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| 9 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualThey were both great dads growing up, I just spent way more time with my step dad and we both chose to have a great relationship. I didn’t love my step dad more, by the way. I had a bond with my real dad that was marvelled by anyone who was around us. But we’ll-adjusted kids are resilient by nature and learn to make the best of crappy situations over time. My dad left my mom after an exposed affair (several, actually. Though I didn’t find out until I graduated university. I’m eternally grateful … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 02:24 AM |
| 6 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualI can tell you’re hurt and feeling threatened, and territorial. I’m sorry you’re in this head space, I hope it doesn’t rot your insides | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 02:13 AM |
| 4 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualAre you forgetting a step dad LIVES with the child? My step dad who ALSO worked hard but lived in my house, not 40 minutes away without traffic, was able to attend all these events because he was able to. He taught me how to ride a bike because I wanted to learn on a Tuesday, not on a court appointed custody weekend. He was present every single day. Meals, life lessons, grocery shopping, actual day-to-day parental energy. I don’t understand how you place this level of parenting at an uncle level… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 02:12 AM |
| 15 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualBecause my step dad was an amazing father figure, that’s why. He was at every sports game, band concert, awards assembly. Every down-to-earth lecture, my first concert, driving lessons, etc. Unfortunately my real father worked a lot and wasn’t able to attend these events; I’m really thankful my step-dad was. It wasn’t a slight to my father to want my step dad walking me down the aisle too. And when my dad died and couldn’t walk me down the aisle, my step dad toasted him at the wedding. Raising s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 02:05 AM |
| 11 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualMan, what an ego. Give your head a shake. A wedding day isn’t about the dad or step dad; it’s about the bride surrounding herself with the strong men who have loved and supported her. If a girl grows up with a bio dad who she saw every weekend or two, you think that dismisses every weekday the step-dad showed up for her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 12:34 AM |
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