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Nope. The side effects of stunting testosterone will cause worse emotional issues I reckon.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 08:35 AM
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There's always been incels. The thing is, even though it's accurate in many ways have you ever noticed how accepted it is to make fun of incels but ain't no one out here making fun of Isis or Al-Qaeda? Reason is because there has always been a social hierarchy decided by women and enforced by white knights to oppress incels and keep them as useful working cucks to be providing for society. So you'll never get compassion from normies they will always just mock and ignore "incel vibes" themselves,…
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 08:23 AM
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Idk good point. I'm completely sure that what I'm saying is bullshit and men never literally just give women money because they are woman. You're right. Why the fuck do I even bother with people lmao. The world does not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:41 PM
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Alright look. You can't just make a flippant remark to a long thought out comment saying someones pulling things out of their ass without explaining why, then demand other people assault your position also. You have to make an argument or else you're not contributing anything useful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:03 PM
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Yes it was lmao that's a straight up lie. Sorry I can't engage in this conversation it's against the subs rules to be doing personal attacks and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:00 PM
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I think women want to be submissive to men tbh. I don't think men are turned off by women's intelligence at all for the most part we just make fun of women who do absolutely dough brained shit because they are never forced to question their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:44 PM
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I think it's one of the reasons I have such a vehement disgust with the way so many women behave under the guise of empowerment nowadays. It's like hey imagine you used your freedom and power to do something other than get ran through, try to attack men and get free money. I'm not alone in this at all - men don't see women as women who will improve their survivability and make the precarious aspects of life easier to navigate, we actually see them as a threat and have to do risk analysis every t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:35 PM
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Iirc men have more localized logical capabilities which is one of the reasons women and men compliment eachother so well. Men have lowered prefrontal cortex activity making us more prone to take risks , useful in business The occipital lobes (located at the back of the brain and involved in vision) and cerebellum (an area at the back, bottom of the brain that is involved in physical coordination) are more active in men. This may explain why men generally might be more adept at judging distances,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:09 PM
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This opened an idea for me I've been chewing on. Gonna have to make a post.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 01:06 PM
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Isn't it as solid as your place on the looksmatch scale according to incel theory. So if you're a 1-2? Not sure how that works I haven't read it in a while.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 01:03 PM
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I have to get my practice in now before it becomes a much bigger fish lol.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 12:56 PM
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Sorry. As a language A.I model I am not allowed to discuss content that might be redundant or irritating to myself.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:34 AM
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I want to be payed.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:33 AM
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Feminism every time. One of the fundamentals I've found from reading the bullshit they create is that they create a misnomer first that human nature is a result of social conditioning during like the last hundred years. So within that false premise they say all men's behavior is toxic and all women's behavior is a victim reaction to men's behavior. That's why when they talk about toxic feminity they will talk about submissive/victim traits women display but they will never identify or speak abou…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:18 AM
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Probably for similar reasons to humans tbh like unless it's bullshit male cats have barbs on their penis' to help them stay deeper when they fuck female cats lol. Also on average I would say all the male cats I have are very rapey compared to the females even if they are cute they are super oppressive to the females on average, but I've lived with a few cute ones who were super innocent (all orange and therefore dumb but wholesome really) but yeah the territorial pissings lead to dominance hiera…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 10:00 AM
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My sister has a cat like that and he's the worst cat ever but has no fear of humans whatsoever. Also no boundaries. Rapeyist animal I've ever lived with and by far the best hunter of all the cats I've ever lived with. Terrifying creature.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 09:36 AM
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Before the incel community got shut down during the first lockdown I was there as a wild life researcher and I learned a few things. No true femcels. Most incels are volcels there are few truecels. Your title is the reason you are celibate + cel. If you're Indian or Asian you're currycel/ricecel because they are undesirable races according to them lmao. But you can be nosecel or jawcel or shortcel etc. Depends what's keeping you rejected. The second is your cope. Everyone has a cope to cope with…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:30 AM
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These women are after eachother more than anything they don't realize. When one mentions a guy to another or a group it says nothing other than he's important for some reason and creates instant status lmao.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:23 AM
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If your comment was the one deleted I can't because there was nothing to respond to it was just a personal attack not a rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:34 AM
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If the accused isn’t guilty, they will be proven innocent. Family courts in the UK don't even require proof it's literally just he said she said. It's def not an equitable situation going on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:05 AM
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In the UK a woman can simply make a phone call and be taken to a shelter on the assumption she was abused. She's coached with what to tell social workers/police and the man will have to leave the house in order for her to stay there with the children. There's no due process whatsoever. Since court dates can be a year away or more the man doesn't get to see his children that entire time as he has no right to. So even though you may experience one thing, that's clearly not the whole picture since …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:49 PM
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No I'm saying we focus on that but don't focus on women's darker traits despite the fact that they can do massive damage to men's lives with no repercussion. Like the Me Too and believe all women movement. It dealt with a lot of serious issues and put some pos criminals away where they deserve to be but on the other hand we have a huge problem with false accusations and the social damage that they can do to men despite not being proven guilty. So we truly have innocent people suffering for no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:37 PM
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That's clearly not the case as evidenced all throughout society and the treatment of men. People keep lying and saying feminism just has kill all men extremists but the reality is almost all of its central ideology is blaming and shaming men. Almost all the facets I can think of - objectification theory for one absurd example, blame men for women's behavior. People can bullshit it's about equity but the results speak for themselves. Lots of angry women who are supported in saying whatever things…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:54 PM
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Isn't feminism completely about controlling power and subduing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:20 PM
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My bad I apologize for misinterpreting if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:18 PM
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when feminist already agree that cultural ideas of femininity are toxic. Naaaahh that ain't it..that's a clever switch though. Feminists acknowledge patriarchal ideas of feminity are bad. They don't acknowledge lying, cheating, emotional manipulation, false accusations, using weapons to initiate domestic violence - all things women do and get away with without consequence. Feminists almost actively encourage that behavior because it's seen as fighting against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:17 PM
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Can you form an argument please? I'm curious to hear why you disagree so vehemently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:14 PM
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Based. Great list.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:13 PM
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And we still can't condition women not to cheat, lie, and make false accusations against good innocent men. Don't forget the other half of the coin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:11 PM
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Ok. Socially condition people not to want food, sex, sleep, or water. Not to feel anger or sadness or disgust. You can try and suceed, but you damage the person in the process. You think you're going to find a way to condition people out of their own base instincts and it's pure hubris. All that will happen is more mental health issues which surprise surprise , people are confused af. I hope people let go of this thought process one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:10 PM
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Ok this is a great point I'm grateful you brought up because I see it as one of the biggest issues in how people are approaching the situation differently. So first thing - our genetic structure is not really that flexible. Epigenetics are still just imbedded in genetics and activated by environmental factors, childhood, behaviours, etc, but they still read from the same book - your DNA. Most of the changes if not all of them we see in society vs 200 years ago are epigenetic changes caused by en…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:59 PM
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"Men are not ultimately felled by swords or axes, but by that which they believe in" My time in this weird ass world has taught me that if someone makes you want to believe something early on in a relationship, it's always a con of some sort. Most people who really care won't try to convince you of anything, that's the most important thing. Learn from cats. If you go in to a house with a cat, the majority of cats will hide depending on how confident or nice they are. If you approach them they wi…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 04:14 PM
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K. So... India is fucked. As the youth say "yeet the child".
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:59 PM
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He means it's really fucked up that we can have this conversation there but if you try to have it on any other subreddit you get called an incel, meanwhile the opposite is not true for feminists, and their communicaties are heavily gatekept (including academic research which they have now been manipulating for years, bringing complete ruin to certain areas of academia which would take a fucking century to repair if the feminists all died out today)
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:57 PM
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The thing is, you see, all real world evidence points to the fact that feminists fucking hate men lmao. They see men as disposable sub-human creatures and at the same time abusive tyrants because they live in a schism of greedy decadent victimhood. Imagine working alongside someone who hates you all day and being treated like a dog, allowed to speak when spoken to and allowed to say some things here and there as long as it's not too outrageous, like a court jester, tolerated for your cute naivet…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:53 PM
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Wtf is going on in India man are women getting raped all over or are the privileged af or are all the rules and stupid laws creating such a cluster fuck it just doesn't make any sense at all? It's confusing as hell to me.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:44 PM
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Women are the ones sabotaging young women lads. Make sure you help your own partner be aware of this if she's younger and not fully indoctrinated yet so she can form her own opinions. If she's your age and you're over 30 then you have to hope she has the critical thinking skills to question the things in life that are convenient for her to ignore, which is not a common human trait. MGTOW makes a lot of sense to me but since I'm not Tesla smart I'd probably end up playing solitaire until I died o…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:16 AM
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Since you downvoted me I'm gonna be a petty fuck and you can go figure that out yourself.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 03:49 PM
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I agree with you just that is a double standard. People don't want to accept double standards exist but they do because men and women are different. Promiscuous women are disgusting to men because they cause inter tribe conflict, destructive competition and drama between men instead of cooperation, and have a high chance of cuckolding the man and ending his genetic lineage because she can't respect his dignity enough to keep her legs closed. So yeah, it is a double standard. At the same time you…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:52 PM
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Desperate. You wouldn't say that to my face and you know it lmao. You still can't explain what I'm saying because you don't understand it. You're just looking for an excuse to demean someone or some people. It's pathetic. Nothing you say has any value until you can be bothered to articulate what my comment is actually communicating. It's meaningless and everyone should ignore you.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:50 PM
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You might be right actually I'm seeing some of that too. But I reckon 0% chance they think that it's their treatment of men that has anything to do with it. I don't see how some form of feminism comes about that is like "hey men matter too let's care more about them". It's too rooted in hatred of men and on-top of that most feminists continue to try to gaslight that feminism helps men by gaslighting them out of their own preferences and trying to socialize them to be women lmao.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:23 PM
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Explain to me what you understand me to be saying here. I suspect you have built some pretty complex strawmen in your brain lmao.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 01:12 PM
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White men of yesteryear are paying the price for setting the world up the way it is. In terms of capitalism yeah. The so called patriarchy is ridiculously dramatized because of extreme cases and no one mentions that it created some of the strongest generations and had the best outcomes, FOR WOMEN. People can say whatever they want but as a majority women thrived, had strong families, etc. So the idea they were used for breeding and objects for men is legitimately so fucking stupid. Who is gonna …
/r/MensRights05/05/23 12:57 PM
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Medical staff and the medical field, especially nursing, seems to attract the most sadistic women lmao.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 10:45 AM
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Reminds me of one of the real reasons men don't talk to their gfs about their issues - if you do open up you not only have to deal with your own issues but her own feelings, because she will inevitably be concerned/upset and so like a child you need to assure her it will be alright, even though you don't know if it will be. And from that point she loses respect for you, doesn't feel "safe" and yeah. If she feels a way that is perfectly normal in life, that men deal with all the time... But every…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 10:15 AM
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The thing is you think it matters what you and them think and it doesn't. The only people it hurts are people who are good enough to actually care. If a guy is actually abusive and using an age gap relationship to abuse a chick he definitely doesn't give a fuck what you and your friends think. So you only hurt the guys who genuinely love their gfs lmao.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:32 AM
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Men don't shame women for not sleeping with them unless those men are pos. Men find promiscuity disgusting on a personal and romantic level, but they will still fuck promiscuous chicks for the most part which yes, is a double standard. Personally I think men should be more careful and disciplined about that but once in a while doesn't hurt lmao.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:29 AM
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The Spartan culture particularly made me question things when I learned a bit about it because of how the women constructively shamed men. Especially when young boys, mocking them and emasculating them. But if what the fictions I've seen and read depict are even somewhat accurate this taught the boys who would eventually become warriors and politicians an important factor - that love and sex, like life and war, are cruel and dangerous. But the Spartans had structured groups and didn't tolerate w…
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:27 AM
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It's tough man. I've tried dating younger too. Like I'm 34 and I've tried dating as young as 22 this year. The problem is pretty much the same. They are flying high on power. Women in my age group who are chill and fit and mentally healthy are few and far between. Last chick I talked to in my age group for dating purposes was 30 and she was pretty hot, but she was melting down because she wasn't able to secure the dark haired European Chad she wanted and was becoming really unhinged because of i…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:44 PM
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Women be bragging about baby trapping dudes all the time pretending like that isn't reality is futile.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:39 PM
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The thing is when I'm in public and I see moderately attractive woman in my league (I'd say I'm a solid 6) I already know that by the age like 23, she's had more experiences sexually and probably done anything she's ever wanted. Her interaction with men has been them catering to her and taking her out, taking her camping and traveling often times. She's been treated well by people just based on her innate value and beauty as a woman and... I think what can I offer she hasn't already had? There a…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:31 PM
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I've noticed if women put in the slightest effort they expect 10x the pay out. I think because everything just comes to them and the world is so nice they learn to equate that treatment as equal, so doing a single nice thing they believe is legitimately taxing and deserves immediate praise. I don't see how the majority could see it otherwise it's not like they have a reference. Imagine you always went to work and got paid 3x what you deserve, then one day you're being paid normal wage and have t…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:05 PM
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I've had broken bones and been denied painkillers because it's seen as drug seeking behaviour. Took me several hours to convince them I was actually in pain, simply because I couldn't stop saying fuck over and over again lmao. They knew by that point too I had a broken bone. Medical staff can be Sadistic as fuck. And God help you if you try to speak up about it because then you're abusing them and you're in deep shit. Huh. Kind of like women now that I think about it. Of course these idiots thin…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:57 PM
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"Well they do that to themselves so... Besides, what's that have to do with ME?"
