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Lol. Then you don’t empathize
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:32 PM
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A million zeros is still zero Anyway my point wasn’t a whining contest but that even a man quickly empathized with Women’s dating struggles online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:04 PM
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Men have done the reverse and came to the same conclusions women do. One guy made a profile at the request of an attractive woman he knew as she was very busy and asked him to screen, and within a week he was unable to keep up with the male inbox replies and began to feel disgusted and even violated and offended by many of their messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:26 AM
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Sure but if you decide you want them one day, which is very likely and very common, your situation would not be ideal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 05:20 AM
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I was arguing against your statement that she can’t walk very far. That’s stupid, she’s not fat enough to be immobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:18 AM
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That’s dumb, she’s overweight, not on my 600lb life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:43 AM
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What will happen when you want kids? I’d get out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 11:50 PM
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I wish but he usually does keto. I love to bake bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:17 PM
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My husband insists on doing those things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:09 PM
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It is quaint that you believe that grandmothers didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:04 AM
1

Impressive gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:28 PM
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Women are black pilled about the fact that men are extremely visual and therefore female looks matter. this used to be default common human knowledge. Men do not get blackpilled by default because women are less visual and don’t require as much superficial hotness from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:38 PM
1

I assume you went to school? There are lots of ancient writings on world stopping beauty of various women but the colloquial 1-10 scale came about in the late 20th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:24 PM
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It be like that, these are facts lol why do you think only men have these breakdowns over looks which they don’t figure out until they are a certain age? Girls know this stuff all along. It’s not a morality judgment it’s just a fact and if you’re intellectually honest you’d see that. Only men are “realizing” looks matter. Women always knew. Don’t project your irrational feelings into me. Staying a fact isn’t “loathing”. It’s just like men grow up far more conscious of the importance of career th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:22 PM
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Women are blackpilled because they are by nature blackpilled. They don’t come to the realization, they only care about looks and they project that on men, which is why they mock men who don’t just get it. Ahahahaha omg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:07 PM
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Why would women sit around saying wah wah I’m only a 6? You know dating isn’t a math equation? Especially since male thirst short circuits everything. this idea that women need to know their place on a number scale and behave accordingly is bizarre. I assure you women know their own flaws, flaws men have never even heard of. I don’t understand what good you think should come of sitting around limiting their actions around them unless you simply believe women are getting above their station. A bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:01 PM
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A numbers scale is one tiny random modern autistic way to rate looks. That doesn’t mean women can’t tell that a hot guy is hot. Half of why some reject the scale is there are personal tastes for what is hot, but that doesn’t mean people are blind. And we are also discussing women’s OWN self image here not what they think about men rating. The 1-10 scale is just a meme from recent years and yet somehow through all of history people have been able to tell when someone is good looking. Looks are fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:37 PM
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So women think looks don’t matter because some of them don’t like to use weaponized autism to rate other women? Women are hyper aware of their own appearance as compared to other women and in the eyes of men, a rating system has nothing to do with it. Nor do Women’s dating choices reflect their own self image about their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:30 PM
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If you’re talking about incels or unattractive men I’m still right. The fact is that “black pill” men can go through years before “being black pilled” about looks and then spend ages being scandalized about the injustice. Women can’t “become black pilled” because they are born black pilled and cannot coast through any part of life without the conscious awareness of looks always intruding. It’s not the same for men. Women would never “become” aware of how much looks matter and would never start a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:23 PM
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So? That’s one measuring system.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:19 PM
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You’re misunderstanding. Women are exceedingly aware of the importance of appearance from the moment they have conscious memory. Only a man could ever imagine waltzing through decades of life before figuring this out. No woman has to tell another women she is fat or has a plain face or no waist or a big nose, they don’t “spin yarns” by not bringing this up—their friendship is literally a momentary break from the reality that she is hyper aware of those flaws at all times and never feels okay abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:19 PM
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This. Only a man could think women have no conscious thought or awareness of their bodies and physical appearance. Because only men can even fathom a life ever one isn’t completely conscious of one’s own appearance 24/7 to an excruciating degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:01 AM
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Then you’ve clearly only read a fraction of the fora talk or only retained the relevant part. And even if it is appearance related it’s in relation to self image or their married sex life, a random man calling their hips “reasonable” won’t fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:26 PM
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The complaint isn’t visual, it never was solely visual, that’s male solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:13 PM
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Leave him and marry another doctor
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 05:09 PM
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Telling on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:35 AM
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Yikes. Hope the gf dumps him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:10 PM
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Example: In TrueOffMyChest ANY time I post anything even alluding to dating and men’s disadvantages it doesn’t make it 10 minutes before being removed as “off topic.” Bruh how often are you doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:27 AM
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That’s a bit of an odd leap to conclusions. Negotiations are won by those most willing to walk away; women often are most willing to walk away and are not thirst-slaves like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:23 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:49 PM
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If men were just lonely they’d be happy to be friend zoned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:09 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:47 PM
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Just be an attractive doctor, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:48 PM
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Well educated man is absolutely not a dog whistle for high earning man. Education levels and types are strong class markers and many people are most compatible with someone from a similar class background. Upper class people tend to have more education in humanities and those areas that do not immediately translate to high earning careers, compared with working class people, who may have great education in a trade. Plenty of women over 40 “give men healthy children”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:52 PM
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One would hope you wait until it’s clear to cross…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:44 PM
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You’ll change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:51 PM
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I Hate true crime. I grew up in a city with bad crime even thought my area was the nicest area. Real crime was enough to red pill me, since I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:49 PM
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It’s not about him, it’s about her. Bf material = higher stakes and more to lose = she is self protective
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:09 PM
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Why would a guy be aware of this Should women make all choices based on preserving her chastity for her future spouse she hasn’t met yet? Many religious people say so, are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:00 PM
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There’s nothing impressive about opening your legs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:59 PM
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she doesn’t care if she looks easy to some guy who isn’t boyfriend material What’s the confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:59 PM
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“Time off”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:57 PM
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It has everything to do with the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:57 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:50 AM
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Gr8 b8 m8
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:36 AM
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Whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:31 PM
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I am able to read fast
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:55 PM
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Your honor I forgot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:55 PM
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Aw I was just quoting them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:27 PM
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This is so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:25 PM
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Please explain what’s bad about the common sense advice to not dump her life story on guys or lead with her inexperience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:33 PM
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Lol 🐕
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:58 PM
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Chihuahuas are more aggressive than pit bulls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:48 PM
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Let’s all bank our safety on statistics so that young single internet men don’t feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:48 PM
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Because they don’t actually care about other men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:47 PM
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Lol if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:47 PM
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Young men’s insistence on needling women to let their guard down even online is very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:45 PM
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This but ironically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:33 PM
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Not if she takes other advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:26 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:26 PM
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I agree with the comment about meet up events
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:26 PM
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So you think she should offer herself up like a lamb to the slaughter to an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:25 PM
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In my opinion don’t listen to the people who say you aren’t allowed to date until you work on yourself or whatever. You learn about dating by dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:19 AM
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She’s 26 she doesn’t need to keep delaying dating to work on herself, she needs to try dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:18 AM
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You should avoid disclosing it up front for sure. If they ask too much at the beginning they’re a weirdo anyway. If they ask eventually you can say you didn’t meet anyone special yet. Withholding or being vague isn’t lying. Eventually if you are actually in a relationship or engaged it’s okay to reveal to your comfort, just don’t lead with it. A lot of people of your gen think you have to have this full confessional of your whole life with any new person you’re dating, but you don’t. You’re enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:10 AM
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Be careful to avoid men who fetishize inexperienced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:37 AM
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That’s fair enough for other people who jump on the chain. Fundamentally though blocking imo is a right for anyone who has an account. In practice most people seem to use it only when the discussion has already ended and devolved into ad homs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:33 AM
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Easier to stay thin if you have cameras on your body and it’s your livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:59 AM
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Porn stars are mostly ordinary looking women who keep thin and are young. They have more surgery than most guys imagine and cake on a level of makeup that would leave most guys here pearl clutching if they even knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:22 PM
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No wonder some of y’all have trouble with dating if you think forcing people to interact with you who don’t want to by calling up the government is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:52 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:32 PM
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They want a woman who is a slut for only them and a virginal prude for every other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah, I have no desire to “just attack the men” Dr. Freud But I did notice you said nothing about dads raising their sons right, only moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:01 PM
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Do you know women who say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:50 AM
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Does this woman exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:50 AM
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Do you know women who say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:49 AM
1

Do you know women who say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:49 AM
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Do you know women who say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:48 AM
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I can’t read that book, I was already born with that gift and the book would make me paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:44 AM
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I didn’t say let’s all tell people to be good. but the only conclusion from your comment is men can’t improve or be rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:34 AM
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Well that too Other gems…the 1950s were all of traditional history In the before time a wife sat at home managing the servants at Downton Abby while her husband toiled in the mines The notion that loser men were ever handed wives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:23 AM
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So you believe men do not have agency or control over base animal instincts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:21 AM
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you should see what blackpillers know about history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:18 AM
1

Lol And yet you should see the accusations of sexism and insanity when women say they do avoid men who seem dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:21 AM
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Oh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:47 PM
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Yup that is how the market works in most cases If you have ever tried to do a deal of any sort you see how offering something too overtly or cheap goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:28 PM
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Don’t want a study I want their opinion written as a book
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:27 PM
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Women have to filter through the ones who aren’t serious and use girl game to find the good ones. As everyone has been trying to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:10 PM
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Yes lol male thirst and male need for a helpmeet always throws a loop into the math Maybe she isn’t pursued by “rich pretty stimulant-addicted vain finance bro” but that isn’t what everyone wants No matter how much people wish women to have the same dating troubles as men, it won’t be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:57 AM
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They make it seem less frivolous because they can afford to invest in antiques instead of buying junk on Amazon, but they’re not ascetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:55 AM
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Same difference. They don’t need to do that. That isn’t their problem. You’re thinking like a man who dates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:13 AM
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It’s very accurate, describes life for emancipated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:12 AM
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Everything you’re saying is true for men, it’s not true for women who date men and that’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:08 AM
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Women aren’t men. They do not need to peacock around attracting, they need to filter wisely through the abundant men. That’s the way it is even for women you personally find off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:07 AM
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FDS is the tips
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:37 AM
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Why do you think women and men are the same? FDS is big game talking women who had poor judgment in the past and offered way too much. They need to work on offering less until a guy is serious, not figuring out how to peacock for men. They don’t talk about how to offer good things appearance-wise because all women know that since always and it would be like reminding people to breathe or eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:41 AM
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Exactly! I was very intimidated and cautious and there was even a time I lived in actual nun mode for a while. But I knew it’s what I wanted and it was worth the effort to me. People just need to admit they don’t want it and that’s fine instead of deriding the whole institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:34 AM
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I mean only if you want kids obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:32 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:28 PM
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If he’s a giant miser yes it’s a turn off. Even really poor guys don’t have to be miserly. It’s an attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:22 PM
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Of course they can imagine it. I lived in nun mode by choice for years. Most men who bitch about touch starvation aren’t talking about non-sexual touch like hugs and massage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:49 PM
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So you got her entire 20s with no kids? Time to get on that. Not too late to start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:41 PM
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Freedom’s just another word for nothing left to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:34 PM
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All kids grow up to be drug addicted!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:00 PM
0

