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On the same boat here. This post describes me. Exes also call me emotionally abusive. It’s tough
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:42 AM
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104 fever. You should go get that checked out
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:48 AM
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Yup. Been there plenty times. Still learning on how to take things slow and not over invest
/r/askTRP02/01/21 01:40 AM
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Girls are big manipulators. Going through something similar. You won’t stop thinking about her as much until a girl that’s as good looking and crazy about you comes around.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 01:28 AM
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Was she Latina ? Lol
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:59 PM
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Been there. Done that. I self sabotaged the relationship with my insecurities. She ended up cheating.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:46 PM
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Go to your nearest gas station and buy a damn dick pill
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:14 PM
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Women are very good liars. Sounds like she’s up to no good and she will just deny everything if you ask. 100+ day streak on snap ? Wake up. There’s been nudes sent.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:17 PM
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No. At the end of the day and after all the advice everyone gives you on here you’re going to do what you want. I’ve ignored many red flags myself and it always comes back to bite me in the ass. There are better women out there.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:46 PM
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Run for the hills
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:27 PM
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“This isn’t a oneitis thing” Narrator - it indeed was a onetis thing. It’s all downhill from here if you don’t get your shit together. Those insecurity thoughts are going to eat you alive
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:42 PM
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Thanks for the input. And what’s your age ?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:34 PM
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Start a test cycle.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:43 PM
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Her priority is her parents. Your priority is her. Something has to change. I can’t tell you what to say to her exactly or how to approach this. But the more you push the more she pulls. You will come off as needy and she’ll notice that and know you need her more than she needs you. Give it a few weeks. Go out with your friends. Let her see you’re having fun. Stay busy.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:46 AM
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It sounds like you’re in her frame and she knows that she’s got you. Who brought up the idea to live together (you and her) for those 4 months ? Does she have any friends over by her parents. But yes being apart for 4 months is a long time and who knows after those 4 months if she’s even going to want to continue the relationship with you. Don’t waste your time. Time is the most valuable thing. Have a direct talk with her in a week or so I’d say. Don’t sound needy
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:33 AM
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Yup. I’m aware of that. I’m having a therapist take my money to get to the bottom of my issues. I did let my insecurities get the best of me
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:29 AM
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Thanks for the comment. I appreciate it and I agree with everything
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:20 AM
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Thanks man I appreciate that. I’m in a hole right now but I’ll make it out. It’s my only option
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:37 PM
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Thanks for the comment bro. Yes I agree with all that you said and I know that the first step is the hardest because right now my thinking isn’t clear but I need to unfuck myself
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:36 PM
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Yup makes sense. Just googled it. How exactly do you get to the sidebar on a phone ?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:33 PM
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I was waiting for someone to bring this up because I do understand that I sabotaged the relationship. My first session with my therapist was yesterday and yes I did tell him I was on dating apps. Yes I told him I was insecure. Yes he told me it was wrong and I wouldn’t have liked it if she did the same
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:30 PM
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Yeah I know. Everyone here has been burned before. Some just handle it way better. I suck at this. I know it’ll get better but it’s gonna be a while. Thanks man
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:36 PM
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It says I have to be in a peaceful state to do the ritual and not be angry. I guess I’ll have to wait a bit
/r/askTRP05/12/20 06:46 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP05/12/20 06:30 PM
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I will thanks
/r/askTRP05/12/20 06:03 PM
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Never done anything like that before lol.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:41 PM
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I deleted everything. She deleted all her social media. I didn’t delete mine tho. There’s no contact whatsoever between us. Time heals everything. Hopefully sooner than later. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:40 PM
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Thanks man. I deleted all pics. Blocked contact. And I’m thinking about deleting my Instagram. And yeah I’m gonna have to force myself to go out and try new things/ meet new people eventually even though it’s hard because of covid restrictions in NY
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:32 PM
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Yeah I know. I just feel defeated right now and have zero energy and motivation. I can’t focus at work. Idk why I’m so bad at dealing with this
