TrueTherapist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
209	I flirt with everyone, but the girls i fancy		TrueTherapist	/r/seduction	23/12/17 03:08 PM
1	Is there any coming back from this?		TrueTherapist	/r/seduction	01/12/17 08:16 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
75	My female friends never seem to introduce me to other women... Man, you have a mouth, just ask. Did the same thing about a week ago. We are not even friends as we never went out, but had a good vibe at work. While chatting i suggested she introduce me to her "cute single girlfriends" she replied by saying that we should go out sometime, asked for the exact date. Now i have a night out planned where she will get her single girlfriends involved. Not as hard as you think man.	/r/seduction	20/02/18 09:57 AM
2	I worked hard on fixing my lack of confidence, but it's very stubborn when it comes to attractive females This is basically me. Check my post: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7lp1uv/i_flirt_with_everyone_but_the_girls_i_fancy/ this is the same exact issue we are having my friend. Acting cold as a protective shell hits me hard, so accurate. Anyways, you might find some advice for yourself in comments, its gotten better for me, but still, is a big problem. Best of luck!	/r/seduction	13/01/18 09:38 AM
2	Two nights ago I met with a girl I used to talk to romantically a couple months ago, and I got her back through full on KINO. So yeah, i hope you got this misleading idea out of your head that guys are the only ones who want sex. In reality, both genders enjoy and want sex +- equally. Good luck	/r/seduction	05/01/18 07:23 PM
8	Is she just being friendly with me? Go for it, no need to overthink, many guys get cockblocked by overthinking too much.	/r/seduction	24/12/17 08:48 AM
2	I flirt with everyone, but the girls i fancy hehe, nice to find some brothers, i will try to analyse it, maybe will get something out of it. Its crazy, i work at the front desk, so get to talk to a lot of people. I can easily talk to 10+ models if i know they have a man and my mind doesnt panic as im not going for it. Ehh, this is so frustrating and interesting this mind flaw of ours.	/r/seduction	23/12/17 08:32 PM
2	Everything I've ever known in my life asking out girls are rejections, never had a girlfriend You need to work on your mindset. This mocking of yourself and thinking every girl is making fun of you is really bad, its probably the mindset that gives you these results, as you project this is a possibility and this will happen. Girls/ people can sense insecurities and this mindset can literally ruin you. I suggest therapy.	/r/seduction	23/12/17 11:28 AM
1	Trying to talk to this girl met online Well, liking might not be a thing, but is certainly a positive. I see a nice opportunity to go to a music show together as you both enjoy the same music? Ofc, chat a little first, then let her know, that you are really excited to see this other "x" band thats playing soonm theres a chance she might join you, or just invite her to see this band/show.	/r/seduction	22/12/17 12:07 PM
3	Why am I not getting girls? This is ignorant. You are stereotyping and this is definately false. Every individual has his own preferences and this has nothing to do with race. Wow	/r/seduction	22/12/17 11:57 AM
1	Seemed to have more balls as a teen. Try to recall what might have happened in the period between now and when you were 18? Finding a root of this whole anxiety is important. Then it would be easier to figure out steps you need to take to get back into that mind state. Maybe some kind of trauma, a bad experience that planted a seed in your mind?	/r/seduction	22/12/17 11:42 AM
-5	What should you text when a girl can't meet up for a week and a bit? "We will set up a coffee once you are back" is a definition of being needy.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 10:53 PM
0	Second tinder date (virgin) Get high CBD strain if weed makes you awkward. Weed is literally my biggest cockblock, when on weed, sex becomes not desirable, i get much more pleasure from deep convos. Dont be me, do not cockblock yourself, you are about to lose your V card!	/r/seduction	21/12/17 09:53 PM
1	Got rejected Read some of the topics on here, really useful, but this approach is just bad. Dont take this negatively, just look at this as an experience and a door that will lead you to improving your game. I think we all been there, those first approaches, when you feel you are going to die and have absolutely no clue what you are doing and failing miserably (my case lol).	/r/seduction	30/11/17 06:06 PM
2	What pick up / seduction has taught me so far I can totally relate to you in this case, its similar but different at the same time. I can sense when the girls is attracted to me really well, but then i just become too self aware and end up ignoring them/ turn them off, altho im attracted to some of them or at least want to be FWB. I sometime just try to rationalise the situation with inner monologue, put it in a perspective: Okay, she is attracted to me, this is good, if i make moves, moves would be taken positively and she want me to make …	/r/seduction	30/11/17 05:56 PM
5	Going to a rave with a group of 5 people. im not helping with this, but Hardstyle rave is really not a perfect setting for pulling, loool. I would suggest to do a "pre-party", that way she could get more comfy with you, and actually hear what you are saying, (raves are super loud and people usually tend to go and enjoy the music, but it is certainly possible). And i do not actually think buying her drugs is the right way to go, having in mind that you never met her, its a NICE gesture, but it smells like /r/niceguys thing to do and i th…	/r/seduction	30/11/17 05:42 PM
-1	Got rejected Well, because saying hi, asking for her name and asking for her number straight away is not how it works, this is considered creepy, unless you are godly looking and already have the whole school wanting you lol. Its a positive, now that you know that rejection is not as scary as you imagined it would be, progress is the key.	/r/seduction	30/11/17 05:23 PM
3	Quick questions Do not think about it as being funny and charismatic for the girls in the class. If you are having fun, they will notice, believe me. Back in school, i was in the same situation, i just could not stop myself making people laugh, it was like a hobby for me, and girls really notice, started making pretty obvious moves, shame i was in the dark place that period and ended up just ignoring them lol. One thing to note though, from time to time, show people your serious side, so they know that you can …	/r/seduction	30/11/17 05:19 PM
6	The Ultimate free 2 page guide to the Art of picking up women Short answer: No, im not a therapist. Long answer: I enjoy helping people and listening to their problems, giving them different perspectives about things, opening their mind. Have helped to resolve different issues for quite a few people succesfully, including myself. Im really thinking about starting studying it in near future, as i think psychology is super interesting/ have a passion for it.	/r/seduction	30/11/17 11:10 AM
13	The Ultimate free 2 page guide to the Art of picking up women I like your writing style, analytical, but easy to understand the point at the same time. Story was smooth, definately something to learn from/ start implying.	/r/seduction	30/11/17 10:22 AM
6	28 years old female virgin Thats a terrible advice, have you even read her post at all? She is an atheist now, which means she is not living with her parents and does not cover her hair? + She has trust issues, so explaining situation to some man is not going to work. Aaand oh gawd, so many people live with their parents and still get laid, your advice is just.. awesome	/r/seduction	29/11/17 08:34 PM
2	Ladies: Why do you ignore someone that you like? Just act like you are unphased by this, have fun, laugh, all that(with others), dont crave for her attention. She will notice your change and might act if she is really playing games, make her taste her own medicine ;). If not- she is really not interested.	/r/seduction	29/11/17 04:17 PM
9	28 years old female virgin Therapy is so beneficial, it will make you understand certain behaviours and mental blocks of yours, then will make it much more easier to overcome it.	/r/seduction	29/11/17 04:06 PM