Can you actually unironically write a book on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:59 PM
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Source? Do you have a peer reviewed source proving that this place really needs to crack down on people that post studies non-stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:48 PM
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Eh I wish that were true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:47 PM
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Yeah. For me I know the risks of marriage for sure very well but still seemed worth it to me. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:46 PM
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A lot of it seems personality driven. There were several divorces in my family including a very toxic one with my parents. You’d think I’d want to avoid marriage like the plague but I always hoped for it, I just was more cautious and took longer than average because I wanted to be sure. Then you see people on here who don’t have any major personal trauma around marriage but they’re absolutely intimidated by it. I think they just aren’t oriented to it so they make up reasons why it’s bad for ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:37 PM
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I guess. Life is full of risks, my feeling is if you think the risks on a certain path are that high you just don’t want it that bad, which is fine. I’m never going skydiving because the risk reward balance is way off for me, but that’s because I also have no desire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:35 PM
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There is another answer, have kids when you’re a little older and financially secure. It’s not like the only choice is young parent or no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:33 PM
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People sure are super worried about their imaginary future wife and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:30 PM
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This tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:29 PM
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Only crying in despair or cowardice Otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:34 PM
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The black pill has gone mainstream now. Regular guys who are slightly awkward identify as black pill because “it just means looks matter.” They weren’t present for the history of rage and violence from incels and think I’m making it up when I explain it. Men somehow can reach adulthood without having realized that appearance matters, and are so distraught to learn this they join a subculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:07 AM
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Some women are high libido in relationships but aren’t the same as men with just a general overall desire for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:21 PM
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That kind of thinking just sounds like someone who isn’t that into sex or has to have a few hours to get in the mood. Actual sex can be fast if you are someone who is generally up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:27 PM
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It’s low for high libido people and high for low libido people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:26 PM
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I told her, jokingly, I was worried I would come home some day and see her humping the couch or a line of men stretching out our front door waiting for their turn. She didn’t laugh and said she was worried about it too. Lol F bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:25 PM
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You can have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:57 PM
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I do have close friendships. My husband is my closest friend but I also have platonic friends and that’s fine. I just don’t define it as you do, I’m not planning to run around having crazy nights out at my age with some buddy. You decided that’s deep and I think that can be extremely shallow and isn’t deep by default. My female friendships are actually deep and meaningful to me. Most of them are aunts SILs etc but also friends. But you think they are not valid because we share female stuff about…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:56 PM
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Why on earth would I try to have some weird platonic yet somehow romantic friendship with a member of the sex I’m not attracted to and don’t feel romance towards when I could just HAVE A BOYFRIEND / HUSBAND and have the friendship attraction romance commitment and intensity all together. For me romance is more important and with only friendship in my life I feel incomplete and/or have to channel the rest of my feelings towards my faith. I will never understand this modern strange over idealizati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:43 AM
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Well no I didn’t have the worlds best magic friends ever who act like more than family and most people don’t. But I’m not one of those friend romanticizing people. Romance is incredibly important to me, and friendship by default lacks the full extent of romance. That is why I can’t be my full genuine self, except with people who like to have Meta discussions about the topic maybe. Knowing someone is not about how much they’ve opened up to you or every therapist would be closer to their patients …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:21 AM
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Yes of course I was more genuine with him than my friends. Firstly I did not sleep with my friends so that intimacy was not created. There is also more to openness and connection than just over sharing. There is truly being a partner with someone snd knowing their vulnerabilities. A huge point of marriage for me is our being fully vulnerable and our real selves in a way that friends only get glimpses. Even if just by virtue of the fact that we’re together more. My husband knows me far better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:53 AM
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Time isn’t the only way to get to know someone, I would find it a bit sad if my friends knew me better than my husband does just bc I met them before. He definitely knows me way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:40 AM
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Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:11 AM
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They have tied their masculinity to validation from casual sex, they aren’t even that high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:36 AM
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It’s part of a larger effect of technology and the internet drastically changing the world. I think people concern trolling about only OF stuff and not all of that together or the effects of porn on young people probably don’t care as much as they pretend to. It is a response to the market yes which is new tech. But a lot of guys here really believe most young women are on OF or have considered it “just like all their friends” and that’s pretty untrue. It’s not new, the technology is new though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:30 AM
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Bummer dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:21 AM
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How do they know you’re a guy? Lots of guys don’t have any of this on their feeds or targeted ads. Everyone just gets their hobbies and interests targeted at them. I think guys don’t understand how targeted ads work Idk effects on society I don’t see it affected society at all bc it’s very easy to avoid. Selling sex is the oldest profession, this is just new technology. Maybe women will be safer and not have as many pimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:21 AM
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Oh to answer your q a lot of men seem in denial that their feeds are not random.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:34 AM
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I just am saying I don’t believe it’s “in your face everywhere”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:30 AM
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Sure but they do that in a paid session, not for free on twitter! The tweets were likely sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:01 AM
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Weird I wouldn’t have even heard of OF it not for this sub. It seems like people have to go looking for it still.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:01 AM
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You could for the male clientele maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:56 PM
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It was one of those internet things where a bunch of guys plot it together
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:47 PM
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Idk but it does seem random which is a valid annoyance. I don’t have any problem with a self employed person ever daring to vent about the challenges of non salaried work, even if they are rich or out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:59 PM
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Okay so you don’t like capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:30 PM
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Idk I didn’t follow it closely but it was very clear that a huge number of men just assumed of women would say “oh taxes? Oops I forgot”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 PM
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We call this advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 PM
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That isn’t how souls works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:38 PM
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That’s is literally what the simps want and pay for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:37 PM
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You’re just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:36 PM
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Utterly delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:36 PM
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You know your feeds are curated by you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:17 PM
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Where did people get the idea they don’t pay taxes or report their income?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:16 PM
1

She was complaining and confused about why twitter censored her SFW post without a reason, which is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:16 PM
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The “make only fans women pay taxes” meme was so ridiculously funny. People just assumed that not one single one of those OF women had ever realized they have to pay taxes. It’s like they just figured out finally that e thots are real citizens and don’t just live on the internet so they projected that. “You can’t live online in a fantasy world! I’m reporting you!” Yeah okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:13 PM
1

Gay men are famously pickier about looks and more catty and willing to say so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:07 PM
3

Male pornstars generally talk like normal people and seem mentally normal, while girls doing the same stuff are depressed wrecks of a person who are drug addicts and often end up committing suicide.why? If you think those things don’t happen to male porn stars I have news
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:06 PM
2

and the men who pay them don’t harm their own souls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:04 PM
3

“Artificial demand” isn’t a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:03 PM
3

It’s an accurate and perfect comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:59 PM
2

Any comment on the souls of the men who pay for the content?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:58 PM
1

I’ve never ever gotten an only fans ad You know ads are targeted right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:56 PM
5

That is not why she was complaining on twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:54 PM
1

Where do you shop?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:40 PM
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Google literalism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:07 PM
2

What does “deserve” have to do with love?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:18 PM
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Maybe the internet was a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:17 PM
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Thanks I have no life experience I literally have never done anything with my life until you gave me the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:17 PM
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She isn’t independently wealthy, her mother supports them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:18 PM
3

Idk I’m American so I don’t considering exclusive partnership to be “hoarding”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:16 PM
4

True. I saw some 16 year old post a photo on MGTOW of some trees or something and say “eh lads so great not to have any woman nagging me” as if a 16 year old knows what it’s like to have a nagging wife. Instead of being adults and telling him to get off of MGTOW because he’s too young, they all went along and encouraged him. Really sad and irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:15 PM
1

Okay. How can anything to do with love be about “entitlement”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:13 PM
1

How can nature be about “entitlement?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:08 PM
2

Lol 😂 hahahahahaha ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:36 PM
0

Highly depends on your job and work and your hobbies and personality. For me office jobs were mind numbingly boring. I do enjoy work without a boss or a schedule though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:11 AM
6

Don’t listen to the men here. Find a man of your faith and marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:02 AM
1

I have BTC and ETH, they aren’t doing great this week but my plan was to leave it alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:32 AM
3

Uhhh hahaha. Exactly the opposite. Y’all astound me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:32 AM
2

A lot of guys here come off like they don’t like women. Like sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:25 AM
2

Oh you can predict crypto? What should I get?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:01 AM
1

I did
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:36 AM
1

If you’re still fabricating that my only exposure to the world is tv I can’t keep talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:36 AM
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I mean the culture clash is real and there is truth to the idea of people being taken advantage of for green cards or naive western men not understanding. All I’m saying is the type of guy who believes a foreign woman will automatically be better because she’s traditionally doesn’t tend to understand the flip side of tradition. It will be things he doesn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:42 PM
1

I never said they weren’t scripted dear it’s just there is truth to them. It isn’t silly. Maybe 1/10 attempts at this work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:29 PM
1

It’s been a while but motorcycles, “sapiosexual,” group pics with other women, atheist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:27 PM
2

There’s some truth to this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:24 PM
1

Nice backtrack
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:08 PM
1

I literally worked for the places that made those shows I’ve also lived in other countries have you? Please tell me more about your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:08 PM
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It’s not inherently rewarding Drop the snobby schtick about omg how come some people haven’t traveled omg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:26 PM
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Watch the documentary love me There are plenty of other examples
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:25 PM
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💯 Everything is high risk if you’re a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:58 PM
1

Most women don’t have escort friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:52 PM
1

So much for the debate sub. If you had evidence of this I’d love to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:35 PM
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Nobody thinks that. Why do you think changing your scenery and cultural background and having a passport = enlightenment? It’s just a lifestyle privilege. It’s like bragging about being more rich, makes you rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:30 PM
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Bummer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:29 PM
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No, nobody is. You’re misinterpreting people on that thread laughing at men’s naïveté about foreign women for being upset or bent out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:28 PM
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Men are the only ones who despise bottom of the barrel women for even existing in their line of sight. Or any woman who isn’t 18-25. Women just ignore the worst guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:28 PM
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Its interesting how naive some guys are about muh submissive foreign women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:38 PM
1

No one’s bent out of shape about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:04 PM
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Those sluts marry frat man whores and would never end up talking to guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:01 PM
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I didn’t know this about the paid features and rigging.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:53 PM
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🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:50 PM
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Idk why anyone thinks Asian or EE women also can’t spot a neck beard weeb who just “loves submissive women”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:50 PM
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I’ve traveled a lot and lived abroad. People who think travel is magic are so obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:46 PM
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When men are bitchy they call it social analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:45 PM
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Very true about Anglo country cultural differences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:15 PM
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Or maybe we just know what we’re talking about and that guys don’t have a full understanding of what a traditional woman actually is, in her personality and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:14 PM
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Seems like a projection. Most women just don’t think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:10 PM
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Just being a nerd isn’t the kind of guy we’re talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:09 PM
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Hey that’s not totally fair to say they only want money. If they marry the western guy they also want babies immediately. And also money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:04 PM
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Why aren’t you with the loveliest girl you ever met?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:57 PM
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Indeed. Every guy thinking about this plan should watch the show first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:56 PM
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Except question indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:45 PM
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In the Hollywoods Hilllllls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:43 PM
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You just see the reality more than the Russian mail order bride guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:38 PM
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It’s so funny when western men marry traditional women and are shocked when she spends all her time talking to her mom and sisters, screams at him to give her a baby, only has sex for procreation, and demands expensive gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:35 PM
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They’re really not, people make fun of them bc the current generation doesn’t feel forced to marry the first person who shows up. Boomers did and so they have their memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:12 PM
1

They don’t categorize those women as women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:45 PM
2

Nah, that’s against my religion and personal values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:26 AM
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I didn’t do that and they still used their imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:14 PM
1

How do women give false hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:13 PM
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Do you know how men react when women are honest up front?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:54 PM
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This is kind of true for a hypothetical woman who always dated in a very shallow way with lots of first dates, still idealizes the idea of A Husband without regard for who he is, and kinda just stays immature. Any women I knew who was single by 30 though had had some kind of life shift, or serious event in their 20s so they inherently gained a more detached attitude towards marriage. They usually had called off engagements or ended serious LTRs or even got divorced. Catholic women also often liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:35 PM
1

That may be true in our weird Protestant based culture with no role for women over 30 who aren’t mommies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:28 PM
1

You want a bunch of dudes to surround you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:34 PM
1

the privilege of being assaulted by random dicks on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:29 PM
1

The moral fables on here get more and more funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:20 PM
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Funny they can’t see the privilege inherent in the viewpoint that all that you’re missing is sexual access and that it’s so oppressive, because every other real struggle is not applicable to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:19 PM
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I think it is a bit insecure or weird to not assume you’re your partner’s very best. It should be that good. That said, it’s bitchy and mean to tell someone they aren’t. And it’s weird to date someone you think isn’t the best. It’s also dumb to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:49 PM
1

It really seems it’s just easier for them to never try so they can’t risk failing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:17 PM
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Your first statement is extremely untrue And your second statement is somewhat inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:03 PM
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Everyone on earth would try if there was a guarantee of cash and prizes, the entire thing about trying is there isn’t a guarantee and you do it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:17 AM
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I don’t believe in that, if you can get the person they’re not too high. But if you can’t get anyone and aren’t ok being alone maybe consider re evaluating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:01 AM
1

I’ve been telling guys this for a long time on here and they deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:40 AM
1

You mean you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:13 AM
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Yeah and entire other religions don’t require war to fulfill the tenets of the faith and in fact call for peace
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:38 PM
2

I’m starting to understand that this is my story too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:52 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:50 PM
2

😅why so serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:49 PM
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It’s a reference
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:49 PM
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Why, what’s your reasoning? That’s like saying happily married people would never get super into football results, you’re arbitrarily deciding some hobbies are okay and some are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:48 PM
1

Same!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:47 PM
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Yes lol it is anthropology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:46 PM
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No dude and people who think everything here is from personal experience and trauma are ruining the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:46 PM
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This sub used to have other men besides incels Also if you’re talking about Reddit this sub allows far more free speech and real debate than most Reddit subs which are in total lockstep groupthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:44 PM
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No u. Why are you here in a way that has any pertinence to your relationship status? What reason does anyone have to come here except an academic interest in discussing human relationships from a meta perspective and an interest in keeping up with current trends and subcultures? It’s not “weird” to have a fascination with human relationships, it’s a field of study like anything else and people who want to talk about it will talk about it. What’s disturbing to me is learning some of you are here …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:38 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:05 PM
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“I have very high standards because I think you can and should do better.” Vs. “I accept that you’re an inferior irrational self serving animalistic subspecies with vicious traits! Don’t you see this means I’m nice!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:35 PM
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Delusional and obviously untrue Are you aware of the tenets of the faith
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:08 PM
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Nope no way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:05 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:04 AM
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Hot funny dad material who is into me and is Christian Also someone who isn’t angsty so that when I’m inclined to brood he kicks me out of it instead of weeping about it. So my husband basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:03 AM
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No, I’m not talking about buscemi or Davidson myself in talking about random regular guys I’ve seen in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:00 AM
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The religion when practiced with orthodoxy will elicit violence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:53 AM
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Yeah especially Muslim people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:24 AM
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😂best of luck never give up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:47 AM
1

Yes thank you some guys have a sick look that’s hot it’s not just me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:40 AM
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Man that’s so true some guys have that look like they’re sick or withdrawing from something and it’s somehow hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:38 AM
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That’s really silly, people use phones to talk to people all over the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:51 PM
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Yup People don’t know how hardcore Christian women vet and assess actual Christian men, atheists trying to LARP don’t stand a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:51 PM
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Indeed. Some incels will even reject women who are at their house it’s really something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:07 PM
2

“Telling him off” You made up a backstory, he didn’t necessarily fire anyone and he may have not been speaking to a subordinate at all. Maybe he was speaking to another egotistical CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:07 PM
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Successfully? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:06 PM
3

They don’t know what incels are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:30 PM
1

It always is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:26 PM
1

There was an article by a guy who made an OLD profile for his good looking nanny (per her request) and he said he immediately got burnt out and had to develop ruthless filtering methods and all the low value attention got frustrating very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:25 PM
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The point is good luck finding many women like that who aren’t also religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:59 PM
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They think they will go to church as atheists and fool the hardcore believing women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:59 PM
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It’s more that they have to jump on social opportunities and get out of their heads I am sure that Love in the Time of Coronavirus must be harder to handle, socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:46 PM
2