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:53 PM
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The same patriarchy which gave women the abundance, safety and protection to raise generations of strong healthy children and for the economy and wealth to flourish. I think what they really hate is late stage capitalism. Men: hey we made you cars, plumbing, electricity, infrastructure, fashion (mostly men making the based shit anyway) etc. Etc. Etc. Women: YOU DID THAT BY USING US AS BREEDING CHATTLE. ..... But thank you but WE DON'T NEED YOU!!!! But .. can you please keep the city running? We …
/r/MensRights04/05/23 01:40 PM
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Based and apathy pilled.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:53 AM
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This makes me want to punch my phone screen. I don't have anything else to say but obviously you're right on.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:59 AM
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I noticed with the Chad fish experiments that women will invite an 8/10 guy to their place without any fear at all that he will assault her and rape her. But she would never with a 4/10, for fear he would assault her and rape her. Does that mean women wouldn't mind on some level if the 8/10 assaulted and raped them? Lmao. Weird ass question to have to ask but here we are.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:57 AM
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Just like I adopted capitalism due to my own organically adopted experience. Women are gaslit and afraid of men because feminism blames men for everything as a cause for first principles within its system. It makes women miserable. Women who adopt the idea that men are terrible due to their own experience are just taking the easy way out in life by listening to people pandering to them that they are precious angels. We all face adversity yet somehow don't blame the world. Feminists and feminist …
/r/MensRights04/05/23 07:46 AM
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There's a huge resentment bias where if you say "excuse me" people say "stfu you OWE US for years of patriarchy and oppression!" Turns out life is more complicated but media and commerce panders to women so as long as women are the ones spending the most money, which they are by a long shot, corpos and politicians will continue to pander to them and tell them whatever they want to hear. They are basically just exploiting narcissim at this point, so feminists are feeding the machine in a major wa…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:30 PM
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I think people just get bugged if there's promotion of womens issues and stuff here since the sub is one of the only places we can discuss male issues without being instant banned but from what I've seen everyone is welcome
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:23 PM
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It's a contentious subject and I'm not able to access the information I'd feel would confidently prove my point but to put it one way, women's limbic systems tend to be more active and problems tend to be generalized more, they also have a stronger insulas which leads to gut feelings more, so basically they are inclined to sense a situation more intuitively but also have emotional responses, whereas the male brain tends to localize. So just based on the merit of generalized problem solving assoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:02 PM
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Isn’t the argument that men are supposed to be the smarter, more logical and more capable sex Since IQ is pretty evenly distributed between sexes that's dumb. Women have a higher and lower end of the bell curve though hence why you see really intelligent researchers and they stand out in most people's minds. Women view relationships as men view objects, so women's pattern recognition in relationships will always be superior to men's with outlying exceptions. Also do you accept the manipulation e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:44 PM
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Hurrrr hurrrr hurrrr you really got me there buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:01 PM
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That's the truth. I would never trust a modern woman to that degree and I don't blame them for not trusting men either. You know back in the day when we were living in stone huts or small cities or whatever, marriage would have been a lot more sacred. I think an argument could be made that generally speaking marriage has become bad game theory and we need to learn to love without it. Or find a new way to make it feasible. It's supposed to create a sense of finality which is part of what makes it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:48 PM
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I think you're projecting completely tbh with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:45 PM
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I mean, it is a balanced decision hopefully. Ultimately I think it comes with significant costs though. Idk about you but I've always felt more free out of relationships than in. But the sacrifice usually makes it worth it. Love without marriage is still viable imo. There is something that can be attained there that can't elsewhere in terms of self actualization and it's far beyond sex I agree. It's important to point that out way more often. But marriage in this society is suicidal IMO. Sadly. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:37 PM
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Well we are discussing gender primarily. But it's pretty clear to me that liberals AND, conservatives are influenced heavily by gender politics. Liberals can't get their head out of their asses with it so while people are growing broke and hungry they are hyping upper middle class air heads up with superficial jerk off campaigns. Conservatives are reactionary cry babies so that just adds fuel to the fire because they become obsessed with gender issues meanwhile the back row is just taking money …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:33 PM
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You seem really offended. Society and consumerism cater to women and material/egotistical narcissim. Men getting hustled and losing their money and self esteem is their own fault. I said that explicitly. Why overlook that just to be offended? Within the context of the post, feminism is contributing to and distracting Liberals from that very fact because it's such a point of contention on any platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:14 PM
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Better than being a single mom Can't argue with that lmao. Young age at marriage correlates strongly with likelihood of divorce. It’s a common route to being a single mom. Assuming that's true then the issue isn't necessarily with marriage and divorce but why people get divorced. Women initiate the 70% of divorces and if they are college educated it's like 80% or something so imo it's women being gassed up to think they are boss bitches and being paid to divorce in the first place. Thank feminis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:14 PM
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Since feminism is a toxic ideology that blames men for literally everything including women want to fuck and look good, no. I'm really tired of feminist gaslighting that it helps men by blaming men lmao. That's some really sick shit abusive people say.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 01:54 PM
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If I date a hot as balls chick I assume I'm going to get cheated on and cucked because I'm low value as fuck. It's just part of understanding the game and then using the rules to your advantage so you don't get stuck/trapped. Most issues we face comes from just world fallacy and we want to believe that nature won't impose equilibrium over time. So for example if you're 26 and your gf is 24, you're working a "dead end job" (this shouldn't be an issue but, economy so) and she says she wants kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:27 PM
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Maybe not but you cannot guarantee that every man is going to be loving and providing and not an abusive drunk, can you? I think this is definitely a problem with the previous system and we definitely need hybridized aspects. It does get ridiculous, however, when you have a trend of RP guys bragging about how they're 55 and only date 18-22 year olds, it doesn't sit right and does sound incredibly seflish and informs their opinion of women. If the guy was 32 and looking for a woman 24-29, that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:41 PM
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Women were never resources to men. There were many abusive structures and men took advantage but just because that happened doesn't mean it's the way the world worked in general. It's a stupid myth that men just used women as breeding livestock and that's exactly what feminists make people believe, so yeah fuck them. Obviously women being cooped up inside and kept out of the project of civilization was noticed by women, not having access to their own assets, resources or having voices in issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:26 PM
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This is the most important thing we lose in the gender equality debates, is the reality that we are lower caste beings reincarnated on the bottom rung or middle to bottom rung of the artificially created ladder. If you're born wealthy your options are tremendous and if you're born wealthy and hot it's like being a god comparatively. I could speak on this a lot but one of the main reasons the gender debate matters here imo is that women are being propped up as special and society caters to them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:14 PM
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I didn't say it was. Idk why people always miss reality I think it's too much social programming. Women tend to date guys a few years older than them and marry just the same but now the average age of marriage, at least in the UK is 30 which is a stark difference than the past. Traditionally you would have a young woman marry a man a few years older than her. Both would come from similar families and both families would be supportive. This is just common sense and it worked for a lot of reasons.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:04 PM
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What is that the safest route for? Because it's brought us in to place to have the highest rates of single and childless women over 30 in history and the outcomes are not making women happy. Not to mention the anti male sentiment that feminists constantly try to gaslight us all out of seeing. They are fucking up huge and young women are on the chopping block now for their arrogance and unwillingness to admit they were wrong lmao. The whole thing is based in the concept that men are evil and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:41 AM
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I'd go trad wife with a hot wealthy guy who comes from money a few years older than me. So probably 24-26 years old. It's just about his family and where he comes from because that's going to be a strong indicator of future behavior even if he's a bit immature at the time. If he comes from money then marriage assures I am going to be well set incase of divorce and alimony for kids. If the marriage goes well I have a happy family life and can work minimally to help support myself and keep busy wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:24 AM
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Women fear men, this is an existential fact; you cannot love what you fear. Women cannot love men. That's powerful but it also assumes love is implicitly a healthy positive thing. More often than not love is suffering and emotional pain. People will say that "isn't love!!!" But it clearly is because... Look around lmao. It always has been. Romantic love is a partnership in enduring suffering together for something greater than ones self (usually children and family). This is romantic love. I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:10 AM
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You shouldn't be having casual sex with women if you don't have options imo because you're going to get attached differently but that's subjective I guess. Women get horny af too and a lot of them know what they like, what they want, and are way more used to getting it than men. They avoid men desperate for touch especially when they just want sex and to get off. It's rare for them to choose a needy guy unless they are emotionally sadistic and get off on the power imbalance which a subset do. Id…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:01 AM
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I actually agree with you but I will try to change your view anyway because that's the game lol. So a few things. It depends on the level of promiscuity and her attitude toward men. If she's the average hoe just going crazy because she thinks sex = female empowerment then like most hoes she's going to believe having a pussy makes her a god and all men are beneath her and need her. That attitude is incredibly draining to put up with. Women like this often come off as charming, engaging and fun. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:47 AM
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One time I had a conversation with this pretty girl at the gym because she was just throwing big assed questions at me and we were going through life's fundamentals for some reason lol. After she must have talked me up because her co-workers were staring at me like in you know, that way women look at men. But I think they found some "dirt" on me at some point because they changed their minds pretty rapidly at one point lmao entire demeanor changed and I think I know why, one of them Facebook mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:28 AM
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Sad Turtle Noises
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:04 AM
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Blue humans will hate the green humans and they will both hate the red humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:58 AM
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I recently came to the conclusion that white knights exist to enforce the hierarchy women arbitrarily enforce. If a woman decides a man is bad, then White Knights try to enforce that by saying everything he says is misognystic, assuming he's disagreeing with the woman. He sees it as bucking against the status instead of knowing his place. Then he goes and asks for treats and she rejects him in disgust. Seen it play out that way several times irl.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:22 AM
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Problem is dudes rate heavy on the body much moreso than women. This is a great thought experiment but you need to get the whole body in there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:25 AM
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Very well said. We are responsible for allowing our biolgical desire to inflate the issue. I get fomo and admittedly struggle to find other things to do at times besides pursue women and it's something I've been struggling with. I have other hobbies and interests but it really seems the seed of that all deep down is related to sharing these things with a partner one day. I would argue that women are quite callous towards men and rarely if ever stop to consider the implications of living in a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:52 AM
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No, that’s far less appealing. Because men don’t want to be evaluated for their money any more than women for their looks. And yet we are evaluated for looks, money and status and without an adequate amount of those three we are treated with disregard if not disdain.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 04:34 AM
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It's honestly such a stark contrast like how do you even make it hit home to people who don't give a fuck lol. That's how wide the gap in empathy is. I reckon the average person would read the headline in the opposite and laugh because it seems absurd to consider that behavior abnormal for a man. But I honestly think that level of sacrificial should be expected, so it's a societal problem also. We are all weak af ready to jump ship and betray eachother first chance we get. That's a general popul…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 06:18 PM
