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Lmao that's kind of true. White guys like girls that are straight up and down like rectangles. Not all but a lot do. Same with Asians. I'm latina and in Latin America they prefer curvier/hourglass/pear figures (being skinny/too thin is considered nowhere near as sexy) with a preference more towards ass but they still like large breasts, too. I have large breasts and I don't think I've ever gotten turned down bc of it, if a guy doesn't find you attractive, what would it matter to him? But if a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:25 PM
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Damn 70% of this sub is male 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:33 AM
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30% of the people have have never had sex??? Really???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:30 AM
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I was actually trying to be half funny and half serious but if that's how you took it 🤷‍♀️ most of my posts are written like this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:51 PM
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Corvus?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:46 PM
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Yes!!! Like, do you even know what it's like from the perspective of a female to be looking up at the average males face & body ? Testosterone makes men's natural body odor stronger and muskier than females. Even worse if he has foreskin & doesn't clean himself. Most men are hairy. Hairy chests, arms, asses, dicks, balls etc. So not only are women NOT visually stimulated, it's often gross. Yet they complain about about a few extra pounds yet men have boobs when they aren't supposed to lmao. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:34 PM
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Ok deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:07 PM
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To your third point, do you think women get pleasure from seeing the average males body? Maybe if he's a Chad and he has a good looking face and pullable hair with a nice body and abs. You have to see it from a woman's perspective. Some guys don't even take a freaking shower and look like cavemen with hairy asses. A lot of women shave and take care of themselves, at least. Women reject you, too. Like I said before, your ego can't handle being crushed that's why you have to resort to telling your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:06 PM
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Ok u sound like you've never dated anyone ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:47 PM
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You can be the perfect woman and have everything in order but if a man has no intention of anything serious, he's going to treat you like a vagina. The issue isn't the woman, the issue is the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:45 PM
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Shit, if I was a foreign woman, I'd choose you. You're a class A chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:42 PM
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Exactly. They're used to those guy and they're often low value themselves so they belong together. Don't even bother with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:40 PM
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You can't generalize and say that of every woman. Maybe the women you know personally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:36 PM
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So what's the issue with vetting men? You just said "it's a means to get your dick wet." How do women avoid this? Don't fuck them. If hé leaves, tell him don't let the door hit you on the way out 🤷‍♀️ problem averted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:35 PM
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You guys keep trying to emotionally manipulate women this bullshit over and over again on this sub. Number one: you are not entitled to sex. Number two: just because a woman is a slut doesn't mean she has to sleep with you. Number three: men don't take accountability for the women they like and are attracted to like slutty women that sleep around, gold diggers, etc. Women the MOST likely to use men, fuck Chad and Brad, and use you. You being mad and angry and bitter about isn't going to do shit.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:09 PM
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Ask yourself if you are deserving of a feminine woman that is willing to reciprocate. Women get taken advantage of by many men. Why she should she waste her feminity, her youth, her anything on a man that's not even worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:02 PM
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I don't trust what y'all say. You guys will openly like sluts because you find them sexy or easy, so when you finally approach her, you're expecting her to put out ASAP and then get mad when she doesn't wanna fuck you. Well, they don't have to sleep with you bc they slept with lot is other men..that's just a hang up you guys have. The sooner the guys here admit the women they like are slutty/sexy/openly sexual and take accountability for the women they like, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:54 PM
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They were probably pedos and wanted a position that put them in charge of teenage boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:46 PM
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Because she's bored and needs someone to talk to. Sorry, if she was interested, she would accept at least once. She isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:46 PM
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So, you have no issue with a foreign woman looking for a green card that could potentially divorce you and take half of everything? Going through immigration and attaining documents like green cards, citizenship, etc is VERY expensive. You're more worried by a domestic female playing you than a foreign woman doing so ? That's literally so dumb. It's like you're paying double for the risk of someone using you. And you know foreign women (I'm also born in a other country, so I know) have a reputat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:37 PM
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True usually people like other people like themselves, they gravitate towards it more often than not. And you're very welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:27 PM
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Why do you assume they're all like this, though? Women have more to lose from casual sex. The only thing I can think of is the male is attracted to sluts then trying to make sense of her behavior. Or perhaps he knows she's a slut but for some reason she won't fuck him and he's left wondering why she won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:41 PM
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I had very large breasts for my size in high school and was often fetishized and had rumors about me spread that I was a slut due to my body alone. You basically have to vet everyone ten times more. I was initially kind of fat but nothing dramatic then I lost most of it and since I'm latina, I had lot of curves. I was an early developer compared to other girls in my grade. I think because of it, I was accepted into more 'popular' type of circles so the guys were different quality than I used to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:38 PM
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Because maybe we don't want to waste our youth catering to a man and kids...? You should explore the world, get your career on track, finish your schooling, date around and then find someone later on when you're done with it all. What makes you think they don't have opportunities when they're 30? It's not as if the are 29 and then boom...as it as it hits 12AM on their 30th bday, they magically become undesirable. Undesirable would be no education, no job, no effort into appearance, lots of kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:32 PM
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I can see what you're talking about because women will lie altruistically to spare feelings. It's also kind of taboo to say certain things, especially IRL. Like penis size matters or that they prefer a rich man. You'll get a lot of backlash if you say certain things, it's just "acceptable" for RP to say it because it's not coming from a woman's mouth, you'd get upset at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:27 PM
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Whenever this question comes up, I always ask myself what kind of women are you interested in the first place that's doing this? Women know when they have casual sex that feelings will get involved. They can get pregnant, catch an STD, the guy might never call her back, she will probably be unsatisfied, etc. The type of chick sleeping around with lots of men is slutty. So, what does that say about men that always complain about these types of women? They like sluts (btw I'm not using this term t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:23 PM
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To the last point why do some men simp and worship the ground some women walk on? But expect some women to go half and half? Why do some men refuse to provide for one woman despite her helping him most of the times (pickmeisha) but will take up a hot gold digger that only wants him for his money and he will have no issue providing for her? Why is it ok for men to take up foreign women despite being known they're being used for green cards but have an issue taking a woman on a date here in Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:17 PM
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A lot of these women are similar to the men. I grew up in a low income area (I'm a minority myself) and the men and the women are very similar- uneducated, classless, lots of kids and are unmarried, kind of trashy, etc. So it might just be a proximity thing or they have a lot of similarities. They don't know any life outside of this bubble so they obv they wouldn't end up with a man that has anything going for them. The second thing I thought of is maybe these women are going below their standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:04 PM
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Your entire literally makes no fucking sense, have you ever dated? You sound like you haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:02 PM
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It's cute because these kids are innocent. They're going through things for the first time. They do things like write notes to each other and give each other gifts. And wtf are you talking about? Your response makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:49 AM
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The younger people might not be as big but there's definitely some chubby younger adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:30 PM
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I don't blame the women, i blame the men..they are the ones creating this massive narcissism in these women. These women wouldn't acknowledge your existence if you were standing right beside her. They don't like it because rp wants to be the ones with power over women. But then their entire plans get fucked over bc they KNOW men will always simp and thirst over women. Women have hypnotizing powers over the majority of men. Now a woman can post several pictures, never touch a single "fan", be wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:27 PM
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That's not even true in America. 2/3 of Americans are overweight and obese. That is a statistical fact. The remaining 1/3 is healthy within their BMI or underweight. What I'm telling you is you're complaining about the very men that are causing the supposed delusion. Society doesn't instill self love or a healthy body image in women, if anything, it causes them to be insecure. It's more brutal to women than it is to men. And what I'm trying to tell you is despite that, at least those women CAN (…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:05 PM
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That's not women's fault that men message them 100 times a day and that guys in their social circles wanna get with them. You say they're delusional but at the same time, it's you guys hyping all of these women up. So, whose fault is that? I'd argue that society instills insecurity in women more than self love or delusion. Men are more delusional because they could be a 5'4", chubby neck beard thinking he deserves an anime waifu come to life. Most women just want basic things like a good job, ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:12 PM
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I just wanted to update, I think it's FOMO- the feeling of missing out more than anything else for some people. Also, perhaps it could be of benefit towards the experience aspect whether it's good or bad. It will teach you lessons. It's kind of like milestone that some people didn't get to experience. Not everyone will, not everyone experiences life in stereotypes like falling in love at 18 and getting married in your early 20s and having kids in your mind to late 20s and having a high paying jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:26 PM
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It's pedo afterwards because they wanna reminisce about teenagers someone else in this comment section said a disgusting comment about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:55 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:49 PM
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Is this a joke? No, when you're in high school, everyone is annoying. I had a bf at 13 & 15 but we didn't fall in love. Even if we did, that's WAY too young to even know what "love" is. And when people say young love, I think they mean anyone they consider young. Perhaps from teenagers to about 30. So, your college experience would count. If you fell in love at 23 then i would say okay, maybe you actually know what love is. I don't consider teen love actual love. Do I think it's romanticised? Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:43 PM
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Im not gonna be gaslighted by a bunch of losers when the facts are there, men had mistresses all throughout history and they've always made up the majority of cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:46 PM
