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Depends completely on what traits weren't there plus how picky you are. If she's cheated in the past or have kids then for me no, it wouldn't do, but if she leaves the house messy or don't like games that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:59 AM
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Wtf? I know plenty of men who view their fellow men that sleep around a lot as sluts, men that leave their children as worthless, and men that pay for OF as an embarrassment, your point sucks, you just assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:50 AM
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This right here, I don't wish to be connected with lunatics like these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:58 PM
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Yeah I don't think it's more than the nature of shallow people pursuing an ATM, less romanticism and more of that.
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/25 02:32 PM
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Marriage is setting your relationship into stone, and there's a risk that many things not established prior may show when the papers have been signed and there's no going back, well except divorce, which sucks big time, and you said we're not talking about that, so here goes. Now, what I mean by things suddenly appearing is the true character of your partner, maybe a disguise they played to lure you into a false premise, or a sudden change they didn't even anticipate: -economy, now when your eco…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:15 PM
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That's good, less competition for the women without kids then, love that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:49 AM
1

If it's programmed or genetically altered life with intelligence I'd say it's love. If you're born being attracted to one specific sex you also don't have a choice outside of this, in this scenario it's only one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:31 PM
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Wrong. Life decides who wins and who loses, to a degree, if you're born uglier than an Neanderthal, or whatever, you have been fucked, you're a victim of life, human culture and biology. You're definitely not entitled to anything, but life is a cruel place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:32 PM
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It definitely feels like some women can deal with their partner being a little aggressive, rude and a prick only because they redeem their shitty personality by showering them in money and gifts as they're rich and successful, for men, if my woman treats me like that she better spoil me as well. Just a hypothesis...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:23 AM
1

Within a future we won't survive to experience ourselves, we may be able to program the new options to love us individually, and unconditionally, you could almost say that this thing would love you more than any human ever could. We could build a loving partner to replace the illusion of love we find in temporary companions, no matter how artificial you are towards this thing. Just imagine it looking past any preferences or cultural norms, even biological, truly this thing would love you more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:03 PM
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By the small chance of actually getting loved you mean, many people think they are loved, until they're cheated on, or just left for someone better. In my country people seem to change partner as easy as changing socks, so I'd say love doesn't mean shit when it's in such scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:45 PM
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Look, I don't know exactly what your personal side on this is, like do you actually know somebody who confessed this exact experience? You describe a valid hypothesis, however this is just one reason, of many, not to date single mums, and yours is too specific to show a lot of men's irritation on the subject. -Maybe some view it as simply a warning, since her relationship didn't work, either she is bad, or she has bad taste in the men she chooses. -Maybe she comes off as an impulsive personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:33 PM
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With enough money the ugliest guy could get the hottest chick, some people are as shallow as a pool of water in the desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:34 AM
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Well, "baggage" will differ from many guys, as the comments suggest. Personally I want a woman with the same past partners as me, not more, definitely with no stds or kids as a result of previous activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:36 PM
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Thing is, as much as I'd wanna bash women for being cheaters, as I got cheated on myself, some of my own friends, men that is, I wouldn't trust if I were their female romantic partner. In my own humble opinion, most people would cheat on their partner, only a smaller group of men and women are pure hearted enough to actually love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:42 AM
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Actually, my partner has all those qualities, and I'm happy to be with her. If I wasn't with her I'd rather be single, that's why I keep on encouraging men to find their equals, but then again, maybe some will be happier settling, though I cannot understand that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:35 PM
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If you possess the same traits as what you're looking for in a partner (medium looks, healthy body, childfree, similar age) then I wouldn't say that's having high standards, just a basic appreciation of yourself. Don't settle for someone, know your worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:52 PM
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Ok look here, what is considered fat, obese or overweight differs all around the world. So the important point I wanna make is that women in the western world complaining about this are wrong, simply cause: Height- born with it so cannot change it, neutral if not more positive in a health examination Weight- extremely flexible, you can be skinny, ripped or fat, everything is an option (even folks without legs have examples of muscular builds fuelled by their own willpower!) and as we all know, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:37 PM