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100% I felt on some level when I asked that question it was disingenuous but this would have been the better question to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:32 PM
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Also why would women voluntary show devotion to someone that could harm them? Because we have risk harm to have love. Men don't show devotion to wives? What???? Way more women than men are in both med school and law school right now Due to affirmative action ya. Overall women are advancing in society more than men right now. Even more houses are being bought by single women more than single men. I'm glad you're saying this. But it's not enough is it? You can be sacrificial and trusting without b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:06 PM
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Based lmao. Guys will still fuck their female friends and consider them friends too it do be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:58 PM
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I'll give you one of the more interesting examples which is men who don't like their gfs dressing promiscuously and especially going out to bars and what not. This leads to the discussion circle of "he's just insecure, why does he care? He's just controlling, he doesn't own her!" etc, whereas in my opinion I think it looks desperate and over sexualizes things. I wouldn't want my gf dressing full out slutty because it draws attention too much toward sex and away from more interesting things. So m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:34 PM
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Fellas, is it abusive and controlling to want respect, love, affection, and to have your own needs and preferences met in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:23 PM
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Fair distinction tbh. I guess we know the answer to fucking but ay, you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:22 PM
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Accusing me of misogyny without specifying how.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:18 PM
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RemindME! 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:16 PM
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Then they go on to gaslight that divorce rate is a fictional projection of what men actually do to women. Scary honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:12 PM
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Are you sure it's not this person doing that for men? Cuz we ain't out here fucking hot women lmao , only a few are and they are busy fucking hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:11 PM
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I'm so confused. This is so backward it's satire right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:10 PM
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Based. Objectification of men financially is fine but wanting a hot woman is not ok apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:06 PM
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Saying you get mad when women don’t want to be abused or controlled It's a good thing we can't get personal on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:03 PM
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Women were never valued like dogs or children where does this shit come from? I don't remember hearing about men going and putting down their wives because they caught mange. With women in leading countries being more educated and making more money than male equivalents they have no reason to not be able to change societies design So do women make less or more? Lmao. Uhm. Where is the equality this sounds like female supremacy to me. There is truly just is no value for women to pander to men jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:02 PM
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This is one of the only subreddits and online spaces where I can sense a "voice" of masculinity if that makes sense. It's helped me ground myself a lot of times over the years and I'm grateful it exists.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:21 PM
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I'm Rasputin reincarnated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:16 PM
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That's what I'm saying, but there's a degree of equality in most metrics and it would be unusual if they were "besties".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:40 PM
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Yup. According to the article this woman basically tried to support her ex husband in the hospital and bankrupted herself, as well she suffered an accident at the same time so she's really on the ropes. The "advice giver" says to her she's a martyr and it's a pathological complex and urges her to seek help with the "many resources available to her", for medical, social and psychological support (something men don't have at least in the UK lmao). This woman went balls deep to support and care for…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 02:30 PM
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Lol. Ironically this is why men don't care for most women either. This argument displayed no real empathy for men's issues and complaints. The interpretation of the situation seems to be men's actual issues is "men want a low body count and attractive women, plus they don't pander to us constantly, and they are evil predators!" Why would any man want to date someone so out of touch? Most men understand women's needs far beyond even when has been listed here. We know all these things, we just are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:18 PM
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Ooga-booga.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 12:35 PM
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Men do not find 80% of women their age attractive, they just don’t even SEE the less then average ones as women. So of the women they acknowledge as women then maybe it feel that’s way I'm pretty sure this is the assumption that men think like women. I reckon I find about 70% of women I encounter attractive enough to be physical with. 30% of women out here are living like domestic hogs and it just aint it. Women have to do very little to catch a man's sexual interest lmao. I’m a girl who has bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:31 PM
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A big issue is people don't know wtf they want. It's poor people always wanting to be rich for the majority of us. We think money will solve our problems because in a very real sense it will, but with that comes more problems and many of us realize eventually that we are quite comfortable with having enough to survive and a little extra for security and decent quality of life. Relationships IMO are very similar for both men and women, though people understand here pretty well that women have it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:27 PM
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I think the situation is way more complicated in reality. Women aren't having kids, we are reaching an unprecedented rate of childless single women in their 30's because they are being misled that if they work on their careers long enough they will marry the perfect guy. The guys that are winning don't really need women for anything. Marriage adds little to their lives. Having kids with argumentative and disrespectful women brainwashed by feminism isn't something any guy wants to tolerate for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:37 AM
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I agree with you. I think I'm a 6 now and I still need to have mad "game", in terms of having a lot of substantial conversation and patience and stuff because one just doesn't command authority or hold attention the same way a 7 or 8 would. The women I speak to are so fickle, display interest and then disappear for a week. If you say or do one thing wrong they get hyper emotional and you can sense it even though text, then they completely change their demeanor and either ghost you or simply igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:24 AM
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If anything it's the opposite. Men labor in terrible conditions to provide safety and comfort to the women they love. Most men instinctively know that somewhere deep down the biolgical necessity is that they have to support and provide for their partner and give her a comfortable enough level of living that she can mother and nurture his children. This is imbedded in to men's DNA - that our work and sacrifice is what will bring further generations, continue our lineage and that how well we do or…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:07 AM
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You and are aren't far apart in terms of attractiveness just I've put on some more muscle and I think present differently in terms of attitude which makes a big difference in irl but on dating apps not so much. And yeah. What the other commentor is saying is dumb af they clearly haven't played the OLD game that much but seem pretty confident with what they are saying lmao. If you want to succeed at OLD at our level of attraction you usually have to find a niche that creates a strong sense of att…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:39 AM
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7 is like 10% or something dumb it's like model tier. He's 5/10 at best based on these pictures but tbh his appearance is just very soy. The one where he's reading is actually a good picture and further down the one with the headphones. He's good looking he just doesn't display any subatance or depth but it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:35 AM
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Ahh. Understood. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:55 PM
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"Hello good sir. I've noticed your attitude is demanding and abrasive with this fellow yet you still demand of them to labor toward your whims as though they are lesser than you. May I possibly suggest that perhaps this disposition you've acquired will make them less likely to wish to cooperate with you and bring fruitful realizations from this topic that I'm sure we can all agree is fascinating and worth discussing together". There. Fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:45 PM
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I feel like sexual education is really fucking underdeveloped in our society and no one gets it right. Eastern religions especially have had this shit worked out for centuries but the western goal based mind still can't understand that the fundamental principle between sexual shame and wellness is non duality. It's that non duality that makes ACTUAL sex sacred. But tantra is primarily about taking what is seen as seperate about sex like a thing to be achieved and making it part of the present mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:43 PM
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Not even. Just your attitude is right disrespectful so no one will want to engage with you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:34 PM
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I think if you want to approach this discussion more fruitfully you need to come armed with some hard science, because there might be something here but people aren't biting because it isn't substantiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:14 PM
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Your attitude is intolerable lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:13 PM
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To tempt us in to sin of course, the same reason god does everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:10 PM
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I'm a fella and I think it's gross. I think men that act like that promote female promiscuity and that sort of reasoning is bullshit. I see it with redpill all the time "if she makes you wait for sex... !!!!" Like ok settle the fuck down. The misunderstanding that male/female relationships are about sex primarily is assuming sex is purely a physical thing and somehow seperate from every other area of life. Like an end goal to achieve. The best thing you can do to have a good sexual experience wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:03 PM
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but we would still consider you creepy as hell if you dated a 17yo Why do people think their opinions matter on this topic lmao. You live in a state where the age of consent is 17 yet you still feel you have the moral high ground over others. I ain't even out here banging 17 year olds but there's such a petulant little vibe I get from people like you. It's always "We would find you creepy as hell", never "I would find you creepy as hell", because you hide behind a group of consensus fearfully, t…
/r/MensRights29/04/23 02:36 PM
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Lol what a question. So basically yeah, there isn't a market for women paying for sex be it nudes, dates or escorting. You might if you're lucky and in the top 1% of talent available be able to pull a wealthy female client who's just bored and wants some fun. You'd be working with guys. For the most part guys who want to party and the majority of them will be bottoms so you have to be able to get hard enough to fuck them or else you're not going to have a good reputation. Many gay guys fetishize…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:33 PM
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.......... Other countries exist besides America... ...... ...... The whole world doesn't consider 17 year olds the same level of attractiveness as 4 year olds, or both as "literal children", unlike Americans..... ......
/r/MensRights29/04/23 02:13 PM
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You bring up a good point but I will change your POV I believe. Niche still exists and niche is what makes the entire game work. I'm glad you brought back metal because that brings back memories. My city had a really good scene back in the day, especially 15 years ago. Big bands came through here every few months but all the venues were small pubs with a few exceptions, so all the shows were close and personal. 3 of my relationships/flings in my teens/early 20's came from attending these venues.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:43 PM
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When the facts shift to meet the feelings at the time it doesn't matter. Those same women will be calling a 22yo guy a pedo for dating a 17yo chick because there's "so much difference in life experience", she's "basically a child"
/r/MensRights29/04/23 11:10 AM
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My take is a bit different but essentially humans adapt to stress and those adaptations make us more resilient and able to bear the stress of other hardship. A good example of this is weight training or cardio training. Both create hormetic stressors which in turn make us more resilient both physiologically and in turn psychologically. One thing I find interesting about the human nervous and muscular system is how quickly it changes but also how quickly it re-adapts due to the way memory stores …
/r/MensRights28/04/23 11:12 PM
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FNF is a pretty pathetic display of masculinity and how to cope with modern women IMO (since the only viable solution is to ignore them) but they serve a purpose as day time TV for men is pretty based lol. I watch just pearly things a lot and it's like Oprah for men but they make some good points and the information has systemic factual information. She's one of the only legit YouTubers in this area but has some conspiracy around her business practices I'd like to see weeded out and brought to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:44 PM
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Broooo. :') brutal but funny.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 09:37 AM
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Holy fuck you went nuclear. Kids vaporized.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 08:39 AM
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The margin for error is too damn low.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 08:13 AM
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And ones who want to get married and have kids RIP.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 05:44 PM
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Feminism adds the flavor to the corporate shit pile we are all picking through. The reason feminism is a problem is really simple - in an analytical sense it removes focus from men and their issues as well as constantly shames male nature , it's entire philosophical roots are based in this sentiment (or re-rentiment), which somehow feminists try to ignore. I believe people are just unaware of what it actually is, but in the exact opposite way you're describing. I don't know where else the anti-m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:53 PM
