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Would you also brush off incels spouting BS about women as "hurt people hurt people"? Or there it does become a vile and unforgivable show of bigotry deserving of the harshest criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:48 PM
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But women are the oppressed class and men are the oppressors, so it's not the same, check your privilege. . . . . /S
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:45 PM
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I agree, although the OC shouldn't have used the term "inadequate males". It's feeds the belief that men that can't get laid or can't be on a relationship have "something wrong" with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:09 PM
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Oh shit, I wasn't aware of this one. What's his story?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:25 PM
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Which would be a "good" example?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:15 PM
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I don't mind Heard's defense using the reactive abuse BS, everyone has a right to be defended in a court of law and tbh, I've seen more infuriating and ridiculous defenses than that. I'm talking about the public unrelated to the case that seemed enraged at the mere possibility of a man being a victim and a woman the abuser. And yes, people defending Brown from almost murdering Rihanna was fuckin gross. But that was like over 10 years ago, and I don't think the social and political climate nowada…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:45 PM
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Just because women are physically weaker, doesn't mean they are psychologically weaker or some shit. Why is the idea of an adult, mentally sound woman beating the shit out of her husband/BF, more acceptable than an adult, mentally sound man doing the same to his wife/GF? The supposed strength of the abuser shouldn't matter as much as the fact that they are abusing their partner in the first place. A woman trying to hurt her SO either with punches, kicks or objects is just as malicious as a man d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:38 PM
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Lots of feminist groups and celebrities wanted to paint Depp as the bad guy and used terms like "reactive abuse" to justify it. Basically, that Heard was abusing him "in response" to Depp's own abuse. It really says something about how we perceive DV that we only consider "reactive abuse" a possibility when the woman is the aggressor. Imagine trying to justify a wife beater with "but she abused him first".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:28 PM
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More often than not, the people insisting that false accusations are a super duper wired anomaly are feminists, and I think their reasoning is driven by several factors: Acknowledging how frequent false accusations are "goes against" one of their objectives, which is getting victims (female victims of male offenders very specially) to be more believed and supported. Deliberate or unwitting misinterpretation of statistics and their meaning. They seem to think that out of all allegations, only tho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/23 10:02 PM
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Wow. Dude needs to do some introspection, and for once, I mean this on a positive way. He has to realize his own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:53 PM
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That's sad. I don't mean "pathetic" sad, but "poor guy" sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:49 PM
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Holy shit. Yeah some feminists seem incredibly on the defensive and on edge all the time when it comes to men. Either because of traumas or because of being on misandrist echo chambers for far too long. And they actually expect that men will or should trust people like them to address male problems? Both MRAs and feminists are necessary to balance each other out. Advocacy for men won't get anywhere if it's monopolized by a movement filled with lunatics ready to believe the worst of men at every …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/23 05:48 PM
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It can also be a guy with low self esteem who genuinely believes that he deserves the abuse or that even if he doesn't deserve it, he "isn't gonna get anyone better".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:41 PM
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The male equivalent of the hot female pedo teacher with hordes of idiotic losers rallying behind her saying that "I WISH THAT BOY WAS ME!/WHERE WERE THOSE TEACHERS WHEN I WAS HIS AGE!?/THE BOY MUST BE GAY OR SOMETHING TO HAVE SUED HER!!".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:39 PM
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I would be able to cut that sub some slack as a venting kind of sub... If it wasn't for the fact that any male equivalent would be fuckin closed up as an incel, misogynistic and problematic place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/23 03:24 PM
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It's a bit of a shame. I've lurked in that sub for a long time and I've seen the occasional reasonable take from the feminists in there. But it's also so fuckin flooded with: Gender essentialism and stereotype based prejudices against men. The very same user you mentioned once posted that "women hate men for things they do such as physical violence and rape, whereas men hate women for things they won't do, like having sex with them". In other words, women hating men is justified, men hating wome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/23 03:09 PM
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I'm from Argentina, we are pretty advanced and progressive on the "eradicating misogyny" department in comparison to many other countries in Latin America. That being said however, the feminist movement in here is pretty insincere, hypocritical and subordinate to the current ruling political party, being selective on their demands to incarcerate and hold powerful men abusing women accountable: They are pretty vocal about it when the male offender isn't a political ally of the ruling party, even …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/23 01:03 AM
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I think both men and women can be extremely shallow and superficial and may overlook a person's vile deeds if they find them hot. It happens with women and physically attractive serial killers like Dahmer and Bundy; and it also happens with men and physically attractive female pedos (particularly teachers). Think of all the lecherous idiots saying "OMG I WISH THAT WAS ME!/THAT BOY IS LUCKY!" and yada yada. Some men think with the wrong organ, and so do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:25 AM
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That's actually a very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:22 AM
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There are also women whose lizard brains are activated when they see their partner is good with kids and would potentially make a good father. Yeah I've seen this. On the other hand, there are also women who look at stranger men playing with kids, suspiciously, assuming the worst. It's like... It's either white or black no grey area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:21 AM
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Depends the case. If the man has to be outside of the house for work most of the day and the woman doesn't work, the duty of keeping the house clean is the latter's (and obviously the same applies with the genders reversed). If both the man and the woman work, then yeah, that phrase has an outdated and sexist undertone. I think "doing your part in the house" is a better way to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:20 PM
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That's gender essentialism and women are wonderful effect in action. Men are potential predators until they prove otherwise. Women are angels incapable of wrongdoing until they prove otherwise.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/23 02:56 PM
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It's one thing that women are not a monolith and what some of them find attractive, others don't. Is another having to gamble on whether you'll be considered bold or creepy depending on a woman's liking of you and not on your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:27 PM
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Depending on what that is, they may also call you gay, pussy, toxically masculine and "not a real man".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:44 PM
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"But it's different because women are the oppressed and men are the oppressors! It's okay when we do it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:01 PM
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You can pick purple if you want. I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:26 PM
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Everyone but a small fraction of rich people, nobles, priests and/or kings were the punching bags for most of human history. It wasn't an "all men have all the power and all women are subservient slaves" situation. A Roman woman citizen had it better than a male slave. A noblewoman had it better than a male farmer. A Queen had it better than everyone else but the King. A white woman had it better than a black man. A rich or upper middle class woman has it better than a poor or homeless man. Thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:24 PM
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Since when is "honesty" an excuse to be an asshole? Women telling no to a man they don't like ain't gonna make mad any man with the slightest bit of common sense. Women telling "ew, fuck off loser, you are disgusting" to a man they don't like is understandably going to get more men reacting negatively. (Of course assault is never justified, I'm talking about men being upset or angry).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:34 AM
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Feminists love to question the frequency of false accusations on the basis of "what do they win by doing this? It's just pointless evil." Yeah, it is. Rapists also don't get anything by violating another person. They don't get money, status, respect, nothing. And yet they still do what they do. And no one questions the sheer numbers of sex offenders. False accusations are the same thing. It's not about winning anything, lots of times it's not even about getting the falsely accused in jail. It's …
/r/MensRights17/10/23 02:27 AM
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This complaint is the source of the conflict in at least 40% of the rom coms I've had the displeasure of coming across as I grew up. Sometimes "not commiting" and "valid" reasons for the girl getting pissed at her BF, involved the guy merely not wanting to be a dad, not wanting to leave his dream university or job to be with the girl, or being seen by the current GF being comforted about the loss of a loved one by his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:20 AM
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"Oh but 99% of rapists are men. And men are almost always raped by OTHER MEN." Some feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/23 10:39 PM
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Something something oh but 99.9999% of rapists are men something something men are almost universally raped by OTHER MEN something something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/23 10:36 PM
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If you're saying your instinct is to evaluate women first by how attractive they are it would be a good first step toward understanding why even regular men can be so creepy. Are you actually calling him creepy because of some thoughts he had, that he didn't even express? Didn't know we were calling out thoughtcrime nowadays. The distinction is that one sex is raised to control and repress their sexuality while the other is taught that their gratification is priority and mainly the other sex's j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:10 AM
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Yep. Male victims of male abusers are convenient and useful fuel for progressives and feminists who want to "BY OTHER MEN" men's suffering and problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/23 02:09 AM
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In my case, if I dislike a woman's personality I kind of find her less pretty, even if she is objectively beautiful. The same is true for the reverse case, an "average" woman might seem beautiful to me if I like her and get along with her. Then again, I have to admit that I would have to be really hateful or really freaked out by a somewhat pretty woman objectively speaking, in order to not accept to have sex with her if she asks me. So I guess there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:17 PM
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How is it "mainstream"? Fans of people like Andrew Tate and Fresh and Fit are a relatively small group which is very condemned by media and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:14 PM
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I don't care about it honestly. I'm more anxious about my own sex life and performance. I lost my virginity at 24 and one year later I'm still not that good or experienced in bed. I'm good at making out, at cuddling and at fingering, but regarding the "put penis in vagina" part I'm kind of clumsy. If the woman I'm with doesn't judge me for those "limitations" she is more than alright in my book. Edit: My anxious mind also mildly tortures me with "what if the condom didn't work/gets off" kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:21 AM
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On the other hand, a decent amount of women feel turned off by an "inexperienced" man. Prejudice based on sex life cuts both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:18 AM
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You may want to change the second letter bro.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 02:18 AM
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Yep, but still, people feel entitled to enforce judgement on the body count of women and the lack thereof of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:50 PM
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We are all hypersensitive little validation sponges lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:32 PM
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As a man I initially considered answering a blunt yes for the whole "women are raised more in touch with their emotions" stuff... but thinking about it, it's a bit more complicated. I think men and women are more emotionally fragile than the other in different areas, and that has to do with social conditioning or upbringing. Many of the examples you gave involve a guy "not getting the girl", and since boyhood, men are told that they are not "real men" unless they either get a girlfriend or fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:52 PM
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Gender essentialism, Women are Wonderful effect, Empathy Gap, and as for recent times, add the constant "men bad women good" message bombarding media and entertainment. Lots of people subconsciously think that women in general are just better people than men in general. On one hand, it's true that most violent crime is committed by men, but that's not reason for having stupid softer judgement on women's vile actions in regards to men's equally vile actions. One of the few problems I have with an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 09:32 PM
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It's amusing when evil people are also stupid lmao.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 05:08 PM
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The amount of times I've heard people, specially feminists say shit like "99.9999% of rapists/abusers/insert x evil behavior are men" is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:00 AM
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The subject was outright thrown to the Overton window and broke it holy shit.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:10 PM
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Schrodinger's equality, we could say.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:03 PM
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Then maybe you should check your behavior with that grandma because perhaps you did kind of murder her! There's always some truth in every accusation! /S
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:22 PM
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Allow me to further illuminate the sub with their insight. "Something something 99.999% of domestic abusers, rapists, murderers, abusers and 'insert x asshole human behavior' are men something something." "Something something any single problem men claim to have outside of toxic masculinity and patriarchy is a myth something something." "Something something owww you feel lonely, well women are beaten raped and murdered every day, boo hoo, grow the fuck up, something something."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 10:06 PM
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The absolute most they are able to muster regarding men's problems is akin to "men have problems yes... BUT CAUSED BY OTHER MEN!".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 10:00 PM
