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Social IssuesTundraTaurus/r/MensRights01/06/22 03:31 AM
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I liked the feedback
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:12 PM
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Are we saying Courtney's a man? I'm confused
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:37 PM
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wow. that was... eye opening. and unsolicited but thanks for your opinion
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:40 PM
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Sounds like its about under or misrepresented groups but i gotcha
/r/MensRights04/03/22 01:39 AM
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how can we help men and boys without asking them to change who they fundamentally are I'm going to preface this by announcing my recent ban from AskFeminists. I'm not really on either side emotionally. I want to understand because I want to be understood and I wouldn't take any issue if the scenario were reversed and you were seeking understanding of how I felt about a situation as a female. If were pointing fingers instead of discussing causes, then I would have to start by saying you're avoidi…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 05:00 PM
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i might have missed the target comment while reading, my apologies. I updooted you for the trouble. But I am now curious about gay feminist alliance and what that is.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:58 PM
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Yet another example the mass gaslighting and victim blaming of men. They pretend to be trying to help men, and then proceed to blame them for all their issues and tell them to change their identity to be more like women. STOP Emasculation of men. Stand up to it and Call It Out! OP said that and I guess we got away from the topic by trying to figure out what about the article feels emasculating, which was my original question. (and I guess who the word "they" represents in OPs divisive take) The …
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:52 PM
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they noted a trend and compiled evidence from self-reporting. There's a few opinions sprinkled in and of course it's the reporter who gets to pick and choose what data to report on and how to present it. But i do want to emphasize it's the (male) people taking the survey that said that they felt emasculated by straight males. That buzzword stuff gets on my nerves, I completely agree with that. It did seem a bit inaccurate compared to my own observation about gay men being more likely to achieve …
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:26 PM
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please don't hate me for saying this, but the article has little to do with females. it literally says gay men feel outcast by straight men for not being masculine enough and suggests that taking on the behaviors the more successful gay men attribute to their higher chances of success would rewrite masculinity Why is this being ignored? or turned into hate against females?
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:16 PM
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I guess I'm just missing what in your comment defines why both you and OP feel your summary of the article "men should be like women to succeed" is accurate. Please, I'm just trying to understand
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:11 PM
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I don't want to edit that. I meant to say that I know you aren't OP who I posed the question to initially, but you filled in where they refused and so now we are having the discussion instead. I apologize for the improper wording and hope you'll not take any offense if i leave it as is
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:03 PM
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​ His findings aren’t limited to higher education either, and gay male high school students are more likely than their heterosexual counterparts to earn better grades in more advanced classes and maintain better study habits. They also reported having more “academically oriented” friends, Mittleman found, using data from a Department of Education study assessing student sexual orientation. It’s likely that the success of gay boys and men in the classroom is tied to the fact that they often feel …
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:02 PM
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unless you are saying gay men are not masculine, what you and OP are trying to imply is incorrect
/r/MensRights02/03/22 02:45 PM
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"No one said that the article said that you need to be gay. It wasn't in the title like you said and no comment mentions it." They do. You have to pass those comments to get here so not sure what happened there, but it is in white and black? *and also an obvious joke (i fucking hope) The title is pretty accurate to what is in the article or at least what the article is implying. It actually doesn't mention females past the first couple of paragraphs. So it's literally saying "gay men in Notre Da…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 02:42 PM
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Do women check against a working definition of femininity when making decisions or taking action. Yes. I've been passed up for jobs because I'm not girlie enough. So it's not my choice and I'm not happy about it, but I get what you mean. I'm female and that's the end of the story. I don't need to wear make up to be feminine. I don't need ridiculously long fingernails painted some garish unnatural color or gaudy jewelry. All that shit is expensive and a waste in my opinion. The guys who tell me t…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 02:21 PM
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Okay but i asked because I don't understand how you feel the article is encouraging the emasculation of men. You said you feel it's encouraging men to be more like women but I didn't read that, so I'm asking for help seeing it your way. If you don't want to discuss this with me I understand. I was hoping for an opportunity to gain some perspective and learn why you said that. Just because it isn't obvious to me, doesn't mean it's not what you say. ​ And it would really be appreciated if you addr…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 02:13 PM
