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TulioGente/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:02 PM
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This is a bit late, but how often do you suggest I work out in a week and how long do you spend working out. I was thinking 2 hours every day as a good starting point, thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 01:45 PM
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If you replace "women" with "people", it makes it even scarier because if u really think about it, our society cultivates hedonistic values.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 12:23 PM
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As J Cole once said "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved"
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 08:20 PM
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It seems like a pretty informational and one-sided message requiring no response back on your part. Perhaps if she asked you a question, then you would be properly "ghosting". Normally ghosting is when the reply is meant to elicit a response, but the person decides to read it and not reply. Ex. Person A: "That was a great date we had. I'm going to Six Flags on Wednesday, you should go!" and then Person B doesn't reply. if you want to. If you don't... This just seems horribly ambiguous and I feel…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:12 AM
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Haha shouldn't that be a given?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:59 AM
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Honestly him complaining was a bit of a bad move on his part, but honestly if your girl asks you to pay for half of her costs I would just mention all of your upkeep costs: cars, suits, gym memberships and cologne should already be enough to scare her.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 07:44 AM
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it's kinda sucks to get rejected like that I definitely agree with you, I've had a fair share of bad light switch experiences. Rejection always sucks, I've never had a rejection which I've felt good about. It's just something you have to get through, "embrace the suck". Helps me through these hard times. i dodged a bullet i guess Yes, you have. At least you had less commitment compared to other people.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:46 PM
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Go out without him. Then it doesn't become a problem anymore.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:21 PM
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Just drop her, it doesn't seem like it's worth the risk.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:19 PM
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Sounds like she's trying to convince you that you should date her cause other guys like her or that she's trying to guilt-trip you into going out with her. Either way, some women love validation so much that they just turn guys down to feel better about themselves. I’m assuming this is some sort of shit test to see if I a cared. Yes you are right my dude. This is a shit test. Just ignore or agree and amplify. In the end it's up to you, date, plate or ignore it's all up to you.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:17 PM
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Bro, block her I legit mean it. Once you take her out of your life your mental state will improve. It seems that you are in a tough spot right now and potential with this one girl is not worth your mental health.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:14 PM
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Take this as practice. Living with a female who rules the house can be hard (my personal family dynamic was my mom basically took charge of everything, so I know how hard it can be at times). You just have to embrace the suck and deal with it. If you choose to get a girlfriend you will thank your sister later because they will most likely be exactly like this.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:08 PM
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Here are some things you can do. If you want results in the short term: Improve how you dress (unless you wear a uniform) Get a good smelling perfume/cologne Get a good haircut Get braces, if you have messed up teeth. Get contacts if you wear glasses. Start lifting and doing a sport. I highly recommend doing a sport because it helps a lot with status. Start reading all the books you can regarding mentality and game. Firstly, read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "48…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:06 PM
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Read on the light switch effect on the main reddit. Essentially it's about the idea that a woman's current emotions define her reality, past, and perception of you. If she feels like you have betrayed her in the current moment (any negative emotion will do), this will cause her train of thought to reach the conclusion that she never really loved you at all, nullifying all the previous emotions she had for you.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:52 PM
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Just condense the reason why you don't have social media. Don't overthink it. However, if that was not the answer you were looking for. The most neutral answer I can think of would be "never really got into setting it up". Some people take the "waste of time" excuse as a personal attack so you have to be careful.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:43 PM
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I have no desire for romance Have you heard of the idea of being aromantic? It basically means that you are not romantically attracted to anyone. This might be the situation you are in. The whole point of sex is so develop a spiritual connection w your partner, otherwise it’s essentially like elaborate masturbation. Sex is what you define it to be. To some people yes it's a way to further their emotional connection to their partner and for others, it's just a fun pure release of sexual energy.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:39 PM
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Don't sweat it and don't volunteer that information. Not going to lie, but I don't think women would plain out ask you if you are a virgin or not. If not then just treat it as a shit test. Agree and Amplify, ex. "Yeah, I've never made out with a girl ever", then proceed to make out with her.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:29 PM
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Even better, just don't give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 02:38 PM
