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Well you can hope he watches less, I doubt "anymore". From what you said about your BF, hes definitely heavily dependent on porn and its going to take a lot of work for him to separate his sexuality from porn and make it all about you and him together instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:56 AM
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I have a problem with ignorant aging wives believing the bullshit that their husbands spew at them. "happy wife happy life". Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:50 AM
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Lead how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:45 AM
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I find it crazy that a person like this doesn’t organically meet others Did you organically meet your partner? unless they are extremely introverted. Incorrect. They are just plain. Women don't really appreciate plain or quirky men. normal woman. Normal women have sky high standards from social media so more normal men will end up single than low life men. Low life women have low standards. "Normal" women are pining for chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:35 AM
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Just wondering why you wives think your any different from "trad wives". yall are the same to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:19 AM
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Do you agree that assholes are confident and women love confident men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:10 AM
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You don't cook or clean? Or make your husband feel like a man. Hmm... I wonder what you do then. Seems you don't bring much to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:10 AM
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I’ve only ever existed in a circle where “normal” meant middle class or UMC, most of us went to college I have multiple friends who went to college and struggle with women. One was in a frat. Hes never had a girlfriend. Hes an accountant in a big city. I have another friend who owns his own house and hes had a girlfriend in the past but not for many years. He only looks online though. You can tell women have kind of broken him by their lack of interest and hes lost all motivation, its sad. We us…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:06 AM
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But you agree that women love assholes, in general, right? As long as you have confidence, a woman will love you, even if youre a fucking asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:01 AM
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You cook, clean, praise your husband. What do you think trad wifes are doing that is different than what you are doing? yes a couple who has children is very different than one who does not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:55 AM
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Whats the difference between you and a trad wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:45 AM
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It can also be escalatory fantasies. Kinks. ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:35 AM
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Considering men are judged for much more than their appearance, there are definitely plenty of "hot" incels out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:30 AM
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There are no hot radfems. Bitter ugly women mad that they lack the sexual power that other women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:05 AM
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Youre a trad wife
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:04 AM
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But its not the same thing. One is on a screen. One is a dick slapping up inside her over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:45 AM
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I am a very good person actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:44 AM
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Many men need to imagine other thing regardless of how attracted they are to their partner. Its called erotic escalation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:40 AM
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31% of men don’t consume porn at all. Where did you get this fake ass statistic? Your husband DEFINITELY watches porn btw. Any man who can't even admit to watching it a little is fucking liar, but you women love to trust these guys and their lies, so demented. If he was honest with you and admitted to the times he watched it, then you could have more trust, but you've bullied him into saying ridiculous lies because of he knows you'd flip your shit if you found out he jerked off to porn sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:37 AM
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Because the other girl may twerk her naked ass for him, do you do that? No ?? Then why are you shocked that he wants to see that? He doesn't get it from you. The girl on the screen provides
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:35 AM
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It’s something that’s just ours, involving only the two of us physically, emotionally, and mentally. Its not just yours. It also includes anyone you've ever had sex with, and any porn derived fantasies he has involved himself with and then applied to you. All have imprinted on you both and "contribute" to your sex life, making it not just "yours".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:34 AM
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What happens when one of you is in the mood and the other one is not. Sounds more like you just let him have sex with you or get him off regardless of how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:31 AM
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I think it makes a difference. Women can look at porn if they want to, why don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:29 AM
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He deserves better. She used her wiles on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:26 AM
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But those were real experiences. Not on a screen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:13 PM
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If women did the same thing men do (masturbate daily to hot young men who look nothing like them) I doubt how "accepting" they'd be of such behavior They just literally have sex with those men. So much better....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:02 PM
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Ya my best girl friend admitted to me that she is not very attracted to her husband. Hes actually quite handsome, tall but hes kind of very "nice" and she has for example fucked some foreign guys that in her words "they just take what they want". So I imagine he is less exciting than those guys. He makes a ton of money and they have two children. She hasn't even slept with that many guys, I'd guess 8-10. But a few were enough to kind of ruin her and whatever. I don't know what to make of it. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:00 PM
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So you don't talk?! what do you talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:16 PM
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who couldn’t care less about women Do any of them struggle with women and getting into bad relationships, picking ugly, lame women ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:05 PM
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Huh, thats weird. My experience is that even if you are looking like a stud you still have to bring at least some charisma and charm to have a woman sleep with you. I've literally watched this happen in front of my eyes. So you will sleep with a guy purely on his looks even if hes lame as fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:01 PM
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How does travel make people more interesting then? Try being a bit specific. You realize any boring introverted shy fuck can decide to travel?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:59 PM
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Cause tey fuck men. Shes including men in the "partners".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:57 PM
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So what happens when you get divorced and the next guy doesn't give you "instant orgasm"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:56 PM
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Porn is definitely ruining men. The funny thing is most women are such weak little submissives that they can't even put down a "no porn" boundary, they know their man will 1) leave them 2) lie about it and watch it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:55 PM
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Porn is definitely cheating. When I jerk off to porn I am not thinking about my partner AT ALL. I'm literally salivating over another woman, wishing she was right there IRL instead of on the screen, in that moment the porn is the mainshow, you don't even think about your partner when you are watching porn. Its basically the same thing as going out and fucking someone for real, its the same reaction going off in your head. In fact porn is often much more exciting than actual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:52 PM
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You seem to think that traveling is somehow not an investment or growth opportunity Its not. Travel doesn't make people more interesting. It just leads to basic conversations "Oh, I have been to Norway, do you know what Fjords are? Oh they have saunas out on the bay in Oslo, it was super cool!". Going to norway did not make me a better flirt, or better at entertaining women. Women ONLY care about being entertained, and saying "I went here and it was cool" is NOT entertaining. They'd rather some …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:46 PM
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Travel doesn't make people more interesting. It just leads to basic conversations "Oh, I have been to Norway, do you know what Fjords are? Oh they have saunas out on the bay in Oslo, it was super cool!". Going to norway did not make me a better flirt, or better at entertaining women. Women ONLY care about being entertained, and saying "I went here and it was cool" is NOT entertaining. They'd rather some guy whose never travelled in his life have some juicy gossip about some bullshit or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:45 PM
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So you like his conversation to get you into bed, then you don't like his conversation anymore, strange
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:41 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:34 PM
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I'm picky when it comes to LTRs and having children with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:33 PM
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But women fuck chads before settling. Men don't fuck stacys before settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:16 PM
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And women date ugly ass guys specifically because of their status, men don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:15 PM
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Having status is having lots of friends and a big social circle because everyone wants to be around you for one reason or another
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:14 PM
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Gay men does not effect the men statistic.... stop deflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:12 PM
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Are women who ended up in relationship with them are also bad? Yep. Those women get off on their mans exercise of power and bullying through their status
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:10 PM
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I agree with this. Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:10 PM
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lots of people have sex with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:07 PM
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And I'm glad to see Gen Z have such an aversion to age gap relationships. Hint hint. They don't have any such aversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:57 AM
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Ohhhhh, I found another one whose husband "doesn't watch porn".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:53 AM
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Thats because you were becky once. And you gave it up to those guys. So its not weird, its normal for Becky to give it up to those guys, then she "wises up" and the cycle repeats
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:34 AM
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He didn’t pay them. His family is in the strip club business. He just knows a lot of strippers. errrmmmmm I don't know how to tell you this, but most strippers are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:18 AM
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Ok but your in the wrong thread. This thread is for women to bash older men and say they all want to fuck 25 year olds their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:17 AM
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Yikes. How do we men go about avoiding those women, do ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:16 AM
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Woah little lady, I'll have to you know, I am quite hot. Lot of 25 year olds look like shit compared to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:15 AM
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Has had lots of threesomes with strippers and that kind of thing. Hes probably paid a bunch of whores too if those are his circles. Ask me how I know. You really see to be proud though of dating this guy hehe, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:13 AM
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Ok, so what about 18? is that pedo?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:12 AM
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And yes I would because I’m also in college lol. Ok so youre irrelevant to this conversation then. Thanks. I didn't say that older men are physically more attractive than younger men, I said that older women don't like to fuck with younger guys, regardless of how great they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:10 AM
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Seems like you run in weird circles. How do you feel about the fact that those guys are getting off to their fetish of you being older?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:09 AM
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Why is it a weird question, you said you went to sex parties in the "lifestyle". Theres tons of videos of "lifestyle" women with black guys, seems like a normal quesitons if you declare that youre in the "lifestyle" THey even have parties where its all black guys fucking all white women, in big orgies. SOrry, thats your "lifestyle" that your in, not mine. I'm just asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:07 AM
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College boys are not fucking 40+ year old women. Or even women in their 30s rarely. Are you saying you would have sex with a college kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:02 AM
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Did you fuck bbc black guys in the lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:00 AM
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Yes instead they have a grandpa-bent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:59 AM
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It’s extremely common. In media. Its a trope for horny guys with MILF Fetishes. Not IRL. I don't know any older women dating younger men in any of my social circles or even general aquaintances or anything. Meanwhile I know multiple women who are dating men who could be their dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:58 AM
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If the beer belly has a big dick you will pick it over the little dick 6 pack every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:56 AM
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Right and you would never date someone in his 20s at your age. By the way where are you meeting all these boy tois for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:54 AM
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What about 16 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:53 AM
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I don't make the rules. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:52 AM
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The world where the vast majority of women date and have sex with men older than them. And don't fuck college bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:52 AM
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I do know that you don't like men younger than you. It makes you feel icky and you think of them as babies and immature or some shit like that. You've rather have a grizzled daddy, and then a young boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:45 AM
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Women don't find younger men attractive. A 40 year old women would rather date a 55 year old man, wrinkles and all, over a 25 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:43 AM
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They have less wrinkles and plumper butts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:41 AM
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Women aren't attracted to men younger than them. UNless they are exotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:40 AM
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No, I don't think women keep secret sexual basements hidden away from their partners, but they do hide former partners. both genders have ways of hiding the fact that they have devalued their partners through their own sexual actions. But its not "the same"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:43 AM
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Women as a group are ignorant of male sexuality, so why would you be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:33 AM
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Because most men keep a secret mental sexual basement separate from their wives, because women like you can't handle the ins and outs of male sexuality. And you have no desire to. You prefer the image of your husband without all that baggage. All I said is that its a COMMON refrain from men to loudly proclaim how attracted they are to their aging wives. They know that they are "suppose" to say that to be good husbands, so simply hearing that refrain from a man does not tell you his true sexual t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:21 AM
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I don't understand your question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:18 AM
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Hmm I wonder what kind of porn he watches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:16 AM
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Idk, why do women marry betas at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:16 AM
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I said women do not understand male sexuality, which is true. You countered that sex workers make money off of men, then I said that is a small minority of women. So most women remain ignorant of male sexuality and have no interest in understanding the minds of their male lovers and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:12 AM
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Wives in LTRs aren't the same women "monetizing" male sexuality. Unless you are implying the average woman is a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:09 AM
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Women have NO INTEREST in the minds of men. If you talk to women online and IRL, you will find they are NOT curious about men in general, have no desire to understand male sexuality, have no desire to understand the pressures men face, have no desire what validates the male ego. They just don't care and they don't have to care, because as a group, men will always pursue them. THey prefer their fantasies. They don't want to know what men think, and they have the power to ignore it all for a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:59 AM
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Women in my league (I commit to) And below my league (I use them for sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:55 AM
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Thats what all husbands tell their aging wives LMAO. It may as well be Standard Boilerplate, its written down in the manual for middle aged men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:38 AM
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You aren't wrong, but all it takes is talking with your man to know where his mind is. Its nothing comparable to knowing your love was thrown around by a guy with a huge dick compared to yourself and fucked better than you can do. So you get to be your mans prize until you are 45. Where as the man was NEVER your prize. Sounds like a better deal for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:36 AM
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Because the halo can be made up of different parts of you. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:32 AM