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So what you're just saying are tips for each sex: women shouldn't go for studs if they want a serious relationship which includes not ruining their chances with early promiscuity as it becomes a deterrent for men, and men should have some sense of self worth were both parties contribute equally, instead of paying for a full time hooker, as a loving partner, who loves you for you is the most fulfilling outcome? Whatever floats your boat honestly, I just feel like it's better to be alone than bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:55 AM
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Times change though, some people prefer their partners with tattoos or piercings, some with coloured hair, and using deodorant, basic shampoo/conditioner, showering in clean water everyday... Yeah times change and so does our preferences from how we used to live. You can't change what other people want, but I also believe we shouldn't force anyone else into boxes, you shouldn't shave if you don't wish, and people shouldn't comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:53 AM
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So people getting upset at you proves your point now? Damn I can't believe how easy that is then...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:52 AM
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Emotional abuse, if you're in to that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:56 AM
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"Lowering your standards" I see it as deeply problematic that you're somehow better off with someone you actually don't wanna be with than being by yourself, personally I'd rather be alone than having a partner with some major breaches of my preferences. And as a short dude (5'6) I wouldn't find it pleasing being with a woman who likes taller guys as I'm not the right fit, and possibly could get cheated on down the line by her actually finding another guy closer to her taste. Being with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:50 AM
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I'm just happy they're losing out on money, I highly dislike all dating apps as I see them as just profit hungry companies benefiting on desperate guys, the apps are not good for your self image as an average, or below average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:44 AM
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Pretty much both, if we returned to places some of the girls would love seeing them again, but otherwise they'd find new ones wherever we went. I really didn't understand this Chad thing as I thought most of us guys struggled, and I know they're struggling in other aspects of life, but when it comes to attracting the opposite gender then they're blessed, but to much credit of their own willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:03 PM
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I got two friends who are natural at getting dates on Tinder, hell, even in bars girls come up to them. Both are tall, have a nice physic and muscular, seemed to me that we could travel to the most remote places and somehow they're leaving to go off on successful one-night stands on a regular basis. I'm very sure that them having an already good physical appeal has boosted their confidence and now, being smooth talkers and know what the average girl wants to hear makes them extremely successful.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:33 PM
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Same experience...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:52 AM
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Yeah and if I'm a healthy physically fit and single guy, then settling for single mums and fat women doesn't really hit the mark, preferences are ok and as long as you act what you preach for there is no hypocrisy going on, and your expectations are in fact very realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:05 PM
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I don't agree, divorce is definitely a cause for a dead bedroom, only the immoral ones choose to go behind their partner, it's understandable but wrong in my opinion, the right way is to leave cause you're not compatible anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:19 AM
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How did they get data from North Korea, and how is it Ebony???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:43 AM
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Good for you mate, seems to be an relationship forming here. Hope it goes well!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:06 PM
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Common sense isn't as common as it should be, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:57 PM
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Good, then we're on the same side at least, I've heard plenty of women here on Reddit on different forums claiming women in general are just as horny, and that is in fact horseshit looking at the male libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:53 PM
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If it's a big enough problem they're not compatible, simple really, might as well communicate better in the relationship what kind of expectations to have before getting serious. It's weird though being a guy that wants sex at least four times a week only to be told no, maybe once a month, and then also hearing that women are just as horny as men, makes you question if she's then withholding it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:37 PM
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Well only problem I see is how much harder is for me as a man to get my sexual needs met compared to women. Cause otherwise life would be great, work with what you want and spend my spare time with family and friends but most importantly getting that alone time sitting outside by a lake in the woods camping with a campfire going or close myself indoors for a period of time just playing my singleplayer games. Getting away from people is sometimes the best source of happiness, just sick of the mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:45 PM
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Nah, there are other virgin women out there for the virgin men just as there are single dad's out there for the single mums, or are you saying women are way more sleeping around then men? But hey maybe you're right if the guys just want to have sex (no relationship) then maybe they can help each other out and he can get a women without children after he loses his virginity since that was the ick to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:04 AM
