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It definitely is a competition (for men anyway) and they can definitely affect their own performance. Its a different thing entirely if she just had simply more chemistry with someone else. But you feel that, if someone is really into you vs just going through the motions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:25 AM
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"Find someone who genuinely desires you" for a lot of men, that pool equals N=0, unless they are willing to do a lot of very expensive plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:18 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:13 AM
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Women worked for the entirety of human history. People had no choice but to group up in the past because it was a matter of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:58 PM
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Biologically speaking, men are the disposable gender. We are meant to be beasts of burden and die in tribal conflict as a direct consequence of securing resources for progeny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:52 PM
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You are brainwashed. Historical societal plights were fought around the class, not gender line. When people talk the way you do, they always mean a certain kind of man, without identifying that the women in that class are essentially the other side of the coin. Until very recently, nobody had rights except for kings and queens. EVEN IF that were the case, what does that help men in their 20s, 30s who had nothing to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:48 PM
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Discussing anything regarding gender relations with women is absolutely pointless because they are way too performative, even in anonymous spaces. Anyone with eyes and the courage to be honest with themselves can tell what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:31 PM
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Poor you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:28 PM
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Why is reducing the gender disparity in different fields desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:24 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:10 PM
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The wall is a red pill cope. It doesnt exist. And especially not at thirty. What does happen is that the marketplace the gap in the market value between the average man and woman somewhat reduces but its still undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:15 PM
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What is wrong with going 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:09 PM
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Sure its hypocritical but why does that matter? Heterosexual relationships are inherently asymmetrical because men and women are wildly different. The burden of performance is on the male. Women can just kind of exist and get things handed to them much more often because they hold a much higher value in the reproductive game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:42 PM
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You are certifiably insane dude. Get yourself admitted ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:56 PM
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Society, in some aspect rightly so, doesnt value male life beyond what value it can generate. Be that economic output or as you put it, being a meatshield in the draft. Women are baby factories, home makers and care takers. Hence sexual objectification of women on one end and the male disposability/beast of burden phenomenon on the other. Just on how biology works, women are vastly more valuable than men. Both men and women have an innate and powerful drive to protect the women of the tribe at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:49 PM
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Agreed. These are working class women seeking out rather extreme working class men. Low inhibition fast life strategists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:37 PM
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Men are generally more athletic, less obese than women. The problem is that the average man is simply not attractive to a woman physically speaking. Once she starts getting to know him this MIGHT change. Women in general have a more unified opinion on what constitutes an attractive man. Mens tastes are more diverse. However, if one is to be reincarnated, its better to be born as a top 1% man than a top 1% woman. But its better to be born as a top 20% woman than a top 20% man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:31 PM
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I can identify with your last paragraph. When I realized this, I just laughed to myself in the sense of "what am I doing? for what? Am I insane?". Only after this realization could I begin my journey of making peace of with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:13 PM
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Its completely different. The different tiers are basically. He hangs out with you casually in private (nobody knows) hangs out with you in public but still on a casual basis Is willing to be in a public relationship but maybe not marriage material Wife material Sex is obviously happening regularly but commitment is gatekept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:38 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:24 PM
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The wall is red pill fiction. It doesnt exist. Female SMV continues to dominate mens SMV well over 30. The only difference is that the gap isnt as large anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:41 AM
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Most men have very little options. Women are generally preoccupied with the men who actually do have options which is the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:39 AM
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Very eloquently put.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:20 AM
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Natural? What about modernity is natural? If for some reason, electricity ceases to exist tomorrow, men are back to back-breaking work and dying in wars and women are back to being barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:06 PM
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Womens bar for what counts as attractive is just higher. And they all have a similar type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:56 PM
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The Wall is a red pill copecel fantasy. It doesnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:15 PM
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"Looks and money can help" - Understatement of the century.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:00 AM
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You made a boogeyman in your head that is exceedingly rare. But to say there isnt a trend in how women behave is wrong. Women tend to cluster around certain types of men, men's tastes for women are much broader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:00 AM
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It's a dead-end for most men, not women. She could go on a date every night of the week if she wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:07 PM
