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Wow really? She really laid into him in this last special of hers. She made him sound like such a sad sack. I'm glad they are splitting. Hope he doesn't get alimony though.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 03:24 AM
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Who cleaned up this mess? Who washed the children afterwards and scolded them? Who is buying the replacement makeup? Who is making the childproof drawers for the next makeup palettes? I have a plan. Take husband's credit card and replace the makeup as well as you can, plus take yourself out to lunch and buy a new pair of shoes or whatever else. File for divorce, serve husband with papers and then kick him out. I'm so sick of men getting away with things. She's in the comments blaming her kids. 🤦…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:00 PM
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Yea this is why you don't tell a scrote who isn't your husband's what kind of money you have. They will only take from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:46 PM
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Yea seriously. Just saw OP ask another commenter why theybare so angry? That sounds like a whole ass man. We need to do better FDS. ignore this shit, mods take this pity party creative writing ass story down! It's embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:13 PM
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I think there was a lawyer in the comments who told her this would be a legal nightmare because technically it wouldn't be her child. It would be her niece/nephew and that could cause problems later if the sister wanted to keep it. Just a WHOLE DAMN MESS anyway you spin it. Ugh! Yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:30 PM
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What?? I didn't get that far i was too disgusted honestly. Makes sense. But wow someone go get her....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:29 PM
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Nope! Take men at face value. They don't deserve all the sympathy they get. Maybe a few men, of course, but the bulk of men are dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:28 PM
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Yes!!! He's a pervert who needs to be ditched immediately. He sounds deranged. I cannot believe the pain some women put up with. It's soooo sad to see our sisters like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:27 PM
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My exact thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:47 PM
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Why? Why do they ALL sound like this? 😂😂 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. 55, 75, or 25 they ALL AOUND LIKE THIS IN WRITING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:26 PM
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OP can you paste the article in the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:40 PM
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This is so fucking inspiring. I'm so I'm incredibly happy for you. Girl, this right here, is insane. 20, 30, 40, 50+ years ago this seemed like a pipe dream for the whole of women! You are living your ancestress' dreams!!! This is giving me shivers. So so so happy for you! Welcome to the new world, ladies. It only gets better for women as a whole from here!💜💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:39 PM
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@u/TheOGJammies Pleas get Drew Afaulo on the Podcast!! If you have not heard of her she has a following if almost 6 million on TikTok and is extremely FDS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:15 PM
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That's what I was thinking. What a creep! This is scary, but necessary stuff to know!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:14 AM
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I just saw this on the front page😂 dear God, people in the comment thinking we are redpilled again.....idiots. Lurkers!! How does a woman respecting her time, energy, and body equal redpill? As for the woman lurkers....sorry your boy doesn't pay for your hamburger. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:14 AM
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IM SO GLAD YOU POSTED THIS😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:12 AM
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🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:31 PM
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LUNDY!!! damn ladies!! Keep up the good work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:56 PM
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Why the hell was she not single at the end!!! She got her bag! She leveled up career-wise. And she wants Lawrence dusty ass?! Make it make sense please. At least Molly leveled up. Kelli had the best ending though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:15 PM
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Goddamnit. No!! Not the children. It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:56 PM
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The truth of the matter is, is that men simply could not afford women if we put an ACTUAL price on access to our sexuality. The market is what dictates sex worker's prices. Not the other way around. If me, medium attractive😂, overweight woman said I charge $16,000 for one sexual PIV encounter with me....oooof. these men, these men would riot. If women and sex worker's ACTUALLY PRICED CORRECTLY they would find there is no dollar amount worth your time. Time is priceless, women and our sexuality a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:45 PM
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That one dude really said date an easily influenced girl of religion......like. you cannot make this shit up. Men are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:30 PM
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Yes!!! See here is the thing....i needed NO ONE to tell me that. That was.my automatic first thought!! Men would make terrible SAHFs. They will half ass the work. They will not put effort into protecting and making sure that tiny human grows to be a fully functioning adult. Beware ladies, you'll come home to a bigger and bigger mess every day. Would never trust my male partner to be stay at home. Maybe I'm being to harsh...but men are incompetent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:27 PM
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I'm only a few chapters in! I'll update as I finish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:24 PM
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Not surprising! I feel like I've been seeing some stay at home father propaganda on TikTok that makes it out to be a field day for men. No matter what, they will always be lazy. Trust, if you are the only one bringing in income and your husband isn't....that won't work out either. Men cannot be trusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:23 PM
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Regarding men's transition (or lack there of) into this new societal norm: "As a result men are stuck or 'fixed in cultural aspic,' as critic Jessica Grose puts it. They could move more quickly into new roles now open to them—college graduate, nurse, teacher, full-time father—but for some reason, they hesitate. Personality tests over the decades show men tiptoeing into new territory, while women race into theirs. Men do a tiny bit more housework and child care than they did forty years ago, whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:19 PM
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Why do these AITA stories sounds so fake to me? Hahaha like what??? I refuse to believe he acted this way. This just seems like shit posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:15 AM
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Exactly that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:39 PM
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Seriously!!! I'm all for wanting more positive male representation because it does get tiring hearing all the debauchery after a while, but this isn't it. Like, at all. This is a weird post and the comments are weird. One FDS aligned statement doesn't make this man a beacon for all. Yikes. He's right because that's the truth--men need to be more introspective. He still has a largely flawed ideology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:35 AM
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This....is my take. JP is really not that great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:17 AM
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The thing i like the most about this(besides the 💜 light) is that he was initially planning to be a little more ambitious, buy once he realized he didn't want to have a mess on his hands he made a smarter decision that still turned out beautifully! He still was able to go above and beyond!!! Listen up guys!!! This is what we mean. Even if you do not have the funds make sure she is never in want!!! Creativity, love and determination carry your dollar farther than just it alone! He realized he wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:02 AM
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Wow. So many of the young women are going to look back through their life on the internet and be so embarrassed. I mean, i hope they get embarrassed. When she finally snaps out of this stupor she's in, she'll realize how gross and disgusting this was, let alone posting it on TikTok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:49 AM
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I think of that photo quite often and use it to remind me that better days are always coming if you have high standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:28 AM
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THISSSSS!!!!! Op Listen to this comment. We are still in a pandemic and men have been just oozing with depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:26 PM
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I really liked this podcast! FDS is the common thread. I've said it before and I'll say it here again. This is the middle ground wen can rely on. How could you ever oppose personal growth and personal forgiveness? Hating FDS is a knee-jerk reaction. Nothing more. And it's a knee jerk reaction because the patriarchy tells us women who go against the grain are not to be trusted. Wonderful, podcast episode ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:36 PM
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OK WHAT. I'm going to be downvoted for this possibly but, I cannot stand using white women as a scapegoat. What does that do exactly? We can talk about the intersectionality of white women compared to other women and not just rely on the quippy meme that every white woman is a Karen. It's getting to be old. Anyways. I agree I could not navigate that site for the life of me. It's a dilapidated mess. It almost looks like it would give me a virus haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:34 PM
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Hooray!! These changes will be so beneficial for the sub and the women that frequent it. I'm really happy to see the state of the sub progress and see a little less negativity here i understand some may be upset with some changes but getting back on track feels great! Plus ignoring scrotes and focusing on HVW/M is what this place is all about. Happy to see it! Thanks mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 12:44 PM
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🤢🤢🤢🤢 god you are probably right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:32 PM
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This is "the last thing you hear" type shit. Some men are so gross and creepy. It's always the older ones too. Why do we let men get away with this shit. Make Society Shame Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:32 PM
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Damn that is so awesome. Grimes gets a lot of hate, but I still like her music. The first time i heard Oblivion way back in the day, my life changed. I hope she realizes how icky Elon is one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:52 AM
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I will NEVER get over how the forced hysterectomies were barely a blip on the news last year. I was waiting for the outcry and it never came. One of the more surreal feelings I've had to repress. Living in the US is so taxing on me. I honestly don't understand how more of us haven't moved I'm saving up to leave the country within the next 6 years and I cannot wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:53 PM
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I'm SO GLAD YOU LEFT!! Better things are on the way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:59 PM
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😂😂 I love to hear it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:26 AM
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This makes me so happy. I love throwing trash away😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:19 AM
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Some one said he had an Oedipus complex and he said THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! IM DYINNNGGGG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:57 AM
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I can't find it!!!! I must not have saved it. Damn! I'm so mad. She was really funny. If i run into her on the FYP I'll let you know. Haha sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:38 AM
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Yes!!! What is her name again? She's a lesbian so it's even funnier because she talks about how shitty men are. It's brilliant. She just straight up ignored him ahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:36 AM
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This guy has been getting the Royal Roasting allllllll over social media. It's so funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:00 AM
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!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:11 PM
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I want to stab my eyes out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:10 PM
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Right. People are so obtuse🙄🙄 the handmaid's tale is a very real reality for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:10 PM
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Thisbis peak comedy. I love this sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:01 PM
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YES. Romance to me is about trying new things! He didn't fancy him self a romantic but he said, "hey, let me try this out and research some things that other people do." All because he wanted to make YOU happy that is romance to me! He wanted to learn and so he did! He was willing to branch out because he knows you add value to his life. Why is that so hard to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:09 PM
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This shouldn't blow my mind, but it does. Wow wow wow!! The great thing is is that you didn't "miss" the money because it was for rent which is a constant. Wow. Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:57 PM
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Why do they always think it means rich? Some women think like that too? Someone who has a stable income is obviously preferred because it puts less stress on both of you. What is so wrong with that?? I just don't see the criticism for FDS. i think most people don't like our jargon/vernacular. They can't get past calling men scrotes--even though women get called bitches everyday--and that men pay for dates. It's so silly. I've gotten into full arguments about the paying for dates thing. why is it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:52 PM
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The truth is so painful. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:24 PM
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😂😂😂 Jesus tap dancing Christ!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:18 PM
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No! Stay in the darkness you troglodytes! I'm begging you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:27 AM
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This is soul crushing. But damn, she is gonna learn from this one. And it will hurt! I really do hate seeing women in these situations, even if they are shitty. it's like c'mon girl, do better this is embarrassing for you. You don't want mutual love and respect? No amount of being "chill" with stop that whispering thought in the back of your head that you aren't good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:21 AM
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Also this sounds like fanfic. It's made up as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:06 AM
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How many times did this guy say "top up her wine."😂😂😂 Jesus fucking Christ i didn't even read the whole thing and I'm not going to.b
