, the number of abortions in the United States has increased by 12%. https://www.guttmacher.org/2024/03/despite-bans-number-abortions-u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:33 AM
1	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? Yes, but the government has no interest in solving the issue of abortion. Both sides of the aisle, likes the state of the abortion argument just as it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:25 AM
2	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? No... it really wasn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:19 AM
5	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? It hasn't. It was simply returned to the individual states to decide on. Honestly, even Justice Ginsburg said, "that the ruling based the right to abortion on the wrong argument, a violation of a woman's privacy, rather than on gender equality." This left Roe open for overturn. But since we are talking about equality and all things being equal, let talk about selective service or the draft. Something that women are exempt from, but a man has to register for at 18. That is if he doesn't want to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 12:17 AM
2	Submission is earned. I am once again asking you to ask yourself why a man would prefer deference overall in a relationship by default. I can not speak to all men, just myself. But if my partner deffers to me then I will take the lead. If she doesn't, then we co-partner. It isn't rocket science. It isn't some Machivalian scheme to oppress women. It doesn't give an ego boost to men. Honestly, it is just another brick in the load that has to be carried. If you’re going to say that deference infers trust, why does the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:52 PM
-1	Submission is earned. You're the one using the terms "superior and inferior." No one else is saying this. Just because one partner let's the other take the lead does not make them inferior. Submission seems to be a taboo word, but something most don't understand is that submission, or deference, has to be given. It is given when one partner shows that they can be trusted with that deference. On the opposite side of that, what is given can be taken away if that person feels the stewardship of that deference is being a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 11:27 PM
-3	Submission is earned. You did read where I said in a healthy relationship that both opinions are taken into account. However, no matter how equal the relationship is, one person will always take the lead, and one will follow. It just seems to me that you are looking to shit on any relationship where the woman doesn't have a role equal to or greater than her partner. You do realize that not all women wish to lead the relationship and make all the decisions, and that is ok if that is what they truly want. It doesn't ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 10:54 PM
0	Submission is earned. It implies an imbalance of decision-making power. This seems like a misconception. Just because one partner takes the lead in the relationship does not mean the other partner's opinion on the decision isn't taken into account. More often than not, if there is a difference of opinions, and the relationship is healthy, a compromise between both opinions is reached that hopefully benefits both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 09:25 PM