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thats incredibly easy…does she think highly of you? there you go… No, she may think you are a loving, virtuous man, and its ok that you don't fuck her the same way another guy did. "Good enough". Women break men into pieces. She may think highly of me in one context and in another context (sex, status, humor) another guy may blow me out of the water from her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:23 AM
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first define ruined Ruined for you. Meaning she doesn't think as highly of you, as she would have if she never met the other guy yet youll just take for gospel what she says about this one thing Some women are honest about their past and their thoughts on sex, but you are right that often there is no way for the man to win or feel truly secure. He just has to "hope". Which is what most men do, thats why theres a bunch of taboo subjects witin heterosexual relationships that both members would pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:12 AM
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How can I tell? I wish I could. But I have found that I cannot. You can't even trust women to not fake orgasms, they will fake anything, to get what they want from you. They have endless rationalizations for it all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:37 AM
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You can't determine if shes ruined unless she openly and honestly tells you her true thoughts on men, both those shes been with and men in general, and then see how you match to those. That is where true security lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:04 AM
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meaning they must also be local, instead of exotic. You know dating apps and scenes are locally sourced, right? We live in America honey. There is every type of man in the world in this country. Why aren't they the same men women grow up with? Because people largely grow up with people who look and behave like they do, though that is changing as well. In our wonderful society, women can be marked and claimed by other "types" of men at earlier and earlier ages and have their "type" crystalized (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:02 AM
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Autistic reddit women =/= normal women. Women above all are attracted to masculinity. Thats why a man can be everything they ever dreamed of, but if he sucked a dick once, they dry up like a desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:51 PM
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Uh, no. I always pay because I make like $200k a year. Course I am going to pay, and show I'm better than the ain't shit men haggling over a $10 drink. Its not porny, look I've sucked dicks before. I've never felt powerful or "in control" while I am sucking a fucking dick, what a delusional way to think about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:14 PM
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No, not with their partners there. Who knows if he gets off to it, or gets bullied into it to maintain sexual access to his woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:11 PM
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Your co-workers.... throw "house parties"...? Really? What do you work in a kitchen or something? If you have trouble finding and making friends in person, you're not going to have any easier of a time finding a partner in person. Did you ever think that actually you get invited to these things because youre a woman and if you were a man you would be ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:10 PM
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So any man can do this by just changing location then? Nope. Not all cultures/groups are created equal. I'd ask you to elaborate but I'm learning better than to do that now, since I won't actually get an answer that says anything You want me to, but I won't. These are distributed by location?? Yes, they are. Is there some sort of island where these "tall hung men with sexual charisma" Yes there are places, and scenes where there are more of these men, and they are all over dating apps. I am sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:07 PM
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Standards are changing in the west. Its about WHO the girl fucks, not "how many".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:59 PM
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Youre going for men out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:57 PM
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Is that because women can't fuck you like men can? You have to test how much a man wants to fuck you, make sure he has the balls? Bring out the primal masculine energy? If hes lacking, hes not a real man, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:54 PM
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No good girl has the count higher than like 5 How is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:51 PM
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i mean, when a man has his dick in a woman's mouth, he is trusting her or in your words "submitting" to her with the understanding that she will not bite him. No. Hes literally treating her mouth like a pussy. Basically the organ that we communicate with, that makes us uniquely human, is now fit in this moment to be gagged by a dick. Its so funny the lengths yall go to to reframe this stuff. No honey, you aren't in a position of power while you service your man.. and there are many gay/bi men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:48 PM
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Uglier or not as pretty than he feels he deserves. Look if you want to debate, fine, but come up with some different angles or whatever. This play dumb shtick is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:46 PM
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Usually she is uglier than he feels he deserves in a wife. Sometimes she is the wrong culture or race.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:43 PM
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No, I just said that N-count increases the chance that she is ruined for you. But does not guarantee it, therefore N-count is less important than some men think. I said it matters, but not as much as guys think. In the modern world, a "good girl" can have a high N-count if she sticks with the right kind of guys. A bad girl can have a low n-count if shes out tasting the rainbow, looking for exotic experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:42 PM
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Are those "exotic different men" the same "comfortable boring men" to the women wherever they came from? Yes, some of them are considered boring and aint-shit by "their women". But they become exciting and exotic to another group of women not used to them. If so I guess every man is simultaneously "comfortable and boring" and "exotic and different." Making both concepts kind of meaningless Nope. Thats not how sexual culture works. All you have to do is look at who is dating who in that topic we …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:36 PM
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Ya no... in that scenario youre working your ass off trying to pleasure my dick. You can have this cognitive dissonance as much as you want. But all women eventually have to get it through their heads. Getting fucked is submissive. Being the "pursued" partner is submissive. Therefore, your role is submissive. And all you girls are just out looking for the "right" man that makes you feel GOOD about submitting to. NONE OF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A MAN TO SUBMIT TO YOU, and you never will ever want tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:31 PM
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You go to church? Most people after the age of 22 are not in school. I literally go to social groups designed to have people meet each other, that I pay membership fees to, and I've had more success on online dating apps BY FAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:29 PM
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You don't just come with built-in knowledge of everyone's personal sexual tastes and how to physically achieve that. Most women have the same sexual tastes. The men you're describing are bad at sex. no, I'm describing men that are good at sex. That have lots of situationships and whatnot. You seriously had no clue what your sexual tastes were before trying each and every one out with a different person each time? I was impacted by my sexual partners, they left imprints on me. And thats even more…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:27 PM
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Oh it is for me, I take other mens partners, it feels very powerful to me to fuck them. So I kind of love poly girls, because they are so naive that they lack understanding of the male sexual mind. And so we get to roleplay some cuckhold power dynamics, but in terms of actually having that be a relationship, like my life, or like with my family and woman I choose to have children with... shudder...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:24 PM
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Above her, just means wouldn't date or marry her but would give a whirl. Out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:21 PM
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Value is value. Women want to be respected like men in civil society while they fuck up the dating market and relegate legions of men to lonely sexless lives. No bueno in my eyes. I'm not going to go along with it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:20 PM
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But its not a myth... you really believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:11 PM
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respectful non monogamy Hahahahahahaha Its not kind to fuck another womens man nor vice versa. You poly people are something else. Virtuous thrill seeking cheaters under the banner of "well we agreed so its ok"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:10 PM
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Any woman who goes to sex parties, who has group sex, who fucks multiple men together is hypersexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:08 PM
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Just think of a man who is different than the typical man a woman engages with, a cut above her, offering things the other men can't. Bonus points if hes exotic and different from the "comfy, boring" men around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:07 PM
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doesn't make me too dumb to know what I like and dislike sexually. It kinda does.... You can't evaluate something when you've never experienced it. Sex is not "hypothetical". it's because you haven't put in the work yet Shy betas need to put work in. A lot of men already have their programming set up and don't need to "put in the work". They just show up and show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:06 PM
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Gaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy! Its fine, you like to be sexually dominated by aggressive men, thats what you want, no shame in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:05 PM
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So how do people meet then? You didn't provide any examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:03 PM
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Why are we combining these things? Because they are both extremely relevant to life satisfaction. Everyone in the workplace should be treated respectfully I will respectfully... not choose them. Just like they pick and choose in dating, I can pick and choose in business.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:02 PM
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Those men are also meeting those forever alone women and fuckig them and then leaving them. Men who "hit on" women are a minority. Most guys too shy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:59 PM
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Now you know why guys don't want a woman who has slept with the rainbow. See you respect his sexual style, even while other women may find it repulsive because they've had better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:44 PM
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introverted So shy betas, yes. Do you find that they are less confident in bed as well? You have to show them the ropes a bit more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:33 PM
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I personally don't understand how a woman can lay there getting railed by her man, all pinned down, and thinking "yes I am equal to him" lmao. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:31 PM
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Wait so why should I treat you equally in the workplace when you don't treat me equally on the first date? It sounds like you.... want things from me... without giving me things. Doesn't sound like a good deal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:30 PM
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I've always been the one to make any moves. So you've only dated shy betas?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:29 PM
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for me that means both creative and intellectually rigorous You love to spam this shit, when we all know you've fucked a ton of men for a plethora of other reasons. This is some shtick you came up with in your later years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:28 PM
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And how was he in sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:26 PM
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No, they prefer middle class dopey women who get a thrill from fucking them, because they take what they want. Match made in heaven. Sounds like you want them, as long as they aren't gay. Prince charming for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:25 PM
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Men are suppose to be the more sexual gender... we have to initiate sex and pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:23 PM
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partly because women have fought a lot to give ourselves some room No, its because women gender roles do not significantly decrease a mans desire to put his penis inside you. Where as a man acting "not masculine" significantly decreases your desire to let his be penis inside you. You uphold masculine hierarchies by choosing which men get pussy and which do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:19 PM
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Women get turned off if they have to initiate. Women will just continue to choose from the pool of men that approaches them. If only 10% of men approach the majority of women, then that is who those women will fightover. They will NEVER EVER entertain the shy guy, the quiet guy, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:18 PM
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So how are women meeting men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:10 PM
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N-count doesn't really matter that much. The reality is that a woman can be absolutely ruined by a single man. Having a higher N-count does increase that possibility that she has been ruined. All that matters are the type of sexual partners shes had, not how many. If she had 30 guys that are all very similar, shes sexually more virgin than a woman who has sex with one man, who is incredibly different from other men that other men cannot compete with or generate the same excitement in her. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:08 PM
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Women are turned off by men that look young. I have to date women younger than me, women my age (33) look like garbage, tons of wrinkles, they just straight up look older than me. They aren't attracted to me either. Subconsciously I believe they see me like how 30 year old women see 25 year old men. Most women want to date a man the same age as them or older, so if you look prettier/younger than then, they do not want you They would rather be with some fat balding 33 year old, than a guy like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:01 PM
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They've identified mid 40s as a majority aging milestone where aging speeds up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:57 PM
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Most men in their 40s look at like garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:56 PM
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1/10 women being hypersexual is pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:55 PM
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Most of them are autistic. Lets be very honey, PPD women are WILDLY unrepresentative of women at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:54 PM
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Women are not attracted to men that they have to chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:52 PM
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You should go find some ghetto guys, they can treat you like how you want to be treated, like 304s. They can take the pussy like you want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:48 PM
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They don't. Women would rather pick from the guys who have the competence to approach them, even if those men are trash, they would rather be chosen by one of those men then have to degrade themselves by showing interest in a man. Like if only 10% of men intentionally pursued women for sex, women would consider those men to be all men. Women ignore any man that doesn't approach her. A man can be incredibly handsome, great guy, if he doesn't start saying sexual things to her and ask her out, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:47 PM
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Thats because of the men you are picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:42 PM
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Most men feel sexually inadequate. Unless they are hung and have received copious sexual validation from women. I feel sexually inadequate because I struggle with erections and would like a 7.5in dick instead of a 5.5 inch dick. How is therapy suppose to help with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:01 PM
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Most men don't think that, they try to pleasure women and fail. I've failed many times. All it takes is for her to have had better sex in the past, then she considers your attempt bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:00 PM
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Not from their "effort"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:59 PM
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Hes a handsome guy for sure. IMO steroids look bad on most guys when the clothes come off. The steroid boy look is just not... lustful, sensual enough. Its too hard and jagged. It helps make you look a bit more impressive in clothes though if you don't go all body builder with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:58 PM
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The men pulling the most women do not wear make up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:55 PM
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A lot of blue pillers are just guys that locked a woman own early enough before she could play the field and find out what shes missing out on or guys who are more attractive than their GFs physically, but lack in other ways and felt they "Won" just because they got ONE woman to want them. Quite sad. 7/10 guy thinking he won the game by locking down his 5/10 GF with no tits or ass or much of anything but AT LEAST HES NOT AN INCEL, so he feels he won the game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:42 PM
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Its rarely about effort. You really believe the men you enjoyed sex with were putting in so much more effort than the ones you did not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:36 PM
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Love buying my status symbols
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:30 PM
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It doesn't matter how much effort you put in when in the end all she cares about is your sexual performance. You can love bomb her, make her feel chosen and desired. She'll still like the guy who fucked her better than you did more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:24 PM
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And you disregard the dignity of non-straight men and reject them as potential partners!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:22 PM
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How would a therapist help with issues of sexual inadequacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:21 PM
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Its not homophobia. One is acceptance and praise. One is fucking rejection. Get real. One group gets relationships/love/praise, the other gets rejected. Get real! Pisses me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:17 PM
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Why are you suggesting it? Youre super serious, sure that it isn't to be insulting to men? Would you date a man who has had lots of sex with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:57 AM
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Why do women reject men for being bisexual, but men are ok with women being bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:55 AM