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:05 AM
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You know...... I really want off this planet some days. I'm sorry you had to go through that. It is both hilarious and terrifying that men act this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:08 PM
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same. Fucking hell. I was happy not remembering this!😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:07 PM
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THANK GODDDDDDDDDD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:06 PM
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I wish I hadn't. Everytime I forget someone on here brings it up again😂 absolutely vile!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:05 PM
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SCREAMING This man just wrote gospel and these fools are still gonna leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:30 PM
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I always bring this up. It's not even that Beyonce is beautiful. It's the fact that she is a master class in work ethic and ambition, determination, and focus. Jay Z groomed her when she was 16. It just goes to show how powerful and manipulation can be when men are allowed around children they wish to control. So so so many lessons to learn there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:24 PM
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VET EVERYTHING! This is me me me! I am constantly questioning the media I consume. I can't listen to libfem bullshit anymore. Even in it's most watered down state. It's radical feminism for me or nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:15 PM
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I hate this with my whole being. I'm so mad. What the hell??😂😂😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:54 PM
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I agree! One pick me day a week! These stories are too draining and we all know what they are by now. More positivity in a constructive way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:51 PM
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GOALS.(not the marriage though) This is what I love to hear because it makes me even more solidified in my actions. NO KIDS NO HUSBAND. it just makes sense to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:00 PM
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This post feels fake to me too! Just the way it's worded seems suspicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:47 PM
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What happened on the front page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:32 AM
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Exactly!! But, that's the thing. You are seeing the humanity in younger kids, these men are not. They see potential sex objects and porn fantasies being filled. When i see kids i think oh cute! Wow my nieces and nephews sure look like my sister! Not, wow look how attractive they all are! Like, whatttt???? Ew dude. This is porn sickness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:22 PM
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You should also put NSFW/L on this!! Holy shit. Men are barbaric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:51 PM
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Why are men pedophiles? Why does know one seem to care? This is so gross. I physically cannot image being attracted to a 15 year old boy. My mind simply does not compute that. Why are men pedophiles? His own daughter?????? I'm actually in shock reading this. Damn. Why are men pedophiles????????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:50 PM
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TRUTHHHHH!!!! HOLY SHIT. This is it. This sums up my past relationships. Full stop. I feel so raw reading this😂😂😂😂 never stop talking! Say more! Read us for filth, sis! I just can't believe most men are like this. They are so useless. I can't wait for the day women just wake up and drop their porn sick asses. It's on the horizon though i can feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:19 AM
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Her response is fiction. The whole thing might be fiction. Men are so transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:51 AM
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Very interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:34 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:40 PM
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Needed this! Laying low until the lease is up and then I'm out. I want my own life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:28 PM
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Absolutely correct. Thanks for writing this! This argument isn't just an IG infographic for me. I won't just repeat bullshit mantras for internet clout. Sex work is prostitution and prostitution is slavery. You can't change my mind. Look at how many teenaged girls are thinking about OF instead of educating themselves. It's all going according to plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:31 PM
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This is also touching on the sort of nuance most people shy away from because holding multiple intersecting stances in your head is not very easy. It also might reveal a bias you have and aren't ready to confront. Misogyny runs deep. So deep it's actually invisible most of the time. Cardi stripping is the flaw of the system, not Cardi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:11 PM
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I totally agree with you! I saw your other post and people were really misunderstanding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:08 PM
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I'd argue a lot of men don't find value in themselves. Hey fellas! What sort of things do you value? Community? Join a local sports team! Baking? Look up some videos on how to bake bread...maybe buy a cookbook and get to practicing! Hard work? Do a deep dive into your interests and make something of it! Do anything! ANYTHING before you bother some woman who doesn't need you in her life. Make yourself proud! I don't understand how FDS gets so much flack for saying to have standards. I understand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:16 PM
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I'm sorry, WHAT? NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:50 PM
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I couldn't even read this. I got to the floor sitting thing and stopped. How?? How are women so brainwashed by this bullshit. This poor gal has no self esteem and her disgusting scrote boyfriend loves abusing her. Gross. Hell is real and it is this relationship. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:46 AM
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This comment makes me want to rage!!! It's so damn true!! Like, why do all these boring ass dudes bury themselves in standup comedy? Like, bro someone else's jokes are not your personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:49 PM
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LOL. that's tragic😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:47 AM
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What in the fresh hell is this?? A PEN PAL APP?! wow. This is the epitome of no value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:15 AM
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Thanks for the heads up! I'll be checking that out for sure. Brené is the pick-me-up that we all need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:34 AM
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I'm proud of you! Setting boundaries is difficult! No two situations are the same. Family dynamics, social politics can add fear into the mix. Be brave and set the boundary anyways. Your future self deserves it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:06 AM
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YEP!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:16 PM
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I definitely recommend Brené Brown for those who have not seen her. She has multiples tedtalks and other speaking engagements are she is an absolute joy to listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:11 PM
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Honestly this is probably a VERY unpopular opinion but...i hate the ideas of regulars. And not in everyway i guess. I used to work at restaurants/bars and two of the bars i worked at had so many regulars. Just men mostly. Older men, rich beyond belief, drinking every other night, eating steak every day or what have you. And I've also seen very broke men doing the same thing. And i don't know what it is, but it just makes me sick. When i was in my early twenties and I would frequent a bar after a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:46 PM
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I just watched this!! It's so amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:36 PM
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He sounds so gross. 🤢 It's SO embarrassing to see any grown person not know how to take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:54 PM
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Fuckkk for real!! How do you not immediately lose interest at that point. My vagina dried up just reading this. She's not attracted to him, she just won't admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:23 PM
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😂 imagine that guy in street clothes telling you about his life. How he dresses up like a fucking cow for ol' daddy Trump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:58 PM
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😂😂😂😂 you are wrong for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:35 PM
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Yea this sounds so fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:10 AM
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I'm so sorry...🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:32 PM
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No lies detected!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:11 PM
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Me too please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:38 AM
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What he doesn't realize is that the woman wants to feel sexy alone because of internal voyeurism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:28 AM
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Yep! The whole Brad and Angelina thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:29 PM
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Vegan cooking is one of the most amazing and thought provoking things you can do for yourself. Even if you aren't a vegan fulltime or long-term, it is so very fun! I never appreciated food as much as when I was WFPB. Trying to make something healthy, creamy, tasty and similar to alfredo sauce was such a lovely challenge. I think it took me a few months to make something I was proud of and would make time and again. It took about a full year until I perfected that creamy pasta sauce recipe. And g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:55 PM
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Once again another young woman rising above and beyond the bullshit. men don't even think to be better. Love her message, you can tell she speaks truth with how calm and steady her voice is. This is a young woman who is secure in herself. Love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:54 AM
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The scrotes reading this will be so angry. "HOW DO YOU EXPECT ANY GUY TO HAVE THE PERFECT IDEA IF YOU DONT COMMUNICATE?!" Creativity is a top tier trait in men. At least to me. It shows he can use his mind and not be trapped by conventions. The little gasp after the sporting proposal😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:24 PM
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Haha that part killed me! But it is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:40 PM
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Ohh DM me please! I want to see it haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:14 PM
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"cum for me, baby!" Bro, you literally just got here. 😂😂 These mfs are clowns. You think a few pumps is gonna get results? They really do watch too much porn haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:20 PM
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Thanks for this post! Definitely food for thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:01 PM
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Yes! So true. You have a lovely voice Lilith!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:15 PM
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Tumblr has the hottest takes!! This is why people(men and pickmes) drag Tumblr through the mud. Tumblr is one of the only places where anonymity is considered a good thing and no one wants to be identified. Because if you have radfem or radfem leaning viewpoints anywhere else people will doxx you for it. Also it is that whole thing where whatever teenage girls are doing society hates it because they view it as lesser than and silly/stupid. But I'm a pretty active radblr and all the women i follo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:31 PM
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Isn't this man the literal definition of a couch creature? Hahaha it's insane! Also super jealous of your username. I bake a lot!🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:10 AM
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This is so funny 😂😂 it's so fucking true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:38 AM
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Exactly! Can't have the wimmins joining forces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:10 PM
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i know i always use caps lock but.....WHY THE FUCK DO WOMEN PUT UP WITH THIS!!!!! HOW CAN YOU BE A LIBFEM AND SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE? "MAYBE THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTS...WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE??" I AM GOING TO CRAWL OUT OF MY SKIN. THIS IS THE SADDEST MOST CRINGE WEDDING PHOTO. HE LOOKS LIKE A DISCOUNT VERSION OF AN OFF DUTY MEMBER OF KISS. HE IS REPULSIVE AND I HOPE HE SEES THIS POST. SOMEONE SAVE THIS POOR WOMAN!! i have absolutely had it with the low value theatrics!!!! You can not tell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:48 PM
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Yep manslaughter and rape through deception. What a disgusting man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:37 PM
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The handmaid's tale. A totalitarian theocracy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:34 AM
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I know. I just want MORE of it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:55 PM
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Rock on haha! I'm 5'9. So no problem here haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:07 PM
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I agree. I feel like a loooot of women would start to dress in looser garb, wear less makeup and possibly ditch the uncomfy shoes if men weren't around. This is why I have a problem with those femininity coaches and stuff because they tell you to dress like a barbie to attract men. Men want to see your body all the time even when they don't deserve it. I don't understand why the average Joe doesn't take a stand against women wearing restrictive clothing. They say! Ohh my wife she's such a troope…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:33 PM
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My whole house will be pastel lilac and pink and no one will stop me from living in my ultra-feminine dream house. SO glad lilac and lavender are in style these days. I've waited 20+ years for lilac to be accessible to me haha and I'll put it everywhere if i damn well please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:22 PM
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I struggle with this as a fat woman who happens to be 5'9". I grew up in a predominantly white area and I'm very aware of how people perceive me. It's sucks. I'm trying to just get over it, but i can't help wishing I was skinnier so i could dress more like how i envision myself. And yea, i just got a PT this year so i am working on my weight to be healthy, but i also want to dress how i want to now!! I love long flowing garments and backless pieces, but i just feel like men will judge me and for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:10 PM
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I had it for a hot second. I can't remember why I deleted it. I'm going to download it again and hopefully make a post about it in the near future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:29 PM
4