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:13 PM
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Therapist
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:48 PM
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I’ve dated a girl like this before. Very hard to read. She played it cool. It took her time but she came around. So just take things slow and stay busy with other things. Don’t come off needy
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:22 PM
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Dude who the hell knows. She could have a bf. She could be fucking 5 other guys. Who knows what’s going thru her head and honestly who cares. Go fuck 8 more women. Tell her to hit you up when she’s around and stop texting her.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:36 AM
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Wow what a mess. Go lift. Increase smv. Dump LTR before she sets you up for domestic violence and you go to jail. Plating girls is easy when you’re confident. Start off with tinder if you want. Don’t stay with this crazy one. She’s going to keep cheating on you and you could catch an std
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:30 AM
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Smolov
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:30 PM
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No contact. Un friend. Block. Out of sight out of mind. Lift. We’ve all been there before but why do you have to go out of the way and call the dog retarded?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 05:45 PM
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Go pee on him to re-establish dominance
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:45 AM
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I’m on the same boat here. I’ll admit. Still learning. But yes right around the 1 year mark I feel the same way and get insecure. I don’t mention it to LTR obviously. But it’s a fucked up feeling and it sucks. They give less attention and it feels like manipulation. Why they do that. Idk Loss of spontaneity maybe ? Too much comfort? Females just love us in a different way than we love them. And plus they get so much validation from guys on a daily basis. I’ve applied dread. Hung out with my frie…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:34 PM
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Alright seems like you’re also at a low point in your life. How old are you? I’ve met a compulsive liar before too. It was a girl. She was fucking retarded. Don’t worry about them. Don’t give them your attention. Are you lifting heavy ? That helps with confidence. You start to look good and you feel good. If you’re having trouble with girls why don’t you start off with tinder. Game a few girls. Be outcome independent. That’s how I have the most success with girls. When I’m outcome independent an…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 02:18 AM
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Whats up man. What’s your major?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:24 AM
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Nice good shit man and I hope you get sorted out and move back on your own
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:53 AM
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I will look into it thanks man.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:31 AM
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It must be hard to get picked up by them I’m assuming. 200k a year and no experience sounds crazy
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:04 AM
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I live in glen cove. Just looked it up. That’s very interesting. I will look into it. How did you hear about this ? Know anyone that has been selected ?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:29 PM
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DL 440. Deadlift 440 lbs. Just a gym stat. I’m in shape.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:52 PM
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My goal right now is to be at pease with myself.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:36 PM
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Yes great advice. Fighting relapse sucks but it makes you a better person. Not much of an appetite right now. Just had some eggs this morning and that’s all. Not getting much sleep. I don’t want to take any pills and shit like that. Just dealing with it. Haven’t watched porn in a very long time. I also like lifting high volume low reps.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:34 PM
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I work 48 hours a week and go to the gym almost every day. I slipped up and picked up cigarettes I know. I got a shirt workout today. It’s hard to get back on your feet when you’re not mentally there. It will happen though. I’m optimistic
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:13 PM
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Thanks man. Yes I need to quit smoking. I do lift and I enjoy it. Eating hasn’t been easy these days so my workouts suck.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:05 PM
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Wow that’s awesome man. You made it happen. You were motivated. I need to make a change you’re right. I need to get out of my hometown even if it’s not a big leap like to another state. But yes I also believe you completely change and become more independent when you get away from your family’s house
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:57 PM
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That’s awesome man. I’m glad you found a good job in Richmond. Do you have any family there or started from zero ?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:54 PM
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Never thought about it like that. Thanks for the advice man. I appreciate it
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:52 PM
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DL 440 = deadlift 440 lbs. just some gym stats man. I’m not 440 pounds I promise you that. I wouldn’t be able to text this on an iPhone if I was that obese. But yes change is necessary in life you’re right
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:49 PM
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Great advice man. Happiness within first before anything. I’ve been trying to save up. It’s not that easy in Long Island. I do live with my mom but I still have to pitch in on rent and other expenses so it really isn’t easy to save
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:45 PM
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Yeah man it’s a shitty feeling. I just went to the gym. I got a shitty workout in but I guess it’s better than nothing. It will get better but it’s not fun when mentally you’re not there