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I'm in my 20s but nice try 💃
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:43 PM
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Lmao they're going to get surrogacy on a fast food salary okayyyy if you say so. These dudes aren't exactly rich, I highly doubt they wanna breed anyway. The offspring will be just as shunned as he is. It's a bad idea all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:19 PM
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I will always say this on this sub, if you have to resort to game you are not naturally attractive to women. Women will throw themselves at men they find attractive, sometimes in droves. I don't even consider it game, I consider it trickery and weak. If you're not man enough to take a simple yes or no to your face, all your doing is manipulation to try to get someone to sleep with you. And the guys that do this are ALWAYS scummy and bottom of the barrel type of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:12 PM
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I don't care about any of that. The topic was sex robots, prostitutes for lonely men that WILL NOT breed. The bottom line of my comment was that no one cares to empathize with these guys. And that ultimately, no one will breed with them. So, no one will care what happens to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:56 PM
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I've worked at call centers and warehouses, big ones like Amazon. Some men don't care. I'm telling you the work husband thing CAN lead to affairs, you can search it up on google. A man should know what boundaries are and what being inappropriate is. Yes, we women can keep ourselves in check, but you as a husband should be respecting your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:52 PM
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The topic ain't about now, though. The original comment was comment was that men USED to have the very thing they desire now. Women that had to stay virgins until marriage and society basically stigmatized women from seeking out other men but men didn't care and took it for granted, so they sought other women out. Men aren't satisfied with just one woman, even if she meets the whole virgin ideal. Not ALL men will cheat but enough did so 🤷‍♀️ The hypocrisy of men, now that there aren't much women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:48 PM
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You should see all the married dudes at work, low-key flirting and being a little TOO friendly with the ladies. Yes, we know where this will lead ..it's a violation of boundaries in a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:33 AM
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It doesn't stop them though, if they think they have a chance, they will shoot their shot. A lot of men act single when their S/O isn't around. They see a cute secretary or coworker and then they start chatting her up and opening up to her and doing her favors and getting close to her. It borders on more than "friendly." Some people even refer to this as a "work husband". That's how it begins. I know because men have tried it with me and other ladies at some jobs I've worked at. Some men don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:29 AM
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My grandfather cheated on my grandmother and had a whole nother family with the lady he cheated on her with and thIs happened in the 60s/70s there are other women in the thread with similar stories. Idk why you guys think you're pulling a fast one on us. It was very well known men cheated even when they were trad with trad wives that were virgins when they got married. Some men are never satisfied even though they have the perfect woman in front of him like Adriana Lima (also a virgin) when she …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:21 AM
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You linked a survey while I will link actual statistics: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mysticmag.com/amp/psychic-reading/men-women-cheat-more-infidelity-statistics/ So how many of us are cheating, and who’s at it more — men or women? The short answer (unsurprisingly?) is that men cheat more. Around 25% of married men and 15% of married women admit to sexual infidelity. Men cheat more than women at almost every age. The notable exception is married women aged 18-29. They are 1% more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:03 AM
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Even if all of that is true the rest of these things are just to pacify these men that are lonely. They most likely won't breed any way, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:35 PM
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I just view this topic as a natural way of weeding out the unwanteds at this point. I'm so over this topic on this sub. It's just secret eugenics for men that don't have desirable traits, looks, etc as an outlet to turn to so they don't feel lonely and at the same time, they won't breed. The men women naturally choose will breed. And hopefully, in the future generations, we will see improvements in men. Perhaps the human race will breed more desirable men or something like that...? It's just nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:35 PM
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So, men in the 50s and 60s didn't cheat? You don't have to be rich to cheat, are you kidding me? Adultery was later not punished but frowned upon by society. Didn't stop men from being unfaithful. Men also make up the majority of cheaters. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:28 PM
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No, regular men in the 50s and 60s would cheat. When they were away at work or away from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:26 PM
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Lmao respectfully, you guys are getting nothing now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:22 PM
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Thanks for showing us the true way men think 👍 You just proved my point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:11 PM
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Too bad, so sad waaahhh waaaah 😰😢😓😪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:10 PM
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I don't trust what y'all say, I believe what I see. Men had mistresses back then and cheated on their women. Thankfully, women no longer have to abide by these rules anymore lol. I'm just pointing out, you men had all this and still fucked up. You wanted your cake and eat it too. Now, most of you aren't getting anything 💩😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:08 PM
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I'd believe any feminism has to say over the hypocrites here. Literally men admitting that their ideal lives would include 1 monogamous perfect woman and an entourage of women he keeps on the back burner. Now, the game has changed in favor of women and all of a sudden they want to revert back to "traditional" values. The men didn't appreciate their women, despite most of them being virgins or having very low n counts. Men kept mistresses. There are many mistresses throughout history, some famous…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:05 PM
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Yet we have a man in this comment thread that just admitted he not only wants a monogamous partner but an entire entourage of women that he can fuck around with Take your study and shove it, men cheat more often than women do and back then when when anything but monogamy was frowned upon, it wasn't the women cheating. It was the men. By a landslide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:55 PM
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Lmao that's exactly why you can never be happy. Most women would be completely satisfied with ONE man but a man can have the perfect woman and still go cheat with Becky, Stacy, Alison, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:06 PM
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You guys just want what you can't have. Back in the day, when it was mostly religious and very trad, some men used to cheat on their wives (yes, the mostly virginal and very low n count women) with other women when they were away. Men just want their cake and eat it too. Before men disliked having to be tied down to 1 woman (because it was "boring" and he never got a chance to explore!!!), so they'd have mistresses. Now that the game has changed, all of a sudden you want exclusive relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:52 PM
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Well, this one conflicts that view because attractive people have shorter relationships https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/short-relationships-good-looking-people-attractive-study-claims-a7629106.html%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:22 PM
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Because women can always lose the weight weight but men will always have permanent problems like balding or being bald. Or being short or having bad bone structure. It's kind of like the glasses trope. Oh the woman is considered unattractive when she has the glasses on but she takes them off and gets dressed up and all of a sudden, she's a new person. It's the same thing with being overweight, you can be a hot person underneath the weight. You see it time and time again on the weight loss subs. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:12 PM
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No because none of the men I've ever met have women throwing themselves at them like that. They've always had to put in all of the work just to secure one woman, let alone multiple women. Most women have encountered players. I can definitely say these guys are not smooth talking, tall, dark haired men with beautiful faces. Those types of guys have women throwing themselves at the them. The players have been scummy dudes, they are shady characters and you can always tell something is off about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:03 PM
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Facts to your last point. This is why a lot of women need FDS because these dudes sound like they're trying to guilt trip and emotionally manipulate women into sleeping with them. "If you don't have sex with me by the second date, you don't like me." Legit sounds like a tactic to cause dread in women in order to keep her on her toes/keep him around. Tell that dude to kick rocks, if he doesn't like it, tough shit. I say this to any and every woman reading this comment- DO NOT FALL FOR THIS CRAP. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:47 PM
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Lmao go kick rocks to any dude that thinks like this, I hope all women avoid you just to spite you. NOBODY deserves sex, nobody is entitled to it, nobody gets to guilt trip the other person into doing something in order to appease them. So fck off with this stupid thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:41 PM
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Is that all you care about? Because you can really tell where men's mentality is when they ONLY think of women in terms of how attractive they are and what use she can be to him (chores, kid duty, basically slave work) You see women aS objects. You see flaws but I see something inimitable and incapable of being replicated- flesh, bone, consciousness free will and all. The same with a man, I don't view men as objects so I don't care how "attractive" a hypothetical sex robot of a man is or what he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:29 PM
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You look perfect the way you are Hun 👍 you and your girlfriend. This was just based on a facial aesthetics but honestly, you both have lots of great qualities (facial wise) NOBODY is perfect, it's very rare someone is born with perfect facial aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:39 PM
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Nah, I won't. GOD CREATED WOMEN PERFECTLY 🗣️🗣️🗣️. Nature created women perfectly. Anything man creates will be a cheap knock off that is an imitation of the original. "Often imitated, never duplicated." You can't replicate flesh and bone, DNA, consciousness, etc. And if you do get to that point, we probably wouldn't even be considered humans by then ourselves. Until then, have fun with piece of junk silicone or robotic metal parts. Men that have to resort to it in the first place are unwanted so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:33 PM
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You guys are both not bad looking and you need to see a therapist. Don't worry about what other people think of you or her or you together. You need mental help because BDD is a serious condition and it is affecting your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:26 PM
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So, the doll will have real life flesh and bone? A real female vagina, that lubricates and has its natural scent and pheromones? Real lips that can kiss, real emotions and can give you real intimacy? God created women perfectly, anything man creates is an impostor, a knock off, a piece of junk. You want a sex doll to cater to your needs like doing chores and give you sex but I guarantee, most men will realize it's nothing like the real thing. You can imitate but never duplicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:13 PM
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I'm not trying to be rude but the guy is what I consider to be decent looking and on the better side of average, so is the girlfriend. The only thing that's objectively mismatched about you 2 is the weight. If she lost a bit of weight, you'd be fully looks matched. The gfs face is slightly more in proportion (positive canthal tilt). The bfs face has good qualities like clear skin, good skin tone, nice colored eyes & hair but he has negative canthal tilt eyes and brows. Nose is a little out of pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:05 PM
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It won't, you can literally buy a sex doll right now online and men are just as thirsty as ever 🤷‍♀️ nothing has changed. You can make her to your liking, but she can't provide emotions, warmth, intimacy, real skin, etc. She won't desire you, she won't cater to your ego. She's just a piece of silicone and plastic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:53 PM