Wow. Yes. Exactly my feelings. Just because your a Victoria's secret model or on that level of hotness does not mean you are HV. We have got to stop equating looks to value. Actions, mindsets, philosophies, character building are all HV traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:43 PM
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Because it's easier not to question your's and society's actions. Taking an ass pic at the gym and feigning empowerment is easier than critically analyzing your mother's behavior and how it affected your own behavior while also telling every man within a 5mile radius to fuck off😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:36 PM
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Ok. This is what pisses me off. LibFems have made everything so incredibly unnuanced!! It's like they are fucking allergic to it. I, with my whole heart and soul, know for a fact that you are not posting your "booty gains gym workout photo" for your mom and dad on IG. You have been brainwashed your whole life to only put value on your looks. What is so controversial about that statement?! LibFems hate radfems because we have an incredibly critical eye about this shit. Enough! Enough with the con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:34 PM
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Ok but in all honesty. Drugs are SO. Fucking. Boring. And this is coming from an ex party girl/pickme. I was the biggest pick me of all time. Final boss level shit. I thank the universe everyday that I wasn't addicted to the drugs that I tried. Ladies reading this, those pills aren't worth it, the alcohol isn't worth it. Real alcoholism is terrible and it's an incredibly difficult battle. Just because you don't want to deal with your issues doesn't mean alcohol or drugs are the answers. Keeping …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:22 PM
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EXACTLY. Your comment makes me realize just how difficult it is to be mindful in this age of social media. Social media should be used as a supplement in my eyes. Women write books, make movies and make art. go and find that shit to invest your time in. Tiktok and IG encourage brainlessness and addiction. It's gross. I also hate how everyone has to be their own "brand" like, girl are you a product at a supermarket?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:03 PM
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Wow. That is mind blowing. Scary, but necessary reminder to always watch out for yourself. Set up the safest way to do this. And TELL YOUR FRIENDS. so sorry that happened to you. Holy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:29 PM
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One day, FDS principles will be the norm and in 150 years every man walking the earth will look like this. Of course in a myriad of skin tones too. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:38 PM
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😂 "Yea, I'd like to order one Brock, please." "Ok...one Brock. Anything else for you today? "No, that's all. Can I get this for delivery?" "Sure thing! Should be ready in about 20...25 minutes or so." "Thank you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:35 PM
6

