Trudence Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Publicly making fun at this EVIL act. What those women said were equally as evil as the act itself and by making those comments they have already disgraced themselves. They may not be aware of it now but it'll come back to haunt them (such as having it discussed on reddit). Having said that, keep in mind that a handful of women do not represent every woman, certainly women who have been raped. There is no logical sense to target women who have experienced the same evil act as that male victim over the actions of women who express ..…	/r/MensRights	29/07/15 04:52 PM
1	Feminist: 'Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach to domestic - or sexual - violence is just a male violence enabler.' I wasn't responding to you in a sense that you were targeting all women..I thought you were responding to me personally. I don't consider having an opinion that is outside of the norm as a reason alone for being extremist. To me, it's the method that the view is expressed that has more weight than the message itself. The outlook you have about ...-anyone- having an opinion is ..so very pessimistic. I won't argue that a single voice can be heard over a crowd...but the view that having an opinion …	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 10:11 PM
1	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! I understand taking the logical view. In most cases, I do my best to do the same as emotions tends to cloud judgement and lead to arguements - leading to pointless arguments that lead to ..nowhere. Anyways, we have gotten somewhat OT so, I appreciate your input and thank you for taking the time to discuss this with me. :)	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 04:22 PM
1	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! Hm...the fact that the Hospital called my father asking for permission tells me that as of yet, hospitals do not have a legal stance in making the decision in taking ...parts...from a corpse, regardless of an emergency (they only called because what they wanted was in immediate need at the time). I've also been called and asked to donate blood for a local child that had been attacked by a shark while on vacation. Legally, dead or not, they can't force the donation. ..I had no idea that 'selling'…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 03:39 PM
1	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! My father was placed in that situation with my mother - in having to decide whether or not to enforce a DNR. My mother was alive and awake...but not actually "there" mentally....if that makes sense. My father had told us that she wanted a DNR although I doubt it was on paper. When I got there, she was hooked up to the machines and they were the only thing keeping her alive for at least two days. Despite what my mother and father had agreed upon about the DNR...my father simply couldn't tell the …	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 02:49 PM
3	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! How is burial rights different from collecting DNA (I mean this in aspects of treating a dead body)? To some, burial rights are a big deal. A bit of an explanation...I live in the bible belt where the majority are highly religious. When my mother passed, my father made the decision not to have a funeral (this is normal for my family, we don't do public funerals or ceremonies). This upset alot of people that worked with her but it was my father's choice to make. My point in this is that the right…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 01:50 PM
3	Feminist: 'Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach to domestic - or sexual - violence is just a male violence enabler.' On the contrary, I am. I dislike going into the womens rights forums...and have argued with women who consider them 'feminists'. This is where I have gotten the view of 'extremist' feminism. Some women I have spoken/debated with seemed more concerned with being right - even when being right made absolutely no common sense. I've even been labeled some rather nasty insults for simply viewing certain situations (in my eyes) realistically rather than simply supporting women because I am one. To me, …	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 06:29 AM
3	Feminist: 'Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach to domestic - or sexual - violence is just a male violence enabler.' Thank you :) I wish I could influence more people to see things as I do though. I usually end up pissing more people off than getting anyone to understand. If more people could view things beyond gender, religion, race, etc....the world would be a much more peaceful place to live in. x.X	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 06:22 AM
2	Feminist: 'Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach to domestic - or sexual - violence is just a male violence enabler.' An extremist - to me at least - are people unwilling to see alternative sides to an argument - unwilling to admit being wrong and rely on extreme methods of response to those who disagree. Basically a person whose actions are only ruled by emotions and has the inability to respect anyone else's view beyond their own, using extreme responses and/or actions against them. someone unwilling to compramise or meet another in the middle Even if you are right, relying on insults as a response or argumen…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 06:14 AM
3	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! Well, I'm happy for you and your mother. You are right that doctors are not 100% correct...but they have better judgement than anyone else, which is why we rely on them so much. My mother survived 2 days longer than the doctors claimed - a mistake I'm thankful for as it gave me the chance to see her before her death. For the second quote - you went from the doctors not always being right (basically the man might not die) to a woman not respecting a corpse (basically the man already dead). Her mo…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 04:20 AM
7	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! Well, in consideration of this article and situation - the chance of waking from a coma isn't a possibility. It states in the article that his death would come at any time - the reason for the woman pushing for immediate action in collecting his DNA. Your right in the circumstance you've mentioned...but in this case it doesn't apply. As for my post - my inability to empathize with men is ..correct. I'm a woman, not a man...but you did not explain how my post 'reeked with selfnish and entitlement…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 03:38 AM
3	Woman's fight over right to sperm of boyfriend in coma. Any woman would seem to have a right to your sperm. Not just your wife! Reading these responses...I'm afraid I do not understand the general thoughts here. As per the article - Considering he is a wealthy man and the couple was not married - I can see the issues here and agree. I would expect some sort of validation from his family - but if there is none, the woman does not retain the right to his DNA. However; I am a married woman who has been with my spouse for 10 years. At 29...I will admit that if something happened that put my husband in the same situation, the…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 02:45 AM
7	Feminist: 'Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach to domestic - or sexual - violence is just a male violence enabler.' This is what I consider a 'feminist extremest'. Gender neutrality does not enable violence - in enables equality. Gender should not even be an issue or considered in a situation of sexual violence or any type of violence. Both men AND women can be victims....just as both can be the offender. Thus - gender should not even be a consideration in such cases. The facts are the only thing that can garantee equality. Feminist Extremests to me (and I'm a female) are women who have either lost sight of w…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 02:19 AM
4	The news on this subreddit makes me afraid to have a relationship. You are correct. The media and all of it's outlets are very one-sided. We've grown to expect reading and seeing only the negative and this causes us to expect only the negative. You must always remember and realize that only one side of the population has a voice - the negative side. The positive is rarely shown in the spotlight, so much so that it's easily missed or dismissed.	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 02:13 AM
3	The news on this subreddit makes me afraid to have a relationship. I agree with this post. Most occurances I've read about involved younger women making such false accusations. There are concequeces for such actions and I think younger women are less likely to understand them or even consider them...as their emotions are controlling their actions more than any sort of logic is. I would also suggest, if trusting who you are with is an issue, not engaging in any sexual activity with a person until you know them well enough to trust them. Don't let your emotions t…	/r/MensRights	16/01/14 02:09 AM
3	Is it practical to boycott child support until the laws are changed? It would be extremely effective at punishing and harming the potential future of your child. If men mostly pay child support, it would be because women are mostly left to care for the child alone -- needing that support. Boycotting child support is just another way of avoiding responsibility. Find other ways to make a stand, without harming the future of our species.	/r/MensRights	21/09/13 01:24 PM
2	Long post, controlling ex-wife, current plan but would appreciate your thoughts He's right, you need to regain some control. Don't go back, get yourself back on your feet and once you are, arrange visitation with your kids at your own home, away from the mothers influence. You'll have to be stern with them and demand respect. Your not a 'half adult', you are their father and you'll have to prove that to your kids...and hopefully by spending time with you, away from their mother, they will see that. As a woman, I'm disgusted that she has influenced your kids to think less of…	/r/MensRights	24/08/13 08:36 PM