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Escalation & CalibrationTruSiris/r/seduction08/08/22 08:25 PM
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Glad your making steps in a good direction. Now to step in the direction of a good erection -- idk if this applies to you but in case it does -- pornography induced erectile dysfunction is real and could explain this issue. I've had it before but no more.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:54 PM
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Nah. Just no. Animals gotta go esp if they are watching. This is all around weird my guy.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:51 PM
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Bro i gotta kick my cat out when my jerking off cause he will just stare at me. Wtf is wrong w u
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:12 PM
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Honestly as a dude who is highly distracted by nice butts in athletic wear, I kinda wish women would just have their own gym. I don't wanna be dropping some heavy shit on my face bc some juicy booty walked by me while doing inclined bench presses haha. Anytime im tempted to look i just bring my focus back to my breath but damn it is a challenge. Even the Buddah would be on the struggle bus. Dude reached enlightenment under a tree. Lets see him do it at a gym.
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:15 PM
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I just look at it like I didn't have her before so there's no loss. But i did do something corageous so that's a win.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:32 PM
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This isn't the sub for you. You need to improve your sense of self worth by learning ways to heal your trauma and your inner critic. Meditate, goto the gym, learn breathwork, and consciously choose positive thoughts about yourself. Continuing to chase women with your mindset and emotional state will only yield more self loathing. Go inwards.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:28 AM
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To get her to talk about herself without asking questions, make an assumption about her. Like "you look like the kind of person..." orr if you know something that she does or is into, make an assumption about that thing. If you're off base she will enjoy telling you how it actually is and if you're on point she will appreciate you seeing her. Also to turn it flirtatious just start by teasing her in the way she responds and look for ways to slowly introduce romantically/ sexually suggestive thing…
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:38 AM
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You could also just acknowledge the awkwardness and both get a chuckle about it and then see how that feels.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:25 AM
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I guess it depends on why you would approach a woman to begin with. Do you want to date her? Are you looking for a life partner? Do you just wanna hook up or find a fwb? Boiling it down to "putting my dick in a warm hole for 15min" seems like an over simplification to me. Women are not just warm holes lol. Personally I'm trying to find a cute-hot chick to date who is dope af and not an easy catch. I don't see it as jumping through hoops as much as I see it as an process of developing trust and s…
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:11 AM
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Offer value. A joke that can be turned into a subtle flirt. Make comments that are relevant to her and tease her. Pass shit tests. And also know your worth and when to walk away. Im not super experienced in all of this but these things have worked for me when I've employed them.
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:05 AM
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They weren't interested in kissing you but they may have been interested in a conversation where they can feel your energy before they are put on the spot to decide whether to kiss you or not.
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:43 PM
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For real I remember noticing the stark difference between the side by side walmart and target in the town I lived in as a late teen. In target It was like I was in a whole different universe where litterally every girl is smoking hot.
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:23 PM
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goto Target, they're on sale.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:15 PM
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What are you doing with your energy tho?
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:13 PM
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if she doesn't open herself up on her own, you can invite her to by asking questions that are pointed towards how she feels about something. "What came up for you when I said that?" "oh I notice you seem like you have more to say about that than you already did"
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:35 AM
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this is interesting timing. i'm 35m and just matched with a 44yo woman on okc who I felt a lot of attraction towards, just off her profile and the way she responded to my initial message. I know I'm talking about OLD but same or at least similar rules apply... My initial message I just jumped off of something that I resonated with in her profile and took what she had already said a step further and also made a subtle joke about how it relates to me personally. In her reply she laughed at my joke…
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:31 AM
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Op is tryin to read some amateur erotica 😑
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:22 PM
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You're not talking about sex. You're talking about intimacy, and random Tinder hook ups are unlikely to provide that to you either. Other people said it, but find something you enjoy doing and go to the places you will find others who like doing the same thing. Easy to connect with people that way.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:15 AM
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Cuck situation incoming. lmao nah have fun yall.
