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| 2 | Failure in real life approaches but master at online datingYou have no charisma. It’s okay. Most people can’t approach a complete stranger and find common ground. Only way to improve is to keep trying and maybe the pain of failure will teach you something | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Confused about dance club pick upNo one does pick up at dance clubs. We are there to dance. Just enjoy the music bro | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 09:40 PM |
| 47 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?True. I had an old boss (now friend) in his forties. His fiancée is 25 (similar age as me). They just have to be into it. It helps that he was cool and took good care of his body | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Which nationality of women age the best?French | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Christian - Casual Congruence?Thanks. Would be interested in hearing how you approach it | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Christian - Casual Congruence?Sure you can still be moral. But according to the general Christian consensus, you wouldn’t be much of a Christian. I have a similar background. I was raised in a conservative Baptist family. The ‘modus operandi’ in these circles is for kids to get hitched young with pretty much no sexual experience beforehand. You know, ‘sin’ and that old chestnut. Luckily, I was one of the outliers and didn’t end up following this path. Eventually moved by myself to Europe. Living independently got me away fro… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | How to get a attention seeker girl ?X10 snaps a day? She’s not an attention seeker, she’s a hoe. Easiest way is to become her pimp or something | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I've been having wet dreams and I'm a virginThat time? This isn’t even proper English | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:07 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meNot my fault he came here. Was just giving advice for the day after | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meThis is a seduction subreddit you know | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Any tips for quiet girls with a crazy side?Simple. Just be a stack of cash and maybe they will slap their ass with you | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 06:31 AM |
| 0 | I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people?There are still a LOT of women who don’t use apps. More often than not actually | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people?So move if it’s that important. You have to do what’s best for you | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 8 | My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over meYou should sleep with other women. But break up with her first. This isn’t good for you. Maturity is knowing to move away from fucked up situations quickly before they get too much of a hold on your mind. It was easier today than it’s ever going to be | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend not having sexDoes he know you’re an Only Fans model? I’ve reported for commercial advertising (obv) | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Want To Date But Not Have SexHe’s 24. He doesn’t have Thyroid cancer. Jesus Christ | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What To Do?Ah. I see | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | how do i make the moveBro. Leave the kids alone | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What To Do?For a fact? You could have fooled me… | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Women Only Find Me Attractive in a CostumeMaybe start cosplaying then idk | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 06:19 PM |
| 10 | Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) - Thoughts?Dude. Who cares | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | “You’re annoying”‘Partners’? Who are you? Warren Jeffs or something? | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 06:27 PM |
| 0 | How's The rules of the game to start learning pickup?Bro. Stop harassing the man. You want a step by step guide on basic human interaction? That’s lame. You should be able to figure these things out. The answer is trial and error. He gave it to you three times. How are you not getting that? Just approach people. Use common sense and don’t care so much | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | tinder match helpI’ve seen people use a photo to verify their fake photo’s | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 12:20 AM |
| 2 | tinder match helpThe talkers are usually catfish | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How to meet women while working on the road?Hotel girls are freaks. Brother used to travel a lot for work. Said they were easy. Especially the Milf managers | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 11:24 PM |
| 10 | I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth.It was an emotional affair | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Where to go in EuropeNothing wrong with a sex vacation. But expecting to seduce women from a different culture is what’s weird here. Guy should just visit De Wallen and call it a day if this is what he wants. Plenty of Eastern European women there. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | I haven’t done a cold approach….in 4monthsYeah. He didn’t ask for that. Sod off | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 03:02 AM |
| 7 | I 21M get tired during sexTrain your abs to be usable | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | First Cold Approach LayWhat city are you based in? Just interested for demographic research purposes | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 10:08 PM |
| 3 | A 20 year old woman and meYeah. Fuck of with this trash. We are not here to ease your guilty conscience. You went along with it and you guys are only 5 years apart. 20 years old is young enough to be a baby anyway. I just realised this after being on vacation for the last two weeks with my 19 year old cousin. Technically an adult. Still felt like I was babysitting a child. Jesus Christ | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 7 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookYour style sounds okay but you just need to shut up a little. If you are coming off as too smart, you’re probably talking about yourself and your interests a good percentage of the time. You want to be asking more questions about the girl and have her talking about herself and her interests more than yours | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How to socialize in a college club full of women?Yeah. And I don’t mean the clueless thing badly. You’re probably young. The good news is that you can only go up from here and learn. Life is just one big learning experience | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Bible & The Bible of Pleasure is available! Dm me to GetWho’s counting anything? I was just reporting a theft | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:35 AM |