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“It is long past time to rewrite the rules of American masculinity,” University of Notre Dame sociologist Joel Mittleman wrote in a recent op-ed. the subheading under the title says that and it also says it's one person's opinion based on data collected from Notre Dame so it's not a community college. That in itself might skew the data or be an interesting avenue to explore: Why is there such a drastic difference between non-gay men and gay men obtaining the degree of their choice? Is it because…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 01:03 PM
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I am genuinely asking, what do you feel defines masculinity? and how do you feel the observations made in the article discourage that definition of masculinity? each downvote is a vote for Pu-- you know what, I know why I'm getting downvoted and I could care less. The noisy minority will not sway me from seeking information and bettering myself. You guys can stay in your echo chambers all you want. 37k is a lot of downvotes, so regroup and try again
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:11 AM
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but that's the title OP wrote, so that must be what's in the article /s i bet if i used a pun instead of sarcasm, you guys would get it
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:08 AM
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That's not at all what the article says But it does present some interesting observations regarding gender and orientation.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:05 AM
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I hope that this is a small amount of women you know. I don't feel its wise for anybody to go around at night by themselves and bringing up gender as a way to try to dismiss that is kind of weird, definitely thoughtless
/r/MensRights17/02/22 03:23 PM
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something something surplus population
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/22 01:17 AM
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I haven't watched the video but on the topic of harmful assumptions about SA, they're sticking strictly to the thought that this is taking place between two adults. That a male must be able to fight of their attacker is just a horrid viewpoint that people seem to get stuck in. Is it genderless when they're talking about a minor? and are they just completely ignoring that type of trauma has lasting effects into adulthood?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/22 01:16 AM
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I'm not the one asking people to do the work for me
/r/MensRights10/02/22 10:21 AM
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i would start with the hotlinked resources and cross reference them independently, if i were you
/r/MensRights10/02/22 09:58 AM
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aside from the spelling errors, what do you wish to "debunk"?
/r/MensRights10/02/22 09:52 AM
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First Im hearing of it but i agree its gross. I may not see the same things wrong with "encouraging" it as a male would, but definitely skin-crawly
/r/MensRights21/12/21 08:41 AM
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I was not. I was replying to this comment thread in particular, not OP's post, or I might have commented on the post itself instead of here and feeling a bit attacked by somebody I'm agreeing with
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:43 AM
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Most interesting thing about that is the AskFem sub says that mansplaining isn't sexist language. like what??
/r/MensRights16/12/21 05:13 PM
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no. but i'm not engaging with you
/r/MensRights16/12/21 05:13 AM
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It would be counter-intuitive to post that information until its ready
/r/MensRights15/12/21 08:58 PM
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it doesn't bother me. I have a more squarish face shape than most women but oh well. that's them and i'm fine being me. *I also have a deeper voice than most females and broad shoulders. I'm okay with being the way I am. **Perhaps dealing with this has made me more body positive and less inclined to buy into those gender stereotypes
/r/MensRights15/12/21 04:55 PM
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you and I talked on a different post. You asked me to give examples of how my husband made our divorce horrible
/r/MensRights15/12/21 04:51 PM
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🤣 ... yes but i'm female
/r/MensRights15/12/21 04:49 PM
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I would rather they never banned MGTOW so they would stay in their own area I think the former members are being extra just so people feel this way and I have to laugh about FDS. I tried to talk there about coming back towards the middle, and was muted. I don't understand how its not considered a hatesub
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:11 PM
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I am here. I am female. I acknowledge that there are issues that are specific to gender. I advocate for those issues even though I don't think of myself as a feminist so much anymore because the idea of a feminist has gone off what i believe they were trying to accomplish. Much the same as a man who advocates for right to choose and inclusion, I am here supporting men in their fight to be seen and heard about male-specific problems. This doesn't mean I support a return to the 1950s gender norms.…
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:02 PM
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I mean that in subs are that gender-oriented that's often is taken to mean gender-biased. The way MGTOW and FDS openly put the opposite sex down is crazy. There are those who feel that just because the sub is for MensRights that its okay to trash women, like we aren't here trying to help *edited to fix my awful first sentence
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:46 PM
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I don't know if you have me confused with somebody else who replied to you but i haven't typed the word "feminist" in this post or thread and haven't said anything about feminism? maybe your reply is for somebody else
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:30 PM
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thank you for sharing that part of yourself
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:29 PM
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okay then.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:20 PM
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if you put women in a separate, lower category, are you not a misogynist?
