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Sure. Cold appraching is really good for your ego and self-esteem
/r/seduction04/07/26 10:17 PM
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Okey, but should I ask for a different date immediately or leave some space?
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:19 AM
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Do they ever text you back after you left them on seen?
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:17 AM
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No idea is dumb, unless proven
/r/seduction01/06/26 05:50 AM
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Cold approaching can be done at all times btw. (Not only daytime) The final product of dating apps is you going on a date to see if you connect. You can do all of that in 15 minutes of a cold approach. Why waste time on dating apps and writing if you can just go and see immidiatelly?
/r/seduction31/05/26 06:09 PM
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Would you say it really works, like are able to really see signs of e.g. increased emotionality?
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:40 PM
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Swarley, maybe you just don't get it.
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:37 PM
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I'm guessing you're good looking if you say that small % of people don't get a lot of matches. Men look at appearance, women don't. So for her to like you - you need to really be 8+ in her appearance categories. So dating apps are shitty for men less than 7/10 I would say
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:36 PM
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Define better? If you want shorterm results then cold approaching is literally the worst. It is the worst for so many categories like your comfort, being seen as an idiot etc... But it requires the highest level of social skills. You either instantly connect or you don't - that's the skills that cold approaching teaches.
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:32 PM
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Sounds interesting! How many times do you put them in and out before moving forward or achieving your goal?
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:19 AM
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Totally agree. Cold approaching is in my opinion the hardest pickup option, but the best one
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:09 AM
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But then corrent me if I am mistaken. You invite the girl to join you and your friends to do sth. So it's one-on-one meeting, right?
/r/seduction30/05/26 07:06 PM
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I tested it and when I propose a precise date and hour it just goes into this weird and cringe going up and forth with proposing different hours, different days... So I started asking her "When are u free?" And then finding a middle ground. But that's when they say "I will let you know".....
/r/seduction29/05/26 08:23 PM
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Can you elaborate on reactive mindset and how it differs from proactive?
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:13 AM
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I would say I'm being active. Elaborate pls
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:10 AM
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But that was more of a "I will let you know at what time we meet" Instead of "I will let you know if at all we meet" Does it change anything?
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:28 PM
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The worst thing about this situation is me freeing up some space in my calendar, adjusting to the possibility of meeting, saying "no" to other alternatives... You're totally right about "assuming it won't happen" Thanks
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:09 PM
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True. I just realised that the girl I'm into is the girl that has the courage to say "no". Not leave me without an answer :)
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:03 PM
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I have the approach of being the guy that is communicating instead of being offeded by ego (as I previously had been). If she doesn't reply I try to give her the benefit of the doubt. For example she might be scared to reply now, because too much time has already passed, or she left me on seen for too long without answering. She doesn't want to feel rejected so she won't answer now even if she's interested, because it's high chance I have already rejected her. Does it make sense?
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:58 PM
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I actually started having a CRM for girls, because I had so many option since I decided to do 1 cold approach daily. What do you think about it?
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:47 PM
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So you're saying that it's just a numbers game?
/r/seduction09/05/26 09:55 PM
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So you kiss-close her after 10 minutes or leave?
/r/seduction09/05/26 09:54 PM
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Well what if I'd love to understand how world works?
/r/seduction09/05/26 09:53 PM
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How should I then escalate interaction so quickly without being seen as a needy guy that wants to fuck her after 5 minutes of talking? I like that uno card, but if I leave her in a club to approach other fish I might not see her again in the crowd. Beside how do you image leaving her for a bit? Should I approach other fish so that she sees me? Do I wait for her to come to me or do I come back to her? How long do I leave her for and what do I do if there's already another dude talking to her?
/r/seduction09/05/26 09:52 PM
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How do I then differentiate a girl that just wants to get a free drink from a girl that needs "a gift" in order to move interaction forward?
/r/seduction09/05/26 09:44 PM
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That was exactly my way of thinking. I didn't wanted to "buy" attention. Next time she would tell me to fuck off if I didn't buy her second drink... beside they say that if you buy her sth --> you prove her superiority, because you're not enought to get her.
/r/seduction09/05/26 09:41 PM
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That night I wasn't drinking therefore not buying anything. If I were to guess she wanted me to buy her sth. I didn't do it. So she bought it herself. And the rest you know.
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:08 PM
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Hard to say. You would need to paint a broader picter of how you actually do it. But I do see a few things you could look into. First of all, for women, the most important aspect of dating are emotions. She gave you number, because she felt like and she didn't go a date with you, because she didn't feel like to. You probably take too long to ask her out and her emotions fade away. Try meeting with her as soon as possible. The next day after the approach for example. Alternatively, the problem ma…
/r/seduction25/04/26 10:40 PM
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