Well they didn’t say it was bad if you’re super gay for Chad’s mandible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:40 PM
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You’re the one who is saying nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:39 PM
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It’s expanded enough they all just think it means “can’t get a gf” or “looks matter” and don’t even know about incel communities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:07 PM
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I can’t believe I’ve lived long enough to see the incels go from possum to otter and I can’t believe anyone would fight for their right to identify as incel, it’s deliberately choosing to give up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:04 PM
4

The Muslim religion is inclined to violence yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:03 PM
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I’ll marry B for his Chadvestments and secretly date A because I’m actually Esmeralda from notre dame and I love taking pity on deformed guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 PM
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I choose normal cute guy C and now I’ll hear all about how guy C is a figment of my imagination and I need to get with the real world and face my true choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:55 PM
0

Why is a man having a backbone messed up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:18 AM
2

💯 an honest reply on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:17 AM
1

It just goes to show how sheltered men can be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:54 AM
4

Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:27 PM
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Sounds like you’re amazing at hooking up with hot chicks so what’s the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:22 PM
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Why on earth would a single person come here for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:11 PM
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Yeah and it’s not all the same guys geniuses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:09 PM
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B b but Leo DiCaprio!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:08 PM
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I’m so glad I am old enough to have missed this trend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:06 PM
3

Good luck to men who go gay in hopes their looks won’t matter as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:54 PM
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Okay honey child whatever you want to think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:23 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand any other reason for being here and am concerned for anyone who thinks it’s an advice sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:58 PM
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What are YOU getting out of it if you aren’t happy? Are you saying you come here seeking life advice and wisdom? I’d advise against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:56 PM
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. Why should your marital status have anything to do with PPD? I’ve always been here because I’m nerdy about human relationships and enjoy discussing the topic in a way that bores normal people just like someone discussing stamps collections in great detail is better off discussing that with their stamp community. I genuinely do not understand what your marital status has to do with PPD. Are people coming here for life advice? That’s a very bad idea. I do not understand what you are “getting fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:54 PM
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It was a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:51 PM
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Legs > abs for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:50 PM
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Honestly I feel a bit proud that I’ve often been accused of being a red or black pill man and a man hating FDSer on the same day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:50 PM
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I think the guy is dead wrong and a lot of ppd women have big ass titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:49 PM
2

Then be cool with women saying no small guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:42 PM
4

Some incels say that penises are more glorious and aesthetic than gross vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:41 PM
1

You have no case
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:37 PM
3

This is true tbh men also have a “wife” body type, usually, average height and above and wide hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:28 PM
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You usually say no “old” chicks though which is not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:26 PM
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I wouldn’t let my son marry a stripper single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:25 PM
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You’re right, in reality a lot of them are low t or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:23 PM
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Found the incel virgin short dick neck beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:22 PM
0

I don’t engage trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:19 PM
5

Not true. I’m lucky to be hourglass but believe me many women do not have that shape and can’t do anything about it even if they become anorexic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:09 PM
0

Yup loser mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:06 PM
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Tell me your own age and why you’re asking and I’ll consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:06 PM
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They all have close to ideal WHR, it’s basically all the exact same standard. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:04 PM
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It’s true, men require the ideal WHR and proportions for women of any size and there are zero apple shaped women on that list. And all of them are young. Yup sounds right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:03 PM
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This is why I think look “found the right spouse” is the ideal criteria over age and calculations, all that ends up moot even though they do factor in of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:59 PM
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Motte and Bailey again, nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:58 PM
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I didn’t suggest that it should be done differently, it shouldn’t. just that the actors do end up looking absurdly older then their characters. You should see Riverdale. And then see what those actors looks like with braces and acne and baby fat at the actual ages they play. I think people just forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:58 PM
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Not super relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:56 PM
0

External locus of control and blaming outside people for your own sins, typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:56 PM
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YW! I can’t knock dating apps since I met my husband on one but it wasn’t a hookup app and we were both seeking something very specific, I was only on the app briefly and he immediately asked me out in person. But yes I would avoid tinder or mindless swiping apps and do not let a woman text you for weeks, meet up soon because you cannot gauge chemistry except in person. It’s fine to be proud of success. I’m just saying be discreet and cautious about emphasizing it too much in terms of finances o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:13 PM
-1

Wah wah I’m sorry you don’t know what incels actually believe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:10 PM
1

I don’t care but I do correct them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:09 PM
-1

Nobody says that, they tell you how to maximize your potential not that “looks don’t matter”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:09 PM
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this is true, skincare and procedures and lifestyle have massively shifted aging rate and people still base their ideas on very outdated concepts, like from a century ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:08 PM
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Idk if I should tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:08 PM
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Eh the opposite is kinda true too, being free in your youngest years and not being a lonely empty nester at 50 just when you really start to appreciate why family matters more then doing cool stuff. There’s a reason young parents all start pushing for grandkids when their kids grow up. If that’s your choice it’s fine but it’s a little delusional to pretend 50 will ever be the new 20 or that if I go travel in my 60s it’ll be the same as going in my 20s. It’s all the same in the end so people shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:03 PM
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Then look for a trustworthy woman and don’t be too overtly flashing your career success right away. Don’t be miserly and lie but don’t flaunt it and make yourself vulnerable. I agree older parents aren’t a big deal. Also you should know your personal beliefs and values and seek someone with the same values who agrees on raising potential kids the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:01 PM
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Nobody can decide that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:59 PM
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Women have always known this is the way things are about looks for both genders and have accepted it since we were small children. What’s mind boggling to women is how pampered and sheltered so many men must be to reach adulthood to be traumatized by what is an obvious basic fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:53 PM
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Apparently this is news
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 PM
2

Do you think it confuses them to think women are older or younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 PM
1

I agree, the actors who play high schoolers in tv shows are also ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:50 PM
1

When I was younger I got age gap comments, now that we’re older it’s not directly about the age gaps or “grooming” but it’s often women who try to copy the butthurt trp men and bring up male fertility or imply older men are gross and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:43 PM
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Didn’t say it was
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:34 PM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:34 PM
2

🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:27 PM
2

I don’t know the exact ages, but I’m agreeing with you. They play really young and then hit a certain age and overnight do MILF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:23 PM
3

We know but the point remains
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:21 PM
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I’m not a porn expert but it’s both no? they say they’re teen when they’re 22, 22 when they’re 30, and then on a dime start doing MILF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:21 PM
1

Maybe it’s the bluntness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:15 PM
1

Okay well I’m not discussing those women UK isn’t really continental Europe but ok. But culturally I found that regardless of marriage rates the culture including gender roles is def more old fashioned than the US. A young married American women from a small town is still more outspoken and willful than an English gf is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:15 PM
1

No look up otters vs possums
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:13 PM
0

Everyone thinks that on here for some reason. Not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:13 PM
0

Couldn’t be me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:58 PM
1

It literally takes one second to look up the facts I am describing. I’m sorry you’re all ignorant but I’ve followed the incel movement. It’s gone Otter right now none of you know what it actually means. But the facts don’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:57 PM
1

Wrong on both counts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:42 PM
1

I don’t have time for commas in the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:41 PM
1

You’re barking up the wrong tree as I’m married to a ten years older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:32 PM
2

No one counts aging in denial bachelors in their data gathering on this btw so no one cares if you do that. The patriarchs who actually run the world will continue to see you as nobody and keep their daughters away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:28 PM
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It’s also funny bc the other women could be 30+ and the guy looks more like 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:28 PM
9

And this elderly 30 year old women you can’t stop thinking about—is she in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:27 PM
2

I’m doing non risky stuff, what kind of man is afraid of a less than 1% risk and can’t handle any kind of challenge? Couldn’t be me or anyone I am involved with Thank you for admitting you have absolutely no knowledge on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:26 PM
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How many kids do you have? And I don’t “think” this I know what is actually happening outside of google and rage spaces online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:21 PM
1

Yes it is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:14 PM
2

I know more than you, stop trying. They are not high risk by default nor are they treated as such by default. Actual real doctors as opposed to online freaks who are so mad their dicks aren’t wet this one sided alarmist narrative is all they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:14 PM
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Oh my god I can’t deal with you idiots who don’t know anything about the subculture you espouse Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:12 PM
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I’m not talking about women who don’t get proposals. So you’re back to talking about ugly British women which I’m not discussing. London is not as modern as you’d think. I also spent plenty of time in the Uk but I’m talking about in America and lifelong cultural messages not snapshots from uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:11 PM
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Okay so they’ll lie and do a motte and Bailey That’s not what an incel is and never was. It’s really obnoxious to be ignorant of the meaning of the words you use. Stop calling yourself an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:10 PM
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The reason is you are born with millions of eggs and most of them go away long before having kids. You need like maybe 3-10 depending on your preferences. I am from America women aren’t having deformed kids we know to take prenatal vitamins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:09 PM
-1

What? The point was they pretend not to see those women when they whine about no good women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:07 PM
0

Nothing to me as long as you’re honest and accept the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:06 PM
1

Yeah and they died a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:06 PM
1

Nah the guy who went around personally attacking a strangers kids character because he needs to hate women is really hinged
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:06 PM
1

Yes because you’re new It’s what I described
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:09 PM
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You sound like someone who thinks wearing a poncho makes you a hippy or dying your hair makes you punk. It’s no skin off my back if you want to identify as incel because it’s gone mainstream enough that you can ignore the actual factual reality of the core beliefs of the movement or group or subculture or whatever you want to call it. But it doesn’t change these actual beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:03 PM
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I am quite certain I have researched the science more than you and your weird non western creepy bias ever has. No one cares what gross 🤮 non western “doctors” have to say and my kid is already an infinitely better person than you will ever be in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:01 PM
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It didn’t mean anything or pertain to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:59 PM
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No, that’s your weird fetish making you confused and unable to think clearly. I am talking about women who have plenty of proposals. In western coastal areas what I am describing is the norm. Pretty women who try to get married too young have interventions staged by parents and random adults. I know people from random places can’t fathom this but that is what is happening in the most relevant modern areas today. Not even going into people who have other priorities like faith, and won’t just marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:54 PM
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In the west, most of them end up delaying because they have a lot of options and don’t want to be like some small towner who settles for the first offer and ends up a starter wife. Idk and idc about Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:40 PM
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There are so many quiet meek modest average looking women who are happily married, they’re just invisible to a lot of butthurt men who prefer BPD hot chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:38 PM
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Love is a lot more than a chemical feeling, no wonder you all have problems And yet even as I say this I know the feeling happens all the time and doesn’t disappear and I know those chemicals re release when bonding happens. Some of you never realized you have that past the beginning of the relationship and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:36 PM
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Where did I do any of those things? Incels make this shit up it’s literally psychotic What does how they are born have to do with anything? Being a whiner victim who blames everyone but themselves for their horrible attitude used to be called poor character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:33 PM
2

Aw that’s sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:31 PM
2

Western women in relevant areas do not want to get married young, this is a western based forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:30 PM
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They’re too apathetic to do a lot but it is a movement and they have views. “I struggle to get laid” does not an incel make. It’s really dumb to identify as an incel, then hamster that it doesn’t mean what it means so that no one lumps you in with them. Just stop calling yourself an incel and talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:27 PM
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No honey for women with pretty faces this narrative is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:26 PM
2

Yeah Reddit is so full of this uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:22 PM
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As I said you’re all children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:21 PM
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100% bullshit anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:21 PM
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There is nothing you can possibly do to educate me about human fertility and the data says the age related correlation is a lot smaller than your anecdotal stories (and that regardless the risk is still tiny and yet also exists for any parental age) It’s always fucking hilarious to me how men on this sub are so incredibly solipsistic you think no one has ever studied a topic until your peanut gallery r slurred comment. If I believed any of your silly fake story I’d feel very scared and concerned…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:20 PM
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Lol dummy I’m only quoting real words they’ve said, I’m sorry you can’t handle the truth and have to pretend it’s a female fabrication and not word for word what they’ve told me over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:19 PM
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No, they are with better men than who ever was around before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:18 PM
1

Lol that’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:17 PM
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No it wasn’t, stop making up this motte and bailey like the entire violent motivation and hate behind the incels never happened. Some of us are old enough to have seen the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:17 PM
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I’m just asking for a sentence explaining your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:16 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:57 PM
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Women don’t want a man to be obsessed with his physique and on some boring meal plan, just basic fitness is preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:50 PM
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Nah he just thinks life isn’t even worth living since he can’t remotely fathom anything like love or any other value a non physically perfect woman might offer. But women are the shallow ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:42 PM
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Everything about women being looks obsessed is a male projection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:40 PM
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Lol you’ve witnessed it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:33 PM
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They are uncomfortable with things that aren’t about their weiners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:32 PM
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Repeating words like a parrot and being a defeatist lemming aren’t good things We get it, you try to fail first so no one can say you tried and failed because it’s too scary to take a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:30 PM
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Only men have pure love that isn’t about looks 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:28 PM
1

Like the lost catacombs of Egypt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:26 PM
0

It’s honestly really sad this is presented as good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:25 PM
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Because women have never solely cared about the ends of it and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:24 PM
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Testing it is having some woman throw herself at him and he resists. What does that have to do with constantly fighting the urge to bang other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:24 PM
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It is not from movies it is how women are naturally until reality wakes them up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:22 PM
0

I wouldn’t want military leaders who like, really like America and all but just constantly have to fight these sympathies and urges to help China and Russia. That isn’t loyalty and men don’t have a hard time understanding this when it’s about something other than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:19 PM
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It’s delusional to think going through the motions of something you don’t believe at all is loyalty. By this reasoning you should be fine with every wife having an only fans to make money, after all she just wants the simps’ cash and attention and she hasn’t left her husband. Inb4 fake psychology about how women can’t do that without falling out of love first, but men who cheat stay in love, which is all clearly nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:18 PM
0