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:18 PM
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patriarchy theory is self useful bull someone made up when bored. I wouldn't mind discussing that further, if you're up for a friendly conversation
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:17 PM
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reddit is what you make it. if you choose to participate in debate subs then its going to always look like everybody is fighting all the time. If you choose to follow r/funny and other light hearted subs, it will look like a collection of humor. So if Reddit looks negative, its because that's what you chose to seek out
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:15 PM
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by participating in men's rights issues as well. thanks for not locking me out because I don't personally have a penis
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:13 PM
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so was i because fuck offmychest
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:11 PM
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Or just be happy with not having a strong jawline and stop buying into "perfect" or "ideal" ideas about how people "should" look Love yourself as you are, seek improvement where you feel is necessary and stop worrying Confidence is sexy. Hate is not
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:10 PM
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offmychest has auto-ban for them but true doesn't If you have a screenshot of the "incel" part, I'd love to see that. Collecting evidence and that is on the money
/r/MensRights15/12/21 11:56 AM
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I'm very sorry you feel this way.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 11:54 AM
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well if that's the only one, why listen? TOMC has become a battleground and I don't think its a good place to post about gender issues. There are people who are posing as the opposite gender to create dissention like this. Please, don't let it bother you. Small people have small minds
/r/MensRights15/12/21 11:52 AM
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Very real risk of herniation and other damage so you and OP do have a point. This seems like it should have come up before now
/r/MensRights14/12/21 07:19 PM
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I feel like they're purposefully posting hateful things about men while posing as women in certain subs there have been a few too many gender-swapped posts on AITA like they're trying to prove that women get more sympathy than men in the same situations, too.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:51 PM
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I mean, I don't have the roster so I can't cross reference but the posts are about the same. It's amazing the support they show each other at least? Learning about their mindset and how they feel was worth the bans i got for "participation in a hatesub" I know I used extreme examples but kind of like how you should conduct yourself in a polite and profession manner even if you're not at work because you represent the company even off the clock. Nobody thinks "gee that Brian, what a bitch". They'…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:34 PM
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Men's I might be a little gun shy about. Putting it plainly, it was nice when the MGTOW sub existed because at least they were contained? Now they're everywhere like they're campaigning to change public opinion by being the most vocal about how women are all cunts. Seriously, are they organizing in protest? Because life was a lot quieter in most other subs before their disbandment. Not saying that dude's who think poorly of women don't get a voice, but I feel like there's been an uptick lately. …
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:09 PM
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The word feminism has become a dirty word for dominatrix and instead of valuing how it feels to be discriminated against or to be treated as second class, there are women who have decided that there can be only one and its them, fuck men all around I don't get them and I don't agree with them and I will get myself banned from feminism subs for not smiling and nodding and going along with that insanity, all damn day. Its like a black person who believes that it's impossible to discriminate agains…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 07:50 PM
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It was just that both sides are equally hypocritical and pointlessly trying to one up each other with reasons why they're the only victims in the scenario. Each side has members who try to blame the entire opposite gender as the root of the problem. which is kind of true in a way but pff you don't win an argument by yelling the loudest or showing the deeper wound. Basically those few members can really spoil the idea for other people who are trying to be neutral and are trying to hear points fro…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 07:40 PM
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Appreciate the acknowledgement Been getting a verbal beatdown all morning so feels kinda nice to not be told I'm sexist because I'm a female. I think if people were able to calm down and practice actively listening things would go smoother as well. It seems like people feel they're sacrificing something to admit the other side has valid points, like there's only so many to go around or something. I have brothers. I have a son. Male friends that are effected. Boyfriends occasionally (one at a tim…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 07:00 PM
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I will check that out. I'm not great with non-fiction. Much harder to accept some times than dragons and magic and shit. it looks well recommended and helpful, thanks
/r/MensRights13/12/21 04:42 PM
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They're probably going to be fucked up. Just trying to keep up with damage control.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 04:32 PM
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​ He was charged with Felony Abuse of a Minor Under 12, indicted by a grand jury * for welted and scabbed belt marks across our 7 year old son's back, shoulder and inner forearm He wasn't harassed by child services. I never was informed (I was in a different city at the time) [He was never formally arrested and was allowed to keep the children during the investigation.] The charge has since disappeared from his record. He called me later on, told me about it, never admitted it again. His girlfri…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 04:20 PM
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I'm going to go full disclosure here: I have a foot in both camps. I have a vested interest in women's and men's rights. I follow subs and discuss the issues with both sides. I could tell you my honest opinion of it all but its never gone down well in either sub so best I can do is talk to people and try not to shout at them for talking down to me like i'm a child wandering into a conversation demanding to know what's going on
/r/MensRights13/12/21 02:32 PM
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Right. I guess I feel like it kind of missed the mark as far as an argument in support of men's issues because that's an everybody issue I read the post and understand what they were saying even if they didn't give any specific points that were made during the discussion. Men don't falsely accuse other men of rape, I'm assuming, because alcohol made them forget their "purity". Not sure I've ever heard of that happening at all to be honest. How about if a couple disagree on whether to terminate a…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 01:18 PM