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Some feminists: The law is about what's fair TO THE CHILD! NOT THE PARENTS....! As long as what's fair for the child and what the mother wants align, that is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 09:59 PM
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I think your approach is the correct one, keep up with that. It's always healthy and productive to engage with different groups of people. I think your post is far from useless, I'm glad that you made it and that as a woman you approached a space dedicated to discuss men's problems which is frequently demonized by some feminists. Kudos to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 06:10 PM
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"Feminism is for men too" is one giant lie. Are there feminists that truly care about men and sincerely believe the movement is good for everyone? I have no doubt that these feminists exist. However the movement itself and lots of other feminists show too much antagonism, dismissiveness, hostility and willful ignorance regarding men's issues. The only problems afflicting men that feminism is somewhat willing to acknowledge (assuming they are in the mood of recognizing any of those problems at al…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 06:59 AM
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As a straight man I have to say... GODDAMN THOSE CHINS! I wish I could caress the... I mean I wish I had a chin like those.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:04 PM
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Yeah no. There was a post yesterday in r/trueoffmychest about a man that was walking alone drunk at night and saw from afar a woman harassed by two or three guys. He didn't intervene, he just prepared to call the cops until he met with a group of young men to whom he asked to help the woman, and they did. Alone and drunk, he would have stood no chance against two or three dudes with bad intentions, and yet some comments in that post were calling him a coward for not going into smash mode and bli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:00 PM
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Actually not really. Feminists use the term "internalized misogyny" as the female equivalent of "toxic masculinity". And something about it just rubs me the wrong way. Toxic masculinity sounds more vilifying and guilt tripping towards men, whereas internalized misogyny sounds more like... something oppressing and conditioning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:02 PM
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Glad that things worked out between you and your son, and both of you got to enjoy a relationship with the other. And screw (metaphorically) the mother that tried to alienate you from your kid, how selfish and petty must a person be to hate their ex more than what they love their child.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:31 PM
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Feminists about paternity fraud: It doesn't happen. And if it happens, is rarely. And if it's not rarely well boo hoo, it's not about you, is about a child that needs their father. So don't you dare walk away you selfish ass.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 05:29 PM
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"Man up assholes... I mean, grow a pai... I MEANT TO SAY CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE!" Gender roles imposed to men haven't been changed by feminism or progressivism nearly as much as they would like us to believe. Men still have to sacrifice themselves, still have to be brave to the point of self destruction, still have to provide. The core message for boys and men is still the same as it was decades ago: Don't complain, you are a man. The difference is the justification of that message. It used to be …
/r/MensRights15/09/23 03:49 PM
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Check some of the images Shoe shared about the responses to her video. You have people calling men "subhuman", "worthless", "useless", and all kinds of malicious mockery about their suffering. It's one thing to not care about men's problems. People like that would look Shoe's video, say "meh", and keep scrolling YouTube. But the people part of the backlash are just... something else. They seem to feel genuinely enraged and disgusted at the mere possibility of men as a whole needing help. Do thes…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/23 03:01 AM
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I'll give my two cents. When well intentioned feminists come to debate, let's respectfully engage with them without shitting on feminism. We can have our valid criticisms of the movement, but it's pointless to shut down any conversation with the other side and dismissing all of them as evil female supremacists. Sure, there is a not so small overlap between feminists and misandrists, but there are also good people in that movement. Of course, feminism should also show a similar open mindedness re…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 10:25 PM
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This. There's the "I want equality between the genders, since I think men and women should be held to the same standard and accountability for the same actions" kind of feminists. And then there's the "men are the evil oppressors and women are the poor victims of oppression, so I'll automatically think better of women than of men" kind of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:51 PM
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She is the kind of leftist I can very easily support. She is not close minded, and not afraid to call out other leftists' BS. Love me some independent thinkers.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 06:56 PM
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The thing with serial killers and serial rapists is that they don't do the shit they do out of desperation or loneliness. They do it because they see other people as prey to be hunted down, means to satiate their need to feel powerful and superior. And those predatory characteristics are absolutely not exclusive to socially awkward people. More often than not, those people are pretty high up in the social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:51 PM
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Because as we all know, rapists and creeps are solely basement dwelling virgins and or incels, they couldn't possibly be successful, high functioning and charming individuals! Isn't that right Cosby, Weinstein and Epstein?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:47 PM
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You put it wonderfully.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 10:51 PM
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I'd say feminism is at best, superficially concerned with men's issues, that is only the ones that can be chalked up to toxic masculinity and patriarchy and comfortably put in the "just support feminism and women and those issues of yours will also go away, we pinky promise" box. Issues that require some kinda uncomfortable self reflection about feminist narrative, say, male domestic abuse victims, alienated fathers, higher male suicide rates, male only draft in lots of countries, amongst others…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 10:25 PM
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I find this... Disturbingly accurate. Even creepily so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 08:46 PM
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I wonder if that mentality isn't driven by some subconscious outdated idea of "chivalry". Kind of like "men need to protect and cherish women and put them before themselves". It's increasingly clearer as time passes that even so called "progressives" are sometimes driven by "conservative" biases. But of course, only the part of conservativism that benefits them, mixed with a "modern" way of applying them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 03:25 PM
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Yeah, one of the biggest overlaps is troll x chromosomes, which from what I've heard is faaaaar from friendly towards men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 03:17 PM
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I think that place used to be more productive and active in discussing men's problems, I remember seeing and engaging in rather interesting discussions in the sub a few years ago. Yes, it was a feminist friendly space, but that didn't seem like an impediment. At least not then. I even discovered a very good YouTube channel which usually discusses men called Aba N Preach through that sub. But now I feel like the sub is drowned in radical feminist narrative. It went from feminist friendly to just …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 03:15 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:43 PM
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Thanks for being open minded to this sub's perspective and respectfully giving your own. It can be hard for both feminists and men activists to find common ground, specially since many in both groups believe the other group to be Satan incarnated. I personally think feminism has done a great job in advancing women's rights, but their understanding of men's issues is rather... Superficial. It's not that most feminists hate men, it's more like they follow an oppressor vs oppressed logic and that's…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/23 04:06 PM
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Easy, they would blame all of this in white straight men oppressing those groups just like they oppressed women since the dawn of time. Remember folks, anything that men suffer is caused by... You guessed it, OTHER MEN! Either that, or like the other comment said, use some skewed logic to justify those stereotypes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you. It's a very annoying and frustrating mixed message, another example of the dissonance between what society tells you it values, and what it actually values.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:05 PM
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As a man, I think each man should show himself whatever the hell he feels comfortable showing himself. You feel more comfortable being reserved about your feelings? Go ahead. You feel more comfortable sharing them? Go ahead. It's all valid. Men shouldn't be policed about how they approach their relationships with others, be it family, friends or couples, as long as they are not hurting anyone with their attitudes. Same as women. Let everyone express themselves however they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:59 PM
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Wow, holy shit. The only person who would have found this funny is Logan fuckin Paul. Also, their "apology" is the most "I'm sorry you feel that way" shit ever. Just throw them in jail and be done with it ffs.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:42 PM
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Plankton: I didn't think I could feel any worse but I guess you proved that anything is possible.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:58 PM
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Yeah everyone deserves to both be cared for by their loved ones and being able to care for them back. Neither men nor women stop being kind of needy love sponges even after becoming adults. As long as the giving and receiving affection and gifts is balanced between the two people, it's fine and ideal.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 10:02 PM
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The OP was mainly talking about male mental health and traumas and how little seriously we take them. Are you implying that society caters and coddles men as a whole and that men having it hard is a myth? Men kill themselves more, men are more likely to be mocked in the case of domestic violence or sexual assault, men die younger than women yet in a lot of countries they retire older, men are more likely to be seen as predators in their interactions with children, men are murdered more often (an…
/r/MensRights28/08/23 05:43 AM
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It's maybe the combination of men being viewed as having hyperagency and "always thirsting for sex", and women being infantilized and romanticized. Men as a whole are more likely to be seen as either predators or always open to sex. Women as a whole are more likely to be seen as poor naive and caring beings (even as adults), and thus, there isn't the same concern for women dating much younger men than the other way around. Hell, it's not really surprising, considering lots of people (men and wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:36 PM
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Or taunting you about "being gay".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:27 PM
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First off, 20 year olds are not girls, they are young women. Something tells me you wouldn't ever call 20 year old males "boys". Quite the opposite, you'd probably call them "men" since their teenage years. Second, that's quite a thing to assume about adult women being with older adult men. You are telling me that the age of consent should be higher? That we should establish an age gap limit between adults and whoever crosses it is an evil pedo who has to go to jail? That we should treat women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:01 PM
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Oh come on. Pedophile? Another word that just gets casually thrown around these days. A middle aged guy that predominantly likes women in their 20s is not a pedo for fuck sake. We can call him immature, emotionally stunted, or whatever. Or we could simply accept that those are his tastes and since they don't hurt anyone, we shouldn't self righteously preach about how much of an "evil creep" Di Caprio is. But calling him a pedo is both grossly inaccurate and disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:34 PM
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Didn't you know? It's not body shaming if a girl/woman does it to a man! That's just having standards! . . /S
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:30 PM
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The guy you responded to didn't excuse anything, just pointed out that certain internal desires are uncontrollable and policing and condemning them is kinda pointless. We can only police each other's actions, since that's what we can actually control (and should control).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:28 PM
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Thank you so much for speaking up, and good for all of you to be so open minded to learn new things!
/r/MensRights27/08/23 04:49 AM
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Very interesting information that puts many things in perspective. I myself as a guy came to feel shocked at the supposedly "enormous prevalence" of male sex offenders compared to female ones. However, even if it that prevalence exists to some extent and deserves to be addressed, we also need to observe this phenomenon from all angles and not leave out important context. Rapists, male or female, don't just spawn into existence, they are often a result of trauma, unhealthy coping mechanisms and v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/23 01:19 AM
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But some feminists say that 99% of rapists are men! You mean that... They were wrong and biased against men?! How can that be!?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/23 01:02 AM
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Hello, thanks for the interest in our perspective. I am in a lot of aspects, painfully average tbh. Averagely good looking, average height, kinda bulky but not very muscular, I have a bit of a belly and the beginnings of a second chin, I have a complete beard, a normal haircut and several premature white hairs in my overall dark hair. I consider myself kind, empathetic, perceptive, introspective and with a weird and kinda childish sense of humor. I'm also anxious, insecure and a bit self loathin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:30 PM
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For some time I believed women had immensely higher standards than men merely because they had much more options to pick from. As not only a man but an introverted and kinda awkward one who had loooooots of trouble finding a girlfriend, I admit I felt envious and a bit bothered by "girls taking the attention they receive for granted". As I got older and I listened to women friends' experiences and also female commenters online, I realized that the reality for the average woman is far darker than…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:45 AM
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I admit being attracted to some 15 year old girls but I would never allow myself to let 15 year old girls know that I found them attractive As long as you don't act on it it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:36 AM
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Yeah. Women in the Middle East are oppressed, Uyghurs in China are oppressed, fuckin everyone in North Korea is oppressed. Men and women in the West have disadvantages and are victims of sexism in different ways, and it should absolutely be acknowledged. But it's not oppression.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 10:26 PM
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Technically a 13 year old boy could be a dad. Is a man 13 years older than a woman, old enough to be her dad? Where do we draw the line between "acceptable" age gap, and "evil perverted creepy" age gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:19 PM
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Didn't you know? Men who have problems getting laid are disgusting evil perverted incels. What kind of man are you if you can't get laid? /S
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:17 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:27 PM
4