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Ok then why do posts like this get made constantly? It couldn't be because women find find it to be an attractive, highly desirable trait 🙄 The judgements are true, that's why women don't want gamers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:52 PM
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The grand majority. Sorry those chicks you see streaming don't represent the female population, they're just there because it's an easy way to make money from lonely dudes. And the majority of women don't. Video games aren't normalized otherwise why would the OP bring this topic up? Women don't like gamer men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:38 PM
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Yikes...😳
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:36 PM
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Speaking as a woman, I can tell you right now that these women hold resentment for the man they're with. Yeah he might fall on the attractiveness but he could be rich, resentment. Yeah he is a plumber and makes decent money but he ain't an intellectual with a fancy job title, resentment. Yeah she might not have a job but he was the only thing keeping her from drowning, low-key resentment because she doesn't actually love or want him. She needed him to survive. When someone doesn't want or love y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:33 PM
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Ok and I'm making beef Wellington and a chocolate bombe glaceé and I'm serving it to my husband in my mansion, see, I can lie too 😂 Sorry I ain't your "gf" because I wouldn't tolerate a manchild that still plays stupid games earning fake medals and winning fake missions. You wouldn't even be considered a candidate, I have too much dignity for that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:23 PM
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I'm a millennial and women my age think gamers are losers, they even thought that in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:18 PM
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This is the same lady that said in another thread she still has an FWB, at 35??? Not that she has to be married but fwb's are for like teenagers and young adults. Seems kind of mentally stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:16 PM
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Women have standards and most wouldn't take up a gamer, that's just facts. There are so many stories where women dated these gamers and they basically had to act like mommy for him because he wouldn't pull his own weight not mention there are horror stories on certain subreddits about their lack of hygiene, lack of attention to the GF/wife, ignoring their kids. They DONT make good partners, boyfriend's or husband's. Period. And idgaf about being egalitarian lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:09 PM
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I can cook, can you? That's not a problem for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:06 PM
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I think they were shunned so they turned to video games and porn. A man with a great life IRL wouldn't turn to video games and porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:00 PM
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Literally every "gamer" I ever knew had this exact same thing going on. Even the gamer dudes I didn't personally know in school, ungroomed, smelly, weird, greasy etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:59 PM
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How tf am I supposed to know? I don't travel. That's not my problem, women still see men as losers for playing video games. Go get a real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:58 PM
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Well I mean, this is the topic and a lot of women do think these guys are losers so....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:55 PM
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Denial in action
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:55 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:54 PM
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Why don't you get a job and pay your own welfare? Leech
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:54 PM
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No, this your mom 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:54 PM
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Maybe that's true. Oh well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:53 PM
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And what exactly does translate to in real life ? That you win fake missions, what are you also awarded medals IRL? I just said 98% of "gamers" aren't making money off of it, they are spending and losing money instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:51 PM
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Because they're both activities that are considered something losers do. The video game one means you have no life, no social life in particular. It takes zero talent and effort to sit on your ass and win stupid fake missions. They add nothing of value to your actual life, it's just a waste of time.98% aren't making money off of it, if you're a serious gamer, you are wasting a chunk of money (it can get expensive), you start neglecting yourself and your real life then everything else starts to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:07 PM
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Accurate in the US lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:19 AM
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You're just gonna end up being settled for. And when women settle for a dude, the more likely it is she will resent him and that resent makes her want to pull away, emotionally and she might not even be there sexually either. So the woman you want a chance with, you'll start to feel a subconscious feeling something is wrong. You'll see what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:01 AM
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Omg why are u guys so obsessed with this topic??? This sub has this question asked every other freaking dayyyyy wtfffff. Don't hate the player, hate the game. It's biology. Most women want ONE, just ONE high quality partner. Is that too much to ask for? No, they're not too high. They're actually low, women accept so much crap from men that the bare minimum isn't even met sometimes! Women SHOULD be holding men to a high standard, stop allowing men to lower the bar. Period. Instead y'all keep thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:44 AM
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Average man: AKA when I go out in the general public and look around me -5'4" to 5'11" -Kinda chunky, dad bod, skinny fat or non remarkable build -Depends because when I'm in the suburbs it's pasty white men with beards, kinda scraggly, mostly dad's with dad bods and beer bellies. The younger white men range from pimply & unfortunate looking or decent looking and takes care of appearance. When I'm in an urban area, lots of brown and darker skinned men, looks like life has been hard on them. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:37 AM
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That's perfectly fine 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:07 PM
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Another woe is me/all men thread on why women should accept that men should have the upper hand in society. They should really limit these posts to 1 a week on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:06 PM
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Its easier for women to be passive an gain an active pursuer than a man that's passive and trying to somehow get a woman to make a pass at him for any reason. Hell will freeze over before women do that 😂 at least for the majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:04 PM
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Just because you realize it doesn't mean that's what you're going to get. A woman might never approach you. Then what? I think guys are more screwed with this thinking rather than a woman that wants a pursuer. Who's going to pursue the average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:22 PM
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Lmao ok good luck trying to find that 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:54 PM
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This is another thread where some of the women in the comments are lying altruistically, literally no woman is going to be turned on a by a 4'9"-5'8", fat dork with a small penis over a tall man with a decent build and large penis if they were presented the opportunity to have to sex with either or choose either as their boyfriend. Porn isn't really made with women in mind but there's lot of women out there that do find huge 6'3" black guys hot. Literally no woman out there is fetishizing a shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:59 PM
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And I'm telling him no matter what woman he finds and even if she obliges and gives in to his desires, there's going to come a day where she's gonna say no and he needs to control his urges because they're no one's problems but HIS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:52 PM
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They do i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:50 PM
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You need to learn how to take no for an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:50 PM
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LMAOO alfalfa window 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:44 PM
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I don't get why they're such busy bodies, either. They're so nosy. They are projecting on a man of ACTUAL true high value. Keanu has always been such a highly respected person and one with a good heart that just happens to be to extremely attractive. He happened to pick someone that is probably just as high value as he is and she's age appropriate for him, they narcissists and users on the manosphere don't see it that way because they're LOW value. All of them, not a single one is high value, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:35 PM
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No one's currs about your penis or your lack of a sex life, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:38 PM
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"Women want the best of men while ignoring the average men while they themselves are arguably average themselves. Women are open to the idea of living alone for the rest of their lives instead of settling for the average man despite arguably being average themselves. The two above will lead to huge amounts of men and women who are angry, single, lonely and perpetually sad now that they don't even want to look at each other anymore." Why do you even care what happens to these women? Like, why is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:09 PM
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Women do like pretty boys, it's just stigmatized for women over a certain age to like them like Jesse Metcalfe in the 2000s, young Léo DiCaprio, members of BTS, etc. In the schools I went to, there were your typical rugged, very early developer football player guys and there were the more feminine pretty boys that usually had babyfaces or had a more feminine style. Both were popular but for different reasons football players...because they played football. The pretty boys because well, they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:37 PM
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And if she doesn't give you sex, she ain't obligated to. Period. Respect other people's wishes. That's not someone else's problem your sex drive is high, that's something you have to deal with and stop pushing it on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:18 PM
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Is this all you guys think and talk about all of the time? Good God 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ just get a freaking sex doll bc women aren't obligated to give you sex, she's not an object. Some of y'all are REALLY PATHETIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:46 PM
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Because they can't even get to the sex part, let alone the relationship part. I assume they can't even get their foot in the door so maybe they haven't experienced the other aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:39 PM
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I agree with everything the OP said and especially this part: "Bimbos who are desperate for male attention, who are just like the fuckboys, or want to use male thirst for her own gain. It’s no wonder why the only women that a lot of guys know are slutty, stupid, shallow, gold digging, and ”Chad-chasers”. They appeal to the male fantasy." Tbh the women they desire most often are these types of bimbos then they judge the entire female sex because this small pool of women are the ones getting with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:50 PM
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I think it's easier for a man to become a masculine dude than to be a feminine pretty boy. You basically have to have cutesy features that are attractive like Leo DiCaprio or BTS. If you don't have that look naturally, you will never achieve it. I think most men can kind of achieve a masculine look, to am extent. At that age, I had a huge crush on Gerard Way and he was considered feminine. But like masculine, macho, mature looking men are scary to younger girls. They are almost a turn off. Sean …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:35 PM
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Probably because these boys look younger, since these girls are young themselves. They probably look baby faced and all of that to you, but I think they look age appropriate for these girls. Their "femininity" makes them more likeable to the girls. They're not as threatening and they fit more into the romantic type of trope with a dreamy guy. Girls that age don't really macho masculine old guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:23 PM
