| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Spiraling into the Blue VortexRichard Cooper often says that men has a tendency to complicate their own lives . And we all guilty of that at some point of our lives . Here’s a kicker - she can easily be emotionally immature and emotionally unavailable, but intelligent and smart all at the same time .. these things are NOT mutually exclusive and so this “relationship” is destined to fail at one point or the other . Women that have a burning genuine desire for you will be pretty straight forward about it despite the rules and … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Spiraling into the Blue VortexShe was as unsure about you as you were unsure about her . Otherwise… she would try to reach out and re-negotiate at least something with you . She was just not interested to fight for a relationship with you and that stings a lot retroactively… I’ve had a few similar situations happened to me where a woman either tried to “friendzone” me to save her dignity from expectations she kinda had OR straight up blocking me for not initiating a contact and having a solid plan .. But either way - medium … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/22 10:25 PM |
| 5 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withThat looks like she might be a BPD girl … or any other attachment trauma .. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/22 11:26 PM |
| 8 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withThat looks like she might be a BPD girl … or any other attachment trauma .. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Modern fathers are responsible for 99% of "slutty"/sexually dysfunctional womenF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | If You're Afraid to Lose Her, You Already DidHave you ever noticed how sometimes you are literally “invisible” to other people when you’re at the gym , public transportation , cafe or the street? Like how people, including the ladies ,are minding their own business.?! Until you of course trying to change that , but on your own terms , which is again… the frame .. The same here with your girl .. Women have no cognitive dissonance when they go from “lovers” to “strangers” with you and this girl is a no exception.. She is in love with her dra… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?We know what you talking about , man .. Again .. it’s an experience with those types of women .. and the experiences and statistics show that you most likely won’t have a “happily ever after” with them .. You can still have fun though .. “She probably has more skeletons in her closet than MJ’s Thriller “ ( lol ) | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Yeah .. you can still have fun with them ,cause you got game, experience and you don’t consider seriously dating them… Things drastically change when that person becomes someone you want to come home to .. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?{experience} is the key word in here .. When you spin plates - you experience all kinds of women, including the still hot 35 y.o , but after a few months you WILL know what went wrong in her past and NO - it’s not anyone’s Fantasy- it’s just eating too many of those proverbial “apples” and it has a psychological repercussions that she refused to acknowledge back in a day .. Heart wants what it wants , but sadly happiness wasn’t guaranteed… Some say it’s an echo chamber of the same old story, but… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?That is the problem… She can act as if she wants a real relationship.. then she locks down a guy and continues on her carousel.. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Family and friends giving me guilty conscience for breaking up with unicorn LTRNot about living in fear … it’s about being assertive with women ..you can just casually spin them around without dedicating your life to them , especially for a young fella like him .. He is way too young to worry.. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Onenitis experience - Report or how I fucked myself emotionally and shot myself in the foot.“Anna” easily could be co-morbid BPD / NPD … Just a bit different from how your ex was .. But nevertheless “pulled the rug” the same way … BPD experiences are dangerous , cause we end up craving that intense stuff with women and more often than not end up with the same old narcissistic woman .. She is clever , charming , socially skilled … You can win if your {dark triad} skill set is advanced , but again… it always be just a game with them .. I don’t recommend involving them into your circle or… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 7 | Onenitis experience - Report or how I fucked myself emotionally and shot myself in the foot.Had few of those experiences.. The moment any woman trying to take swing on my soul - i block them, cause i know it will only get worse .. It doesn’t matter how good it was at the beginning.. Yes .. it does make them chase you for a bit , but you have to go No Contact for yourself.. It’s true that {Dark Triad} men practice this constantly, but we usually have valid reasons to do so .. Will she try to shame you ? Of course ! Will she try to be like “Oh , why can’t we just be friends??” OF COURSE … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 9 | Family and friends giving me guilty conscience for breaking up with unicorn LTRThat is not true .. Her insecurities can actually bring her to cheating… plus it’s also a bpd tell tale .. I assume his spidey senses and instincts telling him something is wrong , even though on the surface it looks good . | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 13 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneEveryone wanted that initially, but then we opened our eyes to the actual reality and saw it for what it is .. I’ve had numerous conversations about the “red pill” with women that come off as “conservative and good natured” and they were agreeing with basically everything, especially with how Rational Male lays it out .. 