This reads as humiliating betrayal to women, not loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:15 PM
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Haven’t seen any consistency. I have seen a lot of “women are paranoid for avoiding being alone with strange men and need to just relaxxxx” alongside “how did that women get date raped, doesn’t she know about male nature and what happens when you’re alone with a man?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:14 PM
1

This is the sad social Darwinist view, the best human beings can come up with when they reject God. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:11 PM
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Personally I know a lot of women who are happily married and didn’t have kids until their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:10 PM
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I don’t, but I know a lot of women who married and had kids in their 30s, we can all share stories
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:09 PM
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That’s wrong, when you’re past a certain age as a woman you would much rather marry a (childless) divorced man; a man past a certain age who has never been married or engaged is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:08 PM
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Very dramatic and overblown Interestingly it’s definitely much more statistically dangerous to be a teen mom but I don’t see men here crusading about that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:05 PM
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Lol everybody dies sometimes Cool you’ve just solved the human relationship with mortality great job Imagine a doctor telling you that instead of trying to prevent it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:04 PM
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Honestly a lot of married women in their 40s get annoyed they still have to use birth control if they are done with kids The guys here keeping showing their ass over how little they know about human fertility, it’s clear they don’t have women in their lives romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:03 PM
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It says more about who you’re hanging out with than anything. I don’t know anyone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:00 PM
0

Yes there are and yes it is, your ignorance of the history of your label notwithstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:58 AM
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They use terrorist tactics in conversation every day, it’s very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:56 AM
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It’s simpler than that, incels say stupid stuff all day and normal people find that annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:55 AM
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Being an r slur defeatist lemming isn’t accepting reality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:55 AM
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Not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:54 AM
1

In the past year I’ve noticed the terms incels and black pill went mainstream enough that guys who have absolutely no idea about the real beliefs of incels are calling themselves black pill and incel, and saying it just means “can’t get a gf.” One guy had absolutely no idea that incels had ever been angry or violent towards women. They have no concept of the core tenets. Then they try to defend themselves saying those core beliefs are weird or fringe. all I can think is it’s like kids dying thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:54 AM
1

What’s with this new breed of incel who has no idea what the actual incel subculture believes and thinks the core tenets like violence and rape are just a weird fringe group and not the actual main beliefs? If you don’t identify with that insanity and your only issue is a dry spell the best thing you can do for yourself is stop identifying as black pill or incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:49 AM
2

You are the one who is misinformed if you think the comment is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:46 AM
2

Are all of you ignorant of the history and beliefs of the black pill and incel subcultures?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:46 AM
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You should learn the beliefs and history of a movement before joining it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:45 AM
1

You’re new?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:45 AM
0

You’re new?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:45 AM
7

🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:44 AM
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It’s better to shame people for trying to be violent criminal losers than let it get to the point where people are actually scared
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:44 AM
0

Red pillers actually try
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:43 AM
2

Yes that’s also bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:41 AM
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Clearly it’s because their jawlines aren’t cartoonishly square enough 😢 women are so shallow smh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:41 AM
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Do you have any support for your claim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:40 AM
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Threatening vague violent terrorizing actions if people don’t comply with your demands is a terrorist tactic bro, just because most of them are too lazy to leave the house doesn’t change the principle. A lot of women (sorry would you prefer I said “feminists” since a feminist is a woman talking?) tried to help incels but you cannot help someone who wants to lose. FWIW I personally helped a couple black pillers who were risking going down the incel identity path and encouraged them to get a grip …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:37 AM
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Incels: “I’m just saying instead of going outside and asking a woman out I’ve decided they’re all worthless holes that should be kept on breeding farms and given to me as government sex slaves and if this doesn’t happen soon I’m going to go on some terrorist spree in Minecraft. I’m a defeatist who can’t be reasoned with or spoken to and I waste everyone’s time even when they try to help.” Also incels: “omg I can’t believe women don’t like me because I’m under 6 feet tall and for no other reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:34 AM
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Incels: “I’m just saying instead of going outside and asking a woman out I’ve decided they’re all worthless holes that should be kept on breeding farms and given to me as government sex slaves and if this doesn’t happen soon I’m going to go on some terrorist spree in Minecraft. I’m a defeatist who can’t be reasoned with or spoken to and I waste everyone’s time.” Also incels: “omg I can’t believe women don’t like me because I’m under 6 feet tall and for no other reason 😮”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:33 AM
3

Have you seen the reaction when women discuss these points?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:26 AM
2

To be fair, that is their definition of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:25 AM
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Comic artist doesn’t really understand what incels are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:24 AM
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It’s soulless gold digging to want your child to have shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:21 AM
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This is so true. That’s why it’s so important for women to vet for a patient man who’s willing to invest a lot of effort in her, who believes in marriage and who will go the extra mile for her when they have kids. He should have the desire to provide and protect and she should filter out losers like in the OP who won’t make the effort to meet her where she is or take care of her or help when she’s not feeling well. Also, because of the risks of birth control failure or oxytocin attachment, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:18 AM
3

Wow that’s one I don’t get, seems really sad to give up her family dreams for that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:49 AM
2

Ah. Wow. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:27 AM
2

Uh wow what kink is so special it’s worth all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:00 AM
2

My husband is a decade older and I’ve gotten prejudice about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:59 AM
1

Hey it’s your eternal soul
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:17 AM
2

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:03 AM
2

Nah actually I think he was a demon possessed scumbag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:43 AM
1

X to doubt, he was balding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:29 AM
3

I withdraw consent from this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:28 AM
1

Cat beaters should go to a work camp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:22 AM
1

Yeah he seems like he’s rotting in hell It just goes to show you and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:20 AM
2

I’m convinced most of them are mental cels by now so yeah most have to be severely r slurred
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:43 PM
1

Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:46 PM
1

It’s usually true if you deliberately seek those types of women and read libfem magazines for outrage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:33 PM
2

Okay well I don’t talk like that so idk why you’re applying it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:35 PM
1

Why do you project you go girl 90s feminist cliches onto PPD women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:56 PM
1

Bitch how you not the hobbit again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:03 PM
1

No it’s funny bc it sounds like some of the men on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:03 PM
1

Are you a fish? Why are you saying bloop?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:03 PM
0

Y’all are so adorable getting scandalized by everyday life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:02 PM
1

I mean something js off with OP if he can’t get even one of these sluts to hook up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:01 PM
1

Men solve problems but women just keep the dumb species alive so dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:23 AM
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In which men assume women can’t understand humor…you know people assume these profiles are ironic or they don’t read them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:20 AM
4

All is fair in love and war
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:17 AM
2

That’s fine when you’re 20 dear
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:05 AM
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So women are telling you all about their sexual exploits blatantly and yet if you try to get a date they’re telling you to just get a hooker? Wow man something is off there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:04 AM
2

I used to think I didn’t like nye but it turns out I just don’t like it when you’re single or at some party, it’s nice when you’re married and hang out at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:01 AM
1

Aw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:59 AM
1

I don’t believe that ever happens
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:57 AM
1

I’m no math scientist but I don’t bet that min wage people can pay their expenses on that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:00 AM
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When you’ve spent so much time around permanently aggrieved pseudo men Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:59 AM
3

I actually do know this guy went to the same schools he was really good at sports and very fast and his parents seemed like they taught him confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:57 AM
1

75%?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:49 AM
1

No they genuinely really think mom should’ve taught them how to be Chad Otherwise they’d say their dads failed them…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:47 AM
2

Yeah really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:35 AM
1

Oh Man How will I ever Survive This subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:37 AM
-1

They do when they know the guy won’t get neurotic and freak out about “where did she learn that”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:24 AM
6

It’s almost as though men and women require different forms of emotional support
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:37 AM
2

Tell me you’re foreign without telling me you’re foreign
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:34 AM
1

Anyone who denies hormones affect appetite is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:03 AM
1

Really you don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:39 AM
1

Yup and it’s still better than having it at home
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:38 AM
1

Which is why my kids won’t have Tik Tok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:37 AM
12

Female friends tend to mutually emotionally support
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:35 AM
1

Grooming and dress is not “teaching your kids looks matter in the smv”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:31 AM
1

Parents job is not to teach you to be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:15 AM
3

Haha Who says Penn tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:08 AM
1

Vaginas are sentient and they change size depending on how many Reddit comments they detect a penis has made
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:49 PM
1

I mean. This is just prejudiced against those who are naturally talented in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:23 PM
1

Just dehumanize the sex you’re attracted to, this one weird trick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:22 PM
1

Why probably?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:17 PM
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Men are not fertile their whole lives, they don’t wrinkle less, and their need for women will always cripple any unevenness in visual aging
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:17 PM
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Lol yes all the many “women” on that link Yes the very real true erotic stories written by women and definitely not one handed by men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:25 PM
2

Sure but they all sort of balance out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:24 PM
1

day before NYE I’ll be playing animal crossing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:24 AM
3

It’s really silly how often Leo is trotted out as an example of anything on here, as if his life is in any way relevant to the average online dude’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:25 PM
1

It used to be called “the hill” which is a better metaphor and it applied to anyone getting older
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:56 PM
1

That’s an overly literal interpretation of my words
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:07 PM
-1

Ofc they do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:07 PM
1

That sounds fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:06 PM
0

Believe that as hard as you want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:06 PM
2

This is called the human condition, there are far better methods developed by much wiser people for coping with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:25 AM
1

No u
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:25 AM
0

No one cares that you’re cynical except for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:00 AM
1

Yeah TRP and incels are coming from a place of self defense and putting up walls for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:28 AM
1

No one even said that lol except I will not respect the choices of promiscuous people who think it’s okay for them to sleep with married people because “it’s okay because it’s me and I’m enlightened.” Otherwise idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:13 AM
3

The problem is a lot of promiscuous women don’t understand these basic rules
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:10 AM
3

You’re not wrong. I have had people tell me on here “oh what next you’ll tell me you won’t have sex with someone you wouldn’t be okay having a baby with” and I was like, correct actually. The concept of just not having sex for practical reasons is lost on a lot of people. A lot of women feel like they have to do hookup culture stuff when they aren’t emotionally equipped for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:10 AM
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It’s none of my business generally. If they happen to be the type who somehow can’t help being promiscuous with married men and think they have some sort of enlightened transcendence of base human romantic boundaries, or think by doing sex work or being a side chick for a married man that they’re “helping,” then I judge them but mostly pity them as sad attention whores. If they just hookup with random single guys whatever none of my business. I do think a lot of women are kidding themselves abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:07 AM
2

That’s true for anyone if anything welcome to life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:42 AM
1

You’re right some people never learn that nobody makes you become a cynical bastard cutting off your nose to spite your face except you. If you were thinking clearly you’d realize I must have obviously also seen plenty of long happy marriages which I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:41 AM
1

👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:09 AM
2

I grew up witnessing a really ugly divorce and even I know the idea that there’s no such thing as a happy marriage after a decade together is absurd. There clearly are happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:08 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:22 AM
1

Okay well I’m a DC native so yes we exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:11 PM
1

Where are all these moms giving sons dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:23 PM
1

Def not just NYC. Yeah it’s more east coast UMC
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:23 PM
1

Idk where you live but where I’m from the average age among educated people is higher. I don’t get why people from some places just decide their little town is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:09 PM
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Idgaf. And no it doesn’t prove your point lmfao. You’re not supposed to do anything. The point is it happens either way although with young parents the kids have to be exposed to the learning curve and stress as their parents are still figuring life out. Older parents learn the lesson first. All that matters is marrying someone you can create a stable family with and that’s very important for children. I was countering your argument that older parents are somehow weaker or lack the energy to par…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:08 PM
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Yeah just like at any age. A lot of women in my church groups have highly curated social media showcasing their ideal Christian family life. Then they post on private groups about how their husband walked out or is awful or things are falling apart. It might’ve been me if I had stayed engaged to my fiancé from my 20s but somehow I got the gumption to drop that. Now married to my husband who is a much better match. Ofc some people get lucky and meet the right one immediately and I support that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:55 PM
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Yeah it is the topic so what. Incels make up lies all the time. I don’t believe there’s a mass incidence of mommies teaching sons to simp for random women. Think about women and their mothers in law. Are MILs famously known for preferring their DILs to their sons? When you think of a single mom do you think of a woman who can’t wait to hand over her special boy to some random woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:53 PM
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Okay here’s a trophy 🏆 Yeah I also am in religious circle but no one on ppd is talking about that If you think young religious moms don’t also go “omg ew old parents” and marry young for less than great reasons you don’t know your church well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:51 PM
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I am not talking about just patience and discipline. I’m specifically saying endurance based energy develops more with age and involves self discipline. Young adults have short spurts of impulsive energy. Especially for their own interests. They are the exact opposite of the marathon endurance based energy needed. Having kids will often change that if they’re good parents but the point is a decade of age doesnt make people feeble geriatrics it often makes them more marathon runners than sprinter…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:46 PM
3

To be blunt, that men who obsess over this topic don’t know what the fuck they are talking about. extremely true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:53 PM
2

I never understood the “energy” argument. I did not have more energy and time management skills to handle toddlers in my early 20s. People have more indiscriminate dissipation energy then. The energy it takes to take care of kids is not just physical or hyper young person energy, it’s specifically selfless and disciplined time management energy. That often comes naturally with time as people realize there is more to life than doing their favorite hobbies or activities. Younger adults often are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:52 PM
0

The whole thing is very histrionic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:46 PM
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I mean that’s fine if you meet someone worth doing it with. A lot of people dgaf and just find the first willing sperminator because “omg ew old parents” and those are the ones you see posting on pregnancy groups about why they have Chlamydia at 24 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:44 PM
1

thank god I didn’t follow this advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:43 PM
1