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But its insulting to men because most women do not find gay men or any men who have sexual contact with other men attractiv. So by calling a man gay, you are saying most women would be turned off by him. You are essentially saying hes unnattractive to women. And that is insulting. It has nothing to do with the mans "internalized homophobia". If a woman spread a rumor that Kyle, the leftist who loves LBGBT people, is GAY, then Kyle would not be able to get a date. That would lower Kyles status an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:54 AM
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How does objectifying women sexually, mean a man can't despise them? The desire is for sex with women, not necessarily the annoying bitches that make up the worst of women in his head. You are lying/gaslighting. You are using gay as an insult and coming up with post-facto reasoning to hide the intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:47 AM
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Its not that great. Most bottoms enjoy the feeling of being in the sexual power and lust of another man, they aren't usually actually orgasming from bottoming (thought they can, there are exceptions)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:45 AM
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I hate sex workers, the kind that make porn. I respect prostitutes more. I hate porn girls. I wish them the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:39 AM
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My point is that real sex won't feel like these fantasies you've ginned up. I love porn. I've had very little sex that made me feel like the porn I watched did
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:35 AM
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I wish it was that simple for me. I don't even get hard from bjs unless I am in the zone, in the right state of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:33 AM
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Why not just have it after the movie, why is that a turn off for a girl. You want to be ravished by my uncontrollable lust? I can't even sit through a movie with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:31 AM
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While you sing a different tune when you find out your loving boyfriend loves porn and hides it from you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:25 PM
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Fictionalized erotica is even worse. You are training your body to respond to imagery and concepts that won't exist with whoever actuallly wants to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:23 PM
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Men seek novelty from sex, but women have their own coolidge effect related to "experiences" and "emotional states"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:22 PM
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Is that the kind of man you wish you had? But I agree. I work out cause I like looking good naked while were going at it and walking around my place shirtless. But it don't mean much unless youre at the beach. Frame guys do win in the end, even if they are flabby out of shape bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:20 PM
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Thats a very.... technical perspective but thanks for sharing. I guess I don't mind if women think like that, but it seems to be counter to how I think they are thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:49 PM
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Going places absolutely makes someone interesting. Being interesting makes someone interesting. Lots of boring ppl travel. Yes the MOST boring people (or poor) do not, but lots of boring people travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:29 PM
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No. I don't get boners just from being in the presence of someone. Like I would like you to be sucking my dick and feel like a king, but also I'd be worried you'd get annoyed if I wasn't hard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:23 PM
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Were talking about grown women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:22 PM
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Its not really hot for me, just feels like a performance I have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:47 PM
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I like watching movies, why would I pause it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:45 PM
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Why bother? if white "boys" are wimpy to her she can just go for another race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:45 PM
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idk thats not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:22 PM
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My point is, would you find the guy weird or lame for not making a movie during the movie. Most women tell these stories followed by a "tee hee, we didn't get far into the movie wink wink" So now when I watch a movie with a girl, I feel pressured to make a move on her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:18 PM
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No, Im saying you already had some dates and this is his way of moving it to sex, instead of for example taking you home right after a date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:17 PM
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Then she should wear normal clothes that don't show off tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:58 PM
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Shes not even attracted to women, its this women with the boobs who is breaking social standards and showing off her body so much that people who aren't even attracted to her can't help but stare. I am imaging the Will Ferrel "casual friday" SNL skit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:57 PM
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Its a matter of seconds. Everyone is glancing at you honey if your letting all your stuff hang out. I look at every single person I cross paths with and you better believe if its a woman in yoga pants, or with her tits out, I am taking a look. My question is why do you want people looking at your body? What do you get out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:54 PM
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How is it being an animal to glance at someones body who is TRYING TO SHOW IT OFF. Are you an animal if a naked man comes up to you and you look at his dick flopping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:51 PM
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You realize when a white girl posts something like that, everyone assumes she goes after blacks as an alternative. All she is doing is humiliating white guys and making them lose even more confidence and feeling like cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:50 PM
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The past can force a man to no longer care about whats in front of him. Men want to feel special too. The mark of a true compatible relationship, with true trust, is knowing each others pasts and accepting them, or best case not even feeling threatened at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:46 PM
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Makes no sense, I guess for dumb people they think living in limbo is preferable to making a decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:40 PM
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Q for women, if a man you are recently dating and want to have sex with invites you over to cuddle and watch movie, early on, does it turn you off if you both actually watch the movie all the way through before he makes a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:34 PM
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Wouldn't it be hotter to pick something you both like and then still have sex with her :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:32 PM
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If you are wearing things to show off your body, then its normal people will look. Regardless if they are sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:32 PM
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Women enjoy their own company less than you think. Women find other women boring. Men are the spicey ones. Basically women who only have women friends are the "losers" of women. Sure maybe emotionally they are better off than the isolated guy playing PC games, but compared to women who get into the social harems of the interesting spicey boys, they are the losers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:25 PM
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People talk about travel, when they have voids and don't have anything interesting they've done recently. It usually just comes off as bragging. Going places doesnt make you an interesting person. I'm sure travelling gave you a bunch of interesting experiences with strange men fucking you, inviting you into their world, but it doesn't work the same way as a man, just like back at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:17 PM
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Where would anyone have seen this story, I never saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:14 PM
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No he didn't, he said he got his dick sucked and hes tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:14 PM
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No actual tomboy is going to have on a ton of makeup with a low cut top and a skirt. I couldn't care less because I have diverse hobbies. I'm not some reddit nerd. But why wouldn't a tomboy also want to look sexy and feminine. And what does that have to do with her interests
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:13 PM
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Unconfident women respond to confident men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:11 PM
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It really doesn't, especially if the other person has never been to those places, they won't find it interesting. Women are never interested in the places I've been unless they had some previous desire to go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:05 AM
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GLad he got dragged. Straight guys are so fucking pathetic and desperate most of the time. Especially the fake chads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:03 AM
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Wrong. Men would love to date a butch woman, they just don't want her to LOOK butch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:59 AM
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What hobbies do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:57 AM
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Travelling doesn't make someone interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:57 AM
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Nothing he said was entertaining or funny, but here you are bantering, implying someone is attractive to you from single reddit comment. Fuckin weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:55 AM
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people who exhibit strength by being themselves without shame or desperate conformity So conservatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:54 AM
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What is an exciting life to you? Give us an example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:51 AM
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I agree that men are required to be more interesting than women to attract them. But I disagree that women lead more interesting lives. Sure the ones that find interesting males and join their harems of entertainment will have interesting lives. Deep down women find themselves incredibly boring. They look to men to spice things up, to drive the conversation, to be the entertainment. Women are less interesting than men so the more men that are boring... that will also lead to huge numbers of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:49 AM
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Passive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:13 PM
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No, just the legions of them that are whores and sex workers and make porn. I just saw an twitter video of an muslim guy asking how the west can say it respects women, caption over a video of a white girl being lead around on a leash acting like a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:07 PM
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I don't even know what this means. yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:29 PM
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Idk, why are western women seen as whores throughout the rest of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:29 PM
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how is having sex with someone "connecting" with them, its objectifying. Watching my dick go in and out of an ass is the opposite of connection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:28 PM
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No, women do not like passive men who afraid to talk to girls. They don't feel comfortable getting their ass clapped by men like that, its icky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:27 PM
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no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:39 PM
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He did fail. You will always think of him that way compared to the man who never had that issue. And this goes for all things women judge men about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:38 PM
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No, I will disagree because its a sad thing to watch. You are like those guys that think they can regrow their foreskins and they post a picture of their floppy dick claiming they have an excess of 1inch of skin from their efforts with no frame of reference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:37 PM
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Patriarchy creates men confident enough to approach you and fuck you the right way. Unless are you saying you are attracted to men who behave like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:34 PM
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Women decide who real men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:32 PM
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Women want to be a mans fantasy as long as he's high value enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:31 PM
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Hardly ever, I go to a really nice church in my city when I want to relive some catholic vibes occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:31 PM
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Aren't those all the fake Islam, that 99% of muslims consider to be heritcs, INCLUDING your muslim friends that you are capping for so much on here while denigrating christians
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:22 PM
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No its women who see sex as a performance. Men don't view their orgasms as a performance, which is why the masturbate completely differently than when they are having sex with women. The performance starts with 1) Man must get hard If man does not get hard, then performance is failed and woman rejects him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:20 PM
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wrong, how would you know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:16 PM
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I mean your the one who thinks you can make your dick bigger by tugging on it and pumping it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:15 PM
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There are less types of muslims than there are christians. There are no "pro-lgbt" mosques.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:08 PM
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I do, I consume primarily leftist slop. THats why I know if you know who this guy is, you must be REALLY DEEP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:07 PM
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Asking questions and showing interest on a date has nothing to do with making a woman want to have sex with you. Any behavior you do that is the same as some platonic family member does to her, does not create sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:03 PM
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SW should be held accountable. It should be banned. And all creators should fear the law if they participate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:00 PM
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Not to get too Freudian with it, but it seems to be one of the last places where the id freely reigns supreme, and that's reflected no where better than the types of porn consumption by locale. Whatever people hate or shame or suppress the most in general society seems to have an equal and opposite popularity in the porn landscape. Stereotypes crossover with fetishes and it's just a giant orgy of depravity. It's the last acceptable arena to indulge in such proclivities, outside of edgelord forum…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:57 PM
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Sex workers are DESTROYING the next generation of young men, but women DO NOT CARE. They would rather support "sex workers" than suppress them. Then they will go online and whine about their husbands watching porn and having weirdo fetishes, and having erection problems, while they SUPPORT the very women who inflict this on men before they are even men, when they are young little boys their brains are WARPED by sex workers getting their claws into them. And women don't care. Just keep whining ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:56 PM
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No one even knows who that is. The fact that you even know this guy tells me you have TDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:52 PM
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Maybe thats why your views are so skewed and you can't see anything beyond Christian bigotry, when the reality is that Christianity is extremely liberal, even the fundies like Baptist Souther churches, compared to ISLAM, where its a rational decision to murder your daughter because she steps out of line. And put draps over your women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:51 PM
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Wait wtf is this post? So you hate Christian fundamentalists but your friends with MUSLIMS? Muslims ARE FUNDAMENTALIST. Am I taking crazy pills???? Those muslims have even worse views. Ask their patriarch if they are ok with their little baby girls dating a non-muslim different race man??? Ask them how they feel about gay people in their family??? Crazy pills, crazy pills in the West. Someones putting something in the water here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:49 PM
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Well white western liberals are not reproducing, and with millions of migrants from the global south entering Europe and the US, your culture will be the minority in another generation or two while theirs will be in ascendance. Especially if they retain their cultural and family values and keep their women motivated to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:46 PM
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Why would I do that? I want a woman like me, from my background, who agrees with me about politics and principles ANyway I don't want to take away "rights of women". But I want a woman who knows that "rights of women" is bullshit red herring to gin up fear and angst, a false rallying flag for disoriented and disillusioned women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:43 PM
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Women require male gender roles to be sexually attracted to a man. They aren't simply attracted to a mans body like how men are to women through visualization. Women require a man has to ACT a certain way for her to be attracted sexually to him. This is why gender roles will never go away, they are literally required for womens pussies to feel something. Sharing household chores has nothing to do with gender roles. Its stupid easy shit, that stupid selfish people struggle with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:40 PM
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Bruh, the penis is squishy and so is measuring tape
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:39 PM
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Youre leaving out all the parts where i have to lead the conversation, I have steer her towards sex, I have to pick a moment to touch her first, I have to pick a moment and make a move and kiss, I have to both be funny and edgy but also not offensive, I create an atmosphere, I have to do everything. While she sits there and evaluates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:31 PM
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Why would women stop judging men when it doesn't affect mens attraction to them? There are no consequences of women judging men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:08 PM
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The world does revolve around our cocks. Some of our cocks. The other ones are kind of worthless. But the valuable ones, women revolve around those cocks, their lives are devoted to them and catering to those few.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:02 PM
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IDGAF, just don't expect men to enjoy dealing with this bullshit, go find a big dicked bull with all the right stuff and share him with other women and get all your rocks off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:59 PM
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Ok, ya thats a typical mindset of a child free person. Me me me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:51 PM