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Interesting. Statistically speaking marriages where the wife makes more are less stable. Would you say that is the general experience in your environment? What is more common?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:46 AM
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I dont judge and down know their story. If they are happy doing it, why not... But the more realistic option I suppose would be something like an english teacher or a social worker. Education is still required and these people are generally intelligent and successful in their own right. But I dont know many very succesful women that would go for men like that unless they have some other outstanding trait (like very physically attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:15 AM
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Its far from immaterial for me, but I dont know that thats a general trend. I am attracted to intelligent, self-actualized women. Usually there is some struggle involved to get there which is only a good thing. Education? Eh. I mean it can correlate with those things but the correlation isn't as strong as one would think. There are some incredibly stupid educated people out there. And this is coming from someone with a master's degree in computer engineering with several published papers. I am j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:09 AM
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Those sam law school graduates are still going to prefer higher status good looking men. I tend to date women with good jobs. I dated a doctor for a while and she literally talked about how male nurses, radiology techs etc.. are invisible to her as men. Men dont really understand the hangup. I chat up a waitress and a data scientist all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:56 AM
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Were you by any chance gunning for the same top 20% looks-wise that every other woman is gunning for? Those guys have tons of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:38 AM
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I am not from the US, as far as your politics is concerned I only care what becomes culturally ubiquitous.. At any rate, helping people lagging behind shouldnt be a political issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:44 PM
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Which feminist institutions prevent men from entering college? They have no power over admissions. Red herring. The argument isnt that feminist organizations are physically stopping boys from applying, its the institutional slant towards feminism has resulted in a systemic imbalance. In the same way no one is banning girls from STEM, yet entire DEI departments exist to attempt to course-correct. Its largely not working because women as a class dont give a crap about STEM given the choice, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:30 PM
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This is pure conjecture on your part and has nothing to do with reality. As someone that fought for this, I can tell you that the issue is the feminist institutions that resist any kind of change because God forbid any resources go towards helping boys. Also, women are vastly more agreeable than men (even according to the Big 5), it's a whole feminist issue that tries to address this through affirmative action policies. Honestly, with how comfortable you are in your ignorance in general I am beg…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:58 PM
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The statistics are actually horrific. A small minority of men and women care. But the backlash from the feminist autocracy when trying to change this is absolutely enormous. This is not good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:47 PM
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What point are you trying to prove lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:45 PM
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You are just stating the obvious here. Men have a wider range of preferences. Female preferences cluster around a very specific set of traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:35 PM
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Aesthetics was a big part of it. And yes, it was athletic, healthy men (not neccesarily muscle bound as we would define it today). One of the reasons for that is that athleticism was directly tied to moral character - hence why people trained naked. The female body was mainly depicted as clothed up to about 4th century BCE.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:30 PM
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Comparing men and women in that sense is useless for the purpose of this discussion. Straight men and straight women live in different realities and abide by different rules. It is much harder for a man to be seen as generally attractive to most women than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:24 PM
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Beauty is not a social construct. At least not entirely. Babies at 4 months old discern between ugly and beautiful faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:20 PM
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This is only because the added fat actually hid the weak bone structure that man has - the fat decreases the facial width-to-height ration which women are pretty sensitive about (men with tall faces are not as attractive). If he had a strong face, he would be more handsome with lower body fat. That and the fact that the hairline was all sorts of fucked up in the low fat picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:18 PM
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I think it disproprotionally affects men because they have less options so the scarcity mindset is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:19 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:05 PM
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I will agree that the passport bro movement are basically whoremongers that go where cheap sex is. but actual geomaxxing, going somewhere where you are more valued, is perfectly fine. Finding someone that is interested in you shouldnt feel like dragging your balls over shards of glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:19 PM
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If a man is in in the top 10–20% in terms of looks, apps work (very) well. If not, you are going to get older, ran through (by the top 10-20%) women with a chip on their shoulder because they chose on physical characteristics that every other woman is also choosing by. Those guys dont actually have to be serious about women. The oofy doofy pays the price. The demographics on these apps are also not in favor of men. Just one article, there is plenty more: https://ssrs.com/insights/the-public-and-…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:09 PM
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you need about 30 males for every 100 females to avoid long term inbreeding. for short term situations you need about 13 males. Interestingly enough, this is about the top percentage of males that women go for without "settling". I am not saying there is a connection, i just find it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:57 PM
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Women reward good genes first and foremost. Being neurodivergent as a male is not a reward because it is dysgenic. Shacking up with someone like that would be a death sentence 10000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:51 PM
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why dont you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:23 PM