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Lmao ok but y'all don't have that issue when youre jerking it to porn stars wearing ten pounds of makeup and injected with silicone from head to toe. Or when you see IG models or car models. The great majority of women that are paid attention to all wear loads of makeup 😂 Most women that go out with out makeup get told they're sick or they just get ignored for the chick wearing makeup. That's why women don't listen to men. They say one thing but reality will tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:19 PM
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I'm not going to have a relationship with just anybody just to be happy. Could i get involved with a male friend or candidate for the sake of being loved? Yes. Do I honestly want to? No. Not even if he were a "good partner". That's just the truth. Congrats to other people if they're happy but I don't feel much of a pull towards relationships in general, I'm kind of selfish i guess. I just don't like responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:22 PM
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I agree with the OP. The only exception I can think of is if a woman wants to have kids. Other than that, most of the discussions on PPD are pointless. Women remain getting the most benefits, with or without getting involved with the opposite sex. It's true women have a better support system and can get easy validation with or without a man. Men lack emotional support and they constantly want sex and most women don't have a high libido. Men are disappointing in bed to a lot of women, so that tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:35 PM
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I can get company, even cuddles or hugs from other women and fun and conversation without the expectation of sex from a woman. That's not the same from a man, I would never do that if he were my friend. The expectation of sex ruins literally everything when it comes to men. Even having them as friends or even being alone together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:27 PM
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No matter how much porn a man consumes, it still doesn't compare to the same thing. It's still very much a desire for the great majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:25 PM
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Lmao yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:23 PM
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Where's the lie though? Just because it's cyclical doesn't mean there's not any truth to it. Really the only women that actually want men anymore are women that want children. Or disillusioned women brought up on romantic fantasy. Those days are long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:22 PM
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Fuckboys= more likely to employ manipulative and coercive tactics to get a woman into bed. Just spend 10 minutes on RP and this will get proven. That's why it was stated that often these women were just naive at first. Just because a man is a fuck boy doesn't mean he's attractive. I've seen legit trolls in real life play women. And "beta providers", is that what you call a guy willing to wait and that's acting respectful? Women that want to set up a solid foundation is going to jump into bed wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:45 AM
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You cant marry who you want if she doesn't accept. A lot of men don't even up with the woman they wanted either but no one ever talks about that. And at least those women have validation and support from other men/friends while most of you males are lonely in every aspect except maybe your bros. They can call someone up and have them there in a second and you guys can't even get 1 match on dating apps. Most of those women are just wasting their time on one stupid guy. That's why some subs say ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:10 AM
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A pick me caters to men and will do anything for a man even if it puts her at a disadvantage. She's either scared to be alone or doesn't know her worth. She will start doing things for a man just to get picked sometimes a pick me isn't even in a relationship with the guy she wants. If she is, then her world will revolve around him and catering to his needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:51 PM
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Ok well she can go ahead and pay for herself for a dude that probably puts in no effort into dating her while I'm over here dating a guy that actually does put effort and investment into me. Pick me gonna settle because she thinks she can't do better haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:20 PM
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Because she ain't got no standards, she thinks she can't do better so she settles with some guy that can't even put real effort into dating her. That's not being adult, that's settling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:17 PM
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Ok good luck getting and maintaining dates then. Find a pick me that will stick around and do just that ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:57 PM
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Definitely, men are meant to provide. If a guy starts of with expecting you to pay for yourself, he's gonna expect you to do it if you're going to be in a relationship with him. Sorry, there's men that actually wanna provide. Why would I go for a guy that wants me to pay half? No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:56 PM
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The way I'm seeing it is he's showing you his true colors. He's cheap when you first meet him, he's gonna be cheap forever. Fuck that. Also, women use that to gauge how interested you are in them. You think I'm gonna pick the loser that invited me to coffee or the fancy date? One is instantly more invested than the other. I ain't getting dressed for a $5 coffee "date", go waste someone else's time and find a pick me that will be forever grateful she got a $5 cup of coffee because she doesn't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:52 PM
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I completely agree with you. That wouldn't even make me feel good or any type of pleasure. It would make me feel pathetic and ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:44 PM
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They're rare if they're a legit Chad..I'm not talking about your average good looking football player, I'm talking about stands out in the crowd model type hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:35 PM
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I get what you're saying I'm just saying that men that stand out from the crowd like a real Chad (Sean Opry as an example) would probably have it easier than women do. Even in life, like it's known that taller men make more money, if he's white or light skinned, if he's the beauty standard here. The amount of privilege that opens doors is insane. I can't even imagine what it must be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:52 AM
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Once I read the title, I immediately agreed with it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:41 PM
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No, they don't. That's sneaky and if they asked, I would still say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:55 PM
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I think they might over estimate when it's a person that's above average but not Chad or Stacy. I think when you see a legit Chad in real life, it's almost shocking. I don't throw around the word Chad like nothing. I don't consider it any attractive guy. I mean like Sean O'pry or one that stands out in a crowd. Tall, great hair, great build, great fashion sense, well groomed, great bone structure, etc. So your average attractive person, maybe there's a bit of overestimation. But Chad level? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:10 PM
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Legitimately hot men that stand out from a crowd probably have it easier than everyone, even hot women. You can find a hot woman almost anywhere but with like super attractive men it's not as common. Women and gay men just throw themselves at them. It becomes like how women get approached but reversed. But i don't think you should feel that bad because legit Chads and Chad lites are quite uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:06 PM
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Not like when you see a HOT looking man. Hot women are a dime a dozen, you can see one in almost every city or suburb. Seeing a legit hot guy is like seeing a unicorn 😂 Because women AND men are breaking their necks to see him. They're rarer, so that makes them more special.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:03 PM
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I definitely would not allow that during a date, that's relationship type of stuff. If a guy tried that with me, I'd call him out or just leave. That's is not appropriate and it's unwanted. He can't control himself during the first few dates, he's thirsty af and has no respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:52 PM
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That wouldn't happen if you ask first but you'd probably get rejected anyways. Gotta do the ol' RP tricks and manipulate using push & pull lmao. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:47 PM
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Dude, all of your comments here always mention ugly/fat women, like did a ugly/fat woman hurt you? Or are you just projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:44 PM
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What are you going to do? Force masculinity upon them? Just leave them alone literally no one else cares except busy bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:11 PM
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So, do you deny that men don't take advantage of women that get high or drunk? A woman can be drinking with her friend and not want to have sex but if the dude is a piece of crap, he will try to get her to sleep with him. You don't have to be in a bar for it to happen. It can also happen at a gathering or a party. Just because you're an adult and choose to drink doesn't give someone else the right to advantage of you. Lmao I don't have to link anything, this is talk amongst you and you know it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:04 PM
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If there were no moral duty, we would have people raping other people. We are civilized now, time to get with the program and stop allowing this behavior to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:59 PM
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Hoo hoo we got a tough guy here 😤😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:57 PM
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Apparently "emasculating men" means not allowing them to manipulate women into giving them access to their bodies. Lmao flirting ain't taking advantage of her, kissing (as long as she consents) is fine. You need therapy, you think it's ok to lie and manipulate someone to get access to their body? It's not. And your way of thinking is abnormal and morally wrong. We need to nip this in the bud in society and stop it from continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:55 PM
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👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:53 PM
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Are you dense? They meet chicks at bars and they invite them over for smoke sessions and probably other drugs like E. That lowers women's inhibitions and gives them easier access to try to sleep with them. Are you genuinely this dumb? Or are you just pretending?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:52 PM
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To the second point, their entire strategies are basically a grey area. Tricking and manipulating someone to get you to sleep with them should be considered a crime. They will also use drugs or alcohol to help aid them to get the woman to a point where they can take advantage of her. Nothing they do is secret, it's disgusting and should have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:20 PM
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The creepy parts men pretend aren't creepy. Like catcalling, doing what Harvey Weinstein and Bill Cosby did. Blaming women for getting raped because of what she wore. The Gillette commercial that triggered all of them. Telling each other to "man up." Taking advantage of women that are drunk or high. Those are all associated with toxic masculinity and it's also just disgusting behavior. Men encourage each other to disregard the feelings of a woman. They don't care if they make her feel uncomforta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:09 PM
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What are you even talking about? Do you even know what being autistic is or are you just slinging that word around not knowing what it means? The women there aren't looking for a free meal, they are testing out whether the man is truly interested or not. I've even gotten offers for free food from men without expectations. Who cares ? Sounds like that sub struck a nerve though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:39 PM
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There's a thing called not being shallow and ignorant, you should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:34 PM
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What if they never told you they had a mental illness? What if the girl you had a crush on in class had anxiety or depression? But you never knew about it? Your dad is the baseline to show you how to be treated, dad's should be good examples of.what the future partner will reflect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:31 PM
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You don't speak for everyone, I don't think less of someone because they're missing an arm or leg or if they have diabetes. It's just another part of the body that's sick. There are treatments available to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:30 PM
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Lmao ok you don't sound like you have a small dick or anything 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:01 PM
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Ew, i wouldn't want my friends sloppy seconds wtf This is true if you have a trashy and ratchet friend circle. Sorry, i can't relate and idc about my friends hook up or how good it was 🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:59 PM
