| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 616 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches? | Outer Game | TroyJack | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 12:21 PM |
| 17 | The Shift | Fundamentals | TroyJack | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 04:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Different views with hinge dateThis answer right here | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 12:04 PM |
| 3 | What I've learnt from fking attractive womenThis is so true. Best to find someone who lost a lot of weight and/or was an "ugly duckling" as a kid because they seem to be really good people as adults. At least all the ones I dated. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 12:18 AM |
| 4 | First Date - Girl wants to bring her friend with her??Having her friend along is going to be a cockblock. Unless you are super smooth and super hot, it's not going to work in your favor. At all. How are you two supposed to build a connection and make a move on her with her friend attached to her hip? | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Like attracts like energy. If you are okay with casual sex, you will attract people who are okay with casual sex. Being intentional about who you are and what you truly desire (in all aspects of life) will bring the "right" person into your life. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 07:22 PM |
| 3 | How long did you date your girlfriend before you made things official?The woman should make things official or hint at it. Men should do some chasing in the beginning but after you start sleeping with her and seeing her a couple times a week, that's when the tables turn and she should be wanting to tie you down. Pun intended. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | People just want to be more EfficientThis is the way I live. Great post my man. Sometimes I think I am the only one thinking this way. I'm glad I am not. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Can't approach girls without boozeLol funny guy. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches?Exactly. I don't get it 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches?Why so serious? Just be playful. It's not like you are telling her you are Trump's nephew and work as a plastic surgeon in Silicon Valley. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 05:04 AM |
| 210 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches?If she has a boyfriend or says she has one, I pass. No need to get ego involved and keep pushing. Lots of women out there that can make things very easy for you if they are attracted to you. Why make life harder by going after girls who aren't interested or who are taken? It's like working at McDonalds and trying to become a millionaire. Work smarter, not harder. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 02:14 PM |
| 17 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches?This. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Can't approach girls without boozeGood luck 🫡 | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Can't approach girls without boozeIn that case, carnivore diet and social practice. When I eat just beef, salt, and water, I am in a zen state almost all the time while feeling like a rockstar. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Can't approach girls without boozeThis comment right here. Start by chatting with men and women you aren't attract to and work your way to women who you feel are out of your league (btw - never believe a woman is out of your league). | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Can't approach girls without boozeL-Theanine is an amino acid found in green tea that can "significantly increases activity in the alpha frequency band which indicates that it relaxes the mind without inducing drowsiness". People tend to take it with caffeine to get a calm energy but you can take it by itself. I rarely get stressed yet I took it while working at a job that was face paced and high stress. For me, it kicked in pretty quick and I could tell when it started to wear off (around 5-6 hours into my shift). I took 400mg … | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Common advice is to spark emotions… examples?This. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | The ShiftThanks my man. I appreciate the response. All your points make sense and I know better but I think I just let things slip a bit. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 06:00 PM |
| 2 | I don’t feel good enough for any girlHey my guy. Please do yourself a favor and look up a guy on YouTube with the channel name "The Power of I AM". I can (almost) promise you that your mindset will shift if you continue to watch his videos daily. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 06:40 PM |
| 3 | This question is more for the f boysNever send a dick pic. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?Before dating apps blew up in popularity, I actually met up with maybe a dozen women at their place and we were fvcking within an hour. And these were not fatties but not 10s. Maybe 6-8s. That was over 10-12 months. My "hoe phase". It felt pretty empty and never felt good doing it so I stopped. I am decent looking at best. Shaved head and well groomed beard. 5'10". I am not every woman's cup of tea since a lot of women don't go for guys with shaved heads but I didn't care. The ones who matched w… | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the height increasing insoles ?I'm 5'9" and intentionally wear minimalist shoes like Vibram FiveFingers. Attracts the right type of woman 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Most couples you see are together because of circumstances.This right here. If anyone reading this is working on being your best version, cutting down others or even concentrating on others is just pure distraction and Your Best Version wouldn't be doing either. | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 09:36 AM |
| 1 | First dateBeen there, done that. Don't mess with a married woman. It's not worth it. Be better. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 05:25 PM |
| 7 | Sleeping with a virginYou think a woman's first time is going to be better when she is face down ass up instead of looking into the eyes of the man that is taking her virginity? 🤨 | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 05:23 PM |