It happens all the time, you just probably don’t know them since your social circle usually reflects people at the same stage in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:34 PM
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They don’t even have to be a career woman or have money. She can marry a man who is supportive and wants her to be a SAHM. That’s not insane if they both prefer it. Some women just don’t meet a man worth carrying a child for for a while. Also some career women might try and fail at career and that’s okay too, if she meets a nice man and he wants to have kids so what. Those men are just ignorant and delusional about how human fertility is in general and especially in current year. Anyone concern …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:28 PM
1

I just don’t believe this happens much. I don’t believe moms tell sons to please random women and I think LC single moms want their son to be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:24 PM
1

I don’t believe that ever happens tbh, did it happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:23 PM
1

Did this happen to you? I’ve never heard of this in my life The very infrequent times I’ve ever heard of moms giving sons dating guidance it always was in favor of the son and the male imperative bc it’s her kid. But then I don’t know single moms. This seems like a meme though, I bet LC single moms want their sons to be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:23 PM
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“Wahhhh mommy didn’t teach me get sex from big tiddy goth gf so I’m gonna go on a violent spree wahhhh” Uh huh that’s totally not psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:18 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:56 PM
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You said most which isn’t true at all The comment said nothing of the sort just that there are a higher incidence than the gen pop Which is not “most” The entire comment was rephrasing to clarify this difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:00 PM
1

Okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:00 PM
1

This is a very literalist comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:17 PM
1

😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:10 PM
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It’s a general term like Kleenex at this point. It just means online sex work. It is “camming.” Anyway you started this with thinking I am a man so I’m out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:55 AM
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I don’t think it’s too soon, this q applies to many other forms of lite sex work that have existed since well before only fans existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:49 AM
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I am asking because I believe men on the sub are fabricating imaginary revenge fantasies that don’t actually happen much irl. That’s why I asked them to share their personal anecdotes because I noticed every single story was usually speculation about “well why would anyone hire or date a woman who had an OF” but no concrete examples. Now that I’ve asked for real true stories of women tragically regretting being on OF, I’ve noticed there are almost none. I personally agree I’d never want to get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:10 AM
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This is interesting. One of the few answers with direct personal experience and her mild disappointment happened not because of consequences after doing OF but from adjusting her expectations before after hoping to be set up with doctor peers. And still ultimately doesn’t regret it that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:02 AM
1

Aw thanks so much! We are having a good time. Expecting baby. Marriage is nice. I saw my parents divorce and it was sad so I am pleasantly happy to see marriage can be quite fun too. Glad to hear things are going well with your SO too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:59 AM
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I was a child in the middle of this and we always saw through it Ofc we liked the toys but it was too obvious when something was a manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:23 AM
2

Just be smart about it and don’t get caught I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:04 AM
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Yeah lol men seem really dumb about age, they think 30 year olds should look 60 so I’m not surprised women that age pretend to be “teen”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:52 PM
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It’s because her colleagues found out and it caused a scandal at the workplace. But one particular hiring person finding out privately isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:51 PM
1

You can’t control it, you should never beat yourself up so badly for other people treating you badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:57 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:16 PM
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It’s this dichotomy. Men are very visual and will be grossly critical and cruel about female appearance in their talk. But they’re also super horny so that kind of throws the whole standards thing for a loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:32 PM
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It’s this dichotomy. Men are very visual and will be grossly critical and cruel about female appearance in their talk. But they’re also super horny so that kind of throws the whole standards thing for a loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:32 PM
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It’s this dichotomy. Men are very visual and will be grossly critical and cruel about female appearance in their talk. But they’re also super horny so that kind of throws the whole standards thing for a loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:32 PM
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Right. Like unless she was being an idiot and using the company name most adults have bigger fish to fry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:31 PM
3

Yeah I read that… Why do you think my mind is “blown”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:41 PM
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Um, they just agreed with what I said above and reworded things to agree with me I know what cluster B is Sorry are you used to only talking to uneducated idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:18 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:01 PM
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That is all just not real. This is main character syndrome. Irl no one cares. I bet some could even get clearances if they tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:53 PM
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Of course there is There are millions who may not be Belle Delphine but they don’t present themselves as societal dropouts and they make enough to be rather rich while still being prudent enough to hide their activities or generic enough to not be recognizable Your friend using her real social media to promote her OF is an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:37 PM
1

That seems like a rather huge generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:22 PM
2

Okay thanks for clarifying So this is someone who made no efforts at all to be discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:11 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:09 PM
2

You also have not made the golf job story clear. So they fired her over her extreme tattoos. But you somehow know that secretly she was fired bc they found her OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:03 PM
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You probably shouldn’t have told anyone Either way that wasn’t an OF woman being turned down by a man because of his own views on her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:02 PM
1

I mean why does your sister not liking her relate to her only fans or the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:57 PM
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How do you know the tattoos were an excuse to cover up the only fans as the real reason for her firing Also what does your sister have to do with this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:53 PM
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Okay I’m just confirming that most of the scenarios men describe on this topic are speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:53 PM
2

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:36 PM
3

Lol yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:19 PM
2

Ok sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:18 PM
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No the failure was her lack of doing whatever it is most people do to keep it discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:09 PM
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So you are admitting that these are all scenarios you imagine will happen but don’t know anyone to whom this has actually happened
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:05 PM
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I don’t believe HR cares at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:05 PM
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I’m guessing most of them know that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:02 PM
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I never said there is nothing wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:02 PM
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No it isn’t. It’s safe to assume there are more cluster B people than average but in no way is it safe to assume most are. That’s just your idea that anyone who has fun is disordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:01 PM
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Charisma and game aren’t captured easily on a profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:41 PM
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Preaching to the choir. Im asking because these threads always involve men saying they “know of” women wailing and gnashing their teeth with regret over the consequences but they can never give me even one real life solid example, most of it’s imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:41 PM
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That seems like a failure on her part tbh, so many women seem to know how to keep it secret and separate from their real lives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:39 PM
1

Yup the scandalized roommate has a wife and 3 kids now minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:33 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:26 PM
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Nah but have you ever noticed people’s judgments are all relative? I had one guy friend who was roommates with some other guys in a religious circle. We were all religious but this guy was more extro than the other dudes. He used to have a lot of female friends he’d get coffee with and chat. He wasn’t sleeping with them, he just was a chatty guy. His other roommates tried to like, intervene and say he was “out of control” with talking to various women, because they believed more in the courtship…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:24 PM
1

Thank you for that nuanced and thoughtful contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:17 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:16 PM
2

I would be inclined to assume the opposite, more women are misdiagnosed as borderline or bipolar because they’re so loosely applied apparently that it’s the new modern “hysteria” and just indicates “troubled crazy woman.” I think they’re probably under diagnosed with trauma since trauma implies “hey you’re not insane, anyone who went through this would also have issues” versus “you’re just hysterical bc female.” I wouldn’t be surprised that more BPD women are in sex work sure. But remember most …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:11 PM
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Not sure what that’s about. I’ve only ever seen men on PPD use borderline about women. It never seems to in any way follow the clinical definition, it’s usually just a guy who’s super cautious and low risk so he assumes someone less so is mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:00 PM
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Basically for the uptight guys on Reddit any woman who is more adventurous than he is has BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:46 PM
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That’s a pretty big leap to just assume most women diagnosed with any that are secretly borderline and misdiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:34 PM
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It’s actually really healthy to split with certain people and move on. What’s toxic is people who weirdly insist on keeping exes or past people around for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:17 PM
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Borderline just means a woman who takes more risks than those within your personal comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:12 PM
1

Lol you can’t see how this is biased
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:11 PM
2

Weird things that stick out to me “Her cat” even though you’re married “My fault” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:08 PM
5

Dude falling into trying to be the cooler parent always backfires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:07 PM
1

“God is dead” — Nietzsche “Nietzsche is dead” —God
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:31 AM
1

Some artists are shrewd at business and some aren’t, it’s not much different from the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:23 PM
1

Sounds like they’ve successfully created a fantasy you fell for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:54 PM
1

How did they blow up her spot Can you now google “teacher with only fans” and find her real name?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:52 PM
2

U ok bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:48 PM
1

Understanding the reality of the world doesn’t mean defending OF I don’t support OF I just know OP is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:47 PM
1

Let god make people accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:44 PM
1

The vast majority of OF creators are not porn stars. The vast majority of porn actors are not porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:43 PM
3

OP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:40 PM
2

Do you think there’s a committee in the sky enforcing all this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:36 PM
1

They want $$
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:27 PM
1

That’s what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:12 PM
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Normal people just are not going to do this deep dive and if they did it still wouldn’t do anything except prove they’re weirdo stalkers of their employees No one will care at all unless the person is doing lewd content in a work uniform or using the company name
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:10 PM
2

The real question is would you trust an anesthesiologist who also argues on Purple pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:29 PM
1

Lol proving someone wrong is now trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:27 PM
2

I was 30, you just said it wasn’t possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:14 PM
1

Oh thanks I’ve never done any research about human fertility before you alerted me to it, at the age of 36 and about to have a baby I literally didn’t even know anything cause I’ve been living under a rock. I’m so glad your google knowledge has enlightened me. You’re right at 40 all women go through instant menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:13 PM
1

Lol this is a cute understanding of fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:09 PM
1

That’s a fantasy, I met my husband at 30 and he’s superior to anyone from before in terms of personal compatibility with me and those outside standards you dudes are so obsessed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:08 PM
1

A lot of them clearly are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:24 PM
1

https://news.artnet.com/art-world/italian-artist-auctioned-off-invisible-sculpture-18300-literally-made-nothing-1976181 And yet this artist is better at business than anyone on Wall Street
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:23 PM
1

Your office seems more exciting than the ones I worked at
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:14 PM
1

She did that before
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:12 PM
2

You know a lot of former strippers who now lament their singleness and languish in unemployment? Like real people who say those words?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:08 PM
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Not to mention the only way for an employer to confront an employee about being on only fans is to admit he was viewing her only fans, which is deterrent enough for many
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:08 PM
2

What do you mean, clearly these guys can just search “does my brunette 20 something employee have an only fans?” And find out instantly. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:05 PM
1

Of course they are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:43 PM
2

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:37 PM
1

Yes marriage involves merging of assets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:55 AM
1

Who is saying they love fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:52 AM
1

Sounds extro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:51 AM
2

I used it after getting out of the icu and a few times when I just had a long day and it was enough. Now I live far out and we don’t have any of those here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:50 AM
0

We’re right at the part in It’s A Wonderful Life where George finds out his brother died but worse his wife is a librarian and spinster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:47 AM
1

I took a sincere teaching moment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:46 AM
1

Okay so you’re talking about who they jerk off to and not who they date and marry based on class. So it’s irrelevant. Even then many people will be grossed out by someone too low tier for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:07 PM
1

No sorry I meant everyone normal. Reddit isn’t normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:06 PM
1

My argument is correct. This is an open forum and this topic comes up a lot. Do you accept my point or are you in denial of female nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:05 PM
2

I agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:05 PM
1

Okay but that’s never the case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:53 AM
1

To me it proves it more. They feel this crazy obligation they’re always fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:27 AM
1

A lot of men do absolutely have a provider urge that can turn to a simp urge easily. I believe men have to form subs like WAATGM to cope with the fact that they feel personally obligated to help struggling women on some subconscious level. This is why men will genuinely believe they’re saving strippers and hoes from themselves or pimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:26 AM
1

I’m not, my husband is retired. Just curious what your thoughts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:25 AM
1

Still calculating what trans lesbian means
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:22 AM
1

Husband made grilled cheese and pea soup and I’m making Christmas cookies. I’m 9 months pregnant so not high on energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:21 AM
1

Everyone knows weight matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:20 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:18 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:15 AM
1

I once saw a guy a couple times who was probably legally blind or something and not admitting it, had a really high prescription for contacts and twice turned into oncoming traffic. Just sat there like a dumbass. either that or he was a psycho trying to get us killed idk. It was actually repulsive to me bc he was so incompetent and pathetic and I never spoke to him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:10 AM
1

Define bad driving habits? Little things are excusable. Being a half blind nut job turning into oncoming traffic cause you’re an idiot, or a road raging psycho following people home, are gross and dealbreakers. I don’t care about minor road rage bc I have it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:08 AM
1

Put your phone down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:05 AM
1

Mystery solved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:04 AM
2

Pro snow at Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:03 AM
2

Die Hard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:01 AM
2

Second toes longer than big toes and high arches
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:01 AM
10

The biggest French diet method is smoking so I’ll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:55 AM
3

Lol your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:51 AM
9

Her fetish imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:20 AM
1

Yeah I said I wasn’t addressing that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:19 AM
1

No she doesn’t that’s speculation. As I said I was addressing the comment above me not the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:28 PM
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There is nothing in this thread about “choosing to be gay” Do you not understand women are not aroused by men they aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:24 PM
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No, we try to make you understand that for a woman, with a man she’s really not attracted to she is really not attracted, like, alternate sexuality not attracted. Women are NOT men and do not have secret underlying “would bang” feelings about most men the way men do even for women they don’t like. It’s intriguing how many men here absolutely cannot accept the gay male sex comparison because it’s absolutely a perfect metaphor and if you can’t accept it you don’t accept female nature either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:21 PM
1

What? Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:19 PM
1

I didn’t say forced I said force herself. I was merely commenting that comparing it to gay sex for straight men is accurate, not taking on the OP topic. You’re the second person in two days who doesn’t know what good faith means. Your not agreeing with me doesn’t mean I’m in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:18 PM
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It’s correct, for women, forcing herself to have sex with a man she doesn’t want to is like a straight man having gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:42 PM
2

Perhaps sex is a different experience for men than for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:26 PM
1