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most people end up partnering up Are they? Isn't singlehood going up every year. But if you can’t connect how economic stressors impact socialization respectfully I don’t care to help with that. If you can't connect how its womens pickiness and WARPED SENSE OF SELVES (not "capitalism") that has mucked the market place of relationships, then I don't care to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:51 PM
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Blah blah blah, make sure to save that speech for your kid when he has problems, I am sure you will use the same wording and lack of empathy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:48 PM
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Ya thats too bad, she doesn't seem to understand or care to think about how a man thinks of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:45 PM
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You don't know their types at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:41 PM
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So you can enjoy sex with a man that has trouble with his erection going up and down? That can be "good" sex potentially?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:40 PM
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Shows you don't care to understand what its like to be a man. At least I make attempts at understanding feminine perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:38 PM
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Can you explain how if our society had less wealth inequality, these men who are already succeeding economically would find women who are attracted to them? What would change for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:37 PM
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Because they can swipe right on guys I would swipe left on. based on what? What gives you the ick about the guys they swipe on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:35 PM
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People who spam links whether website or book based, are annoying and don't contribute to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:32 PM
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I dont think younger people have harder lives than say people in 1960, do you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:30 PM
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I think in the future young women will have more sex than young men, on average. If they aren't already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:29 PM
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Ok... but are their problems with women due to capitalism? Like these youtuber women are claiming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:25 PM
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But in the past those women would be forced to marry beta husbands that they didn't have orgasms with, now they can have sex with guys that truly turn them on. Sounds like women are winning. Are you bothered that a minority of men, are also winning by having sex with lots of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:22 PM
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What about the men who are doing just fine economically and are struggling to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:20 PM
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Women bond themselves to scum bags, and players, and other high value men, after a few nights of sex, and then can't stand normal men anymore. Women bonding to men is a double edged sword. As with anything else in a choosers economy, if women choose correctly, then we all win, when they choose poorly, we all lose. In the end, they have the power
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:10 PM
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Women are harsher about every standard, because they can afford to be, because they, as a group, have the power in the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:08 PM
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Are men who are having lots of sex with many women today, profiting off it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:05 PM
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How many men do you think were profiting off of that dynamic? Is our society still a patriarchal capitalist society?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:59 PM
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"Globalism" is simply exporting dynamics naturally within smaller states outward. All the things you feel is negative about "globalism" can and do occur within nation states in the same way....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:57 PM
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So it has nothing to do with capitalism. Women just don't find large sections of the male population attractive, once they are allowed choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:52 PM
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So how did the poor find connection in 1930? People were poorer then and coupling and having babies left and right? Seems to be a hole in your ideological framing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:47 PM
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There are many things that are objective about sex, that are difficult for many men to accomplish. Where comparisons are the most harsh. So it is like that for many aspects of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:41 PM
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You don't have to have a list to compare what one guy says and how it makes you feel, to what another guys says OR compare to guys that don't prefer talk during sex. the question is how does that make me feel. Penis sizes literally feel differently. As does being in the arms of a large person vs small person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:32 PM
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Ofc is mental. Its still a burden on men. When we have mental blocks in sex you dump us. When you have them, its our job to unlock you. My guess, he said some BS to you that the other ones didnt that made him seem more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:29 PM
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What was so different about them. Do you think guys don't want to make you orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:18 PM
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But it is easy to compare their bodies. And the words they say to you during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:17 PM
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How exactly do you think his mother is helping him with that? Parents teach kids behavior by example. For example, parents can teach kids and place kids in environments, to make them more comfortable with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:15 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:13 PM
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Compare everything. Because to women, sex is a performance put on by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:12 PM
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My point is that doing "well" is relative. Is the upper middle class kid who makes $110,000 a year because of his parents background and focus on education and making safe decisions, really doing well when hes lonely and never experienced sexual validation, has low self esteem, compared to the working class kid who is kind of stupid, but is loved and validated by the women around him as a high value man because he knows how to perform masculinity well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:10 PM
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So if they went on a date with the guys you have had good dates with, you suspect those men would have picked up on their energy and used them instead of treating them like how they treated you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:02 PM
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YOu didn't respond to my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:01 PM
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Yes you have very black and white thinking. Like going into meeting this girl who you've never see before and has never seen you, you never had the thought that perhaps she is out of your league physically? Or has some stupid niche and excludes 90% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:00 PM
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The best indicator on how well a child will do in adulthood is how much their parents make. Define "well".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:58 PM
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Well I will give you some advice. No one is set on whether they are interested in someone for sex and mating before they even see them. Neither you or her. And that does not mean "only looks matter". The key word is "only". Any interactions you have with women online should be taken for a grain of salt until you establish chemistry in real life. The same thing can happen with your personality where they like your online personality, but irl interactions you come off different. Our online persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:04 PM
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I am talking early ages, 1-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:01 PM
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So fake stuff. Its so weird that someone can consider an online group where you never meet a "Friend group". Its a poor facsimile
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:51 PM
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Early stages are most important for self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:50 PM
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I read your hyperbolic rant, what what you prefer these follower, loser men do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:49 PM
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Thats not true at all. There are tons of white homeless people. The only group that potentially has more homeless people than whites, are blacks. e all know how non-white men are treated by the police and that leads to more incarcerations Again, thats not how "non-white" men are treated. Thats how blacks are treated. And there are obvious reasons for why they are treated that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:46 PM
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It was always equal pay for equal work. But how is that suppose to work when women are attracted to men who make more money than them, and are more successful at business and professional life than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:44 PM
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Ya, I honestly do not understand what women my age have going against them that makes life "harder"? Can someone chime in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:42 PM
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Kids need parents around. Kids with stay at home parents are more well adjusted and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:39 PM
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Ah yes, another magic thing about penises, if a man touches a penis, it means he doesn't like vagina and hes gay. Tune in later for More hot takes from the mind of a typical woman in 2026! Enjoy your consequence free silly pussy play, none of us men give a shit. We know you will only ever be with men for anything real. But only men who never touched a penis!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:35 PM
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Its not an argument. I am simply telling you and all the other guys that if you think dating and attraction is a one factor pursuit, then youre a dumb dumb. I'm not angry at all. Personally, I have good looks and still find dating difficult in many ways, so I know from experience that its not "just looks".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:32 PM
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Sure, men pursue women Its not "sure". Its the defining feature of our society. But you do ignore that women also participate in the dating dynamic and can/do pursue back. They dont pursue guys who don't pursue them. This continues even into the actual date. Where women sit there stone faced, expecting the man to entertain her. And if he doesn't then shes on to the next one (until she finds out shes too ugly to get the guys she really wants, and then she settles maybe or remains single)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:27 PM
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You are incapable of putting yourself in the shoes of a woman, it seems. There are many lost men like you. Just try to use your brain and imagine what makes a woman feel good about being around a man. Clavicular is a weirdo e-celeb, his celebrity status is exactly the kind of mystery that would titilate a young woman, if she found out all he does is sit at home and message his fans, that hes a boring fuck, hes going to lose them every time. Unless they are uggos below his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:24 PM
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Why do so many women in this thread claim that they do not compare men who they sleep with against each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:15 PM
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I just explained why. Theres no consequence. No one is fucking you. No one is giving up power. Its giggly, silly BS. "Tee hee were pretending to have sex" is what lesbian sex feels like. Penises are magic. Remember if a man touches another mans penis, he magically becomes unattractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:12 PM
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This sub also says that most men have to date down. we already know, statistically, people marry and settle with their looks match. Oh really? Then can you explain why all your sisters on this sub deny that looksmatch is EVEN A THING AT ALL. They deny its very existence. And I disagree. Most men date below their looks match. And ESEPCIALLY for casual sex, men fuck way below their looksmatch all the time. And women love it. They love being able to fuck chad a few times to get it out of their syst…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:10 PM
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The teenage boy is right. Men have to do all the heavy lifting in dating, and the rewards are less and less than what they used to be in our fathers time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:08 PM
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I agree with this. I'm a good looking man, and I find dating EXHAUSTING. Women just love performative manipulative men so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:07 PM
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How is she a new woman in the friendgroup... if you never met her in person. DOn't groups have to meet in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:59 AM
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Women appreciate the attempt at banter if they like other things about you. What you are realizing is that you didn't have good banter, but were putting in a servicable effort given your other qualities. Perhaps your appearance as deteriorated. Looks get your foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:58 AM
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TBF it was a lie sold by ugly narcissistic men, fantasizing about the sexual power they should have over women due to their charisma, personality, work ethic. Ignoring the fact that if you are an ugly troll, its natural that you should see out other types of people who look like you, not the pretty girl next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:56 AM
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Those men are still dating down though. And women are having casual sex with guys who would never marry them because women fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:54 AM
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Its not 80% at all. Tons of handsome men fail at attracting women, because of how finnicky female attraction is. Women want the "total package". Not a handsome guy who is socially awkward, a dolt, who doesn't know how to make money, or make people laugh, or have an interesting lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:54 AM
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Looks aren't "the most important thing" they just get your foot in the door. If you date in your own league then the other things matter a ton. You guys are so hopeloss. You just want an excuse to ignore the complexity of attraction because your too simple to wrap your head around it. "hurr durr I figured out dating, its looks!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:52 AM
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Like comedy, banter is something that comes naturally for some, and is difficult for others. As a man, you can know exactly how women like to be flirted with, the kind of energy that makes them spark up at a man, and still fail at behaving and speaking that way. Saying "get better at banter" is like telling a man "be funnier". Its another thing that women will never understand because they don't have to be funny and have banter to attract men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:49 AM
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Its sad that guys think they can tug and pump on their dick to make it bigger. But it does show how desperate men are to have the sexual privilege and confidence that being hung gives a man (because of women rewarding him for having a big dick)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:46 AM
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Well if you are a man and you have sex with a man you are giving up the sexual interest of a vast majority of women, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:41 AM
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How can they have lower standards when they are just swiping guys on apps. Wouldn't they run into the same guy as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:40 AM
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Why don't your gfs match with the same guys you go out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:06 AM
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Because theres no stakes to lesbian sex. Its silly stuff, silly sex, and thats why people don't take it seriously. Even gay sex is more serious. At least the men are giving something up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:05 AM
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Youre married and old. Your play days are done. But feel free to keep reliving them on this sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:51 AM
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I think there are other types of value, that can make someone feel validated as a successful human. But sexual value releases the most dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:49 AM
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What does your post history have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:42 AM
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I'm just speaking the truth, any incel here has far more opportunity to sleep with beautiful women over the next 10 years than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:40 AM
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No, I am honestly asking you. Do you think an adult virgin can stay sane when he can pull up thousands of videos of women sucking the soul out of guys, sexually validating them like kings and gods? He knows exactly what he is missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:37 AM
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Youre a grow man with a family spending time trying to feel better about yourself by posting about sex as a humble brag to rando struggling guys. Your N count is 1, you are stuck to the same woman for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:33 AM
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Do you ever ask guys to do stuff that you find out later they do not like?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:32 AM
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Dickmaxxing? Dude, be less naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:26 AM
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Women don't even believe in leagues. THey think the hottest guy that wants to stick his dick in her is her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:22 AM
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A 20 something man who is not fat and has an average face, should expect to date a 20 something women who is not fat, and has an average face. Not a fatty. Not a single mom. Not some girl way uglier than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:19 AM
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Did men in the past watch other men online being sexually worshiped by women in every way possible? While those men (and women) humiliate men who don't/can't have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:15 AM
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This is worst take that gets posted on this sub. Women aren't men. Approaching men goes against all their instincts. Just give it up already. This is coming from a guy who dislikes "approaching" women. Stop pushing this garbage. How should something "be the norm" when it goes against all normal instincts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:30 PM
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I don't like queer women. I want a normal woman to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:25 PM
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That's hardly a harem Any women who is involved with a single man with multiple woman is in a HAREM. You are in a HAREM, but most PATRIARCHAL form of sexual relationship in the history of humanity. HAREMS are INHERENTLY patriarchal and conservative. Your whole mindset is that of a gross patriarchal mans mindset who is hoping to have sex with many many women instead of falling in love. And yet you have THE GALL to criticize "conservative" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:20 PM
