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| 8 | Help me out of this spiralIt’s done ^ but he is always coming back with new phone numbers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 20 | Help me out of this spiralExactly ! My ex sent me a text message this Friday while it’s been a 1 year since we broke up. Each 3-4months he was sending me some stuff like « My dad had a heartbroke » and some stuff like that. This time he sent a 4 pages message of pure bullshit. I’ve never replied. He is in a relationship (the girl he cheated me with) and I have considered forwarding it to her but actually he is scaring me too much to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:19 PM |
| 3 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)Stalker vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 11:10 AM |
| 6 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)It sounds like my ex wrote this lol so disgusting 🤮 Not even hiding the fact he tries to gaslight her. Just like hooking up with other woman was a way to forget her - 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 11:10 AM |
| 10 | Have you dated a man that can actually clean up?Clean flat but still a trash lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:42 AM |
| 20 | Have you dated a man that can actually clean up?When I was living with my ex, I was the one cleaning 90% of the time.. he was not helping at all. Then we went on a break, and guess who’s flat was super hyper clean ? His flat. We removed together and he was still not cleaning his own mess. It’s not that they don’t know how to clean…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Religion is by men, for menWhile in the Bible (old testament) God is sometimes refers as a « she » because God is neither feminine nor masculin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 100 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼You go Girl !!!! 👌🏻🙌🏻 It’s a bit too bad to not be able to network for jobs per sectors/countries here, Tbh there are so many woman with similar values who cherish sisterhood that would have been awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Invalidation in FriendshipsI’m so glad that my BF is able to forded things I cannot when I’m a bit blind. « this guy is not for you » « this guy don’t deserve you » « this guy is not interested because he would have act like this and this and this » or even « he does not corresponds to the list of qualities/skills you said you were looking for in a man - don’t waste your time » And even supporting me at my worse and at my best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 09:29 AM |
| 45 | How to slam down a guy expecting wife benefits at girlfriend levelqueen vibes 👌🏻🙌🏻🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 09:16 AM |
| 18 | Are men not attracted to women they respect?Or maybe not an attractiveness question, but just that he was clear in his head about his intention ? I feel like what you are saying make sense (to me) tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 9 | When a man uses jargon without explanation 🚩To be honest I sometimes do this, like you are so luck in your job that you forget a bit that some of the vocabulary being used at job is not so common… Not an excuse tho cause when I notice I explain a bit (if people are interested) but yes I can sound rude I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:19 AM |
| 8 | Strategies for running background checks on menadding a number on whatsapp to get a pic, number on fb to check if it match with an account, same with email address, same with snapchat account, any login name can be use for IG or any other social media. if he mentioned some event, check the FB event, or IG pics that were took with a # | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodLooks like a sect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:32 AM |
| 10 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodAnd when you combine this with a Pat Mc Grath one, really, I’m am not here to « sHaRe the BiLl » | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:28 AM |
| 59 | Sisters, the vetting NEVER stops. Once you accept this, you will feel more confident and less insecure in your relationships with menHaha your sister is a queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 10 | I can’t stand patriarchal men😂👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inwhat about sharing train ticket ? Or meet somewhere she can go to by bus, and you picked her there ? Otherwise facetime call. My best friend is living 5000km from me and I wish I could see her more often. Don’t loose too much time not seeing your girls because of a boy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-inTake your time 💜 Maybe your friends can come to see you instead ? everybody’s journey is different, don’t compare yourself too much, just know that this is possible and you will reach this point if you don’t give up on yourself ! 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:53 AM |
| 48 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Oh and btw not sure how law works in your country, but if you are married and got some saving that were yours, if you divorce without having any prenup contract, you need to share your savings 🤡🤡🤡 be careful ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:49 AM |
| -8 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Except the part where the journalist from refinery29 mentioned the « financial infidelity » I don’t think that this article is that bad. I mean, when I read it, I thought that he (ref29) was trying to underline the fact that this is stupid, and help the guy (who is f*cked up ! anyone would be proud to know that the person she/he loves is trying to make sure they are going to be safe in life, no matter what) understand his feeling. He (ref29) also gives some explanations of the « why » English is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inGood to hear ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 08:21 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Check-inSTAY STRONG !!!! Congrat ! Screw him ! There is some part that could interest you in the handbook, I recommend to read as much as you can. What you can do too, is to write down 4-5 events were you were abused and try to give details. Once done, question yourself, why were you staying here ? What were you obtaining from this relationship. You can also write : 100 reasons why I hate you. Avoid sad songs, sad movies. Might not be something appreciated here, but I would recommend watching movies lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The ole blast from the past “I’m in your town let’s get coffee” textLooks like he wants to hit on you while away from his own town… I don’t think that’s a good idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:26 PM |
