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| 70 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce time | Truth_SpeakerUSA | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 01:22 PM |
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| 1 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeYeah thats not the case here. I am the fun one. I am also much closer to the bad boy type than he is. I was an Army Scout and defend myself well. He is an absolute pussy. Literally one of the scaredest little punks I have ever met in my life. Maybe she wanted a little coward for awhile. Not sure. He is a POS. Only bad boy stuff he ever did was hit a woman. The guy use to put protection orders on me and I didn't even know him. Last time I saw him he was trying to talk trash. Did a worse job than … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce time💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeThank you for your support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeMy wife is doing the same thing by trying to force my kids to call her disgusting downgrade dad. She or her downgrade changed my Netflix name to "the dad that sucks," implying that they have a different dad. It seems pretty emotionally abusive towards our children to do that. Not to mention I have been an outright AMAZING dad. Take them on super cool trips, got then a heated pool. Cook their favorite meals. Always looking out for my kids. The downgrade is just some fat slob who so far has only e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeShe has had bad influences from her hyper liberal crazy mother who has been nothing but bad advice. As well as her liberal friends who use dating apps to whore like there's no tomorrow. We was a very patriotic military family. Once she brought her hard-core anti American cheating partner over the flag came down at our house. It's all sickening. While everyone views her actions as weak, I'm sure the liberal weirdos she listens to claim she's strong. Apparently cheating on your husband and wreckin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeYeah she filed divorce. Yet she also told a mutual friend that she has a desire to work things out but I have spoken badly and so has she so it's hard. I personally think she is struggling with breaking it off with her AP as she has grown so weak spirited lately. My counselor says she is going through a mid life crisis and it is somewhat common for women her age in a LTR. That said. She has done so much bad, even if she found her strength I don't know I could take her back. My parents told me I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeThank you brother. She has definitely become a different person. She does things now that she viewed as pathetic for the entire 20 years I've known her. It's like she took medicine that turns people weak and almost embarrassingly pathetic. I feel embarrassed for her, only because I love her. Normally, people who are like how she is now, I wouldn't even view as human. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeShe idolized me for years. She's lost her mind though now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeLove makes you disregard alot. I believed in our love and family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeWe started dating 20 years ago. People change. She went downhill badly. I climbed uphill. Maybe that's how we became unequally paired. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeAt first I didn't think she was a narcissist. Learning now about what a narcissist truly is she has displayed the traits for many years | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeI thought our wife was seeing the same guy until you said acne. God spared him acne but took his hair instead. Balding, dorky looking little fat stain of a subhuman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeSmall world. I was also Army. I was a Cav Scout. The guy in my story is literally as loser as it gets. Meanwhile I've worked my ass off to give her the world and did just that. I gave 20 years of my life to this woman who I honestly thought worshipped me as I worshipped her. And she did this to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeThis does make sense. I also am involved in a Children's Hospital. I'm a Shriner. It's crazy she could think of cheating with a complete loser and destroying her family as a beautiful love story. But she might just be crazy enough to mindfu*k herself into thinking such nonsense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeYou hit the nail on the head. She has been planning this for years. After I caught her I was told she had been talking to him behind my back for 2 years. Around then she started changing her stories about him to oddly defend him. She spent years claiming he would hit her in the chest to trigger an asthma attack, and one time did it so hard she was hospitalized. She changed that to he only pushed her. I came home from the field (I was in the Army) a couple days early, he was on the phone threaten… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:05 PM |
| 8 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeHer own parents have said they strongly disapprove but they are staying out of it. I never asked them to get in it. That was just what they said. They also said they hope we come out of this mess, together as a couple. I don't see that happening. She has done so much wrong, is careless about her actions and even filed for divorce. I think they are just wishing for the best because they know I am a good man and they dislike him strongly, to say the least. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeIt's like she is living in an alternate life. A life where being a good mother and wife mean nothing and now she has this new loser centered life where she races to the bottom and pretends this dude is her actual man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 02:45 PM |