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I'm not sure on that but my ex made my life hell while I was just trying to get out. He takes every opportunity to make shit difficult and gets away with it So this is just a shitty person thing I think.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 11:19 AM
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whole lot of these differences can be solved by saying "men/women I know usually do/think/act x, y, z" Using language to avoid setting off people's defenses is a wonderful start
/r/MensRights12/12/21 11:35 PM
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Believe it or not, you might actually already be replying to somebody who was actually being positive and an observant realist, simultaneously. But I understand the concept could be so far removed from what you're used to experiencing that its totally unexpected. Not sure why you felt the need to bring up "real men" or what you think women in general want but... okay? Strange peek into your brain but thanks? Could maybe defining gender equality by creating false narratives be a problem on both s…
/r/MensRights10/12/21 09:41 AM
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Neat concept. Sorry more people want to take a negative slant on this than want to hope.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 09:08 AM
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the funny thing is that people probably hear you say that and think 'ooh, how woke! what a nice male feminist!' fuck your virtue signaling 🤣 *Whatever side-ways ass judgmental bullshit you came here to say got ruined pretty much the second you opened your mouth. Thank god I don't have to listen to one more syllable Some bitter bitch coming at me, replying to my lighthearted humor. Get the fuck on with that shit
/r/MensRights09/12/21 04:13 PM
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You okay? Not like I'd expect you to expect a female besides the one who wrote the post to be in this sub, but last i checked, I do have a vag *and before you say fuck all about internalizing any fucking thing: I have a father and brothers and a son. I worry about them as much as I know they worry about me.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 02:50 PM
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If somebody got caught, somebody snitched. Still not acceptable.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 02:30 PM
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I could see how you thought i didn't read any of those long detailed definitions before making my comment
/r/MensRights09/12/21 11:07 AM
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you mean there's a word for it? I've just been avoiding the issue by saying I support gender equality
/r/MensRights09/12/21 11:02 AM
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Yeah that "Small titty women" is thing but I see your point
/r/MensRights05/12/21 07:43 AM
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That seems a bit unfair. Just because somebody has a preference, doesn't mean they're toxic. People who openly post about "short" men like the way the screenshot shows are toxic, I agree. But having a preference isn't wrong
/r/MensRights05/12/21 07:42 AM
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oh boy. those 9 retweets must be super influential people.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 02:15 PM
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I kept hearing things like "its just locker room talk" that say men have spaces. And MensRights is somewhat open to some debate but the overlap between MGTOW, TRP, and MensRights guarantees the MGTOW and TRPs are destroying any civil discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:54 PM
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TRP will just call them "crazy bitches" and laugh at any argument that doesn't support their views. So "calling them out" is feeding their cause, not opening debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:49 PM
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"reasons why equality is hurting us" is in their handbook (must read to post/comment) and that's exactly the moment I noped out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:45 PM
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They got people going to jail on weekends because they need to keep their livelihood and support families. Same thing.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 06:23 AM
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they call that being "under employed"
/r/MensRights11/08/21 11:57 PM
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Sounds lame in comparison to all these other stories but its always confused me. Young-ish male teacher in high school told me it was inappropriate to brush my hair in the classroom, at the end of class when everybody is already packing up to leave. He compared it to if he were to start shaving his face in class. We had an awkward moment before the bell rang and I just left. I wasn't styling my hair, I didn't have any mirrors out. I just had super long hair that needed a brushing every few hours…
/r/MensRights10/08/21 10:28 PM
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so in your mind, a majority of women accept dates because they're cheap or hungry? and it has nothing to do with the interest in the person
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:47 PM
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I think it would be more constructive if you focused on what would motivate you. "Many" isn't all so its not fair to those who don't belong to what you consider "many" to generalize Edit to add: to be clear, the fairness is to the person with this misconception, not the ones they project it on
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:42 PM
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you answered that free food and drinks would be your motivation. I'm not here to assume anybody's gender based on their reasons to accept a date. I can only know myself and i would be arrogant and ignorant to put words in anybody else's mouth
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:38 PM
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thank you for your honesty. do you think that will encourage a 2nd date? or is that not what you're interested in?
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:27 PM
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Would changing the question to "what motivates you to agree to a date?" change this conversation at all?
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:14 PM
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Not sure they meant the intention is to fuck after, but would you consider sleeping with the other person. Maybe this is just a misunderstanding due to wording.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:12 PM
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Sorry, I though "smash" meant fuck. So the guys who answered this question are already DTF, and somehow women saying they're not already thinking about fucking the dude is "disgusting"
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:08 PM
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I'm not exactly the poster child for understanding the female mind, but i don't want to sleep with somebody until after I get to know them so the two questions are fundamentally different to me.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 09:27 PM
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Yup. this conversation was over before it started.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:06 AM
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then i suppose i should ask questions instead of making assumptions. What divorce of America are you talking about? and what is the difference between what you call "woke America" and "liberty states of America" and did you mean for it to seem as though you don't think much of the "liberty" part?