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You don't know the context, though. They will accept a "cheaper date" if the man puts in effort. They're saying because coffee is so easy and cheap, he can basically take multiple women out on cheap coffee dates. Same with walks in the park, it's cheap and requires no effort and he can do it with multiple women and spend next to no money. Same with drinks. Also, FDS makes the argument that a man is basically wasting your time by making you get dressed up for a $5 coffee date and I agree with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:53 PM
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That's why dad's should treat their daughters well and be good providers. That sets the future for her baseline in how she should be treated- well. She will be less likely to go for lower quality men. This is not entitlement, it's expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:49 PM
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But how do you know they aren't? Do you know them personally? Have you met them and can attest to this? Even when I was at my low point, I still met decent men, maybe even HVM type men. You don't necessarily have to be high value yourself. All you need is a man to be interested in you. I said in another comment that if a man is willing to put up with you through good and bad, then he really wants you. The sense of entitlement is non issue. If youve been treated well by your dad or past love inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:47 PM
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Well some men DO and will take you out to an expensive restaurant. I've had that happen to me. And i didnt even say anything, they just offered. What's wrong with that? "It ain't tricking if you got it" and some men got it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:36 PM
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Don't project your actions on me. I don't touch men with small penises
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:33 PM
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That's what I'm talking about, when he already somewhat knows you. Not a stupid tinder date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:28 PM
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I've had men that treated me like a goddess, why should I not expect that of other men that I'm seeing? Maybe some of the women there have been treated well in the past, too. They probably don't expect anything less 🤷‍♀️ It's like girls that grow up with a well off family and the dad is a good provider. She's used to being treated well and having her needs catered for. Why would she not expect that from her future man? I don't think that's entitlement at all. I think that's the baseline. You sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:23 PM
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When a man's REALLY interested in you, he won't mind taking you to an expensive restaurant. It's more like she's testing how much he likes her. A man that wants you has no problem doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:16 PM
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Question: why do some men not wear their wedding ring? (Except for the guys that have jobs where they can't wear it) Are any guys here married (or that used to be) that do this? Did you decide from the beginning to not wear it or after a while and why? Women: would it bother you if your husband chose not to wear his wedding ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:13 PM
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I love it when men try to become the arbiters of dating advice for women. Whether or not those women are successful or not, ask yourself why does that bother you in the first place? Do I care, at the end of the day, if ANY men here get into relationships and sex or not? No, I couldn't give it a second thought. I do not care if they get laid, I don't care if they married or go their own way. Ask yourselves WHY does FDS and other women's dating advice subreddit a bother you so much that you have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:55 PM
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Sorry I meant to phrase it differently. I meant to say, why do you think that's the story for all of the women there? Women of the older generations have usually been married at least once and they could be separated or divorced. There are women on FDS that have been married before and jumping into a completely new dating scene than in the past. A few of the women on FDS are also in relationships. I know it's a dating sub but there's also women that get general advice from discussions and topics…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:13 PM
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They were banned a long time ago. But there were subreddits bordering on illegal. There was a subreddit specifically on dead women...literally men posting pics of dead women. And jailbait speaks for itself. All I'm saying is that if that's the WORST they found on FDS/subreddit overlaps, then I can only imagine what most of the men on the incel subreddit and even TRP's other subreddit would be. I wouldn't be surprised that if jailbait were still around and wasn't banned, a majority of them would …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:24 AM
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" its almost like men systemically fail as fathers and partners, and women are disproportionately damaged because of it 😳😳😳crazy right? who wouldve thought men oppress women😳😳😳😳" Hit the nail right on the head!!!! They blame the CHILD (no matter if female or male) for somehow being the reason why the father didn't take responsibility and was shitty. What a fucked up society we live in. And now they're attempting to gaslight and shut you down by using the words "fEmInIsT lAnGuaGe" no, it's just f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:18 AM
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Agree with everything you said!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:13 AM
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Why do you assume they're all lonely, though? They're older than me but a lot of the women of older generations probably have been married at least once or are divorced/seperated and are experiencing a completely different dating world than they did in the past. Some fds users are in relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:09 AM
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Once again, mental illness is stigmatized and used an insult when all it is a part of the human body that is sick and needs help. How come people don't make fun of any other conditions of the human body, except mental illness? Stop insulting people that are ill. I've seen tons of women that probably come out of relationships traumatized by abusers. I've seen ton of women grow up in awful environments, where emotional, sexual, physical abuse was rampant. Likewise with men that have experienced it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:39 AM
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Men do the same thing, I've had men try to get with me but i ignored them all. That ship has sailed long ago
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:07 PM
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You sound bitter 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:09 PM
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Are you female? If not, then be quiet. If you're significantly turned on enough, you can handle big penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:27 PM
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Definitely. It feels more enhanced with a bigger penis. The pleasure is MUCH better. But idc about those men, they're just insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:25 PM
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I don't think you understand that all women's vaginas pretty much start out the same. It's only the tightest when you're a virgin or not aroused. You can have sex with various men or different sizes and it will not "loosen." It's a damn muscle that relaxes when aroused and reverts back to the regular state after. The only time it significantly causes any change is after vaginal delivery. Im gonna say the same thing I said down in the other comment- if women are feeling "loose" to you, then the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:21 AM
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Right? I'm sure if a guy has a big enough penis, every woman would feel similar and definitely not "loose" which is just a coping mechanism they use to make themselves feel better. If more women feel loose to you than tight, the problem is YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:12 AM
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It comes off as insulting but I don't care about small penis guys or average penis guys. It's just a simple fact that being penetrated by a large or above average penis feels better than a small or average one. I was just stating to the other person that the "loose vagina" thing is a myth and really, the only thing that can make it stretch out significantly is childbirth. No human male penis can stretch out a woman's vagina to the point where it gets loose, that's just stupid. It's a muscle that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:10 AM
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He was interested in her before= her plan B, she had a hold on him before and she might be able to get ahold of him again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:01 AM
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The peacock life is only for the naturally desired. If that wasn't naturally granted to you, then you have to make yourself remarkable or just be a meh option. Then leave and stop complaining 🤷‍♀️ Why are you even on PP? Women choose and men get chosen. It's as simple as that. Without any of the complex society crap like trying to make women dependent on men or crap like stigmas (having to be married or shaming single motherhood), arranged marriages, punishments for adultery, beating women into …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:00 PM
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So cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:47 PM
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Tbh I don't have sympathy for women that do that. But I don't have sympathy for men that do it, either. They'll always tell you they had a 'thing' for you before but it's too late 🤷‍♀️ I think those women are desperate. I would personally never contact someone from the past to try to start something up with them. Especially not one that was interested in me in the past, if I didn't like them back then, I'm not going to like them now. Only to reconnect as friends, maybe. The more likely reason is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:42 PM
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The vagina has to lubricate to accommodate and make friction easier and comfortable, so it relaxes (since it's a muscle) that's where the arousal thing comes in. A vagina can grip any penis but if the man's penis is like 3 inches, wtf is there to grip on to ? Some women don't even get aroused enough before the guy sticks it in. The man's penis makes more of a difference. Men with big penises don't have to worry because they know they will be able to cause women better pleasure. A woman can find …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:31 PM
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Ok the vast majority of all classes have people that get C's yet there are people that outshine them and get A's. That's just how it is, you have to have SOME trait that sets you apart and those that DO have them are the ones getting noticed and often are more desired. If you can't by on looks alone, you gotta bring something else to the table or settle into your mediocrity. Stop complaining 🤷‍♀️ Im not even "blackpill", I am just looking at it from a biological standpoint. You're getting mad an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:16 PM
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Some of you need a wakeup call, it's clear you haven't run in those circles. If you think your average club hopping Miami hot chick doesn't have a high n count, you're fooling yourself 😂 These girls def are not saving their virginity and they're probably getting just as passed around, just not by average guys. Women aren't insecure about n count. But not being stupid would include you care about the type of woman he has slept with and how frequently he does it. It's a big difference between slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:27 PM
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True, I mean, the same thing applies through life. Are you going to keep being mediocre in class and get by with C's and D's and expect someone to see you as anything but mediocre? No. You have to work to be seen and recognized. If you can't get by looks wise, then try to do something else. If all else fails, then your traits are not desirable for the opposite sex (like if you're 5'1' as a man or if you're heavily disfigured) Then you have to choose someone at your level or just accept that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:20 PM
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If your dick can fill up most women's vagina, you wouldn't care how "tight" she is lmao. A woman is only that tight either when she's a virgin or not turned on. The vagina is a muscle and can stretch out many times and will revert back to its original state. The only time where that might change is after a woman gives birth but they can still do kegels. Y'all just need a female anatomy lesson. You don't know anything about the female body, just dumb stereotypes used to spare your fEeLinGs!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:12 PM
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Significantly above average like 7+ with girth, nothing skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:08 PM
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Y'all haven't been in those circles, those chicks sleep with equally as attractive men. Or have them as BFs. Men below their league are intimidated, not the ones that are on their level. It's probably just like talking to any other chick to them. The way some of the manosphere and incel circles talk...hmm...I'm not so sure if this is a "fantasy" for them. I'm sure most women don't even care if a guy has a low or high n count, as long as he isn't nasty or has STDs. I think women would be more con…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:06 PM