| 16 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce timeYeah. Seems that way. He was just a nobody from high-school who knocked her up and then called CPS on her all the time. I was a soldier who married her and took her around the world on an amazing journey of life and we made a family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce time20 years and so many amazing memories. There are so many memories. I see her in the faces of others, I see in memory in even the smallest things. Example recently flying we have Clear to skip the line. I walked up to the clear station, and even that triggered a memory so strong I went and just stood in the line to avoid it. Emotions can be intense. Humans are, unfortunately, very emotional creatures. Meanwhile, she parades around like nothing is wrong and seems ok being with a fat smelly trailer… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 02:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm drowning today. I can't handle this. It hurts so bad.I wish you the best. Many of us are here. I met my wife when we was young and I was a private in the Army. She started an affair with her abusive ex. She has made a huge list of lies about me. Claiming I'm abusive, claiming I had secret relationships I visited often, even claiming I might have a kid on the way. Her affair partner bragging on facebook about her cheating on me with him on her birthday. The things they will say to justify their actions are insane. They will gaslight anybody they ca… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 05:20 AM |
| 1 | TROMy wife started sleeping with her abusive ex who constantly use to false report on her and encouraged her to do the same. She did it. Heck she even got our 19 year old daughter to lie through her teeth and say I pushed her. If your lawyer thinks your wife is capable of behaving this way, I hate to say it but you have to act first. I am in the process of spending tens of thousands and jumping through hoops to be able to get my children away from her abusive ex who it is just a matter of time befo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why didn’t marriage counseling work?What's sad is still to this day my wife is saved in my phone as Love of My Life. Despite her constant cheating on me. I'm sure she plans to celebrate her birthday tomorrow by cheating on me. That's all she ever does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/23 06:19 AM |
| 1 | How bad do recordings of fights make you look?Be careful there is a real hate veteran community out there. I have experienced this first hand. The man my wife cheats with is her ex. He isn't a veteran. He wouldnt make it. Heck, he couldn't kick my 8 year olds ass. Biggest pussy I've ever met. But his dad was one and despite hating her ex for the bad he has done I always told his kids how great their grandfather was for serving our country. He being anti veteran /America (provable by him pursuing a disabled American veterans wife) despite hi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 05:18 AM |
| 12 | Why didn’t marriage counseling work?At some point a woman loses interest. Ignores the good. Downplays all the amazing things. And even if the sex is amazing taking her around the world and making her soak the sheets everywhere you go. She'll end up wanting different. Sex with an ugly guy who can't take her anywhere except boring local places, will be good enough. When their love expires they will move on to literally anything to satisfy both their desire to move on and their codependency issues. Society now a days is not what it w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 04:11 AM |
| 6 | Lawyer talk tipsWife lied about abuse after saying good luck getting custody with DV on your record. She also was doing it to cheat on me in our house as the loser she cheats with lives with mommy. She emptied out our bank account the day I got out and then proceeded to overdrawn the account. Women can be pure evil. This is from a woman who claims to be Christian but when I tried to turn to God with our problems she turned her back on God and is cheating with a married man, the literal worst person we've ever k… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with APWe all have an ugly trashy ex we was way too good for. Me and her use to laugh at each other about such ex's in good fun. That's what she is cheating with. Her mother who has throughly betrayed her and our family by not offering any good advice but rather push for the destruction of our family, recently had told her she can do better than me. She just proved her mother wrong. She has fake love with an ugly fake dude and is turning into the trash person he always has been. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with APOf you're right, it only hurts her. She decided she wanted this messy. She is getting one Hell of a divorce fight coming, followed by a relentless decade as I do whatever it takes to do what is the best for my children, as I know her and her abusive ex she is cheating with play extremely dirty. He use to false report on HER to CPS. Telling his kid to lie and say he cuts himself even. Apparently she's into underhanded pussy stuff like that. It is incomprehensible how low they go to fight dirty. I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with API don't know. She use to love me so much. She wasn't this weak acting self centered woman being such a bad mother She brings her affair around her kids. She use to have maternal and spousal instincts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with APShe use to be so down for me. Even stabbed someone when I was getting jumped. Now she's all excuse me your honor I'm so eager to tell on him I'm going to complain about stupid things that are not even bad let alone illegal. It's like where TF did the down ass woman I know go and who is this whiny Karen... | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 06:07 AM |