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Why would I be mad at white women stamping tattoos on their asses that say "black owned" or "bbc only"? Being literal tattooed sex slaves for another race of man? Is that what youre asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:20 AM
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Because he wants the approval of women instead of caring more about wanting them to gag on his dick (women prefer the second guy, they want to be controlled and submissive)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:18 AM
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Do you think any of them ever date the equivalent of a popular girl later in life? I think its vanishingly rare. Even if they are good looking men. I think women can sense when you are lower on the social totem poll even if you reinvent yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:16 AM
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I don't disagree. Like you want to be a level below celebrity where you can still do crazy things, make mistakes, sleep with the wrong people, without it being a "problem". But everyone is a clout chaser. Genuine connection is kind of a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:14 AM
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I invested in education that took me 8 years, and I cleared $200K the last two years. There are safe paths to financial success, and risky paths. Risky paths will have more big losers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:13 AM
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Thats not really true. better looking people are definitely more egotistical than ugly people. When you are farther down the social stack, you have to work harder for others approval, ie. be nicer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:10 AM
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Its a lot of effort for those guys to seduce you. You weren't worth the effort. You realize all those guys can just go watch porn of hotter women than you who give them complete validation of all their little kinks through the screen? Instead of going through your little judgy game show, only to then have their "Reward" be sex which you will then also judge them on. What is in it for them? Your pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:07 AM
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White women and their raceplay porn with black men thats all over the internet and mainstream porn sites
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:53 PM
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It doesn't exist. So don't be surprised when people get pissed off about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:38 PM
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Well hes a too insecure unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:36 PM
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Like i said nuance. Hanging out with friends does not mean going to club and dancing with strange guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:06 PM
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THats not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:04 PM
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how going out with friends while in a relationship is "acting single". It is acting single. THeres nuance to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:31 PM
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How is that stuff normal to you? Who normalized it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:25 PM
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Sure buddy. Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:20 PM
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Ya celebrities are the same as average people, good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:11 PM
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here's my number on a piece of paper, I think you're pretty and would love to get to know you tactic Seems pretty pathetic, low confidence move. If I was a woman I would not respond positively to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:10 PM
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but he goes out on dates and has sex with other women, I want him to be happy and satisfied Much harder for him to meet other women than for you to meet other men. You can also easily solicit sex from men who have bigger penises than his, are more handsome than him, any combination of body that you want. Meanwhile he is stuck at your level. Doesn't sound satisfying to me. So I have a FBW who is in an open relationship. And I like to tell her when I'm fucig her how her pussy is mine, and she like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:07 PM
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Personally, I don't approach women like that and I am ashamed that I don't have the skills/courage to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:58 PM
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No, I am saying that you don't see him as masculine if hes been fucked in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:36 PM
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I'm talking about regular women. The ones who define the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:34 PM
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Ya, you aren't a typical woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:33 PM
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Women are really not into the idea. I just like it as a topic, its exposes womens true nature and how they force men into little boxes, so they can feel tingles between their legs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:27 PM
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Nah, relatively huge percentage of young women are going black, see it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:20 PM
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Ya why would he want to pile on his humiliation even further. Afterall hes already getting cucked by you. Maybe getting fucked and cucked by you at the same time is a little too much for him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:19 PM
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Yes we know that you require a traditionally masculine man. I wonder how traditionally feminine you are though. Men have narrower range of existence to be attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:18 PM
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Ya, even an entire race could be wiped out if the women of that race start mass preferring a different type of looking man, because say the other group is taller and has bigger dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:05 PM
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Women aren't even having children anymore. What are they passing out? Sex. They are just passing out sex. Not genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:05 PM
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Its true. Men are naturally more valuable than women at the extreme end. Just a simple example. There are A LOT more women, with a nice set of tits and a nice ass than there are men with fat, hung dicks 7in+
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:03 PM
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From porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:01 PM
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It makes sense if you keep your thoughts straight instead of vomiting your stream of consciousness at me like in your above response. Whatever typical "effort' is required by a man to have a woman want to sleep with him, he needs less of it depending on the attractiveness of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:00 PM
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Oh, you find that women in your circles don't care about their man being fucked in the ass by another man? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:58 PM
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Why would you assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:57 PM
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So you think any man that had a one night stand is a scumbag? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:55 PM
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More privileged talk from the desired gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:48 PM
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Then if a man knows a woman well, then he’ll also know if a woman truly desires him No, because women are attracted to a diverse range of qualities qualities in men. She may love his sense of humor, but the guy with the 8inch dick made her feel something else in bed. In this scenario the 8 inch dick guy received more sexual validation. Even if she chose the funny guy to be her "boyfriend". So she can hoenstly look into her boyfriends eyes and tell him that she loves him and hes the best man for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:41 PM
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So of it requires the same amount of effort to pull a hv for a HVM as a low value to a lv woman then why wouldn’t the HV man just put the equal effort in to get high value?! Huh? Equal effort? When have high value men ever had to put in the same effort to get a mid-woman as they put in to get a HV woman? Do you think people who are high value are Lazy? No, I think for all men to have sex with their looks match find it to be a challenge, it takes effort, and there are hoops, that if they date dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:38 PM
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Thats for you to figure out. If you know his true self you will know if hes genuinely desires you. Also its a matter of esthetics. If he looks like he should match with you, and he gets turned on by you, then you are likely a match. Anything beyond that is just hedonism, dopamine chasing. That doesn't mean he doesn't desire you, that simply means he desires other things along side you. Woman on the other hand are socialized to hide their true selves from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:33 PM
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Because then shes ruined for me. SHe was made incompatible with me by those others guys and I wasted months trying to court her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:32 PM
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How she feels about me, helps me fall in love with her, DUH. No i'm not autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:31 PM
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What you described happens often enough. Unfortunately you will have a more difficult road to navigate as a woman to find a true "match" when you are lower on the totem pole of female physical attractiveness. Most of my commentary would be focused on women who I would consider are my "looksmatch", my natural physical partner. I speak for the "average man". Not the below average man or women. I think once you accept your value in relation to others, its easier to craft a fulfilling life, and find…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:24 PM
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But if they are high value why would they have to? Guess I will have to educate you further. All women require effort and they scale it up and down depending on how much more valuable the man is compared to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:20 PM
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No, I hate kinky sex. Kink is sex-negative. I never want to degrade hurt someone I desire. genuinely desires you How am I suppose to know if she genuinely desires me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:19 PM
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I only put that loving, non-transactional effort in with women who sexually validate me. Which is not possible to know early in a relationship, and if they are sneaky it might not ever be possible to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:16 PM
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We both have average personalities, its not a big deal. Are you some kind of narcissist that thinks you have some amazing personality? The non-average part of the relationship is how she treats me sexually. It’s just you valuing exclusive access to some vagina attached to a pretty body. No, its that SHE CHOSE ME OVER OTHERS BECAUSE I AM SEXY. Its thats simple. It makes me feel amazing, like the greatest being on earth. Validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:14 PM
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I mean if they are “high value” they could pull off high value, right? No, because women don't give out casual sex willy nilly, you have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:09 PM
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We just don't want you to have sex with certain guys who will ruin you, like introduce you to kink and BDSM, and other taboo sex. Change your sexual preferences forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:02 PM
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For me, Its a list of acts, what she does for me, how much she wants to please me and my fantasies, a list of looks, how she looks at me, how much I trust her desire, and openness about sexual past and sexual experiences. For men you don't have to guess if they are really sexually attracted to you, their eyes glaze over and their dicks get hard. For women its far more ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:00 PM
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For me a pretty girl (I'm also handsome, so its not a stretch) who sexually desires me above other men, is love. I would give her anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:57 PM
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Keep on dancing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:32 PM
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What about bieng good in sex, and having a big dick, and being tall. Is that still 3 out of 10 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:26 PM
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I'm not talking about sex. How could a woman be labelled a slut by giving a man what he is giving her, attention respect, praise, compliments. Its not about bieng a slut, its because you want to have power over men. Treating men like how they treat you gives up your power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:24 PM
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You said just only a minority of guys can be good sex. Yes mediocre/bad sex is someting anyone can give you. Thats not the case for valuable sex. Those minority of guys who are good at sex have huge value
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:22 PM
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If youre getting fuckd by a man you aren't being "dominant".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:21 PM
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Oooooh, so what do the other women have, the hay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:18 PM
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Women are just as picky and hypergamic about male friendships as they are about men they fuck w/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:18 PM
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I need something more than just sex holding me from pursuing the possibilities of better sex from other men and or just sex and attention from other men Eew thats disgusting. So all my love and emotional support is so that you are not tempted to find a guy better at sex than me. I honestly gagged a little reading that. Men are so disposable (except for the rare valuable ones). I also would feel gross knowing my wife was with men who are "really good" an I'm just ok, acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:15 PM
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THey fuck lots of low value women. Sure they don't LTR and have children with mid and low value women but they fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:09 PM
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Right, women don't do shit in the beginning. Thats whatIsaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:08 PM
1

I'm talking about dating, not "relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:07 PM
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What is special is that I share an emotional bond with one man because he doesn't have that with others It seems like you are ignoring his performance in bed. Someone reading this would think you prioritize the "emotional connection" and him "spending time with you" and don't prioritize sex. The idea that you would avoid the charms of a rare attractive man, clearly high value, is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:06 PM
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Nope, your man is performative too. You aren't the exception. So much arrogance and hypocrisy on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:00 PM
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I didn't say that women don't make me happy, I said they don't typically make me laugh because very few are funny. Instead they sit there in silence and wait for me to make them laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:58 PM
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And if someone can't do that, I can't feel loved by them He can. With enough training. You didn't want to train him, you wanted him to perform for you without the needed training And I would assume if your girlfriend never initiated sex with you and said no to you 30% of the time but swore she was sexually attracted to you, would you believe her? Haha thats like the life of all average men. Its not my life, but ya, that is very very common
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:57 PM
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So all men should just be alone, what a privileged take. ALL women are like this. the vast majority. You are saying men should just give up and remain single
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:55 PM
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Its implied. ALso its men who can't make other laugh that aren't worthy. You as a woman, do not have to make a man laugh to be attractive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:54 PM
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sex from 1 man means nothing cuz all men want that from you. Thats not true at all. Sex from a rare attractive high value man, means a lot to women. Yes sex from an average man means nothing to women, that is correct. As the only thing keeping you there is the fact she enjoys your sex. And if you find a hotter women who enjoys your sex. You have nothing else keeping you there with the current gf How would an average man find a hotter women who enjoys his sex? You are forgetting that women date u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:50 PM
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So you admit your husband isn't great in bed. Gotcha, ya you are a typical woman. Sorry, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:47 PM
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How is women having more sexual partners going to improve everyones enjoyment of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:45 PM
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Shes probably dating a man above her league physically who lacks other social calibrations. Thats the only time I've seen women "carrying" the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:39 PM
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Women dont' do shit in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:38 PM
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And he wasn't really able to get there. Which is ok He failed at performing his male role to you. And you lost interest. How romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:35 PM
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Women get turned off by men talking about insecurities and pressure and social burden. You can't talk about it as a man, she will reject you or at least lose some of her attraction to you. Its because the frameworks women set up in their minds about men they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:32 PM
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Women don't want to be friends either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:28 PM
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I said sexual validation. Not "initiating sex". SHe has to enjoy sex with me, it has to be an amazing experience for her, on par or better than other men. The idea of a woman "loving me" and not thinking highly of me in sex is disgusting to my ego, it makes me gag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:26 PM
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So if no woman makes you laugh, you should be alone? Do you realize that in your attempt to sound virtuous about dating, you are actually sounding darwinian and dark? Don't you think its kind of disgusting to say that someone who can't make someone else laugh isn't worthy of their love?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:18 PM
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They're paid a pittance in comparison to what they are truly owed. Who determines what they are "owed". And no, the wealthy pay the smallest percentage of their annual income. This is straight up misinformation. The wealthy pay 90% of the taxes. The wealthy was taxed at 90%. Fun fact. The tax system back then was different so people didn't pay 90%. Another fun fact, society HATED those high tax levels, thats why we as a society voted for governments to lower taxes. Meanwhile men are blaming femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:14 PM
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But why would you care about the kink communities of whom you don’t belong to's opinion? Because you just saidthey are a growig community. So for my son for example, he will have less "non-kink"women to choose from, correct? If he doens't want to choke them, hes reducing his dating and romantic potential, correct? When is it going to stop growing by the way? When are women going to voluntarily reign in their sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:08 PM