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Don't some men say the same exact thing about women? They expect a hot pornstar looking woman that's a virgin or has a very low n count to be all for him. Newsflash: the hot girls in the club and the cheerleading squad ARE NOT virgins nor are they low n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:51 PM
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As a woman, once you've had a big one inside of you and you're fully turned on, there's nothing better. The feeling is significantly better than average or small penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:46 PM
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I'm not going to sugarcoat it. Size matters. Some of the women here lying altruistically are doing it to spare your feelings. Once you've had sex with a guy with a big or VERY above average penis, you never wanna go back to average or small penises. A woman's vagina can stretch out to give birth to a baby, there's no such thing as "too big" from a human male. (Not talking about dildo or vibrator here) It's even better if they have girth to it. Some penises lack girth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:44 PM
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I look at most of these viewpoints from a biological and evolutionary standpoint. A lot of men throughout history have never passed on their genes. A lot of men are not found desirable by women. Whether it be looks, status, wealth, etc. A lot of the benefits men have had from the past like marriage and having kids is low-key so the woman could survive because women didn't have a lot of options to survive on their own back then. Then before that you had archaic laws like if you commit adultery, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:37 PM
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Ok, so move there? We don't need that here. We can't even get health insurance for everyone that needs it but we are supposed to be sympathetic because some guy can't get his dck wet? Miss the entire female population with that BS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:42 AM
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Someone that puts a price on their bodies isn't a person of much value to begin with. Your body is priceless and once you mess it up, you can't go back. Money can easily be replaced
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:41 AM
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You're comparing a human body that's priceless to an inanimate object. You can make your stupid money back in working just a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:57 AM
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Oh i meant that the government doesn't need to provide them with a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:52 AM
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The government does not need to provide you with a hooker. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:11 AM
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You're not entitled to it. Do you think most women care about male sexlessness? Lmao. You guys really need to channel your mediocrity into something worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:10 AM
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Sex is not a need nor a right. Hell, food, water and shelter isn't even considered a human right. Yet y'all wanna legalize prostitution?? How about we fix the other issues on earth first? Your dick & male sexlessness is the least of humanity's problems. You will not die if you don't have sex. Learn how to focus on other aspects of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:09 AM
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Omg the late gen Z born in the 2000s and after are insecure because of crap like TikTok. Growing up we had Photoshop, anorexic modeling industry (models were literally starving to death), early social media like MySpace, FB and IG. And that was bad enough! Now they have these stupid ass challenges like of their face are symmetrical or some other BS like that. The TikTok algorithm is harsh, too. You have to a VERY above average face to be popular. I feel really bad for them. They're going to grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:55 AM
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I'm not a pick me. I'm not obligated to give sex or cook for a relationship unless he's my husband and he would do the same for me. Most of these chicks aren't even in relationships with the guys they're a pick me for
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:43 AM
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Could be but a lot of pick me women raise their daughters to be pick me/cater to men. A dad doesn't necessarily raise his son to be a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:39 AM
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They ain't even a gf or wife tf I wouldn't even do that as a gf. I'd only consider doing it as a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:38 AM
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I mean I guess you're right in a way but you could also say that the simps and pick mes are also below the person of interests league. But also, most female twitch simps are probably going skew in favor of the most undesirable men....there's a lot, I'm sure. So, there's definitely quantity. But the quality of the men is pretty low. Although I'm sure she probably gets regular attractive men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:15 PM
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I don't think you understand that most women are born with hymens, that is why virginity is considered a thing. I am a woman myself and realize some don't but there's obviously enough women on the planet to universally make a big deal about it for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:11 PM
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Your right hand has marital assets it wants to protect? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:10 PM
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The woman most likely to be a pick me was probably raised that way by another woman. They're always like "take care of your man, put him first, bring him his plate first, it's important to have a man" (despite the actual man, even if he's shitty, they will take almost any man as long as they're not alone) I've liked men/found them attractive but NEVER was a pick me like cooking for him or giving him access to sex or anything like that. I would never simp for a man. There's a specific type of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:05 PM
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Does your supposed "gf"know you're obsessed with my posts? Lmao that's why I constantly see your username in my notifications. Tell your "gf" she got with a creep. It's going to be awfully hilarious and karma if this were the reason why you got divorced in the future 😂 Lmao, make jokes about it now but nowadays, women will use any excuse to cash out with divorces 🤑 You don't know if I happened to do the same :) So, seems like a win situation if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:38 PM
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Pretty soon he will have nothin to eat bc his brand is going under
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:06 PM
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Sucks for you, go back to looking at porn. Not everything in society has to be cater to men's penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:05 PM
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I'm not gonna argue there because they're both wrong. But you have to admit, most men offer women money, dinner and drinks all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:22 PM
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They're out of your league, do you think they want to know you fantasize about them, short bald janitor? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:20 PM
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No, you DO have to gain someone's trust in order to get access to their body. The same way a scammer has to gain the trust of an elderly person so they can rob them of their entire life savings. They are both wrong. Except for some reason, one is illegal while the other one is currently in a gray area. These manipulators will even call it what it is -gaining access- because that's what they want, it's their end goal. They didn't just put on that little show for them to come out with nothing. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:10 PM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:04 PM
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Also, the CEO said his lingerie/fashion show would NEVER cater to "fat" or average women. Look at him now, eating his words. He chose to keep his supermodels for as long as could until they all retired, then he hired IG "models" like Kendall Jenner and the Hadid's. Then he realize oh shit...no one's watching! Now, he's trying to use inclusivity to keep his company from dying out complete. You men don't know any of this because you don't involve yourselves with VS except if it MaKeS YoUR PenIs Ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:00 PM
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Their actual bras and panties weren't even great quality. They're just like Apple, they have great marketing. But the actual products aren't that great, it's all about a certain image. They're not Agent Provocateur. They're not like some luxury french lingerie boutique, with the finest silks & lace. They're just mainstream American company that had no other mainstream competition. With meh quality lingerie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:57 PM
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Ok but what if it's for love or commitment? You basically got access to someone else's intimate private parts because you lied. The person feels violated afterwards. That isn't right and these men should face consequences. It's a grey area How would you feel if you had a daughter and that happened to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:52 PM
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Ok just check around the manosphere and that's literally all they talk about. That's why they always say 'No HyMEn nO DiAmOnD!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:47 PM
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Under false pretenses and basically manipulating them emotionally and psychologically, yes. If you have to resort to gaining a woman's trust and making up elaborate lies just to get access to her body, you should face legal consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:43 PM
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Men that are not naturally desired by women have to rely on manipulative and coercive tactics just to bed women, even just "average/below" looking women. Because women, more often than not, flock/throw themselves on to men that are extremely attractive or attractive. Everything comes so easily to them, they have no need to lie or rely on dumb tactics to attract or sleep with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:41 PM
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Except some men consider a woman 'defiled' after having sex ONE time...in many parts of the world, not just on this sub or the manosphere. There's nothing inherently defiling about a woman losing her virginity and her hymen popping. It's just an excuse men make up for saying she's not pure. If anything, it's just a milestone. Defiling someone means you did something REALLY bad like you basically caused her to be humiliated and dirty. Some guys do do this but losing your virginity as a woman does…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:34 PM
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Men SHOULD respect women's boundaries though. It is a boundary. Unless the woman straight up tells you they want sex and they're all over you, you should be respecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:28 PM
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Exactly, women don't naturally find them attractive or else they'd flock to them. But they don't, so they have to lie about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:27 PM
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To use someone else's body for your own personal desires should never be allowed. Manipulating someone to allow them access to their vagina is wrong. It says so much about the type of men that do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:26 PM
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There should be for coercing someone and having sex with them under false pretenses. This is someone's body. Their trust is being violated and they are being taken advantage of. RP has tried to exploit this grey area, women need to bring attention to this 'loop hole.' And there needs to be consequences for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:24 PM
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Facts but if you search through rp enough, you'll see their true nature. They willingly will seek out these poor women. They are scum
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:19 PM
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True they really convince themselves they destroy women... Yeah with disappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:18 PM
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They also go for women that put "looking for something serious" but then try to get with them for sex versus the women that openly want sex and hookups. They said it themselves it's because the women that are looking for something serious are "cleaner"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:01 PM
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I have a feeling like these guys somehow coerced them into it by promising other things. Either that or the woman was thirsty for sex anyways. I don't trust anything on red pill, i can guarantee there was manipulation going on. Then these same guys will turn around and say "ShE sAiD nO HoOkUpz bUt I SlEpT w/hEr!" But then they conveniently leave out the part where he manipulates her into sleeping with him. It's always his side of the story that gets told and he paints himself of some sort of "sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:58 PM
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Ok well I'm gonna burst your bubble...99% of women do not care nor can they relate. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:44 PM
