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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?It's not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Screwed up big time. Need some advice on what I did wrong.Ah, OK, well, this is the problem with meeting online, sometimes the chemistry just isn't there in real life. This is why personally I've always favoured daygame or meeting in cafes, bars etc. The difficulty with things like Snapchat, Tinder etc is that even if it seems you have a spark, before you've actually met in person you just don't know. So it might not be that you did anything wrong, as such, more that she just wasn't feeling the vibe when you turned up. That said, I personally wouldn't … | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Screwed up big time. Need some advice on what I did wrong.How did you meet in the first place? i.e. did you meet in person before you started talking over messenger / Facetime etc? Or did you meet her online? | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 10:13 AM |
| 3 | How do I respond to this?Don’t | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Be honest, how much do looks actually matter?Let's be under no illusions here: if you want to achieve success in the dating arena as a guy then how you look matters - a lot. There is a kind of doublethink at play sometimes as guys have this idea that women are less looks-orientated than they are. Now, in part that's true (more on that in a moment). But to ignore the deification of male models with chiseled jawlines and ripped abs in our society is myopic to say the least. Why do you think all those guys on billboards and magazine covers ar… | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 09:07 AM |
| 2 | I Have Too Much Feminine 'Energy', How Do I Become More Masculine?You hit on it in the sentence 'I tend to put everyone else's needs above my own.' That, in essence is your problem. Guys get very hung up on talk about 'alpha' and 'beta'. But these terms are not entirely helpful in terms of seduction. In seduction, what you need to be---or rather, what you need to communicate---is a strong essence of self-interest. While that may sound selfish (as indeed it is) when you let others see that YOU are the most important thing in your world, and that they can either… | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:39 AM |
| 0 | How do you become less wholesome?Many guys are disadvantaged both in terms of dating and business because they are just too damn wholesome. This is adjacent to the problem of being 'too nice', but it is not exactly the same thing. Let me explain. Nice or not, consider this: what is your baseline level of ethical and moral laxity? Yes, we'd all like to say that we are fine, upstanding citizens, but let's face it, the truth (the deep-down, never-willingly-revealed-to-another truth) is that we are not. All of us know that there ar… | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else have much better luck with girls in real life than online?Yes - 100%. The reason is that the apps are very heavily biased towards a single indicator---looks---whereas a cold approach in real life is predicated on multiple indicators: looks, confidence, style, dominance, facial expression, charisma and so on. It's like watching a movie on a laptop screen versus watching it in 3D at the cinema. | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 08:45 AM |
| 1 | This Is Why Strip Clubs Are Great For GameIt's definitely a great way to get used to talking to women without bothering with the fear of approach anxiety. Even if you never pull from a strip club you can learn a lot. Whatever you think of RSD, their instructor Luke said he would never have got so good at PUA if he hadn't visited strip clubs regularly as a newbie. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 09:03 AM |
| 1 | The Benefits Of Being SingleAbsolutely - 100% | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How To Make A Date With A Hot Girl Zing With Sexual EnergyThanks man. That's good feedback. I've been thinking for a while of lessening the pictures of girls to illustrate articles. What you say gives me food for thought. Many thanks, Troy | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 11:36 AM |
| 3 | My simple advice on how never to be in the friend zoneyes - 100% agree | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Made the mistake of planning a dinner for the first date, how do I make sure it goes well?I would research a lounge bar to go to directly afterwards. Don't take her shopping, that will greatly reduce your chance of escalating---and if you don't at least attempt to escalate you may never see her again. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when you find the right person?There is no 'right person', there are just some girls we click with better than others. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 12:17 PM |
| 7 | Progress and Sticking Points - almost three months on...27 is not too old at all. In game, life begins at 30. Seriously. My results started to skyrocket in my 30s and my best year ever for game was 39. I'm now in my forties and still going strong. Remember: men's value maintains far longer than women's. You can still be a player right through to middle age if you want, so don't waste your best years feeling pressure to settle down. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Sarging exhaustion.2 hours a day is fine but maybe take one day a week off every so often. The danger is that your interactions can become stale and inauthentic which will negatively impact on your results. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 03:17 PM |
| 9 | STOTD - Isn't that guy cute?!Don't acknowledge it, change the subject and start talking about something else. if you acknowledge her, even in a jokey way ('go fuck him then') then you've bought into her frame and she knows she's got to you. Remember. she should be in your frame, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:18 PM |
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