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| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAlways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Old Joke: "If men got pregnant, there'd be an abortion clinic one every corner."Adding to this; gestational diabetes, permanent anatomy changes (can be as benign as larger feet/hips, but can be more serious too), permanent hormone changes, onset of autoimmune conditioms, nerve damage (sometimes from pushing too hard), and the general issues that can come from surgery or medical procedures such as infection, blood loss (I've read of this resulting in emergency hysterectomy) and many, many other problems. Childbirth is no joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | And this folks, is how women went obsoleteThe robots are always way too far down in the uncanny valley | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 12:51 PM |
| 8 | Why Do Men Report More Opposite-Sex Sexual Partners (N-count) Than Women?66 Laughs in biology, I've NEVER seen a study with an sd that big omg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women who don't get asked out exist?Ehhh kind of. We all lived in small towns, but went to university in a big city nearby. None of us actually moved out for university (it's very normal for people to stay at home even if they're studying here), so it wasn't like we were moving to a new place. And since we weren't moving to new places we were very used to the city already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Do women who don't get asked out exist?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 8 | Do women who don't get asked out exist?Totally feel you. A lot of people said I was fairly attractive (or at least above average) in high school, and I was a competitive swimmer then later cyclist so I had a fit body. But I always wore super baggy clothes; oversized blazer, ill-fitting shirt, skirt down to my knees (British uniform), never styled my hair or wore makeup, and very much kept to myself and my little group of friends. I think since I didn't signal extroversion with my appearance or demeanor, I was completely ignored, or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 22 | Do women who don't get asked out exist?Of course they exist lmao. I was friends with a lot of "invisible" women and high school (and still now I'm in uni), and would probably consider myself ome as I've only been explicitly asked out once. These women weren't unattractive, they were mostly average though cute/pretty, and some were genuinely beautiful. But they were usually very conservative, didn't participate in fashion/makeup, and were EXTREMELY introverted/shy. They didn't go to bars, clubs, and some rarely did ANYTHING social, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?Personally for me, I'm not very attracted to the behaviour that you mention in the post, ie. Makeup, fashion, other accessories. I think part of it is that I don't really engage in it myself, and it's hard to be attracted to someone who DOES engage in it, as it indicates different personality types. I also think that a lot of guys don't really know how to apply makeup etc, I've seen some male MUAs do it and it can look amazing, but the average feminine straight man usually looks a bit sloppy whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?No lol, I'm 50kg at 5'2", and run a lot. I just struggle with social and romantic situations and have just not wanted anything to do with them bc they make me so nervous. I've been asked out a handful of times by guys but have rejected basically everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationshipsThis exactly. They have some unrealistic expectations about how much sex it is realistic to have in a marriage, especially if you have other obligations (and/or experience shame for your sexuality?...) I also wonder how many of them prioritise the pleasure of their partner in these relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationshipsThis exactly! It's rare to get a virgin partner who will have sex with you immediately (like on the first date timeline), heck it's rare to get a virgin partner who ISN'T waiting for marriage. Some of these guys say they'll be fine with waiting for these women, but many also don't believe in marriage?... likewise, they also seem to want women in relationships/marriages who will have sex with them frequently. I'm not saying that virgin women are "prudes" who don't enjoy sex, but I will say that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationshipsI think if anything some guys irl consider it to be a red flag to still be a virgin past a certain age, as it implies heavy conservatism, being deeply religious, or otherwise being asexual/having trauma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Lol, sorry! I though you were taking irl ideas here too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:21 PM |
| 4 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I see, I thought you were applying it to the real world too. What I was basically saying was that, irl, men who want virgins generally imply it with "values" (generally religious), or frame it in terms of personality. That's what they would do to get it irl. In terms of the men here, I'm not too sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I understand why you chose them, what I'm saying is that from what I've seen (I grew up around many Catholics and Muslims), this explicit narrative of virginity is less something that is communicated ("I want a virgin"), but rather framed as a concordance of values, of which virginity just ~happens~ to be a part of. That's not to say that female oppression ISN'T present in these circles, or that this is always the case; I just wanted to provide a different perspective on this matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationshipscertain segment or the population I think that's the point, there. Maybe there would be more incentive for women to follow this imperative if this was the majority view, and/or if they had very few options surrounding dating. But as it stands, most women can probably just leave a relationship if a guy is being shitty about their past. And the extent to which PPDers act as if it's a big deal for women to not be "chaste" seems wayyyyyy overblown on the internet, compared to what women seem to expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:54 PM |