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Men's loneliness is not my concern nor my problem and I do not care. I was born female and what males go through is literally none of my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:33 PM
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Ok let me know when you date a man and then come back and tell me what a HVM is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:32 PM
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Tbh I think it's men with an inferiority complex that think about it that way "destroy, deflower, use" all seems like language they use to make themselves feel powerful. Tbh most of these guys don't even have the "equipment" to destroy anything 😂 Their degradation usually comes from other acts like calling her names, or making her do humiliating stuff. The actual act of penetrating isn't being destroyed or used unless it's forced or something like that. Anyway, these males are hypocritical. If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:30 PM
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This is probably going to be an unpopular opinion but I don't think it would be so bad if women weren't born with hymens. Then they wouldn't be able to say most of those things. It would just be a vagina without any idea of "virginity." There would be no deflowering. And I feel like all of those concepts are there to make men feel more powerful than they actually are. I don't see penetrative sex as being used or being ruined unless it were rape/under false pretenses or if he was doing other thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:44 PM
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No offense but a lot of y'all aren't big enough to cause any woman destruction 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:40 PM
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I agree but it's not just sex. It's touching and affection in general. I can't fake interest, especially affection. I will recoil in disgust if I don't find the man attractive. It's not as an insult, it's just a chemistry thing. These women will also be emotionally distant and aloof. Or the relationship will be very transactional. She will basically exhibit anti-women behavior (not emotional, not intimate, doesn't brag about her husband except maybe the fact she got married, etc) She will be sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:36 PM
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She's simply not attracted to him, he doesn't get her excited. If you feel more of a friend vibe than a sexual or romantic vibe. If she seems aloof or distant. She doesn't really care about intimacy but what you can do for her. She will actively avoid intimacy with the guy if she can. She's not very emotionally involved. Everything seems more transactional. She's not very proud of the guy himself and depending on the woman she might brag about her marriage but not the man she married. There's wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:28 PM
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Are you also dating men? Womens definition of hvm is different from the male version. So unless you're dating men as well, you shouldn't have any input on this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:10 PM
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Show me proof then...? I couldn't care less about men's loneliness, anyways. I'm not a man and I don't empathize with them. I'm just saying if you choose to be alone, you shouldn't be shamed. Whether or not women experience or don't experience the same loneliness is the least of my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:08 PM
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Y'all in denial of reality. The sky is blue and y'all could be in here and debate that it isn't. No one said cheating, abuse etc wasn't a cause. But I also gave another reason of why women don't want to get married or regret doing so. It's a very common complaint and you'd know that if you were actually around women which I guarantee you're not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:05 PM
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😂😂😂 I really hope you're joking. Every thread here implies women are at fault "women don't like me because I'm a nice guy!" "Women don't like me because I'm a short troll!" "Women don't like me because I'm not Chad!" And now it's "women actually show each other support and men don't" literally the guys on the sub do blame for their problems. Or they misdirect their anger towards females in general. They'll go on tangents about how women aren't single because they actually have friends & orbiters…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:02 PM
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True. Even if I did find.the guy attractive or he was my type, I would get bored after a few messages. I had very low interest in online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:56 AM
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You're out of touch with reality, this is a very common complaint amongst women. Most of y'all don't even have female friends or are around women in general. If you really sit here & pretend like women don't eventually get fed up after working AND having to do most of the housework and another grown adult, you're in denial. You really think this is what women wanted when they got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:52 AM
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No, some men literally don't want to lift a finger. 2 people are working, there's no reason why they both can't share the responsibility. I don't blame the women filing for divorce, I would rather be on my own than take care of another adult in addition to working. Why did I get married in the first place ? For more added stress? No, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:04 AM
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Well idk what you me to say, go find some female friends or a support group 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:01 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:00 AM
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Well that's not coming from me so idk what to tell you. Men tend to put each other down in general. They are too overly competitive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:58 PM
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There are people that are schizoid and schizotypal. I'm one of them so that doesn't really apply to me but to others it might. I'm not denying that you should have some connections I'm just saying that relying too much on someone else and being codependent on them is not good. If you aren't comfortable by yourself or being independent, you need to reverse that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:57 PM
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I agree but it's still not healthy to be codependent. There's a big difference between connecting with others and having a desperate need to NOT be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:55 PM
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Ok, are you gonna help them lose weight or get triggered by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:58 PM
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Misery loves company, sweetie. You're miserable inside so you have to make others feel just as bad...boo hoo😭 that's such a sad existence. Lol I can only imagine what you must look like and are like in real life, you're probably projecting because you hate yourself 🤭 You see obese people and it triggers you LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:53 PM
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I said in another comment below that women in general are more social than men and have a better support system because they support one another, unlike men that think being emotional and vulnerable is gay...or weird. You can't really blame women for that, this is a male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:38 PM
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True. Women lie more altruistically but men are very self serving. I don't trust most of the stuff males.say on this sub anyway, I'd trust studies over their word 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:26 PM
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Because not only do women have to work but now they have to take care of a grown adult man and kids. And how many stories do we all hear that the man never wants to do anything around the house or very little? And don't say most men have the income to get a stay at home wife. They don't. It takes 2 people to make ends meet at this day and age. Most women are not cheaters but they are fed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:23 PM
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Don't matter, it's a subjective thing. Some people can handle it and some can't. Codependency is unhealthy either way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:18 PM
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An HVM would accept a woman regardless and an LVM wouldn't. You guys aren't women, you don't understand what HVM means to us. Not all HVM's want children in the first place. There's childless couples out there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:16 PM
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Sounds like you're triggered instead. So emotionally volatile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:15 PM
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I was on there briefly when I was a little younger and it got so overwhelming. My inbox was filled within a day or 2 with hundreds of matches then I just gave up and didn't take it down. I never got with anyone on the app, it was more of an ego boost thing. I haven't gone back since because I'd rather meet someone the old fashioned way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:11 PM
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Other men catfishing other men OR they're trying to see what it's like to be the opposite sex on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:08 PM
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Who is Kevin Samuels?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:06 PM
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The grass is always greener... I bet there are people out there that low-key regret getting married and having kids. It's just not socially acceptable to say so. But you can't really reverse that. Once it's done, it's done. Everything needs to be taken into account. And those are not decision to be made purely for "self fulfillment", they are to be taken seriously. Marriage and children is something people don't take seriously enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:58 PM
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If you're not comfortable being by yourself, you are codependent and that's unhealthy. Everyone has to learn to be independent. Then decide IF they want companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:52 PM
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Ok, once again, what's with the tone of the males on this sub? You all answer with such fervent anger and overblown emotion. Chill out and stop getting triggered. ALL humans can find self fulfillment alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:51 PM
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I would also like to add that women are more social than men and tend to have more friends and family that take kindly to them and get lots of emotional support. Men are also less likely to get mental help. Women are outshining men in many aspects but women also tend to lift each other up and men seem to put each other down. Women are having an easier time being alone because they no longer need men to support themselves and sex is not a 'need'. Plus, Friends, family, pets, emotional vulnerabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:47 PM
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I think it is but to be honest with you I know a couple of ugly and bottom tier men that have had girlfriends and some that even got married. The ones that got married got with fellow women that were looksmatch to them. The thing is you have to know your limitations. You can't be bottom tier and try to ascend to someone that looks like a Disney princess. I've seen some incel type videos on YouTube (you can go look up incel and it) and they have horrible personalities and a sense of grandeur abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:40 PM
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If you're not a woman, you shouldn't be answering for a woman. Anyone, regardless if they're male or female, can be happy alone. I don't shame MGTOW, you shouldn't shame women that choose to be by themselves. A lot of older single women choose to stay single after their husbands die. They just simply found enjoyment in independence. A lot of these women don't want to continue to take care of an adult/elderly man after doing it most of their lives. Most men die before their wives do (because men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:29 PM
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I just want you to know that I didn't read any of that but you are a useless breeder and no one cares about the plight of a useless breeder. Sorry my reproductive system doesn't define me or my existence, unlike you. I don't need kids, men, society, or you to validate me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:14 PM
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Because I believe that the world and planet are MORE/significantly important than humanity? For the environment, the other other animal species and vitally important things like the ozone layer that is being destroyed by us. Yup, that sure is 'edgy' 🙄 Sorry but my world doesn't revolve around what men think, what they want from me, whether I'm 'mother material' (gross) I'm an independent thinker. If I wanted to continue as a breeder/human incubator, I could find a guy easily. I didn't want to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:06 AM
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Hahaha the utter sense of entitlement, I'm not obligated to repay ANY favor. I'm not the one that bred myself into existence. I can save enough money to retire and live comfortably, that's my only concern. Everyone else should worry about theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:51 AM