| 29 | Sleeping with a virginTake your time and slow down. Go VERY slow with her. Tons of foreplay. Have fun. Be playful. Do what you can to make her feel super relaxed. Make sure she is super wet before you even think about sliding inside of her and when you do finally decide to slide inside of her, go VERY SLOW. Every inch you slide inside of her... just pause. Relax. Kiss her. Take a breath. Enjoy the moment. It will feel so much better for her the slower you slide inside of her. The worst thing you can do is rush things… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Why would she be hot and cold toward me?100%. I can't even imagine sleeping with someone now if I didn't think there was truly long term potential. I just hold myself to a higher standard now and demand better of myself. Not just with dating but in other areas of life and I feel much better overall. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Recover from a bad text.Different strokes for different folks I guess. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 06:43 AM |
| 0 | Recover from a bad text.High quality women aren't at a bar at 4am. Be better. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 06:37 AM |
| 7 | Why would she be hot and cold toward me?Not all women are dateable. So many women have trauma nowadays. And a lot of it. You can't fix them. They need a ton of professional therapy. A lot of that trauma is from childhood or guys who just pump and dump. Not saying I'm innocent in all of this since there was a short time where I was just hooking up with women and not carrying about the consequences but I quickly learned that just sleeping with a bunch of women damages you and them in the long term in that it's harder to have a deep conn… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed to win a bet 18MThis guy gets it | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Men living in NYC or other big citiesBest comment I've read in awhile. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Do women sometimes purposely bend over to grab someone's attention?If she's bending over to take off her panties, she is definitely trying to get your attention. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself.How did you interpret what he said in that way? He basically said the complete opposite. He isn't begging anyone to take him as he is. He doesn't care if anyone takes him or approves. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women while hiking or bikingIf a woman is out running, has sunglasses on, and/or airpods in, etc., I wouldn't approach. Even if its a busy trail. If it's a busy trail and she looks at you, smiles, and puts her hair back behind her ear as you are about to walk past her, then I would maybe shoot your shot. FYI - yes, women randomly do put their hair back behind their ear if if gets in the way but they will also do it subconsciously if they are "open" to you. Eye contact and a smile, along with tucking the hair behind the ear… | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 07:22 AM |
| 9 | Hard to settle down once you know about game?Is your favorite restaurant Chick-fil-A? | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalI like to see it as faking it until you make it. You have to try and try and try and fail before your confidence is ironclad. You can still approach while being scared as fvck and display confidence without actually being genuinely confident. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 10:54 PM |
| 8 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.Yes. It's not easy but it helps us grow. Being rejected can feel like a kick to the nuts. I get it. I've been there multiple times. Even the greatest pick up artists havd been rejected hundreds of times. But if you have the mindset that you are a confident man and you are developing the gift of creating a spark and fuzzy feeling inside of a woman by displaying confidence, you'll go far. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalAlways, always, always assume a woman is into you if you are displaying confidence. Cocky funny confidence. Not arrogant and being a d1ck confidence. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 21 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.Women can smell the insecurity. And women are attracted to confidence like a man is attracted to tits and ass. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 07:51 PM |
| 24 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.Yep. They do. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 07:50 PM |
| 101 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.This. Do it 100 times. Then come on here and complain. Until you do that and actually try, you are just being an armchair seductionist. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:34 PM |
| 210 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.PSA: Assume a woman likes you and is looking for a man with balls to come up and introduce himself. Also, women are insecure themselves but can put on a really good front of not looking insecure. They know what they look like without makeup. You don't. And they are human as well. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:33 PM |
| 29 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalAsking a woman if she finds you attractive is seeking validation. Steve Shapiro (YouTuber) has done a skit where he asks women "are you feeling what I'm feeling". That would be more fun and would get her a laugh and probably a kiss if you have already built rapport and have seen each other multiple times. And women have to build comfort with a man before a kiss will feel right. It could happen on a first date or it could happen after a handful of dates. If she is smiling at you, getting close to… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Uninterested girls getting mad when you stop the attention?Maybe it's because women (consciously or subconsciously) are testing your emotional strength to see if you are moved by their actions. Or she is pissed you haven't made a move. Go out with her 1 on 1. Not in a group setting. Say "Hey. I am going to the arcade later today. Come with me so I can see how good your air hockey skills are." | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of my fear of initiating conversation with woman?This. Talk to EVERYONE. Look people in the eyes with intention but try to be calm when you do it. Like a gentle stare. Like Jack Harlow does it. Be genuine and try to imagine seeing their soul. For men, it may seem weird because we are logical but women can feel it. Jack in action: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05vQ08uH-s0 | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?About 8-10 years ago during my "ho phase" (and when dating apps were still somewhat new), I somehow ended up having sex with a handful of women after our first date. Only one involved alcohol. They just got caught up in the moment. None of them lasted long in terms of long term relationships. One wanted me to stay in touch (probably because I made her orgasm just by sucking on her nipples) but, for me, it felt kind of shitty and (looking back), I bet some of the women regretted it because they d… | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 08:30 PM |
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