| 2 | She said i’m pretty like a girl?This might surprise you, but women like feminine features on men. That’s what a pretty boy is | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Bible & The Bible of Pleasure is available! Dm me to GetDid you steal your books like you stole my joke? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Bible & The Bible of Pleasure is available! Dm me to GetIs that what your dad said when he hired her? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How can I attract a woman with a BBL?I think I found my boss’s Reddit | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I not end up making me look like a creep?Why not? Are you scared? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Seduction Bible & The Bible of Pleasure is available! Dm me to GetWhat makes you think we are going to pay for your mom? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:19 AM |
| 1 | I like this girl, but she doesn't talk much. How do I escalate the conversation?Only thing I can think of is guy’s a pedo | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | (M23) Needs advice on how to proceed (F40+), (22F)This means nothing if the teacher isn’t into open relationships. At her age, chances are she isn’t. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How to socialize in a college club full of women?Like talk about the point of the club and take things from there? You seem a little clueless. Maybe don’t overthink it and play it cool. Don’t put women on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:55 AM |
| 34 | Ways to Lose A Girl!Yes to this. A lifetime of being on call for work has made me a responsive texter. I don’t care who you are. My friend, enemy or mother. If people have a problem with that, fuck ‘em. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 06:34 AM |
| 6 | Ways to Lose A Girl!No. Most don’t. This guy is out of touch | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Few words for my short friendsI don’t think you know how to read. Because the guy is literally saying that you shouldn’t let the short stuff bother you and you should just work on yourself. The monster stuff is just superficial bullshit that people need to hype themselves up. No one is literally out there becoming a monster. Unless you are some type of real life Walter White character, which is a whole ‘nother can of worms and that is not some guarantee of making you a better guy with women | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Few words for my short friendsLiterally the opposite of what a Napoleon complex is dumbass | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Few words for my short friendsStrength train bro. Not trying to be your dad but it’s like the one thing that most of us can control. Train. Eat good (that means make sure your protein consumption is good, no point in training otherwise, eat that whey). Take your vitamins (make sure you take Creatine, it will maximise your gains). Sleep well. Everything else will more or less fall into place | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 03:43 PM |
| 12 | Lied to a girl about my ageOh fuck it, you’re turning 18. Don’t listen to these noobs. There’s barely a difference. I wouldn’t think twice about it if you had told me that and then I found out you were a few months away. Just don’t lie about important things. Which is most things. But this ain’t one of them | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Should I text her before the date?Don’t | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Where to find high value queer women?Lesbian bars? | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:07 AM |
| 2 | What does an approach at the club look like?Don’t try chat her up on the dance floor like an idiot. Just try vibe. If a girl starts dancing in your general direction, maybe mirror her movements, try lock eyes (not in a creepy way) and if the chemistry is there you can offer her your hand. Maybe she will also feel it and take it. Then you can start dancing a bit. After a time you can invite her to the bar for a drink or smoking area (to cool off if you don’t smoke). You only really chat a bit in these situations. But you don’t want to seem… | /r/seduction | 30/03/24 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Small talkYou are tertiary to the game. Building intimacy without the littlest talks is a pipe dream. I think you’ve confused this with some escort site | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Seduce my flatmate ?That’s how we roll | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Seduce my flatmate ?You need to get over that. Or just take a bit of Ecstasy. Preferably at a techno party. Dancing with him. Pretty sure he’ll take the hint if you just invite him to one | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 11:01 PM |
| 7 | It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalitiesLucky you | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays?To be fair it’s all about location. In Europe, at least Western Europe where I am, approaching strangers in public settings is a big no no. None of us really do it. However, we do tend to enjoy it when someone from outside our culture does it. So that typically means these kind of cold approaches are only done in more organized settings, say if we’ve joined a book club, or sports club together. But the primary places are night clubs and bars. Most of us are off our faces on alcohol (among other … | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays?My friends took me to clubs and bars. Met new friends in clubs and bars. Join a group that has a shared interest book club, sport etc. Could also cold approach people in certain situations. But that only works in certain places in the world eg America. Definitely not much of a thing here in Europe | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 05:49 AM |