Scrotes are BIG MAD about this one. Die mad, losers😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:57 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Once UBI is available i bet we would see a drop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:05 PM
4

Yea she's the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:04 PM
61

Ding ding ding!! Wow, it always comes back to male depravity. #nametheproblem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:14 AM
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Very eye opening! It's nice to get reality reminders like this. Keeps me on my toes so to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:31 AM
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And this is NOT to say that the Ghislaine Maxwell's of the world are exempt from blame. But by and large women do not pay for sex(r*pe).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:26 AM
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What's the most masculine(toxic) thing you can think of? For me it's denying there is a problem and then turning on the person who brought it up so there is no reason for you to actually look inside and change your mind and actions. Toxic masculinity to me is hiding the problems, ignoring the problems, because actual change and "soul searching" so to speak, is an ardous life long struggle. This is what the men (and women) complicit in the Porn industry are doing to us, when we state FACTS on Twi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:03 PM
13

Me too!!! Savannah come through girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:42 PM
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IF YOU HAVE TO ADD 'FEMINIST' IN FRONT PORN, THEN IT IS INHERENTLY NOT FEMINIST. Fuck. I'm getting this tattooed on my forehead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:41 PM
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Goddamn i almost downvoted you!!😂😂 This makes me want to rage! NO SIREEEE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:26 AM
61

Elly Arrow is required viewing! Bone chilling stuff, but necessary to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:01 AM
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Yea, You're right. It's not surprising. The grooming is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:37 PM
12

Oh, well I didn't forget those lyrics. That shit deserves it's own post too. I've always been suspicious of her brother, and her label.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:05 PM
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Yep! I've watched a Gail Dines seminar about that. I encourage everyone to search Gail Dines in YouTube and pick a speech. It's all good, it's all eye opening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:01 PM
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I totally agree. She looked uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:55 PM
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They really want you to feel like this was her idea. But, getting galaxy-brained for a minute here....how much is it her idea when that's all society tells a young girl to do? Every minute of my 28 year old life there has been a voice in the back of my head judging my body, comparing my body. It's endless. And you mean to tell me a gal 10 years my junior came to her own conclusion that she should be sexy on camera? I don't believe it. Sure, it was her choice to do the shoot, but it was society's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:44 AM
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Exactly. And no, it's not haha. I'm so sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:03 AM
38