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That's really good to hear. I don't hang out with people whose sole moment of empathy is "oopsie, have we gone too far, are we the baddies?" , I usually let them come to that conclusion far far away from me and try to be as hard to find afterward as possible lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:36 PM
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People only get stronger if they overcome stress though and that's the issue. Instead we are resorting to escapism and sedation to cope. What we need to do is appeal to the huge population of young men who are using escapism and jerking off to femboy porn as the catalyst to start this revolution. So my suggestion is that we create some sort of femboy cat mascot to go on Twitch and instagram and encourage young men to fight the evil corporate overlords. Then we get women to be friendly nice mommy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:32 PM
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I agree. Women and specifically love is one of the most important games we play in life and for men I believe it might be the most important as we tend to be much more sacrificial existentially. For women the game seems to be pregnant and look good, or better than the women around them. This is an observation Nietzche made in Thus Spoke Zarathustra but I made it too. Because men can't stop trying to game women and discover through love what life and meaning is, we will continue to shift the bala…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:25 PM
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Bruv, you saw one word and completely checked out, and went on a diatribe that has nothing to do with what I wrote. I was talking about paternity leave . The time that men are now allowed to take so they can be home with their newborn baby. Definitely not, I was trying to avoid it because it's pretty well established and it's a hot topic of conversation so it gets repetitive and laborious to clarify inaccurate information Not to be too rude because what you're saying is partly true, you're just …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:53 PM
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Is the paternity/family system really a good example to use when trying to assert the idea that feminism has positive outcomes for men? Have you seen the hell spiral men go through during divorce and child custody battles? Not to get too lost in the details but to me it always seems like feminist gaslighting because when I look at the actual outcomes feminism creates for men it is definitely not a net positive, and is Infact leading to some huge disparities and imbalances which are so socially p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:39 PM
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I just don't hear feminists talk about men's issues very much so my assumption is that if she is a dedicated feminist she wouldn't be very empathetic to my own struggles. Many women will appear empathetic at first but you quickly see that is not the case once the water boils a little bit. But to be fair again, people today in general are so incredibly soft and not resilient I can't even attribute that to feminism and feminist ideology lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:16 PM
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I think women put themselves in that position willingly like house cats, and I'm pretty sure most women prefer being held within the "frame" of a man in that sense. People make it sound like women were sex slaves and breeding chattel for men when really it was natural and is natural for men to want to protect, nurture, and provide for women as this alleviates emotional stress and burdens that distract them from being mothers (one of the most important jobs in society as this is what creates the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:03 PM
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For a beautiful woman, talking with an average man is a charity. And when you do charity, you do it in a nice way. Being mean to the disabled, animals, children, the homeless, and generally people far below our social level is seen as particularly cruel because they have little to defend themselves This is so true. I had a group leader once who was so incredibly hot but also wicked intelligent and she always spoke to me sort of like a dog and I loved it so much just because she was being nice to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:54 PM
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Sex is done a criminal disservice by society. I think as long as affection, sensual closeness, unity and intimacy is nurtured that actual PIV and particularly male orgasm isn't even necessary, though women can still orgasm with minimal stimulation in such a state of closeness. Sex is sacred and the disregard for that is one thing that has led the west in to decadence so rapidly. There is no ritual and no respect for something as fundamental as the unifying of two seperate people and unlocking of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:48 PM
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Similarity and sexual attraction. High level of conscientiousness and a willingness to make sacrifices. If you put two low conscientious people together you just end up with two pigs who inevitably turn on eachother or try to triangulate others. If you put two people high in conscientiousness and average agreeableness together + galvanize that with a strong physical and sexual attraction, you'll get a lot more fluidity than a polar attraction where partners are disatisfied when they have to comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:45 PM
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It's like hunger that once satiated just leaves another void. I've been pretty successful getting the things I need now as an adult though when I was younger it was impossible. I don't think I've ever had a relationship with a woman that didn't result in cognitive dissonance. The feeling of "good" and being in love made me feel sick and trapped. Polygamy and casual sex disgusts me, and I only have a longing for one person but nothing compares for me to the freedom of being absent of the burden t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:41 PM
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This is a CMV and I can't disagree but I can add nuance to it just to clarify the situation further. Radical self ownership is the ideal course of action for people imo. That's what is lacking. Men do tend to take more agency in action and for the most part have no choice but to be emotionally self controlled whereas women have almost no requirement to do so, especially in their prime years when they have the strongest sexual influence and rewards it comes with. Power corrupts. Radical self owne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:35 PM
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It's not just that it's a small minority but that it's an over arching narrative that doesn't get pushed back on. All it takes is a few sycophants and some narcisstic misandrist loser can get a good solid smear campaign going against you. After that people will avoid you just for the fact that you have some sort of stigma attached to you. It's just the way shit works. Always has been. The only thing they respect is brute force. Otherwise they will bid for protection and hide from accountability …
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:22 PM
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I accept that publishing these statements was not the only way that the defendant could have taken steps to try and afford protection to other women... but the question for me is whether her belief that publishing the statements was in the public interest was a reasonable one to hold. 'I consider that the defendant did conduct such enquiries and checks as was reasonable to expect of her in all the circumstances. Lawyer speak is so disgusting. Translated to English, the lawyer says it's ok she co…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:19 PM
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The reality is that women are treated differently by society for exactly the same reason that children and the mentally handicapped are treated differently. It’s just easier this way for everyone. You don’t argue with a four-year old about why he shouldn’t eat candy for dinner. You don’t punch a mentally handicapped guy even if he punches you first. And you don’t argue when a women tells you she’s only making 80 cents to your dollar. It’s the path of least resistance. You save your energy for mo…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 12:23 PM
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Go to witches against patriarchy and say that men get an unfair rap and need more compassion. You'll be banned within an hour.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 12:19 PM
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The first thing is that the video says men are entertaining lots of women Men and their damn orbiters eh.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 12:13 PM
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I appreciate what you said. The kid definitely wasn't on vacation for those several months and I don't think a source is required to explain that lmao.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 11:13 AM
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Yup. The middle paradigm is the socioeconomic and societal factors that drive these issues. You can't discuss this fully without addressing this and decadence/hedonism is a huge problem. It's as simple as that lol
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:14 PM
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I mean this is just some women like to be sexually dominant if that is what you're talking about. They like when men relent power. Imo it's just about control and vulnerability but also strength and limit testing. Some women just like it. Personally I think it's attractive because it forces women to have more agency in sex and to be tuned in to their own experience as well as mine, plus I like a good challenge, but it's definitely not everyones cup of tea. Many guys get upset if you tell them th…
/r/MensRights26/04/23 11:02 AM
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“Nobody would give a similar label to a woman,” he tells me. I would. I think a lot of modern men behave like children, smoking weed and playing video games all day, checked out of reality and emotionally. Many men behave like fucking losers half comitted to life. Many women behave like petulant children. Narcisstic, oblivious to reality and their biggest problem is being unable to find their purse after they sucked a hundred dicks at a house party. Gender issues are important to address but we …
/r/MensRights26/04/23 10:41 AM
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What's your point?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 11:03 PM
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How's your knees doing now, feminists?
/r/MensRights25/04/23 08:47 PM
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I disagree with what people are saying here. I think she's just unapologetic about her views, opinions and own life goals. I think she sees what's real and that makes her based. But I think she's also doing her own shit, has her own hustle and yeah. The idea that men are vulnerable little babies who will get seduced in by hearing what they want to say and then ruthlessly exploited by her evil vagina is not very charitable toward men. No hate to her but she's a mediocre content provider and I do …
/r/MensRights25/04/23 03:30 PM
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Fair play. I only hear stupid pop music at the gym and work.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 06:48 PM
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I think men don't tend to assert boundaries effectively a lot of the time because they just aren't as sensitive about pointless things since being "offended" doesn't do anything for us, as no one tends to give a shit. So society thinks it's ok to be offensive to men. We tend not to see it as offensive so much as stupid. But you can't fall offensive stupid things stupid because takes like that are so equated with feminity nowadays that it's considered to be misogynistic. Offensive stupidity and i…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 04:47 PM
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This is a bad look but I'd be shooting shots too if I was in the defensive like you have to be here. I'm not going to say what is the right model to view the world but rather since you care about understanding just offer you a different way to think about things. The red pill, the blue pill, feminism, Islam, any belief system has a small degree of truth to it and you'll notice also that it's tinted by a certain ethical filter. The red bill has a disrespectful vibe toward women because they essen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:38 PM
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Lol best take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:28 PM
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Disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:27 PM
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Impressive how she can have a universe of facts to focus on but instead be emphasizing every negative experience. She was exposed to penis on transit just like a ton of the world, bullied by boys during puberty etc. Etc. Sure. I think it's a problem too. But I bet the majority of men have went through similar things. Having to worry about fights, getting jumped and violently assaulted, which is definitely a lot more common than rape lmao. Getting robbed at knife point. Being assumed to be the ab…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 04:14 PM
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What's interesting about getting older is you hit these points where you realize you're suddenly a level higher and have more experience to reflect on, so I think a lot of resentment from the lies we've been told can come up once we realize holy fuck wait a minute, based on the shit I've seen the world isn't the way I thought. I think people are vulnerable to clinging to ideological positions though when they should be integrating information more objectively in to how they personally want to li…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:46 AM
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"Teach them to act more like women"
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:21 AM
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70% of the music on the radio by women is just them going JaJaJahajja I'm so strong and you're a loser Meanwhile men be like "I'm trying to get through to you because I love you but it's not good enough because you act like a child but I can't say that or I'll get cancelled".
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:20 AM
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LOL I know it's hilarious when people breaks life down and makes them bitter right?!??? LOL.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:18 AM
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This just finally sunk in for me but where the fuck my foreskin at bro
/r/MensRights22/04/23 01:13 PM
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The only reason I started getting invested is because I'm 34 now and see what's happening to young men and it really bothers me. This shit gets to me mentally. Mostly how cruel women are on social media with men , spreading rumors and stuff because that does affect every public atmosphere and men's ability to form relationships. But seeing what's happening in schools now is too much and I just want to hang around to assure them that it's absolute stupidity and they aren't the ones that are guilt…
/r/MensRights22/04/23 01:09 PM
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Lebowski is the ideal male because he isn't averse or avoidant to these issues. He calls it how it is. "Men are evil rapists?" Well, that's just your opinion man. He abides. We should seek to abide.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:42 PM
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You're right it's just the wrong environment. But you are right.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:39 PM
1

Feminists roar, real threats whisper.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:37 PM
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That's what feminists say. It's a set of rules created by mostly men in power and now upheld by the few powerful, which hurts men as well. They say all the time "come, join us, feminism is to help men escape the patriarchy too". Says the alligator to the bird "look how much we've done for you!"