| 32 | What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays?My advice to you would be to just get out more. I know it’s probably not exactly what you want to hear but that’s what worked for me and I was a homebody much like you. This was after I too was not having much success on the apps. It’s so much easier to just chat with people in real world locations than apps, where we are all kind of just playing games. I’ve made a lot of friends since just biting the bullet and moving out of my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceWell. Casually bump into her at work again sometime or find an excuse to do so. Take the initiative, make plans and tell her what you want to do. If she’s down, she’s down. If she rejects you, so what? Don’t put women on a pedestal. Infatuation just makes you do dumb things and look silly while doing them. People don’t find that unattractive. You need to train yourself to handle rejection and this might be the perfect opportunity to do so. Practice your response to the rejection. There isn’t a o… | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceMaybe. But both of you seem kind of infatuated which is slightly outside of the scope of this sub. Seduction is more about approaching women and sex more logically and unemotionally and letting those emotions develop after the fact. Maybe just pull back a bit. That usually turns women on. When are you seeing her again? | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Need adviceAre you at home? Text her. Make plans. Doesn’t need to be immediate. Unless it’s some ungodly hour in your time zone | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 05:18 AM |
| 15 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendSome variation of the advice in this thread. But I always like ending it with, ‘have a nice day’ or some fry or of farewell and then shaking their hand. Women seem to enjoy shaking hands. It’s never really offered as a greeting to women in most settings outside of business ones so it feels a little bit subversive for me to do it. They always smile when I do it like we have some inside joke. I love leaving things like that. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:46 AM |
| 12 | What do you guys do if she's late?Make sure you do a DNA test | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 02:25 PM |
| 9 | #1 reason for frustrating dating livesThis is brilliant | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 11:04 AM |
| 5 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)You should just be direct and lay all your cards down as others have suggested. The dynamic of a woman seducing your average man is different to men approaching women. The only way for you to be turned down is if he isn’t your average man and has some commitment that sits larger in his psyche than a man’s natural impulse. Say if his marriage, career or his religion is more important to him. You have said want a no-strings-attached hook-up. Being up front with him about this may also work in your… | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Can I still attract many women if I have small bones?What do you mean ‘small bones’? Is that what the midgets are calling themselves these days? | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 01:48 AM |
| 23 | Great ways you steal kiss with stylePlease send bobs and vageen | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 12:11 AM |
| 13 | How to cold approach without it being coldThis cringe needs to be nuked | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Can’t seem to get a date with a women (19m)That’s what I’ve heard | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Can’t seem to get a date with a women (19m)Either you are shit-baiting me or do you really not understand that Grindr is a gay dating site? | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Can’t seem to get a date with a women (19m)Wait. You are trying to match with women on Grindr? 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Made out with my bestie. Now she sexts whenever she wants. (21F)Lady, be a man and tell her next time is your turn or nothing at all. That means no sexting or nothing until you’ve gotten yours. On another note, this is subreddit for advice not porno stories. Keep it more straightforward next time | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Would the gym help (19M)?The gym will always help. But you are not going to really gain mass by lifting alone. You need to make sure you are eating more protein. It might be difficult or expensive for you to make up the required protein from your diet so you should probably supplement with a bit of whey protein or something else. Creatine is also a good supplement to take to help you bulk up | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Conquering Approach Anxiety: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Taking ActionI didn’t take personal offence at anything. But I truthfully presented my view as my personal experience while you implied that your method was the only way and only retroactively presented it as a personal opinion, like a child | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Conquering Approach Anxiety: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Taking ActionWhile I personally tend to do the same (I leave my game for clubs and bars where people are more open to being approached), your take is really stupid. There are plenty of people who don’t mind being approached in public. Men and women. Don’t lump us in with the anti-social grouches like you. Some people value spontaneous interactions and others don’t. It doesn’t matter. If I you bump into someone who doesn’t you can always just apologise and be on your way. Plus, be original and stop copy pasti… | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 09:07 AM |
| 0 | Any real advice on getting out of my head when seeing a very attractive woman?Just don’t care | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a girlWhy don’t you just leave the Islam instead? Something tells me that would be easier. This is the West. I don’t think you will find any women jumping at the chance to play pretend with your religion while having fun. Who has the energy for that? | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Guys like you are tools. We don’t care if you can hook a gold digger with your stuff. It’s about hooking with game. People who need to flash usually have none | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | write to me pleaseHey, you said he could write whatever man…. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What are the good books for dating tips?That’s funny cause I was gonna mention the Bible but wasn’t sure. Now that I think about it it all makes sense. We could invade another country and carry off their women/s | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 11:05 PM |
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