Totally! Like wow! she looks like Marilyn Monroe....groundbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:48 AM
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You. Are. So. Eloquent. You took the words right out of my mouth. This is EXACTLY what I mean. It's gross to me that young celebrity women always go through this sexy debutante presentation as if to market the availability of their bodies. It's not empowering. Men don't do this when they become adults. Sexy debutante is the precise description of what is going on here. Damn, I really just got shivers reading your take. Like fuck, this is why I love FDS. I feel so alone with my observations and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:47 AM
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Oh no you didn't sound belittling! Yea, i think it was that moment for her to feel confident. But, why was it shown in this manner? It just seems to me women are given very little else to feel confident asides from their sexuality. Or rather, men's sexuality repackaged and tailored to women. Do you get what I mean? Like, it just seems so fake to me. And you have a great weekend too! Badasses unite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:43 AM
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YES. I'm so tired of unnuanced, Instagram friendly, Facebook safe, run of the mill discussions about THIS subject. Why is the definition of what you find sexy, attractive, appealing, the SAME as what men find sexy? Why? But from where did you get this definition of sexy and would this definition still apply if we live in a society where only women exist? The answer is: 1) We got this definition of sexy from decades of conditioning and propaganda with a sprinkle of western imperialism. 2) Absolut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:35 AM
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This isn't about modesty so much as it's about a formula Hollywood uses for it's young stars. Maybe my post sounds judgemental? But i only meant I'm sad that lingerie is empowering.....on a young woman.....again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:23 AM
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I don't think I'm bringing her down in anyway. I really like her. It just seems to me that the shoot was uninspiring and playing to heavily into "sexy Billie like you've never seen her!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:11 AM
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Yes!!! I completely agree with your last point. No one is exempt from societal influence. In fact, being a headstrong teenager almost invites people to want to influence you even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:10 AM
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Thanks! I'll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:07 PM
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I've heard that some women have Orgasm Synesthesia. It's where you can see vivid colors as you orgasm. I guess it sort of floods your senses. Other women say that they have strong visions during or can taste things. Super interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:55 PM
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There is a thread on the main page about the "dark side of the porn industry". Spoiler alert!! It's all dark, you assholes. Men are actually feigning to be shocked. It's a mockery. The top comment says it all and people are surprised. Like, what?? You thought porn was ethical?? Hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahhahahah. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:44 AM
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Right! Not because he loves his new wife, but because he needs her for survival! Or shall I say "wants".....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:24 AM
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Men are slaves to their sexuality. The majority of them cannot fathom a woman choosing to be child free, single, and worst of all..... celibate. They absolutely cannot wrap their minds around it because sex is what they live for. No, not love-making, not emotional bonding, not platonic intimacy, but the act of ejaculating. It's sad. When I look at men I see sadness and enslaved minds. I've been putting myself through so many growing pains because I want a better life for myself and i know that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:42 PM
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I love her! She spoke facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:47 AM
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I find this with men and pickmes alike. As soon as I bring up a talking point that wasn't on and IG infographic, they start sliding. I want my man and friends to find information out for themselves instead of just copy/pasting shit from instagram for a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:33 PM
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Yes! Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:13 PM
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ABSOLUTELY. I wanted to make a post on this actually. I largely blame 1980's media--mostly movies and TV. It was just absolutely littered with stories about the ugly guy who is an underdog in some way or a pariah of some sort that gets the beautiful girl in the end. Doesn't matter if it's a beautiful blonde or the down to earth girl-next-door or the (secretly) beautiful and intelligent wallflower/nerd/bookworm. IT WAS ALL THE SAME. The message was clear....all men, no matter the looks, deserve w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:05 PM
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I totally agree. We owe it to our ancestors to choose the path they could never go down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:45 PM
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ME TOO. Honestly it really bugs me that we have to be so careful about it. Honestly maybe we should start a radfem zoom meetup? I'm so sick of not having like-minded women to talk to. Can't stay on tumblr and reddit forever, ya know? Like I want real friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:37 PM
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Is this show violent at all? I have ptsd and just want to be prepared. I really want to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:01 AM
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The fact that this has so many upvotes....i can't wait for women to be liberated from this hell. This shouldn't be relatable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:15 AM
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GAIL DINES PLEASE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:04 AM
7