| 3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I think it can be somewhat common for people who are virgins/low n-count, to want to partner up with people who are like that too. But I don't even always think it's a religious thing, and even when it is, it's likely a result of wanting to partner up with people with similar values to you, rather than a fanatic obsession with purity. That's not to say that there's never extreme ideologies that contribute to this obsession, and that personality overcomes religion in this regard, but this is just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?Nope. I have never slept with anyone. Why do you ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | What are some contradicting points you've seen from people in this sub, that you'd like them to clear up?What about straw men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?Haha fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?Just because you believe that women's behaviour doesn't correspond to their words, doesn't invalidate my criticism that you shouldn't tell them what they think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 5 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?Currently have an n count of zero. I've generally been very repulsed when men talk about having hiiiigh n counts; not as people/friends or anything, more power to them for getting what they want, but the idea of being in a relationship with a man like that is absoloutely not for me. It would also imply that they do a lot of partying or dating, which is incompatible with my personality, as I'm quite a homebody. I would prefer a guy similar to me, with a low/zero n count, as I think we would be mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 11 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?So glad when men tell women what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testI mean, if that's what you're doing then I'm not sure what you would like me to say? That's just me explaining what I meant with the comment. But I can't give you any deeper secrets, I'm not a man who dates women, I'm only using experience of men I know in my life. That's not the exact defenition of "manic pixie dream girl" I was using, I meant it closer to the neurotic sort who struggle getting their life in order and end up taking it out om their partner. At least that's something I saw quite … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testI'm no expert, and I can only speak from personal experience. However, I notice that a lot of the men in my life that seemed to get burned by women that they dated, seemed to go for the same type of women. They were either the "manic pixie dream girl", similar to the trope that you see in popular media, and are often quite neurotic, leading to these guys getting hurt. The second is probably closer to what trp would call "Stacys". I notice that the men I know would get into relationships with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testToo real. No wonder they believe in AWALT, it probably messes their head up if they experience it so often. Of course the issue here may be with their partner choice, but they don't want to hear that.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manI think the building of the tension can be very electric. It can build feelings too. It always makes me care more than when a guy I've spoken to once and don't know anything about asks me on a date out of the blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manfemale social matrix Interesting word choice. What do you think this is, quantum mechanics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Why Do Women Not Think N-Count Matters?Damn you hit the nail on the head! What an excellent way to put it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (15 November 2020)Haha I'm happy to share some musical knowledge! I never played flight of the bumblebee, bc my teacher was all ~you need to learn intonation~ and though it was pointless to just get me to play fast. Plus it would sounds very bleh on the clarinet. I actually find something like Bald Mountain suuuuper hard to play, especially as 1st clarinet, you have crazy rhythms and leaps, lots of fast tongueing and fingering (hehehe) and somehow have to play both what the basson and strings play (which is commo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (15 November 2020)It's the more common translation of Mussorgsky's piece, but Night on Bare Mountain is also accepted. Though the less common (but correct) title is actually Saint John's Even on Bald Mountain. I don't speak Russian, so idk if it's as euphemistic there, but I know that translating it into my native Slovak language, it's not euphemistic at all. It was meant to visualise a Witch's Sabbath occuring on St. John's eve, on a mountain. The original composition is for choir and orchestra, while what we pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Has real or perceived male preference for low n-count ever impacted you or another woman you know?This post hoc justification hamster could power LA You know you're in too deep with ppd when you understand what someone is actually trying to say with this word salad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 02:12 AM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (15 November 2020)They're talking about posts, mate. How often do posts get made on that subject? You can't really stop groups of people from commenting about n-count, they just want posts about it to take a breather. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (15 November 2020)I just found a metal cover of Night on Bald Mountain, which I just played an online version of with my orchestra. It's like some final boss music, and it made me feel like I was wayyyyy cooler that what I really am, an orchestral musician who spent too much time trying to tune some D#s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?How am I annoyed lmao I just explained a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?I'm being sarcastic, since you said "I don't give an f" like you're trying to be a badass, but like you said it's a coward move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 06:32 PM |
