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| – | If most men followed the "look for implicit attraction signals / read the room / make sure there is some interest" advice that is given, most men would have minimal opportunitiesAs a guy who has received these ‘flags out’ body language, you really don’t need to do it yourself. If girls find you attractive they will give you the craziest looks like they want you. They will look over their shoulder, look you up and down, and mess with their hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityDoes Marx believe material conditions shape an individual? Did Mao try to implement this in China? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 01:10 PM |
| 3 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityEvolutionary psychology is pseudoscience. It’s like history with EVEN MORE speculating. How could you possibly test a theory in a controlled environment? History at least has records. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinityLmao. Hoe_math must be cucked and gaslighted by a women to understand the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinityI agree the redpill needs to pick up some real leftist ideology like Marxism Leninism. None of the American “left” shit though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for datingI’ve have seen some girls tolerate some pretty shitty stuff because an attractive man does it. I’m talking racism, lying, and cheating. You should watch CHADfish videos or reports. Also I think of myself as attractive and girls do tolerate shit behavior if you are good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 01:32 PM |
| 2 | If men are more wary of men than they are of women, then women are definitely justified in being more wary of men than womenLmao, the time of the short men is surely upon us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If men are more wary of men than they are of women, then women are definitely justified in being more wary of men than womenWhy would it not? The US’s racist policies and culture has no effect on the current dating landscape? Do you think media has shifted in such a significant degree that Asian masculinity is now championed. I would love to see stats though on the success of Asian men in countries that aren’t homogenous though! This is of interest to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:03 AM |
| – | If men are more wary of men than they are of women, then women are definitely justified in being more wary of men than womenYeah, but that’s not my point really. I’ll be more specific. If women generalize for their own safety, why do they not pursue the least dangerous demographic of men to a higher degree? Asian men seem pretty open to dating other races as well, as Asian women statistically do not even prefer Asian men over white men. Your race doesn’t matter here. But it’s crazy black women are the least preferred. I’ve dated black women and they are beautiful individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:59 AM |
| – | If men are more wary of men than they are of women, then women are definitely justified in being more wary of men than womenNo. I like the honesty. But do you ever wonder why Asian men are not the most successful in the dating market? They are the least likely to harm a woman in any way, according to statistics. The ones who have moved to America also tend to be liberals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:30 AM |
| – | If men are more wary of men than they are of women, then women are definitely justified in being more wary of men than womenWhy would you use this logic for gender and not race? Also are the assailants not of mostly the same economic class. So why not extend the logic and specify on poor people, as they tend to commit crimes. For instance domestic violence is higher in certain racial groups and among people who drink. Does this mean all people of this race who drink deserve to be generalized? Or just the drinkers? “Men of every race do x” yes, but it is much more prevalent in specific demographics. I would argue we u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:19 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveOkay now apply the logic to a woman who says she would rather encounter a bear than a man. Also women who say “all men suck”. Before you answer though. If you mention crime stats extend the logic to race as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:00 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveThe irony of people who love science is that they never account for how one’s behavior is shaped by ENVIRONMENT and genetics. There is a reason pretty people tend to be confident and ugly propel are not, they were not born with shame it was put on them. I was lucky enough to go into my 20s attractive and it really changes your worldview. Women approach me and I don’t have to try, but before I got nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:54 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveYou’re making an assumption based on something which was not implied. They never stated they were “surprised” by the behavior. You didn’t read properly. The comment was an observation on behavior and how just because someone is autistic it doesn’t make them a logical savant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | TRP fundamentally misunderstands and misrepresents StoicismYou’re so wrong. Americans are such r tards when it comes to the classics or philosophy. Stoicism was not created by Marcus Aurelius. One of the most famous stoics was previously a slave (Epictetus). CBT therapy has actually taken notes from Stoicism as stoicism has been successful in its use in therapy. The Ancient Greeks were highly intelligent no matter what your average 6th grade reading level American tells you. They had the heliocentric model by using only math and logic, tell someone toda… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:23 PM |