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:43 PM
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Yes but that all sounds like union work and a lot of years of apprentice work making the minimum. How old were you when you made the move to Florida and then Georgia. You’re right a leap like that takes some balls but it sure helps you grow and come across different opportunities with jobs
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:53 PM
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Yeah man hopefully the smoke clears sooner than later. I like lifting. I like getting bigger. It’s a good rush but my caloric intake is shit right now. I also need to work on my insecurities and how I handle similar situations like that for the future
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:27 PM
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That was deep. I appreciate it man. You’re right it’s all about being happy with who you are so no one comes into your life to fill voids. I need to be more confident and stop getting external validations to feed my ego
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:20 PM
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Yeah when I have fwbs and plates I give 0 fucks whether they’re monogamous or not. It’s when I get in an LTR. Sometimes when I see a family. Husband wife and kids I wonder how they even got it work. How do they do it. My parents got married when they were 20 and had me at 21. They lasted a very long time and got me thru high school. It didn’t work out at the end. But my dad was never attached. He moved on and ended becoming friends with my mom. No hard feelings. These women are getting worse the…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:42 PM
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I am not a doctor. It’s a very addicting drug especially if you suffer from anxiety. It makes you feel calm and nothing feels better than not having anxiety. Doctors give it out these days like candy. They don’t want to get sued. The long term is not worth it man. Talk to a dr if you’re addicted. They’ll probably tell you to taper off it. Cold turkey can be dangerous
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:33 PM
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I have been on Xanax when I was younger. Yes it’s a blessing and curse at the same time. It makes me feel so relaxed and I can make rational decisions. But it got to the point where one pill wasn’t doing anything anymore just like any other psych drug. So I abused it. Withdrawal was not fun. Ended in the ER
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:26 PM
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I’ve seen people leave Long Island and go to live in states like Texas, North Carolina, South Carolina. And they all end up coming back here
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:23 PM
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I feel like I never get insecure when it’s a fwb that I have around. But when I get in a long term relationship I always sabotage it. After a year of dating I start to feel insecure. I don’t know why I’m like this. None of my friends are like this. How does one work on their insecurities ? I just start to over think shit in a long term relationship. I think it’s because when I give them commitment and the chase is gone they start to wonder off and start to show me their true colors. At least tha…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:21 PM
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I started smoking years ago because of shit low self esteem. I got over some insecurities and got somewhat fit and I would always look at people that smoked with disgust. Now I’m one those people. I will quit soon again. And no I’ve never thought about moving across the world and I don’t think I can do that with just a couple thousand dollars
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:17 PM
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Yeah man that’s why I feel like an idiot because I got insecure and overreacted and lost frame. Sure there could’ve been a chance it wasn’t anything bad and I’m not getting cucked. But it’s one thing to have your phone on silent and then another to shut off notifications from showing. You ask “what if it would’ve been a girl?” If it would’ve been a girl she wouldn’t have turned her notifications off. Then again I think if it wasn’t bad text she would’ve showed me. Yes of course she doesn’t NEED …
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:10 PM
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Thanks man I really appreciate it. I will try to send you a pm if I can figure out how to work this app. Yeah there isn’t many people to talk to that care. Everyone judges and loses respect for you when you feel in hole. That’s why I’d rather talk to a stranger
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:03 PM
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Thanks man. I needed to hear that. Sometimes I wish I went to college and got a degree and was making 100k+
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:45 PM
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How do I make no sense. I take her out on a little vacation. Giving her my time and attention. It’s 9:30 PM she’s drunk with me in the condo. I see two texts from a guy. It was on the lock screen. It didn’t say the actual text. It just said the guys name and imessage. I then see her pick up her phone. Text back real quick and put it back down. After she sent the text she also changed her settings so that text notifications don’t pop up on lock screen. Meaning when the guy texted back it wouldn’t…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:44 PM
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Yeah I know. I’d like to stay in NY because there’s plenty of work around here. I guess I’m just scared to start somewhere new from zero. I question if I’ll even get a good job there and what if I don’t. What if my savings runs out. I question if I’ll even get used to it living in a different city. I just need to find motivation and go forward with my life somehow. I need a plan
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:14 PM
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I know you’re right the older I get the harder it becomes. It already feels like I’m stuck here. Here and there I get a rush to arrive and move out and then I have days where I feel depressed and don’t wanna do shit and strive forward with my life.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:56 PM
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I’m currently in Long Island. It is expensive as hell. I also have some relatives in Miami. Although I don’t see myself living there. I heard pay sucks down there and there isn’t many jobs though