| 10 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?Watch out, we've got a badass over here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Men who want independent womenThis is a great way to put it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 12:10 PM |
| 4 | So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations?I feel this. I was sexualised as an adolescent teen when I wore competitive swimming costumes at training, I got these sus comments from my coach about how I looked that I only realised what they meant years later, and I was about 13/14 at the time. And I've been catcalled wearing school uniforms, loose-fitting outfits and working clothes. It's a world that sexualises you no matter what you wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?Agreed. If we were all nasty to each other unless we were interested, the worls would be a pretty dark place. Yet every time we are nice to each other, we are flirting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 October 2020)I feel you that the toned look is nice, but I do feel that people with it tend to get too much hate thrown at them. It's a pretty understandable body to have, especially if you work long hours or have more time consuming hobbies that aren't just going to the gym. I know I get really insecure when I lose my tone, but then I'm like... I play 1st clarinet in a symphony orchestra while being a full time chem student, cut yourself some slack lol. Lose skin is SUCH a bitch. It's also pretty demoralisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 October 2020)Yeah I wish I could tighten it up again ngl. I've always wanted the sort of weightlifting body, but I've literally been advised by my doctor and an orthopedic physiotherapist to not do it haha. The swimmer body was also awesome, but swimming pools in my area are dominated by clubs that make it so you can never get a workout in. Yoga and bodyweight exercises (and general cardio) have been the closest I've gotten to getting back to my old physique without damaging my body. Tbh I find that the skin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 October 2020)And you can still have lowkey flabby arms and be really thin. Like I used to have really big biceps from being a competitive swimmer who could sprint really fast from having a lot of brute strength, but I lost all the muscle when I quit and now I do running and cycling instead, but the skin on my upper arms stretched a lot from that period so I still have hanging skin there, despite being 50kg at 5'3". And that's despite doing pushups and other chest workouts regularly, except I can't lift due t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 October 2020)Was never more shook in my life than during that scene where the girl and her brother are driving in the car. My jaw just fell to the ground and I actually had to pause and recoup for a few mins. The mother's cries of absolute despair were probably the most heartbreaking I've ever seen in media, and the scene where the parents had the dinner with the son was just so palpable and felt so realistic. Toni Collette was really the standout performance in that movie imo. I've enjoyed her performances … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 October 2020)Yeah if you've ever done any sports that require significant arm strength, you'll know this is pretty bullshit. Or if you just have a triange-shaped upper body rather than carrying weight in your midsection/bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Srs Question, Why are British women so ugly?Also - not enough sunlight. I live in Scotland, and everyone is extremely pallid, lack of vitamin D makes them look exhausted, being pale makes acne and discolouration more obvious. Then a lot of women try to compensate with heavy makeup and fake tan, and it causes their face to look orange while still having the paleness underneath. One of my uni friends is Japanese, and you could see her slowly getting paler and sicker looking the more time she spent here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | YASSSSS KWEEN, MORE 👏 FAT 👏 REPRESENTATION 👏 FOR 👏 WOMEN 👏I also don't get the comment, bc the movie took place in 1989, the book in 1959, and we're comparing this fictional universe to a real-life woman's experience in 2020? I mean, body standards were a LOT more strict around the time IT would have taken place, and bullying was a lot more cruel. It's a funny comparison, though maybe that's the point since it's purge week. Side note, Ben grows up to be a Chad in the book too, and there it's sort of made to be a point about how his mother smothered him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?Exactly! Tbh I always think of how many people talk about how they're in student debt... and I know it's not as simple as cheap wedding = no student debt. But it could make a significant dent, and I don't think people are thinking of things like this. I always think of it in terms of how many musical instruments I could buy with (any money). And if I had £20,000 I would straight up be set for life with that hobby lol. And I could never take out student loans again just for good measure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?Whenever I hear about weddings like these, I think of all the better things that money could have been spent on. You could sometimes get another university degree, live in a better house, save for retirement or put your kids though uni, spend it on stuff you'll actually get a lot of enjoyment out of like hobbies... but no. Pretty dress day is more important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, do you workout?Mad hunger has been the thing that stopped me from working out as much as I've wanted to. I used to be a competitive swimmer, and the amount of food I would get through when I finished training was horrifying. All I could think about was food. Even later, when I started going to university I would spend 1-1.5 hours s day walking around (either as part of the commute or around campus) and was constantly hungry. I do love being in shape, but it can be a significant drawback, I feel you on tje hang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Women's concerns around dating and relationships w men?And even vasectomies can have bad side effects and people can be allergic to condoms. Madness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Are women less likely to be introverted compared men?Lol. I think it's in a lot of people's nature to never try anything different, even to the detriment of their future selves. But they don't like being told that... so, downvoted! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Are women less likely to be introverted compared men?Lol exactly. I go to parties to tag along with my more social friends, and they're certainly not my favourite place to be but I'm proud of myself for pushing myself out of my comfort zone. It's made me more likely to push myself in situations where it actually matters, like running for committee roles in university societies. Reddit introverts need to get out of their comfort zone sometimes instead of just shitting on other's while taking no imperative to actually go out and do stuff like this t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 09:16 AM |