No matter how severe you prove misandry to be they either don't understand or straight up don't care, also the pattern of behaviour you described is very similar to this: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. Yeah I was making a reference to the narcissistic train of thought with my comment lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/23 02:04 PM
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In the post at the ask feminists sub people are dismissing misandry as a whiny response from men when called out from horrible behavior. Some of them deliberately give the dumbest reasons men use to claim misandry while not acknowledging any others. Men apparently only cry misogyny when they are frustrated about not getting laid, according to them at least. Others also claim that misandry even if it exists is just an answer to the patriarchy and not a fraction as serious as misogyny. And others …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/23 05:41 AM
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You transformed a dystopian future into a morbidly interesting one in my mind with your comment lmao. It's funny imagining the secrets of everyone coming out. Yeah I might get some shame or mockery, but it will be evenly distributed for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:59 AM
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Man sits on a bench in a park and lights a smoke A bunch of women approach "Hey! We saw you glancing at our kids in that playground 30 meters from here! Get the fuck lost or we call the cops you pedo!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/23 03:54 PM
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I mean, it kinda makes sense that women are the best ones at seeing other women's bullshit and lies. And lots of women are actually fair, kind and not "girls gotta stick together no matter what" sexists.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 06:39 AM
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Well done 👏👏👏👏
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 08:48 PM
4