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In-bed especially. Out-of-bed is implied by in bed. If you are good in bed, then out bed is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:07 PM
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Now do you ever sit back and imagine how much courage and self-confidence it took for either of those guys to approach you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:05 PM
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Literally last weekend some guy asked me about my coffee recommendations in a local roasters, and then he was like, ”You know what, we should link up, what’s your number?” Whats wrong with that? He just wants to talk to you more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:03 PM
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She stood up being performatively emotional? While the other woman was being honest? And you are giving her a cookie for that? Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:02 PM
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No shes right. I get super annoyed when I match ugly ass women on dating apps and find that they matched me back. Like why did they think they had a chance? Can't they see that I am handsome and they are not very pretty. It makes me think they must be arrogant, and delusional about how they look. Shouldn't they be matching with men on their level? How have they not figured out there level yet when they are like 30 years old. I remember when this dorky guy asked one of the popular girls in my fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:59 PM
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Men have to be funny. Make jokes. Super obvious example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:56 PM
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You end up with a ton of women who think rough and sometimes painful sex is normal and whats supposed to happen. So would those women think I am a passive bitch and not as alpha and dominant as those men who choked her if she is used to a man choking her in sex? So I could potentially lose out on the woman of my dreams because she was sexually corrupted by men earlier in her life? Is that what you are implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:54 PM
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And little children are being expsoed to it right? Little girls learning about sexual kink when they are like 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:53 PM
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Do I realistically want my husband to be a 6’5” “alpha mafia boss”? Lmfao no. Youre saying your husband is less masculine than a 6'5" alpha mafia boss. Correct? I know a woman who dated a Russian mafia connected guy. SHe was very sexually excited by him and his life style, your saying you wouldn't be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:52 PM
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Women say this because they do not have to perform for men. No man should listen to this shit from women. All men perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:39 PM
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It doesn't sound fun to me. SOunds like you are roleplaying thing you can't get from your partner. Sounds soul crushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:36 PM
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Domme women just want to be dominated by more dominant men (and they have decided most men are not dominant enough for them)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:28 PM
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to the men they choose to be in relationships with. Women are choosing less men than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:24 PM
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You aren't interested in analysis or being emotionally honest, you are interested in being performatively emotional. And looking for barbs, this convo is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:23 PM
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You don't even know if she truly likes you, if she would have chosen you after being exposed to other men. Youre fully enmeshed, it can hardly be said that you even chose each other at all, more like fell into each other. Maybe one day if you get divorced and have to go back out on the dating market you will see how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:21 PM
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Let me clarify. I wouldn't choose someone who has all those qualities. Its more that if I want to date a entertaining funny woman who makes me laugh, I know I must date one who is uglier than me. A funny entertaining woman equal to my looks, will want an even better looking man. Or higher status. Or a man funnier and more entertaining than her (and therefore myself) Basically when it comes down to it, men date down, and women date up. All dates and dating are shot through by this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:18 PM
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Well we already established that you settled. The lower down the totem pole you select a woman at, the less entertaining you have to be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:14 PM
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Women are more boring than men on average, yes. Men have to be interesting to attract women. Remember its male birds with the pretty feathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:14 PM
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Awww, your offended by people wanting to be emotionally validated and respected, how cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:13 PM
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Because shes uglier than me? And more boring? More lame? Less competent. ECT. Thats why she desires me, I'm impressive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:09 PM
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Most people are boring, women even more so. What you are saying is essentially that people should just be alone except for 10-20% of interesting attractive people, fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:07 PM
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No, I am reading both threads. Typical of you to assume you are worth following, rather than you having opinions that invite a lot of criticism compared to the average poster. Men DO get something out of being in a relationship with a woman Oh sorry, I thought you wanted men and women to get the same things out of a relationship, love respect attention ect. So what you are saying is that men and women get different things out of a relationship? That you are bargaining with different currency? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:05 PM
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How is it mutually entertaining when the man has to be the more entertaining one or else he gets rejected by the woman for being boring? Its not mutual. Its the men entertaining the women, expending more effort than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:59 PM
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Thats the market place. You women created it. You asked why a man would stay in a relationship with you despite you being a not-shit woman who is not offering him the same things that hes offering you (dates, planning, initiation, leadership, entertainment), and I gave you an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:57 PM
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If you really believed that, you’d be out praising women left and right for building our great civilization and keeping society functioning I do praise good women. I love them. I know how hard it is to be a good women, when all of female western sexual culture is smacking you in the face over and over, screaming at you to not be a good woman. TO give into hedonism and dopamine constantly. I hate women who are corrupting other women, brainwashing them with their group think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:54 PM
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So date uglier women, thats probably what you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:51 PM
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But do women water or do they just look for the next guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:43 PM
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The thing most men desire is sexual validation (read: not simply sex) so all that other stuff is peanuts. Its nice. And its also completely ash-in-hands without the feeling that my sexual being is being fulfilled. That I am validated as a successful male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:42 PM
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How the fuck is it enjoyable when I have to entertain you, but you don't have to entertain me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:38 PM
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No, hes saying he doesn't want to always have to be the one in control, "Leading" her, entertaining her, directing the relationship ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:37 PM
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Why on earth would “most men” stay in a relationship with a woman if they felt they weren’t getting anything out of it? Sexual release...? Validation that you aren't a loser because you have a woman on your arm in public...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:34 PM
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I feel like women dont understand that courting them can be mentally draining They definitely do not. They are so extremely ignorant. They think its all "fun" for men. If you date a woman lower value than yourself, then there is less pressure to court. But that is not a satisfying outcome for most men who AT LEAST want their equal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:32 PM
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But women control the sexual market place, don't they HAVE to make better decisions than men for our society to function?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:30 PM
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You are suggesting the fallacy that whatever we see woman doing, its actually what they always wanted to do, their mums just did not have the opportunity or freedom. So I asked... "So you don't think women can be sexually influenced by the culture they surround themselves with"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:29 PM
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So porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:28 PM
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someone telling you to appreciate going out with friends rather than trying to find a girlfriend. Haha, that really is most of the "advice" or even commentary women and sought after men offer. "Just stfu, sexual validation is not for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:25 PM
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So you want to be jackhammered
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:17 PM
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So you don't think women can be sexually influenced by the culture they surround themselves with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:15 PM
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A "domme" woman is a misnomer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:11 PM
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What about how porn only shows certain races having sex with all the women and not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:11 PM
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Must not be very good given how many men you've fucked who did that to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:10 PM
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Whats for worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:08 PM
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You should only have sex with people who you've taken a measure of their character, strength, integrity, and intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:07 PM
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you didn' answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:06 PM
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So you think there is maximum percentage of women into "this stuff"? Because it used to be like 0% a few decades ago. Now its all over social media and written about in major publications on Apple News. Do you think there are other niche fetishes that could explode in popularity among women in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:05 AM
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I mean, don't you kind of sound like a dirty woman? Seems weird to criticize him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:29 AM
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As a man, where is my fantasy sex? Why do women think they deserve fantasy sex? Men aren't getting it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:28 AM
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whereas being "vanilla" is seen as prudish and boring. Does that mean leftist women are more likely to have messed up fetishes and kinks? So they can appear "cool"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:23 AM
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Why are these women asking him to choke her. Whats wrong with them? I thought women were powerful and equal to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:22 AM
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Why would you watch something that is so powerful that it makes you cum and not want to do it...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:21 AM
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Why are woman asking me to choke them? Especially leftist women who are gender queer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:20 AM
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Why is the number increasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:19 AM
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Why wouldn't they want it? If theres nothing wrong with it. Women love dark romance boosk, its all over social media
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:17 AM
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Well then why are there so many weirdo women on reddit tlaking about how they love kink sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:16 AM
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Why don't you just talk to them about sex instead of forcing all men to guess what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:13 AM
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All "dom" "assertive" women are just looking for an even more impressive dominant man to put them in their place. Womens sexuality is tedious in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:10 AM
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Will that make women want big cocks as well then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:09 AM
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How are the wealthy "stealing" from the poor...? Don't the wealthy pay the vast majority of the taxes in the United States?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:06 AM
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Wow, and so you are telling me that liberal women want a liberal man likeyourself who fantasizes about being the leader of harems and entertaining "many different women" in his life time. How romantic. Reading your post literally made me gag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:05 AM
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Uh.. what? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:03 AM
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I know multiple men like that. One is an accountant. One is a salesperson for telecom equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:58 AM
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WHat do independent women do that make men feel insecure? FUck lots of guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:07 PM
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Yes, yes. We know you women like to be in power and be in control of all your actions with men. Choose some for sex. Choose some for marriage. Choose some for vacation. Choose some for this niche and some for that niche. We know you love the power you have in the dating market. Whoopie-doo, do you want us to clap for you? Congrats, you realized that men are more horny than you and you can fuck guys that don't want to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:05 PM
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Ya it didn't address that at all. It also didn't address the onlyfans girl cultures and why men like him attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:00 PM
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No, I am saying if women are "done" with men, why are more and more of them sexually debasing themselves for men every year? Millions of men at that. Sharing their bodies with them for sexual gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:59 AM
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No, they left is angry about wealth inequality, race inequality. Not just healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:56 AM
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Two parent households ect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:51 AM
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Women are the choosers. WHy can't they just choose men their own age? Oh ya because no one shames them or polices their behavior anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:26 AM
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Thats more your group that hates parenting. Not all cultures are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:23 AM
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You only date "top" men right? feel in front of other men As opposed to you who date a man because of how it makes your pussy feel and how he appears to your friends? How is that more valuable behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:22 AM
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Why don't you take your own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:17 AM
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Men don't have a fertility clock
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:17 AM
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Well why are there so many women attracted to being around those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:06 AM
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No. Its logical. Men desire women for their bodies first and foremost. Women desire men for a plethora of qualities. Humor. Charisma. Social status. Sex skills. Flirt skills. SO many skills. Men have to be better than women, to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:01 AM
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Waht about all the conservatives like me who just hate the retarded shit that comes out of the left?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:59 AM
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I'm not religious, I don't care about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:57 AM
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blow to his manhood Women tear out mens manhood all the time, and they laugh and giggle about it with their girlfriends. So its par for the course
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:50 AM
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I'd never date a bible thumper (or torah or koran thumper); I'd never date a pro-life person; I'd never date an anti-LGBTQ; I'd never date anyone who wasn't a staunch believer in the Bill of Rights and individual liberties. I have a healthy dose of anti-authoritarianism in me. You can be all of those and be a conservative and support Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:49 AM
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I'm an individual and I judge others as individuals, I don't judge them based on their political camp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:47 AM
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Not really. The men are just broadly "better".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:44 AM
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Just so you know there is a genre of black women being slaves to white men which I consider just as problematic. No there is not. And its fucking dwarfed by the opposite. And it is real life because we see white women choosing black men 10:1 compared to black women choosing white men. Black men and white women LOVE to fetishize each other. No one is scared of people of color being together ALso completely wrong. No other race wants to compete with other races over their women either. Its cross r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:33 PM
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Its not any more victimizing than breaking up with someone for some other reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:31 PM
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Are you going to be one of those alone women, or are you going to fight it out for the smaller pool of liberal men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:22 PM
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Ok, well I'm conservative and live in Chicago. And I certainly don't believe an individual women is necessarily "below myself" especially one I would date. I'm not even religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:21 PM
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It's not a societal standard that a man should "be a leader" or that women must defer to men because they ultimately know better, it's a system of control. You are just setting up straw men. Thats not what conservative men want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:13 PM