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:29 PM
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I will thanks
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:25 PM
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I’m not an alcoholic. Im a lightweight lol only would drink a couple beers with LTR once in a while.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:12 PM
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Yes I know I need to start making moves. I’m getting old and living with my mom is starting to seem like it’s the reason why I’m not growing as a man. My dad who was much more of a man at 27 than I am took my mom and moved out of the country to start somewhere else. So yeah he made moves. He was much more out going and striving than me. He made moves his life depended on it. He worked his ass off. He had success with women and work. Idk what that has to do with anything just wanted to share
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:56 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate it. It’s hard to find a decent roommate but I guess I’m going to have to if I can’t find a cheap place to live at. I need to commit to unfucking myself like you said. It feels good to be out of this shitty feeling. And I do want to go to work and try to get my mind off this shit but I’m gonna be thinking about this shit at work regardless and it’s going to affect my performance.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:48 PM
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I want to live alone that’s the thing. My best friend has a kid and lives w the baby mother. He’s making 150k a year. He’s good. My other friend is saving up to move out. Probably with his brothers. My other friend has a fucking coke addiction and alcohol addiction. That wouldn’t work.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:15 PM
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I see happy couples and relationships that have lasted many years and I just don’t get how they even do that. I know today’s women are not the same because of all this social media and so much validation they get from so many dudes that feed their ego
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:21 PM
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Thanks for the reply man. Yeah it’s hard to keep an IDGAF attitude on the spot when the disrespect is there. Texting another guy back at 9:30 PM even if it was or wasn’t bad.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:18 PM
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Thanks man that second paragraph explained it very well. Once you start giving them a bit more attention a lot changes. Anyway yeah idk why I feel like shit right now. I did fuck up and picked up a cigarette again after a year of quitting. Sleeping is gonna suck for a while. I have anxiety and shit. I’m a bitch right now
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:12 PM
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Thanks for the reply man I appreciate it. It’s been a long day thinking about if I made the right decision. I did felt disrespected and I told her she was putting our relationship on the line. She didn’t show me the text so I left to my car in the parking garage. She chased after me and told me to wait up as she went back upstairs to get her phone but I ended up leaving anyway. I gave her a chance to show me on the spot and she didn’t.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:11 AM
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Yeah you’re right. I really don’t know how this will go but nothing pisses me off more than thinking I’m being cucked so something has to be done. I appreciate it bro and I’ll keep you posted
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:38 PM
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Yea she’s going to make up a story and try to shut me down. Either way she’s gonna lose respect for me even if I say it as casual as possible. I’ll keep you posted. This might go south and I’ll just end up dumping her tho. Even if she’s 100% innocent I’m still going to look like a bitch lol
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:02 PM
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I did text her and asked how her day was and made somewhat of small talk with her. Then I called her later that night but she was most likely asleep. She asked me why I called. I didn’t say anything but when she comes over later I’m gonna tell her that I called her because I thought I saw her driving. But then she’s just going to be like yeah I was driving home from work. Then I can say anything among the lines “yeah you were coming from the opposite side of the highway”
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:53 PM
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How am I supposed to ask such thing. And make it casual?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:23 PM
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I have been keeping my eyes open. I told her to come over after work tonight. I’m going to have sex with her and the first thing I’m going to see is if it looks like she shaved yesterday or the day before. Idk what else to do I don’t wanna sound insecure and tell her I saw her yest and ask her about where she was going
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:40 PM
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Yeah I need to take a step back. If she was a plate or a fwb I wouldn’t give a damn I would’ve been happily drinking a beer with the dude and her lol. But yeah when you’re establish a relationship monogamous stupid shit like that can piss off anyone at some time in their relationship.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:52 PM
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That can also be true. She did follow me out the door and held the car door open when I was starting the car. She didn’t want me to leave feeling some type of way. I wasn’t too happy with her so I wouldn’t have let her in the car if she wanted to anyway. Idk I just entered a mindset that I needed to get away from her but I guess it would’ve felt better if she picked up on my frame a little better and came to my house afterwards or even called later that night. Idk if it’s an ego thing. Another t…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:46 PM
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Yeah I was okay to drive.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:47 PM
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Just re read your other comment. “She’s my gf and should be invested when she’s in public.” Exactly. Even if this dude has been a friend for years or whatever. She should act in a different matter. I honestly didn’t get much sleep. I was pissed most of the night. Idk how to or even if I should respond to her today when she texts/calls. I honestly thought about blocking her but I think that makes me look very insecure