/r/seduction18/09/22 11:48 AM
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Calling someone gay with negative connotations is homophobic middle school behavior no matter what the reasoning is for it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:31 AM
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That is not at all what was said.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:30 AM
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Low key homophobjc bs at the end there my guy.
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:41 PM
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Okay so you just go around disrespecting strangers cause they haven't proven themselves to you?
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:49 PM
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There's cute girls everywhere. Don't get hyper focused on the strip club waitress. None the less, it won't hurt to try to strike up conversation/banter with her just for the sake of connection. Don't go into it with her number in mind, just with the intention to connect with her and no attachment to it turning out well or not.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:11 PM
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Tbh I kinda don't believe people are just being this overtly mean to you without any reason. This post seems a bit off to me.
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:41 AM
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Thats shitty ignorant behavior. She doesn't owe you a kiss for your time .
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:51 PM
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Don't just go in for a kiss. Ask for consent or tell her you want to kiss her to get consent. Every. Single. Woman. I've done this with has expressed appreciation for it. Not all have said yes and getting a verbal no is better than surprising them and having them turn away, likely a little pissed that you didn't say anything first.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:50 PM
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Authenticity.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:48 PM
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No one owes you anything just cause you sent a message. Get over yourself, it's not about you.
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:15 PM
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No but it was condenscending in my head.
/r/seduction14/09/22 10:54 AM
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Statistics are what use to create and justify generalizations.
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:29 AM
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I guess it depends on the woman and how well you can discern her character without basing your decision making process on generalizations.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:33 AM
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Idk man it's def not a bad sign. Overthinking is an understatement on this one. What other questions you got? She peed in the bathroom across from the one I peed in... is this a good sign??
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:30 AM
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I really can't figure out why a woman's body count matters, at all. Mine is high as fuck and I kinda don't want someone who is inexperienced. Espcially for a ltr, I want that freak ass woman who devotes herself to me and me to her.
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:58 PM
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Well in that case I get called a cutie a lot and get lots of.compliments on my hair and clothes... but these are platonic friends and the people I hang around are much more open hearted, affectionate and authentic than most in our society.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:05 PM
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Not yet 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:38 PM
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I know 50+ beautiful women in my immediate community that I don't feel a sexual/romantic connection with. Why is everyone so fucking immature around here?
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:30 PM
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Lmao same. Honestly man just put in the work to change what you can yourself and work on your energy and confidence and that's all you need. No need to chop up your god given body.
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:45 PM
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Lol no one can play an instrument without practice.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:54 PM
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who cares if it goes forward or not? you miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take.
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:09 PM
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You hangin out in the wrong spaces bro
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:19 PM
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Well why does that mean you can't start?
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:51 PM
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why not?
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:59 AM
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Why are you even here then? If you dont think there's any hope for you then go figure your shit out w a therapist. No one on reddit can help you w this shit attitude ur presenting.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:29 PM
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When your self image is dependant upon whether or not the other men around you are better than everyone else like you are... Okay.
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:05 PM
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Just for the record... my appearance, energy and style, confidence and overall attractiveness has shifted drastically over the last 5 years and its because i worked for it, not cause i faked it. You are lying to yourself to excuse yourself from the effort it takes to change your life for the better. Stop that shit, it makes you unattractive, and dont give me this "oh well thats just who i am" bullshit. You are a bright beaming star of awesomeness, you just gotta sift through all your bullshit an…
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:54 PM
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Who tf said go to the gym once? You gotta work to improve yourself and your mindset and your emotional intelligence/ maturity. It's hard work and requires you to face yourself and be honest with yourself and then start fucking stepping. It's not something you can just think yourself into (altho recognizing and inturrupting your toxic thought patterns is a big part) but you gotta put your feet on the ground and try something new. But you seem pretty commited to feeling sorry for yourself and acti…
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:51 PM
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You act like everyone is mean and scary and being yourself is some terrible thing. You don't interact with a lot of real humans do you? Have you even tried upgrading your style? You don't seem to be speaking from experience, at least non recently... but perhaps you werent treated well by classmates or something and now youre projecting that trauma all over everyone and using it as an excuse to not better yourself.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:46 PM
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If you wear nice clothes that you enjoy then people will def call you out on that... with compliments.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:15 PM
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It's not fake to dress in clothes that make you feel good. Wtf?? Like if you are wearing what YOU want to wear and what makes you feel good then you're being authentic. You can dress nicely in plenty of different styles. Pick one that you resonate with. A couple years ago I started being more intentional with the clothes I buy. They're nice clothes and they match my energy. It can takensome time to find what resonates for you but once you do it's easy to build on that.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:46 PM
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U sound like a normal man to me.
