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| 250 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Accurate. I had the opportunity to talk to the “ex that broke him” He treated her worse than any of us. Don’t get me wrong, she’s not a peach herself but he definitely wasn’t any better before her than he was after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:51 AM |
| 22 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareI completely agree with this sentiment, I DO have some toxic friends that I've cut out. People that will tear you down and say things like "oh you shouldn't be dating yet because I haven't found a man and I don't want you to find one before I do" or "well you WOULD be a catch but don't forget you have kids and that's a deal breaker for a lot of men" or "I think you're just a LOT for men sometimes, the fact that you don't NEED a man can be intimidating and a turn off" These people that are active… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:43 PM |
| 17 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?Is your friend dating my ex?? LOL Seriously does the guy climb? Because if so I've definitely dated him or someone like him at least, and there is a reason I don't date climber guys anymore... (feel free to read my post history for some insight on that...) ANYWAYS, the topic at hand: Hobosexual - desperate guys that pretend to love a girl just to have a place to live. When the guy has a child they are supposed to be providing for its even more disgusting. My LV-ex had a 12 year old and tried to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:45 PM |
| 42 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyOh my gosh that’s amazing to hear!! My ex also had NPD but was also both physically and verbally abusive. I decided to file for divorce but got a therapist specifically to help me predict his behavior and help me figure out how to best protect myself and the kids from the fallout. She was completely useless, accusatory, and spent more than half the session asking how/when I would be paying her (she accepted my insurance so I kept telling her I didn’t know when or how insurance did the payout) I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:40 AM |
| 47 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Same. Most recent ex wrote daily emails begging for me back (gmail won’t block, best u can do is send them to spam). I finally broke down and agreed to talk but before it happened I reconsidered and said never mind. You’ve always been a cheater, you’re not gonna stop, I’m done. He sent an angry text to his bestie saying “omg I can’t believe you told (tristavia) I was sending those same emails to my previous ex too!!” His bestie didn’t tell me, his bestie didn’t know lol. But he was mad enough ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:05 PM |
| 65 | My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal.This is NOT that hard to come by and 100% should be demanded. I met my (now ex) in college, we had the same degree and I had better grades. We got similar paying jobs out of college. We decided I should stay home to raise the kids once we got married and had our first. The financial dynamic has always been that we have a joint account, enough money goes into there to pay all the budgeted bills, then we each have our own account, we each get half of whatever is left over to spend or save or whate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | I think this one speaks for itselfA friend of mine makes around $10k/mo supplemental income on OnlyFans and she’s only been doing it for a few months. The allure is that there is cheap content similar to traditional soft core porn but then you can have one on one sessions, a certain $$ to text with her, more to one way video chat with her, more for two way. It’s basically personalized porn where you get your very own porn star for as long as you’d like. What’s creepy (but she loves it) is that she becomes their girlfriend of a s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Chock-full of great info and tips. All women should check this out! Thanks to whoever posted about it recently! 💗This book absolutely saved the lives of me and my two daughters. Amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Unemployed Man blames wife for his depression, bad relationship with his kids, mountain of debt, and lack of friends. R/askmen agree, then discover his dick pics in his post history. Facts don’t matter, Men ALWAYS side with men.Link to post https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/i8ais2/at_what_point_during_your_life_do_you_realise_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | FDS approved movie recommendations?First wives club, hidden figures, and the help - LOVED LOVED LOVED all three of these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:29 PM |
| 7 | FDS approved movie recommendations?Right? Isn’t that the most annoying thing ever? Even the most female forward movies like Mona Lisa smile have a romantic subplot or wild which is a movie about a woman’s independence...from a failed marriage which more or less dictates the direction of the entire movie 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 4 | HVW ending to the Giving Tree... the original got me irate as a kidOmg yessss!!!! Can someone tell me where this came from? Is it an actual published book? My ex husbands family IDOLIZES This book and a few others that display unhealthy boundaries (“Love you forever” where the mother drives a ladder across town to sneak into her adult sons bedroom to tuck him in at night when he is unconscious) I’m reposting this to my socials but would love to buy the actual book to literally read to my 5 and 7 year old daughters. I will NOT have them ignore boundaries like I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:19 PM |