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flair checks out i suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:39 PM
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Men should only ever make a move if there are clear indicators of interest from the woman. Cold approaching in 2025 is asking for trouble. Would you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:38 PM
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It is not self-evident to me that the delusion and bitterness is static and not enhanced by mass social media and the social phenomenon downstream from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:26 PM
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Yeah. I do think people have a soft expiration date. Not because of "age" per say but because it correlates with the amount of bad experiences. I find older women (around 40) to be more difficult. A lot more shit test and constantly challenging frame. Great conversations though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:11 PM
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"Height doesn't matter, its a pure coincidence all my exes are 185+cm"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:55 PM
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It doesnt make sense to apply the same logic to men because men and women work differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:28 AM
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These women are upset that Chad isnt into them, not that "men" arent into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:19 PM
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Stands for lay down and rot. Essentially all they do is browsing incel forum, watching pornography, withdrawing from human contact, remaining in be, video gaming, comics, manga and Anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:57 PM
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The black pill is ultimately just the darker shades of truth, especially in case of the scientific black pill. What someone does with that information is on them. Some people go hard on looksmaxxing (including invasive procedures like jaw surgery), others decide to become LDAR-style incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:43 PM
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The man is so high value that women are okay to share him, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:57 PM
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Playing devils advocate. Assuming some level of benevolence, what is wrong with looking for a partner like that? I get enough challenge at work, why would I want it at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:40 PM
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In what ungodly dimension is it justified to have your spouse be SAHM and come home to a microwaved meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:41 AM
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This is happening to a certain extent. I know of at least two examples personally where a woman is willingly a part of a soft harem. There is usually a cope involved, "I can fix him", but the objective reality stands. There is rarely an agreement, more of an implicit acknowledgment and subsequent tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:39 AM
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If I am honest, the "need" debate is a boringly semantic and is most of the time an attempt to minimize other peoples unhappiness for one reason or another. Technically if I throw you in a dark cell and only give you bread, water and sufficient heating, I have fulfilled your biological needs. I think we can both agree that is not acceptable. Psychological needs better outline what the modern person interprets as a "need". If your body is telling you "do this or you will be miserable" it might no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:06 PM
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Nature / evolution is a process not some well-defined entity. Each organism evolved to maximize their objective function, which is by and large, survive long enough to procreate and have your offspring survive. The organisms that actually care about this are more likely to procreate and continue their lineage. Their offspring are more likely to care about this as well, since their parents cared about this. In the end the ones with maladaptive proclivities die off (they arent driven to or cant pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:02 PM
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Of course men and women are more similiar than they are different. But the differences that do exist, it is precisely because men are women are different that we have survived. Males have larger brains, females have greater grey matter density, there is also a considerable difference in certain brain areas such as the amygdala and the hippocampus. Not to mention the implications of the endocrine system differences. The fundamental driver behind many sex-based brain differences stems from the hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:53 PM
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My brother in Christ, its not rocket science. A woman can have sex 20 times total with 20 different men in the span of a year = Grade A hall of fame whore. A woman can have sex 500 times in a year with 1 man = Not a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:37 PM
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You had to have made this up. Men dont operate this way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:33 PM
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What chart would you like to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:30 PM
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Homo Sapiens with wildly different sexual strategies. The male and the female brain are quite different in how they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:27 PM
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Virginity, sure. Low body count women who only have sex in committed relationships? If thats a fantasy we live in a dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:26 PM
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Put in simple terms the Madonna-Whore complex means that the man will only have sex with women he deems a "whore". His libido will be completely shot with women he deems "pure" in some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:24 PM
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Just like a woman wants a Chad that makes all sorts of exceptions for her. Fantasies unavailable to the extreme majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:23 PM
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How do you define a need? This is how the APA defines "psychological need" which is I think most peoples operating definition, at least implicity, when they discuss these matters. https://dictionary.apa.org/psychological-need
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:20 PM
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I care what people did in the past. I find it curious that you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:19 PM
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You are talking about the same thing just in a slightly different way. The guy who is "husband material" loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:15 PM
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Well yes those guys are an outgroup, quite literally an foreign, potentially enemy tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:34 PM
