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ty a lot
/r/askTRP04/02/21 07:42 PM
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While I do agree what you are saying, basically that most of adults use childhood as an excuse for their shitty life, I think you were lucky enough to no experience any of the bad stuff. It's like telling a guy without legs that he shouldn't be depressed of that... it's very easy to give advice when you aren't in that spot. ​ Again, I think people are too complacent, but also, there are a lot of people who don't recognize how lucky they are and think life is easy, because they never had a real p…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:12 PM
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Hi there, ty for your time. I don't know whether I want to forgive my parents, probably deep down, I want just to be in peace with myself. As narcissistic as it sounds, I've always take care of their emotion since I was very young, but I think it is time to think only about me. Thankfully, my grandma saved my life, because she was my true mother and she compensated more for all things I've missed from my parents. ​ Let me tell you my biggest fear in life, have responsibilities which I haven't lo…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:49 AM
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Right now I cannot afford it, but I will (hopefully) in the future. Regarding the books, I'm going to take a look at them, ty again
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:25 PM
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Ty I'm going to take a look
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:24 PM
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It was a very good advice, ty a lot for your time mate
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:44 PM
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Physical and emotional abuse to an extreme that I've need help from government. They are broke, even if I sustain myself for 12 years now, but I feel some kind of connection with them. I fear that if they need help I will take care of them, but I'm not proud of. It is more life a thing I have to do instead of an honor.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:57 PM
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Can you rephrase that?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:49 PM
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Canary in the coal mine. It could be an alarm that you are other serious issues to deal which that are way important that fucking girls. Your body does know that sex is important, but other problems can and should clutter your mind. ​ I am in a very nasty spot, along with many other friends who experienced a nosedive in their sex drives. We have different problems that linger in our mind for too much time and we don't have time to think about girls 24/7. ​ I think it's easy to talk about extreme…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:42 PM
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I had one who was really great, actually, he helped me a ton, but I have financial troubles that prevent me to see him regularly for a good amount of time (at least a year). Ty for your words and time, I've really appreciated that
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:31 PM
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Fantastic, ty
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:21 PM
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Very good story indeed, it made me smile in the end and I see your point. What they did to me, both physically and emotionally, was devastating to the point I had a welfare worker (dunno whether it is the correct word) that inspected my parents for they misbehavings
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:18 PM
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I agree with you 100%, really. The problem is, some lives are fucked so deeply that your suggestion cannot be even contemplated. I'm not talking about my life, but in general, there are a lot of people who are scarred so deeply that get a real job, hobbies or other things is a paramount problem. An issue that cannot be imagined from those who didn't suffer enough. I read a lot of self-help books but I didn't find any relief. The rock bottom is very deep and I don't wish to anyone, but I do under…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:15 PM
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Unfortunately that didn't work for me. I have some kind of protection mechanism that prevents me to let go. I want to forgive but their abuse was too heavy for my mind to concede it. Right now I'm depressed and I've developed a physical illness for it, so it isn't simple
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:11 PM
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Do you have a specific text in mind where I can start?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:09 PM
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Ty for your reply and I pretty much agree with you. Some of my friends wants me around others are indifferent which is ok obv. My questions is still unanswered though, let's say they flaked twice already, tomorrow they will ask whether you are available for something, but you aren't positive about that. Would you tell them why or just say you will think about it and take time?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:20 PM
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an epub version would be wonderful
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 08:06 AM
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Ty for your support mate
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:50 PM
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Yes, their thoughts affect me too much. I got at least 5 friends who don't work (and don't plan to work in their entire life) since they are from rich families, who can have all the experiences they want without thinking about eating. They got no abilities whatsoever, no social skills, no other soft skill, but they had and they will have an interesting life, full of new activities. I see all this as unfair and this causing me a lot of pain. As I write this, I'm realizing how much this is not abo…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:39 PM
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Now we are talking, your post hit me on so many levels... yeah, you are right I agree to some level on what they are saying and this is bothering me
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:29 PM
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Get in touch with your inner child ​ Some tears went down my face... ty a lot for this insight
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:28 PM
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Ty for highlight that english isn't my main language. ​ Now, you can post IT
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:26 PM
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Thank for the honest reply but I can assure that I don't, at least when I talk about my past. I take 100% responsibility, I don't whine etc, but the lack of experiences is indeed a huge void. I don't have to prove anything to anyone but at the same time I don't want to get devalued for my past. Anyway, you aren't involved in my life so I guess you are way more objective. In my shoes, what would you answer?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:20 PM
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Ty for your time You are right clearly, but at the same time, you gotta admit that I gotta say that I'm living with them. Yes words should be cherrypicked, but I cannot find a sentence that will help me. Well, you might say... I can just use your first phrase and let the girl infer
/r/askTRP24/11/19 09:33 PM
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No worries, ty a lot for your time. I really appreciate it
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:43 PM
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Ok, now that you got the "Philosopher achievement"... Would you mind elaborate?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 06:57 PM
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My move will look like this: Me: "next week we are going to have a drink" (after a possible rejection) Me: "ok, my invite is still up, not for too long though, you should think about it" All done in a playful way obv, and then leave
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:42 PM
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I'm talking about in-person rejection. Well, I don't want to come off charming or whatever, we both know that I got rejected. The main outcome is shurg it off, like I really don't care. You are right though, your advice is good
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:35 PM
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da fuck no I didn't know that, ty very much
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:54 PM
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Do nothing, I guarantee you're not even on this girls radar. you are so damn right mate
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:37 PM
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Ty for your comment, some guys told me the same but I guess it is social conditioning, most of the times. But I'm open to discussion obv We constantly see older people wear clothes that a 20 yo wears. IMHO, it should be the same of haircut in general
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:03 AM
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With my color or white?
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:47 PM
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He also has 25 years more than me... Anyway I see your point and I agree with you. Probably is just insecurity. Clearly, this issue touch me very deep in some way that I don't understand. Anyway ty man
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:46 PM
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I am currently with a GF which is bored by her own life. She doesn't have anything she wanted and basically she wanted me to provide the entertainment. The issue is that, I don't have to entertain anyone, she gotta look for some way to spice up her life. If she doesn't that isn't my problem. If you want to entertain her in order to get laid, that's fine and I totally get it. But in the long run, men cannot be the entertainers, men have other, more important things, in life. Thankfully
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 02:46 PM
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Perfect, ty a lot
/r/askTRP26/07/19 02:31 PM
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Remember her behaviour is the reflection of you What do you mean with that? Can you elaborate a bit further?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 01:27 PM
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Another girl... Which is better in the bed but quite annoying in some other parts...
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:53 PM
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Yeah, you are talking about soft nexting. This thing saved me a lot of times, indeed. I tend to forget TRP concepts, still plugged in as fuck, but recovering, ty again
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:14 AM
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Regarding the reward thing no, that's why I asked. I might be perceived as pouted if I tell her ​ "I don't think you don't deserve it" or "I don't feel like" ​ Instead, if you are talking about her overall behavior, yes. A few days ago I've replied to one msg telling I don't like her behavior, very hot some times, very very cold other times. Got no reply to it, we resume talking without bring up the subject again
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:27 AM
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"Ask" isn't the right verb here because she is very entitled and she thinks every guy should do something without any reason. I'm gentle if you deserve it, or at least if you don't give me shit, if not, I don't see why I should please her
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:12 AM
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I tend to get emotionally attached, but I recognize we are just at beginning so I'm doing some damage control. Anyway you are more than right, I autoupgrade plates to something more, without some serious vetting, we all know what the consequences are.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:14 AM
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Sure, I've recognize my clear mistakes, obv I failed to stay put when she pushed the envelope, and now I'm paying the price, as it should be
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:12 AM
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Cut out the bitch is the way to go clearly, but we didn't succeed... Even if we avoid each other for months we still going to bed as soon as we see each other. My therapist agree with me, she is the key for all my issues. I mean, she highlights what I need to work on
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:12 AM
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The last phrase was and is the most groundbreaking concept for me. I know I should only gauge girls' actions over words. She try to hide many things, but many others come to surface. She can't hide the lust for me. However this doesn't stop her hamster from running
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:09 AM
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Because I have a oneties, along with other serious upbringing non solved issues that the girl triggers in me. I know full well the shitty spot I'm in. I know I'm at disadvantage and I cannot do much, but I'm not able to accept it yet
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:12 AM
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I know, problems still remain. Deep down, I'd like to have another shot at the relationship, but I know it won't work. Question still remains, because I'm not trying to have a relationship but to have much sex and fun as possible.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:05 AM
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Social media are really dangerous if you have some troubles in your life, basically, you compare your shitty life with others'. The problem is that, people selectively post the best part of their lives, so you compare their best moments against your actual situation. Guess what? You become even more depressed. You compare oranges to apples. Just don't, best of luck if you have a mess in your life, like I have right now
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 11:30 AM
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I read a post last year in TRP section, "Make Her Day", I cannot link you because Reddit doesn't allow crossposting, so you gotta look for it by yourself. Anyway, I read it again yesterday and the question sparked in my mind, imho it could be a great training ground
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:52 PM
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You got it, I mean, I haven't wear a thing to please her. I just wear my style and that's it
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:19 PM
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You are right, next time you are with a girl and she stated: "I like take it deep in my ass" you should decline her tip. At least for me, mine and yours are 2 different spots and should be treated differently
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:08 PM
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My girls do not have a clue about my income or job ​ What do you reply when someone ask about your job and probably your average income?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:09 AM
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My story is way way different but the underlying problems are the same. Start to work my ass off again is quite difficult, so I've decided to get some help. My psychoanalisis is great and along with that I've decide to order modafinil. It should help me to focus and it should also elevate my mood, which is quite low right now.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 10:59 AM
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Really good advice here, ty Regarding the bipolar disorder, I don't think that's my case. I think I lived in a different reality for my whole life and then suddenly I woke up. I got no swings in mood and I haven't the primary traits of the disorder.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:17 AM
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If your mood problems aren't caused by something obvious that you can fix in the next few months on your own, I'd say consider medication. ​ I've took into consideration this and I've asked to a doctor really close to me. The problem with SSRIs is that the effect are far from instant. It would require months too see real benefits. Next week modafinil will arrive and along with the well known anti-tiring effects, it should boost my morale by some degree. Let's hope for the best
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:32 PM
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I know, I was thinking about myself... well, we'll see. Ty a lot for your time
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:12 PM
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add there is that if progress stalls with your current therapist/therapy strategy, that you should switch to another. There are other types that may work much better for you. This is a legend among the doctors and I went to different specialist, but this one is the best. My progress forward are very very tangible. ​ I socialize with nobody at my gym ​ Crossfit is a little bit different, you can't go there with your headphones. Right now I go to the local gym, when I have a decent routine. My bod…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:04 PM
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That's exactly what I'm going to do. I'm thinking whether do that will be ok for me though. I mean, I really want to change my life and I take full responsibility for that. At the same time I feel so lonely right now and I will be even lonelier that it would be even more difficult. Meh, what a shitty life. Probably instead of thinking I should be acting
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:49 PM
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I really haven't my shit together in my whole life, one year ago I was happier and more stress-free. But, let's face the reality, the shit I was in was exactly the same, probably I've pretend that it wasn't there. It's easier to do that instead acknowledge the harsh reality. ​ I haven't provided a list because it is very very long and all the items are interwined with psych issue that my parents instilled me when I was young. This add another layer of difficulty. ​ I feel so lonely, even in prac…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:35 PM
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This is the thing that I thought. It acknowledge that I'm in distress, so there's no need to lied about and at the same time I recognize people want to help but I politely refuse
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:25 PM
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A lot of things, like my job that it is good moneywise, but really life-sucking. My relantionship with my parents which hold me back in so many ways to achieve my potential and other things. ​ Some months ago, I felt like alone in a desert, whatever direction I would decide to take, it would be pointless. Right now things changed, I don't see a desert anymore, but a long, steep road ahead, with some delimiters. So I got direction, but the diffucult steps up
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:24 PM
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I'm doing a total life redesign made with objective and steps to achieve them. I'm very very serious about that since, if I continue like this, I won't last long. ​ Also, I'm working with a psychoanalysts which is very good. My steps forward are very consistent but I gotta do way more.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:20 PM
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Beign there, done that (also today). Beside a small a temp relief, it haven't helped obv
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:50 PM
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I envy you
/r/askTRP23/01/19 11:49 AM
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Is there any way to learn the basic of self defense without going to a gym, at least for a few weeks?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 11:59 PM
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Ty a lot guys
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:05 PM
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Bet she'll jump on his dick in a heartbeat instajump ofc... sad but true
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:24 PM
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She was attracted to me clearly because I haven't provided a single material thing she asked me. She thought a guy should pay for everything, have a nice house with a mandatory pool etc, obv things I don't willing to provide even if I would be rich. I think I did a good job, because she stayed with me because the emotions I evoked in her. If I wouldn't found TRP I wouldn't probably crash really hard now
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:43 AM
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You are right in general, my case was even worse, she isn't passionate and wanted to share, she wanted to make rules about everything. Probably the thing I "forgot" to mentioned is that, I got an alpha widow, she compared me to him in so many aspects. A fight that I couldn't win because she designs the tests in order to me to fail. Classic obv. She wanted to recreate the same enviroment she previous had, a lot of week ends away from the city in the cold mountains.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:38 AM
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Harsh but so true
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:32 PM
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In persisting in who I am?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:24 AM
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Many many times she tried, and failed, to change me. It's clear that she wants a clearly defined man, a man who doesn't exist in the real world. I should have cut her loose many months ago instead continuing with a girl who constantly try to change me and subtly, comparing me to others. Ty mate
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:24 AM
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Ty for your support, I really appreciate it. Well I know I should go on my way and that's exactly what I will do it. I scheduled my week in order to improve myself and go full monk mode... I'm def not happy, but I can see the light of the end of the tunnel
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:15 PM
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Just a perfect reply for me mate. I'm seeing a psichoanalysist that helps me a lot do dig up all the shit, and yes, I seeing him because I'm not happy about me and about my life
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:43 PM
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Perfect, ty for clearing up some messy thoughts of mine
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:54 PM
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Ty mate, as you saw, I'm completely clueless... Tomorrow I'm going to start SL
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:53 PM
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What about arms? I know these programs are the most effective out there.... But I don't even grasp how they avoid arms and other muscles
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:31 PM
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Harsh but so true. I coudn't talk about sex because she wasn't willing to do that. Dunno why but she is stucked with plain vanilla sex, I'm not a sex god, but she has clear hang ups. Even when I told her that I want to talk because I want to make go her crazy, she dismissed me with nasty behaviour. Gosh, what a terrible relationship
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:53 AM
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I'm studying a lot, believe me, I even compiling an ebook with all the threads and best comments, so I'm doing the work. You know it's hard to connect the dots, at least for me, and I'm doing my best. Ty for called me out on my pure BS, you made me realize a huge mistake which was snapfixed, ty again
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:42 PM
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Bad excuses, extremely jealous, no longer allowed to do salsa dancing, but meanwhile she was at kissing her female bff on her vacation without telling (probably more happened with guys). Like mine, she feels free to do what she wants while she tried to restrict me. Thankfully I never allowed once to happened. ​ ​ It's all they can play because they have no actual value. I know and she knows she has no fucking value, probably it is the only way for her to feel powerful ​
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:16 AM
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I try to fix all my beta behavior one by one but it seems clear that I'm missing something. Doesn't TRP advocate to never try to control her because if we do we would come off as needy and insecure? Also, this behavior will show that we care of her while we shouldn't... How would you have behave? If you can elaborate it will help me tremendously
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:21 AM
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Girls play games yeah but you know when you are getting outright disrespect over months. It's interesting that you haven't answer my direct question but your reply got to the root of the issue... It's not LTR material
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:43 AM
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Which is basically what he said... doing that for the ladies. I don't know, I meet a lot of males and probably who enjoy dancing are less than 5, beside teachers obv. Most of the guys dance for the ladies,and you know that
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 08:13 PM
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Yeah you got me there... my pool was 35+ years so yeah, they are carring a lot of emotional baggage. I should had specified... ty for point that out
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 07:39 PM
0