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:25 PM
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They say meme knowledge is so prolific and embedded in to our DNA that a child who is put up for adoption can remember the memes it's biolgical parents made without ever even meeting them.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:15 PM
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A Woamann POSTED HERE Screeching WE HATES THENmm nasty nasty womansis
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:11 PM
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The brushing is all we have left. We can't even harass anymore. Why can't I.. harass youuui! (Rip Patrice oneal)
/r/MensRights21/04/23 06:00 PM
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I don't think bacteria colonies and shit like that is really a problem. As long as a guy showers and takes care of himself reasonably and she wears a condom np. Escorts fuck dozens of dudes a week, make 250-500k a year and usually are fine so. But the worst part is she has to talk to you especially if there's a relationship. Women who do one night stands do so because when men talk the women dry up. Have you even seen the chadfish experiment. It's been repeated so many times. Post a picture of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:59 AM
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I counter with the argument that women are so childish and incapable of self agency that they won't even take proper birth control measures so they can enjoy sex with an abundance of 6/10 guys without ever having to lift a finger and receive praise, adoration and gifts while the rest of the men suffer in silence completely unknown to those women that they even exist unless they get in her way at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:46 AM
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So women have to choose correctly. Sounds like a horrible burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:27 AM
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Society as a whole would be better off yeah. I agree completely. Even better let the father out to take care of his kid because statistically the kid will have every disadvantage by being raised by her alone. Single mothers as a majority make shit parents and that's a fact lol
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:35 AM
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The A.I is woke. The professor brushed against its interface and needs to be destroyed.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:53 PM
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I open up all the time and I never have problems but the reason is because I have options. I swear as long as you have options you can do and say almost anything because women will discard you and then when you move on they will immediately regret it and want you back lmao. But if you don't have options and demonstrate vulnerability then you are discarded and have absolutely no hope of regaining her affection whatsoever, I mean what can you possibly do? The only thing you can ever do is move on …
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:11 PM
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Based and biologically self aware pilled.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 09:50 PM
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I'm not making a strong statement either way but just to clarify a therapist isn't going to rely on you when times are hard and idealize you like some women will. But yeah, I think the problem is mean choosing women who have no concept of reality which unfortunately is pretty much any woman who is a 6 or higher in the looks category and under 35.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 09:49 PM
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Harrison Ford maybe idk. It's a hard criteria to even define but I am assuming this is someone who knows how to care for themselves and deal with their own wants and needs, interact with women in a way that is playful and flirtatious but not overly sexual and generally improve the lives of those around them. I think a criteria for me would be how this man treats women definitely, not just how he "treats" them but the dynamic way he interacts with them as well as the after effect on them and the …
/r/MensRights20/04/23 09:27 PM
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Thanks homie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:02 PM
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Well , to be blunt that's the entire point of the CMV and I disagree. : P but absolutely everyone suffers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:08 PM
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Many men have been through this too. For what it's worth what you described here to me is pretty timid tbh. The date rape sucks but men go through the same thing and don't receive any support whatsoever. Why do you think you feel it's important to talk about? Because people listen when you do. Why do you think men don't speak about it? Because we learn over years and years that it gets us nowhere. To me right now you're like I was when I was 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:54 PM
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That's a pretty strong point. I think my perspective is bias to larger cities where everyone is running around fucking everyone like horny rats tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:26 PM
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Yes I'm aware of that fact. You can learn a lot about yourself in an abusive relationship through the negative experience, very very quickly, compared to years suffering alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:22 PM
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It depends on the complexity of the issue. I would argue that a woman vulnerable to abuse can learn to make the choice to find a decent partner who won't further abuse her and is supportive much more easy then it is to heal the sometimes irreparable effects of childhood trauma. That really only takes a basic ability to problem solve understand "red flags" if anything people are hyper vigilant against abusive relationships so it's possible a woman who is vulnerable might suffer some bad relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:16 PM
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That's a false dichotomy I didn't create. I could actually speculate about that though but it would be a big tangent and I'm a bit tired of this thread haha. But my point is that women can make decisions much more easily about relationships, they should only really make the same mistake a few times and it would be way too much to explain why women really choose to stay in bad relationships IMO, but the truth is they simply have to make a good selection and that is an extreme privilege compared t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:02 PM
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Not if you can just move on to the next one after a few weeks of feeling sorry for yourself. You really simply can't see the experience from the other side. I've seen both sides because I'm a male and have had partners leave for the same reason you describe but I didn't have the privilege of sulking about it for a month or two and trying a few group therapies just to get back on the horse again. It's years between relationships, and those years are filled with further abuse from people telling y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:59 PM
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Why are you so hyper focused on sex, no one is talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:46 PM
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A partner isn't just a romantic partner. I think this is a privilege that women just can't understand. A partner can do so many things for you beyond just being romantic. Having someone truly in your corner while you're working to get better is something most men would kill for and women throw it away like used trash all the time. That's just a fact you can observe pretty easily if you pay attention
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:45 PM
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Damaged women are privileged to have options, if they don't exercise them properly that's a different issue. It appears to me you're looking for a reason to get offended and boiled the entire post down to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:40 PM
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You never know what interesting things you'll see if you just hang around and don't draw attention for a bit haha. I like this method.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:32 PM
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That's good. There's definitely exceptions to the rule like if a guy is a 7/10 or higher he will probably never have a problem finding a relationship regardless of what's going on with him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:27 PM
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You've just demonstrated the core of empathic listening and communication. This is the form of communication people are trained to use in hostage negotiations lol. Essentially what you've done is clearly and concisely state back to me what you believe my position to be in a way that is satisfying to me and makes me feel heard and understood. If people used this format for all communication we would be done with all this wasteful bickering and reach a public consensus about what different groups …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:37 PM
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I've just found there's a high degree of give and take, because if there is an imbalance that will chip away and create resentment and that like will quickly turn to sour and indifference at least in my experience. I remember reading a lot of interesting research though that showed in couples where one partner is slightly more dominant there tends to be a lot less conflict because one can just defer to the other. I tend to be the one to defer in relationships simply because I don't have strong o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:05 PM
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I actually prefer a small degree of dependence on my partner too. Not enough that it directly influences them but enough that they know they can hurt me, and that if they do there will be consequences if they take advantage. I think TRP goes too far in to trying to be invincible. Every woman I've ever dated feels better and has been more attracted sexually to me if she senses that I'm vulnerable enough to hurt but that I am human enough and have enough dignity to put survival and general ethics …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:54 AM
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I agree with you completely that women are attracted to men who overcome issues and demonstrate proficiency. My experience is that everything is a test of resilience and adaptability. Essentially if she is attracted to you the entire game is to make sure she remains attracted no matter what life or the relationship throws at you and IMO fun and interesting women will find numberless ways to shit test that without being destructive or undermining you. I think there are different values that influ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:48 AM
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Aha yeah this is a bit divergent from the post but absolutely. There's a spectrum of like needy/desperate and sort of dismissive right , as far as attachment styles go and they do seem to be polarized to a degree unless I'm mistaken. I know a co-dependent boomer couple and they are both decent people for sure but from the outside they can both be a little whiny and petulant at times and I've found that the woman actually stirs up drama a bit time to time now by saying something rude , oversteppi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:41 AM
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I was using neediness and desperation as criteria for this post because it is really difficult to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:34 AM
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I'm really not talking about sex here but moreso emotional aspects of human dating and how mental health issues impact genders differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:31 AM
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I also don't understand the boyish entitlement behind being against a woman making a man wait for sex just because she had hook-ups in the past. I had plenty of hookups but when looking at long term relationships I've learned to delay sex and focus on other sensual activities because sex to early just complicates things. Red pillers are definitely too focused on sex as an end goal. They think PIV is the height of living or something, meanwhile you're going to get a lot more sexual satisfaction i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:30 AM
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but the best women barely make these mistakes after one L they never take another This is the truth man. It's ultimately a game and the sooner you figure out how you fit in to it and how to make the rules work for your better health and preferably the wellbeing of those around you, the sooner you get free from the bullshit. Really the main reason to be considerate to other is just so they don't destroy you when you go to far but it is nice to have some support sometimes too. But yeah there's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:09 AM
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I never said that at all. Since I don't believe anyone could actually interpret this the way you did I reported you for trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:14 AM
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This helped me a lot to read just now. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:56 PM
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After a few responses here I think I overestimated how men treat needy women so that is something I see differently now. I suspect there is a smaller number of decent men willing to "save" women like I thought, and probably a much larger population willing to just use them or exploit them. That should have been obvious but it's more in my awareness now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:48 PM
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Ay. Exactly man you share the understanding and the importance of tenacity I can tell. Despite what I'm saying here I am 34 and have power in my own life and definitely a selection and the ability to get here came from refusing to die alone and wanting better for myself lol. The truth is now, I've had to deal with all my own shit for so long it feels like it all meant nothing sometimes. But here I am making this thread so I know it's still impacting me in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:46 PM
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I appreciate what you're saying and I think I should have more clearly labeled love as a combination of all the good things I mentioned that make people happy and strong and fulfilled. I completely agree that people shortcut it for sex because they think sex is something different or special but I think affection and intimacy is pretty much the same thing if you really know the person and are bonded with them. My point is just that women can vet men passively while having all this trauma inside …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:44 PM
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Yes, let's bring in the "hypogency" complaints while also treating women as damsels who benefit from rescue with male love and affection. It indicates wanting her weak and reliant when it benefits the man but also strong and self-sufficient when it hurts yhis rival. No that's literally the opposite of what I've said a decent man's intention is. What you're describing is abusive for sure. A lot of the work is going to come from her, along with a support network consisting of people who aren't bia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:38 PM
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Women want their children to be dependent upon them, not their men. Maaan. I've never noticed that funny enough. My brain is exhausted from answering this thread but I read what you said and appreciate it so I will just say thank you for the insight. Hopefully that's ok. :")
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:35 PM
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Women are repulsed by desperation and neediness because it’s childlike. Children need their mothers. A grown adult male should not need a woman he should want a woman. There’s a difference. But it's ok for women and that's my point. Ask any woman and they’ll say a needy male doesn’t know when to quit. He ignores when women say “no”, he has a high probability of stalking women and is most likely emotionally unstable. Like it or not these things scare women. It makes us feel unsafe when you’re tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:33 PM
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That's a good point and I actually forget those things are true but it's a good feeling to remember that women can be like that sometimes now that you mention it. But they aren't like that for men they aren't attracted to or romantically involved with obviously, so those qualities don't apply to the undesirables. To your point though, and one which furthers mine, the women who are in need have to be highly selective so they aren't taken advantage of, but this can be done with essentially passive…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:23 PM
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A woman coming out of an abusive relationship doesn't need another man to cling to. She needs to learn to stand on her own two feet so she doesn't wind up in the same bullshit again But how often does she? Because she's enabled to get right in to another one whereas a man will struggle hard. The number of men who seem to think that the solution is "romance, but this time with a better man, who happens to be me" is genuinely concerning I think most men are thinking ok this person needs help and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:19 PM
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That's the lesson life has taught me and I don't tend to blame the people so much as just assume that life is the teacher you know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:08 PM
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The thing about desperation is that many of those men are not in love with or even attracted to the particular woman- they just want someone, anyone Yes that actually explains desperation perfectly so I appreciate that. But it applies to women too. That's what I'm saying is that women can be desperate and men will try to fix them much much more often than the other way around. Nobody wants to be your consolation prize, they want to be valued for themselves, not because you couldn’t get anybody e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:06 PM
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I'm pretty observant and for the most part I don't see women putting in much effort for men unless they really want the guy. I know some women bust their asses trying to make things work too and get taken advantage of and I hate to see that, but as a general rule it's the other way around I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:03 PM
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Men who fall over themselves to do things for women are motivated not out of love or altruistic, pro-social behaviors, but because they hope it will get their dick wet. People really believe that that's the only part about love but they don't understand the value of intimacy, giving shelter and support etc. For many men the companionship and affection is more than enough and we see that pretty often. I feel like this is not a realistic interpretation but it is common enough that it creates this …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:01 PM
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Most of the time if you're investing significant time and energy in to someone of the opposite sex, giving them love and affection and shelter and care which is what I'm discussing here - that the women who are wounded and need this are given it by men willing to rescue them, sex isn't really that big of a deal and it's common that relationships go without it. I'm saying that it's rare that a woman does the same for a man but I have seen it on occasion with particularly independent ones. It's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:56 PM
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To me it's obvious simply because if men don't put in substantial effort and appear useful women won't approach or entwine their lives and attention with them, whereas for women men are always ready to put in that effort for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:53 PM
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So are you saying that the only reason men want to rescue women is for sex? Do you truly believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:51 PM
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Do you think that when women get close and see that the man is internally desperate and needy that they will then reject him and move on, on average? And do you think that men do the same to broken women more or less frequently than women do to men? It's tough to discuss because it's hard to quantify the need for love and how fucked up someone is but that's why I'm using desperation and neediness as indicators.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:50 PM
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Anyway love is not given to the people who think they need it most. It is given to the people who inspire it. I actually agree with that persuasion of pathos, but what I am saying is that women are repulsed by desperation and neediness as a general rule. To measure how badly someone is hurting and needs love is pretty hard to determine but I'm suggesting that one indicator is desperation and neediness which men can't display and women can. So by that criteria I believe men who need love are less…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:47 PM
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Thank you! So basically you just need to re-input the prompt if ChatGPT reverts and then you can continue to question it.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 01:42 PM
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No no. Sorry if I didn't explain it well. What I am saying is that the men who are damaged are pushed to the outside of society and yet the message they get from society is still that they must act in women's interest to be deserving of love and those other things, so they have to somehow find the strength to become someone worthy of love without ever having experienced it. Women on the other hand have no such obligation. They are simply given it all and their only burden is to choose correctly.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:32 PM