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Agree with you, but I think it's very important to mention that if you have a submissive girlfriend then being lax with managing your beta behaviours is a very slippery slope.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 02:36 PM
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My personal take is to respond if you feel like it. Ex. if I was hungover as hell and cannot be asked to do anything. I won't respond to a girl I know who's trying to play games with me cause I am not in the state of mind and don't have the want to actually reply to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 02:27 PM
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I think that this blog post might answer your question called "Women and the sex-relationship cycle" (will pm you the link because my answer may be removed if I post it). It basically details how women switch between wanting casual sex and relationships. In essence, it theorizes a woman will have casual sex until she gets tired of it then will enter a relationship, if it ends badly she will go back to having more casual sex and the process constantly repeats itself perpetually. So yes theoretica…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:36 PM
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For the constant jealousy shit tests you really can't do anything about that, you just have to keep passing. I can't possibly think of a way to stop women from shit testing you. It's kinda unavoidable you just have to deal with it sadly :(. Forgetting to delete a photo with her ex could be a genuine mistake. I would say give her the benefit of the doubt. You could theoretically employ dread if she did it on purpose, but I find that to be a waste of time because it would take too much effort in m…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:39 PM
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It all depends on your goals. Do you want to end up with a LTR? Do you want to just stick to FWB and ONS? You need to know this for yourself before you act going forward. She may be strong-arming you by demonstrating her value, but I feel that it's being done more for validation as other people have said.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:53 AM
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It depends. What exactly happened?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:49 AM
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Seems like it. There are a few ways to approach this: Agree and Amplify: "Yeah of course, lets make it facebook official." Amused Mastery: "Yeah of course, you're my bestie now!" Pressure Flip: "Yep, don't be so socially awkward about it!" perhaps it would be good if you just playfully nudged her. Ignore: Just say yes and quickly move on with the conversation What you should not do: "No, I thought we were something more" "Did you just friendzone me?" Ignore the question and/or walk away ​ In ess…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:48 AM
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Walking: hand on lower back while crossing the street Table/bar: touch in hand or leg Club/dancing: pull her in and dance/kiss her Exactly. It's all too obvious and super awkward if a guy asks to hook with a girl. Reminds me of this time when this girl was dancing with some guy at the club and she pulls away to go back to her friends and the guy shouts to her friends if he can hook and the friends just shake their head.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:06 AM
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It depends on what she has said. Sometimes leaving you on read could just be the conversation naturally ending. Sometimes it could because she is too busy. Sometimes you just don't engage her enough. The best piece of advice in most of the situations is simply to withdraw attention or hard next her. By messaging her again you lose frame and you communicate your lack of options. In almost all circumstances, there is nothing you can do which is worthwhile to turn a flaky girl around.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:51 AM
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Very true statement. Expanding on this in general humans are manipulators, most people do things out of their self-interest. Once the acceptance that each action a person does may have an ulterior motive, the easier it gets to live life. There are just some people, who believe that everyone is straightforward and inherently good and are unable to stomach the fact that humans have these qualities.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 08:10 AM
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If I go to 10 parties and meet 10 new girls on each of them, I will probably have a few good opportunities. It's just gonna take a fuckton of time Patience is key my dude. Results don't come fast; just work on yourself and the results will come. You're only 17 years old, with 13 years till you will hit your peak you have plenty of time.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:04 AM
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What you are describing sounds like a phenomenon which is commonly known as "push and pull". It's a technique where you pull (show interest) then you follow that up with a push (show disinterest). Ex. "You're so pretty, but i'm not so sure whether I can trust you." This is a very bad example without context, but essentially it embodies push and pull. You pull her by saying she's so pretty and showing you like her. However, you push her away immediately after that by citing that she's untrustwort…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:40 PM
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From what you are saying this is more of a mentality issue. First of all, it's fine to have high standards. However, if you have these high standards you have to be willing and able to improve yourself to reasonably pull girls at this level. If you are only attracted to 8+s, then go for 8+s. Also, think of it in this way. As we go up in rating there will be less percent of girls at that ranking. Just like how there are only a few 1s and 2s there are only a few 8s, 9s and 10s. Just to give you th…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:35 PM
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Ultimately I suggest do both at a MMA gym, but simply put: BJJ is basically body chess and relies heavily on a good mental game. Relatively low barrier to entry conditioning-wise and you can choose how "hard" you go. Often you don't really get hurt that much because you can tap before you any real damage happens. Yes as you get into higher-level play and your opponents get tougher there is wear and tear, but I find it way more bearable than Muay Thai. Muay Thai basically requires you to conditio…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:58 PM