/r/MensRights09/02/21 06:30 AM
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even worse, you think only your political pals can be "woke"
/r/MensRights09/02/21 06:20 AM
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yet you fail to see how my comment has nothing to do with ponytails and is all about how you seem think "woke" is a political platform, or belongs to one
/r/MensRights09/02/21 06:19 AM
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prepare for a surprise attack!
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:37 AM
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their cookie's got more chips, amirite?
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:36 AM
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No clue why you're getting downvoted for this. this is exactly what this sub wants to hear but for some reason, they think you're disagreeing with the original post, maybe? Or perhaps just the spirit of it ;)
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:21 AM
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see now its this kind of thing that made me unfollow quite a few of those groups. Its about being -more than human- and transcending the physical limitations yet here people are, making it a Right v Left thing instead trying to feel important and shit
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:14 AM
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to paraphrase another commenter, they ain't there to date
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:12 AM
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i remember that! I thought it was great
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:10 AM
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Daughter of a Marine, too, if it matters. So yeah, good chance our crazy was equivalent at some time. We were like rabbits or cats and dogs, but you start talking lizard people and angel numbers 24/7 and what dimension you recently ascended to and I'll have to pass my crazy crown to the clear winner and bounce
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:08 PM
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yes i'm doing this to annoy you
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:46 PM
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so besides the nitpicking at the discharge code, is what i said correct as far as the average person would know or care?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:46 PM
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or maybe there's no point?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:45 PM
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maybe its the part where i said this was years ago? or maybe its the part i left out that he and I got together about a decade after he was out?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:44 PM
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is his story the point? or is your need to correct something that didn't need corrected the point?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:43 PM
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fer serious if you're that into the particulars of this i will DM you but i was hoping the point was fucking clear from the start
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:26 PM
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Basically this MFer was too crazy for the Marines, which is saying something
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:19 PM
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and yes, according to Discharge for Dummies (/s) there is an OTH
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:05 PM
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yeah, it was a j4 or something. (this was the reenlistment code he told me was on his dd214. I can't find what the J supposedly stands for probably something to do with Judiciary or Judicial but the info i'm reading is at least correct with the 4 part of the code being ineligible to reenlist. I wasn't the one who was in the service so don't expect me to know all the terminology correctly, we split years ago) I just remember it was hella not good and kept him in a year longer than his contract, a…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:59 PM
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just imagine all the time and money that could be saved with a beard-compatible gas mask
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:13 PM
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yeah you do that in an emergency and make sure you have a few weeks' supply in your pack, my man the money was mentioned because i'm sure if you found a feasible way to get around the air-tight issue, the military would probably pay a bunch of money for such a break through.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:10 PM
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last question as I have things to do today: What if a man were sexually assaulted by another man and said that because of that, he felt uncomfortable around strange men? Would that be bigoted as well?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:53 PM
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its a matter of not breathing poison gas but ok
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:41 PM
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alright, i'm ready for your examples of major cultures that are matrilineal. I do accept that in nature, biology, history, whatever, women are less expendable then men and therefore the dangerous jobs such as hunting have been generally fallen to the males because one man can impregnate many women while one woman cannot bear many men's children at a time. Also, because of our big friggen heads, gestation and child rearing takes longer and leaves women vulnerable for longer. So we needed that pro…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:40 PM
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we can be better than that. That's why i tried to take the analogy away from stereotypes to something less personal. What about dogs? Do you also blame a person who's been bitten by a dog for being nervous around dogs?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:33 PM
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completely relevant! In his mind, how could a society run by women even be a thing? so it must have come about from a lack of rational thinking men, right? that's the kind of idiocy that feminism was aimed at, at one point. But because of that attitude that women are meant subservient and have one role in life (sex and child rearing) sticks so hard, it takes some extremes to show the really hard headed that being in that role isn't pleasant. So instead of blaming women for saying they feel uncom…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:28 PM
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what you're implying here is that men are and have been the marginalized group. And what we know of history is that men weren't the ones who were treated as second class citizens at best and property at worst. I get that feminism is a buzzword that sparks quite a lot of nasty imagery at times, but if you can't see how women have had to fight to gain recognition to simply be considered equal and the backlash from that oppression has caused some to slide to the other end of the extreme in an effor…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:19 PM