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Let's seperate the two as all incels are virgins but not all virgins are incels. Most likely alot of virgins both men and women have many desirable and undesirable traits, but as the term includes alooot of different people it would differ greatly from personality, height/weight, lack of sexual experience, social anxiety, other disorders, religious backgrounds and much more, it's way too much, some preferences being good and some bad depending on who is searching for them. Incels on the other ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:54 PM
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Oh damn, instead of actual global statistics depending on socioeconomic, geographic or cultural backgrounds you provided us a single individual comment as evidence for an entire gender as representation. I'm pretty sure this Pink pill tastes like shit cause it came out of your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:42 PM
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Instead of saying that men should lower their standards, or women too though it seems not as common here, we should just tell everyone that being alone isn't a bad option, it's quite harmonious actually, only thing that would be worse than that is settling for someone you don't actually wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:34 PM
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It definitely doesn't help in any way. Kids need resources and compete with your own (of you want any) plus she might not want any cause she already have enough Women on Reddit always defend the mum body, and yes ving a baby does have consequences, but if you don't even want children why wouldn't you want a women with an on average better body free from childbirth consequences? She's either single because life wasn't kind, or simply cause she made the wrong choice of partner, or maybe she's the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:30 PM
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I don't this this person understand anything you just said haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:21 PM
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This is one of those preferences a large proportion of men agree with, reasons can vary as you described but it's definitely there, just as a large portion of women don't want shorter guys, it is what it is. Nothing wrong with it. I know that improvising doesn't make you happy, you follow what standard you put infront of you until you get it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:18 PM
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Bro... everything changes, nothing lasts forever, I used to think that my Nordic roots should be protected but it's not realistic, the world is changing, for good or bad it's out of our hands, we are no longer the same culture as let's say 1000 years ago around the world, many cultures have vanished around the world as others took over, it is the nature of things. Ultimately we might start colonizing space, new cultures might form and vary depending on which planet. I love history, and history t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:58 AM
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You say same race, but the Indo-Europeans were wayyy different than the Finnish-Ugric counterpart. In today's society the environmental adaptations don't matter anyway, or otherwise fair skinned and blue eyes shouldn't settle as far south as they are spread today, if you're a white Australian, for example, mixing with darker skin tone people is an advantage for your offspring, but we have sunscreen so it don't matter as much, and darker skin complexion in the north can be supplemented with pills…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:22 AM
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Humans used to live in small villages and it's way healthier the farther away your partner is from it as it diminishes the chances of fucking your cousin or close kin, genetically damaging the future offspring. My people came from the Indo-Europeans but their blue eyes only got introduced (a strong theory) by the Finnish-Ugric people mixing, a good change for settling in the north. The chances is higher that you're related to the one partner you choose in your town than 200 km away, it just is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:51 AM
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Have you been dating alot? What region is your experiences from in the world? Little background info would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:46 AM
3

With so many father's turning out to be cucked, then scratching their heads thinking; no way she would never done that! It doesn't come as a suprise to anyone that to trust in one another needs valid evidence, simple trust is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:22 AM
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I swear it was like estimated that 1% of father's are actually cucked, and so while 1% might sound low but it really isn't. Imagine the government opposition, cause they only care about children, they'll defend cheating scum with "Must protect the families" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:56 AM
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I think it's kind of mean to call Karen's women, or men, don't think any gender wants to take credit for producing this rather small but extremely annoying group of animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:38 AM
1

There's a difference in if a man can or cannot ride the carousel as well, if you're unable to participate in sex because firstly many individual reasons, and one other reason that being a man in general is harder to simply sleep around than women, then yes I think alot of men would like to sleep around and if they could they wouldn't be as hesitant to look for a partner who did the same, this is not the world we live in though, and so some want someone with the same experience. Alot of men are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:13 AM
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I think this concept of older men and women being wiser is misguided. Yes they're older so the possibility of them having had more experience is there, however everyone is different, and with experience also comes bitterness and resentment towards others and the world, there's plenty of older men and women with nothing of value to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:00 AM
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There a reasons some of us guys don't want to date single mothers, and sometimes we might think that a guy specifically deserves to be labelled a cuck for doing so, but if he's genuinely happy I don't see why that's a bad thing. Personally I'd be only disgusted with myself if I went down this path, but not with other men nor the women that are single mothers, this Reddit is way to hard on the subject as we are only responsible for ourselves and shouldn't shame people into our point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:14 AM