Would you even tell ever?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:27 PM
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If you want to continue into that shitty world, don't become emotionally involved with any girl. Treat them like the worst piece of shit because, believe me, they are. Best of luck though
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 07:08 PM
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I've been involved in the latin world and you speak the truth... also, be aware when you picking up examples in that girl pool. Latin dancers are the worst women you can find on the planet, they got involved only because their life is shattered. They got or mental problems or some relationship/marriage failed or a combinations of those two. You can easily fuck pretty much anyone there as long as you have game though. Regarding teachers/best dancers, yeah I've witnessed the same thing and I guess…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 07:01 PM
0

Regarding your pro tip, well, I'm working on it right now. I have too much expectations that are constanly not met. This is the primary source of misery in my life
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:38 AM
2

Ahah, English isn't my main language so I had to google it
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:23 PM
2

Woah I haven't thought about... But it is certainly an option, ty mate for remember me the basics
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:24 PM
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I'm glad you found it useful. Every day I see more and more people fucked up by their parents and this is pretty brutal. I'm conviced that in order to have a child, a couple should take a psychological test. It is unbelieveable that random psychos can mate and ruin a child for an entire life. ​ Obv best of luck mate
/r/askTRP21/10/18 03:21 PM
6

I'm in a meh relationship with one of them... I thought a lot about it and one therapist said it could be because I'm looking for the love my mother never gave me. So I try to replace my mother with a woman much older than me. I'm attracted to any girl above 18, the issue is my range doesn't have an upper end, so it is any girl 18+. I'm thinking seriously about going deep in this shit and please, at least consider it yourself too. Personally I will go to a therapist and seek for help, hopefully …
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:48 PM
1

I like it and you are 100% right that she doesn't have any respect of me
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:27 PM
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You paid for a woman, that isn't your mother. Seek help. I'm glad that I've never bought anything for my mother since she is a total disaster and I bear the burden of her faults... I bought 2 gifts for her in about 1 year, for an outstanding total cost of 50$. ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:21 AM
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She does not sound like a keeper. ​ As I was writing the post it was clear how giant are the red flags. She is not a keeper for a multiple reasons. I slowly deattaching from her and cut her loose when I will be ready. I was interested in the dynamic of the gift lost, beside taking into consideration the girl. K great, now I'm even more sure that she doesn't deserve any gift replacement
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:11 AM
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Well, it happens rarely that she buy me something, but obv yes... It just a matter of mannerism and that I recognize she did something for me
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:17 AM
3

She giving her body has nothing to do with me paying for her Sex is mutual benefit
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:34 AM
0

Well, it isn't about the movie obv, it just sparked the question. Let's make up an extreme scenario... A very hot woman noticed you and waited for the good spot where you are alone an nobody is around, throw you against the wall, put your dick out and shove it deep in her throat. You got 0 chance to escape, even if you are in a LTR with the fantasy unicorn. Unfortunately, your LTR saw the entire scene and you see her while the hot babe is sucking you off. Would you just give up or chase you LTR?
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:02 AM
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Ok, ty anyway archive.is doesn't work for TRP links, however it works for askTRP
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:51 AM
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Probably I'm not ready to let her go, but I got to. Our story haven't got a single chance due to out differencies and I don't like her a lot. You know when you see a persone pretty much everyday, you'll develop feelings no matter what the value this girl has. Probably I feel alone now, buried in my shit and it seems she doesn't care. Probably she doesn't care that much imo, but I'm not suffering for that.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:36 PM
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I need to work my willpower for sure... and you are 100% right about everything. Train willpower would require some time commitment while a completely phone ban will help me to get more things done. Obv I will have to do the work, but right now I feel the best quick solution is mine. Ty for point out that I need to work a lot on it
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:34 PM
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Sure, you are right but I know myself. If I have the phone at hand I will stare the screen, hoping for her msg. I will use my willpower for better purposes. At the end of the day you need to do what works for you. I have the bad habit of constantly checking the phone? Ok, quick fix is, getting rid of the phone
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:52 PM
1

GL with that and thanks again for your kind words
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:01 PM
1

Thanks for chime in man.... I'll do my best. Are you Italian btw?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:24 PM
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Hide your phone (set some timeframes where you are allowed to check it, but beside that, you don't have to use it)
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:12 PM
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I think most men have the same issue I have. There's a gold post on how to manages bitches hero on TRP, where basically stated that ANY girl should start at a level 'plate' and she gotta climb the ranks. The error I commit is to autorank the girl as FWB or better if we just have casual sex. This is a recipe for disaster clearly because you assign a rank she doesn't deserve probably and you'll get disappointed, every single time. Obv she isn't her mistake, it's mine
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 06:52 PM
1

Woud you point her out she got fatty or just continue to focus on yourself, lifting and eating properly to inderctly dart the message?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:59 AM
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>I said I only do that with girls who are only fucking me only. she said “its fine then” which basically means I want to keep fucking other guys including you so i wont take up your offer. ​ Maybe there's some language barrier here, but, doesn't mean she fucks only you?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:42 AM
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I feel warm in my heart, ty a lot
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:09 PM
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Yes, and you are tackling the problem at the root. If I had abundance I would ditched the girl in no time. But if we were in a fucking awesome LTR and still want to demote, how would you do?
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:01 PM
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Def I need to find myself, probably I've hit the rock bottom of my life and I battling against everyone and everything.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 10:49 PM
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Fantastic post man
/r/askTRP01/10/18 10:43 PM
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It would be awesome
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 05:48 PM
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Seems daunting for a non-coder, can you provide some help please?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:32 PM
3