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You have very little experience it seems like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:22 PM
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I am not on instagram so I am not sure what you are refering to. When you say weird or unusual, what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:10 PM
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I think you are wrong. I, and I am far from alone in this, dont find women romantically interesting if they arent interesting people. Interesting careers, hobbies. Drive to survive, to succeed. Someone to have my back and I hers. In my experience it is often women who dont like this approach. Maybe I am just hanging out with the wrong crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:57 AM
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There is a LOT of disinformation in this case. The AfD bit seems unlikely, considering prosecutor Horst Walter Nopens said on Saturday that the investigation was ongoing but suggested the background to the crime "could have been disgruntlement with the way Saudi Arabian refugees are treated in Germany". Unless his views are that they are getting treated too well and should be immediately deported, this doesnt track.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:09 AM
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I think you are putting the cart before the horse. Men choose to withhold from women because women as a group punish men often enough for doing this (they select them out) that the gamble suddenly doesnt make sense. Men adapt to this very quickly and efficiently for the most part. The ones that didnt died out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:08 PM
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Very well written. Hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:33 PM
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Nice, its definitely a look some women go for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:50 PM
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Women are prudent and logical. I suspected for a while but I am now certain this is a parody account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:35 AM
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by Kratos you mean bald with a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:19 AM
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Can you explain your last paragraph? It seems that its already brutally difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:30 PM
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Women are strong and independent because society as a whole forms a protective shield around them. The nanosecond serious shit goes down, the illusion will shatter and men and women will reset to their natural roles. Men dying as fodder and women barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:21 PM
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I would have married and had kids but was out forking so many men and didn't meet the right guy in time. I cant tell if this is a brag or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:15 PM
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Alright, my bad. Yeah nowadays everyone just assumes that extramarital sex happened in previous relationships. If a woman doesnt sleep with a man by date 3, the assumption is lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:03 PM
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What he is laughing at is, that there is a trope where a woman goes through her 20s getting her back blown out by tall handsome men with no honest intentions. Then the woman hits her 30s and suddenly finds God and starts looking for a provider. He will get 1/100th of her enthusiasm and affection for 100 times the cost that those other men had to pay. I am not saying this is you, just giving you extra context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:38 PM
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"Men" are disgusting, but they are not interested in "Men", they are interested in Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:24 PM
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The left has abandoned men in their entirety. They only prescribe how men should behave to cater to women. Men are struggling, and im not even talking about the dating market. Thats just the consequence. The right leaning influencers are popular because it gives the impotent some sort of promise, that if they work themselves to the bone, their lives might matter some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:21 PM
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Apparently nursing homes are WILD. TFW men peak in their 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:15 PM
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The Wall is a red pill cope. What does happen is that some men start to catch up on SMV, but if a woman does the work she can remain in the game until her 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:54 PM
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Please dont compare a very serious procedure like limb-lengthening surgery, which costs a hefty mortgage downpayment, takes about a year of intense physically therapy to recover from and carries serious risk of being a cripple with losing weight. As a gym goer I lose and gain weight on a dime depending on what time of the year it is with serious regimented training and diet. The vast majority of people who are fat nowadays are fat because they shove garbage food down their throats and have very …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:03 PM
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My ex is a doctor. Enough said. Healthcare is like airline workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:21 PM
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I think this is the way. All of the scenarios you described are a recipe to get your ass handed to you one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:06 PM
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You literally described a man so invisible he should be hired by the CIA for the most dangerous missions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:52 PM
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What is your opinion on sugar babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:42 PM
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I read it more as that women as a group may think most men are useless or redundant (atleast in the internet sphere) when in fact men as a group produce and women consume. i hate this line of logic in principle because men and women are different but this is what modern society has become with the tendency towards selective egalitarianism. (Equal in some respects, until it becomes unconvenient).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:51 PM
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These women have the choice to work in a grocery store or wherever, these days jobs a plentiful. The fact that they chose that line of work is simply because they want to earn the money without putting in the work of actually earning that money through other means. Who are you to take that away from these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:44 PM
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Nobody is asking you to have sex with anyone lady, i dont know where on earth you got that from
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:38 PM
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Women who are prostitutes and OF girls by their own volition are "bad people" as well as the Johns that frequent them. But ultimately, women have sold sex for goods and services since the dawn of Man, it seems to me women do exist as outlets. If the price is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:32 PM