That’s not true at all, men from certain class background will never marry a fertile young hot hooters waitress no matter how sexy or fertile she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:12 PM
1

On average they don’t care how much she makes but they care what cohort she’s in and her job is part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:56 PM
1

Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:56 PM
1

That’s nice that you respect strippers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:25 PM
2

Lol. It’s not at all what people are referring to on the topic of “women approaching” on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:55 PM
1

A stripper doing her job at work is not “a woman approaching”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:38 PM
1

Oh no you’re serious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:37 PM
1

No. I heard this from men who had absolutely no qualms about ruthlessly attacking the ex partner including in court and who would have loved to fully blame the ex for all that is evil in the world and did try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:25 PM
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Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:24 PM
2

Oh good grief
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:23 PM
2

Yeah true that’s why they have to learn to be more so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:23 PM
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Women are so much more socially sensitive than men that they feel like they’re being incredibly blatantly obviously into a guy with hints he might not even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:59 AM
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men can impregnate multiple women at once and have entire second families in secret without ruining his body or being crippled by pain. Paternity tests are easy but there’s no easy “prove you don’t have a second family or secret kid out there” test for men. male cheating then means actually taking initiative to go cheat whereas at least Women’s cheating was only bc of being pressured (according to your take) women who get cheated on are seen as failures who don’t know how to keep their man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:56 AM
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You all always miss the part where she wants a bad boy who is specifically nice to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:53 AM
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Your first paragraph is only true if you don’t have something like sincere religion or faith. If you’re just doing detachment for its own sake as a power move then you might have more power and success with romance but you can never truly enjoy it anyway since detachment is how you got it. Sincere attachment and faith in something greater are more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:52 AM
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Yah this is why people used to have their own faith in God and religion and not put everything on a spouse. But y’all threw that away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:49 AM
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I don’t think it’s empathetic at all to treat romantic partners like they’re auditioning for role of pleasing you the most and refusing to own your own personal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:48 AM
1

You know people use it ironically mostly right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:46 AM
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Curious pattern. Women overall seem to have an easier time simply owning if they don’t like a guy. “Ew no he’s gross” and move on. Whereas a lot of men do this thing where they clearly are over a woman or not into her and then passively sabotage and then blame it all on her for not being exactly his dream girl at all times and insist he would’ve been the best she ever had and a perfect partner but she just didn’t appreciate it or wasn’t charming and kind enough to him. Meanwhile he’s totally sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:44 AM
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The only woman I know who was super scandalized by men playing video games—not even violent ones, just FIFA—is literally a cloistered nun now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:39 AM
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Because it’s her boyfriend and not her husband so she’s being stupid, he can change the locks at any time and she did a bunch of wifey stuff for a guy who didn’t wife her and now has nowhere to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:11 AM
1

They think women activate in the presence of a man and then hibernate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:06 PM
1

Does conservative now just mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:01 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:49 AM
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Hey buddy I don’t hate being a parent and I even loved being a nanny Don’t project your weird stuff onto me, I don’t think something being WORK means I can’t love it, I don’t go through life thinking only easy things are enjoyable. I never saw babysitting my brother as a chore because it’s not lol it’s literally fun and easy and it’s not the same as being responsible for kids full time. Don’t try to compare babysitting your cousins or siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:03 AM
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It makes it less valid if you have tried nothing and aren’t willing to put in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:52 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:04 PM
2

Why are you preaching to the choir
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:45 PM
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If men acted better sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:34 PM
1

Yeah kinda
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:59 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:46 PM
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That wasn’t what I said but ok. Either way good for them for landing a rich man. Wealthy men never picked her for her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:39 PM
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Yeah and it screws them up too. What’s your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:19 PM
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Who does this? “I deserve a date with you mr. finance guy because I also have a good job” does any woman do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:19 PM
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Most women can’t handle casual sex and should avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:12 PM
4

Is there a possibly that I’m Gregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:06 PM
3

Women who have careers and give them up don’t do it because they’re secretly plotting to land a higher income man and want to trick him. They work while they’re single because they need to eat. Plenty of them make no bones about their goals to stay home and raise kids eventually. And sometimes they get those jobs to meet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:05 PM
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That sounds like a bunch of personal bias
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:03 PM
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Not a lot of men actively try to get married who also vehemently don’t want kids ever. Those people are fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:02 PM
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How old are you? There is a massive majority of normal family men who want children. It just doesn’t always hit them at age 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:48 PM
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What if I told you huge swaths of men prefer their wives to stay home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:46 PM
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Idk where all of you are from, a lot of men want kids and don’t want their wives to work outside the home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:46 PM
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The last story is kind of sad if true but just have to note that taking care of a baby is not “playing with a baby” You sound like a SAHM saying my husband just gets to go play on the computer at the office all day while I do real work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:45 PM
1

This seems like a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:51 PM
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It wouldn’t work on those topic because that’s actually just sad. That humor works if the guy is generally successful and attractive but jokes about small harmless things that create relatable childlike charm. Just saying haha I’m so bald and broke is not effective. A hot young woman joking about how clumsy she is is still super attractive to men and now down to earth too bc hey she’s clumsy. A woman who’s like idk 55 and never married but wanted to be saying haha I’m an old spinster who can’t f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:22 PM
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It’s the people not wanting to know the real you part
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:17 PM
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Being admired for looking hot at the club isn’t being put on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:16 PM
2

You all are having the most common argument that occurs when people define respect differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:14 PM
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Trying to play the game of just behaving better to earn general male respect is a losing game for women and a lie. That’s how women end up on RPW asking how they can be more submissive and feminine to random male coworkers. Meanwhile they don’t even have a bf or husband ie a specific person they could try to get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:10 PM
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Perfectly said Being put on a pedestal for real is flat out disgusting and frightening. But whatever some guys call a pedestal on this sub isn’t it, it’s just basic courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:07 PM
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They’re porn sick and live out idolatry of the playboy lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:59 PM
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I don’t expect men to go against their natural impulses to be NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:04 PM
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IMO a direct financial transaction is more explicit and clear. It’s not their fault some men are so dumb they don’t understand it’s not real. It’s overtly business. Whereas a guy who is clear he only wants FWB but then acts romantically, makes it easy for a woman to think maybe he is confused or scared but he does love me. What’s funny is if the guy left cash on her nightstand she would immediately get the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:10 AM
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They like the guy and he says one thing with words but does another thing with actions so they read into it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:05 AM
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How would it help her to exist solely as an NPC to make you feel flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:18 PM
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Why would I do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:27 PM
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Why would women be concerned about your ego Yes we know you’d feel flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:26 PM
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It is more common for men to see women as exotic foreign creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:03 PM
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for me it was often a projection of a passive angelic personality. Some freak men got so angry when they found out I was human. The man I married is decidedly not like that and is amused and affectionate rather than threatened by my normal humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:01 PM
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Also OP you probably only notice young attractive women having the dating experience you deserve and don’t even file older or average women under the woman heading.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:00 PM
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The fact that men love variety even if it’s worse and then some of them project that dissatisfaction onto women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:42 PM
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It’s about the 1:1 ratio, did he sleep with every woman he encountered basically? A few girlfriends and a few hookups is different from being a serial womanizer who is like an animal and can’t be trusted around any woman. He either did that due to lack of self control or in a conscious effort to rack up notches both of which are not personality traits I admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:34 PM
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Yes I care, not on objective numbers or timing but if he feels like he missed out in some way that’s a red flag. I also wouldn’t trust someone who tended to have sex with any woman he encountered. Again less about raw numbers but more of a self control thing. Intentionally trying to boost your count comes off as cringe to me too, like you don’t even say if you liked it or not or enjoy sex and romance it’s just a numbers game? That indicates some personality issues I don’t want to deal with. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:31 PM
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So what? I don’t live in a country where most people live off the government teat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:55 PM
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Hey you are the one who brought up the collective of men which is what I meant by “you” You’re right though. So hopefully men who sit at a keyboard all day will stop telling me how “men built society” when they personally did nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:41 AM
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See, you’re doing it Also my high RMV husband and I collect cats
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:40 AM
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Women are the reason you live and breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:47 PM
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No it doesn’t because they also aren’t getting paid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:26 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:14 PM
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People got hosed shot and jailed for their causes but dudes are scared some women might call them toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:58 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:57 PM
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They think the vague possibility of social disapproval is excuse enough for men to not help other men. Also, they don’t stick their neck out for strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:46 PM
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women pay less tax Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:42 PM
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Women marry men they consider high RMV and then men on here hamster why those men must actually not be high RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:30 PM
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I think men hamster that the problem is Where Are All The Good Women but never acknowledge their own nature and how it may contribute
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:22 PM
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I mean yes, it’s an important life lesson to stop measuring your value by outward markers of success. And men do tend to put too much weight on female reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:18 PM
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It’s a term. You can complain about anything on earth, as is your right to speak, but it means no one will take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:39 PM
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nobody says you have to but you just can’t complain when you don’t get handed things i don’t like corporate office jobs so I can’t complain when I do not randomly get called and offered CEO positions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:33 PM
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I have mentioned I do not believe he is a role model and i was thinking of his adult lovers obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:33 PM
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There aren’t two camps and I didn’t claim it. There are many types of men who enjoy the company of women, and many who don’t. In this example I was contrasting men who specifically enjoy the flirtation dance and have romantic natures, with men who hate that and find it degrading. A Gigolo is kind of the exact opposite of what I meant. I don’t think it’s about deserve. Some of the worst character people ever are very charming and social.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:49 PM
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I mean, most men would say women should let go of bitterness at men or baggage and try being pleasant. Men could try the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:57 PM
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Well, it is that simple, it’s just not that easy And some men are simply born liking women and being extro about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:38 PM
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Lol if you want but some men don’t have to spend years taking women off the pedestal bc they already know they’re just people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:41 PM
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Sometimes having sisters helps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:41 PM
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Chicken or egg question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:04 PM
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Yeah but also associate it with shallowness and oof of substance and project envy and so forth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:04 PM
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Charisma is a personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:43 PM
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I think they get attention but it’s messed up attention. Most people don’t want to come off as chumps so they don’t just walk up and say wow omg you’re so gorgeous. They all try to run game or use an angle to stand out. It must get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:59 AM
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This is what most people describe. Even if they wanted to he know for their personality no one wants to know it anyway. Or people find something wrong with it and become intensely critical because they refuse to believe someone can be hot and smart. I saw it happen to friends of both sexes who were treated like people as kids but became conventionally good looking and were treated more like objects or tokens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:57 AM
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Pretty people are only valued for looks anyway whether they try or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:55 AM
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It sounds more like your neurosis is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:54 AM
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I don’t buy it. I think people dgaf what hot people have to say so they stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:50 AM
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You all live in a cartoon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:48 AM
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Someone who’s so pretty it’s intimidating definitely still has to try, but her concern will be signaling availability and letting the guy know she won’t reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:42 AM
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😅🥴🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:38 AM
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Lots of janitors have charisma. There is no today, things don’t change. Humans are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:47 AM
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My understanding is rappers have charisma just like Casanova did. Charisma is very real especially for men. Per your edit: yes you’ve made it clear which camp you’re in, you think someone who has a drive to make effort is a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:54 AM
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It can just help guys let go of desperation mindset to have female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:53 AM
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Why, he had triple digit sexual partners like seems to be so important to many of you. Simps are men who suck up to women and don’t get laid. I don’t think he is a role model but he clearly knew something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:52 AM
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For a simp he got laid a lot You’re kinda proving what I said Nobody says you have to be like that, but don’t expect that harems just appear
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:51 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:50 AM
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No one is saying you can’t learn to be more of a natural, paradoxically. Just it’s pretty obvious if someone really despises you and is obsessing over needing to rack up the n and doesn’t even care about the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:30 AM
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Yup that sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:20 AM
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Okay so you are narrow minded and learned nothing from this just want to repeat your canned talking points It’s no skin off my back if you want to be a scorekeeper forever and make relationships all about points or who gives the least. I don’t do that and I’m happier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:16 AM
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Huge male blind spot I am not talking about going shopping with the gals. I’m talking about enjoying the flirtatious energy. Do you believe someone like historical figure Casanova, who had many lovers, despised spending time with women? The most famous ladies men lover guys in history make women feel like he enjoys their company, and the way that happens easiest is because he actually likes the flirting and the dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:15 AM
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No? Women also are not all entitled to multiple millionaires who ejaculate chocolate fighting over her hand in marriage. Most people for most of history were lucky to get one partner. Men don’t have to do anything they don’t want to. It is very recent that men feel that even putting in effort to get laid is degrading. When the pill came out and men didn’t have to wait until marriage they were over the moon and would do any kind of social dance necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:10 PM
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That’s true for a lot of men, which is why I’ve said for years now that a ladies man type of guy who actually enjoys spending time with women is at a massive advantage, in terms of sexual success. All that stuff that the bitter dudes have to LARP like being interested but not too interested and dominant but caring and being into her but patient and not a simp and and and is all natural for the guy who kinda likes hanging out with women. He doesn’t have this weird vibe of holding himself back fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:57 PM
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These are all luxury problems Is it porn that made average men feel entitled to choose from a harem and believe they are genuinely oppressed to not have this and have it fall in their lap with no effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:24 PM
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My pride is too sensitive to engage in competition. I would innately withdraw if the scenario arose. Sometimes that would make a guy like me more, that I didn’t take the bait, but I didn’t do so strategically. I just couldn’t deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:23 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:58 PM
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I think it is. Im not a bean counter who keeps track of tit for tat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:16 PM
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Well that’s just wrong then Tell me do men love aging plain stout menopausal women of good character for who they are over young thin lithe hot women of obnoxious character?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:01 PM
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They amount to the same thing Except that men don’t die from lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:00 PM
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That’s not true, it’s pretty easy to find guys that age who want kids but don’t have them yet. You’re the outlier. Women have always had kids at 35+ lol. It is absolutely not crazy at all. You could avoid all this by being up front that you are child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:03 AM
1

