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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
461	Can men ever do “enough?”	Social Issues	True_Butterscotch_46	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 05:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Can men ever do “enough?” I see now. I see. I thought this was more of a comment on women / relationships in general, but your saying the concept of marriage itself is what blows. I misunderstood — thank you for the thoughts. How do you approach this with a woman? When they push for marriage, how do you have this discussion?	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 07:19 PM
13	Can men ever do “enough?” Makes sense. I have a family friend with a Vietnam wife and they are happy as a clam. Interesting.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 07:13 PM
7	Can men ever do “enough?” I agree with your statement, but us denouncing their struggles to “fake” doesn’t help the conversation. Women, if working, have a different “personal” life than us men. Typically that involves caring for a family, which is a hard task itself that we will never understand (typically). I think the challenge comes in that women don’t work because there’s no other option — they work to “help their man / the family out” which in turn doesn’t come with the psychological stress us men carry with work. …	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 07:12 PM
9	Can men ever do “enough?” My family’s been through 2 divorces, so I understand where you’re coming from, and almost agree in a sense. The scary thing about drowning out marriage or family is that it brings other consequences. You can’t drown a part of your life out and expect to experience the highs and lows of life. If you mute one side, it all becomes muted.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 07:02 PM
36	Can men ever do “enough?” How do you deal when it comes back up or does your wife simply not bring it up anymore? Do YOU feel more “accepted” after this? As if you feel accomplished as a man more?	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:57 PM
16	Can men ever do “enough?” Do you mind if I ask what culture? I’ve seen a ton of discourse that “Western women” (US) are so far different than Europe / Asia, so this is interesting to me. Aside from the countries where women have 0 equality.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:56 PM
9	Can men ever do “enough?” The interesting part too, is that the majority of therapists (I’ve been myself before) are women. So when you try to understand things, you’re reinforced from a feminist point of view.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:20 PM
29	Can men ever do “enough?” This makes a lot of sense and I like it. How did your wife initially respond during these boundaries? You mention she’s understanding, but I’m sure that’s been a learned behavior?	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:19 PM
21	Can men ever do “enough?” That’s exactly why we should bother. Lol. Norms pushed by society or women shouldn’t be the absolute truth. Talking with other men should alleviate these things and empower us not encourage us to accept defeat.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:14 PM
9	Can men ever do “enough?” Yes! Thank you. The biggest problem I see personally so women trying to teach us how to be a man. Lol. I wish as a gender we all took it upon ourselves to educate each other and support rather than use society’s “woke” or “feminist” push. SOME of it has merit. But 75% is bullshit that I wish we could all speak for ourselves on, TOGETHER.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:09 PM
7	Can men ever do “enough?” This logic doesn’t do much but ignore the question. Nearly equates to “shut up and be a man” — societal issues can’t be solved by “ignore those people” because they are our society. I don’t say this to attack, but more so pose discourse around the subject.	/r/MensRights	29/09/21 06:07 PM

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