| 11 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.Yikes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 4 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.I wonder what an 18 year old is offering him, too! I mean, I'm 19, and what can I really offer apart from only being able to go on really cheap dates, not being able to go out every night bc I still live with my parents, having absolutely no relationship or sexual experience, and very little free time or disposable income bc I'm a university student? But nah, youth is eveything to these guys lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 09:45 AM |
| 5 | Q4Women, have you ever been around a guy that cockblocked himself with you by saying/doing some stupid shit?I went on a "low-key" date with a friend of a friend, where we never explicitly said we were interested in each other (or, moreso he was interested in me), but it was obvious. It was going well, we were getting along... and then out of nowhere he starts telling me about how he asked out one of my friends and got ghosted by her, how he doesn't know how to take it and if I knew anything about it. It made me wonder if I had misinterpreted literally everything that has ever happened between us. But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.What alternatives would you prefer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.If you don't want to earn more than your wife, and still be expected to do more housework, then leave the relationship, be with a woman who earns more, or gyow, or go tradcon. If your issue is that women expect more than they give, then we're back to my original argument that Men also want more than they provide It's in our nature to be selfish and want the best of both worlds And I'm not talking about the context of not having comparable relationship values, but that a lot of trp men who want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.But I disagree that men are necessarily held to the same traditions as they were under patriarchy. I mean... even without points I've mentioned (expecting kinky sex, wanting their wives to earn their own money), a lot of modern men are also simply not as family orientatated as they were under patriarchy imo. A lot of them don't even want kids/marriage, which is fine but that's it's own double standard! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.Well, women didn't like the deal they got under patriarchy, so they rebelled against it. And many men seemingly agreed with them, hence we have something closer to the system we have now. If you don't like the modern way, then don't follow it. You can GYOW, find a tradcon wife, find a women who works more hours or earn more than you, have STRs for sex or casual relationships where you don't cohabitate. If a man is an idiot to agree to it, don't do so. But I personally disagree that under patriar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.When you add it up, men work more hours outside the home, women work more hours outside the home, and the total hours added up are basically equal. Ok I see what you mean The reason women complain anyway is they see the man earning more as a given that they are entitled to avail of I actually agree with this. Men being the breadwinners, or at least primary earners, is seen as the default. And I do believe that man of their wives can take advantage of this, or emasculate men if they don't earn mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.The problem is that happens to many men in marriages DESPITE the women not being virgins. At least if she's a virgin it's worth the risk. Ok fair enough, if you don't mind being deadbedroomed by your wife that is a virgin I suppose you put your money where your mouth it. Not really. I mean... there literally is. Unless all the women with n-counts 1-5 or so are also hoes just for like... having sex with one or more people? Men on average also work more hours outside the home, IN ADDITION TO earni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 17 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.If you're not gonna marry a virgin, she better fuck like a ho or otherwise what's the point of waking up to the same aging boring face every day when women will fuck you and even bear your children without so much as a first name? Are you really saying that, if you married a virgin, you would be fine with having boring missionary sex once a month, and then being deadbedroomed several years into a marriage/after kids? And if that's fine with you, do you think other men think the same as you, or d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 16 | Women want the protection and chaperoning of patriarchy without the accordant obligations. It'll never work.Many modern men (or ar least the men of trp/ppd) also want the benefits of patriarchy and modern society with none of the disadvantages. They want to have the modern sex, where they get to sleep with many women often, and without using protection thanks to the advanced modern birth control. They also want the wild sex acts like BDSM, anal, and kinky stuff that women under strict patriarchy would not have participated in. Likewise, they like that many women are self-sufficient and have their own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.I know exactly what you mean about selfishness. I also feel that having children you can't provide for is selfish. I want to go into academia, which is not really going to bring in the big bucks for a comfortable life haha. I am lucky I will be graduating with very little debt (Scottish government pays my tuition fees) but even still, anything could