| 8 | Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with APWhat you said about how "it's crazy how affairs can just rewire the brains of our spouse" is the realist thing I've read about infidelity. My wife is also completely unrecognizable. Once so strong and protective of our marriage and family. Now constant gaslighting, denial, and lies about our 20 years of love. But the weirdest thing, she lost who she was in the process. No longer that strong and protective woman. But this weird weak shell of her former self. Filled with anger. Cheating with a per… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Does body count really matter?It was a protection hearing case. She filed one and brought the married it she is cheating with over the same day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Does body count really matter?Divorce hasn't even been filed. She's cheating point blank. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/23 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Does body count really matter?She has few friends. But one is on dating apps, use to always hook up with randoms. She cheated from her house. Her own family enables her actions as well. Treat her as the victim when she literally is cheating in our family home. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/23 01:30 AM |
| 16 | Does body count really matter?Nope. I am married to a woman who had only been with one other guy. After a while, she wanted a hoe phase like many others had, and she felt she didn't have because she got married. She ended up hurting me far worse than any "slutty" woman I had ever had a relationship with. She is literally cheating on me as we speak. With a guy so ugly she literally complained to the judge about me having a picture of her and him, because she knows I'm clowning her over this hideous bum. I'm just glad the cour… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How to find a lawyer that I can trust?I used Google and Avvo and Top attorney dot com. My wife who could stop all of this by having the courage to tell the loser she's cheating with to get lost forever ended up hiring a firm I considered. It was a good one but wasn't the best. Once I heard that though I knew what I had to do. Crazy seeing such a once strong woman turn so weak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 02:00 AM |
| 2 | How to find a lawyer that I can trust?When divorce is in play, people tell the most extreme lies to get their way. If you have the ability, then you need to hire the best in the area. I screened many lawyers and found the very top rated one in our area and hired them. Not some lawyer that works for them or within their law group. But them. It is insanely expensive. But sometimes you have no choice. I truly wish you the best. I too was blindsided with divorce from a woman I thought loved me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How did divorce change you emotionally?Mine hasn't started. But likely, it will soon be barring a miracle. My emotions are calming and are growing dull. I've lost interest in most anything. Haven't touched alcohol. Try watching TV and can not pay it attention. My mind is always on the loss of my world. My wife, my best friend, our children. Everything stripped away all at once. I can already tell the healing process will be difficult, I will try to spend as much time alone as I can. I don't enjoy the company of others right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/23 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I many of you guys tried to save a marriage due to attraction without really realizing it?Yes positive of it. Put up with so much hate and disrespect not to mention affairs because in my eyes she's the most beautiful woman in the world. I worshipped every inch of her skin and still have both clean and adult dreams about her. Had she been just regular looking I don't think I would've stayed when the love from her started to show itself as nonexistent. Attraction does things with men. Apparently not as much for women. Her and I are the type that many in society consider attractive. She… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/23 08:35 AM |
| 1 | what do you guys say to your kids?I've thought a lot about this. At the end of the day, she chose to end our family. She chose to leave for her ex. I begged for my family. But I know it is already being spun as though I am the bad guy. She had an affair for months and is trying to replace me as the father of our children, to be raised by an it, who spent 20 years trying nonstop to destroy our family. We was both bad in a way. I had a brief affair I ended and wouldn't even accept the girls FB request. During the exact same time s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/23 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Every "single mom" in OLDYes they can be crazy. She use to hate him for the things he did to her and and call him a midget. Now she brings that inbred looking midget to court with her in a weird attempt to get under my skin. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Every "single mom" in OLDSeems like some of them at least have standards, however unrealistic. My STBXW blew up her family to run to some ugly short loser living with his mom at 41. No love for the guy who worshipped her for 20 years and worked his ass off to give her the world because she was his world. Nope. Straight to loserville. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/23 03:42 AM |
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