| 3 | TRP fundamentally misunderstands and misrepresents StoicismIt’s no surprise. Look up what the average reading level of an American is and then crack open a real stoic book. Not Marcus Aurelius | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | TRP fundamentally misunderstands and misrepresents StoicismYou don’t read philosophy so stop pretending. Nietzsche hated collectivism of any kind and a bunch of men getting together to talk about women is not something he would have supported. He was very timid toward women in real life but aggressive in writing. Nietzsche also did not like the new wealthy people capitalism created because Nietzsche is elitist. He wanted a class educated class of elites. Not rich men with no taste who think “self improvement” is anything besides masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreIt’s because science like everything else is politicized, but science is still seen in a religious way. So when we have psychology being grouped with physics under the banner of “science” psychology is granted more weight than it should. Making it a great rhetorical tool. How do conservatives win at all if the US is a republic? The conservatives don’t believe in abortion and want to strip back social safety nets. Every modern country has realized such policies are idiotic, yet the MAGA republica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreOops. “Similarly, in a study conducted under the auspices of the Center for Open Science, a team of 186 researchers from 60 different laboratories (representing 36 different nationalities from six different continents) conducted replications of 28 classic and contemporary findings in psychology.[72][73] The study's focus was not only whether the original papers' findings replicated but also the extent to which findings varied as a function of variations in samples and contexts. Overall, 50% of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreYeah, because globalization stripped many rural areas of their industry. Suicide is also higher among shorter men, the least attractive demographic group. Suicide rates amongst young men, (the sexless Gen Z male) is also higher than their female counter parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:17 PM |
| 16 | Men and women don't really need each other anymorePsychology heavily relies on what people say as it is a soft science. I agree that it is a pretty weak area of study until we get neuroscience more involved. But conservatives have consistently reported higher level of happiness and they have also been found to be more conventionally attractive. It is likely that conservatives are conservative because they are higher levels of well being they want to preserve. I’ve never heard a liberal not seethe when discussing politics. Whether they seethe ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreYou’re thinking too logically. We live in the post modern age where logic is something we pretend doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:58 PM |
| – | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreStudies would back you up. Religious people have better sex and conservatives are happier. This is coming from a left wing person (European left, not American liberal). American liberals love science to a point, even when political realities reveal human discontent and the world becomes more right wing and populist. But modern urbanites will always claim they are happier while being progressive. Of course their happiness requires medication and the air in cities are poison. But I’m sure sex with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Any complaint a man has about the dating market immediately assumes he is strugglingLogic. Not even once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 08:04 AM |
| 23 | Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy?That is a bit disingenuous. College is from what 18-24, these are young adults. Young educated adults and hand waving their decisions is infantilization. The truth is women like men with clout and frats have a lot of it. So even though when you are in college (in my experience) you will hear a frat raping someone every year or so, no one does a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy?Also women don’t avoid the most dangerous men. They actually hang around those likely to rape on college campuses. It’s always weird that women will talk about how all men are evil. But won’t specify who is doing the raping or avoid the men doing it. Frats would be a dead concept if women avoided and generalized like they say they do online. https://sexualassaultvictimadvocates.com/fraternities/#:~:text=Sexual%20Assaults%20in%20Fraternity%20Houses,college%20women”%20(Vox). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:12 AM |
| 27 | Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy?Women always talk this way as if it is a constant thought. But why do young women commonly visit frat houses when this is LITERALLY were most rapes occur on college campuses. It’s like the man vs bear discussion. It’s like if women really were always running the scenarios, frats are like rape city. Fraternity men are 3x more likely to rape, also these are the guys getting dates. https://sexualassaultvictimadvocates.com/fraternities/#:~:text=Sexual%20Assaults%20in%20Fraternity%20Houses,college%20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:02 AM |
| 0 | South Korea will be the first feminist country in modern history to be butchered.I would assume solid facial structure. Left wing men have round soft faces which studies have shown that women on BIRTH CONTROL find more attractive. While women not on birth control find masculine traits more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?It’s interesting that the internet has needed to restrict male forums and male figures because men have a tendency to group up and radicalize. Good thing corporations are here to castrate movements and keep the ineffective and feminine movements alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Misogyny on the InternetYou really don’t think that in the 70s and prior women expressed the fact that they “improved for men.” That’s a crazy claim. “No generation” really? no generation? Like… anywhere? You can’t just say stuff and make it true. Women today will literally go to gyms in skin tight ass shorts and say it’s for good form and circulation or some shit. Or I want to look good for ME. It just so happens that women enjoy looking the same way that men like to see them, naked. Also so happens that the worlds to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:52 PM |