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Who makes the guns? Who makes the factory that makes the guns? Who makes the tools that make the factory that makes the guns? Who created and maintains the electrical grid to drive power to those factories? Its juvenile even discussing it but what the heck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:28 PM
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I agree with you on the general principle. There are a lot of so called mentalcels nowadays. If an otherwise attractive guy complains that he doesnt get women to be interested while sitting at home, he is an idiot. I agree with your comment about work. I personally know a guy who got a coworker pregnant, but he wasnt at all serious about her. I dont feel bad for her, because she knew he was a player and she still willingly went with it. I think there is a responsibility of the woman to vet prope…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:20 PM
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It seems like we agree on pretty much everything, i dont get the hostility
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:34 AM
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BMI is a bad metric to measure this, especially with margins this small. Since it only takes into account weight and height and no other body composition variables. Men naturally have more muscle mass and thicker bones on account of 10 times the testosterone levels. So given equal fitness levels, a man would have higher BMI than a woman. Men are also generally taller than women, assuming identical fitness levels, this would exacerbate the difference in BMI. Countries where women exceed the BMIs …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:00 AM
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Everything you have outlined goes doubly so for men. In fact I am not even sure there are these large pressures on women to perform. Men dont select for this to the same degree that women do and in fact, high performing women tend to have a smaller dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:40 AM
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The accountability gap stems from the societal perception that men are supposed to be hyperaccountable agents where they ostensibly have the ability to control every single variable about how they interface with the world, while women are helpless sheep that need to be given all the privileges of a protected class, all the while yelling on the bullhorn about equality/equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:31 AM
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judging by what metric?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:28 AM
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I dont think its advisable for men to ask women out that have not given any indicators of interest. Most men will never receive that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:27 AM
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Companionship is still worth something, if the other person isnt an energy parasite. Women can still bring value, if they are the right fit for you. However, you have to maintain your boundaries and drop relationships (be it with men or women, romantic or not) that do not serve you. Focus on building yourself up. Its the only endeavor that is really worth while. Investing a lot in a relationship when women are as fickle and have as many options as they do is a fools errand. You pay an enormous o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:00 AM
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Birth rates are collapsing all over the world. Its actually pretty scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:51 PM
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Spoken like a true teenage edgelord. I have had absolutely horrific things done to me and I still couldnt think to utter something so trivial and vapid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:45 PM
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Comparing the Ukranian and US military is asinine. US military is basically a megacorporation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:20 AM
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Nonsense retort. I cant agree with Tate that icecream tastes good?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:02 PM
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I am a blackpiller, not an incel. This means that I go to the gym, take dutasteride, got a hair transplant and have a serious skin care routine. It made things better. I know they would be even better if I was taller or if i had a more harmonious face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:49 PM
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Women are attracted to genetic traits the most, not money,status and whatever you red pilllers come up with. A woman will put up with the man that has those traits and she has no better option. Face, Height, race, neurotypicality -> This is what women are truly looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:19 PM
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Men definitely do NOT overestimate the importance of looks. If anything they underestimate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:15 PM
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I can empathize with you. It seems we are very similar in a lot of respects, including the getting cheated on. Speaking as a pretty jaded guy that clocked out of the dating market entirely, I admire your will to keep trying and not check out entirely. Keep that, if you can. But make sure you take care of number 1. On the therapist part, I have found in my past relationships that thats largerly a negative. Your partner is NOT your therapist. Its your (life?) partner. Sure, discuss the issues at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:45 AM
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What does viable mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:25 AM
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Sure. For some of us it just never happens. Or they appear attracted at first but then they go cold, which is even worse. I pretty sure I have developed some sort of PTSD from this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:20 AM
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Its the unholy matrimony of deteriorating values and information technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:18 AM
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It has to do with career choices and the willingness to put in ungodly hours. This makes sense, considering more money increases a man's options and decreases a woman's options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:27 PM
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Women have a demonstrated ingroup bias. Men dont. In fact men have an outgroup bias in favour of women. This makes sense in an evolutionary sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:16 PM
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I am glad you finally figured out something you should have figured out 2 replies in - that you are talking to a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:05 PM
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Yeah lol. "Perfect" my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:16 AM
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In my experience, giving women what they want doesnt help matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:05 AM