Unfortunately on trp.red there isn't the whole sub backup
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:15 PM
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Is there a way to archive all, and I mean, the whole sub?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:07 PM
0

your acting as though you have a right to that 6k They don't own me anything, but they told me that they saved some money for me. I'm not entitled, but now that money would come handy I cannot ask? No where in your post did I read how you were planning to get a job and start earning money? Where do you think the money come from? just because they didnt give you money doesnt mean they didnt spend money on you Simply they didn't. At 14 I got a social worker because they barely give me food, let al…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:19 PM
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I liked it a lot, with some amused mastery in it
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:31 AM
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The theme is pretty clear and I had no doubt about that, but I see her next obvious question coming up "Why you wouldn't help me out"
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:31 AM
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Sry, there's clearly some language barrier here and I can't understand sarcasm really well. Can you elaborate a bit further or tweak the phrase? Because I translate it like: "I have money, enjoy it" which doesn't make sense at all
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:32 PM
1

Any experience with equivalent perfumes?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 09:04 AM
2

Done mate, it lasted too long, but meh... it is over thankfully
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:14 PM
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I was in a relationship with a woman much much older than me and I've witnessed the alpha widow hallmark. The ex was certainly an alpha, it was clear that she was comparing him to me pretty much everyday, and I couldn't stand a chance. There's nothing I could to change her mind. In her head he was the top and anyone else is fall short. I realized I got zero chances when she told me my dick was too long and she would cut 1 cm in length to put it in girth. This situation is really dangerous for yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:01 PM
1

I've fallen for a woman 16 years older than me... I can feel you mate
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:26 PM
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Good post and I like your advice... however don't you think the teacher got more than skills? I mean, in the end, there aren't a lot of ranks in that enviroment, you are a teacher or a student, so I guess women overvalue teachers
/r/askTRP14/09/18 08:11 AM
1

Yeah, I got a pretty good body. Def not big but with good muscle definition
/r/askTRP14/09/18 08:01 AM
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Hey ty, I just checked and yeah...it's updated. TRP is helping me out a lot and I don't want to lose it
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:04 PM
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Does anyone have a huge archive.is folder or something? Also it should be really useful to schedule a backup every week or so
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 10:38 AM
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Trp.red mmm seems the newest thread is about 2 years old
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 10:07 AM
1

Yeah sure... My thread highlights how long is my road ahead to living a good life. Ty for your time
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:24 PM
1

Well, even if you are not attracted to my girl doesn't mean she doesn't like to fuck you... And probably, emotions aside, you will always me against me. Obv is pretty nasty to see you girl is attracted to many other guys. Even if she would be a 3, she will be attracted to 6+ and it doesn't matter if these guys give a shit about her, she always long their dicks
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:19 PM
2

Lot of good points, ty
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:13 PM
1

I know there's a lot of money to be made, I begin to look up for passive income last week actually... Also I'd like to ask you whether you got 5 minutes to chat about these things
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:17 AM
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> Worry about the things you can control and not the things you can't. Build wealth, get jacked, and be a man in social situations Nailed it. I don't like my life in general, but TBH I haven't work hard to change it. I got little wealth compared to what I've imagined years ago... time to work my ass off
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:56 AM
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I would trade up instantly, most of the guys would clearly. I do recognize the setup, for me it's very blatant, but I have issue accepting it.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:15 AM
1

In the long run her needs change and beta-bucks becomes important. And later this changes again I understand as she ages BB becomes important... But later she changes again and she will look to an alpha again?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:08 PM
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But they are emotionally invested and need to be burned for it to be real for them Just perfect. I was involved with a woman who was 16 years older than me. Every RP concept applied and worked 100% of the times but yeah, when you are emotionally invested is just too harsh to accept the reality. Only by be burned you'll learn, as I did, as we all have
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:43 AM
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Basically I've suffered a ton throughout the relationship but gained a lot of insights. She berated me in most astonishing ways, but she failed to make me crumble. The end result was pretty big imo, I've witnessed to all the shit girls can do in one single woman and you know that life examples teach the most. Probably the very single thing I've learned is not to attach my value to a girl's opinion. I know what my value is, I know what I'm likely to achieve in life, so there's no need to show tha…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:37 PM
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One of the best thing that happened in my life was being involved with a much older woman than me that highlighted all the RP principles, literally. She used specific words like, status, worth, dominance, independence, money, to constantly reminds me how she perceived me as a low value man. Ultimately, hypergamy was looming throughout the relationship. Probably the best eye-opening teacher I had in my life
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:09 PM
3

For me, the scariest part is not the decaying woman but the thought of living a life along with a person you don't like anymore.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 09:36 AM
1

I've recently got a stomach surgery... I hope I can do something without die on the mat. Ty for all the input guys
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:48 PM
2

What do you do? Kickboxing?... Also... How many days per week do you workout and fight?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 04:00 PM
1

I love the post, however different people handle their bad things differently, some have huge resilience while others don't. While resilience can be built, we should always be aware that our upbringing and other series of events could make us stronger or weaker, this is determined by chance. Life don't have the same difficult level for everyone. We should always strive for our best, but luck plays a giant role. I'm writing this because bums are being discussed... I think these people faced a lot…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 08:36 AM
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One for one system means you pay one time and the girl the next one? Sry for the language barrier and ty for your reply
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 07:51 AM
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When you plan to do something fun, do you pay for her? Because it seems quite normal, since basically you invite her, but at the same time she is freerolling any activity and sound like BP.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:41 PM
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Yeah you are def right, probably I'd like to have some kind of support or validation. Anyway I won't text her, I've also talked with a therapist who confirmed what you all said. Well, in reality there wasn't nothing to confirm since TRP principles weren't invalidated once in my experience
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:01 AM
1

Ty for kicking my ass mate
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:38 PM
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Sure, your case is different. None of the TRP advice applies to you, because you are smart, successful, and have everything. ofc I'm not, but since TRP way of life is very difficult to internalize, I want to ask even the most silly questions. Gladly you and other poster got the time/willingness to answer them Oh wait. You are just like all the other losers who don't want to follow TRP. You need to decide what you want to do. Either read the sidebar and follow TRD, or go over to /r/relationship_a…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:44 PM
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I've expressed myself wrong, I have no agenda in fuck her again, but yes, I'd like to talk to her again. Probably this is just a moment of weakness and I just have to push myself through it
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:31 PM
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Next her is the right choice given all the shit she threw at me... ty for your comments mate
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:43 PM
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Well you know, if you are hearing this BS pretty much endlessly on any given day, I guess I've choose a terrible girl. You are 100% right that her words went under my skin, but your wisdom assume you are dealing with a somewhat normal girl, which I haven't. I'm not saying it's ok that I let her words affect me, ofc not, but probably if I would vet better, I would deal with a normal frequency shit tests
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:13 PM
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Because my vetting process sucks, I entered a LTR with a person I don't like and I'm a huge beta that cares about her emotions. Clearly if I vetted enough, this issues wouldn't pop up like mushrooms
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:50 PM
1

Nice amused mastery example
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:46 PM
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You have huge delusions, clearly you are hoping to see her again. Things didn't work before and chances are they won't work in the future. I'm sure she won't return and this is a lucky event for you, she just saving you your precious time
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:11 PM
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She invested but she got a huge emotional baggage that I can't stand. Gladly I've ditched her for good, so no reason to. Watch out. Ty for your time mate
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:43 PM
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She is very very nasty. My therapist told me that she was glad I've endure specific things she said, a guy with insecurities could bear damage for a very long time, she said
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:24 PM
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Not rude at all, I really appreciate when people are direct. Anyway, she dances because she feels lonely and gotta fill the time. In these months she switched from dance with time with me. She is bored of her life and wanted to escape, but I Don t care anymore, obv.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:22 PM
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I don't think it is... I'm just learning from my mistakes to avoid em in the future
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:11 PM
1

I've done a lot for her but she is old enough to think about herself. Also she has a true NPD so any advice will be taken as an attack. The last thing I want right now is to have a contact with her. My question come up because I'm reliving the "relationship" and I don't want to make again the same errors in the future with def better prospects
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:47 PM
1

All women are narcissists and bi polar but not all are at the same level. True, mine was an extreme one. My therapist advised me on that, many times, obv I've ignored, not ignored actually, but it's difficult to see things in perspective when you are deep inside shit. Find a girl you like , vet her , vet her then vet some more , see if red flags outweigh green flags , don't be needy and clingy , always work on yourself , be stoic , apply dread from time to time , work on jealousy , always mainta…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 05:05 PM
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The relationship is archived, no thoughts on turning back, ever. I just want to understand the errors I've made for the future girls. Ah yead, scarcity and onetis are def some issues of mine
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:52 PM
2

she
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:36 PM
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No problem with my ex, I just want to be prepared the next time. I'm revisiting the relationship in order to improve and avoid blatant mistakes
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:31 PM
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I don't care about the ex, I'd like to know how to face a similar spot in the future
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:30 PM
1

Would you say, or hint, her that she has no things going on in her life? Or you think you just focus on you being busy and who cares if she has a hollow life?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:11 AM
1

OP, you forgot one thing: not with BPD
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:18 PM
1

Dunno where you can find them in your language... I never watched the show but my LTR explained it very well to me. My LTR is the symbol hypergamy and I'm 100% sure she would branch if she has the chance
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:31 AM
1

nope, I don't thankfully, however I'm feeling a cuck
/r/askTRP22/07/18 08:03 AM
1

Perfect, really. I thought about that and realized that if I would see her I just listen and the walk away without a word
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:35 AM
1

Unfortunately I will have to see her again, not that often, but sometimes...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:36 AM
1

Interesting, with my current(not-for-so-long-yet) LTR we have no issue with frequency but with lack of fantasy. We end up doing the same vanilla stuff over and over again, often, in the same order. Since frequency and variety are very related I'm interested in this question. Personally, I know sex is an hard topic for her, so I wouldn't bring this up, but my sexual fulfilment is very low. Probably it is better to be willing to have a fight and be willing to lose her instead of settling for some …
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:45 PM
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We broke up, literally millions of times, but you know when you sense something is different, there it is... I don't think she is interested in seeing other guys right now, she devoted to me for 20 days straight, she wanted to show me in pubblic but meh... AWALT and I'm sure, you will be right. Well, one thing that made me suspicious she began to watch Temptation Island and became very interested in the dynamics the program created. She said she never cheated but because she carefully avoid situ…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:17 PM
2

Yeah, the light-switch effect it so blatant. Regarding getting her out of my mind I've just started, programming my tomorrow. Now I'm still recovering from a surgery but I will do body weight exercises to warm up my body for the next week. I got really no problems getting other girls, thankfully, but I'll chose to rebuild myself first.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:15 PM
1

I don't think she is going to instajump on other dicks, but obv AWALT. I confirmed my frame is shattered I wanted to make sure to come up as a kinda of winner or at least not a total loser. Also, can you link me to the thread you mentioned?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:40 PM
1

The issue here is that I apologize for nothing. One time I told her to leave me alone when I feel drowing and another time I told her I won't come to her place. That's all. TBH, treat a girl badly means other shit, not what I've done. I think the advice on apologizing is spot on, but I see your point and I totally agree with you
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:16 AM
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Spot on, gladly I can go to the gym in just a few days... but yeah, I see your point and I can smell hypergamy in any girl, especially mine. Well... it's built-in, nothing we can do actually. Ty for the reminder man
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:13 AM
1

I agree with what you said completely, especially when you told me that I shouldn't have apologize. I think is kinda expected to have bad times in general let alone after a surgery like mine. I wanted to emphasized that my LTR started to care about me after the surgery, before it she showed clear narcissistic traits, so my best guess is that she was feel kinda guilt but in reality she continue to be the exact same egocentric girl who always be.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:57 AM
1

She straight up told you she doesn't care nearly as much as you do. The only way for you to protect yourself is to next her, or she'll hurt you. You can't win this. I'm really confused actually and this is what is driving me crazy. We see each other pretty much everyday, I feel genuine desire, she want to spent a lot of time with me, but our relationship got huge holes. The whole thing feels cumbersome, not natural. Imo, we lack of a true deep connection.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:24 AM
1

I'm sure I'm projecting and I expect people to behave like I should in some situation ... This is pretty common bias people have. Personally, it feels strange that 100% of people offered genuine help but her. When people asked if she will be there, it was kinda embarrassing to reply. And, at the same time, it was awkward to see their face when I told she won't be there
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:18 AM
1

This your decision, of course, but, why drop her! You have a chick that will fuck you and isn't interfering in your having other relationships. KEEP HER, YOU FOOL! Because I got a clearer oneties... Being rational isn't my main feature right now.... Also, I don't feel good with her overall
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:07 AM
2

You nailed my situation. Over time, I felt something was off, I know I was wasting my time with a girl I don't really want but I didn't next her. This make the whole situation more harsh, for me obv, highlighting huge flaws in my frame
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:42 PM
1

I'm way overinvested in a person I don't like that much, so this is a huge problem to begin with. I didn't asked her, I told her it was quite strange to see others help while she haven't and then she told me she wasn't her task to fulfill. Translation: I don't value you enough/I'm not invested enough
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:37 PM
1

I was serious about her, but not the way around I realized. I haven't asked to her I hoped she would offer genuine help. If I would ask it wouldn't come from her heart so to speak. Last paragraph is so true and I was discussing the topic with one of my friends yesterday. I don't expect much from a partner beside the basics of a relationship but I think if both are developing real feelings of affection, the desire to help the other one should exist. Ultimately yes, it's better to find out someone…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:34 PM
1

Do you really think this is a GF thing? Because I don't... You can have a FWB for the same months as I have and develop some feelings. Imo it's automatic to feel the urge to be there. If you see someone laying on the floor agonizing, you are going to help him, whether or not he is your friend.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:51 PM
0

100% true, I recently realized that, in fact I began to flirt with other girls. I was very very deep in her frame since I accepted all her rules, what a moron. Beside this huge and basic errors, what do you think about my question?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:48 PM
1

I want to thank OP and all the others posters for this. I'm enduring a break up and I'm feeling depressed, well... after reading this serious stuff, I'm realizing I'm bitching for nothing. I hope for you OP, that everything will be fine, best of luck mate
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:07 PM
1

Meh, I got only once, for about 1 year, in a dog-rescue volunteering and I found the people disturbing. Probably most of them doesn't have a life so they turn to this activity. For me, they got huge social problems. Anyway, could be only related to my own experiece... overall I thought it would be a very good place to find good people, but it turned out it wasn't
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:03 AM
3

When I was out, I tried to keep an eye out for someone who could be relationship material. At first I had no luck, but then I had lunch with a friend who put it in perspective. “I want to settle down, but I don’t ever meet anyone I really like,” I said. “Well, where are you meeting these girls?” he asked. “Bars and clubs,” I replied. “So you’re going to horrible places and meeting horrible people and you’re complaining about it? Live your life like a decent person. Go to the grocery store, buy y…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:01 AM
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women here are parasites Remove "here" please
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:59 AM
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Basically part of my stomach is above the diaphragm. This makes me belch a lot, and I mean, a lot.... And some days I gotta stay in the bed because of pain
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:15 AM
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It seems pretty clear the common there... I'm attaching too much value/validation to the event while I should take care of my shit, that's all. If my ltr doesn't care well, I guess I can drop her later, but for now I have to focus on the surgery
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:06 PM
2

Yeah, I guess so
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:38 PM
1

Net 90k, got a lot of problems though... Anyway I'm lucky that my country isn't expensive
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:48 PM
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It depends, low stakes player could achieve 30k while a mid stakes could do 100-150k, high stakes way way more. I play mid stakes though, but I don t disclosure my income. Girls see that I do whatever I want when I want and that's all I want to tell. So yeah, she doesn't have a clue about my income and never will
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:28 PM
1

Just perfect
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:36 PM
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I like the first a lot, ty man
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:52 AM
1

AA is excellence and right now choosing "ignore" is much easier... even right now I can't come up with a proper AA reply, can you give me one?
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:47 AM
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Obv I cannot take your comment as an insult. She is the canary in my coal mine regarding my flaws, and I totally know that
/r/askTRP02/06/18 06:16 PM
1

very nice post, ty a lot man
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:47 PM
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I know she is narcisistic for many reasons, even my therapist told me that, so there's nothing new under the sun. I like your explanation of her thinking process, ty a lot. Also, ty for the tip of calling her out
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:05 PM
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She got a lot of experience, however many she don't get away with her many manipulative shit, I call her out instantly
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:03 PM
2

I know, this mistake is something I used to do, pretty often, but from now on I cut gifts completely. As a TRP rule of thumb: if you want to do something for her, ask yourself whether she would do it for you, if she won't, don't do it
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:02 PM
1

I would just ask for it
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:11 PM
4

See Rollo
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:44 PM
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To know what plate I can fuck or is the most horny given her ovulation period
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:25 PM
1

I don't see a tenth of the posts there... what I am missing?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:24 PM
3

I'd you were truly happy you wouldn't cheat in the first place, realize this and move on. Probably you didn't like her enough and you didn't nothing wrong imho. Men cheat for a reason...
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:26 AM
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7 hours
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:33 PM
3

A woman who hasn't any initiative, she just let fuck her and that's it... Like a chore. Avoid her at all cost
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:13 PM
14

bipolar Bipolar, boarderline or any related issues are a snapquit. I hope you learned it
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 08:37 AM
1

Ehi ty a lot <3
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:21 PM
2

I do pretty well in those areas... Anyway it was just out of curiosity. I'm interested in it even it if is total BS
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:09 PM
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The next time you are doing the countdown she will shut up and talk about something that enriches your life. What about tell her: "Have you got something interesting to say beside this BS?" She chose to be that nasty, annoying bitch and has to live with the consequence Right and probably, it's my own fault, I shouldn't choose a girl like that in the first place
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:27 AM
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After my recent girl, I can assure you I've develop some standards. It was a somewhat enlightning, since right now, I know what I don't wanna see in another girl. Ty for your time, I really appreciate that and obv very good post
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 12:11 AM
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I liked your post a lot, it's clear you have internalized TRP as you don't give a fuck about details... very good for you, I still have a long road ahead but I won't stop. To be clear, I don't believe in unicorns, I want to put myself in the best position to have less drama as possible in order to fulfill my mission. You made a fucking great point about developing boundaries, if I could do it, 99% of my issues will go away in a snap
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:43 PM
1

My post was about finding something more than ONSs or low-grade plates, but I certainly I see your point and I agree on the fact we should always practice night and day game. Personally, I'm going out a lot and I continue to be involved in the latin world where, if you stand out from the crowd, like I do, women slingshot their pussy in your face, literally
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:37 PM
1

I edited my post to made more clear. Ty for your insight
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:10 PM
4

Joining a class just to meet girls is pathetic, very true. I didn't want to meant that way though. If you like cooking for example and like to improve, you can enroll just because you like it. As a bonus, you could have some good encounter. Regarding your statement about cooking being a woman's job, meh... top chefs are men obv
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 11:05 PM
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You aren't an idiot, just a dreamer. I wish you best of luck though
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:18 PM
1

Average and plugged in people live better off of us imho. Simply they don't realize what's it is going on. Research also shows who believes in something more bigger than them are happier than who don't. Even if they don't have a life purpose just believe in God they male them happy. Do you really think the post office guy think all day about his life? Obv he don't. He have an average IQ, with an average life and he's happy. Obv it doesn't mean he is really happy, but he don't question himself
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:33 PM
3

Congratz, I envy you
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:38 PM
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Someone managed to save his other posts... Have he made some more beside the threads below? Hitting on girls at the gym https://archive.is/t2MZt Gonewild https://archive.is/ol1JO Autists vs Borderlines https://archive.is/VJb50
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:58 AM
1

I ditched her 2 weeks ago...
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:03 AM
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16 years... Btw she was looking for a provider but at the same time she want the younger man to fuck her...
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:23 PM
1

I'm non that young... 32 while she is very close to 48
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:22 PM
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Ty for the advice, anyway it'd clear that I didn't explain the situation enough. I fucked this woman for 5 months, but in pubblic our relationship gotta be hidden
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:49 PM
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Ty... I used to brag a lot, now I realized it wasn't a good idea. I mean, I always thought it was bad, but bragging got the best of me. Gonna change my behaviour...now
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:49 PM
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That's what I'm doing actually... I'm talking about concepts telling them it is from behavioral psychologist, which is in part true
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:43 PM
1

I have some BP friends who are suffering right now and I really want to help. I know they have to be prepared for the truth, so even if I talk about TRP (I won't) they wouldn't listen. Would you drop some random hint in order to let them think about relationships in general?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 07:48 PM
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I think the only acceptable social media is Instagram, and should only be used when uploading pictures of you doing fun and exciting shit with no captions. What's your thoughts on posting a pic with your pet?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 11:15 PM
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LTR You assume your LTR accepts everything you do. IMHO, GFs won't tollerate some shit for too much, but I might be wrong. Also, your small tutorial on LTR seems like a second job, probably if it is the only way to mantain the relationship, it doesn't worth our time. Anyway great post obv
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:20 PM
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Right now I have to get my shit in order and I'm living again with my parents. I know that it isn't that masculine so I'd like to avoid tell it to girls. Get my life together is my top priority but at the same time I want to game some girls and I don't want to hinder my chances because of my whereabouts. Do you think that mistery can help me out here? I can tell the girl that I want to be picky about which girl can see my house or something like that. What do you think?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 08:29 PM
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Sry, my fault. I didn't ask any woman to clear my doubts. What happened is that during random chit chat it was mentioned how smell is one of their crucial factors when decide their partner. I ask you, not them
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:52 PM
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OMG, you gotta run, I know that it easier said than done, but I was in your exact same position... You cheated I guess, because the emotional rollercoaster was unbearable
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:31 PM
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I don't believe them even for a second, although it's better to ask and clear any doubt
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:24 PM
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Ty a lot man
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:36 PM
1

