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TrollCityBlunder/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 10:51 PM
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I miss the companionship, as well. But don’t let that force you into the wrong relationship. There will prospects here and there, that prove tempting. But honestly, really gauge if you are lonely or you like the other person. Don’t want to repeat past mistakes. And honestly, isn’t it amazing being single and not having to pay for someone else lol
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 09:01 PM
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Very true
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 07:35 PM
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You could pick up day trading. If you are good at it, you can easily pick up a few hundreds every day. Also, invest the extra time to work on yourself and just enjoy life after a shitty marriage
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 02:21 AM
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I felt like I was shittiest person in the world and that everything I did was wrong. A year into the marriage. Then I took a step back and realized I am not the issue. A year after the divorce, I can confidently say I am in love with myself. My “midlife crisis” technically did come when I was 29, but it was the best thing to ever happen to me. Some women will devalue and bring down your confidence so you don’t see you own worth. They do this so you stay where you are and keep catering to them. T…
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 03:23 PM
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Whatever you do, don’t help her out financially. Stay tight lipped about how much you are making, post divorce. Low ball everything. Save up and invest properly. She made her bed, she has to lay in it now
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 02:53 PM
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She wants you. But wants to get rid of the parents. Someone like that isn’t worth it. She’s causing drama so you push the rents out. My advice? Get the Bitch out and take care of the rents. Make that money. Rack up those investments. Create multiple sources of income. Fuck a few hookers. Drinks some choccy milk. And call it a night.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 07:58 PM
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Workout is the key. Hit the gym everyday and work on yourself physically. It’s not going to be an easy path (even if you exited a terrible marriage). Go on vacations and keep doing things that make you happy. Get with other women. But make your intentions clear. Have fun with them and enjoy their company / body. Try to forge a new path for yourself. Perhaps one where you have more flexibility to do the things you have always wanted, but couldn’t because of a commitment.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/22 02:39 AM
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Hey King, you dropped this 👑
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 02:39 PM
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True that. No shame in it. Especially when you are on a 3 month drinking binge
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 08:20 PM
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Lift heavy. Get on a solid routine that forces you into the gym everyday. Get those testosterone numbers up. Makes you horny as fuck. Get on tinder or find girls organically. Do what you need to with them. It’s not easy being sexually active with other right away. Work through everything. Help them finish. Restore your self confidence. Only way is up
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 05:24 PM
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It’s alright man. It honestly gets immensely better and you will learn how much better off you are without her. Don’t let loneliness get you to go back to toxic relationships. Use this time to work on yourself, your body and your career. Make new friends, meet new people. Transform your life for the better bro. Having done all this, I can say sigh full confidence that it gets SO MUCH BETTER, few months in
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 05:21 PM
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True. Prepare literally for the worst and pull out all stops. I had $304k tied in both of our names. Walked away with $264k and made a huge profit on that capital, a couple months later. Play smart, win and leave the garbage behind.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 05:33 PM
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I literally trashed everything from the relationship and everything she gave me. You should do the same
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 06:25 PM
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Key phrase is “had everything”. Best not to dwell on it brah. Shake off the toxicity and do you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 06:23 PM
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Take your time bro. Don’t rush into anything and hurt someone else
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 04:13 AM
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Lol and how well are these critics honestly doing? Are they even at your level? Critics are critics. Some mean well. Others are just insecure and try to pull you down to their level. Fuck them. Keep working on your and elevate
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/22 10:19 PM
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I plan to. It should go down as a day of liberation. I am looking forward to mine. Might even throw a party to commemorate how much happier I am
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 04:48 PM
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Time. Rest. And taking it slow. Your trust with her is broken. Not with every woman in the world
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 06:42 PM
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Bro that’s awesome. I have been experiencing the same but for overall fitness. Been targeting strength gains lately
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 10:40 PM
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It is, what it is. You both were in love at a point in time. You both changed. It fell apart. Pick up what’s left of yourself, rebuild, and try again with someone else in the future
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 05:07 PM
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LOL
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 02:34 PM
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Or casual flings and friends with benefits. Anything that works bro
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 01:56 PM
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Time works diff for everyone. But I would def talk to a doc and see if that helps. Perhaps a routine change? Change of place? Workout? Diet?