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It demonstrates very well the innate sollipsism of women in general. They simply do not have the ability to imagine any other situation than their own. Since its easy for them to get interest from men, they assume everyone else does aswell and in that case, it is reasonable to think that vetting is step one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:24 AM
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Masculinity will go nowhere because women do not like men who are not masculine. If you change the sexual preferences of women, you will change men. It really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:41 AM
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Yeah, that is the most interesting phenomenon to me, on par with concepts like Black Holes and AI Singularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:38 AM
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Financially as well. Marriages where the woman makes significantly more than the man more often lead to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:28 AM
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Bateman's principle. This goes aswell for facial features. Attractive men, especially facially, have a tremendous advantage in the dating market. a 6/10 woman vs a 9/10 woman, the 9/10 woman will have an advantage of course. but a 6/10 vs a 9/10 man live in completely different realities. Competition is much more brutal in the male of the species in virtually every metric because females are picky - they are paying a high opportunity cost for getting knocked up by a subpar male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:24 AM
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Is observing reality misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:21 AM
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No, its not even close. Masculinity is as performative as it is demonstrative. Various acceptance movements have done a good job of pushing the body positivity agenda forward for women but did nothing for men. Which kind of makes sense, since men will go after anything while women salivate over Chad, the other men are there to keep the world running an should shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:13 AM
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37 year old women are not infertile you dimwit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:42 PM
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Whats your stance on immigration?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:20 PM
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Agreed on all points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:47 PM
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Well, false rape accusations are a crime. Lying to get in someone's pants isnt. The equivalent would be a girl leading a dude on while getting showered with gifts and dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:19 PM
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The two beliefs are not mutually exclusive. I agree with you on the vast majority of points and I agree what the course of action should be. Men shouldn't kowtow to a system that sees them as hyperaccountable beasts of burden, cattle. I just think that the reason most men that get to this conclusion faced adversity due to their lot in life. Looks, status and possibly neurodivergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:21 PM
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Modern dating often feels like a relentless struggle, demanding endless effort with little reward. This is borderline inceldom. If a man has this experience he obviously doesnt do it for women. Women make it easy for the men they like. A man like that will never be truly desired or loved by women beyond what he can provide for them. No pick-up artistry for your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:28 AM
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People treating people as commodities. Thats just the meta nowadays I guess. I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:41 AM
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I dont think money plays a huge factor for men. Its not a point of attraction in the same way it is for women, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:35 AM
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It is genetic based - along the male-female dimension.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:32 AM
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A hot girl with money will go after a hot man with even more money. The vast majority of the male population will be miles below her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:31 AM
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Women have always been hypergamous, its what makes the species succeed. It just that there used to exists societal checks and balances put in place to placate low value men and make sure they are aligned with the interests of broader society. Men are broadly speaking expendable and society will praise them as heroes if they self-sacrifice. But they wont self-sacrifice if they have no investment. As women achieve better education and job participation, their status rises. Due to hypergamy, women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:27 AM
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What revenge can a man take that was pushed to celibacy anyway? Women collectively agree that he is genetic refuse, they are glad he is not bothering them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:21 AM
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If you consistently find yourself to be a part of a soft harem, your picker is broken. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:17 AM
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Agreed. Cheating is a character flaw and cheaters would in an ideal world only be in relationships with other cheaters. let them rot together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:48 PM
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I agree with you 100%. It goes both ways. Ideally people would be honest but its up to you and me to figure out if the person on the other end is benevolent or malevolent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:10 PM
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Getting to know someone before letting him in her pants is a womans responsibility (its the mans aswell but usually the issue is vice-versa). If the vetting process is garbage she is not a victim of sexual assault, she is a victim of lack of due diligence. You cant have it both ways, you cant have women be this special protected class and fully empowered participants of society at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:23 AM
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"I know the power of patriarchy. I know what men can do when they are angry." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtPgSnCkcEU
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:53 PM
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You should change your flair bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:37 PM
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Just because you dont like it doesnt make it any less true. You need to carve your own path in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:22 AM
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Yes. Men look down on men who are in relationships with a confirmed town bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:11 AM