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Oh goodness. you've got this all wrong my friend. We learn this mindset as a result of our experiences with Whites. If anything, that's one of the good things the Black Panthers has done. It allows us to sniff out threats before they happen. ​ We learn this mindset as a result of our experiences with police. If anything, that's one of the good things BLM has done. It allows us to sniff out threats before they happen. Personal story time! One of my exes rationalized that because my culture was ma…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 05:11 PM
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I can see both sides of this and I'm trying to help mediate so both can understand the other better
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:52 PM
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group of what? and i really don't think that she feels that the only threat to her wellbeing is men, but that because of what she experienced she has learned to be more cautious (ie not drinking to excess) around men but does not ever say that all men are potential threats. Just that she knows better how to " sniff out threats before they happen" or in other words potentially dangerous situations involving men. Never once in all her comments did I see the words "all men pose a threat to me in my…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:50 PM
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okay but how is that demonizing men? she has learned to adapt from her own experience? Or are you talking about women educating other women on how to avoid predatory men?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:33 PM
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which? the TCX poster was lamenting the fact she hated feeling that way and the parent comment says the same
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:27 PM
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you realize the beard thing is about sealing out gases and such, right? if you can design an air-tight mask that fits around a beard, you could make a ton of money
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:22 PM
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PTSD is not about rationality. What do i do to keep myself from panicking on the road next to an 18 wheeler, potentially becoming a danger to others on the road, you ask? I didn't stop driving completely. I move myself away from the thing that triggers the same response i felt at the time of the accident. I keep my distance. I modify my behavior and don't expect those 18-wheelers to modify theirs, because its MY issue and i do what i have to in order to feel safe.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:17 PM
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die young and leave a pretty corpse
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:12 PM
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right! after everybody's head's been shaved to fit their headgear, gonna need some of those! what's wrong with adding a few extra pounds of makeup and hair to product their field packs? only makes them stronger!
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:11 PM
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there's a detail i did not know. But isn't the idiom "practice perfectly"?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:09 PM
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you're right! Basic is all about comfort
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:08 PM
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let's be honest. we all know where this is going "Alas, after a series of deadly blunders caused by distracting low-cut fatigues and lots of harmless pinching, the Army decided women weren't fit for service." Zapp Brannigan
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:06 PM
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<insert picture of Klinger>
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:26 PM
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i always thought the military discount was sum bullshit, too. My ex was in the Marines. They told him if they wanted him to have a wife, they'd assign him one. so yeah, cut dating too. Not just because she caused him a fuckton of trouble and his chivalry got him less than honorable discharge
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:20 PM
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call it "urban camouflage"
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:17 PM
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Sister <3
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:08 PM
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you didn't. but i think the point that was trying to be made is why let one bad apple yadda yadda. Its difficult for people to understand how trauma can affect one's self-preservation instinct if they haven't experienced it and it seems as though some people are just arguing one side without considering the other (and being hypocrites in the process) u/iloveyoubutyou it seems your mistake was using the buzzword, plain and simple. You make valid points but they may end up falling on deaf ears
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:03 PM
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I was in a car accident and I still feel strange driving next to a large vehicle. Trauma kind of does that to you
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:57 PM
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your response seems to imply that the poster in TXC is just giddy about it instead of lamenting the state of fear she has been taught to live in. She says she doesn't like how she feels in those situations but it is a conditioned response that she wishes was different. Honestly seems like it belongs on this sub rather than TXC
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:54 PM
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HAHA what's next? High heeled combat boots? pink assault weapons? where will the insanity end?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:34 PM
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no i actually mean vanity. If the women don't feel like women without make up, jewelry, and fingernail polish, then its all about their vanity. Has nothing to do with women having more than men, its more about how they feel they're viewed as females. I don't wear much of any of that and I still feel like a female because I have a vagina. I resent employers passing me over for jobs because I don't fem up. I love my jeans and tennis shoes and feel like make up and elaborate hair dos are a waste of…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:25 PM
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exactly! so how did the rule get changed at all? what are the specifics? I honestly didn't know that nail polish was a no-no. seems like a trivial thing until some guy gets hazed for having purple fingernails
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:22 PM
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i agree. the issue shouldn't be based on gender though. I feel that if the military is greenlighting such things for women, they should be okay for men, too. but you stated the truth of it. these things aren't allowed for safety reasons, and the fact that the military is changing the rules based on vanity is sort of disgusting PS stop downvoting the parent comment. She's on your side, guys
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:11 PM
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this sounds like a broader issue than gender. This happens in social groups and is a form of societal pressure. Humans being social creatures don't respond well to being isolated and will feel the need to conform ​ just my thoughts as this is something I have seen mixed gender groups do
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:03 PM
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Johnny hit Amber without physical abuse from her first ​ OH i didn't realize you were a witness! that changes everything