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Is that so? I wouldn't know if it's some or most with lack of statistical evidence, I only assume it's some because I sincerely hope so for my male brethren.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:09 PM
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That's fair, but there will always be men who think like this just as penis sizes matter to some women, it's up to each one of us what we want, but you're right, it's delusional to think it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:16 AM
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Jezz, seems like the best if you just give up on sex all together ey, trust me almost any guy will cum wayyy faster watching porn than being with a girl, but the experience of being intimate with someone is still superior, but you can keep that vibrator if it's your only pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:48 AM
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So you're saying dick size matter? Can't the girl communicate with the guy what will help her cum, or does he just have to magically learn this by himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:41 AM
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It damn is, so obvious that OP got her emotions hurt and now blame all men for her misfortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:34 AM
2

How about encouraging women to use men for sex instead? Now that's something I'd be supporting! C'mon ladies, get out there and let us men taste our own medicine, let us feel how it's truly like!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:32 AM
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Exactly what I've said, sounds like you're comparing sex and "paying for shit", somewhat prostitution, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:36 PM
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Sounds like prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:16 PM
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Good for you, open dialogue seems to be the only sustainable way for a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:08 PM
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Yeah too many people aren't compatible as partners, and I fully agree that we should move on if it is not working. As a man I'd rather leave her than trying to manipulate my girlfriend into something she don't wish, imagine all the disgusting people who use this as an excuse for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:07 PM
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It must be a culture thing too, but it seems I've only attracted genuine girls who would split the bill and that's very nice to know, seems like most of the discussion when interviewing women who demand men pay are entitled girls with way too high egos. If you're from a country were women don't work as standard maybe so, but for all countries with progressive thinking splitting the bill should make sense to an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:21 PM
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Wait, I'm pretty sure telling a woman she dropped her wallet is a genuine act not within unwarranted or inappropriate behaviour. Unless you really don't wanna talk with the opposite gender overall...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:59 PM
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I'm pretty sure the genuine guys not hitting on women are being outdone by all the ones that do hit on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:19 PM
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But most of us have dealt with them, they're shit people and their ego shine so bright it's like finding the sun on a cloudless day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:13 PM
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Fair point, conservative, small towns, religious communities, I agree fully with that, but I suppose for me coming from a Scandinavian country I stand with my own experience as from that perspective. Seeing as many here have different cultural experiences it cannot be applied one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:59 PM
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Nope, I'm pretty sure people invested to much into their relationship and harmed the bridges made with their good friends, and so when the relationship starts hurting then you no longer have your friends as emotional backup and now fully depend on the partner. When my girlfriend cheated I had my friends, when I feel sad and alone I have my friends, not my ex, we are all human and having someone for you is important but I wouldn't lay this trust in one single person like that. But in the end all …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:24 PM
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If I could see that the guy was trouble and something is off, then I will judge others for not seeing it too, especially his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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Nope, being alone is way better than having someone suck the life out of you every day, I see so many average couples argue and being passive aggressive to each other, also not getting what they want, no that sounds like hell, at least being alone you have the best company, yourself. And good friends is the only certain happiness in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:36 PM
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Ok that's fair, took it pretty personal to be honest, some of us do but I'm with the group that rather wouldn't. Always felt like when I was younger and more skinny, that people assumed I should just go for fat girls (cause somehow that was my only option in their eyes) and that caused some resentment, sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:26 PM
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Very good for you then. Not all skinny guys are like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:10 PM
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And I know at least 20 who would never date fat women, me included, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:49 AM
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No, just no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:21 AM
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I'd never go to calling names, but a man managing to sleep with lots and lots of girls in my mind is pretty much more impressive because of the experience of being a man and knowing how difficult that is, however for me noticing how easy it would be for a woman to simply go out there and get laid is in general way easier, so not so impressive, unless she is maybe a 1-6 and sleeping with men who are 8-10 in attractiveness, then I'd also say that she'd be pretty impressive. But for both parties wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:58 AM