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i volunteer, working with young boys (12-18). We talk about this stuff a lot. I dont know how effective it is but I am trying. The society at large just doesnt seem to care that much, outside of certain charity groups. EDIT: I ask pity of no one. I dont think my post reflects it. People arent geared to feel pity towards men in that way so it makes 0 sense to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:56 PM
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This definitely goes more for women than men. Most women can "pull" men from a wide range of "leagues" (it would be more accurate to say that they get pulled but i digress). The true measure of a woman is the kind of man she can actually keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:53 PM
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Men dont care about mens mental health. Women dont care about mens mental health. We are disposable. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:51 PM
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Its over for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:09 PM
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most conservatives are conservative in a social sense but liberal in an economic sense. vice versa for liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:01 PM
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As a man, I have only ever received help from other men if I dont count family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:44 AM
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Yeah I think you need to be ready for it and actively fight off the relationship "entropy" that corrodes the chemistry. It takes work and it's rare but the people who have experienced it will say that it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:39 AM
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Right, he has the privilege to dump his time and resources on while the other guy gets to get his willy wet and split. Woe is me, i feel so sorry for the second guy,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:29 AM
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Your entire point is "my grandma had it bad so i cant have it gooder because my grandpa had it better". Even for reddit that's a low IQ take. And you have the audacity to insult my reading comprehension when you say things like "15 thousand years of gender equality". I would explain my point but you wouldnt understand it. Hahahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:32 PM
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You guys were in a situationship because you were punching above your weight class. Men don't put women they are serious about in situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:08 PM
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Here are more recent studies. Important to note that this is self-reported. https://www.shadowinvestigationsltd.ca/who-cheats-more-men-or-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:07 PM
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A man decisively ending a relationship is a pretty stormy indicator he has a replacement lined up. That's monkey-branching and it's something more typical for women rather than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:05 PM
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Its fine that it's hilarious to you but you havent actually given any points to discuss other than a bad sense of humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:03 PM
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Looks? He has muscles and he is tall but facially he's a sub-five. He has other things going for him that women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:52 AM
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Women-are-wonderful effect. A classic. Women show a much higher in-group bias than men do. I used to think that men and women love differently, but when a man truly loves... I don't think a woman can ever come close to that. In fact, she will use it and abuse it to the bitter end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:45 AM
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I don't find it sexist because I struggle to understand sexism as a thing men can experience. Keep on struggling bud, you are gonna make it some day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:22 AM
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It's better for boys to learn this sooner rather than later. The world rejects emotional men. Doesn't matter if they are the angry kind or the soft kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:17 AM
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Yes they are. Virtually every race of woman prefers White men. ESPECIALLY european women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:37 AM
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Face uber alles. An athletic build that women prefer is not outrageously hard to build. Gymcels without height and face just become ogres.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:49 AM
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Some by continuing the human race, others by conspicuous consumption and hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:40 AM
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The scenario you gave him is completely different to what we are discussing here. In the office, women are my competitors, subordinates or colleagues and the female/male dynamic takes a back seat. Women are fickle creatures. In general, because women have more options, women must be MORE interested in the man than vice versa. A competent man will, if the physical attraction is there, know how to entice interest. Because if she is chasing you, she is not leaving you. A man being a mystery is exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:48 PM
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Having women be uncertain about your emotions will make them go crazy. And you can do anything to women - just don't bore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:42 PM
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Yeah. The two just aren't comparable. Sex without a deep connection is just masturbation and masturbation is kind of a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:09 AM
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Now you are getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:07 PM
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Most men love their kids and are happy to support them. Women giving children to deadbeats is not my concern, it is theirs and the governments when they inevitably get on the public dole. This whole discussion is more of a class than a gender issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:15 AM
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It is important to note, that as societies become more egalitarian and arguably more merit-based, the differences between the sexes widen. This is counter to a lot of people's intuition - the so-called "Gender Equality Paradox". I think males are more driven to compete in most species - including humans - because women tend to pick the winners in the dominance/competence hierarchy. Men don't pair up with women using the same logic, although characteristics such as class and intelligence are stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:03 AM
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I wish it was that simple, I really do. Life sometimes teaches us this the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:30 PM