/r/MensRights03/02/21 01:51 AM
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Just because someone is abusing me doesn't mean I'd beat them when my life is not in danger sit there and be beaten on, then. Don't fight back when somebody is physically attacking you. if that works for you then coolsies. but you say you don't condone fighting back just because you don't think somebody is going to die? this make no fucking sense so i'm just mindblown about it. one punch to the head can and has killed people. Shit, i saw a video of a person getting shoved as they got off the cit…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 11:35 PM
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OMG you read ranker, ew and ok, just sit there and be beaten on, if that's how you handle it. Some of us have children to protect and have enough self preservation instinct to at least attempt to stop the abuser. Who are you to decide what a life-threatening situation is? Is that right before you black out while being choked? or is it when they continue choking you after you're unconscious? Maybe its just before a person commits suicide? Help me out with the particulars, i'm confused and you see…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 04:58 PM
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Sounds like you've never been in a toxic relationship, good for you. Being in one or two myself, i can say I am not entirely proud of the way I dealt with things at times. Each situation is unique and i do not condemn targets of abuse for responding in kind. tell me, over the last 40 years of his career, have you ever heard of him abusing anybody else? even being aggressive? Not saying he's never gotten upset in public, but nothing i've ever caught wind of
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:47 AM
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it did, but people often give abusers the benefit of the doubt, especially if the victim isn't ready to admit the situation they're in. She also had it in his head that nobody would believe him because women aren't as often or as publicly the aggressors. I am going to point out that throughout his lengthy career, NOTHING LIKE THIS HAS EVER COME UP. Johnny Depp has been in the limelight for forty years and has never, ever, ever been accused or even had a whiff of anything that resembled abuse. Wh…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:40 AM
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That would be libel. Had a friend from high school who was accused (and eventually found guilty of) abusing his position with a church youth group. The article reads the same. Funnily enough, also no follow up report on him.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 08:47 PM
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So maybe i'm shooting myself in the foot here, but I'm not sure how this advocates for men's rights. I read the articles I could find, unfortunately I haven't been able to find a follow up. But it reads exactly as any that I have seen that involve males as the perpetrator. If the news outlets had used your title, they would have been sued for libel.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 08:44 PM
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i simply inferred from the phrasing "mid-stroke" that if at that moment a female decides that she no longer wishes to engage and withdraws her consent and the male continues, that would not justify calling it sexual assault because she consented up to some point, even to penetration. Which i attempted to then compare to the reverse to see if the feelings are the same. If its not rape after the first no, even after penetration, then the reverse situation the male is also fucked because of your de…
/r/MensRights17/01/21 10:18 PM
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and now i have to call myself out for using the usual stereotypes in this scenario and not adding that its absolutely goes both ways as far as altered mental states, consent, and sexual activites
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:57 PM
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what i was referring to was the grey areas of consent like "she changed her mind after the fact". They'd both had a couple drinks. Maybe sober she would have refused. That is what i would consider a grey area. I don't think its fair of a woman to blame alcohol but we who have consumed or taken classes about alcohol consumption know that judgement is the first thing effected. So what appears to be consensual looks a lot more sexual assault-y the next day. And it is. Safest course of action for th…
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:55 PM
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I guess i have a different idea of how the "mid-stroke" thing works and i'm trying to apply it to, say, a guy on guy or female penetrating a male scenario. Penetration isn't necessary for the issue to arise but it makes it easier to apply across many different scenarios to see if it is indeed fair for everybody, which i'm hoping is still the goal. Gonna pose it this way: if you and your lady are already naked and engaged and she stuck something in your butt and you said at that moment that you d…
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:46 PM
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i may be going against the grain of the sub here but why we think the way we do at this point in time makes sense to me. The two examples you used are exactly the roles expected of males and females for*ever*: Women need to be physically attractive and are expected to raise children, males are supposed to be the laborers and providers. If you look at this from purely a survival stand point, these are the job assignments that have kept our species alive. Long gestation leaves the female vulnerabl…
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:37 PM
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i think the idea is that there have been grey areas like with consent that need to be clearly defined to everybody at a young age. Phys ed classes get segregated to spare some embarrassment but have ended up poorly teaching about the opposite gender (and i'm going to point the finger at conservatives in general about THAT) but if consent were clearly defined to both males and females, how to give consent and where the danger zones might be would be extremely beneficial
/r/MensRights17/01/21 06:59 PM
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I've always understood it to mean the generally more "male" traits but to an extreme. Or as a group effort to "enforce" those traits or roles. Personal story: Had to emergency move back home to help my mom after my dad passed, bf and kiddo hung back for about a month. It was my home town, i knew the region, had experience with the seasonal work that was available and rapport with the people. I found a job fairly quick and bf stayed home with our 2 year old. I worked the long hours in demanding c…
/r/MensRights17/01/21 06:38 PM
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that's why i prefer to be an equalist. A lot of problems are gender-neutral anyway, so why not look at it from both stand points, simultaneously
/r/MensRights17/01/21 05:46 PM
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I was looking for a sexy costume for my dude and was becoming a bit frustrated because the majority of costumes that showed in the search were work-related. This definitely inspired some disgust.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 05:29 PM
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You also have no understanding of what sexual harassment is. Are you the mom?
