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TryingToOwnIt/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:15 AM
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I've dropped my calories to 1900 a day. This has me on pace to drop around 1lbs. a week. I continue to lift heavy to keep what muscle I have until I reach 10% body fat. Body weight should be @ 165. I have calipers to track every two weeks and can adjust as necessary. So far it hasn't been too difficult working out at a deficit but as the weight increases, I'm sure I'll start struggling.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 12:49 AM
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You have what I'm striving for. Something a little different each time without a hostage negotiation ensuing. That's where I'm failing, I haven't ascended to the pointwhere I lead and she follows. The matrix analogy is spot on. I've got the calories set and the macros set, I need to create a grocery list that will help me hit the targets and I'll work on that tonight. Thanks for your candor and advice. I should have posted here sooner!
/r/askMRP26/09/18 07:46 PM
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I've been trying to up the sexual frequency from once to twice a week. Thus the volume of active gaming. I keep it light, lots of innuendo, contact when passing by, sudden kisses, clearly I'm not a natural. I need to calibrate my advances better to her style and I haven't figured that out yet. I haven't read any game material outside of what I've read here in the sub so I need to change that. Glad it's going well for you, keep at it. I know this will work, I just need to better commit myself to …
/r/askMRP26/09/18 07:37 PM
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Thanks for the input. I know the macros to start dropping weight, I just haven't made it a priority. I waffle between wanting to gain muscle and leaning out. Obviously that isn't working as I'm not gaining strength nor do look great shirtless! I'm familiar with intermittent fasting and the RPE style training. With regard to your wife's behavior and limitations. Were BJ's a regular thing that she stopped doing or is this a new facet of her desire for you? My wife has a lot of hangups around sex a…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 01:43 PM
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2.5 and 7. They have regular bedtimes and the latest is 8:30p.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 01:26 PM
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Sometimes the truth stings and you are spot on! With regard to weight, I've always been a skinny guy. Gaining weight of any kind has always been a struggle. As I'm reading and responding to all of these comments I can clearly see that I haven't even been half-assing it, is there a quarter-ass measurement? I make excuses for my diet and don't own it, I keep putting off visiting a coach to fix my squat so not owning it, I stay up too late making it difficult to get up on time so I can have a prope…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:40 PM
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My MAP has been centered on me being a high value man. Spinning plates was an anger reaction on my part. While I thought I handled leaving the room correctly, I'm sure she saw the butthurt boy scurrying away. My MAP is/was to improve my life and indirectly increase her atraction to me. Typing this reply, it looks like a covert contract. Would you concur? I've been lifting steadily for the last year. I keep injuring my back due to poor form so I end up resetting weight and working on form. This h…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:28 PM
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The majority of my circle of friends have all moved to different cities. I keep in touch but literally see them once or twice a year. As an adult with two children, making new friends is a challenge but I need to get my head out of my ass and do it. I don't currently have a gym membership, I have a home gym with a squat rack. I see this as an opportunity to get out and possibly make some new friends with similar interests. You're point about studying, I needed to hear it. It's another endeavor I…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 09:14 AM
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Excellent point and I'm fooling myself thinking that I could spin a plate when I can't get laid at home! Thank you for your time.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 09:07 AM
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After getting a bit of rest, you're right. This is a very reactive approach. I need to hit the reset button and approach today with a fresh mindset. Thanks for the input.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 09:05 AM
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