1

Yeah exactly, I remember that in bio class we learned that seeking partners from far away is better for healthy genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:09 PM
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I've seen lots of cross racial couples, lots of different body types, muscular, skinny fat, but there are some examples I rarely see, short guys and taller girls, asian guys and white girls, fat guys and skinny/muscular girls, otherwise it (in what I've seen) there seems to be much diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:06 PM
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Should probably mention that as a teenager I saw dissection videos (intended for medical students) of skinny, normal, muscular and excess fat people, and the later of them really traumatized me cause seeing people now it's like I know what they also look like inside, literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:50 PM
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Personally I don't feel any attractiveness to fat, not even chubby women, probably even more picky than most guys, and that's ok, I'm also shorter (5'6) and if I cannot find a partner then so be it, rather be alone than letting society pressure me to change something that I simply cannot. Feels like most guys seem to be into a curvy chubby figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:46 PM
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I agree, we all need to take a deep breath when someone says something we don't agree with and try to understand with questions, always ask questions in a non condescending way and the conversation might end up on a positive note, and that even if we agree not to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:23 PM
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Ever thought of moving to another country? You got Australia and New Zealand for working holidays with maybe sponsorship if successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:19 PM
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This is exactly the reason I don't wish to marry, even though you might have established sex as important for both parties early on this can just change like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:04 PM
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As a society we really need to heavily invest in AI and robotics, to ultimately create the best companion, a human like robot that will work as a therapist and a sex provider, hell yeah we need it. This is what we should strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:27 AM
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I agree fully, such a wholesome statement. It's too much boxing, general statistics and experiences are a thing but in the end we are individuals, not hiveminds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:08 AM
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I'm pretty sure we need to start embracing a solo lifestyle as normal, for both women and men, like if you want a partner that badly then go ahead and search with whatever standard but don't shame society for not producing your ideal partner for you, I'm picky and still managed to find someone but embraced dying alone in my teens as a valid option if she never showed up. I'm thinking that maybe some guys hate that they couldn't participate in sex when they had their peek desires, and out of spit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:37 AM
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Sometimes it's nice to vent your frustrations, that's pretty much what the internet has become no? I've read similar complaints from women but on different notes such as height, money and fitness, not as frequently do, but in the end I just don't care, some of us are nice about our opinions and some are not. Just because ten comments say that they wouldn't date single mums and two of those comments are rather rude and excessive doesn't mean that all ten comments are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:24 AM
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Is it "get laid"or finding the "dream woman" for future commitment cause these are two very different things? Hell yeah I agree, men should just lower their standards if all they want is to bang a girl and then be done with her, but finding a long-term partner you are allowed whatever standard you wish, of course submissive and new mommy is viewed as creepy and rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:59 AM
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Never. However I wouldn't say they're bad looking, just not for me, if I see them with guys of any shape or look it only makes me feel happy for them, as for any couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:02 AM
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If she's not a traditional woman, what makes her think she can get a traditional man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:15 PM
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I don't see it as a problem really, if some of us wish to go down this path it is our right to do so for whatever reason it may be. You set a standard and then go for it, no compromise, I rather not be able to reach my goal (we all die soon enough anyway) than change because society tells me it harms me. As a matter in fact it didn't harm me, I found a like-minded girl and with the same body count as me. I might have wanted to participate in a more active lifestyle sexually as a horny teen, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:00 AM
1

How long have you been together? If this is bad for you it might not be a future to go for...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:46 PM
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Personally, as long as it's a small amount of guys she's been with, but prefer the long-term partner one. Also means she can commit and continues to have a high sex drive far into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:40 PM
1

He could always try other countries with more conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:34 AM
0

You shouldn't fear this, trust me there's plenty of women who would fit your ideal, but you need to look outside apps. I am curious though, if someone had five relationships and obviously had sex in all five compared to a someone who didn't have a relationship but had a hookup once, is the later in your view still the "hoe phase"? The number of what constitutes a "hoe phase" surely also differs depending on who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:50 AM