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:43 PM
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You need to understand sexual harassmebt better. Maybe take a class
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:42 PM
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The boy was teased, no rumors were soread. And his continuing to send notes after sge made it clear she did not want them IS sexual harassment
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:42 PM
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Yourself? You obviously didnt read the whole story
/r/MensRights31/10/18 05:54 AM
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Nobody threatened anybody with legal action exceot the mothr of the boy. The girl's parents are never mentioned but his mom is flipping some crazy shit after she was told that her son was teased by classmates who took the subject into inappropriate (for 9 year olds) territory, the cause of which being these multiple notes he keeps sending his classmate, who obviously does not want them. She was also told the consequences of any further notes (and im guessing on the phrasing) could lead to an off…
/r/MensRights31/10/18 03:36 AM
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Allergic to reading? It became an issue because the boy in question was bullied by his classmates over this
/r/MensRights31/10/18 03:26 AM
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You mean not reading the details of the story and just spreading your word vomit?
/r/MensRights31/10/18 03:24 AM
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Pics or it didnt happen 😁 Btw youre supposed to change the tampon every so often. Your manner of speech implies that you are not a woman, sorry for assuming your gender 😆
/r/MensRights31/10/18 03:22 AM
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No I read the article and the comment comes directly from the parent comment so how am I fucked in the head?
/r/MensRights30/10/18 08:47 PM
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Allowing time to pass is a big factor. Becoming friends and learning more about the person you hold a flame for is a way to be close and care for them, minus the sexual relationship.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 08:43 PM
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"men have an ineluctable drive to mate, and more often than not, that drive is going to be directed at women" That implication of forced sex is also where the subject of rape came from
/r/MensRights30/10/18 08:24 PM
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Who pissed in your cheerios? How did i shit on male sexuality? What do you refer to when you say male sexuality?
/r/MensRights30/10/18 08:21 PM
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Sorry did my having a vagina insult you? Why so hostile? Rape is pretty high on that gender inequality list. Thats where that comes from. And if you cant take the time to explain male nature, why bother responding? Youre male nature is by no means any more or less important than any female nature. Having a penis does not make you superior, neither does having a vagina.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 08:19 PM
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What part of protection involves rape? Or being classed as the smaller, physically weaker creature? Both genders excel in different areas of physical strength typically. Its equality thats the goal; not "men are inferior and need overthrown". I dont deny there are some extreme feminists but some one who truly cares about gender inequality knows that males have just as many fantastical expectations, societial pressures, and negative stereotypes as females. There are unfair expectations for men to…
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:30 PM
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Since sending notes to somebody after they have asked him to stop is also bullying behavior and because it involves romantic behavior it does indeed border on sexual harrassment and it could be written up as such in his school record IF he chooses to continue to ignore the requests of the girl, the school, and (i hope) his own mother to leave the girl alone
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:11 PM
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I feel that the phrase was introduced by the school, trying to sort out this nasty mess of 9ish year olds teasing this boy, not the girl's family (who wasnt mentioned in the article at all). The boy was teased pretty badly and seemingly hoping to resolve the issue contacted the boy's mother to inform her of the incident and let her know the cause was the notes he sent repeatedly to a girl who did not want them. Since sending notes is the behavior that prompted the bullying, this is the behavior …
/r/MensRights30/10/18 07:06 PM
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Change those gender pronouns to whatever suits you
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:59 PM
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Asking a girl out once is fine. Continuing to ask her out frequently after she's declined is harrassment
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:58 PM
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No. The boy was teased after somebody else got one of the notes the crush didnt want. So mom decides to create a sensation over the school asking her to explain to her son that if the person doesnt want notes, quit sending notes. She also blamed the school for her son being the target of bullying saying they didnt protect him.
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:54 PM
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I read the full article that was linked and it says the boy has been passing many notes that the crush did not care to receive. The message itself wasnt offensive or crude, but letting the boy understand that continuing to do something that you've been asked to stop is essential right now. This poor kid apparently was teased after somebody else found it and pretty inappropriately as fourth graders are bound to do about such matters. So not only did he get singled out for his perceived affections…
/r/MensRights30/10/18 06:46 PM
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This really isn't about habitual female predators. Its more about people realizing that gender stereotypes are harmful to men as well. It's okay to say no, no matter your sex. Having sex doesn't make you manly, not having sex doesn't make you less of a man.
/r/MensRights29/11/17 03:41 PM
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