FDS has a spotify playlist as well. Check the sidebar! And listen to the podcast while you are there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:18 PM
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A meme shouldn't give me such a strong physical reaction. I'm so disgusted. Hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:05 PM
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EXACTLY!!!! I am so sick of men complaining and then not taking action. Of course they just want us to do the work for them (but not really because they don't want to change). They see all the fruits of women's labor and they think we were just handed that? Women experienced scrutiny and backlash in a myriad of ways to even wear pants, you chucklefucks. Millenial men are so embarrasing. Wear a skirt if you want, jarod, i don't give a rat's ass! But maybe don't relentlessly call your friend a sim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:13 PM
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This reminds me of that other post about the female gaze the other day. So much food for thought. I think a large goal for my future will be to eventually reach 90%+ immersion in female led/run/created media, art, clothing, food, and businesses. I'm just SO incredibly bored of men. They are so boring. We have had to endure their opinion for so very long about absolutely EVERYTHING. They way society is run, the way cities are built, the way tools, houses, cars, etc are made. All of it. And they s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:06 PM
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For real. I hope she's safe now haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:51 PM
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I wish I never saw this.😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:11 PM
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FDS is the only sub in the world where i want to downvote on my disgust reaction😂😂😂 this shit is so maddening but funny at the same time. Most conflicting sub of all time. I couldn't even make it through the comments. The mixture of rage and hilarity is seriously too much haha. Fuccckkk. I love this place so much. Also...he straight up TOLD HER IN TEXT that he was going to feed her this...if she wants!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:10 PM
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Hell yea! Wish my mom would have been that "cutthroat." Peggy was such a powerhouse. What an amazing character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:55 PM
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Peggy's mom KNEW Abe was trash!! But I'm still sad for peggy that her mom acted like that. She obviously wasn't "living in sin"🙄🙄 but she shouldn't have accepted his offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:30 PM
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I'm still upset about the gal with the slugs in her drink. This is too much. 😂😂😂 Ya boy is a whole serial killer, sweets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:32 AM
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I'm mad I read this. I hope this is fake. Please be fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:28 AM
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This is their forever name now. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:13 PM
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Whoo I know it. I can't wait until all that embarassment is gone. I'm super proud of you. It's so hard standing up for yourself, but you just have to go for it! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:31 PM
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This is great!!! I'm glad that you stuck it to that scum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:14 PM
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Can anyone post the article here. I get a paywall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:10 PM
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This is the content I'm here for!! This brings me back to my belief that balance is the ultimate goal, NOT EQUALITY. Men need to learn to CoMmUnIcAtE they way women do. They need to read between the lines and practice social etiquette. We shouldn't have to communicate like fucking cavemen because some dumb scrote can't apply logic to a situation. I'm so done with men. They need to get on MY LEVEL, on OUR level. If a man doesn't understand something as basic as dating manners, I will simply get u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:11 PM
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🤮🤮 I'll never truly understand, I really won't. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:55 PM
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I hate this. I hate this so much. What a disgusting man. Those poor women, I'm sure they are absolutely traumatized. Looks like he got what he wanted. I wish they would have just let him shit himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:45 PM
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Call your wife a "girl" one more time.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:42 AM
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Also this borrows from the fact that any woman who is strong(in what ever sense, physical or otherwise) is threatening to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:58 AM
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THIS PART. just say you don't like black women and go. We've heard it before, bradley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:57 AM
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I think they find receiving love demeaning/think the woman is desperate? Men are very strange... You might have just said something here! Holy shit. Like, that is seriously what is going on. They find receiving love demeaning. My whole world just shifted into focus. Thanks 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:42 AM
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😂😂 isn't it so sad to see? What are these boys going? Ughhh no thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:35 AM
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Not to mention they have no fashion sense!! Why.....do...they...not... understand...basic...style/fashion? You're telling me a 25-35 year old man can't get a few shirts tailored? Maybe don't buy that video game and six pack, Brian. Maybe instead look at a GQ magazine or instagram of a fashionable man and feel some sort of pull to be properly groomed. Uhh, they are so gross. Men barely have individual style where I live. It's so depressing. It's like a uniform they all wear. Button down or pearl …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:19 AM
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I feel like i just watched my dad scold my brother😂 Whose mans is this, indeed!! I'm gonna need more fathers publicly scolding young men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:14 PM
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I was just talking to my therapist about this! My sexuality has never truly been mine. I've been very heavily influenced by the media on what it means to be a woman and a hetero woman that has sex that I don't even trust my own instincts anymore. And to make matters worse, I'm surrounded by people (namely women) that don't question their sexuality at all. It's really isolating and difficult. Everything is sex positive or kink positive or tell-everyone-about-every-detail-of-your-sex-life positive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:35 AM
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I..... absolutely. YES. MORDOR!!!!!! I am so using this! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:25 AM
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Would love to see her on the FDS podcast in the future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:32 PM
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Yes!!!! This will basically be the only podcast I will listen to. So pumped!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:45 AM
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I would totally be down for finding a few personal trainers and stunt women to create an army of Themyscira-like guardians to protect the city. I wouldn't mind getting in shape to protect my fellow FDS ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:54 PM
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What!!! The grave thing was real? Someone commented above about that but i thought it was hyperbole....what the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:42 PM
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SERIOUSLY. I feel like this needs to be discussed everywhere. This is such a deep issue and it's so obvious when you look at men on average. I was depressed for the majority of a decade and it almost killed me. I had to change. I was sooooo sick of my own bullshit and my own life. But these guys......the just sit and stew in their filth. They are abhorrent and disgusting. I seriously have no idea how they can let themselves rot like this. they choose that life!! You are absolutely correct with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:44 AM
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Beautiful! Sounds like a perfect day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:44 PM
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OP send her our way. Rescue mission commence!😂 Poor thing.....I'm so glad i think being single is better than a date these days. Whew! It's so cringe to post this on FB. ughh i feel for her though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:41 PM
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It won't! I'm a black woman who is overweight but working on it. Let me tell you....I've been working on it since I was 9. I can't help that my hair is 4c and i can't help that my skin is dark and i can't help that I have broad shoulders and big boobs! All this ideal body trend shit is so lifesucking. Men really think they are judged by the same standards as us...hah! A white boy wouldn't last one day in my shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:58 AM
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I'm in tears. This is hilarious and sad. I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I honestly blame all media from the 80s onward. Men really love an underdog story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:18 PM
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THIS is the sort of inner work I come to FDS for. Men could never be this introspective and willing to confront their learned behaviors. You women amaze me beyond belief. Doing the work is difficult! But I'll take that over a shitty relationship any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:22 PM
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If you are at the point where polyamory(for your husband) is a solution to your woes, wouldn't you just divorce? At what point does your own life and comfort matter? I mourn any woman that enters into marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:12 PM
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It's basically a small convection oven. It's an oven that blows air around inside to more evenly distribute the heat. Lots of bakeries use convection ovens, an air fryer is like a tiny one for your home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:29 PM
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YEP. I often wonder if we took a poll to see what women would say the punishment is for pedophilia/r*pe if the overwhelming majority would say the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:41 PM
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I'm also a black woman and racism just rolls off my shoulders. It sounds awful to say, but after years you just can't let it get to you. I sort of view men's views the same way. I'm just disgusted by them. But i can't let that occupy my mind so much. Something that helps for me is to replace the feelings of anger/unrest/sadness with gratitude immediately after. I'm grateful to be a woman--a black one!!-- and I'm grateful that my mind isn't hateful or malicious. These men sound so poisonous. They…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:48 PM
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This is their alcoholism. Hot damn. Truer words were never spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:46 PM
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That's what i was thinking! Like a paper weight or maybe have it displayed on a little stand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:02 PM
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Ew. What an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:36 PM
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Damn, Hasan is beautiful. But i just can't get over the angry guy screams at computer and watches his chat all day thing. I agree with him politically on a great deal of subjects, but his views on sex work and what not.....🙄🙄🙄🙄 Dude, you are a commie. Make it make sense. Like don't spew that marxist shit about the goddamn proletariat and then tell me sex work is work. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:18 AM
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I feel as though this issue goes deeper than just women dating men they aren't attracted to. It seems to me that society brainwashes us to believe that men that don't put forth much effort are seen as valiant and good natured. Almost every woman i know is in a relationship with a man that is not her equal. On any level 😂. Like, does anyone else feel like they are attracted to shlubs because you think it's what you deserve? If I'm being blatantly honest i would not be considered very attractive t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:14 PM
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😂😂😂😂 crying!! It's because they are parrots. They just parrot what they hear instead if making an actual informed decision about the topic at hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:14 AM
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https://youtu.be/-992cts82bk You guys need to watch this scene. It's basically "go to war" summarized 😂😂 Joan is my favorite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:57 PM
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Hmmm. I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for him. Why do men think they can write sob stories online and not go to therapy? This man will NEVER get therapy. He will "try" to go through dry spells on his own and then give up 48 hours later. If he can last that long. He won't change because deep down he doesn't want to. He wants to cry online for internet points and a pat on the back. Is he going to apologise to all 400+ women? Write them a fucking "I'm such a jerk" card? Nope. He's trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:07 PM
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girl, watch the video. its clickbait,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:45 PM
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Me too! Upwards and onwards from here on out.good luck to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:55 PM
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Yes!! After a while I just felt like a little dog waiting for him to come home so he could love me. I'm never doing that again as long as I live. NEVER wait for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:43 PM
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Godddd. NEVER AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:24 PM
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i cant even look at that sub. it makes me think of my older sister and it just ruins me. anyone who questions why we still need feminism and why its important that women have their own TRUE agency, needs to read a few posts on that sub. it is so devastating. and the sad part is, is that none of it is surprising to me because ive seen very few mutally respectful relationships in my life. ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:52 PM
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damn.....this brought tears to my eyes. men might never understand the true worth of freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:31 PM
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Ominously whimsical 😂😂😂 so perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:29 PM
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My soul has left my body. I read two.sentences and stopped. What the hell is this? Another comment on this thread asked, "Can you imagine if women acted this way??" And i can't. Absolutely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:13 PM
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😂😂😂 what is wrong with them?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:47 PM
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My face reading the about the dude who wants to have sex with a toaster...or anything with boobs...like a toaster. I want off his planet, i swear. Men are......no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:22 PM
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I'm disgusted. 🤮🤮🤮 Whyyyyy are they like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:25 PM
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I'm printing this comment out and framing it. Whew, you are singing FACTZ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:49 PM
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Wow. Words right out of my mouth! That's EXACTLY what that phrase is!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:35 AM
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Preach, girl! America is so strange when it comes to this issue. If my parents weren't conservatives i would be living with them. The economy is scary right now. As for OP wow....30k thats nothing to scoff at! Most men couldn't (WOULDN'T) strive for that by any means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:15 PM
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This is a hard truth that most libfems and men don't want to acknowledge. There was a great post on FDS about female sexuality and how many will basically kill for access to it. It's true. Women are powerful!!! And men know it!! They are so scared of us. That's why they created religion to imprison us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:56 PM
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Yea it's a coping mechanism. I keep telling her to have a rainy day fund just in case and she doesn't listen. What can you do i guess? Ughh so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:35 PM
25