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People are free to make their own choices. And that doesn't even benefit most men, according to y'all that benefits only a small percentage of men. I've repeated many time on this sub that hookup culture does not apply to me. I don't engage in casual sex nor am I interested in it. That is my choice and what other women do with their vagina is none of my concern and quite frankly, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:49 AM
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Who tf cares? You are speaking to an antinatalist here, whether or not humanity survives or literally does not concern or bother me. The earth will continue to flourish better without humanity. That is a fact. No more pollution, no more waste, no more poaching, etc. Beauty will be restored. Old people die, so? You will die and I will die. That is the least of my concern
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:46 AM
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Yes and I said she's looking for advice in the wrong place. RP, seriously? Yeah I'm sure they have great advice for women to follow 🙄 And that comment you quoted wasn't the for discussion, it was towards the other guy because he seemed like he was bothered by something I said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:05 PM
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Ok and you're selfish because you want them to slave away instead of having quality lives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:02 PM
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If you say so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:58 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:54 PM
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Ok, so that's the sole reason why people should keep popping them out ? Not because they want to give their kids a good, high quality life ? That is disgusting. I don't see you brought up 2 cities when all of the US pretty much destigmatized mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:53 PM
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I don't understand why y'all get upset SO MUCH that some women don't want to choose relationships over other facets of their lives. A woman's life doesn't revolve around husband's, boyfriend's and children. She has a career, school, friends, hobbies, etc other things to attend to. The men advising women like the OP to follow their advice are the most hypocritical men on the planet. They're often gaslighters too and abusive. They want to terrorize and low-key cause dread in women to conform to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:50 PM
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Sorry you can't really benefit from it anymore because women have changed things drastically 🤷‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:44 PM
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Humanity needs to chill out on having so many kids anyway, there's too many people on this planet. Almost 8 million. Plus abortion is legal now and so is birth control Ok because they were expected to be married by society. Not always because they wanted to. We have better access to mental health treatments because it's no longer stigmatized. If it weren't stigmatized back then, I bet they would have used anti depressants. Y'all looking back with rose colored glasses. It benefitted men more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:43 PM
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Ok let me know how that's working
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:37 PM
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Just a couple of decades ago is recent and it was heavily patriarchal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:35 PM
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Why is this even a question??? Is your career going to abandon you? Cheat on you? Take you for granted because you gained 10 pounds? Kick that guy to the curb and focus on YOURSELF. Not on someone else's requirements. You'll always have your degree and career to fall back on. Literally, I think most dad's advise the same the exact thing I said to their daughters. I would say the same thing to my daughter. That goes before anything else. You can worry about looking good after. Unless they're reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:30 PM
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Men just in general never push for anything. They wouldn't have to because they were the ones that were privileged for the longest time. The only time men push back now is in retaliation to women. "Feminism" and now there's meninists, the fds hate brigade, Gillette commercial response, this Victoria's secret move, etc. Men want to uphold ancient standards for women and themselves. They do not want to push for a better place, they want to push and subdue women to fit into this narrow box. The for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:43 PM
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I never or very rarely post anything about myself online. Only on real personal accounts for friends and family. In real life, I get a pretty good amount of attention at times and sometimes I don't. I'm more of a lone wolf type which is sort of unusual for a woman. I don't pretend or want to be fake to fit into groups or cliques so I generally stay away from women with the exception of a few that are non problematic. Some men do come up and talk to me, some try to ask me to dinner or movie but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:20 PM
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I'm on here because there's a lot of projection going on and not enough reality. The reality of it is, most people have a 1-5 year age difference: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships#Statistics And that some of the males here are just projecting their fantasies. The truth is, most men don't end up with a woman they're a decade older than. The truth is, women have standards. The difference between men and women and is that women have much more realistic standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:09 PM
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That's not ad hominem, I wasn't attacking you lol. I was just stating something I hear often from the males here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:56 PM
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No, there have been multiple threads lately stating people that are SIMILAR get together and some people refuse to believe that. Sorry but I don't hear ANY women here on this sub claiming to only want Chad or to be a side chick to Chad because of his looks. I don't even see why you brought that up. There's a bajilliom threads on why guys with low status, unattractive looks and broke af are entitled to Stacy but literally 0 about any woman here claiming she's entitled to Chad. None. And I guarant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:18 AM
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Oh, you guys are gonna have a worse chance on dating apps, trust and believe that...most of y'all can't even get 1 match or 1 message back
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:12 AM
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Ok bruh you in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:05 AM
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I'm not saying this about all of the males here because some of them are sensible and have common sense but then there's another half that are completely deluded and lack common sense. Too much video games, too much Netflix/tv/videos, porn, anime, all of that artificial media have warped some of y'all's mind and made y'all delusional. When you're caught up and grew up in that false reality, you lose sense of the world around you. You become accustomed to this idealized fantasy version of women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:55 AM
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You're projecting your own personal desires. Most people in relationships are usually 1-5 years apart: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships#Statistics Most people don't reach their peak at 21, neither men nor women. Unless they got really lucky. People reach their peak at later ages and especially people that are drs, lawyers, that finish school much later than your average person. Most of them intermarry and they're around the same age, give or take a few years.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:37 AM
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At some point it seems like these rp and incels are masochists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:21 AM
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They want you to be a homemaker so you guys can live on his minimum wage fast food salary and take care of him as well as your kids while he plays video games all day... Some of these guys are deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:57 AM
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I agree and I see nothing wrong with this. People DO marry in their own inner circle and with someone that's similar to them. The only men that don't care is because they're low hanging fruit, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:41 AM
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Most people marry in their own inner circle, anyways. If you're a low status man, you will most likely marry a woman of equal standing. Simple men like simple women. What you're stating is just a reflection of yourself. That's what OP is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:38 AM
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Because they choose to Just like a woman has a choice to date up or down, it's called standards Or you can find your equal which is also a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:30 AM
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Certain men do care about it as much. Specifically wealthier men. They seem just fine to be paired up with someone that makes just as much as he does. And women would agree, they would want someone with a similar background. The only thing I can guarantee is that NO woman that has her own job, career and education want to downgrade. Most women want someone on an equal wavelength and in my other comment I told you why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:22 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/qz.com/work/1812980/high-income-people-in-the-us-keep-marrying-each-other/amp/ Economists call the phenomenon of people finding wives and husbands with similar characteristics to them “assortative matching.” One characteristic that has become increasingly important to both men and women is level of education. A 2014 study on assortative matching published by the National Bureau of Economics Research (pdf) found that, in the 2000s, a man or woman who graduated from co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:16 AM
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Female and you should really view that link and read what it says. People more often than not tend to stay in their lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:15 AM
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LOL the delusion is real, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:14 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/qz.com/work/1812980/high-income-people-in-the-us-keep-marrying-each-other/amp/ "Economists call the phenomenon of people finding wives and husbands with similar characteristics to them “assortative matching.” One characteristic that has become increasingly important to both men and women is level of education. A 2014 study on assortative matching published by the National Bureau of Economics Research (pdf) found that, in the 2000s, a man or woman who graduated from c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:11 AM
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They most likely intermarry into their own inner circles, duh. How would you know? I can guarantee you're not rich because you don't have the mentality of a rich person. Ive had friends whose parents were doctors and they married within their own inner circle,.they are likely to marry someone that makes similar money. And some men don't care as much about looks because they want to MAINTAIN their status, hello!!!! These wealthy people are a completely different circle than you're used to being i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:07 AM
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Ok, so then why is it brought up here like every other day ? So many dudes here seem to want to surpass all other levels of men while they have not much to offer. I'm bringing up looksmatch because that's the general truth of it all. Most people stay in their lane. If I need a reality check, I'll just go out in public and observe everyone. I'm pretty sure that would be 10x's more accurate than anything said on here. And everyone's situation is different so you really cant generalize or make blan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:03 AM
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No, you don't speak for all men. You're speaking for yourself and projecting it on other men. Men of importance and value DO care. Not all men think of beauty or something superficial as everything they need. Men want to make sure his family is secure and has an elegant, classy woman by his side and to be the mother of his kids. Low hanging fruit has no standards to begin with, so he wouldn't mind dating a broke woman. A woman with no standards wouldn't mind dating a broke man either. People wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:58 PM
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Yes, they do. Smart people marry other smart people, college graduates marry other college graduates, people tend to marry within their own social class. And the men that DO care about status are more likely to be of a higher status. If he's a doctor, he probably wants someone that's just as educated as he is, in a similar career, similar social class, etc The only men saying they don't care tend to be the low hanging fruit that will marry whoever because they're of low status themselves. Usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:50 PM
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The thing that aggravates me about this sub is the fact that mostly everyone here neglects reality. I see SO many average and below average people together i public. I see SO many fat, overweight, obese, chubby, etc. people either dating each other or sometimes one is a bit thinner. Some are married and some are dating. And the way this sub and some other subs make it seem like the attractive people are the only ones getting together or skinny/normal BMI people. Yes, attractive people attract pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:20 PM
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