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I disagree. White knights offer support regardless of the women because their interest is in the social clout of being an ally, not in the principle of protecting women or tackling real issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:56 AM
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I'd argue that healthy, well adjusted men hate weak women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:36 AM
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If someone were to stop giving you positve affirmative compliments and speaking kindly to you, you'd leave that relationship. It's as much of a need for that person as sex can be. Someone leaving because of libido drop does not mean that the relationship was only based on sex, but it means that it was obviously one of the most critical components alongside whatever else was critical. There can be a category of needs that are all of equal importance and need to be found in balance. Even removing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:19 PM
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Your binary view of the world is going to bite you in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:15 PM
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Fair, but a friendship does not require a person to remain near the other person at all. Life doesn't happen in a vacuum and there are lots of reasons why staying together as friends afterwards is not possible due to potential difficult feelings and insecurities now being present.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:14 PM
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You need to actually define love because it does not have an actual definition. Like others have said, it is extremely multi dimensional and any person who's ever engaged with the concept would be able to immediately say. Different cultures and groups have had varying definitions and views of it since the dawn of man. You're creating a formal system of love that doesn't exist and attempting to shame people who fall outside of your own system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:11 PM
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That's not fucking true at all. You can still see value in the house, for sure, but you still have the need to go to the bathroom. Maybe immediately leaving is not the right call, but there needs to be an immediate solution created that allows people the ability to have that need filled. If that can't be reached through compromise or eventually placing it in the house, it is perfectly acceptable to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:09 PM
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Idk this just reads like you are seeking for validation on your own position. Physical intimacy is extremely important to the majority of people (asexuality not included). The level of importance is going to be extremely varying with some individuals only needing physical intimacy occasionally while others may need it significantly more often or at least desiring it more often. There is no right and wrong here. Healthy relationships can include people that have a high libido which manifests as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:07 PM
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You misunderstood my comment. You are using the word love in too many senses. What you are using it as and what I agree with is that love in the sense of a loving partnership of mutual aid and care is definitely likely to increase and I'm glad you've seen to found that. Sexual or romantic love which is what OP is describing and is what I describe as an illusion, though mirage may be a better term, is what is based in novelty and will erode in long term relationships. It's scientific fact based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:17 PM
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Because romantic love is an illusion that erodes over time. Men will love their partners, don't get that wrong. It's just that the romantic aspect of that love may either not be as present to begin with or will decrease over time because of its connection to novelty. Long term relationships eliminate novelty which eliminates romantic love or decreases it to a stable, but low amount that comes in waves. Love in the sense of generosity and genuine care for the wellbeing of someone else will defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:07 PM
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One of the many issues I see on this sub is that people are very frivolously throwing around High Value without a discrete measurement that everyone can agree upon and is backed by data. From the data, our best understanding of determining value is looking holistically at all the attributes and relations between women and men and then finding data on women's preferences and weighting the overall scores appropriately. I can think of starting with the following if we are considering what the data …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:24 PM
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Low self esteem is probably used as a proxy by most men for mate seeking behavior. A girl with low self esteem is unlikely to seek multiple partners mainly because she believes it as nearly impossible. This in turn could also be viewed as a perceived power gradient between the two that traditional monogamy continues reinforcing. This is a desirable trait in the eyes of most men as they adhere to this world view and support traditional monogamy for its acceptance of a patriarchal power structure …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:57 PM
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Lol, the argument is literally in my responses. Try reading -- that might develop you some of those aforementioned brain cells you seem to be lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:34 PM
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Try attacking the argument. The argument of preferences has been torn apart relentlessly because there's no defense for it. I'm not attacking the fact that a preference can't be internal and feel natural, but a lot of what that is develops from culture, has no basis in reality, and could do with being investigated and changed. I'd challenge you to prove that you have brain cells by producing an argument that actually stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:28 PM
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I mean, I'm not challenging your bodily autonomy. You can choose partners based off of whatever arbitrary criteria you want. It's just that most people would say it's wise to care about why we choose that criteria and consistently evaluate it. Your criteria is pretty homophobic and no doubt is contributing to a stigmatization that I, being a bi-sexual male, and many others suffer from. Most people would say that's not very cool. I have an ability to decide who I'm kind to and not kind to in my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:17 PM
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This is Internalized toxic masculinity and homophobia. There's nothing inherently wrong with receiving as a man. You're turned off by him not performing stereotyped masculinity. Receiving is seen as feminine not because it is inherently feminine, but because we've decided that is the case as a culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:08 PM
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People have fantastic relationships with their ex-wife/husband/partner all the time. People co-parent with new partner often. Sometimes relationships don't work out but the friendship can still remain and be really beneficial. All it takes is a proper discussion on boundaries and partners that are capable of working through their initial insecurities or jealousies. It's just sex. Your partner has probably slept with other people and finds others sexually attractive. Don't lose so much sleep over…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:47 AM