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Warwick and UCL are definitely good universities to aim for. Despite this university is not the end all be all so if you want to go through with your clearing then it's fine. At the end of the day it's your choice and since there are clearly arguments for retaking and going straight to a lower uni, list out the pros and cons of each option, then make your decision. After something impactful happens I find that in general emotions are really intense, but as time goes by it gets easier. Ex. I had …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:32 PM
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In Singapore, men have to serve National Service: 2 years of their lives in the army. There are some men who spend the next two years playing in LAN cafes or clubbing and there are men who use this time to reflect and think of what they want to do next in life. Ultimately though for these men; it's what they choose to make of it that they get out of those 2 years. ​ More specifically to you this next year, should you choose to retake your exams, should be a year you spend learning (strongly beli…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:51 PM
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Honestly wish there was a Red Pill based sub which focused purely on self-improvement (I like the FI Reddit but this new Reddit will feel more personalized to RP men). Don't get me wrong I love to look at all the sexual strategy, but I mostly stay for improvement posts and "how to live your life so you make the most of it" posts.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 06:17 AM
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Yep exactly you have to ease yourself into doing cold approaches.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:20 AM
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It can be observed: Women date less attractive males, have casual sex with more attractive males Men date more attractive females, have casual sex with less attractive females ​ So from this logic, you are higher than a 5 as most of these females are probably looking for a hookup. How much higher I'm not so sure. I would guess you are a 7 or 8.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:18 AM
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Hard next, she seems like a psycho.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:15 AM
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Self-improvement to show her implicitly that you can possibly get other girls, hence incentivizing her to either self improve herself or get left behind. Also, soft dread ex. go clubbing with the guys; it puts the idea that you may cheat on her in her head, but you don't actually cheat on her.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:10 AM
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Good job man, these posts are what I love to see on TRP each day. Men changing and bettering themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 08:01 AM
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Yeah, ultimately they just want a choice. It's very similar to the banning of paternity tests in France. Women want the choice to say who's the father. Sadly it's only logical that women would want the best for them.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 08:00 AM
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Some men still in the anger phase though. There should honestly by a specific subreddit where men can just vent frustrations, would make the comment sections and posts on the main sub a lot more conducive for people who want to discuss sexual strategy and self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 07:47 AM
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It helps, but she doesn't always need to hint at a 2nd date. It can be up to you to make that move, however, you should give her the opportunity to set up another date with you by waiting a few days to see if she will reply.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:23 AM
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Expensive, but that's the cost of having a stress-free way of having a child.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 03:59 PM
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Work on raising your value so she is reaffirmed of your value and at the same time know that if she doesn't improve she could be left behind. Also, you can choose to go to places ex. clubs with your male friends, which makes her hamster spin and exposes her to the thought of you cheating (don't actually cheat and go with male friends who aren't trying to mess up your relationship ex. falsely telling your LTR that you cheated).
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:56 PM
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Find new people. But in all honesty, it's a choice, with lots of sex comes the reputation as a fuckboy. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:50 PM
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Maybe she's holding on to the fact if she does this she might win you over? Maybe she's changing her sexual strategy by removing sex in order to get you to commit? We will never truly know. Now when it comes to milking her a bit longer you could ultimately just give her what she wants (make her your gf) and then she might have sex with you more and then just break up with her when she leaves. However, this should be a short term solution and you may not be able to sleep well at night. In general…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:45 PM
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I have no idea how long you have waited to post this, but give it a few days to cool over (2 to 3 days) and then if she doesn't set up a second date, then go for a second date, after all, what do you have to lose? However, I warn you that it might not turn out favorable and you have to just fall back on abundance. Given the fact that you two live in different cities, she might be expecting a fling. Be prepared for the ghost and remember if it does happen that under no circumstances is she SPECIA…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:37 PM
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Hobbies, hobbies, hobbies. Find something else to do where you can join a club. It helps to expose yourself to new social circles. Ex. join a gym class or a dojo. It won't be quick, but in time you will build connections with these people, don't be afraid to ask them for drinks just to chat. Just make sure to screen the place first for people in a similar situation with you. Ex. 40-year-olds in a gym class for 20-year-olds don't normally work.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:31 PM
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Muay Thai is a very brutal sport. Lots of shin conditioning (you kick bags for lots of months, hence shins become like iron and it hurts a lot). It's definitely a workout in itself and a great source for cardio. I would personally do it if I had the energy to balance it with general conditioning (Muay Thai makes you really tired). BJJ depending on the club is a lot more relaxed and the conditioning element of it is a lot less intense. Especially when I personally believe one should be more conce…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:27 PM