I think it's sarcasm.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 06:00 PM
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Shut up and check your privilege incel. False accusations are only 0.000000000000000000000000001% of the total. Only one in three billion women would actually consider doing such a thing, and even if they do, it's probably due to mental illness and we need to be understanding of her plight. Men like you obsessed with false accusations are walking red flags, probably are rapists yourselves. . . . /S
/r/MensRights20/08/23 02:59 PM
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I liked the post, very informative. Love me some information with sources. I've seen some feminists kinda grudgingly acknowledge that men are raped in high numbers too, but they pull the "by other men" card. And most of the times I've seen them bringing to the table the problem of rape against men, is only as a gotcha or an attempt of rebutting the people trying to initiate a discussion about false accusations. They go full "men are far more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused, and mos…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 02:43 AM
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This is so infuriating. I'm so sorry for what you went through and for this website not being up to the task of advising all victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 02:31 AM
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According to Patriarchy theory, men are not only evil assholes that evilly oppressed women since the dawn of time while they enjoyed all luxuries in life, but they are also so incredibly stupid and imbecilic that their efforts ended up backfiring and they got hurt too. I can see why they like that theory tbh: Men are not only evil oppressors, they are also evil and stupid oppressors.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 09:00 PM
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Actually no. Don't stick your D in crazy.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 08:57 PM
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MORE 👏 WOMEN 👏 PERPETUATING 👏 CAPITALISM BABY! 👏
/r/MensRights19/08/23 08:55 PM
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I have no problems seeing hundreds or thousands of times the same initial search for validation from feminism in new members of this sub, if it means that the sub keeps growing and more people learning new things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 10:37 PM
3

Similarly to "gay", it's meant to attack their masculinity and lack of sexual success with women. Because as we all know, the most important thing in every man's life is how much he gets laid right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/23 12:46 PM
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If you bring into discussion the enforced gender role of men having to protect women, feminists will counter attack with one of the following three "rebuttals": That's the patriarchy telling men that women are weaker and in need of protection. AKA men did this to themselves, now cry me a fuckin river if it bothers you Well, men suck at protecting, look at how many women and girls around the world are being raped and killed. Men have never protected women, they predate on them. And from whom have…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/23 11:03 PM
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Mobsters and gang members have historically viewed "having a code" or "being honorable" as only attacking men while sparing women and children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/23 11:00 PM
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Historically, men and women have been imposed (either for practicality, custom, culture or a mix of the three) certain gender roles, with their own advantages and disadvantages. Men were far more likely to occupy positions of power? Yes. There was a bias in favour of men? To some extent, yes. But a man's life wasn't guaranteed to be easy or comfortable just for him being a man. It had to do with being born in the right family, context and circumstances. Throughout history, most women and men hav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 08:06 PM
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I personally think they do care but only to the extent that it doesn't make them uncomfortable nor makes them do some self criticism. If they can chalk up men's problems to patriarchy, toxic masculinity or capitalism sure, they do care, because it "fits" with their narrative of tearing down the patriarchy/capitalism and thus everyone will be happy or some shit. But if you ask them to analyze men's issues beyond that, they get real defensive real fast: "False rape accusations only happen once eve…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/23 09:49 PM
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I once tried to compare the prejudice against men in general with the prejudice against black people in the ask feminists sub and I just got mocked and called a predictable right wing moron. So there's that I guess.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/23 09:08 PM
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Statistics on domestic violence show that women dish out a similar amount of violence as men But feminists said that 99.999999% of [insert x asshole or predatory human behavior] is committed by men!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/23 09:06 PM
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96%? Any source for such a high number?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:26 PM
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As a guy, I believe it's mainly because women get too much attention (wanted and unwanted) constantly and lots of times, from a very young age. Plus, they also receive compliments and open affection more often from other women and men in their lives. Men have the opposite problem: we receive little to no attention unless we are veeeeery attractive. Plus we tend to be way less openly affectionate between male friends, and female friends sadly also have to kinda restrain themselves from showing us…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:16 PM
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Shoe just reinforced something I already believed: Twitter or whatever you want to call it, is a fuckin radioactive cesspool of toxicity, self righteousness and bitterness. Hordes of braindead assholes believing themselves to be the paragons of virtue and justice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/23 06:52 AM
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I don’t have the link but I remember a father who killed himself and his child in a similar way but he was seen as a narcissist who viewed his child as an extension of himself. When a mother does this it’s because she thinks nobody will look after her child as well as herself. Good old gender essentialism. Women good and pure, men bad and ego driven.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 09:16 PM
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I consider them subs used to vent about misandry, which is totally fine on principle, but it becomes a pointless and toxic echo chamber eventually, barely any better than subs like FDS or TXC at it's worst. I use them to check for information on men's issues that subs like menslib don't cover since they are more feminist friendly (with all that it conveys), but I try not to engage with the comments very much. Some of them are good, some of them are creepy gender essentialist non sense almost gra…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 07:40 PM
3