What does “who she is” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:02 AM
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There are millions of guys out there their age who also want kids and wouldn’t be put off by getting that ball rolling right away. They saved your time, idk why you are mad. Would be worse to have done that after you were dating a while. It is not too late for them at all. You’re living like you’re still in your 20s. Your age cohort is going to be more no nonsense and cards on the table to save time. Maybe date younger but you’ll probably be worried they’re gold diggers. Also be clear you are ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:36 AM
1

It’s good that you all sorted that out on the first date at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:17 AM
2

What made you decide someone was a baby rabies or gold digger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:58 AM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:55 PM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:01 PM
3

Most street living homeless men hate the shelters and refuse to go
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:11 PM
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I’ve talked to many homeless men. Most of them hate shelters and refuse to go. Because they say the other men there are dangerous. Women’s shelters are made by women who care about strangers. You’re free to make a men’s shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:07 PM
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If the majority of society sees a woman being beat up by a man, they’re very likely to intervene in some way shape or form to protect them. I see you have not experienced life on urban subway trains
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:03 PM
5

Outliers don’t disprove the overall trend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:02 PM
1

I just put his stats when we met and it said .96% odds and still 4/5 cats
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:52 PM
1

Nope, I just have eyes and accept biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:04 AM
1

It’s not as violating but I don’t find it offensive either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:51 AM
1

I think women don’t think they’re desirable bc of dick pics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:50 AM
2

That was just one example. Anyway I was really bad at age guessing but the age didn’t matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:50 AM
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I have often been attracted to slightly older men including in my 20s. When I was single I liked a friend who I thought was 32 but he was 48 and also broke. I didn’t know his age for a while. I didn’t like him for “established” reasons that people argue, we just got along well. I have always had older friends. In first grade my best friend was a 6th grade boy. My husband is about 10 years older than I am. This is pretty normal for me. No reason to do with where they are at in life, just how it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:02 AM
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Well yes, but also no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:59 PM
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Who are they and what did they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:59 PM
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It’s this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:56 PM
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Oh wow. I’m so sorry about your sister. I really hope they prosecute the person who did it. That’s so tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:24 PM
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I would dispute that women have to be taught by someone to be good in bed. I don’t see why women are incapable of coming up with ideas or intuiting and watching responses to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:23 PM
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It’s completely valid for women, this man is saying he thinks you’d sink well below your standards to risk stds and pregnancy for him. It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:22 PM
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Most of the stuff was height and age so height hasn’t changed and age before would make up for income changes. No I didn’t check married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:21 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:20 PM
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The calculator was dumb and mathematically flawed. For normal people it’s for a laugh but for quite a number of terminally online men it just reflects their years-long circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:03 AM
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they think it’s a sign of female vice that women get offended when someone truly deeply below her league hits on her, rather than a rational reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:02 AM
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I have actually spent a lot of time trying to help black pillers. Few of them want to get better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:00 AM
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Presenting unwanted dick solicitation as somehow “more choices” than being ignored is like telling a lonely person “you have lots of friends, you get spam calls trying to tell you stuff all the time”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:19 PM
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If she doesn’t want you then nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:08 PM
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I’m not an Insta model trophy wife or anything To be fair my goal wasn’t a guy with those stats. But yeah fully agree that women need to figure out what they like and go to that general vicinity. Not just aimlessly hope to run into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:55 PM
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A lot think it’s invalid though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:51 PM
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I mean why should she though? What if I listened to that before I met my husband and got all neurotic about how he must not like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:39 PM
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I didn’t say most handsome. But given the choice yes they would. I love how you think you know our own dads better than we do. A dad who’s about offering up his daughter for the good of the race is a bad dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:27 PM
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A while back someone shared some website that calculates how likely a woman is to end up single with cats. I put in my husbands exact stats and my stats and it said I was delusional to a high degree and rated me 4/5 cats. So even if I’m married anyone can still say “how long” or find other qualifiers to make it count less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:19 PM
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My dad would def nuke everything rather than have me marry someone he didn’t think was good enough You have strange ideas about dads and daughters, dads care about their daughters as individuals, not about the Good of the Race.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:10 PM
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Trying to act like they’re different would be like if I said you’re very in demand socially because telemarketers always blow up your phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:07 PM
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Careful, some men get very sensitive when they find out women are offended by being hit on men below their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:05 PM
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“For how long?” Is an easy spook argument because you can always say it’ll change any minute now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:04 PM
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I was never looking for sanity here. Only debate and occasionally I even help someone. However you’re incorrect about the women here being only feminists. It’s true there are more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:29 PM
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Also this isn’t a dating sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:30 PM
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Since 2018 I do not need advice thanks. I only joined after I met my husband. I like to argue and I find psychology interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:30 PM
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The guys men see as assholes are usually nicer and more charming to the women than they are to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:53 PM
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Why is this post RIP purple pill? I am not a man nor am I a woman seeking advice. I do not have this issue in my personal life. I’m trying to better understand the psychology of some of the men on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:52 PM
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No dude social status is far more than job title I don’t have time for this obtuse black pill take. Say a woman finds out getting thin and having a lovely speaking voice and personality helps her socially and romantically. Should she be butthurt to have this new power since people didn’t “love her for her” before? That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:46 PM
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Ummm. I have bidets but soap??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:53 PM
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Amateur is not a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:20 PM
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Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:19 PM
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Women don’t get better partners by increasing their status? Okay then. You realize looks fitness social and seduction abilities are all part of status right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:18 PM
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Because I have a brain and understand that equal =/= identical neutered clone, women do share equal responsibility for “society” in other ways. Not that forcing them in the military would make it anymore equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:37 PM
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Lol I’m arguing it’s just work and that any time you ever read or hear or see any kind of “authentic interview” where they claim otherwise it’s 100% still curated to tailor their image as wild mpdg sex loving free spirits. This is 100% for business reasons only.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:36 PM
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It's easy to filter out the interviews for the fans from brandname porn stars where they talk about orgasming every scene, etc. It’s not, that’s just what they want you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 PM
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How does anyone leave childhood without learning the lesson that social status can make you more popular? And how can anyone be so pampered that this is upsetting news? People should be happy that things like glow ups and social status can make them more successful with dating, not become cynical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:41 PM
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Of course you have that option
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:36 PM
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Porn stars will lie about enjoying it to make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:36 PM
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Men on Reddit believe their favorite porn stars orgasm in every video
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:35 PM
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This is just evidence men are more sheltered and protected from reality. If realizing that gaining social status can make you more popular is a revelation that either deeply upsets you or is a fact you don’t learn until adolescence or adulthood, you’ve been quite privileged. Most women learn this very early in life and instead of getting jaded they’re just happy opportunities exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:31 PM
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Yes except I’m not “y’all” because I’m not one of the women you’re thinking of. I don’t even want women in the military at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:09 PM
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The fact that you’re sharing that human beings have bodily functions as some kind of earth shattering, pedestal-upending revelation tells me you’re not ready for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:39 AM
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Well the thing is a lot of men also look down on men who pay for prostitutes in current year, when a woman does not have to be a prostitute anymore to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:34 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:25 AM
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Yeah it’s just the one example guys use a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:24 AM
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I don’t really believe that’s how we work but Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:30 PM
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Reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:12 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:00 PM
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This seems well adjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:27 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:26 PM
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So a lot of women these days are very open about sexual acts they’ve done in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:23 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:21 PM
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I think that someone can definitely be the best even if they aren’t the first. Both my husband and myself just assume we’re both each other’s best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:17 PM
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Honestly that is very bizarre. May I ask how old both of you were? I do not understand if this is a new thing with Gen Z. It seems strange to me but I have been off the market a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:12 PM
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Yes it was a different time exactly like it’s a different time for men as well who are not being conscripted to be infantry in trenches and jungles. Are you a young able bodied man at great risk of being sent to war? No I don’t care for equality and identical roles for the sake of it ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:11 PM
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I personally don’t have hangups about the past. Not only has no man I dated ever asked me about my past but I also tend to assume that I’m the best they ever had. I have my own insecurities but not about this. I am trying to under the psychology of men who ask these questions or care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:06 PM
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I wanted genuine answers to this question but as always it’s all being ruined by the fact that everyone here seems to think I’m a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:03 PM
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Actually I specifically wasn’t talking about an alpha widow. This hypothetical woman isn’t hung up on Chad to the point where she can’t want sex with a new guy. She just happened to do certain things with another guy first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:02 PM
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I don’t know. I’m trying to ask men if they’re more upset about the denial or about Chad getting to their woman first. As a woman I’m not clear on what bothers them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:37 PM
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We have theme weeks here on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:36 PM
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I’m a woman, married to a man, trying to gain clarification on this topic. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:34 PM
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Okay but my question is where a man demanded to know exactly who she did the thing with and how she felt about it. Which men here tell me is common conversation these days. So if the guy asks her point blank snd she answers, it’s okay as long as she does the thing with him? What I’m trying to gather is if the issue is her denial of a thing or if it’s the existence of the prior lover at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:32 PM
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So you do agree it would be childish for men to care about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:30 PM
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😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:22 PM
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Women did do that after WW2 which was what I was thinking of. It’s called the baby boom. I don’t care for equality in terms of men and women being identical in every role. And never claimed to. We aren’t experiencing a “plague” but either way that’s not comparable at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:17 PM
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I have good news for you, you really don’t need to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:13 PM
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as a straight woman I don’t have sex with women, I’m trying to evaluate the motives of the men on the sub who feel strongly about this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:12 PM
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I am trying to figure that out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:11 PM
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I am a woman and the men here tell me this is a common convo these days. I find it odd too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:10 PM
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Yes, you don’t understand that women are self aware or have a sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:46 PM
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Men are still willing to have sex with women they hate or strongly disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:05 PM
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are men from your country being drafted and killed off en masse as infantry?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:52 PM
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are you drafted?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:51 PM
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Most people whether they admit it or not prefer an all male military because they believe it’s simply more effective that way. And yes we do need women to stay alive. My husband who is actually military is the first to say that’s huge amount of a nation’s men can be killed at war and we will still replace ourselves if women of childbearing age stay alive. None of it is really about “women are so precious and special”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:48 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:46 PM
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A lot of men do not know the difference between a true gold digger and a woman who hopes for a man with career stability and ability to help provide for future children. Real gold diggers only hang around very wealthy men, and only men of certain social status, not just men who make more than $50k, and they don’t just get a guy to buy them coffee or steaks, they get him to fly her to exotic locales and buy her Hermès bags. Basically the take on women is “oh she wants a guy who takes her on some …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:44 PM
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sitting on the internet as a keyboard warrior taking credit for the actions of heroic men of the past is ridiculous, i used stolen valor tongue in cheek here but the fact remains that it is ridiculous, just like it would be ridiculous for me to say I am a great seductress of the world’s most powerful men just because Cleopatra did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:39 PM
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I am a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:30 PM
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That’s also extremely untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:31 PM
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Your interpretation of my response was very obtuse and caused me to lose brain cells
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:15 PM
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I googled the first guy and he had some lifestyle guru book or some such
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:15 PM
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If you think that’s tinfoil hat I’d love to show you some real conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:06 PM
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Why would someone lie about how many lays he’s had just to sell seduction tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:04 PM
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Actually men steal valor from the actions of men long deceased and believe they deserve personal credit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:03 PM
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Women already do the childbirth risk thing and unlike most men here many women here have actually gone through that torture. The majority of men on PPD are not veterans and should stop stealing valor on behalf of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:02 PM
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That’s incredibly stupid and ignorant of male nature as well as an incredibly bad take on my comment. People are attracted to individuals, nor “loyalty” or “niceness.” I said if you specifically don’t like someone you shouldn’t ignore your dislike because you think they’re safe or can’t do any better. Not that you shouldn’t date someone you like who’s also loyal. You’re perpetuating this stupid cliche that shy nerdy men are more virtuous because of their awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:49 PM
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You don’t have to consent to that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:18 PM
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Idk man is it your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:13 PM
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Thank you for supporting my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:58 PM
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AMALT But no she should choose someone she likes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:47 PM
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You triggered all the “sigma males”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:32 PM
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Shy nerdy guys who couldn’t get laid easily are the first ones despairs to use the confidence from marriage to cheat or to whine and emotionally batter their wives that they missed out. No one should date someone because they foolishly believe he’s a safe option. That’s unfair to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:19 PM
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He’s French, their idea of femininity is different, ignore his comments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:18 PM
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It has nothing to do with him personally. It’s actually better to be up front that your goal is long term, then the guy understands that you’re vetting any guy based on if he fits that goal, rather than thinking you got personally attached to one guy super early. You’ll also filter out time wasters fast. If you are seeking a spouse then trying to come off chill and not caring isn’t really effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:15 PM
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Women do give them a shot all the time. If they like them there’s no reason not to. However AMALT so if the reason is “I don’t like him but I bet he’ll be more loyal and nice than other men” then it’s a bad reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:13 PM
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AMALT, don’t think a shy nerdy guy won’t do the same thing other guys have done. You should do what you want and not sleep with someone until you want. Don’t take advice from men here. They’re almost all young single thirsty guys who would lure you to your ruin if you were to actually believe their advice. It’s all a projection of their thirst, and bitterness at sexually successful men. It has nothing to do with your best interest or strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:11 PM
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Now this is the kind of quality shitpost content I subscribe for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:35 AM
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I’ve learned how incredibly lucky I am to have avoided…all this…in my romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:48 PM
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Less censorship than most places. I have always enjoyed discussing human relationships. Now it’s a bit different and more like a fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:02 PM
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Yeah I’m confused. Who says it’s easy to get a 6 pack? People know it’s annoyingly hard to the point those guys have to become prissy and impossible to take anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:00 PM
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Move reference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:39 AM
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I’m sorry you’re so hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:39 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:38 AM
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If you can under sarcasm I meant men generally do not look for casual sex with women who get attached and obsessed and demand a ring. Men here pretend they want that but men don’t actually want that from a girl they hookup with. They just don’t want her to do that for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:36 AM
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You rebutted something I didn’t say Yes I’m sure you’re all looking for wives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:23 AM
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You said something completely different from what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:17 AM
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Yup all men want stage 5 clingers who never leave after casual sex and ask where the ring is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:19 PM
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I don’t watch e These are just all over Reddit including on the manosphere It’s obvious what happens to men who feel they missed out Their wives pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:18 PM
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You really didn’t but thanks for conceding the argument in a very female way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:56 PM
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Women do not think about the “ideal vag” 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:51 PM
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I definitely know more than you do about dominant men, for better or worse. I didn’t say anywhere that I want an alpha or that Chads are good. You are the one who is getting into an imaginary dick measuring contest because you’re obsessed with being alpha. I don’t bring my husband into purple pill because it’s against my religion to cast pearls before swine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:49 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:30 PM
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I’m married and pregnant I’m not a black piller. Chad or alpha isn’t about good looks. Poly people aren’t a good example of anything except outliers. Needing a formal structure with rules to let you have casual sex is by definition not alpha. Who cares though? Nobody said only Chad is sexually successful. Also jealousy is fine who cares. Neurosis over someone’s past if it’s not affecting the present makes everyone’s life harder so that’s why we were discussing how it inhibits people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:23 PM
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But if you were exclusive then that would be the only time with the roommate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:53 PM
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Chads are low neurosis, it’s part of their sexual success and also means they don’t ruminate over her past partners. Poly people and swingers are not Chad. that’s why they need all the structure and rules and lifestyle scene to live out their sexual lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:52 PM
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I thought only women blame their actions on people outside of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:50 PM
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Guys really can’t tell at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:40 PM
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I thought men had an internal locus of control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:36 PM
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Yup. It’s like those people who want exclusivity before even the first date. I can’t imagine making myself beholden to someone I don’t even know romantically yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:13 PM
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They don’t like or dislike it they just assume she’s with me so I’m the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:12 PM
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Don’t wait for her. Her seeing you in demand might trigger her to dump the bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:11 PM
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Dominant men just assume they are the best she’s ever had and don’t think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:30 PM
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Haven’t you heard, all men want women who get hopelessly attached from even one instance of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:30 PM
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They want the government to get them out of awkward situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:27 PM
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Women have to consider carrying and raising children they didn’t plan for and the man just fucking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:26 PM
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It’s thrown out because it triggers men the most The fact that it’s used now more than “virgin” goes to show women don’t dislike all virgins just a certain type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:20 PM
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Flirt with other women now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:11 PM
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Motte and Bailey You know perfectly well self describing as incel is not the same as just being a virgin man so I won’t continue this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:09 PM
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No, incels are a self chosen label and a political category, with dangerous chips on their shoulder. A low n man is just a low n man. Just like a bachelor isn’t a mgtow by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:06 PM
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There are men who prefer virgins but don’t want to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:05 PM
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Yes of course I’m serious only a man would think incels can treat women well. A run of the mill jerk is far preferable to a psycho who locks you in the basement demanding penance for your prior experience and not being a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:03 PM
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This sub is amazing lol TIL all men ever wanted is meaningful attached sex with women who form unbreakable bonds with them and will be a part of their lives forever no matter what because they got so attached during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:01 PM
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There is enough anecdotal data to disprove these sweeping statements so as to render them meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:31 PM
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Pro tip: people choose the insult they think will annoy someone the most, not the one they believe the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:30 PM
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There is no planet on which an incel would treat a woman better than a high N man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:30 PM
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Why then do I keep seeing stories about virgin men who got married and then get massive chips on their shoulder about missing out and start calling their low N wives whores? So much for better treatment and bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:29 PM
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And this “Chad”, is he in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:27 PM
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Guys do take sex to hear just in a different way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:24 PM
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It’s refreshingly honest that you admit what many men want which is a woman who detaches love from sex to randomly sleep with him, and then to condemn her for doing exactly what he wanted. You’re making FDS look wise for many single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:15 PM
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The symptoms you describe are concerning enough that a neurologist could be appropriate and might even be able to help, regardless of their origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:54 AM
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🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:41 AM
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They would find out the real reason for your symptoms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:35 AM
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You might want to see a neurologist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:23 PM
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Yeah imagine if we didn’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:02 PM
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Strippers love guys with cash
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:53 PM
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You don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:57 PM
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OP assumes they are all LARPing sheep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:39 PM
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they are trying to filter out guys like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:38 PM
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The “psycho Jesus shit” is what gives them their values Do you understand that religious people are religious and not just LARPing or do you project your own lack of faith onto everybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:37 PM
1

