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This man said screw it and ripped off the whole band aid lol
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 08:07 PM
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u/fathergoose and u/Sweetfor- Come on down guys. Let's see that same advice you use for when the genders and wording is reversed. Come on now; don't be scared.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 04:33 PM
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Lessons for u/Sweetfor- and u/Fathergoose
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 05:18 PM
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It's like they actively avoid talking about toxic women. The times I've tried to talk about toxic women who turn men into redpilled that gets blocked is ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 10:58 AM
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Guarantee he did it because he feels disrespected in his relationship
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 10:55 AM
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Everyone in this subreddit purposly avoids talking about these people. Especially men who are detoxing from redpill BECAUSE of a toxic woman. Sure she didn't MAKE me choose it but she sure swayed me by the way she treated me. Nobody talks about the women who is basically "girlfriend zero"
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 06:03 PM
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But this is a sub of understanding, correct? If a person has a different view than you but does want you help that does not mean they will automatically say yes to everything you put out. That person has every right to change their opinion through time. Sometimes repeated exposure is needed. If everyone is saying "yes" no one is learning or understanding. They're just nodding their head at that moment.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 07:20 PM
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I stand by it. Like I said, you have never been through it.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 07:11 PM
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Wanna help someone? Start by saying "I can understand where you're coming from. There is a possibility I'm not going to lie. But based upon research and facts (insert citation here) says different. How do you feel about (etc.)?" Not asking questions in a condescending manner under the guise of help. You have a condescending tone on here that I bet face to face sounds really different.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:54 PM
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And I'm sure you talk to your clients like this. And no I'm not saying you feel good for helping people. I'm saying you're coming here under the guise of helping to feel better about yourself. I'll even go as far as to say you've probably never dealt with difficult situations with women (because remember most redpillers are men). Just say it; I come here to feel better than redpilled losers. Just think about it; multiple people call you out for this. You purposely avoid things when somebody does…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:37 PM
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Dude, I know you personally come here to feel better about yourself. You do it under the guise of helping. This is the same type of person who would probably go "Woah, at least I'm not in THAT situation. I feel so much better about my life." It's not help, we know it's to make you feel better under the guise of "help"
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:52 PM
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Post history says it all
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 12:50 PM
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So true. I agree and I feel bad when it happens to good-hearted women. You're right. Noone should be abusing or using each other.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:44 PM
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I do respect you. It's frustrating to you. Which is understandable.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:46 PM
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Where did SMV come from. You need to let go of that redpill lingo madam. How can you say you're in detox if you're using the same language. SMV doesn't exist. Isn't that right r/exredpill?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:25 PM
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But the question that is asked is that she's purposely using him because he's a good man. She's admitted it to him. Are you going to tell him what he heard from her mouth isn't real or to be trusted? Shouldn't you trust your girlfriends' word. BTW, calm your jets. It's an internet online forum.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:24 PM
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He recorded her telling him she loves the fact she can use him and he doesn't know better because "no girl wants him."
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:21 PM
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And I did ask the question. The question was asked in the title and bottom text. If me answering your questions gets you this mad. Maybe you don't want to believe there are good (inexperienced) men who do get used by manipulative women for the purpose of their goodness.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:17 PM
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https://www.mollybkenny.com/blog/using-cell-phones-to-record-evidence-of-domestic-violence.cfm -A lawyer
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:15 PM
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The sad thing is I'm not. The more you're looking into it the more you're trying to create this man who is all the way flawed.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:13 PM
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But you have a right to record them if you are in dangerous situation.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 08:51 PM
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He doesn't want a younger woman. Only one his age. Remember if he's a good man he would accept a woman his age.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 08:19 PM
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There's some women like that out in this world. Some are your friends and treat their SO like this behind clothes doors. What if your friend caught it on video tape and sent it to you specifically?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:57 PM
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Good decent answer
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:55 PM
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This isn't a red pill question; though it could be. Flip the genders around the same things SHOULD be said.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:54 PM
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Good can encompass many things that are positive. I can actually say he's a good man in all aspects. I know it's just not possible in this big world for one person to actually be good. 7+ billion people. Not one can be good. Let me say it this way: genuine great guy being used by a purposely good manipulator who knows what she's doing. Does that break it down for you more?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:52 PM
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Who said dating a good inexperienced man is dating down? If he's so good he will have a learners mindset
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:24 PM
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I'm talking about a genuine good guy. He's just inexperienced. No narcissism. But I can understand your point of view and see how it could be a coping mechanism. Do you think these narcissistic men should be their true selves even at the detriment of humanity?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:21 PM
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Individual cases matter. People are Individuals.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:18 PM
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This seems like a healthy answer
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 07:16 PM
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She used James inexperience in dating to take advantage of him emotionally, physically, and mentally. Aka "He doesn't think he can do better, I'm gonna get as much out of this as I can." James, just trying to be a good guy with his first or 2nd girlfriend, has that same thing used against him.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 05:46 PM
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You're naive because of your inexperience.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 05:11 PM
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To you. It's interesting to me. We are entitled to our own opinion. Isn't free speech and the internet a great thing?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:51 PM
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Very plausible
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:51 PM
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Nothing. I'm asking an opinion. You gave an opinion. Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:49 PM
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You leave after the first red flag. You know when something isn't right.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 03:13 PM
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That's not a good man. That's a nice guy
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 02:59 PM
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Ostracize her until she acts right and changes. Even if she hates herself into changing
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 02:54 PM
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And why are people scared to call them out? If I have to call out misogynistic men, more women should call out misogynistic/misandric women (even to the point of friendship.) Your cause should be stronger than your friendship.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 02:16 PM
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See! That's what I'm talking about. Who or where were the other group of friends to hold her accountable and tell her to cool her jets? Where were they to tell her that her other friends are hypocrites and leading her on? Where were her other friends to tell her she's messed up and needs to think about her actions. If 3 friends are on your tail; and they're good friends; you're gonna eventually have to act good/right.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 02:15 PM
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I was expecting you to hopefully say that
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 02:12 PM
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