100% of women wants to bang 20% of high value men, meanwhile men don’t really have an attraction floor.. If a woman can justify why she banged a hot guy that 20 years younger th… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I have dated has cheated on me. How to get over the insecurities that came from this?It’s a myth that you can get out of every situation painlessly…. Pain is inevitable, but at least you know that you can survive this , cause you have enough knowledge and experience to act logically at least half the time .. Even if we became a lot more stoic and emotionally stable - still doesn’t protect you from feeling the loss .. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Fear of betrayal and rejection, an exploration on human valuesI look at some of my friends finding absolutely ridiculous reasons to comply with a really a mediocre girl that clearly doesn’t even respects them.. I don’t get involved unless shit gets real crazy for them | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Fear of betrayal and rejection, an exploration on human valuesIt’s all true and it sucks to be honest, but i as well no longer care and when you really don’t care they go nuts , BUT it doesn’t mean they actually love you . | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Please make yourself aware of NPDAll true .. it’s not that we care about the actual diagnosis- it’s where this world has gone to in last 5 years .. since more ladies turned 18 and bpd almost became part of a slang .. almost a trendy thing to talk about on Instagram and TikTok .. Borderline girls have lines of men / simps worshiping them , meanwhile they of course have their side-fun with {Chads} and bad boys ..NPD and BPD women are deeply integrated into the system .. They’re teachers, doctors , lawyers, artists… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you not let shit like this get to you?And now it’s time to “Well , burn it x1000” ☠️ | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 8 | How do you not let shit like this get to you?Yeah .. I’ve had a girl that stated “i want to wake up next to you everyday” only after 30 hours of knowing each other .. That is a sign of a rapid emotional state that is very very unstable .. You can only sorta consider believing the actions overtime ..a lots of positive actions.. which is a rarity.. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What red pills were the toughest for you to swallow?She was pushy , because she wanted to see how far she can bend you .. But her actions speak louder than words do .. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | What red pills were the toughest for you to swallow?She was playing both of you around .. In a couple of more years she will consider an LTR or even a marriage, but with her mileage.... well .. it will be problematic.. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What red pills were the toughest for you to swallow?How old was she ? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What red pills were the toughest for you to swallow?Plate or not - people will still get hurt .. She knows that she is a good lay and she practiced her skills perfectly.. everything is a very well thought out act , but there’s something fundamental that is missing.. it’s her actual personality that is usually a mirror of her current partner (s) ... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | What red pills were the toughest for you to swallow?But she was classically taking up a lot of your time, so her actions reek of disingenuous and bratty behavior.. If she had any virtue left in her .. she wouldn’t be available for any of it at the first place.. There’s a clear reason why her ex and ex before left her ... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Seriously struggling with the soul mate myth.Mutual interests and “views” can actually make it harder to separate her true nature from how she is right now. Don’t let her get you hooked on anything she likes , cause she might subconsciously want to create that “bond” ..will be harder to keep constantly moving on .. what she is doing anyways.. Seen many women straying from happy relationships . | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?Chase excellence - not women .. at all times .. I’ve personally treated the cold approach and meeting women as a fun bonus to the day and had a lot of fun with it . There’s a time and place for everything.. they say. Pre-quarantine.. you could have a nice balance between crazy and “normal” plates and it was quite an addictive routine , but today crazy girls are crazier and normal ones are more prone to settle down with a predictable guy .... It’s not an ultimate excuse, but it’s temporary. Happy… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?That’s the trick of the Game and the Red Pill , man .. If it was easy - we wouldn’t need to do any of those Jedi tricks we do .. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | "Run, you fool!" Ramifications of a BPD user.They know how to be “Your Biggest Fan” , until... they’re no longer are ... and this will hurt, even if she was just one of the plates .. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Bitches everywhere is not an excuse to be a bitchGood stuff , mate )) I’ve exceeded my quota of being called an egotistical a*hole cause I’ve had a tendency of losing interest after any “possibility of commitment “ conversations... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Bitches everywhere is not an excuse to be a bitchPlus “virus” really put the game in a “Luciferian “ difficulty.. Whoever says it’s not so - is probably lying.. Women’s strategy switched to choose a compliant nice blue pill guy that has a place to live and will pay for everything.. But the moment world opens back up - she will go back to her late evening “painting” class .. hehehehe Once you saw how the “burger” is made - can’t unsee it :( | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Narcissists, BPD, and YouNobody takes away the fact that BPD women can be very talented and resilient.. it’s just Blue Pill idea of making it work as “She is the one” .. Billie Elish and Sasha Sloan can be examples of that .. Industry monetized on a “sad girl” archetype.. She can be brilliant in all aspects of her life, except being a gf material +AWALT 🤯 | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Bitches everywhere is not an excuse to be a bitchOne of my former plates were idealizing me so hard - she ended up buying and using the same bodywash I used.. it’s all that fancy / non gmo / organic, but you get the idea.. We rush to put the labels on the ladies like BPD and shit , but she could just be desperate post-wall psychology savvy ... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Bitches everywhere is not an excuse to be a bitch“I’ve finally found you” type theme .. and then u dig deeper .. and she is a reformed stripper , a party girl OR she simply never got over “the one who got away”, which is even worse ... a guy is in a bliss of her “love-bombing” and she is just afraid to be alone.. He is probably is an attractive and Alpha-ish guy , but refused to vet carefully due to a dating fatigue or some other excuse .. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I met a psycopathThis is an important detail .. Her “lifestyle “ was a big turn off for you .. Like you didn’t feel like she deserves what she has cause, she didn’t “put in selfwork” to be the way she is .. Self control is a good thing .. I’ve been there .. refusing sex from a hot woman, cause it didn’t sit right with you .. It’s different when u go out and meet someone randomly and PUA-them ... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Bitches everywhere is not an excuse to be a bitchYeah ... and he will justify it in his mind .. no matter how much of things pointing out to her being an archetypal post-wall gal that is just mirroring him to fit in with his life .. We both know how this will end ... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 23 | Have you ever acted like a woman before discovering TRP?But then u become a cold blooded T-1000 machine-like Casanova mfker 😈 TRP test u for the pain tolerance.. and unplugging is a lot of pain and anger .. a lot .. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.We just gonna hope that an actual gf doesn’t have a bigger dick ... ya know ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 11:33 PM |
| 8 | A guy felt devastated after seeing old videos of his fiancee having kinky sex with her EX. People shame him for feeling bad and try to convince that the girl didn't enjoy it and was forced.Exactly!!! Yes , yes and yes !! One of my plates were going through the separation and she was down for anything with me , cause i was cynical and RP enough to understand what phase she was in , BUT then i realized that this can only last for a few months tops , cause otherwise she gonna start testing you for an LTR and all those unpleasant conversations start to happen.. It doesn’t matter if she says that she doesn’t want this to end .. You already done it all and know the truth .. that she wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Flags in WomenWalk away .. It gets easier with experience.. Practice saying “no” and walking away .. You will learn to trust your instincts so well - it will spin them all around at your comfort .. They narcissistically injure themselves with people who don’t tolerate their crass and demanding attitudes . | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Red Flags in WomenShe can also be a covert NPD or even a sociopath and it’s very hard to detect right away .. But she will be charming and accommodating.. and of course..mind-blowing porn-like sex anytime ..it all will be done in such fashion , where you will feel like she only becomes this way when you’re around and she may not necessarily have a flashy social media presence .. she may be off social media.. trying to virtue signal of how “old-fashioned” she is . Trying to get you bonded faster .. She might be a … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedI hear you , man . It’s def better to avoid those subjects all together . Ideally your woman has to be at least 5-7 years younger ... | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedHow old are you btw ??? You can spend time with her if you want , but you have to turn tables around and tell her that you don’t want to move too fast as far as the statuses of the relationship going . Just going day by day . ULTIMATUMS are never good ... if she throws one .. then it’s over. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedFirst of all - Thank you for your service . Women often want to get marry or be in a relationship, but sadly that doesn’t automatically makes them a wife or a girlfriend material. SHE has to prove her worth to you first . You can def have fun with her and see if her story adds up . It’s important to NOT to settle down out of “fear of being alone” . | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedThat explains a lot of her behavior.. She had her fun in the past and now she wants to settle down .. You have to understand that she might just like the idea of the relationship status . Her past really does matter, especially the way her latest relationship ended and the amount of boyfriends she had . I can tell right away that she has a very poor personal boundaries by the way she is involving her family in this .. Focus on yourself, man .. Peace of mind is way more important than solving a m… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Do top 20% guys still even get choosing signals? Starting to feel like an incel and getting depressed bros.Also gaming and winning over NPD/BPD/Cluster B women is not masculine or alpha of any sorts ..They have a negative value, despite their looks and charms .. Just do your thing . Grow, improve, look for the ways to make more money while keeping the peace of mind . | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?It only works if she suspects you seeing other girls ,but you shall never overtly talk about other women being interested in you .. You have to become a man that other women want and other men want to become, BUT it’s on a very subconscious level .. No peacocking or eagerness needed . | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedHow old is she ??? Given the current circumstances of perpetual lockdowns- I’d switch to a non-exclusive setting due to uncertainty of the “world” .. OR let go of this situation as a whole , cause you can’t call it a relationship anyways .. You shall never feel “held as hostage” at any circumstances . You don’t really know her , neither she knows you .. Involving her family into this was a boundary breaking move (stretching your frame ) to create a false idea of a solidity , but in reality she m… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedI assume that you’ve became exclusive before the 6 months mark ??! That’s way too soon and that’s why it feels so odd to you .. Long Distance almost NEVER works .. you have to start seeing other girls without feeling like you owe her anything.. She is almost 100% playing you. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Red Flags in WomenWelcome to the club .. I got RedPilled hard by my BPD ex 5 years ago .. It’s an uphill battle since the day you’re unplugged.. Honestly.. i started to realize that maybe 50% of women are BPD co-morbid with NPD ... AWALT anyways :( | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm an "alpha" widowI also thought he was just trolling .. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm an "alpha" widowI’d say take a break for a few months from all the ladies .. the fog will lift and u will get back at it with a different mindset ..ANGER has to be dealt with and not repressed .. Instinct -> Reason -> Emotion ... | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:05 AM |
| 4 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?There’s no need to get into LTR when you’re in your 20s .. You could non-exclusively dated her and other girls .. it’s sounds cold and ruthless , but it’s the name of a game in a nutshell.. All women complain about the uncertainty in their relationships, but they secretly love it . | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Do top 20% guys still even get choosing signals? Starting to feel like an incel and getting depressed bros.It’s a hit or miss... A lots of crazy / bpd girls .. OnlyFans account holders ( lol ) ...Any sort of dating in 2020 is a lose / lose deal .. If it was a stock market situation then it’s def just about waiting it out | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Do top 20% guys still even get choosing signals? Starting to feel like an incel and getting depressed bros.I agree.. You can chase girls and spin plates only for so long , but then it becomes a time consuming and possibly an expensive hobby that leads nowhere... Practicing game is good , but it doesn’t have to become the meaning of life . Yeah , the virus doesn’t make it any easier.. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 06:38 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter