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Which subreddit was this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:41 AM
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"I feel like we're going to be having a lot more fun with mind games" Holy shit what a pathetic excuse for a human. Admitting to being an abuser and getting upvotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:36 AM
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Reads books on stoicism Isn't stoic enough to wake up and help his wife HMMMMM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:33 AM
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Holy shit her voice was fake this entire time? i KNEW it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:29 AM
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What is up with this "if a woman cheats it's serious, if a man cheats its just lust" backwoods ass backwards taliban bullshit. I'm so sick of hearing this shit everywhere lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:26 AM
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There are so many "studies" out there directly being funded by the porn industry lol. That's why I recommend looking at current and prior affiliations of the researchers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:24 AM
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Hey guys traumatizing people is ok now because we're doing it ethically :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:20 AM
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Why is anyone giving Bill Cosby a platform to speak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:16 AM
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Recent studies have shown that the chemical bond developed when watching porn equates to the chemical bond developed when consuming meth or heroin. And that's why it's impossible to rationally discuss any of this with someone who regularly consumes porn. You're speaking to an addict, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:11 AM
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Aren't these hotlines recorded? Why aren't there more measures in place to track down and lock up the people that do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:09 AM
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There is a huge problem with how our culture normalizes developing bad traits in your early 20s. So he's a narcissist & spends the first real decade of his life worshipping icons who encourage him to objectify women & build up a harem ... how on earth will he learn to have non-toxic relationships if he's spent the defining years of his life actively avoiding being a decent person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:06 AM
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The women you abused or helped other men abuse are also IN BAD SHAPE ROOSH How is he not in jail yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:00 AM
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This. I'll never understand casual sex or casual relationships. The entitlement & carelessness creeps me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:56 PM
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Making an OLD profile is one thing. Just make sure that the photos you choose are clear and representative of your interests. Choosing HV is a separate part of the process which involves sticking to your standards, knowing your dealbreakers, knowing your red flags, and most importantly - knowing how to sus out the ones trying to break your boundaries. That's what this subreddit is about. Stuff like this is what you keep to yourself so they don't actively try to play to your preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:11 AM
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You need to be OK with providing and prepared to provide a safe, comfortable environment to raise your child in without the help of anyone else. And honestly thats less of a headache than anything else you suggested. Once you have a child, they will become the centre of your life. Ultimately I don't think that raising a young child and dating are compatible. Your child should have healthy male role models, but that doesn't mean bringing in some half-baked parenting arrangement with a guy that's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:02 AM
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Can we add "takes care of his body" to the list - doesn't binge on random crap, doesn't have a beer belly, doesn't purge, isn't anorexic, exercises, makes healthy lifestyle choices. Also, guys have a much easier time putting on muscle mass so having some muscle definition/mass should basically be the norm if you're eating right and working out a bit each week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:47 AM
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Attractive people are used to having a bunch of options so they realize that it's pointless to make your entire personality around something that is fairly straightforward to find. Gross ppl act like they're on a vendetta to prove they can have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:38 AM
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(un)related fun fact: Seattle has the highest number of serial killers per capita within a 200 mile radius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:29 AM
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"oh my partner makes me feel super safe while performing [insert creepy asf kink here]" Nah girl. that boy is manipulating you and you're pretending his validation = safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:26 AM
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It's as if the geeky bullied kids in high school thought that this is what the cool kids did, so then they began to overcompensate as they got older. I stg the people with the highest body counts are mostly try-hard geeky/plain looking dudes. Super hot people are used to being really picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:08 AM
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Can someone summarize what Rolling Tomato has to say in his books & can we have it added to the wiki under red flags? He makes the connection between TRP, "rationality", and "stoicism", so if you ever meet dudes who make being super "rational" or false stoicism their personality, this may be what they're referring to. Would be great to compile a breakdown of the arguments presented there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:54 AM
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It could be that the two of you have a decent friendship and she values and respects y - HAHAHA ok ok i'll stop... It's because she senses she can control you and therefore her precious baby boy (oldest, most likely) will never slip from the iron clad control she has over his life. She's also aware that her precious little prince will have someone to control rather than - *gasp* - compromise with. My bullshit alarm goes off when I hear this weird entitled/commanding "oh you WILL" phrase. She's l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:44 AM
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I think it's the frequency & intensity (? idk how to phrase it - basically the novelty of content) that contributes. So if you're watching 1+ times a day for the past 5-10 years, regularly going down a steady rabbit holes of weirdness in search of novelty - then that's going to be a big problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:27 AM
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I thought life would be over at 25 when I was 18. That was further compounded by the fact that I stumbled across incel forums which traumatized me. Now that i'm 25, I look better than I did at 18. I live better than I was living at 18. I'm more confident, less naive, and have more money to pick and choose life experiences. Glad to see this sub fighting against the toxicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:15 AM
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Somewhat - like a blend of traditional matchmaking services, counsellor/psychologist/therapy expertise, with the efficiency and accessibility of online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:08 AM
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Narrator: And here we observe another melodramatic scrote with main character syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:44 AM
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THIS. There are so many guys who use the "I was just learning and growing as a person" excuse so they can fuck around in their early 20s. This is NOT ok. Learning and growing as a person doesn't give anyone the permission to blind themselves to the suffering they inflict on others. And honestly, how can you expect someone to be so callous and straight-up awful and then turn around and "settle down" as a stable, wholesome partner? Men who develop these abusive, toxic mentalities in their early 20…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:40 AM
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maybe he was just kinda subby? lol Still super toxic tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:37 AM
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Y'know what would make for a better dating app? Here's my pitch lol: Let's say the person is signing up and making their profile, right. So they have a consultation with a counsellor who verifies their profile. That's right. They verify every single thing so you don't have to. Also they approve the profile to make sure it's not half-assed. Make it a platform which caters to finding stable, healthy, wholesome long term relationships. I'd pay good $$$$ to let someone else filter out the toxicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:25 AM
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Exactly. Commenters make a really good point in another thread - prostitution is the same as purchasing and selling human organs. Selling organs is illegal because the government knows that only the most desperate would consider it. So why is it legal to purchase a womans organs over and over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:49 PM
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What? God that's awful. Ever since prostitution was legalized, countless studies have shown that trafficking etc. has only increased. Even if, let's assume, in some utopian world there was no trafficking - it's still the direct purchase and sale of human (female) organs. And they normalize this depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:48 PM
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The state of the legalization of the purchase and sale of sex work is so depressing especially in Europe. The human rights watch regularly fights for the complete legalization of the purchase and sale of prostitution - their main argument is that "the government shouldn't intervene into what two consenting adults agree to do". In many European countries, including Germany, UK, and others - the purchase of sex work, operation of brothels - is completely legal. Meanwhile in Germany in 2021, the ci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:45 PM
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"sex work is empowering" Empowering why? For who? Men get leverage over the dating pool by accessing women as objects. Edit: what I mean by this is now with the "sex acceptance" movement, men will put women in the position of having to accept the fact that these same men either accessed women as objects, or continue to access them (while in the dating scene). >90% of sex workers are women, so sex workers are seen as a leveraged position for scrotes to access what they think they're entitled to -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:02 AM
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It's this capitalistic psychological outlook where you attempt to self-maximize without restriction. It's consumerism at its worst. They treat women like stock options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:18 AM
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sidenote/rant: I am so sick of labelling traits as "masculine" and "feminine". Feeling anger isn't "masculine". Showing empathy isn't "feminine". Jordan Peterson may be a psychologist, but he's also a raging ass-backwards mysoginist - those two aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:14 AM
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I once dated a guy who claimed to not know what a "redpill" was, yet recited their ideology like it was engraved onto the back of his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:56 PM
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"There’s no need to get all butt hurt at me.", "but I’m trying to give you a peek behind the curtain to know what’s going on.", etc. <-- control your raging condescension boner. "quit getting mad at me" <-- ok buddy pal you're the one who sounds like he wants to speak to my manager. "That’s why I’m dating a 25 year old at 42." <-- cringe. But your attitude makes it clear that you get off on being condescending and patronizing people or pretending to be their wise mentor. "Over and over you guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:23 AM
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People want a good experience, factors for a good experience are reliant on the context
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:06 AM
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"So if he won’t commit, cold hard against the mainstream opinion, it’s you." <-- that's too much of a generalization for it to be true Also it has absolutely nothing to do with my previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:05 AM
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What statistics are you referring to - that married couples have more sex? Go look it up, it's basically public knowledge. "It sounds rude and crass, but that’s how most guys look at it now." <-- No, it isn't. Idk what kind of people you associate yourself with, but that mindset is incredibly childish. And just because that childish behaviour exists for certain people, it is not the womans obligation to lower her standards as a result. Women are completely entitled to holding everyone to a stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:03 AM
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"but I do not condemn those who do act this way because I understand their pain." <-- There is a difference between empathy and excusing of behaviour. You can have empathy for people, but you can also hold them accountable. That is what most of society does. Blaming your lack of accountability on empathy is a narcissistic personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:54 AM
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Taking a simple glance at your commentary puts the picture together - what you say carries underlying implications about how you view the world. Furthermore, if you unstuck your head out of your asshole you'd browse further down the comment section where many women report that they did, in fact, date both attractive and unattractive men. I'm not paying you jack shit m8, you're not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:52 AM
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The original post was implying that it wasn't just the subset of women with whom men were honest with - it also includes the men that led women on. And so in that case, women are entitled to a reaction, which is often what you see from these posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:04 AM
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"There are men and women out there who will never be loved by anyone. That’s just a fact of life." <-- you're externalizing acceptance and self-esteem which is a fundamentally flawed way of perceiving healthy sense of self. There will be men and women who never enter into a relationship, yet they still find fulfillment, self-love, and self-acceptance. "men have an innate desire to sleep with women that is very powerful and natural" <-- do you cook your meat before you eat it? As mammals, we have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:01 AM
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"I would be a fool to believe your “he has to be empathetic romantic” stuff." <-- i'm the one that actually dates, not you. You seem to have an awful lot of pessimistic misconceptions about how people meet and who they choose. I'd recommend learning how to build friendships before you embark on trying to build a romantic connection. "women wouldn’t be routinely going for the most « un empathetic » good looking men they can find" <-- you seem delusional. Look at couples on the street, their appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:54 AM
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You read four posts on a forum that's dedicated to selecting out the subset of women who want to share something bad that's happened to them. You're not going to see some chick who's currently in a relationship making these posts lmao. What do you expect? "Why get in an LTR or get married when that typically leads to less sex." <-- People in long term relationships have more sex, and if your perspective is that a relationship is simply a vehicle for sex, then your understanding of behaviour is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:39 PM
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Stop pretending like you deserve to get laid and then getting pissy when you don't. Stop victimizing yourself. That's the only way you're ever going to get any respect from anyone around you. Realize that there exists a lot more from this world than a simple, meaningless exchange of bodily fluids. Realize that you've most likely been brainwashed by a society that profits by encouraging the lowest common denominator of behaviour. Reclaim yourself. So what if you don't have sex? Does your dick fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:31 PM
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Then why are you on reddit, go forth and fuck your dick off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:28 PM
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Idk where you're getting the idea that women don't like sex from. I don't like sex that is sub par. I also don't like sex with someone who perceives sex as a set of experiences to add to his bucket list - and women are seen as the obstacle to that. What I said was I don't like the cultural norms and behaviours which pretend that these types of attitudes around sex - especially from men - will lead to remotely satisfactory experiences. It's like wondering why I wouldn't want to drive a car with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:27 PM
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meh... i wasn't the one watching a monster truck tiddy goth get dehumanized by 15 pp's 20 minutes ago in general i think women's empathy is higher wait till we re-gender some of y'alls psychotic hentais and start banging our submissive trophy husbands, i think that'll balance it out lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:19 PM
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"If I were a woman, I’d really exclusively be looking for a decent looking man who has a secure attachment style, is self sufficient and has good character." That's literally what high value means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:17 PM
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People have a right to feel angry and upset when someone leads them on, lies to them, and manipulates them in order to parasite off of them - hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:16 PM
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Women care a lot less about looks when the entire context isn't based on looks. Ofc people want a hot partner to hook up with - what are you going to do, show her your magic the gathering cards till she cums? It's like going to a car wash without bringing your car.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:15 PM
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What is up with every guy some guys thirsting so much about fucking around as much as possible? I get it, we all have high sex drives. But i'm not fucking around even if I could, because I see how incredibly stupid the whole ordeal is. Yes you read that right. It's an ordeal. What I don't understand is the complete lack of empathy and deep denial about the toxicity that ensues in the pursuit of such "conquests". Then, the whole lot of "unattractive" dudes are whining that they don't get access t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:12 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with setting your pp free? Jesus that is some batshit levels of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:56 PM
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It's an idiotic thing to want to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:55 PM
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I think you're focused on looks too much. Looks probably matter ~20% in the relationship overall. And with each year that passes, that diminishes by ~1-3%. Attractiveness is a bunch of different things combined into one person - their empathy, strength (emotional), resilience, interests, goals, hobbies, and mindset. Their ability to act confidently yet compassionately is so important. Having a happy go lucky, positive-yet-realistic, hard working outlook on life is one of the main things I look f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:51 PM
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narrator: and here we see a classic case of self-victimization in order to justify emotionally abusive behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:42 PM
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Yeahh good point. I've read so many forum posts detailing step by step processes on how to essentially emotionally manipulate women into bonding with you - you think chads are the ones reading that shit? They don't even know how to read
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:41 PM
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I hope that you're being crystal clear with the woman you match with that you're "here to fuck" and "not looking for a serious thing because frankly it's a waste of time" I really hope you're not the psychologically sulky type who enjoys trying to get women to chase after something they can't have after being purposefully vague and egging them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:38 PM
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Some hot guys troll for sex, some hot guys don't. Some ugly guys troll for sex, some ugly guys don't. Ultimately it comes down to the mindset. Attributing having sex to attractiveness is the basic reasoning of narcissists, so it would be best to avoid ugly and hot dudes that think and act in this way. OP, the fact that you correlate attractiveness with increased 'socially deviant' mindesets (note: not behaviours) is problematic for a few reasons: You're stereotyping attractive men as to imply th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:35 PM
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I don't think passive-aggression is exclusive to relationships with social class differences. If that's what you're trying to avoid, then there are a vast variety of other factors which could make the in-laws react just as harshly. My hypothesis is that passive-aggression will be persistent in many different dynamics. While ultimately it would be great to not have to deal with it altogether, it may be best to simply know what to expect from a partner when something like that happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:19 AM
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It doesn't seem like the guy you were dating was a HVM, he should've stood up for you. He sounds like a pushover. Many parents have weird dating standards for their kids which often ends up in nagging or discouragement - the men who are high value know how to stand up for what they want. Also I have to disagree - I wouldn't automatically consider it a red flag if your 'social standing' is different (what does social standing even really mean lol) - this depends on how you met, when you met, how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:56 AM
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If the parents treat her poorly and he's a HVM then he will be able to step in, stand up for her, and shut the parents down. If he's a pushover, then good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:51 AM
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... so women are visual creatures. I'm so sick of this "visual/not visual" bs. Women literally nurtured the entire design, beauty, fashion industries. Meanwhile men wear the same navy blue shirt and have the audacity to call themselves visually stimulated. Nah bro you just want an excuse to keep being a coomer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:49 AM
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Science shows that in populations where sex is roughly equally distributed, pairings will be monogamous. Do scrotes cook their meat before they eat it? That goes against "biology" - no other mammal on earth does this except humans. Whey they use the "biological" argument they are denying their own sentience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:51 AM
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Ugh one of my friends recently began dating a 50 year old man. She's 24. God I was shocked when I heard, idk what to tell her - it seems like he's brainwashing her. Meanwhile she's this GORGEOUS 24 year old ... fml
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:38 AM
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human rights lawyer and can't even argue for her own, smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:36 AM
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He knows exactly what he's doing - he's a narcissist who feeds off your reaction. He feeds off turning you on because it gives him a massive ego boost, and then an even greater ego boost when he gets to turn you down/make you wait/dance in circles. He's selfish, incredibly toxic, and egotistical - even though he may seem like a "nice" guy. I'm telling you right now - run, never look back. Do not wait, it will only get worse with time. The intoxication is by design.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:44 AM
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Thank you for your insightful response, the warning signs list is great to keep in mind (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling). In his book, Bancroft details another indicator as the culture/environment/morals in which they're raised. If their male friends and mentors mistreat women or their partners, or even if the music he listens to mistreats women, then it's likely he's internalizing an abusive thought process which will be nearly impossible to change. Sons who were raised wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:41 AM
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That's the classic cycle of abuse. Keep in mind this is often a subconscious process and 99% of men like this do not change: Man starts pedestal-building stage: places woman on a pedestal in the early stages to establish attachment. Man starts pedestal-breaking stage: Man degrades her from pedestal, pointing out minor flaws. Man creates fluctuating dynamics to drive woman to disappointment, depression, burnout, apathy, and ultimately anger. Man starts excuse-building stage: Man notes women's ang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:08 AM
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for sex for brownie points with the homeboys for acting like a complete tool behind her back for the massive ego boost of having someone waste their time on you for the massive ego boost of feeling catered to emotional manipulators and abusers do this because of the immense benefits which they will always try to keep as secret from you as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:19 PM
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Exactly. Cheating is a symptom of decaying self-esteem. EDIT: decaying self-esteem coupled with entitlement, self-victimization, selfishness, and a fundamental disrespect for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:23 AM
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Same here. I tried dating a "nice, introverted, nerdy guy" who wasn't conventionally attractive. Apparently it blew his self esteem so far out the water that it lifted the underbelly of shit that came with it. Y'all ... one compliment later and this mf started wondering who else he could pull 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:17 AM
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On that note, redditors consistently commenting things like "not my proudest fap" or "links for research purposes" on the worst shit is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:27 AM
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"I'd say heavy porn use and/or a specific niche he gets hard for." This stood out to me because men will excuse racial preference saying that they find certain facial features from a certain race more common. What they don't say is that they've developed a racial fetish from the age of 10 and can't imagine any other collection of facial features & body types being objectified. I think if anything it's important to find out if he has some racial preference & the rest can be deduced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:25 AM
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... they literally have redpill and alpha as their tags. These guys are the lowest of the low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:40 PM
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Accept that life is like the changing seasons. The seasons come and go, and as winter turns to spring so will the winter in your life come to an end. Don't let these times trouble you and see it as an opportunity to rest and find strength within yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:37 PM
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if this woman can stand up for herself in China, so can you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:58 AM
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There are so many disgusting incels brigading in the comments. That tyt commentary deserves to be downvoted to the 9th circle of hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:54 AM
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