| 23 | Thanks FDS: Starting to be happy being singleAbsolutely - thank you so much for the inspiration! You know what cash in the bank doesn't do? Cash doesn't lie, doesn't belittle you, doesn't break your stuff, or yell or throw things. Cash doesn't sleep with teenagers in front of you, cash doesn't question your motives or tell you you're a bad person. Cash doesn't make you question your friendships or the love of your family. Cash just sits there, looks pretty, grows a little, and can take you on fancy vacations whenever you want ;-) I watched… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 13 | Thanks FDS: Starting to be happy being singleIcing on the cake is that I was watching the movie "Salt" last night and Angelina Jolie's character is captured, her man turns over the world to get the government to save her, once she's back with him he says "I'll accept ANYTHING about you I just need to know what it is" Tearfully she admits she's a spy for the CIA, and I teared up a little, "awww what love, he'll accept ANYTHING about her! I want that! I want to give that to someone too!" Like 20 min later in the movie, he's captured and shot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 208 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themI love that he says a red flag is that the woman always breaks up with the man. Which means he things a "good woman" should take a LVM, invest time, energy, emotional support and money to turn him into a HVM and then the man should break up with her so she can be available for him to date next. Do these men even hear themselves talk lol!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | PSA - No he's not. Stop lying to yourself.I know exactly how you feel!! My ex would throw temper tantrums towards me in front of his parents (my in laws) saying extremely mean things, slamming doors, and storming off (driving off in the car we both came in so I was stranded there) His parents would just look at me, tell me I needed to get him into therapy and remind me there was a history of bipolar disorder in their family like this is now MY problem to fix! I’d tell them I tried to get him into therapy but he wouldn’t go and I had no … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 6 | PSA - No he's not. Stop lying to yourself.My ex would break my stuff, punch holes in walls, throw things at me etc. He would tell our kids I was a horrible person and he should have never married me. Lie to my face then tell me I’m a crazy hysterical woman. It wasn’t until I saw him get aggressive towards our then 2 yr old that I realized I had to leave him. It was a long road but I was able to get divorced, got a great job, great house, and even a really good court ordered child support and alimony. I’m in an amazing spot these days bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | What is a gentleman?FDS has some pretty clear guidelines on how to be a high value man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:41 AM |
| – | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.I FINALLY told off my situationship of 8-ish months this week. Constantly making plans and not showing up, getting a last minute text to rain check or promising to make plans and never following through. He meant the world to me at one time and I honestly don’t think I ever meant anything at all to him, despite his assurance to the contrary. I’m a bit sad but I think I’m on a good path with it right now. While I don’t think I’ll ever hear from him ever again, and I don’t have any desire to reach… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:50 AM |
| 207 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.She actually messaged me this exact thing, that when she asked him why he followed my IG yesterday and why he’s suddenly liking all my stuff, he got mad at her and accused her of being paranoid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 284 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.The weirdest part? She messaged me on IG so of course I looked at her page, she’s a STONE COLD FOX! She looks fun, goes out with friends, great style, and super hot. Cheaters gonna cheat no matter how amazing you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:05 PM |
| 105 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.She was a little timid at first and apologized if it was a let down to find out he was taken 😂 I told her don’t worry about it, I’m not into cheaters or manipulative assholes. I told her I’d send her whatever proof she needed but didn’t want to send more than she wanted to see, and blocked all contact with him. Told her if she needed anything else just let me know. Of course he called me twice and texted while I was talking to her, saying they broke up months ago and apologizing for her getting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:03 PM |
| 154 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.Yup exactly. I congratulated her on her instincts. I was like oh girl here I got you, here’s a video of his long online profile, and where he asked me on a date, and when he sent me goodnight kisses last night. Do NOT listen to him when he says that someone must have been pretending to be him. He’s a liar and a cheater, and listen to your intuition! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Wow polyamory sure seems nice and appealing...IME commitment is much more highly sought after by the male, once he finds and recognizes a HVW. It is primary, and it’s been going on for a LONG ASS time. Hear me out.... I hear dudes say all the time “such and such made me realize I DO want a family. I never wanted to settle down and be a family man until I met such and such” Think about it, If a girl gets knocked up, sure she needs a support structure (village, society, nomadic tribe, whatever) to help with the childcare but she doesn’t need … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Is this worth celebrating now?I’d go even further to “hey honey, I don’t want to dumb baking on you every time it needs to be done. I picked out a recipe I think is doable for my skill set. If I get all the ingredients would you mind helping me out this first time around so I can make it on my own next time something like this comes up?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:38 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I would also like to consider leveling up my education in 2020 (considering a career change to nutritionist/dietician) tell me about the courses you’ve applied to? I already work full time and am a single mom to two girls so time is tight but I think I can figure it out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:18 AM |
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