| 50 | First date quick vetting tipsCan this be added to the handbook - like a cheat sheet to read again before any date ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 09:38 AM |
| 20 | Dating your friend is okay in the FDS strategy book?I actually dated a friend. Ended up he did not understood it was a date. 3 times. 😂🙄 And I had to clarify. Of course. 🤡 edit to add: If anyone got an explanation, I would like to understand. I mean, no one can be that blind! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 14 | The only right way to use dating apps 😂I felt triggered here 😂😂👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 16 | Yet more proof high value ≠ high earnerI completely agree, sometimes they are assholes, but in my own experiment, most of the one I met during my studies (computer science too) were very respectful and for instance always making sure after parties that girls were going back home safely etc, I guess it depends on people you meet. Might also be a country related thing ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 109 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugActually you are a queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:36 PM |
| 82 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugWhy would you loose so much time for someone that don’t want to be saved ? I mean, we are supposed to help each other, but if she doesn’t want to open her eyes, you cannot oblige her, no ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 28 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugActually it was my best opportunity to be cheated on! So no regret, someone else took the garbage. He told her shit so actually I’m a bit sorry for her, but she does have my number and can contact me anytime to get info if she wants to. But I don’t think it would be a good thing to warn her - for my own sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 39 | Boundaries in bedTo the guy that tried to shocked me without any warning. F*** you. I looked at him and said « the fuck you are doing » I should have told him to leave immediately, I did not, which is stupid but then I blocked him. But wtf really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Absolutely 👏👏Got me thinking a few months ago that I used to reply that blue was my fav color. Now it is pink and I would buy anything getting glitters on. Made me realize that I was doing this because I did not wanted adults to find me like the young « dumb » girl. Which to be honest make no sense, but I was doing it quite unconsciously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Absolutely 👏👏A friend of mine told me I was careerist because I want to gain money in life. I. AM. NOT. WORKING. FOR. GLORY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 122 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.My heart cry 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 8 | guys quizzing you on datesand even during interview I was able to get better conversation 😂🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 08:02 AM |
| 3 | guys quizzing you on datesI had a « date » - was not really a date to me but after my breakup I wanted to see if I was able to talk to man etc So this guy came, not even sure he showered or Idk. And it was quizz time: what’s your 3 most prefered tv shows books etc etc terrible one, was it the CIA investigating ? 😂🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:59 AM |
| 43 | I don't know what to honestly say at this point.I hope you are/will be fine 🙏🏻❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:27 PM |
| 36 | The audacity- calling to talk about other women he meetsDefinitively trying to make you feel jealous. On a side note, might not be easy to do, but guys you are talking to when you are bored are 100% waste of time and energy.. might be a good time to block and delete ? ✌🏻😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 95 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvm« he told me he loves me within the first month » Cherry on top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:45 PM |
| 30 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmSoooo true 🙌🏻 Just a « dumb young girl » that can allow anything because she got no idea of how to set boundaries or can’t even imagine that mean people exist on earth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 24 | "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft has a whole section describing the abuse tactics of softbois (Mr. Sensitive in the book)Read that book I found here (actually almost finished it) thanks to the woman that posted it a week ago on another post. My ex can be classified in almost all categories - Which is disturbing a lot. I’m so glad I managed to throw him out of my life. Since I read the book, I feel like I got lenses on eyes, seeing so many details I wouldn’t had paid attention before. Ladies, read that book ! I’m also sharing some parts with my best friend and my sisters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Is she high maintenance tho?She is not even getting the minimum union.. How sad! Personally I would totally believe in LV bags + handwritten letter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:00 AM |
| 126 | What’s your best FDS quote?« You cannot rely on « men’s potential » » Learnt it the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:41 AM |
| 179 | What’s your best FDS quote?Not exactly a FDS quote: « To the woman called agressive, keep being assertive. To the woman called bossy, keep on leading. To the woman called difficult, keep telling the truth. To the woman called « too much », keep taking up space. To the woman called awkward, keep asking tough questions » | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:36 AM |
| 66 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sOne of the first rule my mom told me outside was: you don’t put your fork in your mouth until the house hostess is doing so (sorry - english is not my native language) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Welcome to FDS!Hi ! Thank you for your work, and for the community. I’ve been finding very useful content here so thanks a lot (books and advises) I would like to get a flair as well 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Ladies: Don't be afraid to LIE. Nobody is entitled to any information about you, EVER.I think that I’m over sharing, I’m just not sure what kind of information I should keep for myself. I love talking to people and I’m just « lying » to protect myself (not telling where I leave exactly, telling that I live with my boyfriend to taxi driver etc) but if you got any advises, feel free to share 😁 Thanks ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:26 PM |
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