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The situation you are describing is complex because continued support of the child is mandated by law even in cases of proven paternity fraud. Those factors aside, I think a man can be empathetic to the child's situation and wish no ill will upon it without having to continually invest resources. The person the child can blame here once it grows up is the mother and only the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:55 PM
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To understand the male mindset you need to understand paternal uncertainty vis-a-vis investment. If a male invests in a woman he will want to be as certain as possible if it is his child that he is going to raise. If it's a one-night stand the investment is nil and so the minimum acceptable standard regarding the woman's sexual behavior drops accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:47 PM
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While I agree with you, I also agree with her that this is hardly the issue being discussed here. It's a fundamentalist practice that has a strong male and female approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:41 PM
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The vast majority of men would not be ashamed if they got a daughter. And the "daughter is hot" thing.. it depends if it is sexual or not. I would wish my kids were attractive, boy or girl. Because I want them to have every possible advantage. If it's sexual, that is just fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:32 PM
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Making sure your resources are going towards your offspring and not some random dudes creampie is just good sense considering the gargantuan opportunity cost the man pays when investing in a child that is not his. I don't see how this pertains to the discussion of women treating boys with disdain. I'm not even stating that is a general fact and has not been my experience. Although I'm sure instances of this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:26 PM
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Of course :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:17 PM
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I am chill, I'm just curious on why you think marriage is important to "Emilies" in the year 2024. I am looking to learn something from this discussion. To better understand if I am ever in this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:13 PM
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Pedestalizing women is a learned behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:42 PM
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Because you are pedestalizing women and build up this whole fantasy about who she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:01 PM
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Why is marriage neccessary? Why do we need to drag the state into this in the year 2024? With the way men and women are these days, I dont trust anyone to go through thick and thin with me in an "until death do us part" way, much less a woman with plenty of options at virtually any age if she takes care of herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:43 PM
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Men are very much interested in which kid is theirs. This is ultimately why it would never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:44 PM
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Polyandry doesnt make biological sense at a large scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:16 PM
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It is not wise to speak in absolutes. But as the male SMV decreases, opportunities for any casual sex drastically reduces until they are very quickly next to impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:15 PM
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Yes, disproportionately so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:48 PM
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I have no words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:47 PM
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That is not consistent with their biology, neither with their lived real life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:20 PM
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Women can get sex with "alpha" men, but they can not secure his commitment if she is of low SMV (if at all). So they will downgrade to a man that will commit in exchange for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:11 PM
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Males are polygynous, females are hypergamous. The male sexual strategy, on a fundamental level, is to have as much offspring with as many women as possible. So I suppose you are right in that sense. If he put a baby in her and she is not getting the resources from him to secure the prosperity of the child, she was in a sense exploited. The female alternative to the "exploiting" you are talking about is perhaps baby-trapping or a similar strategy. Of course, we live in modernity, and protection …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:02 PM
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It's exploitative only if the man is actively lying to get his way. If she just gives it up like that nobody is getting exploited, although she is getting the shit end of the stick ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:50 PM
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Relationships between men and women are transactional. In fact, most relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:49 PM
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Women have a very narrow perception of what is considered attractive. This is why the top 20% of guys are literally besieged while the rest get what is left in the dating market. A woman of comparable SMV to me will have no problems getting attention from guys. I had to put in the time in the gym, developing a style, learning how to dance, deal with hairloss in a very proactive way, develop an excellent career... Women straight up tell me I'm attractive now, but the effort it took to get to this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:48 PM
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I mean, this is a debate sub for a decently "taboo" topic. People aren't straightforward about these themes in real life. I care about a woman's past just as much if not more as she cares about my future. Because the stakes are high and I'm not investing or committing to someone that entertained multiple men in a short amount of time. If a girl does one night stands / casual sex that's fine. But it signals low value and I move on in a very polite manner, citing compatibility issues, so she is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:41 PM
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How do you approach the body count question? You can't tackle it directly. From my experience, if she mentions she likes to party/travel and has clearly promiscuous friends, it's a good indication she's ran through and should be put in the "plaything" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:28 PM
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This needs to be stickied somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:18 PM
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Women divorce at higher rates because they are women and not because men suck. Lesbian couples have higher rates compared to gay couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:19 PM
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Low IQ, high time preference take. Talk to me when your "whore" actually does cheat on you and eventually divorce you because you don't excite her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:17 PM
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