| 7 | What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women?Lmao. That’s a an extremely loaded term, you’re gonna need a permit for it. “Restrained politeness” I’m gonna be honest with you. I’ve attracted women by IGNORING them not being “polite.” This means, intentionally not looking at them, responding curtly, and leering. Blah blah blah bad parents pseudoscience psychobabble. This has worked with women who have expressed admiration for their fathers and mothers and those who didn’t mention them. It just works if you’re attractive though. If I was an u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:36 PM |
| 15 | Why do women's dating frustrations match with what I experience irl?You ever work retail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manYou made the claim that a vast number of autistic men were struggling to date due to “not having speech therapy”. I’m not angry, it just doesn’t necessarily follow that men are failing due to a speech impairment. I actually would assume nonverbal queues would be the main reason. For example, I could always tell who was autistic because of the way they would sit straight up with hands in their lap or rock in their chair during class. Or they would walk on their toes. I have been approached by wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Bro just shower bro. Like bro did you try some jokes bro. Did you take up rock climbing? Did you try showering 3 times a day, any man that respects women will get laid bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Yeah, the sugar coating that is done is absolutely terrible. If a women gets a whiff of you being autistic you are done, and I’m not even autistic. Just from the guys I’ve known and observed. “Women don’t want to be approached in social settings.” ….by ugly men. I have had no problem talking to women in academic and work settings, in romantic ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manNo, your logic is dogwater because a failure in the dating scene does not necessarily mean that it was a speech impairment which caused it. It could be any of the other features of autism learned or intrinsic to the condition, which could have caused the failure. Your assumption, is also, that everyone possesses the same ability to change and that change is similar for everyone. Also dogwater, but positive, so easy to digest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?Reddit speak. Gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?Very true. People think just because it is commonly stated, that it is true. Critical thinking has failed in this way Also the stats don’t demonstrate the point made by the cute anecdote about there being plenty of couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:41 PM |
| 31 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?This a weird argument. Gen z, millennials, and the next generation will continue to spend more time on their screens. Online reality HAS become a form of reality when this is where so much “real time” is spent. Also South Korea is pretty Anglo centric culture wise. They were literally created as a proxy state and mimic the same structural problems of capitalism and culture. Except even more intensely with all the ‘skin sculpting’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?My mother laughed in my face when I cried as a kid. My father never did this to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 05:23 AM |
| 8 | Women don’t hate men being vulnerable. These men claiming so just don’t know how to act like adults or date emotionally unavailable women.There is also this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/LiHNLzLrUU Also people can just look up “crying in front of gf Reddit.” and see men’s experiences. The people saying it depends on the situation I feel are coping a bit. Anecdotally a girl left me when my grandpa died and I got depressed for a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Machismo is not what prevents men from relating to each otherIncel is when boxing gym. Average Redditor take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Conservatism as it currently exists in the US is anti-establishment and anti bourgeois values. The leftists in America are pro NGO’s and are backed by special interest groups. There is nothing revolutionary by propped up and supported by corporations and there is nothing revolutionary about liberating managers. O | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.It’s because Americans conceptions of columnist are women/ men with colored hair and frail bodies. They don’t think “real” communism is what actually exists in places like Cuba, China, and Venezuela. They think communism is a fairy tale ideal when Marx was a materialist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of evolutionary psychology, especially as it relates to sex?I think the critique is actually warranted. It’s weird we refer to psychology as a science when only about half of psychological studies can be replicated. Similar to how antidepressants work half of the time. How is it a science when the ground it stands on is so shaky. Science is supposed to replicated, psychology is guess work. You get sat across from a human who has bias and has to judge you on criteria that changes constantly. The presumption being that if you manifest certain symptoms you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Except there is. Studies have show that the higher the body count of a women is the higher the chance of a divorce in the future. Some people want to get married and start a family, having flings for the rest of your life isn’t fulfilling for some people. Studies have shown women with multiple sex partners lead to less happy marriages and higher divorce rates. https://attheu.utah.edu/facultystaff/premarital-sex-and-divorce/ https://attheu.utah.edu/facultystaff/premarital-sex-and-divorce/ https:/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mindWomen gossip, that’s cold and immature. Guys won’t hang around if they don’t like you, but it’s very easy to get along with guys even if you are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:53 AM |
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