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Same here, most likely getting a surrogate because I probs want kids in the future.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 03:10 PM
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Definitely, agree with your investment part and the generic answers. In general, even talking to girls and approaching them is kind of a "grind", just less so in real life because it's harder to ghost. Not to even mention that gals quite often use Tinder or Bumble for validation.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:02 AM
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I see what you mean, are you still planning on getting married though?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 09:41 PM
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Agree bumble is 10x better cause then you don't need to do all the legwork.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 09:28 PM
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For sure, legit as I'm about to gas out on my push-ups. I remember my mistakes and then it allows me to get a few more reps in.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:55 PM
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Yeah, it teaches you to take control of your own life. I was previously bossed around by anyone, but now I feel like I can stand for what I believe in.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:53 PM
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Honestly, we should have a separate sub for TRP related anger, once you really get past this phase does the real shit start.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:51 PM
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I agree with the idea that crazy dust is sprinkled over girls, but it's not done just when she is born; it's done all throughout her life. Ultimately due to the parental effect, society's crazy dust is sprinkled all over these women through her peer group. Even girls with parents with good values are affected by this because sometimes the parents don't vet the peer group.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:50 PM
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Some chick using you for validation and attention without putting out? Exactly as you put it. Basically, validation until I actually ask her to meet up and then when I start to organize logistics, just ignores the message (I probably could've come on stronger by setting the time and place cause she was basically sub communicating she was free any time, but mistakes were made). Honestly approaching this with a next cause if I put more effort then I'm ultimately losing frame (I've made this mistak…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:25 PM
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Bro, I just read that and it's straight fire holy shit. I wish I read that sooner, actually helped me for a situation I am in rn.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 08:10 PM
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Yeah. Power of Horny, OmLaLa's tinder guides amazing stuff. Also, Heartiste not getting taken down. Tbh every time I use the wayback machine I internally (sometimes externally) shout "FEMINISTS!".
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 08:07 PM
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I agree with the fact we need role models. In fact i've been struggling with this since I discovered TRP because I used to look up to my dad heavily, but once I figured out that he cheated and basically was the ultimate beta, I've got no one to look up to. It's hard when you don't have a benchmark to what you can be.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 08:05 PM
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Yep. My main TRP success is avoiding the Beta trap, but I'm still stupidly avoiding making mistakes with women. Beta trap as in the belief that Disney fairytale ending or getting messed up by a BPD waif?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 08:00 PM
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I got a hotel room and visited her every day Damn, that must've cost you quite a lot to do so.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 07:54 PM
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I think we all have a cringe-worthy story like that softball trip in college. Joined a reading club hamstering that I genuinely wanted to do it (I guess I kinda did, but besides the point). Ended up spending hours studying for that thing and the girl didn't even show up. Not even ignoring the fact I was messaging her a shit ton. Pretty she just got turned off by that stuff. Ultimate neediness right there. Didn't convert after that, but damn do we have that one experience.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 07:53 PM
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Haha if you don't want to deal with casual sex I swear girls can just join a religion. However, yes they will just find betas there. I just think that it's such a get out of free jail card. Post wall, too busy hoeing around? Join Christianity and say you repent for your sins.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 07:43 PM
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A reason why the red pill can never enter the mainstream in its current state is simple: feminists. Anytime anyone mentions anything inherently red pilled they will go after them. For example, Maroon 5 and their album "Red Pill Blues". He got lots of crap for that album title and feminists even called him out in the media. Why do you think he made "Girls Like You"? If we get red pill vloggers even spouting a bit of red pill theory, they will get destroyed by feminists. Also given the nature of r…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 06:13 AM
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The new Karate Kid spin off Cobra Kai is actually fantastically uses Red Pill Theory all throughout the TV series. There's this one character who basically becomes insanely red pilled through the course of the show. Also many of the tenets of Cobra Kai such as strike first are just part of the red pill mindset. So TV I believe is going in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 06:01 AM
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Honestly, you just need to keep walking down your path. I've found that a lot of TRP is basically hard nexting. However, this doesn't mean you should just take the L and not introspect. Think about what you could've done better and the external factors. Eventually you will get your time to shine and if some of these women can't see your value, then you are better off without them.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 08:36 AM
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