happen. I do watch Jenny Mustard occasionally, I enjoyed her videos about style. I love her aesthetic, as I am striving towards zero waste and minim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating?Ah I think I understand where you're coming from. I wasn't saying you were applying AWALT necessarily, just that a lot of this sub does. I understand the tendency to zone out when other people talk about their interests even when you love them. This may ultimately come down to men and women on average having different interests. My father and I for example, are both extremely interested in cycling and home improvement. We can talk for hours about diy, upholstery, woodwork etc. But when some of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.Thank you for the statistics. They are very interesting. I agree that this will apply to university in this way. Though in my experiences, the women that seem more interested in having children, are right wing. While women who wish to remain childless are left. I completely agree with your goals. I would want the same for myself. I want to focus on my career, hobbies, and my relationship with my friends and family. My family emigrated to Britain when I was 7, and I have seen how much my parents … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating?In a sense, I can understand what you mean, because other people's hobbies CAN feel less significant to others because they don't understand them, or they feel they are "pointless" or whatever. Many people I play with make fun of gaming as a hobby, just as an example, often mentioning how they ~spend hours practising while their roommate messes about on COD ~ or whatever. But I feel that on this sub all women are assumed to have no hobbies or accomplishments because AWALT or something. I underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.I don't doubt that many women change their minds, especially if they're faced with eg. A pregnancy. The only women that i know that want kids, have either already had them in their teens or are highly religious. I myself do not want to be pregnant, but am not sure if I want to adopt. Then again, the majority of the women I know are only in university, so we may change our minds yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating?I agree. It's definitely nice to be admired for looks, it can be an ego boost. But it can easily veer into feeling like you are only being admired for your looks or, in the case of older men, for your ~youth~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.I haven't spent that much time there, so idk of they are "normal" or not, but many of them DO mention that they have a husband/boyfriend. They could be larping ofc, but I would bet quite a few are telling the truth. They don't seem as bitter as mgtow tbh. I've also noticed the sentiment irl. Many women, who are at least moderately attractive or in relationships, seem to not want kids anymore. I know that PPD says they'll probably have baby rabies in their late 30s, or change their mind, but I ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.I would like to point out that it is a LOT more acceptable these days, for women (and men) to decide that they do not want to marry and/or have children, while still cohabiting and in a relationship. With the huge rise in the availability of birth control and the lessened stigmatisation of being unwed at a later stage and/or choosing not to have children, I believe that the decline discussed in the op could very easily be primarily due to choice. I mean, look at the popularity of subs like Child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 42 | Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating?For me personally, my abilities are a big part of my personality and my overall experience as a person. For example, one of my hobbies is playing in a symphony orchestra; I have spent thousands of hours on this, through playing/listening to classical music, I believe it has made me more resilient and determined as a person. I have also met a lot of my closest friends through it. It is a huge part of my life, and I would want any man I date to at least appreciate it, even if he does not necessari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | In sickness and in health - Increased divorce during pandemic?That's nice to hear. I don't talk to many people outside of my family that much, so I believe I would be more lonely if I lived alone. Most of my social interaction pre-covid came from playing in a symphony orchestra; of course it is not possible to partake in that right now, hence my reduced social contact. However I would rather live alone than with a significant other at this moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | In sickness and in health - Increased divorce during pandemic?Lol harsh! Tbh I live in a small town where most every adult lives with their parents and it's been driving most of them up the wall. I do feel worse for them since you don't exactly choose your family. I am jealous of you living alone! Though I feel I might get somewhat lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | In sickness and in health - Increased divorce during pandemic?It's a bit of a crazy filter, though; it's not the sort of thing you can prepare for. I actually wonder how many relationships that would have been perfectly fine/healthy were torn apart by this. It's also been quite hard to even have online relationships since you can't even go on dates and stuff. Yeah my family have survived emigrating to a new country and being isolated from our whole family/friends in a new country where we didn't know the language. We were like this is nothing in comparison… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | In sickness and in health - Increased divorce during pandemic?Situations like those shown in op's comment are honestly the reason why I'm so glad I spent covid locked in with my family rather than an SO. These are people who I've spent all my life with, and we've gone through similarly difficult situations together, who know when to give me space etc.; yet we still struggled. I can't imagine having to negotiate a relationship/marriage, spending time raising kids, all while perhaps stuck in a tiny flat, and NOT going insane with all of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:12 PM |
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