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:26 PM
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Big Agree.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:05 PM
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She moved 8 hours away. Like I said, I'm really unattached to outcomes. We are on very different paths rn and I accept that. Plus I have a son and don't center my life around women.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:56 PM
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who cares what you read. be yourself, follow your instincts and don't worry about if it does end up going anywhere or not, if you're concerned about pushing her away then you're most likely gonna do just that. just get out of your head and flow.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:55 PM
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Lol cause our love brought up a lot of pain and trauma for me, insecuritu, etc... stuff I have since worked through but at the time was too much for either of us to deal with consciously and respectfully. I broke up w her one day as a knee jerk reaction/protection mechanism and she, wisely, refused to take me back.
/r/seduction18/08/22 09:52 AM
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Sorry your outlook is so bleak buddy. I've dated excellent women as well as complete narssicistic pieces of shit. This one has a heart of golden honey my friend.
/r/seduction18/08/22 09:50 AM
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Love of my life girlfriend and I broke up... SEVEN years ago. She moved to another state for the last 5 years. Moved back here at the start of '22... into her family home which is 10 minutes away from me. At that time I had been with this other girl for 2 years. First girl and I hung out a couple times since she was in town again, she met my girlfriend, gf and i brought her to a couple concerts with us and friends. gf and I break up 3 months ago. I hit up love of my life to just hang out and chi…
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:14 PM
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I had one that was playing hard to get and so I just stopped talking to her. 2 weeks later she text me asking if we could meet up to talk about xyz cause it was relevant to her job and thought i would have insight for her. I told her im not interested in hanging out w people that aren't contributing to my growth and let her go. I dont fuck with games.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:41 PM
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Cause women have been largely conditioned by society to feel unsafe saying no to men. Esp men they dont know that just walk up to them on the street.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:31 AM
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Username does NOT check out.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:43 PM
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Ask her out. If she says no, it will only be awkard the next time you see her if you make it awkward.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:40 PM
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Wow someone with some emotional intelligence and integrity, no fucking way. :)
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:06 PM
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Idk I think ghosting happens for a lot of reasons. Most people are just afraid to reject someone so it is easier to just stop responding. Super weak behavior.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:41 PM
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Lmao well done.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:48 PM
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So no thoughts? :/
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:10 PM
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If you have someone in your life you consider to be a friend, most likely you will want to preserve that relationship. Only take this guy's advice if you don't want to preserve the friendship. And then in that case, tell your boy, "this isn't a friendship i want to continue any further, peace buddy." Your friends are not competition. If your guy sees your friendship as a competition, call him on that shit. Yall should be helping each other get ladies and he can't help you get ladies if he doesn'…
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:15 AM
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Start meditating and identifying all of your limiting beliefs that exist as trauma responses trying their best to keep you safe. People are giving you solid input and you're just shooting it down. Like why ask for advice if you're not gonna be open to new ideas?
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:09 PM
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Be honest with him. It will be vulnerable to reveal your insecurity but in doing so you will recieve his respect and support, especially since he's your boy. Be honest.
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:51 PM
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Lol homie is writing a full on erotica novel
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:01 PM
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