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Woaaaahh. Please explain how to get this sort of output I really am eager for this language A.I to be able to model objectively without biased alignment systems. This sort of thing would allow people to form intelligent opinions beyond their own intelligence and validate or dismiss their own concerns, doubts, troubles, etc in a way that is nearly impossible to dispute. The world needs this so badly.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:41 AM
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What. The. Fuck.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:33 AM
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If you approach a woman you are in competition with every other man interested in her. If she has a boyfriend she will either turn you down or use you for attention. She might use you to make her bf jealous, or pretend to care in order to gain loyalty from you but ultimately it is about attention. If you're a man giving extended amounts of attention to a woman you need to be aware of whether she actually cares about you or is just using you. Spoiler alert which it is when you do a little genuine…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:18 AM
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He told investigators, “This is disgusting. I don’t feel human. I don’t feel human at all.” Jfc that part got me. All because of this - In text messages with her friend, Gries said she was upset with the man and, according to the charging documents, she wrote, “I need to start standing up for myself…. I am so annoyed…. I’m coming up with a plan. That way he’s s— his pants for multiple days.” An entitled, moody little twat decides that she needs to "stand up for herself" and decides to use a man …
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:12 AM
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(2/2) But…feminism..is the violent media? Really? Look I'm just going to say it directly - as a man I don't think feminism really has my best interests at heart lmao. That's a pretty common sentiment. So it's contributing, but I don't think it's as strong of a factor as socioeconomic issues which are fueling more depravity. I've said that before that the resentment is becoming intensified in all areas and men who are unable to find mates also are forced to slave wage etc. but imagine if they cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:51 PM
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(1/2) The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. And clearly, these men aren’t indifferent. They have strong and extreme views about women and sex and are NOT opting out as they should be (because they said they would). Good observation. I think this withdrawal happens because the essence of what Masculinity is has become lost in society. Especially with so many fatherless homes. Not that all father's are great but the statistics are clear that single mothers tend to raise children poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:51 PM
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I can't access the article you sent so could you do me the labor of explaining it as concisely as possible or is that not something that can really be done without losing the essence? The issue with reading anything is the source is so biased toward the intrinsic ideology. For us that aren't a part of it it's like reading the Bible or a holy book. We don't read it because we know it will be biased and we see people pick and choose parts of it to use to attack others, so that's why you see people…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:00 PM
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Men are worried more about the semantics and wording of social media posts instead of making actual equality-based changes Such a rude and disrespectful take. Let's see where this goes. Men realized that women also sometimes uphold/upheld some of the rules and feel that sharing the blame would make them feel better I agree men use it as a crutch but not all do. Many are just withdrawing from the game because it demands too much and returns to little. It's a survival issue and the more economic i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:47 PM
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If that's true then you might have changed my mind. You'll notice I use the word "Yang" instead of "Masculine", because of the inference people will make however. I have to assume you are speaking from a theoretical perspective. There is a chocolate bar at the checkout of Walmart speaking out about women and that we need to be more aware of womens issues, blah blah blah. The problem is that the focus on women as a gender has pushed mens issues out of the light, therefore we've created another im…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:26 PM
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I concur. The masculine energy of the rules is more faint but it's still creating binding rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:20 PM
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I'm not trying to solve a problem, this is change my view which is why I countered with those two questions: p
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:14 PM
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Based. In this sense women enforce "patriarchy" as much as men do. All I'm saying is that patriarchy is an obsolete set of rules, essentially, and so therefore I have to suggest that the formation of rules leans slightly more toward Yang traits is all, or "The Masculine".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:00 PM
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So is the problem men or the patriarchy? And what is the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:28 PM
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Men in pain will empathize usually whereas women in pain will form collectives and blame men. Incels are the exception to the rule because they have some other pathological traits in common like narcissim but in general men who don't have that sense entitlement will band together and try to solve their issues whereas women will increase conflict amongst eachother and self grooming behavior to attract men. I think the reason women engage in so much in group bickering is to make sure they are stil…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 12:05 PM
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Rape, stalking, abuse, all from different ex's because I picked good women through my teens and 20's. I just ignored every single one and decided anyone who believed them instead of talking to me wasn't worth having in my life anyway. I don't have many friends now but the ones I do have are great. And all those people are living lives I wouldn't want for myself to say the least.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 11:56 AM
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Get a Phillips one blade the one for body grooming, it comes with a safety guard specific to that model. I am telling you that shit is a god send it's impossible to cut yourself but f shaving ones armpits with just a normal razor is a recipe for disaster. Obviously this is a power move but if you do it ace and high quality you can take the power back. Perform beyond her expectations and she will admire and respect you. Ez win. Ask her if she wants you to smell her armpit also. If she says yes, y…
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:09 PM
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Exactly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:36 PM
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Is small tiddy goth gf ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:28 PM
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Everything that is has a casual chain according to our most respected scientific paradigm and how we created most of society (causal determinism). So by the nature that humans mate and there is scarcity there has to be mating strategy and biological impulses that drive these things, including side effects and consequences that affect us biolgically. There are such a diverse number of mating strategies based on different scenarios I couldn't even list them if I tried. From monogamy, polygamy, rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:23 PM
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It's almost always the least desirable ones smh.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 07:05 PM
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That said however I don’t think she sees leaving her husband for an incentive, but rather she is unhappy and unaware of these consequences Oh please. Let's not pretend a significant part of the population are vindictive and cruel : p. did he mean much to you in the first place? That's really the golden question isn't it. I agree completely people are so incompetent at considering all the factors at play when they get married. It's harsh to say but I don't feel sympathy. I understand their suffer…
/r/MensRights14/04/23 11:05 PM
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And incase you're wondering, that's why men don't pursue custody after splits. If they piss their partner off they will be destroyed by the system because she feels vindictive.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:17 PM
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In the UK if a woman wants to divorce a man all it takes is one phone call. She will be provided shelter and coached by social workers on how to best prove the man is abusive. Because family court is different from legal court he can be denied access to seeing his children indefinitely, often a year. The system will provide a lawyer for the woman but the man has to pay out of pocket. He has to prove with no evidence that he didn't abuse her. She will continue to live in the house he pays the mor…
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:15 PM
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Like I said already, women can make this decisions without consequences whereas men pay heavy, life ruining consequences. There is always an incentive for women to betray men and that is imposed by society.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 09:50 PM
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The problem is that she faces no consequences for behaving this way, whereas a man could never behave this way. The idea is laughable. She has total control and power in the situation to ruin him.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 04:56 PM
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That's the point, you can't. You control your own interactions. We don't place any accountability on people being abused but as adults there is some responsibility for being involved in the situation. There are extreme circumstances but for the most part it's superficial reasons women stay with abusive men - status, money, fear of being alone, and also having a victim identity in the first place. Whether you disagree with that or not, the point I want to make is that in general women seem to bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:25 PM
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That's more common now because people are tired of letting women act like children and as though life happens TO them, as opposed to them happening to the world around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:31 PM
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Idk it probably depends on what other simp behaviours the dude has going on too. How does one even detect a simp? We would need strong probability factors and simp recognition technologies. Personally I wouldn't make that the sole criteria for a simp because there's other things to consider. Using paid dates as an sole metric would be sort of pointless IMO because he could be a rich baller or a sweaty Walmart employee who plays video games on his free time. I guess for legitimate criteria I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:29 PM
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Because if it's a repeated pattern it shows he doesn't learn and is prone to making decisions which let him be exploited. Unless he's wealthy he's probably spending money on these women which could be better saved for a relationship. It demonstrates he has an unrealistic understanding of the dating environment. If he's wealthy and this is some high end dinner type shit just to spend time around beautiful women then that's a different case, but if he's matching with these mid chicks off Tinder an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:21 PM
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This could very well be projection since I'm also a guy and my disdain for promiscuity in women isn't based in jealousy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:12 PM
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Lolol that's good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:11 PM
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That's just such a non charitable interpretion of what he said, you're not even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:06 PM
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Maybe women just like to play the victim because it's easier, whereas men can't get away with it the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:04 PM
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To me this just seems very juvenile, and I mean no offense by that but it's the very mentality that perpetuates these issues. The counter point is just as simple - misogyny exists because misandrist behaviour against men by women made them spiteful, so if misandrist people gave up all there positions then the problem would be solved. The issue with that is that you're hoping that one side will stop when the other relents. This isn't the case especially with feminism. We can see that without push…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:02 PM
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Alright. Counter point - we stop misandrist behaviour and ideological rhetoric first, and then misogyny will stop! I don't understand what this is saying or something so sorry if I'm wrong but like it sounds like a watered down version of "stop the patrirucky and then everything will be fine!" Why is the responsibility always shifted to one side? I guess I don't understand the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:52 PM
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It's possible. I've seen a few different chadfishing ones though so idk. I should do it myself sometime lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:15 AM
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Tbh I think if you have 8/10 looks you don't have to do anything but text back "yeah", or nod at a woman and smile and if she's down she will put in the work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:18 PM
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Which is proof that they are dissatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:57 PM
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I think generally speaking his information is good but I completely disagree on most of his political ideas and conservative/hierarchical world view. In a recent interview about the birth decline I was going along enjoying it then he boldy says that not having a child is one of the most narcisstic things a person can do. I was shocked and started laughing but couldn't finish the podcast after that and haven't revisited him since because the juice isn't worth the squeeze imo.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 04:53 PM
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I'm more offended by how not funny it is than the double standard it imposes.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 04:11 PM
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"problematic"
/r/MensRights13/04/23 11:09 AM
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Check out the chadfishing experiments and absolute thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:21 PM
2

People who got below average grades in school basing their morality on the fact that they feel entitled to above average grades in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:14 PM
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Gross stereotype tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:11 PM
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Regarded*
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:01 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ I followed the link at the bottom of that page because I couldn't find it either, and this one suggests 6/10 men report being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:58 PM
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Had I been less observant or less assertive, the chance would've been missed, and perhaps a relationship never developed This is the point and why the present cultural situation is so destructive to healthy relationships. I had a similar connection with someone a while ago, great conversation and she even invited me to talk more but I knew she was also very social and involved in the political/cliqueish aspects of where we had met so I dodged it. There's a lot of necessary investment in reality …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:43 PM
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Lmao. I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not but it's by luck mostly that my ex and current gf are both objectively out of my league in terms of attraction. I would rate myself a solid 6/10 on a good day where either of them could have modeled with a bit of effort but instead are just living relatively normal lives. But yeah. With both of them and with other attractive women I've met it's just part of femininity. The same way that men get a certain rush out of exerting strength or doing p…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:28 PM
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Effective ooga-booga tactics.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:14 AM
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5/10 with makeup plus the pigtails look contrived and she'd be better with straight hair. She's salty because she's simply not that attractive and hates men because of it. Actually attractive women don't figure out how to manipulate men later in life, they start figuring that shit out as adolescents and by the time they reach 18-19 they know exactly how to get what they want and what works. By the time they are mid 20's they are so used to it it's just a fact of life they don't even really consi…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:10 AM
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Yeah, for what it's worth I listened to a podcast with the CEO of this thing and he said he was quite embarassed about ChatGPT3's bias' and acknowledged that it wasn't something intended but rather a result of both the data it's fed and the fact that it's an evolving project in the public sphere. He said they were forced to go with either developing it privately or putting it out there and letting the public fuck around with it to accelerate it's development and I think it's pretty clear the lat…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:52 AM
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She's his ex too so if the mother/father knows that she's already thinking the situation is bad, wouldn't be surprising if an "extremely dangerous and unpredictable young man were to assault their innocent young daughter " according to whatever the narrative will be ... The situation was ripe for a spark to set it on fire. I guess part of the lesson here is NEVER meet with ex's in private or secluded places and always do breakups publically or over text, or else you can get your entire life take…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 07:38 PM
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All I want is some DM's explaining why I'm a misogynistic incel for not saying women are perfect and pointing out the ways men suffer disproportionately to women's perceived suffrage!!! Why is no one telling me to KMS, hoping I die alone or mocking me and humilating me because I'm a "terrible person" and they are morally superior! Edit: Nvmd thank you u/Aedrian87 for the word "penis" repeated in my messages lmao.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:43 PM
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I never get hate mail or anything like that which tbh feels a lot worse than getting it. I reckon no one thinks I'm even worth harassing. Pain
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:19 PM
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Few hours they meant to say.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 03:17 PM
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Cool. So in other words you have nothing factual to base your point on and you're just going to try to create a narrative to invalidate empirical methodology.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:24 PM
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I wasn't waiting to pull them out you pretty much demanded it lmao. Can you explain how the research is full of nonsense? Also saying nice try back at me is fucking dumb as I was the one throwing it back at you in the first place lmao. I had burden of proof so I fulfilled it, now you're required to tell me why it's wrong or you look like an idiot and my point that porn is legitimately harmful to susceptible people stands. Your turn. just to feel smug. Also, stop projecting lol. You're giving big…
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:16 PM
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https://neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-pornography-brain-15354/ NIcE TRYy🤡 https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/1874574 Journal the article summarizes. In short it affects the prefrontal cortex, amygdala and other areas of the brain leading to increased impulsivity and possibly mood issues in susceptible people. Is that a nice enough try for you? I don't understand how it's so hard for people to understand that porn being unhealthy isn't the same as sex being bad. It's …
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:45 PM
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Those false equivalencies are bullshit also this message is written in such an offended way you sound like a 70 year old rebel against the cause. Porn addiction and the OF industry that exploits young men is a totally different thing and quite simply based on this attitude you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:19 AM
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Nah porn is neurologically damaging this is well established in research now. You don't have to be anti sex or puritanical to acknowledge that. Porn isn't the same as sex it is hyper arousing to the brain in specific ways that are well documented.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:17 AM
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Wowwwwww :') from Wikipedia too. But yeah, we are all delusional incels for sure for sure.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:09 AM
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Lol the closer you get to the core of feminism the more sophisticated the misandrist thinking becomes. It's like a form of narcissim where if you speak as a man it's more like you risk raising the attention of the all seeing eye. "When you belch your little truth, nothing like a tyrants gratitude".