Actually many many girls told me that smell is really important, even girls not involved with me
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:31 AM
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Me(32) her(47). I got a TON of shit to fix in my life, but she has much too. Obv you are right, I should flee way earlier
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:52 PM
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Nailed it. She was way older than me, probably she used me for validation/sex but obv she was looking for a provider. She clearly states that she want to be manteined...
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 11:04 AM
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What's your thoughts about the car you drive and the house you own? I mean, the last girl I had constantly nagged me because I'm using my parents' car and I don't own a house.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 08:39 AM
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I don't know whether it's just me but... I've kicked my borderline oneties since about 2 weeks and I had plenty occasions to kiss or get laid, really. I'm too down to think about girls right now. So I think, the best and doable advice is to just focus on ourselves.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:18 PM
1

If you look up online you are going to find that waiting isn't a good idea in general. Unfortunately you are right, it cost very much
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:04 PM
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norwood 2, but take finasteride, dutasteride, and use minox) May I ask you why you haven't consider hair transplant yet?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 08:31 PM
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They leave you like an addict wanting more but hating what you feel as if you need Exactly If you are a logical man try to see a borderline or bipolar ex as the most unjustified Oneitis We are men so we are rational, however when you are inside a relationship with a girl in general, is difficult to see the situation as it is. Even when it's over, the emotions linger a bit and being rational and objective is utopia. Obv, with time, you see the big picture as, like you said, an unjustified oneitis
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 08:25 PM
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Don't talk to her... If she dumped you one time, chances are she will another time in the future. Clearly the relationship had some issues that probably still remain if you resume
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:37 PM
3

Great advice, beside the fact OP is in love and he can't be 100% rational.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:33 PM
2

Well, the odds of that arent' in your favour. You probably have some personal issues and tend to overvalue or overeacting in general. If that's the case, that's great, you have to just work on yourself and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:56 AM
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You'll know when you meet one, you'll feel something's off and the emotional rollercoaster is too glaring to overlook
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 10:46 AM
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Tough one, do you have any advice on that?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:46 AM
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They are emotional, but crazy is a different kind of story. You will understand when you meet one
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:18 AM
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For me, the sex was the worst... She has a settled post wall mindset with a lot of troubles that I can't overcome. Obv worst relationship in my life too
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:17 AM
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You won't go far with this girl you know... the rollercoaster is unbearable and you can find better prospects for sure. Best of luck to both of us
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:40 PM
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Try to open to download it, because I just checked and the image is in good quality and you can def read the words. And yes, it was about the 47yo crazy. Regarding playing poker for a living, believe me, sometimes I'd like to have a regular job, it is too stressful and isolating.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:34 PM
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https://drjudithorloff.com/4-strategies-to-survive-emotional-vampires/
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:21 PM
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She idealize-devaluate you in a very short time span (could be minutes or hours), and I can assure you, it will drain your energy... Above, I posted my story if you are interested
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:00 PM
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Sure, here's my story
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 06:58 PM
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She knows I have a lot of girls' attention, also many of her friends saw me flirt with others. We used to go dacing latin together and she becomes instantly jealous when I dance with others. The problem was she is borderline, my behaviour trigger her correcly but her response was way too heavy to bear.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 06:33 PM
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Never Game, Let Alone Fuck a Bipolar Girl This point should be #1 imho since it is the bigger red flags of all If she is crazy, bipolar or borderline you should run instantly. These emotional vampires don't deserve a single minute of your time. Recently I've slayed a vampire who sucked the life out of me, don't do the same error as mine. Well, in reality, this is an experience everyone should try out, because describing it doesn't work. And at the end of the day, when it will be over, you will k…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 06:13 PM
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In hindsight, I'm very glad to see all my errors especially in my last relationship, which was, thankfully, a doomed one. So basically I've freerolled learning, since I didn't like the girl in the least... now that's I put the end on it, only my ego is hurted, but again no feelings involved. All the comments are pure eye-opening, at least for me, ty guys.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:09 AM
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I've dropped my borderline ONEtie, finally. But the main thing was acknowledging that I don't like my life and I gotta do something about it (I already have)
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:07 PM
1

Not only one... She made compliments of many of them, and very often. That guys is beautiful, the other one has a great body etc... With an astonishing frequency
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 03:25 PM
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Clearly she wasn't a plate for me... As we begun to see each other frequently it's natural to become a little more attached,imho. It would happens even if you are beside a total shit, like I was
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 02:17 PM
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It happened when I was with her and unable to instant leave her... For example we were on the beach with one car. How do. You adjust your tip to my spot?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:48 PM
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You see a plate very often now like 5 days a week and probably start to develop some attachment. Many times, she comments after some guy, regarding his hotness. Out of the blue, she says: "He is hot" or something among the lines. I'm more than sure this isn't a shit test, because she says this in a very natural way. Clearly, she doesn't give a fuck about what I might think or what I might feel. I just think I'm one of many other who like and want to fuck. Probably if she got a chance she would b…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:56 AM
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The whole point of the rule is to gauge her interest. If she doesn't want to go out with you, probably it's because she isn't that interested in your persona, but for Brad Pitt it would be wayyyyy different. So you should acknowledge that and move on to a girl who values you.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:06 PM
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I asked you that since I'm seeing a therapist who highlighted how I'm def not emotionally involved, but only my ego. Apparently I don't value myself high enough so I'm looking for validation from someone else, especially the girl I was seeing. Since she didn't value me, it become a quest to prove her wrong. Obv, you can see how fucked up my brain is/was
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:47 PM
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Your initial thread was painful as hell and I recognize a lot of my recent woman. She never done anything for me, literally and I always felt the last man on Earth. Narcisistic people simply cannot understand that, in any relationship, of any kind, 2 persons are involved. May I ask you whether you are emotional invested? I mean, are you really sure you cherish a girl like that? IMHO there's only ego involved
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:18 PM
0

In the YouTube Alex Costa's video, Zorrata is mentioned as a accessory provider. However imo, are wayyyy too expensive and probably you can get the same results with 1/10 of the price. However I don't know any cheaper sites, can you give me some?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 06:56 PM
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12 Rules of Life - Jordan B Peterson
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:04 PM
1

You got me, it's only a ego-related issue. Pure gold your advice to double the gym hours and view fucking other girls as a chore. I will do it and I will approach literally everyone, starting not tomorrow but tonight. Ty a lot
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:00 PM
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Solid post You delete all her numbers and traces of her. You block her everywhere - on social media as well as phone. Done If you been together for longer than three years, you pack all memorials into a place where you will not find them unintentionally. If it was shorter, you just throw everything away. Fortunaly, or unfortunately, it depends on where you seeing it, we don't have any memories or things of our fucked up relationship Then you get up, wash your face and never think of her again Ok…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:47 PM
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I'm getting validated a ton lately, but I feel the need to cut out time for myself and recalibrate
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:51 PM
2

I won't isolate myself, I plan to hit the uni to study my own thing and plan the future. Also I will continue to go to the gym 4 days a week and go to dance regularly
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:17 PM
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Probably any spanish country, with Canary Islands as first choice. Pretty and easy goig girls, low cost life, relaxed living, always sunny (so everyone has a good mood). Try to go on vacation there and see yourself
/r/askTRP31/03/18 11:58 AM
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OP I'm in your exact same spot and I feel you. It's unmotivating yes, but I think in the end, we will be winners at the game of life... we just have to play better than we did in the past. Only one advice, right now you are very vulnerable, the last thing you want to do is to get emotionally involved with a girl. DON'T. Because she is going to give you the temporary feeling that you are worthy, it will feel like a shelter in a thunderstorm, but it is just a fantasy. When it will be over, you'll …
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:50 AM
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I'm in the same spot as OP. Your advice probably is the only solution available but I want to add a thing. OP, if you are like me and like to vent to others regarding her, stop doing that. It will reinforce the obsession, plz don't be me
/r/askTRP30/03/18 10:48 AM
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Recently, I've broken up with an emotional vampire and I totally agree that your brain alarms you. When I was seen her I couldn't sleep a whole night without waking up anxious thinking about her whims. It was really painful. Now that I got rid of that cunt, sleeping is easy
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 09:02 AM
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I'm preparing to go full monk mode and I read an article on Illimitableman that shows what we should focus on. According to the Maslow's hierarchy of needs, sex is one of the most important (which is different from sexual intimacy). Does it mean we should masturbate a lot or I'm missing something? Anyway this insight is going against the nofap theory, which I don't know what's TRP option. Can someone help me out?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 04:22 PM
1

Can you elaborate a bit further on your last sentece? Ty
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 12:13 AM
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You are approaching a very dangerous status: get a ONEtie. Stop texting her and meet other girls
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:27 PM
2

I got some problems with the Briffault's Law due to language barrier... can someone explain me in another way the quote below? A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male (which is not bloody likely).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 10:43 PM
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Yeah I see your point and you are totally right... Megastarfish under the sheets. What do you think about the pic issue?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 09:41 PM
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It's Xmas, the girl you are seeing since 2 months, opens up the present and discovers a lingerie. She proceeds to dress it and she sends you a pic of her nice ass. You are 10 miles away, with your friends, you have seen many pics like that, so in order to get excited you need something more, so you made some good comments but nothing groundbreaking and continue to enjoy the night. The very next day, the girl confesses that since you weren't enthusiastic she sent the same pic to another guy, look…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:21 PM
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I was in her frame true, sometimes, when I soft nexted her, I went out of her frame but yeah, it was temporary. I hate myself a bit but I guess it will help me to move on with my life...
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 03:58 PM
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Machiavellian Definitely. There were many times that I've recognized she was trying to manipulate me, I've pointed that out and she smiled. She always viewed me as the naive one and saw herself much higher. Well, at least in theory, because she has a lot of insecurities. You have very solid frame for not letter her sexual insults get to you I'm not a sex god, but many girls enjoyed the time with me and I trained some of them who become a 5-star bitches. Also, you know, at 32, if my dick isn't ha…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:05 PM
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Thank you for make me smile, and yes, I will follow your advice
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:54 PM
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At it's simplest it's a sign of neediness and an intense need for validation . You don't necessarily like, respect , or believe in yourself so you need others to like, respect, or believe in you to feel worthwhile. I know... in fact I don't like the life and the person I am, even if all the others do. It's one thing when you fuck someone inexperienced who needs to be lead through sex, but a 47 year old has taken miles of dick , if she's not excited or enthusiastic about sex it's because she's no…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:53 PM
1

She doesn't seems 47yo obv... probably more toward 42ish. Anyway I know, I should focus on her potentially young daughter who would be 20ish
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:39 PM
1

However there's still that thought in the back of my head of whether she'll try to contact me again or hear from here ever again Yesterday I blocked a woman but I have the same thoughts as you are having. Probably you hope to have the girl back. I'd like to have her back, not because I've cherished her, but for ego issues. I can't wrap my head around the fact I wasn't worthy to her. Anyway I just open up a thread in the main sub, if you like to comment you are more than welcomed :)
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:23 PM
1

I'm struggling on this one. I mean, it seems I cannot internalize that. Probably we should work way more on ourselves and it will come off naturally
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:19 PM
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First of all ty for your long reply, but I totally wasted your time because I haven't explained the situation properly. ONEtie because I'm fucking this girl for about 5 months pretty much exclusively, beside a 3some I've done one month ago. We use to latin dance together, but right now we don't for multiple reasons. She tried many many times to make me feal jealous, successfully unfortunately. Now I feel this move will hit me in many ways... This girl could be borderline and made me feel really …
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:15 PM
0

Can you plz highlight how much I am retarded plz? Probably I just need another guy who is going to dig into my situation and make me realize how crazy I am
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:54 PM
1

Canary Island, any bigger city
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:25 AM
1

I will, my friend... I'm involved in Latin dance world and there the girls want to have fun... I just have to capitalize it. Right now I got several of them who want to bang me but I'm not interested due to my ONEtie. Yes I know, when you have a ONEtie I should bang other girls regardless and I will force myself. Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:19 PM
1

Outcome indifference Doing my research now Plates fall, and break I've downgraded her from FWB to plate, but probably only in my mind while in reality she still way up in the scale...I got ONEitie for a girl I don't like, geez what a mess When she acts like a disobedient child, treat her like one Now I'll make you laugh, or cry, I'm 32 she is 47... beside the very question "Why I am with her?" she is immature like a 16 at best
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:48 PM
2

So true, I plan to turn off my phone in some timeframes. This allows me to do more stuff and show the others I'm unavailable
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:16 PM
1

Gosh, your post shows how long the road I have ahead, ty
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:19 PM
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She is a plate that I moved down from FWB status, so I become a little bit attached. So you know we text/talk frequently even if we pretty much fuck and that's it. Anyway I agree with all your points
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:56 PM
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Now that I'm reading Blackdragon How to Soft Next everything becomes a little bit clearer. Ah obv now I completely get what did you mean by entitled, and yes you were right. Ty my friend
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:24 PM
2

I just call her out... And I don't know know by applying dread but I'll look up for it. Instead... When you told me to soft next her how would you do it exactly? Would you call her out and soft next her or just soft next her without any explanation?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:43 AM
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Not al all actually. If you schedule a hook up and she flakes, aren't you entitled to be angry and next her?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:34 AM
1

I done that once and it worked pretty well. You are sending a very clear message and everything is going to be fine. You probably haven't decide yet but you'll do. Best of luck though
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 10:54 AM
2

Yep you got it, I'm seeing someone I don't even remotely like. She continue to trigger me in my weak spots and I feel the urge to demonstrate she is wrong, this is what my terapist told me and it makes 100% sense. In these months I got a ton of validation, but I finalized only once (doing a 3some). That woman sucked out my life but now I feel the need of someone else, other plates for sure. Regarding my question, what's your advice?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:10 PM
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The holy grail of frame control is amused mastery: the capacity to deliver a smile every time someone tries to do or impose something that is outside of our frame A few days ago a plate of mine got angry because I decided to go out with my friends instead to fuck her. She started to attack me... I replied with an animated GIF: a steaming kettle. I felt very good about it, smiled a lot and I feel confidece throughout my body, it was wonderful and powerful. At the time I didn't know what amused ma…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:11 AM
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The Bitch Management Hierarchy deals very comprehensively with how to do this. In this thread it is stated that once you have downgraded the girl, she will stay forever at that level. Why? Let's make an example, let's suppose you fight with your girl and things get pretty messed up and she insulted you or offend you, you downgrade the girl, fine. What about if she earns the level above in a long period of time? I would consider level up her again, but I'm clearly missing something
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:09 AM
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Ty a lot man
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:56 AM
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I totally agree with that. I'm seen a 47 yo woman who wants the alpha but also want the privilege of the provider. Obv I don't give a fuck about providing anything, but she hinted many times that a man should be a provider. Guess what? She wants to fuck me... Probably until she finds a provider. No problem with that
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 09:51 AM
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The Bitch Management Hierarchy deals very comprehensively with how to do this. In this thread it is stated that once you have downgraded the girl, she will stay forever at that level. Why? Let's make an example, let's suppose you fight with your girl and things get pretty messed up and she insulted you or offend you, you downgrade the girl, fine. What about if she earns the level above in a long period of time? I would consider level up her again, but I'm clearly missing something
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 03:27 PM
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Probably I'm lacking of google searching skills but can someone give me a proper definition? I get the gist of it, but I'm missing something
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:04 PM
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Probably because it is related to woman's submission
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:05 PM
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I knew all her red flags. The anal sex Is anal sex a red flag? Can someone explain me why or link to something? Ty a lot
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 07:47 PM
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She is clear misery, she can't let me go... but this won't change the things, girls will have easier time than us, getting over a break up. I have to accept this and really it isn't related to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 10:50 AM
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Solid post, but I think it bands the wound while we should focusing on the root cause: putting the girl on the pedestal. If you have a life worth living and if you understand the girls are a nice thing to add, not to live for, things comes off naturally. I've recently broke up with a woman, and believe me, I got many options right now and I meet new girls very very often, but right now I don't care about them. I even tried to get laid, I've made a 3some actually, but I wasn't excited, my head wa…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 08:51 AM
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This should also remind us that when our GF switch has nothing to do with us, it doesn't mean we weren't valuable, it is just how they are build. I'm far from being unplugged, I recently broke up with a woman I don't even remotely like but I still suffer. I know she will switch and this makes me feel sad because I've attached my value to her. God, my journey to TRP is fucking long
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 08:44 AM
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I use a voice recorder to log my entries along with a txt file with timestamps to highlight important topics. It is easier, faster and record also your emotions... I definitely recommend that. She leached an extraordinary amount of time and energy of mine. When I vanished, I lost my life: my friends, my family, my hobbies, my job, and her. I had no outlets. I had nothing. I'd been so focused on her I totally understand how you felt, she drained all your energy... I was there too, a few days ago …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 12:23 AM
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I would just ignore her and reevaluate if she will do it again. I was seen a woman who made the same comment every single time we see... Hinting that I don't work. I am a professional poker player, but for her it isn't a real job. I gotta admit that I suffered since I didn't feel accepted but now? Who cares. Anyway if she attack you again, drop her and let another one to deal with her shit
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:04 AM
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Just cherrypick the burden and you'll be fine
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 08:54 PM
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Sry for the language barrier, what do you mean by "own it a 100%"?
/r/askTRP24/02/18 02:50 PM
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Obv, what would you reply instead? I thought about make up something like, my ex stalked me for awhile and I don't know you enough to let me see my place
/r/askTRP24/02/18 11:39 AM
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Ok got it, ty for the explanation. The problem here lies with the LTR ranking. If OP is in a LTR he is commited... he's not spinning plates. If you aren't commited there's no point in getting in a LTR
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 10:39 AM
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You are damn right... Probably with this woman in particular I was afraid to show it because she clearly declared she want a provider who provide a villa, an amazing car etc
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:22 AM
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Can you elaborate further? I don't know what you are talking about
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 12:14 AM
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I'm not willing to share these details with girls in general... Probably I can upgrade some things in order to make them infer I got some. But I'm not going to be a provider
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:13 AM
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I cheated on her doing a 3some and then dropped her
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:12 AM
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Dunno, she told me countless times...
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:46 PM
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Good point and obv I agree. I've always told her that as long as I live the life I want she shouldn't really care. Initially she complied, but the endless nag remains. Basically whenever we meet she hinted that I do a bad job for basically 2 reasons: I stay behind a monitor for a few hours and I study a ton. This made me laugh for many reasons... Assuming you would be in my position, how do you handle my situation? Probably I wasn't too convincing or maybe she was too retarded, dunno actually
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:41 PM
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no point at all actually
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 06:22 PM
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Ty for the tip and you are 100% right. I'm doing ok I guess, I fill my free time with many activities/friends
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:31 PM
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I really don't know what to say really... I hope you are doing fine now
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 02:23 PM
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How did you handle the whole situation? I mean, finding her cheating was terrible or just meh?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 01:43 PM
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I think you are overthinking the whole situation, only time will tell. Plz update us
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:36 AM
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Mad about what? Because for a very short period of time you weren't at the top of your mental shape? Speaking about LTR, chances are these troubles will happen. If you think about that, you aren't allow to make a mistake? If so, you should live in a constant fear of failure which is, not that healthy. The overall and long-term behaviour matter, not the single mistakes
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 10:50 AM
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People here are too harsh on themselves imo and see a single mistake a dealbreaker. About your insecurities, well... this shit happens to all of us and you shoudn't be ashamed of a bad period. If 1 month of mental troubles will cause your LTR fail it wasn't that stable in the first place. TRP is pure gold but in general it is too hard and doesn't allow mistakes. This feels like a 2nd job and a unbearable burden. I know that once you've internalize all the shit everything become natural, but let'…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 10:41 AM
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Why don't you use Parallels? It should achieve the your end goal
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 08:01 PM
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I'm receiving a lot of support, I mean* a lot*. Yesterday, I literally cried because I received a ton of calls and msgs from friends. Anyway my issue is still the same, I autoattach to the first girl I see for a few weeks. This morning I woke up and I tried to recall what she did for me and I didn't find a single thing. This is saddening me because whenever I wake up I hope to see her msg and I think about her all the day. I think about how can I make her happy and so on... Right now, as I'm wri…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 04:51 PM
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I ran away but I hope to see her msg, but at the same time I dread it because she was very hard on me with no single reason. She got huge emotional blocks and our relationship never took a flight because she set a lot of rules. We can't do this, we can't do that etc. The huge issue is that she constanly break the rules. I mean, she didn't want to commit and she has a lot of emotional baggage I know, but you can't show love and after a few hours attack me in any away. I felt drained at best. That…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 04:41 PM
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Suffering for a Woman I didn't Like I was in a "relationship" with a woman 16 years older than me that literally suck my life out, unfortunately not with blowjobs. Initially I was impressed by her but after know her for a little while I found out she was completely different. 3 months passed and I feel more alone than ever, she gave me something big only to destroy it few hours later, it was exhausting. Yesterday I called her, telling her again how many things I miss and she doesn't provide. As …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 01:33 PM
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I read this post pretty much every day, multiple times, and everytime I find it so brutal but so objective. I've recently break up from a sick relationship, obv in hindsight it's easy to see things as they are and it's really clear how females want emotions not the person. The woman I was seeing always spoke about her emotions, how I made her feel in a certain way, but she wasn't attached to me. She was after the strong emotions a man with 16 years less than her was able to provide. She didn't s…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 10:21 AM
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It is, the issue lies applying it, we are too blind in general. Imo answering this question would save a lot of time and probably lives
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 12:00 PM
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Always ask yourself whether a girl/activity/(insert anything you want) is taking too much time and drain your energies. This is the first step to clear things out. Obv when you are inside a relationship or another 'cancer' is difficult to see things as they are, but you have to force yourself. Personally, I'm a huge failure assessing my own behaviour, so I know how it is complicated. I think we will win our battle eventually, best of luck everybody
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 11:21 AM
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I advocate for the 100% straightforward answer. In my experience a guy reply this very very rarely and this shows a lot a confidence on your part. Also, if she doesn't want a date she will tell you and you will avoid waisting your precious time.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:18 PM
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In order to be able to carefully select a future mate, having dealt with many prospects who do not qualify is essential. Having wife's grope your crotch, whispering in your ears that it's such a pity that their husband does not have such muscles or having somebody's "innocent" girlfriend drive 40 miles at night just to suck your dick, swallow your load and drive back home, to lay at his side in his bed, are pretty eye-opening experiences and just reading about them is not the same as having them…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:24 PM
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Always make a reality check though, as written in TSGM, be aware of her baggage. She could be blocked by something in her brain that you cannot do pretty much nothing about it, but drop her. I'm plating a woman who has clear problems with her body and sex in general, even if she is gorgeous. I never had any issues with other girls but this one seems impossible to make kinkier. 99% is your fault if a girl is a starfish, but remember that, even remotely, it could not be your fault.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 12:21 PM
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You totally reframed my view of the gift I should make. Ty
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:46 AM
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Thanks for remind me a very good thing to do together (cook a meal)
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:06 AM
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I liked it a lot. No matter how harsh it is, imho it is very enterteining. You don't have to believe 100% of what's written there, but the gist of it
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:23 PM
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We all know many guys are struggling with this right now (I am one of those)... remind yourself you aren't alone and we are fighting an uphill battle, together Stupid is the most appropriate word I can find for myself these days. Love unconditionally is stupid and it's always astonishing finding out that I haven't internalize nothing actually. I'm seeing a woman who doesn't make me feel good, not in the least. We got no future together, but I continue to go on because I'm emotionally attached to…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 01:23 PM
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Clear troll
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:45 PM
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So... pretty much the absolute basics of a couple, other than this, what she does?
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:26 PM
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WTF? There no single reason that she should stay at home, no reason. My best guess is that, you want her to work but you are afraid of her reaction. After this time she spent doing nothing at home, looking for a job sounds pretty awful to her. Clearly she doesn't want to work, this is a huge wake-up call for your future plans. Prepare to feel pretty damn alone in the couple
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:23 PM
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For me, even with other girls, being naked has zero value tbh. I'm not 14 anymore than I would fuck any hole I see
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:09 PM
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Ty for your time man, probably I'm just making some excuse to be again with her. Time to man up and next her, ty again
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:27 PM
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From The Sex God Method However, if she has deep set insecurities or inhibitions, these are not so easily overcome. Some girls fall into destructive patterns in bed which can be hard to break. For example, if a woman is used to having only plain vanilla sex, trying to get her up for more adventurous activities may be more trouble than it is worth. Similarly, if a girl is emotionally frigid, you could eventually get her emotional, but it may not be worth the trouble. The second thing that you sho…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:17 PM
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She like vanilla sex and I think she has some past issues that prevents her to be sexually inhibited. She confessed me she never felt the urge to arouse a man... I think she haven't tried once kinky sex and have some kind of problem. The question is... next or try to train? (I guess your reply will be obvious)
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:05 PM
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Why try to train her is out of the question?
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:33 PM
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I suggest you to look up for the correct defintions
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:03 AM
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Some people don't want to be uplugged, we have to accept this. Imho, we can just give some advice, if they are responsive we can go on, if not, we are just giving away our time and our energy.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 09:49 AM
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I'm helping a friend out with his LDR, as I continue to try to unplug him, nobody seems to work. Ultimately, it is a very own choice, so if they aren't interested in having a better life, you can't do nothing about it. It's a bummer though, but we have limited amount of time and we cannot squander it helping guys that don't want any help. Probably the best thing we can do is try to help people out and see whether they are interested, if they aren't, just fold the hand and move on
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:37 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/397xnn/where_can_i_find_a_free_pdf_or_ebook_of_the_sex/
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:57 PM
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The age gap doesn't matter. Obv we share different views, behaviors, tastes etc... But this isn't a problem. This maybe tip the scale in your favour, since you are different from everybody else. Anyway from you POV, girls shouldn't be attracted by older guys, while this couldn't be farther from the truth
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:59 PM
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Yeah, I'm going probably to cry for our mutual break up. Basically we got no future and other things. The issue here is that we got very very close no matter what. I'll try to contain my emotions
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:45 AM
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Disturbing but you pretty much nailed the average male life. Maybe he doesn't get cheated on but his life will be miserable anyway
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:08 AM
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Yeah... I'm leaning to take anything seriously, but most often than not it is just a shit test. Thanks for point that out
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:47 AM
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She should t even thinking about that in the first place...also this is a pretty recent thing, so I guess things aren't going that well at least for her part. I would next her, but if you are emotionally involved it could be dangerous and difficult. I would undergrade her to a plate and start looking for other options
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:10 AM
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I'm 31 and yesterday I went to a campus in order to study. I haven't approached any girl, but I'm confident I have huge chances. My SMV compared to the pool (lame students who dress bad and beta as fuck) is high...so in theory I'm in the best spot. Just look at other guys and see who you fare compared to the rest of the pool
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:04 AM
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How emotionally involved are you? Probably a flawed question since you won't ask in the first place... Even if it will painful, you have to dump her. As many other users highlighted, it's just a countdown
/r/askTRP18/01/18 09:55 AM
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Having a life worth living should be added to the list as well and be rank up pretty high. Chances are that, you will stay in a bad relationship not because you lack of pussy, but your life lacks of something that you think the girl is going to deliver. Obv she won't, because in order to have a relationship you gotta have your shit together. Me and 99% of guys look for a girl in the vain attempt to fill some emptiness, guess what? It won't work... (yeah, I'm writing these words and I have this i…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 12:55 AM
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I would delete the number and wait for her... If she doesn't look for me she isn't interested and isn't worth my tine
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:06 PM