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 01:53 PM
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Don’t give her that satisfaction bro. She’s doing it all for attention. Work on yourself and get better. Win. And then win some more
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 01:19 AM
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I see this as an absolute win. You didn’t put up with another relationship that could have been a disaster. Anyone who finds flaws in misunderstandings and doesn’t want to talk it out, needs to help themselves in the first place. Next one will be even better.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 11:08 PM
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Sell first amigo.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/22 08:21 AM
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Delete and dissociate from the old life (as much as possible) Start taking care and loving yourself again Workout hard and focus on variations (lifting, cardio, etc) Look up skin care routines and prioritize oral health. You want to look your best Change your diet to something clean (your physique will thank you later) Dedicate only one day of the week to debauchery and have that be your rest day too Get on Tinder or organically meet girls at bars. Be clear about your intentions, so they don’t g…
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 02:45 PM
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Lol like a few others said, don’t just delete her pics. Delete your entire social media life. Make friends the organic, old fashioned way. She likely wants you to go through the pics and relive the good times, and stir up emotions. Screw that
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 02:29 PM
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In terms of anxiety, it depends. I was down for the first 2 weeks and then I thought about how much better my life was gonna be, and snapped out of it. I set aside 4 months to plan every inch of my new life. Do that bro.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 06:38 AM
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Def don’t people how much you are truly worth. You worked hard for you what you have. Have a girl fall for you, for you bro. Not the assets. I live a modest lifestyle, compared to what I actually could. And I’ll keep it that way, until the right one comes along.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 06:37 AM
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Relocate if you can bro.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/22 02:26 AM
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Rent bro. Even if you have the money, the housing market is too high
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/22 01:14 AM
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Take time before getting on the market bro. Do the things you have always wanted to do but couldn’t in a relationship. I have a large bucket list, which I estimate will take 6/7 years to complete. Just get on Tinder and have casual encounters while doing you
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/22 12:34 AM
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Hell yeah man. Write down some goals. Look up workout plans and get to it. You can always drink/ smoke. It’s not mutually exclusive
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 04:38 PM
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Yeah man, it’s different for sure. I make it clear upfront that I am not looking for a relationship but just someone to hangout with and if it’s consensual, then sex. It works like 30% of the time
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 04:37 PM
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Yeah the debauchery gets boring after awhile. I got bored of my routine so I started focusing more on my workouts, setting high goals that force me to get to the gym everyday. Adding cardio back in the mix to spend more time working out. I relocated and took a different role, as well. Do that if you can. Not for everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 04:13 PM
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Amen brother. I have been extremely focused on my fitness regime. Over the summer, I got close to shredded. Now I want to pack on some muscle so did a bulk and now gonna cut hard. This summer, I want to look like Brad Pitt from Fight Club. Hell yeah
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:42 AM
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Listen man, this happens. People tend to change after marriage. I realized I married a narcissist, post proposal. And went along with it and actually got married to not hurt anyone. Ended up fighting my way out of the marriage and literally sneaking out. The guilt did hit me. But you shouldn’t feel guilty about doing what’s best for you
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:38 AM
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I don’t regret getting divorced. I regret putting my parents in a position where they were emotionally abused. But it is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:35 AM
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Being trapped in a sexless marriage will drive you into depression. You can still be a good father, post-divorce. It’s not mutually inclusive. Weigh your options and act. I was in a similar position but no kids. I wake up with a smile every single day now and my sexual health is off the charts. Just do what’s best for you. And that will be the best for your daughter as well
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:33 AM
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Don’t invest any money under her name. Or assets.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:26 AM
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I didn’t fight about money simply because I was buying my parents peace. She only wanted 17k more than I was willing to give her. There is no price tag on freedom or peace. Or in my case, there was.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:25 AM
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I did this while still going through the divorce. I have always wanted to drive a 5 series. Bought myself a M550i and ended up driving it “cross country” for my fresh start. Best feeling ever, especially in the speed machine!!
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:23 AM
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Eh I don’t see the harm in it. I waited till everything was finalized to have sexual encounters. It still felt wrong while in separation. I guess I am old school. But if you know you aren’t going back for sure, then why not?
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/22 03:21 AM
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She’s trying to keep you on the hook. My ex wife was the same way. I had to do something extreme. Make her think I am “hurt” about separation and depressed (to not bruise her ego, but to boost it) and in the Knick of time strong-arm the divorce with other factors. Don’t give in to her BS man. Get the toxicity out. Best wishes.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 12:37 PM
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Get out bro. She’s likely fucking with your head and will then paint you out to be the bad guy, in public and to friends/family. I dealt with something similar and had to literal sneak my way out of the marriage. Your wife sounds like a narcissist. A narcissist with devalue you but still hold on to you because they know you are valuable. They will shit talk you in public, and lie to your face. Get out before kids get involved. It’s not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 05:32 AM
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Hey man. You did the right thing at the time , but obviously things fell apart. If there are issues just not worth resolving, I would start over. Sometimes a fresh start is what we all need.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 05:29 AM
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I am sorry you have to go through this man. I was lucky enough to get out before kids. Funny thing is, she tried to propose kids and have unprotected sex, a month before we separated. I stopped sexual contact when I knew I wasn’t attracted anymore and wanted to pursue a divorced. It would have killed me to be in your situation and be separated from my kid. As for you, i would try your level best to stay neutral with the kid and not bad mouth her. Your kid will grow up to understand the truth and…
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/22 08:11 PM
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