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:46 PM
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I feel like I did lose frame. I don’t feel like she’s going to hamster much. She knows that I acted jealous and saw it in my eyes as wrong (her sitting next to that dude). I left without saying goodbye. She followed me and all that but I felt like I should’ve played it cooler than I did. But then again there’s just so much as a human being I can ignore. At some point something gonna piss you off. She’s going to text for sure and the last thing I wanna do is come off as butt hurt.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:37 PM
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I am pretty brutal with my standards too. The bar is 5 minutes from her house. 25 from my house. When I walked out she followed me. “Why are you acting like this? Can I see you this weekend at least?” Holding the car door so I won’t close it. The more I think about how surprised she was when I showed up the more I want to dump her. She just seemed sketchy. Even if the dude she was talking to was one of her girls bf. You just don’t sit that close to another man. And she knew she was in the wrong …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:32 PM
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I feel like the last option (what I did) made me look butt hurt. I feel like the “alpha” response to this would’ve been to just completely ignore it. “Who cares that your LTR was sitting next to a dude. It’s just your turn bro” etc. but I feel like this is crossing the line and I need to figure out what her punishment is and what’s going to happen
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:27 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Yeah man I do have a tendency to over react and over think stuff but the gut feeling is telling me to abort right now. Im going to wait till I feel relaxed before making a decision. I hate communicating with her and telling her what to do or what I like. I feel like a bitch when I do that. And she’s a smart girl I shouldn’t have to tell her. She knows that she was a little bit too close. I don’t know how to go about it tomorrow when she reaches out. She’s gonna ask me what …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:37 AM
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She asked me if I wanted to go with her. I’m just going to calm down and wait till tomorrow or whenever to think it thru and make a rational decision
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:28 AM
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All I know is that she was wearing some make up which she barely does. And that she was sitting too close to another guy. She saw me first before I spotted her out in the back of the bar.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:24 AM
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She knew it though. She’s a smart girl. She knew I felt some type of way and she knew it was because she was sitting down a little bit too close to some dude regardless of what her intentions were. I feel like I had a valid reason too whether I didn’t play it as cool as I’d want but yeah she’s not a plate. So yeah I felt like disrespect from her
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:15 AM
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Idk why I got jealous. Maybe I just got mad because I looked stupid. In my eyes everything looked wrong and I felt like I was completely disregarded and disrespected I don’t know. She seemed sketchy about everything. Or maybe it was me. I lost frame that’s all I know and I don’t know what to even say to her when she reaches out tomorrow
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:05 AM
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Alright bro there’s a difference between oneitis and being somewhat invested in a relationship. I’m posting on here to get some advice. If you don’t want to read it don’t
/r/askTRP27/12/18 06:10 AM
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I don’t like the idea of her entertaining guys on social media. Whether or not she’s answering direct messages. There has to be some type of boundary there. I took a look at my friends and his gfs relationship for somewhat of a reference. We all went to school together. They have been together for a lot longer than me and current LTR. But she doesn’t follow random dudes that add her. She has pictures of her and my friend online. LTR never posted any of us. So there goes that “being the prize”. N…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:18 PM
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I don’t really think I fucked up that bad. She’s still coming over. We’ll see
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:07 PM
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Haha great. They just all go around having sex w co workers ?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:06 PM
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I am also 26. I did vet her for a couple of months but at the time I was fucking 3 other girls so I’m not sure if I did a good job. I don’t know anything about her past. I never spoke to her about n count, never talked about boundaries. She’s always on Facebook because of school and all that. So I’m pretty sure she knows her status is single on there. Mine doesn’t show. It’s hidden but anyway. She does tell me “you’re mine” and “I want you all to myself”. I know we say here to watch her actions …
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:03 PM
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That feel when ?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:52 PM
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I guess that’s what I’m having a hard time getting in my head. The fact that she could fuck someone and I’ll never know. An ex ex LTR fucked a friend of mine and that hit hard. I’m working on myself and my insecurities. I have my doubts in the relationship but probably most likely because of my insecurities. I am lifting. I feel like I do need another hobby.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:51 PM
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I know. I’m getting distracted by this shit and I shouldn’t. I don’t bring any of it up to her obviously but do you not think this behavior is making me look stupid
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:34 PM
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Impossible to find a hb 7 + with an N count of 3 or less
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:22 AM
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