It could also be considered sexual assault.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 05:33 PM
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Ignorance is Strength.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 02:09 AM
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One person pointed out with disdain about how I posted in here a few weeks ago in a post I made in the Bojack Horseman sub. Tbf, once I suggested them to read the actual post they didn't insist on invalidating my opinion. As for why people in general are against users of this particular sub, it's in great part because they associate this sub with "bitter, reactionary, far right, misogynistic incels who hate women and are evil and yada yada". I do think that this sub could use a bit less of comme…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 08:27 PM
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Super based comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 04:14 PM
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I know. I was using it as a comparison. If separating from asshole friends was rough for me, I can't imagine how hard it must be separating from asshole family members.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:56 AM
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Oh believe me I don't think at all that someone being your family/blood is a good reason to just take their abuse. I'm just trying to put myself in the OPs place. I experienced a lot of constant bullying and belittling from my HS friends, I came to really fear and hate them, I only stayed in the group to not be alone in the classroom. Even so, after I started college, it took me years to completely cut them off, even though my strongest reason for staying with them was gone. All of this even tho…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 09:57 PM
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Yeah that was a classic "just cut contact with them" Reddit comment. It's not that easy to just breaking all contact with someone you grew up with. For what I can tell, OP needs to establish boundaries with his immature sister, not necessarily cutting her off completely. Unless the situation worsens or escalates even more.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 08:59 PM
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DAMNIT! You are going to be missed man. I'm giving you a follow to keep checking on your valuable posting. I'm sorry you have to leave.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 04:56 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/23 03:03 AM
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I'm a bit late. What a relief that we won't be closing this sub, it's honestly a safe haven to talk about men's problems, and the people in here are generally super nice. I would have missed this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/23 12:28 AM
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You are one of the best contributors to this sub, you shed light in so many problems for men, that feminists and "male allies" love to merely chalk up to patriarchy and toxic masculinity only to forget about them two seconds later. For whatever is worth I just want to say I admire your determination, your bravery and your dedication of researching. You rock.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/23 11:43 PM
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And thank you for the good will and disposition to both share your perspective and to listen to mine!
/r/MensRights07/07/23 10:39 PM
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To some, perhaps. To others men aren't making any sense for not being feminists, since "feminism helps them too". But the moment a male problem that requieres introspection arises, their definition of feminism changes to "it's a movement by women for women, don't bring that shit in here. Women have it worse, it's not all about you and your fragile male ego."
/r/MensRights07/07/23 10:10 PM
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I'm not saying they should. I'm just wondering why if they claim to care, they act so dismissive, defensive and outright condescending any time men present feminists with an issue that can't be easily explained with "that's just patriarchy and your toxic masculinity."
/r/MensRights07/07/23 09:56 PM
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I am so sorry for what some vile pieces of shit put you through, and I'm glad that you have loving healthy relationships. I hope you are doing fine despite everything. I'm not sure what to say. It's totally fair that you feel wary of men after the traumas you suffered, as long as you are not harming anyone who never hurt you, which I'm sure you are not doing. I think the root of the conflict and hostility between not only men and women but also different groups of humans, is our inherent tribali…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 09:50 PM
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It's very sad honestly. Maybe I'm wrong, but that sub wasn't so policed in it's content a few years ago. A very good theme in particular was discussed in there once, it was what made me find the sub: the fetishism of men's emotions. It consisted in men feeling that women only wanted them to express the kind of emotions that made women feel good or important, but were repulsed by the sight of men crying or breaking down about his personal problems.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:17 PM
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I can smell the smoke from that burn from here.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:59 PM
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There are some white women, particularly amongst celebrities, that really seem to sniff the "white women are the leaders of minorities" copium lmao. And yeah, white women of middle or high socioeconomic class lecturing poor or poor-ish men about how privileged they are is rather stupid.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:38 PM
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I wouldn't call your care for men's issues as fake, but you are right that a person from "x" group, while empathetic and sympathetic to the hardships suffered by a person from "y" group, will inevitably struggle to truly understand them and could come off as patronizing or superficial even with the best intentions. This applies to both men and women, like you said. When I was a teenager and I only had a rather bullying and toxic group of just male friends, I really struggled with understanding w…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:33 PM
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It could be that it’s two different sects of thinking. I’m more of the second opinion. I refuse to speak on other peoples behalf when I have no lived experience. And the more causes feminism brings under the umbrella, the more diluted and confusing the message becomes. And ultimately, it’s up to men to organize for male-specific rights. No one else can do it correctly. I agree. Women can empathize with men's experiences, but they'll struggle with truly understand them; and viceversa. Empathy and…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:22 PM
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Spot on 👏👏👏. Both feminism and MRM need to be mainstream. It's always refreshing to listen to what the other side has to say, rather than indulge in tribalism and "othering".
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:17 PM
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I wouldn't say feminism is a supremacy movement. I believe it's a well meaning but quite flawed movement who could use more self awareness and self criticism. But because they see themselves as the paragons of the fight against sexism, they struggle with that.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:10 PM
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I do. I listen to whatever my mother, grandma, cousins and female friends have to say about the sexism they suffer and I support them. I helped my best woman friend get out of an abusive relationship with a guy, I supported another female friend when she was almost drugged in a party; I always make sure to walk my women friends, acquaintances or flings to their homes at night if they ask for it or if they accept when I offer myself. And before you say "well that's the bare minimum, do you want a…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:06 PM
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If they do care about men's issues, I think it's great that they try to having them covered. I just think it should be more than "well your problems aren't our fault, it's because of patriarchy and your toxic masculinity, go somewhere else, women kinda have it worse than you, you know?". If they don't care, then I would ask that they don't pretend that they do as a means to lure men in the movement. Don't change from "men should be feminists we care about you too!", to "feminism is by women and …
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:52 PM
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🎶 Everyone I don't like is literally Hitler an Incel!🎶
/r/MensRights07/07/23 03:01 AM
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"Oh but that's misogynistic: you see, 'x' asshole behavior is actually gendered! My source? I made it the fuck up!"
/r/MensRights06/07/23 03:40 PM
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I think there will always be some level of discrimination, dismissiveness, distrust, or any other kind of "othering" not only between men and women, but between different groups of humans. It's due to a mix of tribalism, the innate human search for conflict, and a misguided sense of self preservation by propping us up at the expense of putting others down. In the case of men and women in particular, add what I said to a very heated and problematic history of dynamics between the genders, and ext…
/r/MensRights27/06/23 08:08 PM
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Women being the main victims of war as usual. Oh Hillary what a visionary you were...
/r/MensRights23/06/23 01:41 AM
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The link takes me to the magazine but when I try to search for it in my new account in kbin I can't find it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/23 05:47 PM
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Tell me they got a life sentence please.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 03:25 PM
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Rotten and sick pieces of filth, what they did it's unforgivable. They remind me of a similar case in my country Argentina about a boy named Lucio Dupuy, only that the poor kid didn't survive. Luckily the two subhumans got a life sentence in that case, as these two should have.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 03:19 AM
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Men that brag about being feminists are either one of two things: Self hating and submissive guys who put women in pedestals, or sleazy and manipulative asshats who just want to get laid.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 12:30 AM
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"Oh but that's just punching up. Women are the oppressed class and they have the right to shit on their oppressors from time to time! Women are raped and murdered by men every day! Men should be able to tolerate having their fee fees hurt! They should man u... I mean check their privilege and shut up!" Something among these lines is probably lots of people's justification about "why this is not the same" as misogyny and incels.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 12:26 AM
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I personally believe that while false accusations of rape brought to a court of law are rare, threats of doing a false accusation and/or publicly falsely accusing someone of rape in social media or within their social circle is way more common than feminists would like to admit. I mean it's not that hard to believe if you think about it. People (men and women) can do horrible things out of impulse driven by spite and hatred for another person. And to act like only one in twenty three trillion wo…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 04:20 PM
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I personally believe that while false accusations of rape brought to a court of law are rare, threats of doing a false accusation and/or publicly falsely accusing someone of rape in social media or within their social circle is way more common than feminists would like to admit. I mean it's not that hard to believe if you think about it. People (men and women) can do horrible things out of impulse driven by spite and hatred for another person. And to act like only one in twenty three trillion wo…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 04:17 PM
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In my country a step mother that along with her girlfriend, tortured, raped and murdered the girlfriend's son, also used this excuse. Something something I don't remember anything, I don't know what happened something something. Both of those pathetic parasites got life sentence so it doesn't matter.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/23 02:28 AM
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Don't worry, once she is inside prison and the inmates know what she did... Let's just say she won't get off easy.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/23 02:27 AM
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I'm from Argentina and I've also heard during the height of our version of MeToo the phrase "I'd rather believe a liar than a rapist." A tennis professor in my city was falsely accused of rape by a loony ex amateur player training under him who apparently was scorned that the professor didn't want to date her. The guy killed himself. The older brother of an acquaintance was accused of being a "machirulo" (which translated to English means something like violent or aggressive man) by a woman on T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 02:53 AM
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Very good post and hopefully a good sign of things to come. Men's problems need to be addressed with the seriousness and attention that they need, not on a phony and superficial way a la "well if only men cried and talked about their problems more they would be fine". Like with all problems, it's causes are varied and complex, and when people try to oversimplify them, they are being either ignorant, lazy, or outright uninterested in the problem itself and just wanting to brush it off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 07:41 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 10:01 PM
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The left and feminism complain all the time about how men dehumanize women, how they don't treat them as "human". But lots of feminist women are no better. Men are not complex human beings like them, as far as they are concerned, oh no no no. They are either evil stupid perverted NPCs whose sole goal in life is to harass and oppress women, or submissive, meek, servile and adulating NPCs whose only goal in life is to prop women up (people usually call this behavior "being a simp" feminists will c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 11:26 PM
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I'm a bit late, just wanted to say that I'm relieved that you are okay and don't forget to take care of yourself too. You do an awesome job, and you should be proud of yourself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/23 01:38 AM
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They'll just deflect the blame of the patriarchy, they'll just say it's "an isolated case", they'll say we don't know the whole story, they'll invoque "reactive abuse"... The excuses they come up with can be endless.
/r/PussyPass23/03/23 01:39 AM
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I'd rather accidentally believe a liar than defend a r-pist Is it that fuckin hard to... I don't know, be neutral until evidence against either side appears?. My rules regarding this are as it follows: Am I neither friends nor family with the accuser nor the accused? I stay out of it until evidence appears. Am I friends or family with one of them? I'll believe that person until proven a liar or guilty. But I won't go out of my way to harass the other person until there's evidence against them. A…
/r/PussyPass23/03/23 01:37 AM
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Judge: So then son, a woman had sex with you? ....... Nice.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/23 05:15 PM
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In my opinion, it shouldn't be demonized like some progressive spaces do. But men and boys shouldn't be pressured to conform to that traditional "stoic, hardass never cry or be vulnerable" type of personality. If they are predisposed naturally to that sort of attitude is one thing, but they shouldn't be forced into it. Overall, I don't think that neither men nor women should be limited to any roles. Boys and girls should simply be taught to not mess with people around them and to not let others …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 11:39 PM
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Agreed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 02:11 PM
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Because they want to have it both ways, they want to have the cake and eat it. They judge men and women's interactions and dynamics under a "oppressors and oppressed" lens. This drives them to, either consciously or subconsciously, create double standards for men and women doing the same things, believing it to be fair since "the system already favors men". For example: Men complaining about women? Worthless misogynistic incels who should be shamed and ostracized. Women complaining about men? We…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 01:16 PM
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Because as a man, if you show fear or concern about your own safety you are a wimp and a coward. You are only allowed to show your emotions when it's convenient or beneficial to others, mainly women. If you don't do it then and only then, you have toxic masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 06:24 AM
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If you present them all of these arguments, they'll just play one of their favorite cards: "The patriarchy hurts men too." Which is a subtle way of saying "men did that to themselves". In fact some feminists outright blame men for the gendered problems that affect them, directly saying "and who created that system?" So according to them, we should just shut the fuck up, stop being wimps, and help women dismantle the patriarchy and putting their needs first, and then magically, all of men's probl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 06:21 AM
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To some women, and to some feminists, men are not complex and multi-layered human beings like they are. Instead they are evil, stupid and perverted NPCs who only exist as antagonists and villains to their hero's journey. And as the evil stupid perverted NPCs we are, our only phrases are: "Yeah bro, I have a giant dick bro". "Yeah bro, I love catcalling and molesting women because I think they are inferior to us bro". "Yeah bro, Donald Trump, Andrew Tate, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby and R Kelly …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 04:45 AM
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When this happens, it would be both annoying and hilarious for radicalized feminists to start popping out saying things like: "Well, maybe men are just stupider and not as smart as women. Maybe it's not that complicated of an issue and we are overthinking it".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 06:59 PM
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A feminist in my country Argentina once tweeted about how if you complain about society being a white straight man, you were a complete failure, since "society was designed for you to win". Fuck off. It was decades or centuries ago, but as a straight white man in his early twenties, the only things that have been handed over to me as I grew up, have solely consisted in what my hard working parents managed to provide for me. Society didn't bend backwards to my whims (and it shouldn't). I have had…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/23 11:10 PM
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Happy International Women's Day to my mother, my grandmother, and to two of my closest and dearest friends who happen to be women. I'm so grateful to have you in my life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/23 12:12 AM
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Shit, "made love with" is the worst one. Imagine it: "Forty year old teacher MADE LOVE WITH a twelve year old boy in her class".
/r/PussyPass09/03/23 12:10 AM
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I think that the double standard is not only founded on women's physical weakness compared to men, but also on the perceived gender essentialist notion that women are kinder and fairer beings than men. A woman punching her boyfriend in public a lot of times is not taken seriously not only because of the woman being less strong, but also because people assume that the guy did or said something to deserve it. It's incredibly and ridiculously normalized in TV and films the "annoyed woman slapping m…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/23 12:51 AM
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Who also happen to be either middle-upper class or outright rich. White savior complex amirite?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/23 10:47 PM
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I read the apology and it seems sincere. At least she is not "apologizing if someone felt offended" or worse, raging about how women's issues "aren't taken seriously and the reaction to her video is proof of that". She acknowledged her stupid and big mistake for what it was and did so publicly. It may only be a good example of a well thought performative apology, but I'd like to believe it was sincere.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/23 11:30 PM
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I just wanted to say that I greatly appreciate your research and your dedication in giving visibility to lots of men's and boy's issues that often are overlooked or taken as "something normal". Both conservativism and progressivism only address them to advance their political agendas only to discard them immediately. And even then, they only address them on a very superficial level. Lots of anti-feminists only denounce female on male abuse when they want to throw shit at feminism. Outside of tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/23 04:08 PM
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LOL look at that loser", "Ewww go die in a fire incel" Well that's just punching up obviously! Remember women are the oppressed class and men are the oppressors. A little bit of hurt feelings shouldn't be a priority. Man up Get therapy if you are sooooo sad! /S
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 09:10 PM
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Male patient: I find myself feeling a lot of distrust for women, probably due to bad experiences with my mother and two ex-girlfriends. How do you think I should deal with this doc? Feminist psychologist: Well you know... Perhaps you could check your privilege? You are part of the oppressor class, you don't get to think negatively of the oppressed class. Male patient: .....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 03:55 PM
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Impressive. Very nice.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/23 08:59 PM
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You fascist misogynist. Why would a woman lie about something like that? Proceeds to show him completely trustworthy statistics of false rape accusations being only the 0.000000000000000000000000000001% of the total.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/23 09:25 PM
5