Yep! She's called me up more than once to say that she doesn't know who she is anymore and that she doesn't feel like her life is her own. It's so heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:14 PM
43

Do we have the same sister? Holy smokes. The hardest lesson in life that I'm continually learning is that i can't save my sisters. The thought of it makes me want to puke. Both of them are in the sunken place with LVM and my sister that's just a little older than me(30) has had FIVE KIDS within a decade. She started when she was 19. It's heartbreaking. Her husband didn't marry her until after child #3. their wedding invites said "Finally getting married!" Because poking fun at your painful truth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:04 PM
31

Jeez, i almost downvoted out of instinct. Girl, I'm so glad you chose you!! Happy to see you out of this "relationship" wow. You really are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:07 PM
15

YES. exactly. But, of course, women will of course jump at them in hopes of being a better woman and more healthy, more attractive, more obedient. Not because we want to, but because we have to. And then another false ideal, becomes a reaction to living in the patriarchy, a preservation tactic to not fall out of patriarchy's good graces and become unruly, ugly, other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:24 PM
49

Yesss. Especially difficult when people keep saying, "it's, ok it's NATURAL to want to be well groomed and looking your best, smelling your best, being your best." Like Yea....ok maybe at one point it was natural or rather it is natural but now it has become this totally warped sense of obligation. I don't know what I'm trying to say exactly. But i feel obliged to want things alllll the fucking time. It's exhausting. Like it's incessant and the only respite is meditating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:24 PM
19

I don't want to live here anymore. That is so vile. Men are so gross. Where do you go if killing is your ultimate kink?like what comes after?! I just.....wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:38 PM
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🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 i know what i bring to the table and I'm not afraid to eat alone!!!! You just changed my whole life. I'm getting that tattood on my face. Whooooooo chile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:09 PM
7

Wow, this brought years to my eyes. What a great story. How many heartaches would be saved if we raised kids with these values? Women truly make the world a better place. It's absolutely incredible.band good on your mother for telling you the straights facts and not letting you bruise yourself up over a breakup. What an outstanding woman! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:25 PM
40

Happy for you!!! Moving out and more importantly moving UP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:18 AM
12

Seriously!!! Hellllll noooooo. Men can really get away with it all, can't they? It's not surprising, but it is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:18 AM
2

Me too. She chose herself in the end🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:50 AM
94

Thank you!! This is such an obvious truth that I'm not sure many people realize. This WHOLE GLOW UP/LEVEL UP/MENTAL HEALTH/ WHAT HAVE YOU IS BEING CARRIED BY WOMEN!!! we want to be better! And not only that...we are expected to! It's insane. Men are their own worst enemy. It's almost...almost comically sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:53 PM
9

I might put an NSFW on this. Wowza this guy is a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:03 PM
6

☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ seriously what the hell?! They are so degenerate. I can't believe someone thought those words and decided to tell another person about it. No shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:12 AM
8

Why do all porn sick men type and spell words like this?? Especially the old ones? I seriously don't understand. It's like it's it's own perverted in little language. Does anyone else see that? Hahha ughhh it makes me angry!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:54 PM
14

Is there a sub for abused women or previously abused women to talk about transitioning out of relationships or spotting red flags/yellow flags? We seriously need one if the re isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:45 PM
6

Oh thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:19 AM
6

She really is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:19 AM
13

Me too!! We need a film category and FDS approved media. I should look into that. POALF was one of the best films I've ever seen. Did you know that the actress that plays Héloise is married to the director in real life? I believe they've done other movies together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:38 AM
7

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:19 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂 are we the same?? Big, black, fat and hairy reporting for duty! I hate male attention!! And none of that matters because I STILL get hit on. Men are wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:38 AM
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Not to mention the woman in the photo they used (without her permission) is leagues above whoever is writing/laughing about this meme. They wish they could even talk to a woman like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:01 PM
16

Every. Single. One. My ex did everything on this list 😞. So cruel. Just thinking about him grosses me out. He was also addicted to drugs and was a repeat rapist 🙃🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:18 AM
12

Truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:46 AM
6

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:18 AM
12

That's nightmare fuel right there. Absolutely not 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:04 PM
8

I never wanted to remember.....🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:37 PM
3

Because!!!! Because everyone needs to be sooooo open-minded now to the fee-fee's of others! Especially men!!! He's just a helpless, man baby who can't find an actual bathroom to use and also has no foresight to watch what he eats before a date if he has IBS issues. I'm am so sad, y'all. What in the hell? He's a nice guy though...we went 50/50 on the date and he told me my shoes were nice. Barf city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:06 PM
17

We keep saying this, but . ...there is NO BAR ANYMORE. they've successfully obliterated it. Men are free to do whatever they damn well please and women will just have to deal. THIS MAN SH*T IN ALLEY ON A DATE!!!!!! he probably used the bar to wipe his ass. I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:02 PM
38

They will truly do anything to have us! What a sad bunch😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:52 PM
54

Seriously!!! They can't even fathom life without women. It's so funny!😂😂😂 That's power you can't buy, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:51 PM
19

I wish everyone could read this comment!! Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:39 PM
12

I swear....it sounds so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:53 PM
42

Where is this use of the word "body", "bodies" coming from? I understand this is an AAVE thing, I'm a black woman myself but this tweet sounds sooooo wrong. Sex and sexuality is being co-opted by men to sound more and more dehumanizing everyday. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:52 PM
20

I think it's because you are outnumbered. There are MANY more men that are LV than women in my opinion. Men also feel like they don't need to change because society has deemed their mediocrity as acceptable and has even exalted that behavior. It's a total racket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:59 PM
2