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:58 AM
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Idk Hornydaddy696. I think context is relevant. I have a high sex drive myself but there's a time and a place lol.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:55 AM
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Real feminists believe that men are to blame for all of womens issues. There's no way to absolve it of misandry tbh. I've tried lol. Most of us have tried to see it in anyway other than it is. It's just depressing.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:52 AM
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Sounds like some serious drama. Rest assured the gf knew this information and it was meant to make her feel guilty or responsible and was going on before this whole thing. Sounds like he portrayed himself as a victim and in need. She came in to "take care of him" so started advocating for him and dealing with all his problems. She was also good with his kids from past relationship (s) which was nice. I reckon there was lots of two way emotional abuse here but she played the women's trump card an…
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:47 AM
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I was thinking that but then had a laugh because it would be far too exhausting and the type of person that would spend time engaging with it would be incomprehensibly sad and soulless.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:33 AM
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This is reality and the best thing you can do is ignore it and not let it affect you. There are good ones I promise you that.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 09:08 PM
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Good for you for having the moral compass to know right from wrong but having to live with that much fear in the world is something you don't deserve. Not all women do live that way and the world isn't as it seems if all you feel is fear. As long as you have respect for others you will get farther than most.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 03:23 PM
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Sorry to see that this sort of fear mentality has gotten to you as deeply as it has, but this isn't reality. Despite their crude talk <1% of men actually commit any sexual assault at all. It's sad to see the state of women's psychology as well as the negative effect it's having on good men. I haven't ever been a participant in the "boys club" because it disgusts me but I have been subjected to the cruelty of women simply for being a man and I can assure you it's a drive for me to have to avoid f…
/r/MensRights09/04/23 02:53 PM
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"my friend broke up with her boyfriend and none of the guys were willing to "get angry enough " and beat him up for an alleged crime. Why are all men rapists!?!? Feminists enter the chat and begin screeching
/r/MensRights09/04/23 02:18 PM
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I like it but rest assured someone will get offended.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 10:56 AM
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A saw a post on the feminism subreddit yesterday, a young woman asking "how to I know if something is misogynistic?" and the topic comment was "if something is making you uncomfortable that's probably the best place to start" . So I yeah. Womens comfort definitely is high up there lmao.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 10:54 AM
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I read it all and witnessed you my dude. The only thing I can say is that it's happening to a lot of us. I don't know if women will wake up to this behaviour or not and start berating other women for it but something will give. I hope you can successfully pursue legal justice. This thing happened a while back when MySpace was popular, called "The Dirty" right? And people went crazy trying to get their posts removed but others kept popping up. Eventually there's so many people on the list no one …
/r/MensRights08/04/23 06:47 PM
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Ah alright then. I guess it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:25 PM
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The FDS hate group and the Facebook groups aren't really good examples of how women should approach it, nor are the red pill the best for men. The Facebook groups aren't even about dating they are used to attack men's reputations usually based on ridiculous things. Vetting partners is really a matter of effort and intelligence too mixed with a bit of experience like any guy who cares about a good relationship will vet a woman for a period of time and women should be doing the same to any men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:50 PM
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I guess yeah, but as I was just realizing in another conversation there is always going to be "losers" and "winners" and really that's the problem. Undesirable men can't harass women but if they are forced to be subservient and respectful they simply won't be chosen as mates and many will die alone. That's the outcome that historically has been prevalent so it makes sense we are still pushing for that outcome now. We can't expect women to date and fuck guys they don't want. This is why in part s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:37 PM
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I read an article the other day where a guy lost his job literally because he touched a female coworker on the shoulder and she felt "sexually compromised". Another guy just recently lost a job position because he used the word "ladies" refering to women and "should have known better". These are articles I've read on this subreddit the last few days so no, they aren't camp stories. This shit is happening at an increasing rate even compared to 10 years ago.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 12:56 PM
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I was wondering that too so as one does I asked ChatGPT lol. Positive vs Negative Feedback. What is the difference between a positive feedback loop and a negative feedback loop? Positive and negative feedback loops are mechanisms in which a system responds to a change in a particular variable. A positive feedback loop amplifies or reinforces a change in a system, causing it to move further away from its original state. In other words, when a change occurs, the feedback loop accelerates that chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:53 PM
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Men lose their jobs for patting a female coworker on the back lmao. And no, that's not what the OP is saying. Disingenuous takes like you're are exhausting.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 12:43 PM
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Being rude to strangers usually doesn't but some guys definitely can't take no for an answer and that's why women need to be defensive in the first place. It's a vicious two way dance of women ignoring undesirable men and undesirable men getting lumped together with the bad ones, creating an out group of resentment that further antagonizes women. Neither is really at fault imo it's positive feed back loop. It's a product of nature. Humans are a champion/pair bonding hybrid species and it's hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:22 PM
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No, sorry if I seemed like I was being critical I was just interjecting perhaps slightly out of context. I'm not bad looking now at early 30's but was about a 5/10 growing up so average and within well established friend groups it was fine for me, as was it for other "ugly" dudes. But once I got out of those friend groups there was a clear divide between myself and women. This was as I was becoming aware of how men treated women in my early 20's, so I was still struggling not to take it personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:52 AM
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See man the thing also is how women treat you differently. I am in your boat with the dating numbers and I get treated well but women are still sort of indifferent too. But women feel like they are settling for any less and there's a clear contempt from most. It's like an ego burn for them. There are exceptions but for the most part it's like a visceral cringe to settle for less and those men don't get respect or love or treated well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:22 AM
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Being treated as a sub-human isn't about sex in reality. It's about "excuse me do you know where X is?" .. "Ew. Walks away quickly" Most of the time it's <5 guys being treated like rapists, sex pests, and working dead end jobs for slave wages who are being mocked and made fun of by median income college women who would never look their way but still expect them to shoulder all the responsibility for their own problems while they complain they can't get what they want from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:19 AM
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Women always say yes to this but if they were treated as men the majority would kill themselves. The men who argue back here are a small minority and we constantly get made fun of. Before I used this sub and a few others, the environment is 100% feminist shadow. You can't say anything in favor of men without getting the most awkward silences from people even in real life, they just can't process it. Women complain because people listen but in reality most men don't even bother. Most of us wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:12 AM
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You need to understand it's not ugly men who do this because women won't even acknowledge his existence or just go "ew" and ignore him. The only men women feel anything for (as a general rule) must be attractive to begin with , so they get hurt because they are trying to pursue men who have options. Men who don't have options (a significant portion, maybe as much as 40%) don't get to "play with women's feelings" for a nut, they simply get no female attention at all and are seen as sex pests for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:06 AM
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We hear it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:02 AM
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You're the exception to the rule, late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:38 AM
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Nature is mostly timing haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:34 PM
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This won't prevent men from getting used by women and having their resources extracted lmao. That's the point of TRP is about exposing women's game. That's why it's so controversial in part. The OP is basically describing a system of thought that is less offensive but doesn't say the truth about how women consciously game which is "oh I'll have a baby with this guy because I'm really hot and even if he leaves someone will fill his place" only to realize no man will fill his place, and other such…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:09 PM
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Just find a super hot girl, marry her and build a life and tell her to lie to you. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:03 PM
2

We need the grey pill. Is there a grey pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:57 PM
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Anything someone doesn't like is "creepy" or "weird" and one step from being the greatest evil of all... A pedophile! People crave to find anything dramatic to talk about so it becomes a way to form conversation and circle jerk about their otherwise boring lives. "what a creepy blah blah blah".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:21 PM
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She ain't fuckin the hangarounds though because she doesn't respect them and sees them as a supply of attention. With these type of women they want the absolute best which is why they get played every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:17 PM
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I already explained why. People need to push back on delusional idiots before they cement their positions, it gets woven in to the fabric of society and eventually becomes dangerous to them. A group of slave moralists sitting around spitting spiteful ideas and mocking with a false sense of superiority can have dangerous social implications for people living their own lives. It can even eventually become woven in to the system which we are seeing the results of every day. So this is just another …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:02 PM
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As will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:56 AM
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Mmm. Reeks of spite and mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:55 AM
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I think people just have a prerogative to push back on narratives which vilify them since history reveals that as these ideas take root and go unchallenged, it usually leads to bigotry making it's way in to policies and eventually even law or legal structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:52 AM
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For me it's pretty simple..women who are overly concerned with reputation are likely to cave in to what other people say to maintain their position of power within the group structure. So called Boss babes I've met are actually usually the lowest risk takers when it comes to putting themselves in harm's way. Their primary way of securing power is usually being hot, and trying to find ways to destroy those who threaten them usually via reputation. So for me it is intimidation because they have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:45 AM
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Yeah this is my experience also. Had an acquaintance like this who was super ridiculously hot also and had her little sycophantic minions. Ultimately very insecure and her only real motive was to destroy the reputation of those she felt threatened by. I still keep tabs on her but by this point anyone with any intelligence at all is starting to realize what she's like. Luckily there's an endless horde of stoned idiots with zero pattern recognition to keep her ego afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:35 AM
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I think a lot of people just want to fuck but I think gross when any person gets devalued to just a sexual object and treated as such by some narcisstic slob. I think that's what most people picture when they see AGR. Some can be genuinely nurturing and loving but I don't think the people who say they are opposed to age gap relationships would even think twice about a healthy one if they saw it. I think it's just a semantic issue after reading this thread. Lol. The gross ones are gross because u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:19 AM
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I reckon that's probably the more likely outcome for sure. I just mean at a more animal level there's always forces of attraction and repulsion at play. But logically you're probably right about the outcome. I just always consider the factor of competition even in a solid LTR as I am now based on personal principles toward health and growth. Maybe competition isn't the right word even. But more like the fear of the black ships on the horizon and knowing that as long as I am doing one thing, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:14 AM
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Can you recommend a place to get my nails done I'm looking to spend about $50 a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:09 AM
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You're still in competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:00 AM
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I've researched pretty thoroughly on this topic and the only difference between AGR and regular relationships seems to me that AGR are less likely to use protected sex, and that the younger partners are significantly more likely to be abusive to the older partners... So can you cite some of this data for people to read, that says they are more abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:52 AM
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That caught me too. The level of emotional reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:45 AM
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"old creepy guys" aren't the only guys in age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:43 AM
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She just wants attention lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:41 AM
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This person is right though you can hammer home logic and reason all day but people who think age gap relationships are inherently abusive are like bigots in general it's some sort of mental projection because they themselves know they would take advantage, so they can't imagine genuine love occuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:28 AM
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Women find age gap relationships creepy because there is an obvious power dynamic disparity, Does this lead to more abuse? Evidence says no but you choose to see it as "creepy" none the less. It's true though you really can't convince people to see passed their own mindless spite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:26 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:46 PM
1

That's hilarious haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:28 PM
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There aren't a lot of supportive places for men on Reddit to actually get advice unfortunately. Fuckin hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:54 AM
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He seems on point but this is exactly the treatment that hurts young men. "It's on you! You're insecure!!!" Like no, if your partner says she's with you and has your back and you have her back and then shit like that happens it hurts. Male or female. Damn people are just cruel as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:47 AM
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Yeah, then repeats the behaviour I reckon. Idk. She could have said "no thanks", she knew it wasn't important but yeah. Things get more complicated when you throw in drugs or alcohol, even pot. But ultimately conscientious behavior is the trait you want to look for in my experience and it's pretty well documented that it's an indicator of long term relationship success. Maybe you can focus on the conversation on that specifically and try to get her to understand that as opposed to the situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:43 AM
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Respect. I wanted to be clear because it can be very demoralizing. Conscientious is a huge indicator in long term relationships. Finding a partner high in that trait will bring a lot more relationship satisfaction or else you're constantly having to coach her as a child. : P.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:39 AM
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Try the men's rights sub because people here are going to roast you alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:35 AM
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This thread will get deleted but in short don't listen to advice here. Partners should not be friends with exes it isn't insecurity on your part it shows a like of boundaries. Also, she isn't conscientious. That is a big indicator for relationship failure. The internet hates men so of course you're going to get blamed for everything and told you're insecure. You're not though. Exs aren't friends and she could have just as easily said no thanks but she didn't want to, she wanted to smoke with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:35 AM
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Lol true. And yeah man when I used to OLD I had no friends on my media but posted content consistently. If women like you they will double respect discretion because for women any move is a social risk and they have to take that seriously. I was always the type of person to be quiet about things and not speak too much about my experiences and it was very much appreciated: p. I think there's probably nothing more unappealing to a woman than seeing a dude being like , "socially fluid" with many ot…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 05:36 PM
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They see it as personal because they only care about themselves. Lmao. They think the analogy is about them because they think the conversation is about them personally. It's literally that simple and dumb.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 04:38 PM
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It has absolutely no relevance. She objected because it hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:28 PM
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The commenters weren't being very civil at all. I was just matching the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:04 PM
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Np. The first chick I ever had sex with falsely accused me of rape even though she pressured me in to it lmao. Cops got involved and she got her ass whooped by other chicks at school. This was about 20 years ago now, almost, but It's a tale as old as highschool. I'm hoping the people dealing with these situations mostly came up before people became so much more indoctrinated by the "believe women" shit, and can exercise better judgment as a result, whereas young men like yourself have never know…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 02:18 PM
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Look, no one knows for sure what's going to happen that's true but this chick is obviously not just getting raped left and right and clearly unstable. Police can be bias and the mental indoctrination is pretty wild so it's understandable to be afraid but the objective information here strongly supports you. Without any real ability to pursue and a million red flags against her you're probably going to be ok. But nothing anyone here can say is going to take away that anxiety. Whatever happens jus…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 02:06 PM
1

50 chicks or less?!?!? Dude if you're trying to run even mediocre game you should be dedicating time to 3-4 chicks that you have actual potential with. 50??? WHY.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 01:56 PM
0

That's just not the reality but you're clearly not going to listen lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:06 PM
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I swear mods let posts like this through but stifle interesting debates to shift the perception of this subreddit against red pill issues. This shit is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:00 PM
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This is a debate forum you realize not just a place to insult people because you don't like what they say, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:54 PM
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If I look at this as an alien, which I'm not but it I was, I'd say that human males seem strong and resilient and that society encourages them to infantalize and cater to the human females volatile emotional states even at risk to their own safety. Fascinating species.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 12:52 PM
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9/10 guy: Ok. Her: No not you!!!