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believing that black men have big dicks is fetishization. No its not. They do have bigger dicks. On average. It's ironic that men like you think black men are inferior yet are terrified that they might not be able to be superior. No they are definitely superior. They are more athletic, bigger dicks, bigger frames ect. They are the most masculine race of man. They also get white women to do crazy things for them, like get tattoos about being owned by black men. Why do white women do those things?…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:12 PM
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And you think this is a good thing, a bad thing, who is at fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:08 PM
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Stop stalking me unless you want to have an actual discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:52 PM
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conservatism is about control and dominance No, its not. Its a set of societal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:40 PM
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What would be the point in being with a conservative man when he believes that I am below him in every way which is incompatible with how I view myself? I don't even know how you came to this belief. You sound like a radical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:37 PM
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Yes because I have seen so much porn where black men humiliate white men and women sexually. I have seen white women stamp "balck owned" on their ass in a tattoo. Seen white women say that white men aren't good enough and talk about Big Black Cock all day long. So youre damned right I don't want to be with a woman who sucks black dick. Maybe you should do better and understand why people are uncomfortable with racial fetishization and race play power sexual dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:33 PM
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Yes, she can just go find another man. Whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:27 PM
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If she hadnt tasted the better options, then he would be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:25 PM
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Why is what different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:24 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:23 PM
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Why do you think the woman turned around and opened the door for some guy harassing her? I am still trying to wrap my mind around it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:21 PM
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We are talking about cheating, not "beating the shit out of women"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:18 PM
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This is why that in the vast majority of relationships the man is more charismatic than the woman, in general hes superior to her. If you meet a couple and the woman didn't settle, then you know the man is better than her. Funnier. More driven. More charismatic. Smarter most likely. More confident. Probably the case in your relationship as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:15 PM
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Is that why more and more of them go into porn every year?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:12 PM
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You seem happy, proud even, about the division.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:12 PM
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It just means the relationship ends. Its no different then if she left him because she found sex boring and isn't fulfilled anymore. Women and men leave each other for stupid selfish reasons all the time and other women (many on this sub) and men praise them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:10 PM
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Because he will never be good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:09 PM
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How is that any different than women divorcing their husbands? Do you empathize with the pain those husbands go through when their wives throw them away because they are bored of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:08 PM
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Because the left type people are radicalized, yes politics matter. I saw a video of a black man commanding a white woman to open the door for him because its black history month, and this guy actually got this woman to turn around walk back 10 meters to open the door for him. I can't imagine the mother of my children to be so pathetic as that. Very disturbing behavior by those on the left these days. Anyway there are rapist mean vile abusive people who voted for Kamala and extremely kind empathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:04 PM
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Thats how women say men should feel when they get rejected for inumerable reasons "shes just not right for you, no biggie"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:00 PM
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Don't you think its more likely that those women will just end up alone? You really think a man is going to hide his political views all the way up to marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:58 PM
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I think the same thing holds true for money and other life conveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:56 PM
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Why is it shity? Shouldn't the woman be greatful that the man exposed his true values to her, now she can leave him and find a better man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:55 PM
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So whats the problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:53 PM
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Ooooooooh. So those other women will find peace being single but you won't have to. How convenient for you. Btw its hilarious that you believe "progressivism = morals"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:52 PM
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Because now they can select from 1000 guys to pick one to have sex with, and he can't? Before they could only select from the guys in their daily life for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:22 PM
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So does that mean a large portion of those women will never find a man? How do you feel about that? Do you think you will be one of those women who fails to find a man because too many are conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:17 PM
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Modern western women are indoctrinated with feminism from birth, its just not possible to undo all of that. I actually kind of agree with this. Its shocking how the average modern western (W) woman has little concept of honor, legacy, restraint. Its just DOPAMINE DOPAMINE DOPAMINE for the women of the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:15 PM
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Thats not how western women are behaving at all. In fact they are specifically sleeping with guys that can't provide for them, but can provide fun, entertainment, and good sex (hungggg). For example the demographic that dates out the most is also the demographic with the least income in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:14 PM
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The point is that in the end the quiet respectful guys lose, I think we can agree about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:12 PM
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is just plain unhelpful Who cares whats helpful. Yes lying can be helpful, that doesn't mean my go to for everything is lying. That would be ‘bad’ to some people, but not to her. It is bad. She will trouble mightly to find any kind of attractive guy with self respect unless she wants an open relationship. assuming that’s what everyone else thinks is amazing. What I think is amazing sex is what other people also think is amazing sex. That is my point, you think you are a special snowflake, but i …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:10 PM
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Having sex is a basic human experience that even our grubby ancestors digging for roots experienced. Having money is not. They are not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:07 PM
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It sounds like you are repeating things you heard to be correct instead of describing any kind of reality that we all experience. Having ED is objectively failing at sex. The fact that you can't even acknowledge that its possible for men to fail at sex... means you are just ignorant about a lot of this and how the average person lives. Being amazing at sex is also not very subjective at all. Knowing how to use your body, how to hold an erection, how to use your hands, all the technical stuff is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:04 PM
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Are you saying that you "see" and value unattractive men? I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:57 PM
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No, its not. Old people have the least sex of anyone. Most of their dicks don't work and most women stop feeling sexy or desiring sex in their 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:55 PM
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Ya I thought he did. Btw this week he went on Piers Morgan and made Piers rage quit his own show by showing him photos of Piers wife posting pics on social media asking "where the pool boys are" Sounds pretty confident to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:54 PM
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then it’s just a compatibility issue No. Its not. Its that the guy failed sex. Has nothing to do with "compatibility". All men want to be amazing at sex. If a woman rejects you its because you failed, not because you "weren't compatible"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:53 PM
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A lot of guys struggle to maintain an erection and then when they get going they cum to fast. Having "good sex" can be quite difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:46 PM
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So do you also prefer women who have been with two men, where shes sucking one off and then being fucked by the other one. I mean I've been the man in that scenario and it didn't make me want to marry a woman like that. Shes also comparing you to all the other sensations any other guys has made her experience. For example if you are her first, she may find your average dick quite impressive and powerful. Will she feel the same way after having one 2-3 inches longer and wider? Doubtful. Now you'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:42 PM
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That is literally the basis for socialist and leftist politics.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:39 PM
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Everyone cares what others think. You aren't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:36 PM
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Its not insecure to be nervous around a notorious expositionary documentarian lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:33 PM
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Where is the racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:31 PM
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There is no lying. Its all relative. Its possible to get validation through many interactions even if they are transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:31 PM
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Ya I mean hes just a podcaster. He hosts a show with sluts, thats his game. I think guys who are more impressive are like professional athletes who have rosters all over the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:30 PM
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This has to got to be some muslims central asian shit. Most societies do not have a plethora of "virgin" women under the age of 22. I think guys in the west are just happy if she didn't fk with black guys or have a "bdsm" partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:45 PM
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Its just the reality of lonely women, not a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:42 PM
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Super gross. I don't understand how women are attracted to men who enjoy fart, pee, shit humor. Like I am not ashamed of farting, but who the fuck wants to talk about it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:39 PM
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Thats why I hide my flaws during the interview process, and then evaluate how good the perks are. Then I move onto a better job when I decide the perks aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:37 PM
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Maybe in your generation. In my generation a huge portion of women do not even settle down and have children until their 30s. They also cover themselves in tattoos and continue to live like they are broke college children. Obessing about their dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:34 PM
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for some For most. As a man, I would prefer to date a taller woman (I'm 5'9") most women, the vast majority, do not want to date a man who is shorter than her. Unless hes way more handsome than she is in the face. Most men I know can or just have their own type of charisma that works for them. Being friendly with women is not equal to flirting or generating sexual tension
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:23 PM
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Sounds convoluted. Wouldn't it be easier to just judge people by the principles you set for yourself? Sounds like your trying to carve out a huge section whether you are judging them but "not really" so that you don't have to feel like a judgemental person. Seems pretty cowardly tbh. Will you take that tactic with your children as well? Don't want to accidently "judge them" right? That would AWFUL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:19 PM
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So now you are judging young womens sexual choices? Aren't you a sex work is work, sex positive type person? Women should celebrate whatever kind of sex they have, right? As long as its consentual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:16 PM
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Why are you assuming I've been single all my life? So you agree that "just go to parties" is bs advice after a certain age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:07 PM
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His dad wasn't even in his life so how did that help. Well first of all, he would have a shot with you because hes tall that no short guy would ever have with you. So that right there is status. He can attract short women and tall women. Short men can only attract short women. He has status simply by being charismatic and having the social skill and wit to engage with strange women and talk to them. Most men I know couldn't flirt with a strange woman if their life depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:05 PM
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Thats what I said in my original post. No they flirt with other women, just NOT YOU. Men are the initiators. You are at their mercy. If one doesn't choose you, you get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:56 PM
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His status with women. Also he is tall. He has a big dick probably. Im not a big money guy, but he has a lot of money obviously. Hes just a very valuable guy, and the average women would kill to lock down someone like him (but they can't)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:56 PM
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So you agree that slutty women should be judged and criticized so they will change their behavior and stop having NSA sexy with sketchy men they barely know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:52 PM
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Ya, who are they having sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:52 PM
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So who do the women have sex with them? Who do they couple with?They never went home with a guy from a bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:46 PM
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Those things are all important and meaningful but ultimately meaningless without sexual validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:45 PM
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How is it misplaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:44 PM
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Have you considered that you may not be very good at debating because you are unprincipled and hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:30 PM
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Ok, I hope no one flirts with you then. Then you can be happy. But we both know that you are lying about how you feel about that. If no one ever flirted with you, you would in fact be crying in your room. Your too cowardly to admit to your own emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:29 PM
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K but you aren't addressing what I am saying. I was dumped after a woman brought me back to her place after the sex. Did she use me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:25 PM
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Yes? Everyone I associate with is educated, went to college, is upper-middle class or upper class. All the women fucked guys quickly who gave them the right tingles and dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:24 PM
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Huh? I am telling you that most men I know would struggle with hitting on a woman in any context tbh, but especially walking on a street. All the men I know are in relationships with women they met online, or they were "friendly" with first through social groups, they have no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:14 PM
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Maybe the sex wasn't good enough for them to want to keep seeing her. Is that not a valid reason to break up? How would you even know if hes lying or not. If you weren't good enough for him, then move on and find a man you are good enough for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:12 PM
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Thats how every woman I have ever dated, and been friends with has been. Unless they are asexual people-phobic types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:11 PM
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Who told you that? Its what I have witnessed in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:04 PM
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So you want me to try having sex with them first before moving forward? To see how attracted I feel? I was actually going to make a thread about this phenomnon. I have now been accused by multiple women of "hurting" them because we dated for awhile and after we had sex I decided I didn't want to see them anymore, because the sex was just mediocre. And I am looking around, like, what the fuck did I do wrong? Its not my fault that the sex was mediocre and thats why I don't want to continue dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:03 PM
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Lots of professionally successful men are losers who can't generate attraction in women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:00 PM
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Whats a high value task then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:53 PM
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You
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:45 PM
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No, we are not atoms. You are influenced by what others consider shameful behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:44 PM
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All modern women do "hook ups" with the right man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:43 PM
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Most people absolutely cannot chat up random broads on the street and close the deal with sex later. The vast majority of people can only have sex with people in "warm" environments they are encouraged to spend time with each other. Dude pornstars have sex with tons of people - this isn’t a flex. Tons of people, but they tend to have very specific requirements which most men do not meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:42 PM
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You want men to date women they find unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:38 PM
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The guys in the documentary have porn stars sucking their dick for clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:35 PM
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Like having sex with them on the first date. Going over to their place on the first meeting? THose pre-cautions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:35 PM
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you didn't give any examples
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:34 PM
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I did watch the documentary, I was very interested in it. Yes being famous and making fun of women will get you many many online haters who make lots of "comments". Meanwhile hes getting sexual validation and millions of men are virgins or have gfs that aren't even sexually attracted to them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:33 PM