Spot on. What tribalism does to a mf. In both sides of the political spectrum there's this tendency of dehumanizing the people in the other side, treating them as faceless cartoons or mooks without personalities or virtues, who only exist to be "the enemy". It's bizarre.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 06:39 AM
15

Fuckin yes! Spot on. The problem with a lot of self righteous people on the left, is that when they call out a problem (usually a real problem), they do it with the mindset that others need to correct their behaviour, check their privilege, stand up to negative attitudes, amongst other things. They don't have introspection, self criticism, humility. They just climb to their high horses and start preaching morality as if they were brave heroes surrounded by bigots, misogynists, fascists, racists,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 12:40 AM
-1

Body shaming is wrong no matter the gender, however with such heinous individuals like Andrew Tate it's pretty hard for me to feel sorry for them. The guy is a raging misogynist, a toxic influence for young guys, and possible human trafficker. And I would think the same thing about calling a female abuser, rapist or human trafficker that happens to be fat, a "fat-ass bitch".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/23 03:36 PM
31

Depending on the point they want to make, feminism's definition seems to change lmao. Feminists when men ask for help about issues that predominantly happen to males: Men's insecurities and problems are caused by other men so man up and fix your own damn issues without bothering us. Feminism's purpose is to free women. Feminists when called out about members of their movement discriminating against men or acting hateful towards them: You got feminism all wrong. It's purpose is equality and men s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/23 03:34 PM
21

'men don't seek help. They just die' This is only a few steps away from saying: Well, it's not our fault that they don't man up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/23 05:05 PM
5

Spot on. Imagine someone saying that a man beating up his wife was actually just "reacting to her abuse" or suggesting in any way that the battered wife was anything else than a pure victim. A pretty sure way to get cancelled if you ask me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/23 01:53 PM
9

"Children should always be with their mothers. Fathers are only good for child support".
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/22 02:03 AM
7

I think that there is the general belief that adult men being the main victims of x problem is the "normal" or "default" thing, and thus it's only truly tragic when either women or minorities disproportionately suffer a problem. Plus the excuse of "well men mainly suffer x problem because of the patriarchy. They brought this upon themselves".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 01:15 AM
36

It's like a worse version of women mocking men for having "small dick energy" when arguing. Nowadays we talk a loooot about toxic masculinity and how men wrongfully put their value in how much sex they get. And then those same people that denounce this fact are the same ones that use insults digging into the other person's lack of sex in order to win an argument. On a broader sense, people that complain about a problem often don't realize that they are part of the problem too, but they are too s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 12:31 AM
67

"But women don't owe sex or support to men you entitled asshole! Don't you know that men kill women every day?!" Something similar to this is what people in certain spaces will answer. It's a mix of bitterness, being on the defensive and oversimplification of reality. Of course women don't have the responsibility to fix men's issues. It's not about an obligation, is merely having empathy and not contributing to worsening the problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 12:27 AM
5

Very well said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/22 02:26 PM
10

I'm not hoping she is murdered in prison. I'm just implying that I wouldn't give much of a shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/22 04:45 AM
10

Don't worry though lady. You won't live too much to regret it once you meet your new friends...
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/22 08:16 PM
13

Plus we are taught not to complain, not to bother others, not to be "pussies".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/22 12:23 AM
8

Murdering your own child shouldn't be anything less than a life sentence.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/22 01:57 PM
3

I think this is related with the fact of why so many dudes do not empathize that much with women's claims of constant sexual harassment and assault. Women are the primary (not only) targets of sexual assault and rape, and a consequence of this is that women and not men will be more sympathizing towards those crimes that ruin lives. Men are the primary targets of sexual assault and rape false accusations, therefore it's mostly men the ones that can relate to those crimes that also ruin lives. Lot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/22 11:39 PM
28

Men's problems are their own fault for being so toxic. Women's problems are men's and society's fault for them being so toxic. Awesome logic lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 04:48 PM
6

Insert South Park's "Nice. Nice. Nice."
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/22 04:01 PM
25

The feeling of self righteousness and moral high ground, mixed with some good old tribalism, can be really addictive to people nowadays. It allows them to simplify reality and perceive it on a black and white lens: I, and the people that think like me, are the good guys; and the people that disagree with me, are the bad guys. Homer said it best: Everyone is stupid except for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/22 05:19 PM
7

Why? Why is it so fuckin hard to call things by their name? It's "HS teacher raped and shared drugs with student." See? It's not that hard, media.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/10/22 06:51 PM
3

True dat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/22 04:17 PM
8

Well done my bro. She can shove her insults up down her butt. I would strongly recommend you to tell your parents too, as soon as you are ready. The crazy bitch might start spreading lies.
/r/MenSupportMen16/10/22 11:24 PM
6

Non narcisistic, non-selfish, non-malicious people with self awareness, empathy, intelligence and creativity will save democracy. Regardless of banal factors like gender, race or sexuality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/22 10:23 PM
2