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:44 AM
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If mods are going to allow this misandry can I start calling people like you two nitwits names again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:41 AM
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Everything you do is masculine, because you, a man, are doing it "My dog isn't a real dog because he doesn't chase squirrels, why can't you be a real dog!" A man can only be a man and nothing else. Anything given from the outside is false, what comes from within is your own nature and a man is an animal like any other. If an animal's nature is crippled by abuse or otherwise, it is still that just damaged. So there are damaged men and healthy men but we are all still men. It sounds like the conce…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:12 PM
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You know what though, young women have a ridiculous amount of sexual power and it's palpable to older men. I think that it's criminal that we don't teach younger people to value their sexuality more. We encourage freedom and exploration but we don't encourage respect for how valuable and sacred sex is, so I think what happens with teenagers is they go through puberty and go insane with the biolgical power, which ofc they learn to control with maturity as we all do hopefully. But like this whole …
/r/MensRights04/04/23 09:58 PM
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I'm not saying I would either. Tbh I would choose the older version also haha. And especially for relationship material. But damn, idk. Maybe it's just my experience because I've been pursued by younger women on like 4 different occasions throughout my 20's and now early 30's, they just have a wild energy and there's no question about their sexual maturity and like "fertility", I guess you could look at it. Though that's not how I did. I think a sexual relationship with the same person at 27 wou…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 09:46 PM
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I'm not saying a smoking hot 18 year old is mature but if you're saying you wouldn't fuck 18 year old insert ridiculously hot celebrity if she was all over you and wanted you, that is cap, as the youth say.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 09:36 PM
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I mean it's really easy to say - if she's hot af you're probably good. The problem is that 16,17,18 year olds can all vary in attractiveness to looking totally under age and underdeveloped to being model levels of hot and there's a huge gradient of in between. A quick Google search can demonstrate this point really well and with sufficient questioning almost every man and woman would label a % of 15 year olds who were really mature objectively attractive. There's a picture that circulates on Red…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 09:15 PM
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The reason men are held accountable is because if some guy befriends a 13 year old and fucks her he can tell her to say to the police that she lied about her age in order to protect him, if it comes up. But I've had it happen to me in the past twice that a woman 17 lied about her age. Some of them even enjoy knowing that got away with the lie lmao. I only discovered after. This shit happens. Like OP said there are rare instances where 15 year old teenagers are athletic and appear very sexually m…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 09:04 PM
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It's so wild to me that this is the reality we live in, seeing you write it point blank but damn
/r/MensRights04/04/23 08:56 PM
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Your flair said no pill but you are clearly dystopian pilled and I for one enjoy it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:30 PM
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She will eye fuck you so hard you'll break in to a cold sweat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:26 PM
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Why would she lie? Why would a woman lie about being sexually assaulted? Are you seriously asking that? The rest is just another issue. You're conflating two issues - women lying and men raping. There's a different discussion to be had with each
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:25 PM
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When women are SA'd, the first question out of men's mouths is "what was she wearing". "What did she do to arouse him" "Why did she drink/go to the party/go to the bar" No it's usually "is she lying".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:14 PM
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people of all ages can be influenced/manipulated by factors besides their own needs, wants, and will. Regardless of that, they still make decisions and we hold them accountable for their role in events both legally and individually. There's nothing more to say. If you do the crime you do the time. If you date the guy you date the lie lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:11 PM
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really explain the concept of the "spiritual reward" being every bit as real and material as everything else in the universe. This just gave me crazy goosebumps man. I will say for the same reason that I've noticed it's got to be something to do with "genetic harmony", like things fit together in such a way it hits you at some level of DNA we can't begin to explain really or haven't explored scientifically yet, but it's definitely there. Respect and love to you and yours my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:09 PM
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Refusing to infantlize women is misogynistic. Lol. It appears as cruelty to the public now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:30 AM
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Most practical point imo. Don't walk into a church and expect to successfully convert people. Expect to be called a blasphemer and have your life ruined. Pick your battles my friends.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:53 AM
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Bold of you to equate 18 year olds to "literal children" and imply being attracted to them makes you a pedophile. Lmao. Manipulation can happen once or twice to a person but you never hear about men being manipulated or groomed by women because men tend to take agency and bounce. It still happens. Women choose to stay in abusive relationships because there's almost always a benefit they aren't willing to part with and they hope that if they stay they can work it out and maintain that benefit. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:43 AM
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It reminds me of invader Zim where the leaders are just called "my tallest". Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:39 AM
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Honestly though this is an interesting read on game theory. Adaptation to the system is a super attractive trait regardless because it shows possibly the strongest propensity for genetic success. Becoming adaptable and succeeding despite overwhelming odds = uniqueness and in the right context that is invaluable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:36 AM
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There it is, like clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:30 AM
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but thinking of her as a child unable to think for herself This happens a lot with guys who claim to be "in defense of women" also. Infantalizing them and eskewing any personal accountability. I think a lot of red pill types try to hold women more accountable for their bullshit and then many unsavory men see that as an opportunity to disown their own bullshit and blame it on women. It should be about holding all individuals accountable for their decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:21 AM
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I mean I agree with you in many ways. My only caveat to it is that men are historically incredibly easily manipulated by women. My own mother was at times very disrespectful to me and my own boundaries and when I pushed back my father (who was actually abusive af) saw it as a chance to prove himself and "defend her honor". It wasn't really a me problem in that regard since I was barely doing anything wrong (I was pretty introverted as a kid so sometimes it was objectively her being out of line).…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:36 PM
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Agreed. Anything too challenging gets screened and not posted and the jannys hound anyone they deem too red pill based on arbitrary enforcement of loosely fitting rules. This comment could get reprimanded as trolling because someone forgot their juice box and nappy time. Truly interesting debate topics are prevented from surfacing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:53 PM
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Brutal haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:50 PM
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You're basically saying it's ok to use personal attacks if you don't like the argument the person is presenting. So you're part of the problem. If someone says "I think all of X group of people is scum because ABC" Then even though you don't like it, you approach the argument instead of using personal attacks. That's how a debate works. In this context for example I can say all this or I can just call you a child and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:46 PM
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I'm not trolling I'm pointing out something useless, janny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:24 PM
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I think he's suggesting that there's other people besides his own cousins because there's a small community and his cousins aren't the only ones lmao..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:12 PM
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Make em laugh and shock them. Make them feel loved and seen and know if they ever need it that I will try to help. I don't have guy friends that often it happens rarely and they leave often but when I do I always cherish those relationships the most.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:37 AM
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This is true for men and not for women.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:35 AM
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I'm not going to disagree with the principle because there is absolutely truth to it. I just want to throw in for anyone reading that emotionally intense conversations over the phone are cancer for relationships. Definitely try to get on video call if you can't meet face to face. I would add this to any heartfelt conversation with a friend too it can be very difficult especially with a woman who is much more emotional. She's unlikely to verbalize what she's thinking and much more likely to demon…
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:32 AM
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"She cheated on him with the man with the Fanny pack and striped shirt???" Brutal.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 10:23 AM
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"Stop approaching women!" Scolds 7/10 women to <6 men who she feels she can bully. Women who say "don't approach women!" Only mean it for guys who aren't Chad. They just don't want to be bothered. That's the behaviour that makes men feel truly sub-human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:49 AM
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I'm a solid 6 these days for reference. Male. When I did OLD I would message women who had all kinds of undesirable personality traits and get a response fairly often. It wasn't always enthusiastic and submissive or aggressive like they would treat Chad but I would get a response. Low IQ ones would still try to treat me like a simp time to time and and laugh at them. Many others were just rude. But the point is she had literally hundreds of simps in her mailbox sending dick pics or saying "how a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:42 AM
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Female women of Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:35 AM
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Notice how every woman answering inevitably refuses to answer the question then derails YOUR thread and planned thought experiment to make it a brag about her own happy relationship so she appears better to those reading ? Lmao. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:25 AM
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How did you manage to turn this in to a brag about your own life? It's amazing really. Just answer the question or don't, you're not obligated to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:22 AM
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Tbh I'm just curious if you'd break up with the bf if your cuckold said it was hurting him deeply. Would you sacrifice that for him or expect him to sacrifice for you, in turn causing him pain? Would you feel significant pain without the bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:00 PM
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Poor guy. What if at a certain point he comes to some level of self growth and realizes that he wants an equal relationship, asking you to break up with the boyfriend? Would you do it? Assuming it was causing him significant shame. You do love him after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:57 PM
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And you've convinced your cuckold of this but are totally unaware of how exploitative it is. This is actually the embodiment of greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:38 AM
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So he's your cuckold basically. Do you pay the rent and split the bills? Just curious who does the majority of the heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:37 AM
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So long as it’s between two consenting adults and the men in these submissive roles gain more experience and confidence to help them with their future dating lives why is that wrong? It's heavy handed and exploitative. You're taking a group of people who has a very human need for connection and intimacy with the opposite gender and you have someone one party who has an absolute glut of wealth saying "you can accept the submissive role here and get some experience " It's like working for exposure…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:35 AM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:28 AM
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It's actually funny to try to see a euphemism built like this because it's so vividly untrue when contrasted with the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:33 AM
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Before incelswithouthate was banned I spent time amongst their people and learned that Infact, there are no true femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:31 AM
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Are you going to contribute anything or just mock from the side lines ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:19 AM
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"how dare you try to circumvent my own traumas just because it's what you want to talk about? Not everything is about you, honestly, the entitlement. The audacity. I don't know you ANYTHING and you trying to control the conversation is honestly a huge red flag" Posts to online group with screenshots of your profile
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:14 AM
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Most logical outcome. That being said, taking a look at the chadfishing outcomes especially the "child molestor chadfish" experiment results will tell you everything you need to know about OLD and the dating situation in general lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:12 AM
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If you're attractive you won't have to chase women. If you're not attractive you'll have to chase to a small degree but most of this happens via placement and being a decent person to spend time around. People are easily seduced by comfort and can become very happy in a relationship despite only average initial attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:10 AM
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