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Personally I've already talked with my girlfriend about it and made my case that I trust her more than any girl however I'd like the paternity test (if she got pregnant) just as a statement so that all my friends get an example of it happening with no drama, because I wish to normalise it, and in the bigger scale of things, I would fully support a political action that makes it an obligation for nurses to provide it with both parents signatures during childbirth. Then the woman doesn't need to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:24 AM
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People can have whatever standard they want, if that puts them without a partner that's just something they have to deal with, men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:42 AM
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Oh shit I'm so sorry mate, I see now, my first comment was for sugartomyT, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:12 PM
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Did you edit your post cause I swear that's not what it was before?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:31 PM
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Who knows, you're just making assumptions...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:41 AM
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This makes perfect sense, phrasing it so that no ones ego is in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:39 AM
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Is this cause you are a guy who thinks this, how else would you make such an assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:36 AM
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C'mon hasn't everyone who played Skyrim just wandered aimlessly and just realised "damn the real world is fucking garbage, better just keep on playing this masterpiece"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:31 PM
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Pretty sure it works both ways... I mean isn't some of these incel guys looking at the world through a few shallow women and framing the whole gender as so? Exposing yourself to the worst of the opposite gender, which is exactly what men who despise women do, will only narrow your mindset and generalise. Treat everyone as you wish but the vast majority isn't as disgusting as we paint them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:54 PM
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Growing old is fine, but gaining weight is different, I keep myself healthy and active so I'd expect the same from her, and most importantly, we've talked about it so she knows as well, and we're still together so the future is bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:50 PM
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Well as you said, Germany or Europe in a whole isn't that good. I just started learning about the Australian system and in comparison it's great, no street work, no picking up in cars, no going to private property, only in registered brothels, with security, costs alooot, and guys are checked for STDs every time. Also with the fact that Australia is a well of country, as a traveler I found work everywhere all the time, a women wouldn't be pushed into it here. But most of the world I agree with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:18 AM
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Well it's better buying there than something directly from let's say Nike... If I wanted I could send my children (if I ever have any) over to their local store cause it seems that's their minimum age limit for workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:11 AM
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Yeah you're right about that. But I still support legal prostitution, like something they have in Australia, a rich western country were it's easy to get work for most and were women aren't pushed into prostitution because of their socioeconomic backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:06 AM
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You know... When I made that comment I thought: wonder if she does thrift store? I salute you for it! Wish more people did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:01 AM
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Pretty sure some incels need sex so they don't run down streets with their cars and guns
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:59 AM
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Some men just want sex. Let them have it if there's two agreeing adults involved, very annoying with "objectification" cause everyone does it, man and woman and non-binary person, it's a human thing so why question it? Also I agree with you a 100% that this capitalist society (as you pointed out) that is so revolved around money can put women in particular in socio-economic instability where the options are limited and makes them almost forced to sell their bodies, I agree 100% that we need to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:56 AM
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Speaking of exploitation... You don't buy clothes made in poor countries I hope...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:48 AM
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I'm all for prostitution but I also wish to highlight that even though we are all generally in agreement that forced prostitution shouldn't exist there's still the socio-economic background that could be the main factor for a woman then only giving her the choice of starve or selling her body, in a country where we then agree for prostitution we really need to combat this. I think alot of sane women are against the sex work because of this, but definitely agree there's some who think like you su…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:45 AM
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To keep your sanity in this world as a young man you really need to get over girls and get something else to drive you. I mean sex is all good but these incel guys for example put way to much emphasis on it, like it's their only reason for existing. I find making great friends the best relation, cause when your relationship ends (like with her cheating) you always have your bros (or female friends) to help you through anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:53 AM
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Dude this guy was just arrogant as heck, just came to say something stupid and dosen't wanna engage with you. Damn you're answers were so open for dialogue I just wanted to commend you on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:48 AM
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I salute this guy.