👏👏👏👏👏
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/22 02:39 PM
13

I'm certain that most individual feminists don't think like this, but mainstream corporate feminist nowadays has a very black and white vision of the world: Women, homosexuals, people of color, trans people, non binary people = good guys by default. White straight men, and any member of any minority the second they step out of line = evil by default that needs to bow down to and humiliate themselves in front of the "good guys" to "redeem" themselves. As paradoxical as the following might sound, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/22 01:52 PM
18

"But muh toxic masculinity!" Seriously, the mainstream mentality nowadays, for all their brutal criticism of anything they consider victim-blaming, they sure as hell love to victim blame young men. You were beaten up by your parents, bullied by your peers and even teachers, and were constantly reminded of how inferior you are for not getting laid/not standing up for yourself/not being enough of a man? Well man up and just... Be functional and don't bother anyone. Women and minorities have bigger…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/22 06:49 PM
13

That goes double for straight white cis men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/22 10:38 PM
1

Very good and insightful post!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/22 11:47 PM
3

It can devolve into that sometimes, I just don't engage with that circlejerk.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:29 PM
10

I'm sorry if I came off as generalizing about women, I was just mocking the Twitter feminists that preach about sorority and then rip to shreds any woman that disagrees with their views. I really look down on people with thinly veiled hypocrisy and bitterness. That's all hahaha.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:13 PM
23

aka theres literally no point to this lol. "men complain about women not wanting sex, but all they do is refuse to do housework, watch football, punch holes in walls and get alcohol poison" Yep, a lot of men are lazy, violent, inmature and incapable of dealing with their problems in a healthy way. I have no problem in admitting that and laughing at the jokes, because they have a grain of truth.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:06 PM
114

I wonder when will the "feminists" show up and insult her in all kinds of ways for having iNteRnAlIzEd mYsOgiNy or some shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 03:58 PM
1

Makes sense. I feel sorry for them, but also for the innocent normal guys that have to put up with this shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/22 02:40 AM
7

"I didn't sexually harass him, I just romantically and tenderly kissed him on the lips while he was semi-conscious in the bar"
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/22 02:38 AM
1

Well the dick obviously! We actually can control it's size. If you know what I mean. /S
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 03:02 AM
17

Rings bell while walking SHAME! SHAME! SHAME! SHAME!
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/22 05:29 PM
189

Small dick jokes, balding jokes, short guy jokes... I guess it's not body shaming when the butt of the joke is a dude 🤦
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/22 05:27 PM
2

AYE
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/22 10:44 PM
5

But they clearly have iNtErNaLiZeD mYsOgYnY¡¡
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 11:42 AM
21

You don't get it. iTs bEcAuSe sHe iS a sTrOnG iNdEpEnDeNt wOmAn¡¡
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/22 02:22 AM
7

The former. I mean all sexual abuse is depraved, but doing it to children is basically the lowest of the low. Even convicted rapists of adults would be higher up in the prison hierarchy than pedos.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/22 04:56 PM
13

I completely agree. In my opinion rape should have at least the same penalties as murder. In my country Argentina there is "simple homicide" (8 to 25 years) and "aggravated homicide" (35 years) which is when you kill a close relative, to cover another crime, with sadism, among others. I think that "regular" rape should be charged the same as simple homicide and rape to minors, relatives, or multiple assaults should be charged the same as aggravated homicide.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/22 04:53 PM
68

It's not ideal, but at the very least it's not "sHe hAd sEx with two boys". I'd say one step forward, one step and a half back.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/22 04:50 PM
4

Holy shit you just described misandrists' wet dream of an utopia.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/22 04:46 AM
39

While I don't justify your past behavior, I certainly respect the self awareness and the capacity of change that you demonstrate, so many abusers never get to that point. If you don't mind me asking, what was exactly what motivated you to abuse your partner? I'm not asking to be judgemental or provocative, I understand that you left that behavior in the past, it's more of a curiosity. I would like to know which internal motivations and thought processes do certain people have. Thanks for sharing…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/05/22 09:45 PM
6

Well I wouldn't compare Depp with Spacey. All of the people that accused that guy mysteriously died before the trial, plus he made two very ominous videos implying pretty sinister things. The guy is shady as fuck.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/22 07:21 PM
12

Any person who needs to say "I'm a strong independent person" is no true strong independent person.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 03:11 PM
13

An alarmingly high percent of people nowadays: This but unironically.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/21 05:52 PM
4

Yeaaaah... Let's say there are some "nice guys" that it's better if they don't get a girlfriend.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/21 01:07 PM
4

Well... Some people in this sub tend to devolve into misogyny from time to time, and there are also people already misogynistic using this sub to vent about their ideas. But leaving that aside yeah, the idea of this sub is to simply rejoice in everyone having to face consequences for their actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/21 01:57 PM
3

I agree about the first one but the people in the second one make some valid points, even if the environment is kinda aggressive sometimes.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 09:26 PM
3

Hold on, so they can actually ban you for posting stuff in another subreddit?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 09:23 PM
48

Fuck Amber Heard. Johnny Depp would recommend otherwise.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/20 12:40 AM
10

I really enjoyed this analogy. Simple, but very accurate.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/20 06:57 PM
53

Whoa! Seriously? But what is the reasoning for that law?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/20 06:56 PM
3

In our country a person that can speak fluent English is highly regarded and leaves a good impression. I read it as highly retarded lol. I had to read it twice.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 02:26 PM
20

This.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/20 03:51 PM
20

Respect and my best wishes for the three of you.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/20 09:42 PM
71

The literal translation would be something like this: "GO TO YOUR MOTHER'S CUNT YOU SON OF A BITCH! GO TO THE WHORE WHO BIRTHED YOU AND I HOPE YOU AND YOUR MOTHER GET KILLED! YOUR MOTHER'S CUNT!" We Argentinians have a rather funny and diverse way of insulting people boludo.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/20 05:52 AM
1

Yeah. That's it.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/20 02:18 PM
-4

Nice Guy female version.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/20 11:13 PM
121

YES YES YES YES YES YES!
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/20 04:59 PM
10

Feminist judge: I declare the husband guilty! I believe you girl! Both women wink eyes at each other
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/20 02:46 AM
29

a WoMaN wOuLd nEvEr lIe aBouT ThaT
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/20 02:44 AM
3

YES YES YES YES... YES!
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 02:33 AM
37

Still an exception because his free pass wasn't denied. For now at least.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/20 02:17 PM
4

This is very accurate. I like seeing entitled people of any kind trying to use a privilege they feel owed to, in order to have a free pass for some stupid or asshole behavior, and being refused. But I agree that sometimes this sub, just like some feminists, takes things a bit too far. They become the very thing they hate.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/20 06:19 PM
0

Dammit I was going to say this.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/20 06:06 PM
14

"bUt... sHe iS a gIRl¡¡ sHe iS iN dAnGeR fRoM tHaT wOmAn-hAtEr¡¡¡"
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/20 08:24 PM
16

wHo iS gOnnA bEliEvE yOu¡¡¡¡
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/20 01:48 PM
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