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I see your point but I feel like this could still be navigated around. Obviously, most of these cases are going to be one offs. I feel like you could pretty easily have a discussion where you talk about it, say that it's pretty reasonable to be insecure about it but reiterate you are interested in finding a way to make it work, and then implementing it. You could politely ask to have her not really address their previous relationship, not bring it up in social settings, and allow you to occasion…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:11 AM
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I'm giving general advice to people looking to connect in social settings. I'm going to be candid in that most social interactions are flows of communication. Most people talk out their ass half the time because they are trying to draw a degree of social status by implying they have knowledge in something. I think the key distinction comes in the form of friendly debate vs debate. The truth is that debate puts people on opposite sides of an issue. A good debate is ultimately one that validates b…
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:03 AM
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You can be authentic and still note that a bar is not the ideal setting to have a spur-of-the-moment debate about a topic. In these settings, yeah, harmony is the goal, not determined objective truth. Some discussions are meant for classrooms or set times to get to the bottom of something. Bars, clubs, social settings are meant to socialize and I think anyone that tries to use those places as anything but are shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:46 AM
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I agree with most of your points but I feel like the advice to just blanket rule not fuck your friends doesn't really solve the problem of having sexual feelings for someone. The truth is, people will still occasionally think about their ex occasionally in a sexual manner or their coworkers, instructors, etc. Instead of trying to police all sexual feelings, I feel like it's more genuine to have frank conversations around boundaries. If them and their friends used to fuck a few times years ago bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:44 AM
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The non-confrontational negation is a key to building respect from anyone IMO. I think people are genuinely pretty comfortable with other people holding differing opinions than they themselves hold. It is only when their ideas are challenged in a confrontational way that people react very negatively (this is amplified if it is in a social setting where they may interpret the act as an aggression against their intelligence). The key is to remember that the point of discussion is generally not to …
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:42 PM
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I think that this statistic is used as a scapegoat to shift blame to women. I simply think that Promiscuous women understand the dynamics present in the SMP and the advantageous position they find themselves in. I think it's a particularly human response that some will indulge in this sexual validation and may desire it more and more. I think if men were to have the same access to validation that High-Value women do in the SMP then you'd see a similar stat appear in men. I think that the amount …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:04 PM
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I think the main reason is that a large amount of male sexual behavior is egocentric. It's the same concern for low n count as high n count males. The core idea is, there are more men I'm compared to and so I do not necessarily withhold dominant stature in that group. This fear increases as the count increases. Being the best in comparison is not only a male trait, it's just dominant in make sexuality. In a lot of ways, male sexuality is less about women and more about the comparison a male can …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:01 PM
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I've had these thoughts before. I think it's a hard to show the difference between manipulative, predatory seduction that seeks to prey on weakness or making the other person feel uncomfortable or self conscious and seduction that is based on persuasion. Clearly there is a difference that exists or all sales jobs would be ethically wrong as a comparison. There are shady salesmen that cheat, lie, and manipulate. There are also salesmen that let the product speak for itself and try their best to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:34 PM
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Our future problems will require us to center around a set of values we agree upon with a shared epistemological system. We will have to coordinate on massive scales and with the amount of variation between values, beliefs, political philosophy,etc we are going to be too slow. I don't think we'll be able rally together fast enough to make it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:26 PM
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I see what you're saying but the idea is, I don't think we're really able to escape the sources of our misery without losing our freedom and some aspects of the human experience. We will be something else after which I think is the only realistic outcome I think we can hope for for humanity. If we're dead set on remaining the same, we're dead set on being dead within our millenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:21 PM
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Eh, dystopian has a negative connotation. It's different than human society, but may actually make humanity happier, capable of surviving the future events to come, and very well may solve a lot of issues we currently experience within human sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:13 PM
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I actually can imagine a future where the actual birth of babies is offloaded from women as well. Artificial wombs, gene editing, and then offloading parental ability to those of a particular class or through a governments responsibility. Human sexuality is a mess and it's access by all members of the world make it a breeding ground for crime, poverty, and horrible personal misery. Only way to make it fair is to control it. Transhumanism is the only answer I see that would keep humanity alive by…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:05 PM
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I honestly think you’re speaking out your ass right now. You have no evidence to back this up, just vibes. I think until you’ve experienced fame, I don’t think you can just say how Leo is psychologically making decisions. You can observe trends on a macro level, but it could be that he just enjoys beauty. It’s no abnormal to be attracted to beauty. And relationships have different purposes. For all we know, they have an intimate relationship we’re they enjoy each other’s company now and perhaps …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:20 AM
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Honestly, you bring up some interesting points here but you speak with such confidence about the psychology of a man you’ve never met, someone you’ve never interacted with, and never even begun to with in social contexts. Not trying to antagonize your argument as much as me being genuinely curious; how are you so confident that this is how he thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:09 AM
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