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He’s literally acting akward and insecure How was he awkward and insecure? I didn't get that at all. I only read it on reddit, when I watched it I sensed more of a dual going on between Theroux and HS. Tension. Combativeness. Defending ones life perspectives in front of an audience. I don't see how that is insecure. I guess "awkward" is subjective. ANyone would be awkward in front of a camera defending their lifestyle when they know the piece of media is trying to make them look bad. I saw him a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:30 PM
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Hes more confident than the vast majority of men I know. I am talking about working professionals, upper middle class salaries. Just typical guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:27 PM
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No, its shit. The best social group is a very mixed gender one with new people cycling in and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:26 PM
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Find real people in the real world doing real actions Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:25 PM
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I'm 30. There are very few parties being "thrown". Especially the type that lots of single women show up to. I know huge party animals that no longer go to parties, cause no one throws them. The parties that do get thrown are typical in-group clique groups where everyone already knows each other and theres no dating opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:22 PM
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Stranger danger? Have you heard of online dating...? JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:20 PM
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Its insane how far she goes to avoid ever criticizing another woman, its like they are in a gender cult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:19 PM
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Women behave differently with different types of men. Most don't have any sexual principles, they are entirely reactive to the man in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:17 PM
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Bravado is the same thing as confidence. You are splitting hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:15 PM
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I just said that they don't have many girl friends. They are either in LTRs (not meeting single women) or chronically single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:15 PM
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Well I am talking about post-college years. Obviously college is different. Everything about college is completely different than the rest of your life after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:13 PM
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Better than a weak meek boring beta. Any woman agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:12 PM
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they don't want it. They do want it... for money. And its all relative. You can tell if a prostitute is attracted to you on a base level relative to other men, by how they treat you. I think I made a good point that most men are "bad" at sex so for them a normal sex life is also fake, obtained through manipulation, trade offs and bargaining rather than genuine sexual desire. I will be honest, I have had sex with prostitutes and I have felt more desire from certain of ones towards me than women I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:08 PM
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I'm just wondering if you were a man would you be a "chill man" that all the ladies would enjoy chatting with in a random encounter? Or would you be the average "un-chill" man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:04 PM
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Media hit pieces make anyone uncomfortable. Bending under pressure is hardly the mark of someone "faking it"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:01 PM
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You don't know why a woman would want to have sex with a man who is tall, internet famous, big dicked, and charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:59 AM
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With a bunch of dudes? How is that going to help with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:57 AM
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Hes certainly more confident and desirable than men who have never touched a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:56 AM
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It can't if you don't do shameful things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:55 AM
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Which online men should be young mens influencers? Challenge: Don't mention your stupid frat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:47 AM
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And the other guy is still a giant mammas boy. If hes a mommas boy then why do so many women want to have sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:45 AM
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HS says he is disgusted by OF models but still owns an OF model agency is the same as the McDonald’s CEO cringing at eating his own “product I don't really see how that is goofy. Hes using them for money. He doesnt want his future wife or mother to be a sex worker. But uses the sex workers for money and sex. Seems pretty straight forward to me. How are guys who consume porn on their laptops any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:44 AM
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That only describes shock jocks like Fresh and Fit. What do you have to say about HStikytoky? Hes fit, exudes confidence, and has sex with porn stars, and random broads he hits up in vacation towns. Hes the guy your daughters are going to fuck when they go on their "girls trips" to some tropical island.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:41 AM
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Most non-autistic women in PPD would jump into bed with HStikytoky in a heart beat. He exudes confidence and all the qualities that women here say they find attractive in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:38 AM
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I think they should stop approaching women and women can have sex with the 5% of dogs that habitually approach women. ANd get used and abused by those aggressive men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:36 AM
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How am I suppose to get invited to things like that? New fresh women have not entered my social circles, its all just the same people, most of them men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:35 AM
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Are you chill? Or you like men entertaining you, while you just react to what they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:32 AM
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Why is it so much easier for women to get invited to parties than men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:31 AM
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Are women thrilled when no men flirt with them? Tf you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:30 AM
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Pot meet kettle Your one of the least empathetic posters in this sub. Those mean men are your equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:28 AM
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Slutty women lose interest in sex as well. All women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:23 AM
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But I don't want a man I love and respect so much and who respects me to do that to me. The idea just sounds completely offputting to me. And I don't want the mother of my children to have anal sex with "casual" partners. But women in PPD don't seem to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:18 AM
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Oh ya, just hide everything from everyone. Because you are ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:16 AM
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Sexualisation of children is disgusting to you... but simulated rape is not. Got it. Yes you are very principled indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:12 AM
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Maybe your partners just lay there and like, passively accept intercourse as something that’s happening to them? They’re lying back and thinking of England? It doesn't matter what position shes in. I'm inside her. Shes the one being made vulnerable. Why would you think that a woman raping a man is a more trivial crime than a man raping a woman? Why would you think a man would have the same reaction to having some woman "rape" his dick, compared to being anally penetrated and raped? Why don't you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:11 AM
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Shes being paid to have sex with him. It doesn't mean she finds him repulsive or unattractive. Lots of women can't even orgasm with their partners, so what is the difference between dating a woman who barely even enjoys sex with you vs. a prostitute? It sounds like about the same experience for the average man. Especially considering women consistently say that most men are "terrible" at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:08 AM
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What if women all decide they are only attracted to one race of guy? Would you start to question womens "attraction" ideology then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:05 AM
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It’s like video games. How do we expect women to respect men if so many of them just want to be killed, as evidenced by their repeated participation in video games where they are regularly killed? How is getting fucked and sex anything like video games? WHy are you trying to compare sex to non-sexual experiences? I can also play video games with children, and I can't have sex with them. Sex is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:03 AM
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Just imagine what effect other groups of men have on women. Suddenly they realize this one group of guys has bigger cocks than other groups of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:00 AM
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then they are likely to want to jump though those hoops since it’ll be less expensive than paying for a hooker. Wrong. because a non-hooker woman who is sexually interested in him would readily have sex with him as readily as a hooker would Wrong. Men like variety and NSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:59 AM
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Probably understand it better than you, thats why youre feeling uncomfortable with this conversation. You can't revel in power and ignore that a power dynamic demands someone be on the losing end and subjugated by someone else. Which is an essentially negative aspect of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:59 PM
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Why would you judge people in your personal life but not others? Why does consent matter? Shouldnt the intentions behind the acts matter more than "consent". If someone is drawing sexualized children, no one is hurt, everyone is "consenting", you think this is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:57 PM
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I don’t think being penetrated is inherently more submissive I think you are lying to yourself. This is what you want to be true, but in terms of how you feel and how you see other people, I seriously doubt it. woman-on-man rape is often trivialized Because it is trivial compared to when a man rapes someone. ‘the penetrating partner always has more agency.’ They do... anyone who is in control of someone else has less agency than the person controlling then. This is literally power dynamics 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:56 PM
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But you think that kind of sex is wrong, or is it inconsequential? What do you care about, just yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:53 PM
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It all plays off of each other. Many men want to degrade women because they don't feel desired by them and feel humiliated by women in turn. As more and more men feel undesired and sexually worthless compared to the smaller segment of men that women go crazy over, more and more men will seek out extreme ways to prove to themselves in their mind that their woman desires them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:49 PM
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It would require women to have sexual principles beyond "what makes my pussy tingle" and "wheres my dopamine today"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:48 PM
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If you get sexually turned on by something, it means you want to experience it, you just want to have control over the experience, and remove any consequences from the experience. Just because you only want to experience it under certain conditions, doesn't mean its not an experience you want. Personaly if my partner was sexually fantasizing about things that I can't provide, I wouldn't be very turned on by them anymore. And that seems to be the casewith many many many women and these "dark roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:46 PM
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So you approve of someone being "unkind" and wanting to sexually dominate, humiliate, 'own', objectify someone in the bedroom. It just can't be "in real life" (even though sex is real life)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:44 PM
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its just usually degrading women and doing violent acts on women because most people who watch porn are straight males. Cuckhold, and general humiliation and emasculation porn are huge segments of porn, and directly degrade men and make them feel worthless. You don't have to be on the receiving end of a dick to be degraded and humiliated by porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:43 PM
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So you like to experience sexual trauma and impose that on others, in a "safe" way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:42 PM
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Well when I am fucking someone I definitely feel I am dominating them. I don't feel its violent though. But its inherently more violent than receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:40 PM
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What about when men are degraded in porn? You don't care about them? Just the actresses, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:25 PM
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So you want to be with a man who is a cuck, but a secret cuck? If he doesn't know, hes not a cuck. But if he knows what you did, that turns him into a cuck. Got it. You can find out about that by asking what shes into. You misunderstood my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:23 PM
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Dying as someone who's only had sex with people who don't want you Why do you assume a man cannot be attractive to a sex worker? She may very well want him. Just like in dating it depends on the individuals involved and their relative SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:19 PM
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I am pro sex worker Aren't you worried that by going around saying you are pro-sex worker, you are encouraging the next generation of young women to participate? You are normalizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:17 PM
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A lot of men who pay for sex also receive plenty of sexual attention from women but don't want to jump through as many hoops when they want to scratch a sexual itch Just talk to hookers, most of their clients are in relationships or actively dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:15 PM
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WHy do you want to be with a man who is turned on by the idea of raping you? How do you expect men to respect women when in the bedroom they want to be raped and dominated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:12 PM
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WHy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:11 PM
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You don't think porn is damaging to mens sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:10 PM
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Why do you need a "dom" to feel sexually satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:09 PM
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Why do you get turned on by being sexually violent to women? YOu don't think theres a problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:08 PM
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What about the porn that you are ashamed of, do you let her know about that as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:06 PM
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What about if you watch and get sexually excited from a porn video? It doesn't mean you want it? read a book Are you just reading a book? Or are you actively getting turned on in your genitals while reading it? That seems pretty key distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:04 PM
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I think once a man starts having sex, the veil is lifted and he realizes just how submissive women are. Most women truly are at the whims of the men they engage with sexuality. Women want to be under mens power, its part of what makes men attractive. Its mens role. Some men use this power to push their women farther and farther. Other men are respectful of this power, and don't abuse women's submissive nature. Its a balancing act. Simps tend to be kind of afraid of this power, and afraid of losi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:59 PM
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What about when you are thrusting in and out? That doesn't feel like you are "doing it to her", imposing yourself on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:56 PM
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I can't personally think of any exceptions in my personal life Why would they be advertising how they fucked x, y, z guys that don't fit the mold of your social group? You wouldn't even know. the world is a big place Yes that is my point. And average young women are experiencing more and more of it with every generation. The type of men they have sexual access to are different than the types their mothers had access to. In the end its their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:33 PM
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It takes some ignorance and complete lack of self awareness in your inherent value to let a guy violate you for an experiment, dump you, and than you then carry onto all your future relationships. Your future husband is suppose to somehow be proud of you for trying anal in a park and then deciding it was bad an never to let another man do it (except that one man who outs it in his back pocket). Here is the truth, many of these guys don't want to do anal with you, they are put off that you did an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:29 PM
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Unless someone has a major change in appearance (gains/loses lots of weight), the people they settle down with generally look like the people they dated/hooked up with when younger. Thats really not the case. When women get exposed to different types of men they have an impact on her. She may have never dated outside her race until after 'youth', never dated a guy with a kinky sexuality until after 'youth'. Never been with a man with high status ect ect. All she needs to do is meet ONE guy who b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:23 PM
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foster connection, providing companionship, emotional support, and shared experiences that enhance personal growth How am I suppose to do that with a woman who had group sex, a woman who had "kink" sex, who became a sexual slave for another man? It is also not right to get into a relationship with a woman only to bombard her about questions about her sex life Why would asking her questions about sex be a problem, unless you are implying she is ashamed of her behavior. Is sex sacred, or is it not…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:14 PM
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I mean penetrating a woman is an inherently aggressive act. How can women be attracted to "niceness" and "passivity" when the very sexual act being negotiated over is one of decisive action and breaking down a barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:12 PM
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I think hair is overrated. I think because its a negative, men over obsess about it. Yes you would be marginally more attractive with a fully head of hair, but the idea that its anything but marginal is crazy. Its far down the list of things that reduce your access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:53 AM
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The draft is definitely a red herring in any gender discussion. American men are definitely not afraid of any kind of draft, they do not even think of it as a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:51 AM
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