I’ve seen it many times dude why does everyone here assume you’ve been living in a total vacuum your entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:09 AM
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Yeah that’s what I meant. Uh huh. not that the experience of someone who doesn’t even pass clearly doesn’t reflect anything about the male experience. Someone who doesn’t even pass as male isn’t the same story as an ugly man. She really can only speak for trans ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:39 AM
1

Yup it works
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:38 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:28 PM
2

🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:18 PM
0

That’s a common complaint women make while single then they find a guy who fulfills both qualities and marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:18 PM
2

I’m gonna blow your mind when I say I did exactly that by going on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:13 PM
5

Alphas make women act bpd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:16 PM
1

I meant for them but ok yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:52 PM
1

It’s just highly unusual that’s one of the top traits you’re seeking in a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:47 PM
1

Incorrect assumption Plus part of good character is being a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:46 PM
2

Give me a moment to catch my breath from witnessing these mind-boggling mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:27 PM
2

They don’t count because they are either completely within their control or completely out of their control. Holy shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:25 PM
1

Women who run around acting like screeching psychos being ugly loud and insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:19 PM
2

I don’t know what else to tell you. You said the risks women take for pregnancy don’t count because they are “just biology.” I used other examples to make a point about why that makes no sense, and all you gleaned from it was the word restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:18 PM
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I don’t believe you hold yourself to the same standards as you do the woman you’d like. I also am not sure if you realize criticism has a very negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:17 PM
1

Sounds really fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:11 PM
1

If someone is at high risk of blood clots or is allergic to many things and eating at a restaurant is more dangerous for them than you, that has “nothing to do with risk” because it’s biological?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:09 PM
1

Good luck then, it’s a pretty bad compass, 50/50 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:08 PM
1

All you need to see is how someone responded to family of origin. Bad family of origin and they responded by getting away and carving out their own path and being better = green flag. Good family of origin and they responded by deciding they are divinely chosen as a superior breed = red flag. So as per your comment on twins you’re just a genetic determinist who doesn’t believe in human character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:06 PM
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What’s interesting to me is that you immediately changed the definition of criticism to mean a woman who motivates you to be your best, when it comes to you. But when it comes to what you want in a woman you specified she should be open to your critiques. Being critical and being motivating have very different connotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:01 PM
2

It’s best to watch how someone responds to adversity rather than assume the adversity happening to them to begin with is a sign of their poor character. That’s superstition. Also avoid people who think fortunate accidents of their birth / lack of major problems to date are a sign of their own superior character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:59 AM
1

It’s accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:51 AM
3

I think you’re lying or else you have some fetish. It is not human nature to be turned on by someone being hypercritical of you. I did say I don’t mean “oh that should be good for my character” but literally is that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:50 AM
1

I can make an educated guess that you being on this sub wouldn’t value some of the truly feral savages I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:49 AM
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Again. Family of origin is not a “trait” So all of you must believe in karma huh Twins do not have the same nature lol. You all take genetic determinism to the point of magical thinking but somehow still also blame everything on parents alone. Amazing mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:47 AM
0

Generally saying yikkkkessss to someone being sincere with you is cunty as is your last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:46 AM
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A lot of men can’t actually judge female character due to lust-blindness. So they have to make up other things to go by other than actions and character. Also some people really like getting on someone’s case for things they can’t control. Also I’d say a lot of men here are hypo-agent so they assume everyone else also behaves like a victim of circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:37 AM
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So when you think about what attracts you to a woman and the kind of relationship you want Are you innately drawn to the idea of a woman who better helps you take criticism and introspect on your own faults when there is a problem? Is that desirable on an instinctive level? Not “oh yes that would be good for building character” but is that something that’s a major turn on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:34 AM
1

Thanks for the cunty reply to a sincere discussion? Regardless, some incel out there still really needs to see my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:32 AM
2

Not nearly as much as people think. Vetting for agency and personal responsibility is a much better bet than vetting for family of origin. I know people from broken abusive families where one sibling always had a winner mentality and ended up successful with kind character and other siblings just gave up and said I’m too messed up and the world owes me things. I’ve seen the exact same dynamic play out with siblings from families with happily married parents who tried to be virtuous. One sibling …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:29 AM
1

Please take all my upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:24 AM
1

You think someone being fun outgoing partying and charismatic in a way that makes girls like him is a jester
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:23 AM
1

Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:22 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:18 AM
1

What do you mean doesn’t care for OLD and why does that relate to not being big on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:18 AM
2

I would say if someone’s dad does really suck it’s more of a green flag that they have proper boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:16 AM
4

Exterior as in not directly related to her character as judged by her actions. The accidental circumstances of your birth are not “traits.” Some of you really seem to believe in karma or divine right of kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:15 AM
1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:15 AM
1

They’re not. You really want to watch out for low n count people who get in a relationship and suddenly have confidence from it and now think “wow if I’d had this confidence before I wouldn’t have missed out…”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:13 AM
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I’ve been trying to tell people that married parents who are super nice isn’t on its own a reliable measure, sometimes people get spoiled or entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:07 AM
2

IME some of the most screwed up men I knew had good dads and happily married parents. Some of the best guys I know also have happily married parents. Others don’t but they have innate good character. I didn’t know people still judge on this in current year but it’s not a reliable measure of behavior unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:05 AM
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being able to be criticized Yes what woman isn’t lining up to be with the guys who want to help her learn to be criticized better and learn to think everything is her fault. All people find those to be such enticing relationship prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:03 AM
5

I feel bad for you guys using this heuristic. Some of the worst people I’ve met had happily married loving parents. Unfortunately there’s more to it than that, they have to be raised well too or they can become super spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:02 AM
1

The accidental circumstances of birth are not character traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:01 AM
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It’s just a lazy heuristic to maintain a sense of control. I’ve known some of the most immoral and sketchy people to come from families with happily married parents who actually treated them okay. Sometimes they get too sheltered and entitled from it. There’s a hard balance. It’s not the best predictor. A much better trait to look for is the character trait of agency, wanting to improve ones own character, and wanting to be a good person regardless of the past. Much better than a hypo agent who …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:58 AM
5

Yeah. I’ve met several people from families with intact loving marriages who were insane. Others are very well adjusted. It’s a lazy heuristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:56 AM
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It’s about agency. Some people are the type who just let things happen to them and think they have no choice. Some people have a sense of personal responsibility and want to improve their own character from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:56 AM
3

That’s just your stereotyping. Plenty of people from broken homes took personal responsibility for their issues their whole lives. Meanwhile I have met people with good wholesome happily married parents who ended up super screwed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:55 AM
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Some people have bad parents and become better people because of it. Some people have happily married and kind parents and end up spoiled jerks. I’ve seen both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:53 AM
1

You think biological risks somehow don’t count?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:52 AM
1

At least you admit you’re only mad at one group and not at peoples general bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:58 AM
-1

Not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:57 AM
1

The supply is thirst not number of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:56 AM
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The supply is thirst not number of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:56 AM
1

Assuming she’s not going to do that bc clearly she’s not. I meant the marriage part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:55 AM
2

Yes which I think is fueled by a false sense of control and security in part related to tech and medical advances (which are good things don’t get me wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:33 AM
1

Just a little bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:32 AM
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Yes but not as a successful man or even average frustrated chump. That’s why I discount her anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:31 AM
1

Wow what class?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:31 AM
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Yeha good question. Maybe arrogance from technology and health advancement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:30 AM
0

The question is why you’re more mad at the woman and not the deadbeat dad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:29 AM
1

Being an unwed mother is two people’s choice not just one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:28 AM
1

It be like that Maybe there’s a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:27 AM
1

This is why you always watch what they do not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:26 AM
1

Get god pilled and it’ll make you need women less which will make them like you more That’s all I’ve got
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:19 AM
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Men who can take care of themselves will just stop doing it when there’s a woman around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:18 AM
1

I found your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:16 AM
2

Men do it a lot too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:14 AM
1

Can you elaborate on how that book promotes the Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:13 AM
1

You misunderstand the meaning of the complex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:10 AM
0

I disagree with the ones a person can’t control or choose but agree with the ones that a person can choose. I don’t believe in total genetic determinism of character and I believe in free will. I’d sooner be with someone who genuinely desires to have good character than someone whose got a great family of origin just for that reason alone. Believe me some people have lovely happily married parents who are pillars of society and their kids are still amoral and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:08 AM
0

Why does something need to be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:04 AM
1

Nobody is stopping you from living by standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:03 AM
4

Playing pregnancy down as nothing because men can’t do it is always the only card that ignorant men have to play. And trying to get women to be less cautious is always the card played by untrustworthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:01 AM
0

They know men can never do it so they have to downplay it as no big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:00 AM
1

What an incorrect statement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:59 AM
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They have to spend all their energy fighting from going fully into the woman’s frame and simping that’s why they think it’s so hard. They don’t have their own sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:56 AM
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She in no way passes as a typical man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:54 AM
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Supply and demand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:54 AM
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