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 10:50 AM
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In the end it's their own fears coming out, clearly you're a threat because in your eyes the reflection of a "hoe" might mirror them, they just have massive insecurity issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:12 AM
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Objectivity my friend please, for you personally maybe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:31 AM
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Unless the mother wins in court and gets full custody, then the father has to pay the full amount and can barely see his children, and I don't know what kind of upper class you come from, but it's not easy money where I'm from...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:19 AM
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Interesting, never in my entire life have I heard a woman paying underhåll but men... Oh I know many, including my father. It's still forced out of the parent when the other one wins custody, it isn't something they both decided on, and since around half of all marriages end in divorce in Sweden (just imagine all child non-marriages) well... Let's just say there's plenty of times when shared custody isn't the case for one reason or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:17 PM
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Swedish. Well then it would be "maintenance support", would be almost the same thing, but I see how there's cases were an abusive father manages to get custody, and times were it's a manipulative mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:36 PM
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That's true, maybe there's guys out there who can became a father figure for a kid, looking beyond blood relations. A single mother is of course not someone to despise, absolutely not, so many reasons she might have ended up in that situation, but for me personally and maybe other men it's about the fact I'm not the biological father, and for all of that, I wouldn't even be able to spend the same time with her as I might've been able to dating a woman without kids. They're are so many other reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:56 AM
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Oh damn, well I'd say that if they are true... Then they are scary as hell...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:23 AM
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Well it depends of course, but too many times do I know of fathers having custody taken away, forced to pay alimony, and I knew they were good men, the courtroom familiar to me judges men harsher than women, it wasn't difficult for my mum to get full custody over me...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:21 AM
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Well it would be if it's not his genetic offspring, imagine how successful the other man (the real father) would be having left a child and now a man not even blood related forced to pay for it... Sounds absurd really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:04 AM
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Damn I went to skie there last winter, never knew...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:52 AM
1

Well... Damn where is this guy or his examples from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:45 AM
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Being raised by a single mother I feel strongly against ever dating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:37 AM
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Yeah I were wondering about it cause I've never even heard about this happening, not in Scandinavia and we will try to destroy guys in the courtroom no doubt about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:27 AM
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Think it would be in general something like a relationship without end, also though the norm would be sexual exclusivity I've met a couple who were very committed to one another yet polygamous as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:57 AM
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Well that's because we value healthy lifestyles in Europe, being fat is fine, but it isn't considered healthy here... So naturally we teach what American fastfood can do to your body, here, in Europe...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:41 AM
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I tend to view a high body count as very off-putting, felt that ever since I was a kid. Me and my girlfriend have a small count each, and that's how I want it, then again, I think guys are extremely dumb if they think they can have a high body count yet expect their partner to have a low one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:37 AM
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Or maybe there's two kinds of women... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:00 AM
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The truth is important, and maybe it'll teach the kids what happens with such immoral actions, maybe they'll then stay away from it having their parent as a good example of what not to expire to be? Kids already learns early that the world is shit, like this is gonna be too much...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:50 AM
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