I hate men. This made me sooooo angry i can't stand it😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:31 PM
42

Wow. Just....NO. I can't handle these scrotes. Absolutely vile in everyway. This one reallllly bothers me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:20 PM
140

WHY ARE MEN SO FUCKING GROSS!!!! IM SO SICK OF IT!!!! HOW....HOW????? IS THIS YOUR SEXUALITY?! AM I TAKING CRAZY PILLS?!?!?! What on sweet mother earth's green grass is this woman even thinking entertaining this fool?! Women have been played soooo bad. I feel sorry for her. Like...truly, DEEPLY, sorry for this woman. Fuck. FUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:19 PM
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Right!! It's an arbitrary scale that makes no sense! We shouldn't subscribe to such things. I see FDS and its sister subs to be used as a tool for a total reawakening/rewiring of your mind. Question everything man made!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:55 PM
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Would love to see all the incel/mgtow screenshots GONE. and I would like to see people here not subscribing to that language use at all..."the wall", plate(?), Insert any other demeaning name they call us. We get it!! Men are barbarians. We don't need to see it a thousand times in an hour. Let's try to showcase more positivity. I would love to see FLUS gain more traction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:26 PM
2

I get youuuu!!!!! I tend to lump fall and winter together in my mind and these days are just so....blahhhh. I miss hot weather. I'm out of shape, overfed, it's bad. But I started taking a Spanish class and I'm about to join a dance studio so who knows....and as for the car life. Sleep more, get cuddly socks/sweatshirts, and gaze longingly out windows😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:38 AM
17

Exactly!!! You shouldn't be getting married if you can't afford it! Why is this such a hard concept for people? Struggle love is CANCELLED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:44 PM
20

I was goin to screenshot this as well!! My heart about fell through my ass when I looked at what he drew on her finger. What the hell???? All of this is so so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:34 PM
1

This is a small comic I found on Tumblr. She has a skeptical look in her eye the whole time! Seems like this might be typical for him. I would have left already 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:53 PM
11

Wow...I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:42 AM
15

Charlize, if you are reading this...GOOD FOR YOU. 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:21 PM
7

Men are fucking depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:20 PM
14

The boy pouting with his arms crossed is sendiiiinnnggg meee 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:26 PM
37

YESSSSS MA'AM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:20 AM
5

Good for you. I'm also black and dark skin. My sisters are light skin and conventionally attractive. I'm tall, fat, and have 4c hair. Life has been difficult, especially when I was younger. But I've done so much work in therapy and I'm proud of myself for changing my own mind about me. For as much a your own "community" wants you to stick with them, they sure do abuse you alot. At least, that's been my experience with the black community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:57 AM
6

No problem! I've only just discovered it too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:34 PM
51

This is a great read about how society-especially black society-puts and keeps black women last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:34 AM
20

Girl, just press the save button in the corner😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:08 PM
6

That sounds great! I'm 28 and have some grey hair(I've had it since I was little) but it's coming in more now. I also have dark skin and I've always told myself I'll just get to look like Storm from X-Men one day! Grey/white/silver hair is beautiful on everyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:05 PM
7

This.....is one of the worst things I've read. Poor thing doesn't even know how traumatized he made her yet. Men are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:38 PM
21

Same. I refuse to accept this terrible reality. Like what in the fucking fucking fuck??? What a gross monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:37 PM
47

I'm still digesting..."Treats me okayish..." Like, ladies, PLEASE, love yourselves more. Damn. This is beyond depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:16 AM
6

What I would give to see Lupita Nyong'o and Sterling K. Brown in a rom com together!! Age appropriate as well! Why can't we have that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:20 PM
8

Men are a plague. So disgusting that this is even optioned during sex. I thought younger women would have a way out of this hell hole and now I see that it's just been getting worse and worse. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:31 PM
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u/throwRAoveritall hey!! You should definitely leave that piece of shit!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:51 PM
33

Can someone get her over to this sub because what the hell!! She WILL be murdered by this man. No no no no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:49 PM
36

What a fucking asshole!!! I seriously can't stand these dudes. Racist, fuckhead. I'm so sorry you had someone speak about you that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:27 PM
35

Fantastic!😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:21 AM
59

The man who makes these videos is so spot on! I wish other men would listen to him and really take these tropes to heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:53 PM
62

Because men are allowed to be human and women are a monolith! Silly girls all they like is makeup and clothes! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:02 PM
82

Yep, I've been told I don't act black, don't talk/speak black and it really hurts my feelings. People exalt me because I'm not a stereotype. Which is funny because I've also been shit on by hose same people because I'm NOT a stereotype. It is very demeaning and rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:00 PM
13

Please do because damn....that was the COLD BITTER TRUTH. wow. I just seriously have never thought of it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:57 PM
53

This is....so profound. I fucking love this sub!!!! Why are men so lazy and content with just being boring....like I don't get it. I cannot live with the bare minimum I'm so active and I love having beauty around me and some men just don't want to keep growing and changing. It's very alarming. I HAVE to be better every year now. I just DO. Healing and growing mentally is the most exciting thing in the world for me. I just don't see that from men. It's bizarre. Have you guys ever noticed that men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:04 AM
13

Robe is by D'Lish. Comes in basically any color you want. It cost $$$ though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:56 PM
49

I LOVE this post. When did this become normal.and ok? Men really hate women to the point that even your girlfriend, mom, sister and whoever else can become porn material. Fucking troglodytes, the lot of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:49 PM
17

I'll never be normal again after hearing this story. Fucking gross. 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:09 AM
4

The Take is a women written and narrated YouTube channel that analyzes popular movies and TV shows. It's one of my favorite channels! Everything is analyzed through a woman's lense and it's so easy to go down the rabbit hole! Love their mad men series and legally blonde series as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:28 PM
14

What a sad story....but damn if she didn't sow those seeds. It BAFFLES me how people can stay the same for so long! I fell into a rut for about 5 years and by the end I was so fed up with myself I completely changed who I was within 6 months. Change can happen but it is long and arduous! Hope she finds solace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:55 PM
3

ITS NOT AN HONOR OR A PRIVILEGE TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHEN THEY'RE SO DEGENERATE. Screaming this from the roof tops!!! Gospel truth right here!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:48 PM
3

All these men look gross. So glad I'm not using OLD. SHE IS A GODDESS THOUGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 12:42 AM
6

Wow. You are a star!!!! I hope he turns out high value too. If you keep being real with him there is a good chance he will! It's other boys you have to worry about. Their influence is strong and peer pressure is tough to navigate as a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:59 AM
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