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I understand where you coming from as I have a somewhat similar issue. I'm good looking guy, but I'm not a 9\10 and this makes me feel kinda sad. But we have to realize it's our mind issue, at even if you would ugly (you are not) you have to go with what you have. OK so what can you do? Lift for sure, improve appearance is also a must go option and improve you attitude. Really bro, I can feel you and it is painful, but you have A LOT of room to improve... And you will
/r/askTRP15/01/18 12:16 PM
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I think your behavior is std, be aware though, do not put her on the pedestal. I know this is easier said than done, in fact I continue to put too much emphasis on wrong girls and girls in general. Also, I'm very interested in this thread since I usually do what you are doing, so any feedback is more than appreciated. Best of luck mate
/r/askTRP15/01/18 12:02 PM
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Focus on yourself (hobbies, job, plates etc) , automatically, the girl will rank down in your priorities
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:50 PM
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Limiting sex and turning her down regularly can slow her down in the short term, but in the long run it can actually make her much more attracted to you as sex is a rare commodity. Is that true? Personally if a girl turn me down or if she don't show enough interest I lose the sex drive toward her even in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:04 PM
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I've already moved on, thankfully. Before the broke up, I was empty.... but I'm recovering pretty fast. Ty for the support, hope you the best as well
/r/askTRP12/01/18 05:50 PM
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I remember the first time I touched her, she was wet as hell and she confirmed that because she had to change the panties, but she didn't try to touch me once. Really, she hugged me, touched my belly but nothing more... If even in that occasion she didn't do anything, I think she got issues. And really, at 47, if she touched me anywhere but my dick, well.... seems to me this is a huge sign of issues, her issues. Obv I didn't try hard to help her, things went pretty badly on 360 degrees, so I was…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 05:44 PM
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sry for the dumb question, there's a little bit of language barrier. What do you mean with demographic of woman?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 11:27 AM
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in the Selection criteria (in order of importance) for PROTECTORS (AF) there are a lot of things you can't do something about it, like beauty. Obv these criterias are listed first because of their importance... for an average guy this should be a turn down but probably I'm missing something. So if you are a 6/10 in terms of beauty it seems you have to waive the white flag against an 8/10 because you don't stand a chance. Am I wrong?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 11:25 AM
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I think if you have malice, girls auto-filter out themselves. So any girl who doesn't take it in a positive way will drop you and you are free to look somewhere else
/r/askTRP12/01/18 01:20 AM
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I already done that, thankfully. I got many problems on my own and I don't want to carry others' burden. Also I made sure I won't re-engage her ;)
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:15 PM
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I'm opened to the fact that I'm not good at sex as I think I am. Probably this spot is kinda weird, me being 31 while she is 47 can make some difference. Regardless, I'm looking to improve, so thanks to point that out even if this could be an outlier
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:14 PM
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I've replied to your edit above... Anyway, I'm pretty new to TRP so I've internalized anything yet. I was looking for a LTR I guess, instead of being happy with myself I looked for happiness in someone else. BP as fuck, I know and I have to grow.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:01 PM
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I swear, I quoted her here... I don't know if she was using me for sex, but I agree with all the other things you said. I've nexted a few days ago, I started to become emotionally involved with a woman I don't like and have no future w/ Edit: to reply to your edit She got LTR respectively 9y,7y and 5y but she wasn't married once. The funny thing is she wants to be married, my guess is that previous BF didn't for many reasons. Obv what she said after the awful sex was ridicolous, for me it was ju…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:51 PM
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women like this usually have some kind of hang up and are not comfortable with their own bodies. some kind of body image/self conscious about themselves issue This. I'm totally confident she isn't comfortable because she pointed out many times that I don't like small tits (actually I didn't even mentioned once), one time I told her that her cousin is higher than her and he took it as a personal attack. I got many other instances but what it is really important is she ranks really high physical a…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:46 PM
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starfish Done it. Our first time was awful at best, after I did to her 30 minutes of foreplay and she didn't touched me once, my cock wasn't erected anymore. I didn't feel any kind of involvment so I didn't feel like having sex. She exploded getting supermad and attacking me in any way to defend her self-image. Some of the phrase she said (actual quotes): - in 47 years I've take dicks, many of them and I didn't experienced this situation once - my ex was able to maintain an erection 2 hours and …
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:40 PM
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I totally see your point and I'm going to read the sex god method... btw I didn't ecoutner any issue in my life but with 2-3 girls. Why aren't you considering the fact that maybe some woman have problems or just don't want to be fucked in a certain way. Anyway, I was confident, but she was scared imho... but obv I'm open minded and I could be very wrong about that
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:13 PM
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She enjoyed very much sex, that she squirted a few times, trembling... 100% she didn't give a fuck about my pleasure. I didn't came 3 times and she didn't care or even questioned. What she is missing is the pleasure to see the other enjoy, this seems like a fucking chore. I lick, finger her or whatever because I like to see her moaning, not because I like to finger a hole... but meh, she didn't get it. Ah yeah, it's finally over
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:35 PM
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Unfortunately, that's not the case. I asked many times to her, and girls in general, to talk about fantasies and what we like in order to enjoy better our time. She wasn't comfortable with that and she disclosured nothing... like I had to know everything in the first place, while all girls are different
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:29 PM
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Mine smv is high, compared to the pool she is seeing. There were A LOT of chemistry between us, I've never experienced that before. We kiss with passion all night in front of many people... and she wanted me so badly. The problem was in the bed, it was like she never had a real good fuck before. That's where dissonance is coming from: huge huge chemistry but a total clueless under the sheets
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:16 PM
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Not likely. She confessed me that she never felt the urge to stimulate males in general. She used to be used... but with nothing kinky
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:13 PM
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so is it even worth it to fuck them..? Meh, in the hindsight dunno, but I must be fair, I learned a ton especially how women behave in that enviroment. Probably one of the best advice I have here, in general, not just for you is: don't even remotely think of having a LTR with a girl/woman that you meet there, don't...
/r/askTRP11/01/18 02:26 PM
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Obv you can try your best guess by looking at her skin, butt and so on. Mine was slim and she told me she was a climber, so I was pretty sure her body would be at least decent. Unfortunately she was freezed in the bed, she touch me anywhere but my dick, so you know, it's difficult to get horny if you feel the other one isn't enjoying it. Later on, after she got angry (because I've refuse to fuck her) she told me ex BFs never ask for any partecipation. So in the end, she laid down and let them fu…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:17 AM
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Recently I recently broke up with one woman I was seen, she wasn't my GF my we got involved a lot, so I feel you man. What really helped me was a new haircut, seems trivial but it isn't. It is checkpoint where you aknowledge you are turning the page. Best of luck though, heartbreak sucks
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:05 AM
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I agree, latin world is very easy enviroment to pick up, especially older woman who knows they lost they race against teens. If you are decent looking, dress well and have a good game you'll crush, litereally. I'm in the latin world for a small amount of time and I've fucked an astonishing 47yo woman... but it was the worst sex I've ever experienced. I hope my sample size of only one woman, won't be representative of the whole cougar group
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:00 PM
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I think you lost your flings because latin dance is viewed as a pick up enviroment, so I think they auto-tag you as a loser. Obv you won't get that tag in that world, but outside of it, 100% sure
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:54 PM
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Starting a class in something you don't really want to just because there might be women is ridiculous I've started a class for meet new people in general... I think as long you really enjoy what you are doing is fine
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:31 PM
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I see but if clubbing is your only option you have to do something to afford to make it. Basically if the rule is: "You can encounter hot girls only after 2AM" you should adapt yourself to that and not try to change the rule. Another option would be look somewhere else but dunno where... if you are living in easter Europe, girls are pretty easy overall, so you can try daygame and go from there
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:02 PM
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Actually, I don't really have an answer for you. You should ask your local peers. I guess every city and country have their own rules
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:28 AM
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You are seeking your target in the wrong place. Latin dance is mainly for woman/men who got their life/marriage destroyed. Even if your targets are 20s, you will encounter gorgeous cougars, be aware of them because remember, they are totally crazy
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:36 AM
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Try Kizomba out... the pool is very young. I dance salsa, bachata and kizomba... and I can confirm the pool overall is toward 30+ at best, but kizomba still in the age lower end. There are some 20ish girls but they are somewhat rare
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:06 AM
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Idealizing people is a huge flaw and I have that too. I clearly know that the woman I'm seeing is 100% a product of my mind. I had a crush some months ago and I fall for her image in my brain, actually, nothing was there... Now after 2 months, I can see it, but it still difficult to say stop, thankfully, it's just a matter of time though. I think people overrate love when they have a hollow life, with nothing going on (like I have), because if you a full life, you are more objective than ever an…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 10:15 AM
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Insightful and could be true... although I clearly recall her words:"Never do that to a woman", so probably it is just hardcoded in her brain.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 09:32 AM
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Unfortunately the 47yo woman I'm seeing dislike even the gesture
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 12:30 AM
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Make sense, ty
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:25 AM
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I'm going to read the sidebar for sure. Regarding your last statement, if you apply the same TRP concepts why it wouldn't work for me?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:42 AM
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Since your story resembles mine, did you feel attached to her in these months?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 08:08 AM
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Obv I'm not sitting around imagining it full day, but it helps as a good reminder, especially when I'm not even remotely unplugged. You made a great point when you wrote you have too much going on in your life... right now I don't have much, so yeah I have too much spare time to think about shit. Obv gotta change, asap
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:04 PM
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Uh? It's just a way to realize she isn't yours... If you are lucky to have found a ltr gf who you trust 100% gg to you. Chances are this is extremely rare whatver. The point is, even if it is brutal, none of us own our girl, if you think, you are just naive
/r/askTRP03/01/18 12:39 PM
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Build a life worth living and the pain won't hit as hard Best reminder and condensed advice someone can give. If you have a life worth living, you have more things going on at the same time and this is key when you lost someone or something. Since we are in TRP, it's worth noticing that many guys plan their lives around gf and when they lost her, found themself lost, because the only thing they had was gf. It's normal their world crumble down. And remember that we are the main character of our m…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 12:31 PM
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Some days ago a user post some guidelines about RB and one of the best advice was to imagine your girl frequently suck others' dicks. Brutal but realistic. I'm slowly accepting that but I know it's hard. The spot i'm in is clearly the best, since I'm seeing a woman way older than me that I met in a dance class. So you know latin dance are so sensual and when I see her dacing with other guys I feel less stressed, because she is not mine. Gladly I'm flirting with girls and women too... I guess tha…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 11:32 AM
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Pure gold and your words resonate a lot with me. Unfortunately I'm in a very strange/difficult/choose any adj and it's very hard to apply RP concepts without emotions. Probably I'm still plugged with glue and I cannot open my eyes... for now
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 11:52 PM
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brutal, but correct, ty
/r/askTRP02/01/18 11:25 PM
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While your reply make 100% sense with a random girl, I expect some questions that I think I need to address, or do I?
/r/askTRP02/01/18 11:14 PM
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I'm pretty sure what you wrote I read it before... can you give me a hint so I can reharse? Maybe Rollo?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:16 PM
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We are talking about sex as the flagship men drive but it is? For me, and I guess for many others too, sex moved down from top 1 priority long time ago. At the same time I gotta admit the desire to be loved ranks up. Should be OP replace the word 'sex' with 'love'?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 12:15 PM
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The number of 45 or 50 year old women a guy will be attracted to is very close to zero, unless the guy himself is aged 60+. A 22-year-old hottie will make any guy look twice, especially over his 45-year-old wife I'm attracted to hot women/girls regardless their age. I love the 18yo hottie and I like the 45yo cougar. If I gotta decide which I love the most I'm not probably leaning toward any side actually... I'm pretty new to TRP so I'm missing 99% of the things, but what's wrong if you like (als…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 12:06 PM
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The sad beta who falls asleep thinking of a girl and wakes up and she is the first thing on his mind, is a slave to a merciless and angry master QFT, quite good picture of where I am right now. Gotta work my ass off
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:41 AM
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Well dating isn't appropriate word, let's say we fuck and spend time together but we are aware we cannot make anything out of it. Ah obv, she's hot and I haven't got laid with any woman above my age
/r/askTRP02/01/18 12:12 AM
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It's all about the routine. Obv is very pleasant to see a msg from your loved one, but be aware of the routine thing. If you say goodnight/good morning you expect her to do pretty much the same. And if she doesn't you could begin to think why she didn't...
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 06:41 PM
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It isn't about respect at all, it's about understaing the underlying rationale in women. If you disrespect women you ended up losing the battle and you accrue angst while girls don't give a shit. I don't see any battle or something, also it isn't a zero-sum game, so your happiness is your #1 goal, not be unhappy since women are shit. It's different
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:38 AM
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Avoid all greetings, good morning texts, good night text etc absolutely. I recently become aware of these. I always enjoy a good night/morning text but I realized it is just a hollow routine, without any meaning. What I should focus instead are actions and general behaviours as good indicators of her commitment
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:34 AM
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being passionate doesn't always mean seductive* I can't argue with that... also your post is spot on and yeah.... passionate >>> interesting
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 01:46 AM
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I am needy as fuck and I realize now it is a bad. We all wanted to be loved, but my behaviour is way too out of line. Now I can see clearly how thin is the difference between being passionate and being needy. Again I didn't thought about that, ty a lot man
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:00 PM
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Insightful. I lean toward be passionate in general even while things aren't that great. Obv if she treats me badly or something like that I react properly, but I can see now that my behaviour isn't optimal. I hit the reset button pretty quickly even if she does something bad and I return to be very passionate without a real reason. Thanks for highlight one of my (many) flaws
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:37 PM
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I would switch 'passionate' with 'interesting', while you should instead be very passionate when you made some real progress with the girl. Kiss her with passion, touch her with lust, make her feel desiderable (obv not in a beta way)
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:11 PM
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One of the best trick I use regarding texting is to save the girl's number somewhere (like a peace of paper, a txt file etc) and then delete the number from my phone. This counter the urge to text her
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 11:05 AM
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Relationships aren't logic related, many things are involved. It could be started w/ phisical attraction and then continue without much momentum until the girl realizes their goals are different
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 08:08 PM
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Dunno if he is a loser and has no motivation to get better, the only dealbreaker is the kids issue. Probably he's just a guy who enjoy the present and doesn't look too far away.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 08:06 PM
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5 is obv brutal but eye-opening and it should measure your level of attachment. I've experienced this personally with my last hook up. 16 years older than me (so 47), she gave me a lot of headaches and reasons to believe she was thinking about other men. Well when I was with her, imagining her sucking other dicks was terrible, but after I cut her out and attachment began to fades, the nightmare isn't longer that dreadful
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 02:26 PM
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This advice is just perfect. Maybe it isn't what OP was looking for, but it doesn't really matter, because the concepts above are the key, best of luck obv
/r/seduction26/01/17 09:45 AM
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Follow up: she is fatty and she have a male personality. Not a gorilla, but pretty close :D
/r/askTRP25/01/17 08:36 PM
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ahah you are right, best advice: stop overthinking
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:04 PM
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AWALT Ty for the reply. I'm a kinda lucky to have a remote job, so I can work in any country, however there's one big reason. My dog, which is my true love and cannot travel since she's pretty sick; I hope she will live for awhile obv
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:37 PM
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