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| 3 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?I think most peoples reasons can be summed up in two words. Negative thoughts. Negative thoughts pop into your head and convince you that you don't want to approach when you really do. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 05:11 PM |
| 7 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?You don't have to flirt. But you do have to show intent | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Am I in friendzoneInvite her to cuddle in the bed. Escalate via words and tone of voice. Even if you can't kiss, everything else is on the table until she declines.. You can have sex without kissing | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Am I in friendzoneIt doesn't sound like you're friend zoned to me but you don't have to kiss to escalate. There's a lot of other things you can do to move things forward. | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I get so fucking gassy stomach on dates/sleepover dates, i don't wanna fart up the bedroom. Do you guys have any tips??Fiber supplement | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Tips for a speed date event? (I have never really dated in general)I would avoid boring topics that everyone is going to ask... like "where do you work" "Where do you live". Personally in a speed date I think vibe matters more than anything you actually say. Make eye contact, don't rush, be confident. Try to avoid much small talk and get into organic conversation. Try to show interest and get her to talk about herself. On a date or a speed date, a girl doesn't want to have a boring logical conversation. She wants to feel emotions. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 08:14 PM |
| 3 | When should you start “investing” in someone you’re dating for the long term?Well, I just watched this video recently and it seems relevant to your post https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eEA492BUcIM | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I turned religious then stopped Cold Approaching altogethermost religions are toxic, I'm sorry to hear you've been sucked into one. I doubt doing cold approaches is against your religion. You can still do cold approaches as a way to meet women. What happens after you meet them is up to both of you, you don't have to have sex before marriage just because you cold approached. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 01:56 PM |
| 4 | My biggest problem: eye contactLook at the spot between their eyes. They can't tell the difference | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barI agree with this but when I approach I still have anxiety. It takes a lot to convince myself to approach and in the process I just forget what I was trying to focus on, and then I'm standing in front of a girl and I have nothing to say after I introduce myself | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting dumped after one date?If you've already been rejected you might as well, you've got nothing to lose | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting dumped after one date?Ask them for feedback | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsTell them you only buy drinks for awesome girls. That way you're qualifying them. | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outWhat does your schedule look like? | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The Friend Zone Killermaybe your words and your actions are contradicting each other so she is confused. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm cockblocking myself right nowscissors! maybe she is conspiring against you and has secretly rigged the bra to never come undone! | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Female POV on "the nice guy"webpage down? | /r/seduction | 29/10/11 05:18 AM |
| 1 | [OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how.I bet if you took out the fact that you owned your own business, your response rate would go way down :) | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 01:41 AM |
| 1 | First date from OkCupid, girl freaks out when I try to hold her hand. WTF?maybe she has OCD and doesn't want your germs. | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 03:41 AM |
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